Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?

thetruthishere_ · 2022-12-31T00:36:29+00:00

Wait, what about all the 22 year olds you're supposed to slay with that money because you became a Chad at 30 aging like fine wine with wealth and status?

Radiant_Specific6542 · 2022-12-31T01:19:15+00:00

I'd rather start a family with a fat chick. Lol. I'm not raising someone elses kids. Plus, I can make a healthy variant of almost any meal. She'll drop a few lbs dating me without even realizing it 🤣

KingWhoCared86 · 2022-12-30T22:30:52+00:00

Single forever it is. Silly cousin wanted me to date her single mom friend.

Gari_305 · 2022-12-30T22:52:54+00:00

You forgot the fourth option PassportBro

KirthWGersen · 2022-12-30T22:36:48+00:00

If you think those are your only choices, you face an easy decision.

If you think those are not your only choices, you face an even easier decision.

livinginlyon · 2022-12-31T01:21:14+00:00

My ex had two kids. I have three. We lost our virginity together in Highschool and then 12 years later we got back together.

I remember right now the first time her son told me he loves me. Right as he was running upstairs he said it to his mom and then me. My eyes watered and I said it back and smiled for days. It was the most miserable thing I've experienced leaving that kid. And I've been through a surreal amount of shit.

I still miss him every day. I don't think I could do that again.

Glass_Bucket · 2022-12-30T23:02:26+00:00

So the redpill claim that “men age like wine” and the belief that young 20 year old women will throw themselves at a +30 year old man because he has money, status and resources is a lie?

TimothyDextersGhost · 2022-12-31T06:01:54+00:00

Never date a woman with kids, you will always be number 2. Its not worth it, date the fat woman who will love you

errrright · 2022-12-30T23:21:06+00:00

Wait but what about all the hot 20 year olds you were promised??

iwasneverherehaha · 2022-12-30T23:05:57+00:00

I'd take the fat girl and encourage her to lose weight.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2022-12-31T02:19:22+00:00

Single forever is a pretty nice option.

Physical-Pie748 · 2022-12-30T23:14:04+00:00

i choose single forever with some escorts and a ps4 and a big fat house

Unable_Deal_5254 · 2022-12-31T08:52:26+00:00

And yeah it's hard for us women too

To choose between short boy or dysfunctional boy

RGL137 · 2022-12-30T23:33:35+00:00

Anyone of any age group wanting to not date a fatty is already limiting themselves to about 20% of the female population. Then over 30 a lot of the skinny ones are crazy bitches too. Good luck. Probably about 2-5% of women in this age group are decent looking and not retarded.

abaxeron · 2022-12-31T14:40:00+00:00

Start a family with your dorm bro for tax benefits, spend them on sex dolls, and high-five each other while ramming their spinning robot pussies.

Key-Solution-3119 · 2023-01-09T03:01:50+00:00

Both are bad.... Stay single.

Fat= gross Single mom= leftover women, poor decision making, good nonprofit marketing content to get donors....play off sympathy/pity. Good content for mental health clinic

Everything else= useless basketcase

paidshill29 · 2022-12-30T22:30:08+00:00

27 here, my plan is to marry my non-Western gf.

InfamousBake1859 · 2022-12-30T23:10:15+00:00

If those are your only choices,… perhaps you are fat guy who happens to be over 30?

LupeDyCazari · 2022-12-31T02:18:08+00:00

Maybe move out of your obesity-stricken state and find yourself a city, a state, a nation, where there's plenty of women who aren't overweight?

There's literally millions and millions of those women in the western nations.

TheRealGgsjags · 2022-12-30T22:25:42+00:00

I'd rather go lot lizard hunting trying to get that shiny STD brother.

2022-12-31T15:30:04+00:00

Being slightly over weight but young made dating considerably harder than being slimmer, in my 30s with a child.

Being fat is the biggest hindrance to dating.

mcove97 · 2022-12-30T22:54:44+00:00

How about marry a skinny childfree woman? (That's gonna be me in a few years if I'm still single. Yes we exist).

Or a skinny career woman who's waiting to have children?

Like whoever thinks they only have two options with women over 30 has a severely damaged intelligence processor.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-30T22:25:02+00:00

Is this spinning plates?

CaptainObvious4000 · 2022-12-31T02:09:05+00:00

Single for life. Not working out 5 times a week and watching my macros to end up with a chunker.

Also not raising some scumbag’s hell spawn. No bueno.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-12-30T22:47:38+00:00

“Women are so superficialllll 😭😭😭”

drew8311 · 2022-12-30T22:40:49+00:00

Go with the step dad, based on the other option I think this implies she is not fat and there is a potential bonus her ex is supplementing her income a bit because of the kids.

hypotenoos · 2022-12-30T23:14:08+00:00

Got divorced at 34, remarried a single, slender 35 year old shortly after turning 40. I have 2 kids though.

I found dating in my mid-30’s far more satisfying than my high school and college years.

shakeandbake8 · 2022-12-30T23:36:17+00:00

Get your passport, bro

5_7pickup · 2022-12-31T00:32:33+00:00

If those are your only options then it really reflects more on you than anything else.

Unable_Deal_5254 · 2022-12-31T08:51:01+00:00

This sub is not debate anymore its incel sub

2022-12-30T22:20:55+00:00

Rub one out. No sympathy for fatties and single moms.

SolidPuzzleheaded984 · 2022-12-30T22:58:04+00:00

These are the most realistic options.

Red pill loves to sell the idea that young hot women suddenly will be interested in you when you turn 30.

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FutureBannedAccount2 · 2022-12-30T23:45:32+00:00

How hot is the single mom and how annoying is the kid

shonenhikada · 2022-12-31T00:07:52+00:00

4th option, seeking arrangement/sugar babies or escorts.

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-12-31T07:34:28+00:00

There is another way!

You can marry a fat post wall single mom.

One-Passenger-2953 · 2022-12-31T10:42:18+00:00

Such a stupid question, find a woman you like and respect as a human being. A person you enjoy spending time with. If that woman happens to be over weight or being a parent is not really what matters. But I assume that OP only wants to provoke, are young and inexperienced or maybe just happens to view women as things.

Substantial_Video560 · 2022-12-31T12:53:50+00:00

There's also a fifth option. The advancing technologies of A.I. i.e. sex robots and VR. As a transhumanist and futurist I hope I live long enougth to experience both.

2022-12-31T15:25:04+00:00

'men peak in their mid thirties'.

2023-01-12T06:47:35+00:00

My mom really told me to date a pregnant women with a other kid because she has a good career....mom I'm childless and have a career. Why do you think I don't deserve a woman without kids?

FadedTony · 2022-12-30T23:18:28+00:00

Bro y'all stay trying to dunk on women in this sub wtf, seek help instead of avoiding responsibility for your lives and you will be happy. Notice I'm not saying MORE happy bc a happy person would NOT post this.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-12-30T22:25:53+00:00

Single men over thirty aren't rich pickings themselves.

xatnnylf · 2022-12-31T00:34:21+00:00

If you spent your 20s right and are successful in your 30s, you will have more and better options than in your 20s. This sounds like cope from broke 30 year old men and bitter 30 year old women.

suj1290 · 2022-12-31T00:29:18+00:00

Step dad is the ultimate beta move and she not giving you kids of your own is ultimate beta bucks

TATA456alawaife · 2022-12-31T01:20:30+00:00

Single forever remains the best choice

ThisBoringLife · 2022-12-31T01:25:05+00:00

I don't mind fat girls.

Just hate when fat girls have a complex about their weight...which is entirely in their hands.

Skatejay · 2022-12-31T06:15:45+00:00

I’m about to be 30 and I have no kids and probably aren’t getting fat. I know a lot my friends with the same mindset. Y’all gotta go touch some grass I swear

Kookerpea · 2022-12-30T22:25:23+00:00

How fat are we talkin here? TLC level or just somewhat overweight?

Cult_of_Chad · 2022-12-30T22:32:54+00:00

Everyone single after 30 is leftover garbage, no exceptions. My advice? Just pick someone that you enjoy spending time with. We're social monkeys, we're not meant to be along for so long.

Elegant-Surprise-417 · 2022-12-30T22:52:16+00:00

Dude, just go for a walk in that field to the right and mull it over for a bit

purplish_possum · 2022-12-30T23:54:28+00:00

Worlds easiest choice.

Bring on the fatties!

SwagYoloJesus · 2022-12-31T01:14:58+00:00

or… keep looking until you find someone without kids to whom you’re actually attracted? being single beats being in a shitty relationship any day, where all you’ll feel is regret and resentment.

alphasupremacy5555 · 2022-12-31T01:31:33+00:00

All horrible choices. However the only time single mothers and stepfatherhood is an exception is when the single mom has ONLY ONE very young child and she's very submissive, naturally gorgeous and ultrafeminine. She submits to her child's potentially future stepfather completely and absolutely and he breeds her with his own seed. But this actually happening would be very rare.

The reality is that fat girls and the vast majority of single mothers are for recreational use only. Friends with benefits at best.

A man who is 30 or a little older who isn't a quitter or a loser will reject settling for any of these choices and be ruthlessly hell bent on transforming himself into high value alpha stud or a HVM so that he can actually get the women he truly and generally fantasizes to that's when lasting genuine burning desire for him.

KikiYuyu · 2022-12-31T02:11:04+00:00

If marrying someone you think isn't hot enough is as bad to you as being alone, be alone.

ohdiddly · 2022-12-31T02:54:02+00:00

So men hit the wall at 30?

hari_hbp · 2022-12-31T04:16:49+00:00

Whatever the choice fellas, don't let hate cloud your minds.

antimetaboleIsntDeep · 2022-12-31T04:44:23+00:00

The only correct response to all this as a man is to improve yourself.

gladusgates · 2022-12-31T07:08:08+00:00

These are the options if you listen to women’s shaming tactics. Other than that, plenty of sub-25 year olds to get with.

2022-12-31T00:43:56+00:00

If you can’t date a girl in her 20s as a man in his 30s, its either your own fault or you could never date one in the first place

HazyMemory7 · 2022-12-30T22:34:19+00:00

An overweight girl. There's some overweight girls that don't buy into the body positivity non-sense and want to actually better themselves. I've been lifting for a while and could help her lose weight and get fit.

The9thElement · 2022-12-30T22:50:59+00:00

No what do you mean 18 year old virgins aren’t lining up to date me

Early-Christmas-4742 · 2022-12-31T01:27:13+00:00

Of course. Single at 30 is like eating leftovers from a bin. Not great but if you can't afford anything else...

rand917 · 2022-12-30T23:56:22+00:00

Take her to the gym with you?

SoldierExcelsior · 2022-12-31T01:57:09+00:00

There's gotta be a road that leads to robitic companions ....

Also I exclusively date childless women from my experiences I would say they all have mental health issues

If you want to be a therapist you can probably get one without a kid over 30.

SaltoDaKid · 2022-12-31T02:34:16+00:00

Lies I know many guy in their 30s they date girl either same age, under 24 or out the country

Kobe_curry24 · 2022-12-31T03:45:05+00:00

There’s definitely other options than finding women if this all you got lmaooo

Saitama1993 · 2022-12-31T04:46:59+00:00

Fat single moms all the way 🥰

OldFartneedYoungtart · 2022-12-31T05:24:34+00:00

I'll take fat girls. as long as you don't marry them or even get into a relationship

Just rotate them as needed

Libertarian_Gamer · 2022-12-31T06:58:48+00:00

Date… younger?

Preme2 · 2022-12-30T22:21:48+00:00

men are obsessed w fat women

orbstnedifnocdesab · 2022-12-30T23:15:56+00:00

what attractive men dont get to suffer with

321gumby · 2022-12-31T05:33:56+00:00

Idk I'm 37 and I have never dated a fat girl or a single mom.... I also have 2 kids. Try harder guys.

WYenginerdWY · 2022-12-31T02:28:14+00:00

Am I the only one here who doesn’t really care that much about these things? What I care about is, is she sexually submissive, sexually open minded, and do I have sexual access to her whenever I want. If not, she’s not for me. If so, I don’t really care so much about the other things, as long as I’m still attracted to her. I’m not looking for a tradcon wife/mother. I’m looking for a submissive fuck toy.

boomcheese44 · 2022-12-30T23:49:53+00:00

will the fat chicks even let you? probably not

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-01-10T02:21:05+00:00

Third option. Travel and find what you're actually looking for.

jackgooo · 2022-12-30T22:22:19+00:00

Hmmmm what about self deletion?

mpf315 · 2022-12-31T02:13:03+00:00

I feel this only applies to certain cities or towns. Perhaps smaller towns? I don’t feel this way about living in a big city but I somewhat did in a smaller community.

maam9243 · 2022-12-31T05:15:51+00:00

I don't know why fat has to be singled out. You can be stupid, thin, old, ugly, infertile or be unattractive in some other way to men without necessarily being fat.

NationalistGoy · 2022-12-31T05:17:29+00:00

Fat girl. Then encourage her to get in shape, pay for boob implants and other surgeries if necessary, so now that her value has gone up, she decides I am not good enough for her, and she dumps me for her gym coach. I get divorce raped and turn to alcohol and drugs to cope with my failure.

SangeliaStorcknest · 2022-12-31T17:22:16+00:00

One has to remember that what each of you like/dislike in women. Other men don't go for that.

My man has always preferred heavier set women. When I first met him. He made jokes about how skinny I was. I had a bmi of 15. Jokes like that I needed to wear both a weight as well as a stick. The weight was to keep me from flying off in a gust of wind. The stick was to keep me from falling into drains.

Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?

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3- I'm not referring to "women" (that would be every woman) as fat chicks. Only those who fit the description.

4- Last but not least, I'm 100% supportive of you deciding who you do and do not want to date. It doesn't affect me, so you do you. The only delusional people in the dating market are those with standards they'll never be able to obtain.

Title	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?
Author	lacuti3
Upvotes	328
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Date	December 30, 2022 10:19 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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