Dating advice by men, for women?

Zabadoodude · 2024-05-17T03:46:16+00:00

Men's advice for women tends to suffer from the same problem as women's advice for men: they say how they would like the opposite gender to behave, but not necessarily what's in their best interest.

Wattehfok · 2024-05-17T04:26:18+00:00

Most people don’t give good dating advice.

That said, the best dating advice I ever got was from a woman - to wit - “stop being a pussy and go talk to her”.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2024-05-17T04:56:55+00:00

Some of the most controversial posts of all time on r/RedPillWomen were posted by men: https://np.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/s/SfZR6XDJ1H

But generally the problem with men giving women dating advice is the same as women giving men dating advice. They’re going to lead them in a direction that gives power to the opposite sex, not to themselves

cloudnymphe · 2024-05-17T08:49:13+00:00

Men on the internet tend to give advice that either mainly benefits men or they give advice with their own gender’s dating problems in mind not realizing that women have different issues. Men often assume dating advice = how to attract a person. But women usually don’t need advice on how to attract or keep a man because attracting or keeping a partner is not the main issue, it’s figuring out how to properly vet men and getting a good compatible partner.

Women do something similar when giving men dating advice, it’s often advice that assumes you’ve already found a partner but it’s not usually advice that applies on how to find a partner.

Icy-core · 2024-05-17T04:49:41+00:00

They 9/10 times tell you to become a total doormat lol

meangingersnap · 2024-05-17T14:17:10+00:00

No lol. "Women need to vet better" yet when you ask how it's crickets

WYenginerdWY · 2024-05-17T07:00:45+00:00

Do men provide good dating advice for women?

The type of dating advice that men tend to provide can be summarized as stay young & thin forever, jettison any personality or aspirations of your own that may come in conflict with what a man may want, and prepare for a lifetime of service.

In short, they provide deeply patriarchal and self centered advice that is actively harmful to women.

Hatespanch · 2024-05-17T09:57:56+00:00

Observe the actions and take notes. Advices and words don't have value.

ilovegaryb99givmore · 2024-05-17T10:26:12+00:00

They absolutely do not, “go for a much more unattractive, much older man, he’ll treat you like a queen!1!1!” first off, unattractive men are just as misogynistic and porn-addicted as attractive men and are more likely to use abuse tactics to try and keep you because they think (know) you can do better than them.

And the bigger the age gap is, the more likely you’ll get divorced. Men are much more disingenuous with their dating advice, women may be overly kind, but men maliciously neg you into accepting way less, trying to make you believe you’ll ‘keep him’ this way.

egalitarian-flan · 2024-05-17T03:30:00+00:00

In my experience, men in general only give good advice for women who want to be ultra feminine tradwives.

If you want to be a normal modern woman, their advice will fall flat.

And stars forbid you're a tomboy/masculine role woman, most men will tell you that relationships with good men are impossible.

The only men I've received good dating advice from were my friends, probably because they actually care about me and my goals as an individual rather than Faceless Tomboy #24601.

Harkmunt40 · 2024-05-17T06:09:31+00:00

As men we can mostly only give dating advice regarding what not to do and what to look out for. Women give dating advice to men on what they think works for men but doesn’t actually work practically in most cases and there’s proof that it doesn’t work but they continue to give that advice. I’m not even sure women give good dating advice to other women

Flightlessbirbz · 2024-05-17T12:30:11+00:00

I think some men and women can give good dating advice to both men and women. But generally speaking, men on the internet tend to give women dating advice that either benefits only men, or that assumes women have the same dating issues and same desires as men. The best advice will generally come from a person of one’s own gender who knows and cares about you but isn’t afraid to tell you things you don’t want to hear, and who is happily married themselves. Unfortunately not everyone has that.

leosandlattes · 2024-05-17T04:36:00+00:00

Men do not provide good dating advice for women, just like women do not provide good dating advice for men.

Being okay looking having a reasonably pleasant demeanor (which is what most men here on PPD say is all women have to do) is misguided and does not actually account for how women should be dating—what to look for, which men they should be vetting for, how to give to a man and be appropriately vulnerable with him while also protecting herself. Which qualities to cultivate in order to set herself up for 1) attracting the kind of man she wants to date, and 2) a long lasting and happy marriage.

Men and women have completely different lived experiences, and while they can give general dating advice to each other, I would not consider it “good” or particularly insightful advice.

shadowrangerfs · 2024-05-17T16:58:51+00:00

If you ask straight men how to attract men OR straight women on how to attract women, you are asking them to teach you how to do something that they have never done.

You wouldn't do that with anything else. You would ask a person who has never driven to teach you to drive. You wouldn't ask a person who has never played piano to teach you piano.

Why ask someone who has never dated men to teach you how to get a man?

Why ask someone who has never dated women to teach you how to get a woman?

superlurkage · 2024-05-17T05:36:37+00:00

Men’s advice boils down to “fuck men you aren’t attracted to, and serve them”

No thanks; we’ve been doing that for a million years

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2024-05-17T03:56:45+00:00

The dating advice from men here is hurtful and condescending. Examples include in a thread I made that men were saying that if their daughter was 32 and single, men would tell her things like “I wouldn’t date you because you’re too old for me, I only date women who are 18-25, but I am sure you’ll find someone” or “you shouldn’t wait for the ‘right guy’ because that must mean you’re waiting for a Giga Chad”’or “you should be open to dating single dads”

Other advice for other situations include:

“Sexual coercion isn’t real! You could have said no!”

“You had casual sex in the past? Well! Now you must have casual sex with any guy you meet or else you don’t actually like him and he will feel like a simp”

“lol you should have picked better (they don’t actually mean better, they just mean men who are less conventionally attractive because in their minds less attractive men are “good and nice”)”

“Date down in terms of looks to find men who treat you better”

Etc etc. they don’t provide actual advice outside of telling us we are unattractive, should have casual sex, and get with men who are unattractive.

UninterestingFork · 2024-05-17T03:45:48+00:00

Men perpetuate the idea that they will never say no and that they are always ready for sex.

Meanwhile real life female experience is different. Men don't always say yes to sex, they have attachment issues, the dick doesn't always work, etc

Men don't know how other men act. Either because they don't talk to each other or because they convince themselves that that's how a man should act.

Other advice that's not sexual is good.

I would never take advice from men online though

GlamSunCrybabyMoon · 2024-05-17T13:52:05+00:00

I’d be in a horrible place if I listened to my male family members. Most of them “advise” me to give my abusive ex more chances and have more children with him. And to be a good woman is to stfu and clean, cook, and take care of children.

Dense-Tell-6147 · 2024-05-17T04:37:21+00:00

I have no advice other than common sense, which is ungendered (and likely banal). Of the many things women don’t need from men, advice is certainly one

Sharp_Engineering379 · 2024-05-17T03:38:18+00:00

I haven’t seen anything from men here except self-aggrandizing and insulting remarks.

“Choose better”

“Date older/shorter/unattractive/nice guys”

“Date men you aren’t attracted to; stop choosing men for the tingles”

It’s all pretty hateful and condescending here.

IRL, I’ve received some good advice from friends. I’m very good at dating, but I’m terrible with commitment, and my friends know this and are kinda helping me vet.

Demasii · 2024-05-17T03:11:00+00:00

People are going to give advice that benefit their own sex. So no.

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CryptoThroway8205 · 2024-05-17T12:35:50+00:00

I'm sure the questions been asked here before. What were the answers like then?

honeybooboo50 · 2024-05-17T13:23:37+00:00

uhm yea, pick your guy, dont get picked, unfortunately he was an asshole but hey i give him this, did not pick him

Poor_Olive_Snook · 2024-05-17T17:15:07+00:00

No thanks, not here

Alfred-Adler · 2024-05-17T22:37:02+00:00

IMO women are doing just fine.

The ones who are having regular sex, well, they are having consenting adult sex, so their outcome matches their intention; therefore they are doing fine, no advice needed there.

The ones who are looking for a husband but "can't find it".... well, as much as it sucks, it's not really that they can't find it but that the pool of their prospects is too narrow, they need to widen their choice of pool (yes aka lower their standards) in order to match with guys who also want to get married. Unfortunately they might not like what they find there. So, not much advice is needed there, one could say that these women are gaming too high (hence this is their own doing), or someone could argue that there aren't enough good guys out there (hence this is 100% outside their control).

McTitty3000 · 2024-05-17T03:55:29+00:00

Anytime this kind of thing comes up online you just see the women say "we don't care about what men think" , " you're why we choose the BEEEEAR," lol

The only real dating advice that I care to have for women is simply this:

Think about the kind of guy that you want, and be totally honest with yourself, be as specific as you want, his looks, his height, his financial status, his humor, his "emotional intelligence", his habits, so on and so forth.

And think about the kind of woman that that kind of guy would want, and without blaming him for his preferences, look at yourself both in and out and ask if you qualify for the kind of man that you want, if not are you willing to change certain things about yourself, what are things that you can't change about yourself, etc., and figure out your position from there

BrainMarshal · 2024-05-17T04:21:23+00:00

Be empathetic toward men. Make the first move. Take that rejection on the chin and keep trying just like we do. Stop fucking believing all men are trash and recalibrate your vetting mechanism. If he wants a mommybangmaid... run.

MotleyCrew1989 · 2024-05-17T04:35:37+00:00

I have a lot of female patients (Im a psychologist) who strugle with dating, they all fall into the cliches so oftenly written here. From going to men that are way above their league, men who have a lifestyle thats not compatible with commitment and monogamy, to men that mistreat them.

Women really strugle with one simple rule: Dont reward bad behavior

They keep complaining about how these men treat them, yet they keep spreading their legs for them, they cant grasp the idea than those men dont need to commit, or even treat them as person to get what they want from them.

Another thing they strugle a lot is than their actions need to be coherent with their goals.

They say they want commitment yet most of my patients multi date. They want the man to be monogamous yet they arent monogamous themselves. Some of them behave like ONS, they sleep with the man on the first date and then they are surprised when the man dissapears. They dont understand than most men dont like "easy" women for long term commitment, there is a correlation between promiscuity (like fucking anfter only hours of knowing someone in person) and infidelity. If they secured a prototype of relationship before getting fucked, their chances of success would improve drastically.

thedarkracer · 2024-05-17T04:04:08+00:00

The advice is good only if a man isn't trying to get in between the woman’s legs. Women know that and so try to steer clear of that.

One thing men do better is being direct with the advice. Women tend to try and not hurt the feelings which ends up giving worse advice but men don't. Let me give you an example.

Question for both, does being a good man increase your attractiveness or not (initial stages of the dating).

Women: Yes, it does but you have to do more. (Here they are not trying to hurt your feelings so that you think being good doesn't pay)

Men: No, to simply attract a woman being good isn't necessary as you will need to work on your charms, funny bones and romantic gestures.

Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2024-05-17T05:13:18+00:00

Depends on the person. Obviously have hobbies they enjoy, a good supportive friend group and hopefully supportive family at home, be open minded for discussions and learning experiences , also make a decision and not be “go with the flow” to whatever he wants Aka don’t be a pickme. Pickme people are boring and energy draining.

Otherwise standard physical attraction applies which applies to both genders.

Planthoe30 · 2024-05-17T11:59:30+00:00

I can’t think of anyone who gave me good dating advice except my parents. Yall suck at giving advice. What knowledge my parents didn’t give me I figured out on my own and I feel like I have a good idea of what someone’s intentions are. To me if they talked about sex immediately it was obvious they were a fuckboy. I thought it was common sense they’d probably cheat if they had a high body count (before I knew of the research done on predictors of infidelity). I avoided men who would take any opportunities to fuck also even if they didn’t have a high body count. I watched peoples actions, and I had multiple friend groups so I’d always hear the gossip. I lost interest in anyone engaging in casual sex. I found it morally inconsistent men wanted to fuck around then go for modest women seriously rather than just be the type to pursue modest women (men who turned down casual sex) which were basically unicorns but those men were who I’d go for. I found more unicorns in the church, in college this was a great way to meet men with good values. Another thing I learned for myself is men who maintained a friendship with me tend to value women outside of sex and not be misogynists. To many women and men seem complacent with dating people they hardly know and they are largely unsuccessful at it. I learned more by watching my friends make mistakes, I had a close friend who just fucked everyone and I observed these men. A lot would pursue relationships with her but then they’d express discontentment for her not being modest.

LaloTwinsDa2nd · 2024-05-17T04:40:57+00:00

Ask the men around you about a guy before considering dating him since y’all seem to have an inability to detect easily observable red flags

szclimber · 2024-05-17T03:58:31+00:00

I'm a man and I encourage women to not be fat or crazy. Also, don't date deadbeats or assholes. Seems like solid advice that benefits women if they are having troubles.

boom-wham-slam · 2024-05-17T09:31:53+00:00

I think as a man if I ask a woman for advice and I follow the advice, she will be less attracted to me.

However in the reverse, if a woman asks a man for advise and follows what he says, that man will find her more attractive.

So in general yes. Men have better advise. But of course most people in general have shitty advise.

Eastoss · 2024-05-17T14:43:11+00:00

I generally do not want to give advice to women because I know I'm biased. I think I can pinpoint problems to them though.

MistyMaisel · 2024-05-17T15:34:59+00:00

I'm going to say this:

In general, I think probably both genders when older will give good advice about being in a relationship.

In general, I think probably both genders when older (but not drastically older, maybe 5 years at most) will give good advice about getting a relationship.

Probably good friends will give good advice provided they don't have ulterior motives of some kind.

Outside of that, randoms on the internet are probably not going to be the best thing, but if you've got nothing else, may as well give it a listen while drinking salt.

bradlite · 2024-05-17T16:21:27+00:00

Players got some good advice. They can assess you and what you may need to change or how you should act.

The_Glass_Arrow · 2024-05-17T17:44:59+00:00

I dont think theres really "good dating advice" given to anyone. I think there are basic things everyone should try to achieve, being somewhat healthy, having tolerance, being kind, and respecting others.

womandatory · 2024-05-18T01:34:23+00:00

The men who don’t want to take dating advice from women don’t because their ‘dating’ objectives are different.

Women usually give men dating advice on how to build a respectful, mutual relationship. Problem is, RP men especially seem to just want to lie their way into fucking lots of women. Of course women aren’t going to give you advice on how to behave like a total fuckwit to other women. Women can, of course, also give men advice on how to approach having casual sex, but men often don’t like that advice either because it is based on being honest and transparent about your intentions, and doesn’t involve being deceitful to get what you want.

Some women, especially really immature idiots, will give men advice based solely on what they can get out of the interaction, like a free dinner or validation. It’s fine to ignore bad or selfish advice from anyone.

By the same token, when men are giving women dating ‘advice’ it’s likely going to be based on the man getting everything he wants out of the interaction and giving as little as possible back, like ‘she needs to be there when I want sex and then leave me alone when I’m with my friends’ - what about what she needs?

I’ve seen threads in ask men about this stuff and the vast majority of men are all about what women can do to shut the fuck up and let men do and have what they want. It’s parasocial, juvenile and puerile. Relationships are mutual.

The best dating advice I’ve ever received is to be honest. It’s saved so much time and heartache for me.

I draw boundaries early, but I also let a man know I’m interested without hinting or playing games. I let him know what I won’t tolerate, such as porn use, disrespect, sexual or physical violence, and conservative politics, but I also show him with both my actions and words what I like about him physically and emotionally, what I like sexually, and what I like generally about him. I don’t talk smack about him to his friends or mine, if I have a problem with something he does or says I go directly and only to him about it, if I need a third party point of view I talk to someone qualified who doesn’t have a vested interest in either me or him.

Men and women are vastly different with their needs and wants, but they’re also different within their sex too. Some women are fine with casual sex, most are not. Few, if any, will be fine with being lied to. Most men are fine with casual sex, some are not interested in it at all. I’ve never met a man who hasn’t tried to lie to me at least once.

I have tailored my communication with my guy to account for what I know his needs and preferences are, but so has he now too. He’s learned to communicate with me directly which is something he’s never felt safe to do in a relationship before, because I don’t blow up over things, but some women he’s dated have. He lied to me about something early on but I found out and told him it’s an absolute hard boundary of mine. He lied because he felt he had to lie because he knew the truth might end our relationship. I told him that what he lies about might end the relationship, but lying about anything absolutely will end it. Better it ends through my choice than because I find out I’ve been lied to. Lying serves no purpose but to prolong the inevitable for both of us. Why would you want to waste your own time, even if you didn’t mind wasting mine? He doesn’t lie anymore, but I know a lot of men rely on the sunk cost fallacy with lying. They believe if they can lie about something for long enough, and a woman is invested enough by then, she will forgive him and stay. Not me. I will walk after ten days, ten weeks or ten years if he lies to me again, about anything, and I will not look back for a second.

I never ask him a question I don’t already know the answer to, or don’t want to know the answer to. He understands that if I ask him something, it’s quite literally because I already know, so lying is a bad idea, or I actually, genuinely want to know, and again, lying is a bad idea. If he doesn’t know what or how to answer, he knows he can simply say that, and come back to me on it later. He also knows he has to get back to me because it’s got a time limit on it.

Honesty is the best dating advice I would also give. Pretending to be okay with something you’re not okay with to please someone else will eventually harm one or both of you. Making someone do something they don’t want to because you want it will also eventually harm one or both of you. If you want casual sex, that’s fine, but don’t lie to get it. You might have less luck, but the women you’re with will appreciate your honesty a lot more. If you want a lasting relationship, you need to know your boundaries and enforce them. Know what your life and relationship goals are and share them to find out if you agree. Be vulnerable but not selfish. Don’t tolerate disrespect. You can give someone one chance to treat you better, but not two chances. As soon as you give the second chance it’s over, because if you keep giving them they will just keep taking them.

No one has a magic penis or vagina. No one stays young and buff forever. No amount of disrespect or abuse is worth access to sex or financial support. Men are not unemotive robot ATMs without feelings, and women don’t exist to serve men sexually. We’re all human here. Do not ever have sex with someone again if you discover they get any pleasure at all out of hurting or humiliating you (or any other woman or man or animal) - physically, sexually, financially or emotionally. Good people do not get pleasure from watching or causing the pain of others. Thats an irrefutable fact.

Dr_Click_Click_Boom · 2024-05-18T03:02:16+00:00

Women have only ever asked me for one specific piece of dating advice. And it goes along the lines of something like this:

I get lots of attention from men of group A (who I'm not attracted to) but not so much from men of group B (who I am attracted to). Why is that?

The exact phrasing varies from woman to woman but that's the general gist. And to those women I pose a series of questions:

What kind of man are you actually looking for?
What type of woman do you think this man is attracted to and compatible with?
Are you that type of woman?
No, seriously...are you that type of woman? I don't mean can you pretend to be that type of woman if you make a conscious effort. Are you actually and naturally that type of woman?
Is your lifestyle compatible with his lifestyle?
Will he feel comfortable introducing you to his family and friends?
WIll he feel comfortable bring you to the office Christmas party?

A glaze usually comes over their eyes around question 4.

VWGUYWV · 2024-05-18T21:01:05+00:00

Women just need to

Not be fat Not be mean or crazy Have good sex regularly Don’t cheat or act weird with other men Don’t go through a ho phase and rack up a bus of bodies

Scarce12 · 2024-05-17T07:31:46+00:00

I think John Gottman, for example, has provided women with numerous books on dating and relationships.

Women don't read it.

Toxic_LigmaMale · 2024-05-17T14:18:29+00:00

Men are pretty direct about what we want.

I'll marry a 6/10 that cooks my food and folds my clothes over a 10/10 trophy wife.

SilentFroggy · 2024-05-17T04:11:43+00:00

Save your virginity and don’t get fooled into being fuckzoned.

kvakerok_v2 · 2024-05-17T15:29:36+00:00

Don't hoe around.
Don't be a workaholic.
Exercise.
Learn how to cook.
Learn how to spot dark triad traits in men.
Learn impulse control.

Frankly this advice would be useful even if a person isn't dating.

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-05-17T04:20:06+00:00

As a women if you need dating advice you are already a loser .Dating is already on super easy mode and even most attractive men have extremely low standards for situationship and sex

Southern_Fall983 · 2024-05-17T03:28:41+00:00

None is needed, they just exist. The closest to advice is don’t be a bad or unreasonable person..easier said than done though in many cases

anonymousUser1SHIFT · 2024-05-17T07:32:23+00:00

The spark is a massive lie, it's just your own brains version on heroin shot straight into your brain.

If you chase the spark, you will never be able to objectively thing about your love.

Love is a slow burn, like an ember in a fireplace that refuses to go out, not a hot flame that burns out extremely quickly only burning you in the process.

funfacts_82 · 2024-05-17T05:52:01+00:00

There is only 3 necessary things women need to secure a top man:

1: Be useful: Be around him a lot and prove yourself being useful to him. Words are mostly meaningless men value action.

2: Be his slut: Do things in the sheets other women wont do for him or you wont do for other men.

3: Dont add drama: Do not add any drama or complications to his life. Make his life easier, not harder.

Everything else are just variations of this and if not they are either highly situational or irrelevant. You can agree or disagree but that is what the vast majority of men want and thats the way how to get into his head. Youre welcome.

grown_folks_talkin · 2024-05-17T03:29:12+00:00

I imagine good dating advice for women written by men exists somewhere, but it won’t be coming from me.

Also it seems like more women are concerned with unfortunate-in-dating men than vice versa, in ways both constructive and non-constructive.

stormiu · 2024-05-17T05:31:38+00:00

If you breakdown and really read RP’s advice to women you’ll see that it quite literally just revolves around not being a gold digger and riding the CC.

A lot of this other stuff you read and constantly regurgitate is rarely even seen and was written by 14 ur olds. Which should be kinda obvious 😭

alebruto · 2024-05-17T13:02:05+00:00

Men typically give good advice, and most of the criticism here of men's advice is straw men

guppyhunter7777 · 2024-05-17T03:54:22+00:00

Oh. It’s simple. If you are not a royal, do not expect a royal treatment. And when it shows up anyway be very grateful.

Ayaka_Simp_ · 2024-05-17T07:15:20+00:00

Men give the best dating advice because we understand Men. I give my female friends dating advice and it works wonders. Unfortunately, women rarely listen because they like having no agency and responsibility.

CraftyCooler · 2024-05-17T05:21:33+00:00

Women do not take advice. They need to cut at least 10 fingers with circular saw in order to start even thinking that they are doing something wrong.

That is why women are terrible leaders - they are too proud to admit own mistakes

John-Nada_ · 2024-05-17T16:15:00+00:00

Best dating advice i could hand out is, get some girl game, make a guy happy from time to time, let him do his thing, use girl game instead of nagging, appeal to his ego to get what you want.

emorizoti · 2024-05-17T06:16:27+00:00

My advice would be that you need to actually be direct, honest and communicate what you want and need. Men are not mind readers or toys you can play with for your own ego. The world would be a better place if women actually stopped with gaslighting and told what they want and how they feel without the need of lying or displaying narc behavior.

castironskilletset · 2024-05-17T06:26:39+00:00

There is only one way to get good at dating for men, systematic trial and error. fortunately for men, they have a lot of time. I am going by the marriedredpill and it seems that building physique and learning game is at least 18 months long journey.

So a single dating advice wont work men need a framework in which they can systematically, experiment to see what works for them.

Problem with women is that there is nothing of that sort for them. Redpillwives have started it but unfortunately it seems rather ineffective to be honest.

Dating advice by men, for women?

Comments

Men on this forum absolutely do not say this.

The vast majority of women are dating average men. When they are getting cheated on and mistreated, it’s usually by average men. Not Chad.

And the vast majority of women doesn't have a problem with not being able to find a decent guy. This advice is obviously not for the vast majority of women, this advice is specifically for the women complaining about every man they're dating not being willing to commit to her and treat her poorly.

MOST WOMEN HERE WHO SEEK DATING ADVICE ARENT HAVING A BUNCH OF SEX WITH CHADS. THEY TEND TO BE AWKWARD LONELY GIRLS WITHOUT A LOT OF EXPERIENCE. AND YET YOU SHAME THEM.

AND THOSE WOMEN AREN'T GETTING THAT ADVICE, LIKE I ALREADY EXPLAINED TO YOU THAT ADVICE IS FOR WOMEN IN THAT SPECIFIC SITUATION

AND YES, YES THEY ARE.

Most women don’t tell men to date single moms.

Most women understand the desire to not date a single parent

What is trashy is insulting and hurting single moms. Just don’t date them. Don’t go on rampages about how undesirable they are.

Don’t insult and mock single moms

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