Daily Community Chat Megathread

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-14T19:48:53+00:00

I don't get why women spend so much money and time on their clothes/fashion and makeup.

Your dating life is already on easy mode and men don't care much about your fashion or makeup besides just doing the bare minimum in both, so it's not improving your dating life much. What are you doing all this for? It's especially mind boggling when a fattie spends so much time and money on beauty, but couldn't do the bare minimum to not be fat.

potoricco · 2023-05-14T19:44:02+00:00

Me in 20 years

saraimarsena · 2023-05-14T19:40:06+00:00

hearing a guy say “your lady’s fine” to my boyfriend as I walk in front of him feels nice.

someone told me once it’s objectifying, but i like looking good on his arm.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-05-14T19:29:13+00:00

Just wanted to add some personal acedontal evidence for the height convo. My boy is 5"5, he says alot of girls say he's shorter then what they'd normally date, but he's really handsome they let it slide.

This not me trying to push blackpill agendas but height is overrated. And he's bagging pretty girls, like the girls yall be on here complaining about you can't get

bootyhunter69420 · 2023-05-14T19:22:11+00:00

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96tillinfinity_ · 2023-05-14T19:14:14+00:00

Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers on this sub doing the best they can

Be that married, single, divorced or widowed

Enjoy your day, ladies

potoricco · 2023-05-14T19:10:48+00:00

Why is this place so dry on Sundays guys please talk to me 🥺

Preme2 · 2023-05-14T19:07:11+00:00

Happy Mother’s Day!!

Should parents be paid? Here's why people say it's time to see the value in caregiving.

Women want to be paid for their childcare efforts. They want the government ie tax payers to fund their parenthood or employers to fund it with tuition and childcare services and stipends.

There is a tik tok within the article as well. The woman asks the question, how much would you want to be paid in order to quit your job and be a stay at home mom. Her own answer was 5k a month.

Plastic-Exit-9679 · 2023-05-14T19:03:41+00:00

Aside from reproduction and sex with a warm body, men and women really don't need each other anymore.

I'm married but I think we should stop with the idea that we are supposed to all partner up one day. Marriage and relationships should be exclusive and not the expectation.

TooHornyToFap · 2023-05-14T18:36:19+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/13h7lrl/i_32m_dont_know_how_to_move_forward_with_my

I'm sorry but everyone acting like finding your partner was a hooker is an invalid dealbreaker is a moron.

DickTurtle1804 · 2023-05-14T18:35:16+00:00

ADVICE FROM.SHORTER GUYS PLEASE im 5ft8 and bald..40yrs old(i can rock a bald head pretty well though so no issue)i have a pretty good physique. I certainly dont view myself as undesirable although not in my prime. Whenever I go on a date off tinder or bumble the first thing that is often mentioned straight away is my height..I ALWAYS state it clearly in my bio but I often get asked about my height and often straight away. Two most recent examples 43 year old divorcee "oh atleast you arnt to tall. My ex husband was like 6ft3 and he was an asshole" back handed compliment or sly Diss. I just smiled and complimented her on her dress. I dont think she meant to insult me. Third date in she said its best we just stay friends and 7 weeks later we are text friends and dont meet in person. The other one was just last week 28yrs old 1 year single no kids. After a month of chatting on facetime and whatsapp we decided it was time to meet (150 miles away) and as soon as I stepped out of the car "oh...I expected you to be taller" with a very disappointed look she could not hide. I couldn't help bite back.."well I expected you to have one chin a nice booty and big breasts but here we are" . Two very awkward drinks in we decided not to order and I dropped her home. So short guys how to deal with being called out on your height? I didn't even realise I was considered short until I recently reentered the dating game after a long relationship with a woman who was 5ft7 and never once mentioned my height in the 8 years we were together. So..tips anybody please? Not being shortbisntvan option so I need to learn how to handle this topic tactfully and gracefully without looking like a mug who is okay with being disrespected.

purplish_possum · 2023-05-14T18:27:27+00:00

My newest foster grandson is incredibly cute.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-14T18:26:43+00:00

Some of these moms are lookin 🔥🔥🔥 today. Happy Mothers Day 👀

potoricco · 2023-05-14T18:25:40+00:00

I have to get off Twitter man it’s so toxic

Worst mistake of my life

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-14T17:57:56+00:00

Perhaps there really is a phenomenon where women reject genuinely nice men, because they (the women) feel like they’re significantly less nice deep down, and that it’d be hard to be their authentic themselves and keep the nice partner around ?

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-14T17:48:46+00:00

When asked what height my ex was I’ve been saying 5’10 cause I genuinely thought that was his height and I’m sure he told me that. Spoke to a friend of mine last week who’s really tall and she has delightfully informed me he was actually 5’7. It’s hilarious to me that I dated that dude for years an had actually no idea what height he was.

Rubber-duck7203 · 2023-05-14T17:41:58+00:00

Absolutely can't believe that mainstream women defend and participate in groups like "Are We Dating the Same Guy", which is just vicious.

Although I complained a lot about my dating woes, I never actually believed in AWALT bs that red pillers spread around. But the massive popularity and participation of general in a group like that really shook my core belief about women.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-14T17:41:55+00:00

The current young generation needs a band similiar to The Offspring that writes songs about:

Endlessly swiping on Tinder for lust
Mindlessly scrolling on Instagram for dopamine hits
Declining testosterone rate of men
Declining birth rates in the west

megapuffz · 2023-05-14T17:23:35+00:00

The guys on this sub seem more obsessed with height than any woman I know.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-14T17:05:53+00:00

Have you had a successful relationship? What is it like? What comes of it? (other than kids)

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-14T17:03:50+00:00

I have a pretty and flowy dress on for Mother’s Day and I feel so feminine and happy :))

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-05-14T16:59:13+00:00

I’m going to disagree with the common saying of face > height . From what I’ve seen height is more important . Tall average looking guy will destroy a short good looking guy, everything else being equal

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-14T16:29:37+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13hfnt8/another_terrible_experience_courtesy_of_are_we/

Woman has genital herpes, doesn't disclose to the man until right before they have sex (only after he mentions he's been tested/has a convo about sexual health), then lies about him to tens of thousands of women when she's upset he doesn't want to continue things.

This one is for all the obnoxious women in this sub who have continuously gaslit everyone into believing these are spaces where defamation and personal insults don't occur.

If this guy pursues legal action, he has a legitimate case here for defamation of character.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-05-14T16:18:00+00:00

Happy Mother’s Day to the moms and moms adjacent! My mini me is taking me to a fancy schmancy late lunch - I said one of our usual brunch places would be just fine but she wants to be extravagant. I feel honored and embarrassed at the same time.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-14T16:14:11+00:00

Q4Women: do you or do you not believe in the concept of Preselection? Why or why not?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-14T16:13:08+00:00

Let’s talk about seggs

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-14T16:01:55+00:00

Just a reminder that WANTS ARE NOT NEEDS.

Wanting something really really bad does not make it a need. People look both entitled and stupid if they think otherwise.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-14T15:51:45+00:00

My family members are arguing 😔

saraimarsena · 2023-05-14T15:35:23+00:00

sometimes i see great questions that are fostering interesting discussion get deleted (either by mods or the poster) and i don’t get it

DerayRevan · 2023-05-14T15:31:29+00:00

"Most women don't want a man who sleeps around"

Depends on the woman

My gf allowed me to hook-up with her friends and knew l had sexual feelings for other girls but since l was charismatic/confident about it she had no problem

Lots of women you'll find are like that, as long as your that guy and have that status

You'll always see in clubs, 10-20 women all with one guy

Or the famous town guy, having many chicks

So depends on the circumstances

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-14T15:10:17+00:00

The fact that guys refuse to explain what nagger is nagging about tells me that the nagger isn't the problem.

It's like hearing kids whine about their mothers “nagging them” to clean their room when their room is disgusting bug-filled and should be condemned.

dbz__f · 2023-05-14T14:39:01+00:00

Q4women: how many of you would willingly take your husband's last name? How many of you identify as feminists and would still take your husband's last name?

For me, I always thought this was a thing of the past. I see no value in taking a husbands surname.

but my gf actually WANTS to. She was surprised that I said she doesn't have to, she actively genuinely wants to. For me, my surname means nothing to me, its just a name, just random letters to identify you. But to her, taking my surname is an honour to her. She sees it as something she wants to achieve and hopes for it.

It's so refreshing that there are women who view their husband in this way still and don't see being attached to their husband in this way as demeaning or a blight on their identity, but actively love their husband to the point they want to foresake part of their own identity to merge with his.

scwizard · 2023-05-14T14:37:26+00:00

Mother's Day Confession

In hate it. Just. All of it. I wish I could just ignore the day, but it's impossible to do that in the US; consumerism has been reminding me since the middle of April and I've been more and more triggered which is making life suck for my whole household.

Pregnancy and parenthood screwed me over. I am spending the day furious with everyone; I'm so angry and bitter that I can't even pretend mother's day doesn't exist.

That poor kid. I guarantee you the resentment shows through even though she tries to hide it.

AspiringMogger · 2023-05-14T14:35:59+00:00

Having low standards is ideal: I wish I was attracted to obese women with 39492929 n-count

potoricco · 2023-05-14T14:30:18+00:00

Also my dad said we could go to the zoo on Memorial Day 😊

potoricco · 2023-05-14T14:29:54+00:00

I like men that have long hair without beard

My dad is totally bald but has a beard

What could this mean

bzl33 · 2023-05-14T14:22:44+00:00

I want to find a new job but the idea of doing a job hunt and finding something that significantly exceeds my comp seems difficult and not plausible. At best I'll find something similar, could be laid off with the upcoming recession, and would need to re-establish myself with new people.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-14T14:17:03+00:00

Two of my gf's friends have boyfriends, one of them refuses to pay rent even though they live together, and the other girl always shows up with bruises because her boyfriend hits her.

Odds are they could easily find a decent guy that treats them 100x better, but this sort of thing is pretty common. Like i've always said, morality/how well you treat women is irrelevant to how successful men are with women.

Ok_Negotiation_5038 · 2023-05-14T14:16:52+00:00

I’m not listening to a man who’s partner gets smashed by other dudes freely. Destiny, Sneako, the clowns that say they have to cheat on their girlfriends to be satisfied, all them

I’m sure it could be decent advice but I’m not trying to live like that at all man. They always back it up by saying they have sex with different women but man it’s really not even worth it.

That being said, no fucking way is this supposed to be the guy to fight back against TRP. I’d rather not be like Destiny

trail22 · 2023-05-14T14:05:47+00:00

At work, Some girl in her 20's jockingly called a guy in his 50's a fairy because he liked to say poof. The guy knowing she meant nothing by it said he would rather be called a warlock.

I tried to explain to said young girl that maybeee you shouldnt call a guy that. To her confusion she asked me what was wrong with calling a guy a warlock.

I couldnt stop laughing. I know slang changes but I didnt realize we have come so far that we are actually losing somewhat homophobic slurs from peoples vocablary.

I guess that means society is improving.

to all the kids who dont get it youtube "west wing bar scene" bonus it has the guy from psych in it

AquaChip · 2023-05-14T14:00:47+00:00

I’m seeing an influx in men trying to convince women being tall isn’t an attractive trait. How’d we go from height shouldn’t be the only thing you’re looking for to men attempting to brainwash women into thinking that being tall isn’t an attractive trait at all and if you like tall and broad men that means you should be shamed. Women view being tall like men view women with a nice ass or big boobs (whatever you prefer).

Yes, you could technically end up falling in love with a woman with no boobs and no ass but it’d be a bonus if she did have the physical traits you liked. It’s the same with height for women. So yes, height is attractive.

scwizard · 2023-05-14T13:57:13+00:00

The worst relationship advice I ever heard and mistakenly took to heart when younger is that relationships are hard work. Which means I stayed in bad relationships thinking that's how relationships are. No. If it's hard work, then it's not a healthy relationship that you should stay in. I married in my late 40's and our relationship is not hard work. It is almost effortless because we are both kind to each other and respect each other.

Q4W is your relationship effortless?

Steakman1 · 2023-05-14T13:53:06+00:00

Average PPD argument be like

scwizard · 2023-05-14T13:51:11+00:00

There’s a relationship therapist who touched on this recently, on TikTok, where she’d stitched a woman who had previously only dated other women, but had decided to date a man and was struggling to come to terms with having to teach him basic empathy and respect. The therapist basically said “yeah… this will always be an issue with straight relationships, women will always be in one form or another the teachers who have to expend emotional labour”

I’m straight, and I won’t be dating again. If I get bored or lonely I’ll go back to my slut phase. 😂

Oh come on there must be more men can offer than sex.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-14T13:43:45+00:00

Happy mother's day to all the mommy milkers

purplish_possum · 2023-05-14T13:31:20+00:00

Talked to my 89 year mother for an hour. She's in really good spirits. She likes being brought up to speed about what all her grandkids and great grandkids are doing.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-14T12:56:46+00:00

"If your wife was seeing another man"

I don't know who's wife is that

Because no woman who takes my last name and my commitment is gonna think am tolerating that

Don't care if she hates/resents me but no woman is doing that to me

If kids are involved, am not staying

I'll come 3-4x a week to see them and spend time with them, and l expect her to tell them the truth once past the age of 16

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-14T12:37:04+00:00

I don't think fitting in an exercise routine is working out, it's been 2 weeks and I'm just so burnt out from a combination of everything going on

I guess the fat wins for now

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-14T12:35:10+00:00

You tell someone you're not going to read their response and they still reply. lol

potoricco · 2023-05-14T12:10:10+00:00

I got my mom a customized keychain I kinda feel bad I didn’t get anything else but it was only because I don’t have money

When I get a job I can buy my mom and grandmother real gifts, bags, perfumes, etc

ChadChasingB · 2023-05-14T12:06:02+00:00

Happy Mother's Day to all of the PPD moms!

ChadChasingB · 2023-05-14T12:04:23+00:00

Q4All: Would you be comfortable with a relationship where your partner's mental stability and happiness hinged on your relationship?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-14T11:55:01+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/g2huoj/why_is_nagging_considered_an_issue/

A summary of why I brought this up using quotes: “Its evidence of the cognitive dissonance theredpill causes. They wont cooperate, but then get mad when women finally leave useless low value men, then bitch about the divorce rates and "whamen cant cooperate. They are attracted to childlike women who are doormats they can walk all over.”

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-14T11:27:19+00:00

TIL the same company owns Match, Tinder, OKC, POF, and Hinge.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-14T11:21:03+00:00

“Society incentivize women to divorce”

And yet, guys here cant explain what the incentive is.

Women are worse off financially post-divorce, most women dont use the courts to get child support, and men are more likely to re-marry.

Seems like “Society incentivize women to divorce” really just means “The fact women can leave a shitty marriage is unacceptable to me”.

dbz__f · 2023-05-14T10:28:21+00:00

Studying today, its boring as hell and I keep getting distracted. So my gf facetimed me and we're going through the material and answering questions together. It makes study fun. I love this girl so much.

AspiringMogger · 2023-05-14T10:06:21+00:00

Dating with a fucked up brain is insane. I know my looks aren’t the problem but I can’t help to think how different life would be if my brain was more neurotypical. I’ve had 3 gf’s in my life but all of them came from school. I’ve had 2 sabbatical years where I’ve indulged in casual sex and it’s not fulfilling purely because I’m not good looking enough to spin plates.

All the women I’m able to meet are women in bars/clubs and they are low hanging fruit. As soon as you have standards as a man your dating pool plummets by at least 75%. I wish I wasn’t repulsed by n-count

Ylduts · 2023-05-14T07:36:10+00:00

99% of people wouldn’t enter a contract where the 2nd party had an incentive to break it. Successful men , please stop marrying, you are nerfing yourself.

dbz__f · 2023-05-14T07:33:44+00:00

TRP is half right about shit tests. They are correct that you must maintain frame and be firm in order to pass a shit test. But you must balance it out with love.

For example, if you're deciding with your misso what to get for dinner and its your turn to choose, and she's being all like "buy I want thiiiiiis", instead of just being like "yes darling we'll do what you want even though its my turn." You should be like "No my love, its my turn to pick, so I'm picking this and that's where we're going, and that's it." But then you must also give her a forehead kiss and tell her she'll love it and she should trust you and you'll have a great time together. Also remind her that you love her.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-14T07:12:07+00:00

Dawn of the final day.

https://i.imgur.com/BY4xmR4.jpg

https://arstechnica.com/gadgets/2023/04/hosting-site-imgur-will-remove-explicit-and-anonymous-content-next-month/

If Imgur follows thru with this and tomorrow all the nsfw content is gone so many reddit posters are gonna lose their content if they don't have it backed up.

The side effect is the anonymous content being purged means so many tutorials are going to lose precious content. I wonder how hard imgur's servers have been hit the last week as data hoarders scrape the content.

Edit:

Looks like imgur started early. The purge is happening right now and their website is barely usable.

Ylduts · 2023-05-14T07:07:18+00:00

Masculinity isn’t toxic. Don’t let blue haired women tell you otherwise.

Tramelo · 2023-05-15T11:03:56+00:00

What some women mean when they say they like shy guys: "Being shy isn't a deal breaker if he has enough of other attractive qualities".

scwizard · 2023-05-14T06:01:55+00:00

I'm 29 and I've been single for 4 years.

I've experienced love, I've met amazing men, I had a slut phase where I didn't give a shit about anyone. Now I'm ready for an equal partner.

I started dating someone and I've realized how much emotional labor I have to do even though he's great. This will always be an issue for as long as I date men.

Recently I decided to stop intellectualizing and just be present and accepting, and it's led me to a huge realization. I've gotten everything I'm ever going to get from dating men. The desire simply isn't there for me anymore and I need to listen to that.

How little do men have to offer if you can get everything you're ever going to get from them before you're even 30?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-14T23:31:19+00:00

Allowing your child to become overweight or obese should be charged as child abuse.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-14T05:02:08+00:00

1st my edible just kicked in.

saraimarsena · 2023-05-15T02:39:26+00:00

the more i trust a man the more out there, wild ass sexual shit i wanna do w him. a man that makes me feel safe is the absolute biggest turn on, and instability is a massive turn off. i don’t even like the idea of angry sex

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-14T20:31:20+00:00

A post I just read on TwoXtraChromosomes:

Finally watch She-Hulk and other than misogyny I cannot figure out what the problem is

It’s a fun show. It reminds me of Ally McBeal a lot with the time e and the points it tries to bring up. I truly can’t for the life of me cannot think of any reason other than misogyny for why it was hated.

One of the best troll post I’ve ever seen.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-15T02:14:28+00:00

In chimps, the (alpha) male at the top of the hierarchy who lasts the longest isn't the biggest male but the one who is good at creating social bonds.

Goes to show how important social skills amongst human beings (be it in dating or life in general) are when even a monkey can't afford to not have them.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-14T05:20:41+00:00

Revenge blocking on dating apps

Never realized how much it sucks getting banned on such apps, especially when targeting.

Also women who use filters in their pics is borderline catfishing, like the lady in the video here.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-14T21:11:41+00:00

Lets see if there is anything that has dads claiming mothers day AND fathers day

Or is just only moms who do that bs when fathers day comes?

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-14T21:58:59+00:00

You don’t see a man more eager than a man who heard “honey, wanna get your dick sucked?”

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-14T22:10:19+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13heit9/my_28m_girlfriend_25f_says_that_she_only_does/

AF/BB

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-05-15T01:18:26+00:00

Listen to women on the sub talk about men opening up and what they can do to make it not be a problem for the relationship really is just making it seem more like women need it to be done in an absurdly narrow way. And I find it really interesting that they say the same things even after guys have said they have had a 180 degree change in the relationship or that their moment of vulnerability was used against them, etc. Because it kind of seems as though they are saying that it’s okay for guys to have their vulnerability weaponized against them if they are vulnerable the wrong way.

You ladies are kind of telling yourselves tbh.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-15T03:11:55+00:00

https://imgur.com/gallery/u1dg9IN

Why relationships are fundamentally work for men. This is why women dreamt up the concept of emotional labor, because they know ultimately this is a valid issue with hetero couples.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-05-15T04:27:58+00:00

Door dash drivers suck. I’m saying it on record. You have a non-job for underachievers but instead of being like the cool stoner pizza drivers of the old days you’re uppity and rude

Went to the Chinese restaurant on the corner seemed like a slow night but I had to wait 45 minutes for my mushroom chicken cuz the kitchen was swamped with online orders. Drivers show up and pout and stare at their phone.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-15T05:49:58+00:00

Nice guy vs Bad Boy. It is what it is.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/56jbkn/you_could_cut_the_tension_with_a_knife/d8jz33a/

I had a similar situation with a guy named Scott. I'd had a crush on him for a long time and then one Sat. morning he calls. He doesn't sound normal and I tell him that he sounds different. he said that he had just woken up. We get to talking and he asked me out and I'm planning to meet up with him that night. And then in the last 15 seconds of our conversation before I hung up I realized then it was this other guy named Scott who I had zero interest in. Just in the process of saying goodbye to him on the phone my heart was breaking and I got off the phone and cried for about a half hour because the love of my life had not called me. Instead it was this other really nice guy Scott who never crossed my mind at all in any way. I feel sorry for nice guy Scott because I never had a single bit of interest in him because I was seriously in love / infatuation with bad boy Scott.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/56jbkn/you_could_cut_the_tension_with_a_knife/d8kda5u/

Okay I really feel horrible for not sharing the ending. I hate it when others do that to me. I did go out with nice boy Scott and he was just about the blandest person in the world. I really wanted to like him, because i knew he'd treat me well, but there was zero spark. Even a good night kiss was a chore...i can't even imagine more than that. By the way, I didn't dislike him because he was nice; it's just because he had no personality.

I eventually went out with bad boy Scott and we actually had a relationship, but I wish I never had because I fell hopelessly in love with him and he stomped on my heart with abandon. I tried it two more times with him over the years and both ended in heartbreak, because i loved him and he loved me loving him but didn't actually love me. I really wish I had liked nice guy Scott because maybe then I wouldn't have gone through such a horrible decade of pain.

FYI, nice guy Scott married nice girl Linda and they have a very bland but happy marriage. (Or maybe it's just me who thinks it's bland...) I believe they're still together.

Ok_Negotiation_5038 · 2023-05-15T06:28:41+00:00

People will dead go on the internet and say womens past shouldn’t matter, body count doesn’t matter, it’s just sec

Then in the next sentence call Sneako a cuck at any opportunity. Like damn, maybe it does matter if your chick is getting fucked by other guys and it’s def something not to strive for

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-19T01:17:04+00:00

This is a bit unfalsifiable but...

CMV: When someone asks what you do for work, they are trying to judge your value first and foremost.

No_Cricket_2824 · 2023-05-14T05:31:01+00:00

Rollo tomassi , the Godfather of red pill hilariously tells men to get a vasectomy and can't define a high value man

https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanPeterson/comments/13ehtop/godfather_of_red_pill_and_author_of_a_high_value/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

DerayRevan · 2023-05-14T20:20:57+00:00

Absolutely disgusting comments l read of a post about a guy who's soon-to-be wife revealed to be a sex worker

The fact many people tried justifying it, makes me loose hope in humanity

It seems there's a huge stigma of male boundaries being at some extent, socially unacceptable

I mean it doesn't matter if she did xyz or felt xyz, SHE'S A SEX WORKER

Bring STDs to me and his potential children and also a lot of trauma

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-14T21:10:24+00:00

An engaged couple from Zeeland is putting the words "in sickness and in health" to the test after being diagnosed with cancer 8 days apart

You never know

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-14T21:46:45+00:00

Men

"I'm not really looking for a relationship right now" = "You meet my criteria for sex, but not for a public facing relationship"

"I dunno - Lets just meetup and vibe" = "I don't actually want to put in the effort to make real plans, but I'm open to having sex if you are."

"I like a girl who lives an active lifestyle" = "For chrissakes - no fatties!"

Women

"Casually looking for something serious" = "I'm running out of time but I don't want to seem desperate"

"I'm like weirdly attracted to intelligence" = "I like smart guys, but you still need to be tall, confident, ambitious, great social skills, funny, etc etc

"I love to travel! Been to X countries and counting!" = "Portraying a certain lifestyle on social media is a top priority and I need a sponsor to fund trips and take pics"

Worst case for a man's 'white lie' is that he doesn't think the girl he's seeing is in his league. A lot of women actually don't even view men as human. Kinda disgusting tbh.

Anything to say u/Windmill_flowers?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-14T22:30:48+00:00

Got tendonitis in my left hand so guess who's going to only be doing lower body work for the next couple of weeks?

My arse better get huge.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-14T23:57:41+00:00

Women and fatties should realize what having a healthy (19-21 BMI) body does to men.

It makes men viscerally react when seeing a healthy female body in a "she's hot" way. I imagine it's the equivalent to a woman seeing a tall man.

There's no reason for women to be fat. It's easy to be at a healthy weight.

You can be hot. You can be the female equivalent of the hot tall guy. Just be at a healthy BMI.

purplish_possum · 2023-05-15T00:31:32+00:00

My 1st ex-wife sorta apologised for multiple acts of domestic violence over the years.

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-15T02:39:01+00:00

Okay, okay, I’ve got one.

She’s ~~a 10~~ Abby Shapiro but her cooking is like this

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rantsincognito · 2023-05-14T05:08:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TaylorSwift/comments/13fip4q/why_taylor_swift_fans_are_disappointed_by_the/

LMFAO at the stuff that gets to the front page. As far as I can tell, the issue with the dude is he watches Ghetto Gaggers. Talk about a nothingburger. I personally don't watch that cuz I don't find ghetto attractive, but the concept of it is interesting. Swifties kink shaming, get over yourselves. I actually like TSwift now that it is likely that she may be getting sexually degraded in bed. Eagerly waiting for a Deep Fake of her in a Facial Abuse vid.

towerofcheeeeza · 2023-05-14T05:27:24+00:00

Q4M: Which wifey duties do you value the most and which do you find the most impressive?

scwizard · 2023-05-14T05:28:19+00:00

Until a man comes along who does at least as much work as he causes - emotionally, intellectually, physically, and financially - then I am happy in my solitude. Men just exhaust women, wear us out and then use the symptoms of their weight on our shoulders to justify cheating on us.

It takes a really good man to replace no man

It's really weird how quick girls are on twox to say they much prefer solitude to sucky guys. Yet there's plenty of sucky guys out there that have girlfriends.

How come some girls are happy being alone, and some girls get infected with the pickme brain worm?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-14T06:34:25+00:00

Anyways, on the cold approach topic

Recently on the new thread OP said some guys just do it to gain confidence

And l wholeheartedly agree, because that's definitely been in my experience when started approaching in my teenage years

If l was romantically interested in a girl yea it would hurt a little bit being rejected but most of the time just doing it for the confidence

I would cold approaching has become more necessary now since men have become more socially anxious than ever before specifically genZ and young millennials

PBtoast707 · 2023-05-14T21:22:51+00:00

My boyfriend is in nursing school. My mom asked me if I ever worry about him cheating because he’s around women all day. After hearing him talk about the women he goes to school and works with, I think I have nothing to worry about. Nurses are fucking crazy.

potoricco · 2023-05-14T21:24:45+00:00

When she bilinguel 🤤🤤

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-14T21:55:11+00:00

QFA: Does a person past matter?

potoricco · 2023-05-14T22:34:02+00:00

Guys should I get DNA/ancestry testing when I’m older? I already know where specifically I’m from but I want to see if I have spice in me

Like what if I’m part British/Portuguese

Just food for thought

But I’m put off because I heard they are using it to harvest our DNA in the future soo

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-14T22:43:12+00:00

"Women don't want the average man?"

Can you blame them? Why would you want someone who's just average? That's boring.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-15T00:15:42+00:00

Q4W: I don’t want l spar with y’all. But at the boxing gym I’m tasked by my couch to spar so the ladies can get practice with a guy. It’s a waste of time for me and I have to worry constantly about holding back my punches. What’s the best way to tell y’all this without being a dick ?

potoricco · 2023-05-15T00:54:50+00:00

What do you guys think of Ireland as a place for me to live in the future?

No shooting risks, no snakes, no rabies, nice culture, nice people, have family there, over all just a great place? I would consider UK too but they have stabbings and stealing and such

I hope they are ok with me being American

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-15T00:56:20+00:00

I start my summer semester tomorrow. It’s in person tho so I’m pissed I have to go and leave my house but the only brightside is there might be cute women in my class. Not going to talk to them or anything but the occasional glance is okay.

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-15T01:37:22+00:00

Daily summary:

It was a wonderful Mother’s Day, but it’s back to reality tomorrow.

Called my mum and grandma, and sent them gifts. Went to a very over-priced brunch with my family and MIL, and then a five mile walk in a gorgeous state park with Husband and Toddler. Had dinner and watched a movie, and then spent a long time reading books with Toddler before she went down for bed with Husband. Hoping he wakes up at some point and gives me the sex. I should probably shower and do my skincare before retiring, though.

I am resolved to stay off of the internet tomorrow in order to be productive.

PPD related thoughts

Husband told me that he’s not getting me off if he doesn’t deem me productive enough, and that’s just about the most RP thing I’ve ever heard lol

Rubber-duck7203 · 2023-05-15T02:20:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13heit9/my_28m_girlfriend_25f_says_that_she_only_does/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

My man is getting BB'd.

If the genders were reversed, OP's partner would be crucified.

Ok_Negotiation_5038 · 2023-05-15T00:34:13+00:00

She isn’t yours, it’s just your turn

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2023-05-20T03:51:05+00:00

It's funny how women flaunt a high paying career thinking it will attract men when it does the opposite.

If you earn more then me my main assumptions will be, you are disappointed by my lack of earnings, if you aren't I'll be expected to kiss your ass despite you spending none of that money on me, think it gives you more say in the relationship.

PPD women will come quick to disprove my claims meanwhile most studies show women want equal or higher earners.

Men aren't insecure, they just know how women are going to treat us.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-15T03:45:12+00:00

No one wants to be mislead, the dynamic is different though for both gender. Women do not want to be mislead to having sex with a guy, who may not be genuine with his intention.

For men they do not want to be mislead or fooled into a relationship. In large this is why men care about a women sexual past, we don't want to be mislead into relationship where there is no genuine sexual desire or being a back up or settled option.

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