What do you ladies think ?

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-06-11T14:20:58+00:00

Breaking news, ugly scrotes found to be undesirable. More at 5

Mcccy · 2021-06-11T15:04:04+00:00

And women need to orgasm and feel safe and loved during sex, but here we are

musicalistic · 2021-06-11T14:13:44+00:00

This was exactly what my ex said to me about the reason he watched porn. He felt that watching porn made him desired. I think it was because he was able to think all those stupid scenarios on how women will go all their ways to enjoy his limp dick.

In my opinion, women can desire the men they want too but then society will somehow label the women as being "whore" and "slut" for showing desire and interest in sex. Society will always value all those "good women" who have been repressing/hiding their desires to the point of non-existent but then that post think that women have made men feeling undesirable.

Women can never win. 🙄

azureangel35 · 2021-06-11T14:38:14+00:00

it seems scrotes are laboring under the misconception that we give one flying fuck about what they want. lol they all want to be fawned over for absolutely nothing. hard pass.

shutup201 · 2021-06-11T14:10:33+00:00

Then, men need to have sex with women who truly desire them..not the ones they can convince to have sex with them...and give women pleasure so they'll, you know, desire them. Men want everything how they want it without giving anything in return.

sleepysiri · 2021-06-11T14:14:58+00:00

Women do desire men. Men just can’t handle when women give them their standards. It’s not my fault if my coochie doesn’t throb at the sight of a greasy, misogynistic, smelly, unfit, bald buffoon.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-06-11T14:54:22+00:00

He should make his own clothing company which sells short and sexulized clothes for men to liberate them!

spinsterchachkies · 2021-06-11T15:00:59+00:00

Tell me you are ugly and overweight without telling me you are ugly and overweight.

Ex: my boyfriend’s never had these problems

splendieindependie · 2021-06-11T15:02:39+00:00

His argument is, what? All of society 'validates' (harasses) women and therefore women and gay men should 'validate' (worship) men?

He's victim-blaming, dictiming, rape apologising, all of which we've seen before - but it takes a real leap of logic to say "Men are mean to men. Women have a duty to fix that."

Ericaeatscarrots · 2021-06-11T14:57:51+00:00

A 15 year old dropping some knowledge on us all

jasmine-blossom · 2021-06-11T14:23:49+00:00

In a healthy relationship, both partners feel desired and appreciated. But that also means both partners need to meet the others standards, respect the others boundaries, and put in effort to be their best self and be reciprocal in the relationship. Many men want the women to do all of this for him (including making him feel desired), but have no interest in being the kind of partner to her that would deserve that treatment. If you aren’t meeting her expectations in the relationship, you can’t expect her to meet yours. And yea porn actresses are paid to pretend they discomfort, degradation, and pain they are feeling is pleasurable. You can’t expect your girlfriend to lie to you like that.

vowelsareimportant · 2021-06-11T15:03:53+00:00

He is complaining that we don’t sexualize men in the way that women are sexualized. It has nothing to do with being wanted or complimented. There are a million posts by pick-mes on the internet claiming how much they love bald men and pot bellies. This guy is just a whiner.

He wants to have something similar to wearing booty shorts and getting catcalled? Wear a nice suit and be sexy and see if you don’t get eye-fucked by ladies. We literally have fine AF fridays on this sub just to ogle good looking men.

And women do compliment the men that they are dating. It’s not some rare thing that never happens. I would frequently make mention to my boyfriends about things that I liked about their bodies. One guy had nice arms, so I’d jokingly ask him to carry me so he could feel strong and we had a thing about him “taking me to the gun show”. Another guy, when he’d take off his shirt I’d make sure to rub his chest and tell him how manly his chest hair was and how much I loved it. And lots of women dirty talk during sex, myself included. I’m not some anomaly. He just wants to complain.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-06-11T14:13:57+00:00

Omg they are the result of toxic masculinity and misogyny.

How did someone call them in a previous post?!

Dicktims!

ChocoBananza · 2021-06-11T14:16:46+00:00

Sure, men should feel desired. But let’s not forget the part that they need to be desirable first. I’m not getting wet for a fat, smelly, infantile scrote.

Hit the gym and take care of yourselves. It’s not that hard.

ello-motto · 2021-06-11T14:37:10+00:00

Wtf. This person needs to get a grip.

Us women have literally internalized porn theatrics, including going full on with acting in "desire" during sex.

Then what do we get in return? The guy will spend a few minutes with foreplay on us and move into jackhammering.

There's a reason why women don't orgasm and are more dissatisfied during sex. Maybe men should learn more how to please a woman in bed before wanting to us to openly desire men's bodies in the bedroom when all they do is ignore ours and just go straight into porn-inspired jack hammering.

laffytaggy · 2021-06-11T14:55:36+00:00

Attractive men are desired, checked out, and are not lacking in compliments.

ETA LOL someone reported me to a crisis center via reddit for concerning posts

frustratedanon123 · 2021-06-11T14:31:52+00:00

Lmfao every time I have treated a man as though I desire him he has developed an astronomical ego then cheated. Fuck this post.

foodgrowerfoodeater · 2021-06-11T14:08:06+00:00

lost me at "look at porn"

EarthKveik · 2021-06-11T15:11:31+00:00

That's a lot of words for "I want women to chase ME!"

poppinkitty · 2021-06-11T14:08:48+00:00

First things first : If he wants to be desired, hit the gym. Women are desired ( or deemed fuckable) because they put a lot, lot , lot of effort into their looks. He can't look like a preggo with Shrek face and expect women to swoon all over him. Ugh the fact that I have to type it out for these losers🙄. Second : He mentioned porn. He's a ugo no matter what he does now. Since when a man who is degrading and abusing women is a sign that he's being desired. I can't with these losers anymore. How would he feel desired..a woman letting him degrade and abuse her. Pornsick loser.🤮

MacDurce · 2021-06-11T15:42:12+00:00

I desire men when they behave in a way that makes them desirable to me. I'm not just gonna fawn over some loser sitting with his pants around his ankles in the dim glow of his computer screen cry wanking in their moms house and then writing essays on how it's women's fault somehow that they aren't desirable

WittyImprovement · 2021-06-11T15:25:19+00:00

Porn issues aside, if a woman is willingly having sex with a man then he is desirable to her. At least that's how it should be because why the fuck would you have sex with someone you're not attracted to?

Astral_weaver · 2021-06-11T15:40:31+00:00

Hahahah, it's been a long since I've read such an amusingly uninformed opinion by a man. It is so out of touch with the reality of gendered experiences in our society that it becomes comedic.

heavysigh95 · 2021-06-11T14:14:12+00:00

I like how he says "men constantly hear from women about how our dicks are ugly"

Maybe idk.... stop sending us unsolicited dick pics then?

And if dating for you is just "rejection, rejection, rejection, rejection"

Maybe idk... it's a you problem?

proceeds to give advice to women on how to puff up the male ego

Is this guy for real?

carmen_sandiegos_hat · 2021-06-11T15:06:15+00:00

Like that post from a few days ago: Then perish.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-06-11T16:29:47+00:00

This is really interesting because when you actually desire a man, men fucking hate it. They try to use it to get back at you, call you a slut whore, scream about you putting pressure on them sexually, call you a slut, call you shallow, get turned off...

SakuraGirl88 · 2021-06-11T14:10:56+00:00

So men nowadays want to be pampered like women 🤷🏽‍♀️. You basically want a mommy to bang. And how exactly does this explain rape? And women's bodies are always complimented?! I made a post last month about how that high school tried to edit those girls' "cleavage". Men want to feel desirable? Well, do something desirable Gary! Miss me with this bullshit. Did a pickme write this? Men don't even go down or do anything that's remotely pleasurable to women. And we're always shamed into not voicing our needs to not come off as "nagging". Dude, if you want to be showered with compliments, just ask your bros 😏

c_a_t_lady · 2021-06-11T15:28:14+00:00

Wops, I used the word "desire" way too many times. Sorry for the long comment.

It's good if you're desired by your partner and you desire your partner, sure. I can understand the need to be desired, but this post wasn't phrased well and it came off a bit arrogant. 😬

First of all the part about "men need to be desired just as much, if not more, than women-".

No, not more. Why do men need to be desired more during sex? Straight sex already sucks for women and is dissatisfying for us. Why not "men feel the need to be desired during sex as well"?

Also, women are not desired more in society, we're just sexualized. Women constantly get criticisms from their partners (and other people too) about how they look. Their partners pressure them to get breast implants, to "lose the last 10 pounds", to be feminine and submissive etc.

Many women don't feel desired either, but almost all feel sexualized! A random 35-year-old dude telling an 18-year old that she has a nice ass doesn't make her feel desired.

On top of that, often when women do express desire towards someone they are shamed and seen as "a slut" or such.

Also, straight sex is built around men's pleasure. It's mainly penetration, lack of clitoral stimulation, stops when the man cums and while men expect to get bj's, women hardly ever get head, even if that was something she would require to climax.

I am not even saying that some men don't feel the need to be desired. Mutual desire for each other would likely make it better for both! ❣

But it's hard to desire someone who doesn't make an effort to make you feel satisfied. If I feel like I am just being used for his pleasure and I feel dissatisfied, then how am I supposed to desire that?

If I would date a man, who wouldn't be selfish in bed, would care about my satisfaction, made me feel desired and in other ways was a wonderful partner, I would desire him and make sure he knew that. 😊 Simply, if I have reasons to desire him, I will let it be known.

I feel more attraction towards women, so I would likely start to desire a woman partner more easily. ❤ If I was lucky and HVW enough (trying to actively level up!) to find a lady, I would also most definitely make sure she knew that I find her desirable too.❣

UnderstandingOdd1092 · 2021-06-11T16:50:34+00:00

"giving him as much foreplay as he gives you"

So none?

catlady4u · 2021-06-11T14:17:02+00:00

Since when do men need to be desired? A warm accessible hole is all he needs.

purasangria · 2021-06-11T14:18:17+00:00

You can't compliment a man; the minute you do, he'll think he's all that and step out on you, if he's not already.

ChickaDeeD33 · 2021-06-11T15:40:04+00:00

Omg, I was already rolling my eyes so hard my retinas are going to detach, and then I noticed there were more slides. 🤦‍♀️

rednopal · 2021-06-11T15:48:44+00:00

Oh my god, they are the ultimate narcissists. They have the biggest falsified victim complex in the world, it’s just incomprehensible.

thecrazywitch31 · 2021-06-11T16:04:33+00:00

They should go read erotica books written by women. Or just simple chick-flicks. Those have very nice vivid descriptions of how men are desired. But yeah, they should HAVE something to be desired.

And it's not that men are not desired, it's just that they are not overly sexualized or treated as commodity.

amhran_oiche · 2021-06-11T16:25:02+00:00

The man on the 3rd slide who wants his partner to talk to him like a porn star lmfao

You can immediately tell why she doesn't. 🙄

AngryBees88 · 2021-06-11T15:19:15+00:00

Such nonsense. A woman who is turned on will make a man feel desired. When will these clowns realize this? Why would she make him feel desired otherwise? He deserves to feel her sexual heat just for doing nothing? No. It does NOT work that way, and women do far too much for men as it is. We're not doing this.

Listen up, scrotes. What turns a woman on? It begins with seeing her as, and treating her as, a human being with her own agency, feelings, and thought processes. If you can't do that, then you don't deserve the sexual attention of women, period. But if you can, then the following applies:

Take care of your hygiene, and don't be disgusting. WASH. Butt crumbs won't make her hot for you. You can't skimp on this step, not even a bit. We notice, and then we laugh about it with our friends over drinks. Hard. And then you're known as "butt crumb guy". Dress well. Get rid of that dirty beard. Face pubes teeming with bacteria are not hot.

Also? Porn is creepy, and for losers. Really. There is nothing sexy about a man who gets off on trafficked women and children being raped. If you support that industry, you're not only damaging your own brains and testosterone levels, AND ruining your hard-on---you're also proving to a woman that you're a selfish sociopathic creep. No woman of value will want you, and if you think you can fool us for long, you can't. It always comes out. And then we'll tell our friends about it, and you're forever then known as "pornsick dude".

Never underestimate the power of women communicating with other women. Word travels far and wide. Women are waking up from the decades and centuries of lies we have been fed by the patriarchy. Our gifts are far too precious to bestow on creeps, and more and more women are wising up--it's better to be alone and have a rich life, than to waste our life with a loser and be miserable. Time to adapt, or be left alone completely. Really, it makes no difference to us wither way, because we will be fine.

Yes fellahs, the revolution is here, and it's the poo. Take a big whiff!

_electrafire · 2021-06-11T16:23:04+00:00

Lmao men aren’t even attracted to adult women’s bodies because they’re disgusted by our body hair. Nice fucking try. Their victim complex is so revolting

shockingupdate · 2021-06-11T17:53:58+00:00

It’s just another Redditor ranting about men not getting enough attention again. Hugely generalizing, stereotypical nonsense. Men can be attractive, men can dress well, have style, and be sexy. They just choose not to.

There’s this meme going around about men’s summer bodies, inseams, “free the thighs” right now, with women ENCOURAGING men to get as nakie as they wanna be — don’t be shy, we want to see it! — but whoever wrote this wants us to believe that women hate men’s bodies. Speaking for myself, I love a CLEAN, ATTRACTIVE, NICE-SMELLING man. Those are desirable physical traits that every man expects from women. It is the absolute bare-ass minimum. Redditors hate women, but especially women with standards.

Also, why did he put foreplay in quotes? 🤔

SoSurrealItsUnreal · 2021-06-11T14:10:43+00:00

I'll let a man know I love and desire his body once he builds a body that I love and desire, and not before.

800cherriez · 2021-06-11T15:36:46+00:00

Maybe men would be desirable if they actually put effort into being high value through exercise and eating healthy, dressing well, you know, things that women are constantly pressured to do in order to please the male gaze. Unfortunately men are so coddled that I see gorgeous women with fat ugly turds all the time and NOT because of the money. these fat ugly turds are also broke or have no ambition. if anything women need to raise their standards and stop making men feel like god’s just for having a dick.

amhran_oiche · 2021-06-11T16:19:12+00:00

No statement which is supposed to be justified by "just look at porn" means a damn thing. Sick ass.

FrenchHeel · 2021-06-11T17:16:55+00:00

Sooo make yourself desirable?

Take a shower, get a haircut, get fit, be interesting, be a good person, have a personality besides bitterness, be a good lover, treat women like you respect and cherish them. … I mean even if you pick two of what I listed there is someone who will desire you.

They don’t even need to be a Fine AF Friday man. The bar is incredibly low, but they don’t want to see that. They want to be Instagram models without any of the fitness, makeup, or filters.

NeedMoreCoffee15 · 2021-06-11T17:41:26+00:00

Lol why on earth should we give a fuck about making undesirable men feel desirable? If a man is actually desirable, it won’t require conscious effort on our part to make him feel desired.

Affectionate-Rush893 · 2021-06-11T18:44:13+00:00

I don't think it's a bad thing to want to be desired, but men gotta remember they're not entitled to anyone's desire, especially if they want to be desired by someone specific

coldfoot23 · 2021-06-11T18:55:07+00:00

I literally don’t care

eveloe · 2021-06-11T21:05:48+00:00

There is one solution to all this:

Stop having “sex” with women who don’t enthusiastically consent.

She’s just not that into you, bro

FelineMeowCat · 2021-06-11T18:16:06+00:00

I have a lot to say on this topic. A LOT.

However, I’m going to try to keep this short.

Men have done this to themselves by doing away with foreplay. Part of that is telling each other how much you desire each other, how attracted you are to their bodies, how much you enjoy getting them off, etc.

What’s the point in doing that now when most men skip the foreplay to play video games and watch porn and go right to Jack hammering?

This man’s complaint shows me that he doesn’t spend any quality time with his girlfriend, doesn’t flirt with her or engage in other foreplay. He just wants to take off his shirt and have his woman fawn all over him and his mighty masculine chest while he gets to respond with “gee babe, I really wish you’d get those implants and lose that 1/4 inch of extra skin on your stomach, then I’d be able to tell you how hot you are.”

modernmedusaa · 2021-06-11T16:51:43+00:00

WAh wahhhh wah men need more attention

Given the amount of men who cheat and think the sun shines out their ass even if they’re unattractive, broke, mediocre or disrespectful I don’t think they do. I think they’re getting too much of anything. The bar has never been lower for them and they are still whinging bc they’re not satisfied unless they’re being constantly spoiled with affection from several attractive women even if they are not themselves. They are never satisfied with one woman desiring them so they can STFU.

Also the type of men who whinge about ‘lack of desire or affection’ in relationships are usually entitled low effort losers, ugly men who bat way out their league and refuse to date in their own (think they’re too good for them) or abusive cheats who are mad they can’t get their cake and eat it.

Also this whole post reads rapey whiney delusional ugly scrote. No one is entitled to feeling ‘desired’ - go check out a nature documentary and you’ll soon realise that. Human males are the only male species who feel ENTITLED to sex and desire. Bizarre.

Also notice no mention of how many women are romantically and emotionally rejected by men who purposely deceived them/ used for their bodies or how women are humiliated by men on a constant basis. No mention of female humanity just wah wah wah whingey entitled male. Women should be super ecstatic to be lied to and deceived by superficial men and their superficial attention spans🤡

Stuffnthings1840 · 2021-06-11T17:05:33+00:00

Of course. Men should feel desired during sex. Men should do that by being desirable. If this person just wants a pity party and wants an additional hurdle for women to get through forget it. Also women want to be desired. Not as a fuck doll but as a person who is deserving of equitable pleasure in sex. Porn is not a good example. It never is.

AcademicMobile1 · 2021-06-11T20:58:34+00:00

Then make your body desirable with soap, a razor, and a regular workout ya scrote

pickadaisy · 2021-06-11T22:42:16+00:00

I got to the part about him thinking women are told our bodies are beautiful, and I had to stop. Nah, fool, we are told our bodies will never ever ever be beautiful enough and that men will use and fuck our bodies no matter what bc we aren’t human to them.

oOo_a_Butterfly · 2021-06-11T14:23:29+00:00

Jaysus H Crisco. Men take advantage of women with self-esteem and other MH issues then get mad when we don’t do the same lol we know the importance of getting into relationships with people who are physically and mentally healthy. If a woman wrote that people would tell her to quit being so needy, or the good ole fashioned “jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe!”

Adventurous-Storm226 · 2021-06-11T16:12:45+00:00

I like how he admits that women find compliments on their bodies creepy and is jealous of the unwanted attention that we get. They’ll never understand how awful being objectified and constantly fearing for your safety really is.

UnderstandingOdd1092 · 2021-06-11T16:43:38+00:00

Ah yes, nothing says healthy example of what sex should be than porn.

thorwaweiwei · 2021-06-11T17:17:53+00:00

This is dumb. The proof is about porn consumption behavior which makes no sense whatsoever. Men watch heterosexual porn because they can fantasize that they're f***ing/abusing the woman in the porn that they're watching whereas in lesbian porn they cannot self-insert themselves in there. It isnt a matter of eye candy at all.

Ugh and they also point out the whole "women get more compliment than men" well yes but also no, women are often complimented but is objectified because of their looks which may look good on paper but often toxic in practice (as the need to uphold beauty standards to a high degree rises) AND if they dont meet society's beauty standard they get body-shamed, fat-shamed, made fun of their flaws like stretch marks, cellulite, etc. All while men are doing the bare minimum in keeping up with their appearances yet it is deemed acceptable by society's standard in doing so. The whole women like older men and dad bod narrative is such bullshit but society push it anyways to keep men's feefees in check.

Obligatory nOt AlL mEn, generalizing ahead (keep in mind that your exceptions are not the standard/common practice). They're also pretending as if men are getting the shitty end of the stick when it comes to sex, when men get to orgasm most of the time during sex and women most often do not. Also men usually get blowjobs as foreplay while women get fingerbanged/jackhammered which we know won't lead to orgasms and rarely gets any oral from men.

While both men and women deserve to be desired they really need to quit their bullshit that men needs to get some extra special treatment during sex when they're already getting it.

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-06-11T18:03:30+00:00

This...doesn’t check out lol. Even the example used—a lot of porn focuses on how the woman very much does NOT want it/is in pain/is scared. One of the many sickening things about porn—but it shows the “fantasy” men are being sold isn’t just about being desired, it’s about exerting power.

Elegant-Emergency-60 · 2021-06-11T18:15:37+00:00

Though I agree yes you should complement his body and have him feel desired because in a healthy relationship that’s what both of you should be doing for the other. That’s what being a loving partner is.

I greatly disagree with his complaint of ‘waaaa men face so much rejection in dating! Women have it so much easier!’ Honey, dating sucks for women too. Do you know how many dates I’ve been on where a guy just emotionally dumps on me about his problems and uses any kind of reassurance I give him as some weird confidence boost to go pursue the girl he’s actually interested in? Not to mention all the bull shit expectations men try to make us do and dealing with LVM/NVM.

Yeah he seems salty. It’s just kind of an obvious piece of ‘advice’ that he thinks is so profound. I’d be curious to see how much he has complemented the girls he’s dated in the past.

Kind of reminds me of guys who say ‘omg I would LOVE for a girl to make the first move’ and when a girl does he just ends up using her for emotional labor.

Oh and it goes without saying that I think his porn example is super weird. How does that make you feel more desired?

PinturaMagnifica · 2021-06-11T18:52:36+00:00

HAHAHHAHAHAAHAH!!! 🤣🤣

CuntWaffe · 2021-06-11T22:06:11+00:00

"To prove this, look at porn." Into the garbage it goes. 🗑

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-06-11T16:24:40+00:00

Ask me how I know this man is short fat ugly can't dress himself probably has shit hygiene and personal care and is terrible in bed.

shoesfromparis135 · 2021-06-11T16:51:51+00:00

Didn’t make it past the first sentence. I don’t care. This is just men bitching about problems they created for themselves by using too much porn. You think I want to be slapped, choked, and spat on? No. I want to be desired too. Do men care? NOPE!!!!! They just want to use me like an object and throw me away when they are done. Fuck this whinyass bullshit. Treat people how you want to be treated, asshole.

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2021-06-11T17:50:15+00:00

In the unlikely chance that's not a pickme LARPing as man, he should know attractive men are already desired and don't need to beg online. Respect is earned? So is desire.

Heterosexual porn is more popular because there's more of it: lesbian porn more often than not features straight actresses that get paid extra to perform with another woman. You don't need to pay a man as much to get him to have sex with a woman; many would do it for free lol. No need to be an expert to figure that one out.

Straight men's clothing is so "stuck in the Victorian era" that men going topless are socially acceptable on a lot more occasions than women, that men's nipples can poke from underneath their shirts without receiving policing (just like the moose knuckles in their pants).
Short shorts are difficult to pull off for most people. A guy can be branded as gay/creepy for wearing them, a woman can be branded as slutty/an attention whore.

"Men need attention just as much as women" no, men need a lot more attention than women could possibly ever want. That's why they go out their way to get it.

Platipus6 · 2021-06-12T00:30:21+00:00

Men utterly failing at making sex good for women, writes a fucking thesis on how women can make sex better for men.

Cala6794 · 2021-06-12T01:23:50+00:00

Men's bodies are though of as ugly because they don't give a shit about their appearance and if you don't feel desired in sex maybe you're just shit in bed. Just a thought.

seraphinelysion · 2021-06-12T01:24:28+00:00

WHAT IN THE HOLY GARBAGE IS THIS SHIT POST?!

Sorry, I didn't even bother to finish reading this. I just can't...

MarieCurvy · 2021-06-12T03:44:46+00:00

Fucking gross.

The fact this type of people can't grasp that this women have to be paid to be there just fucking wows me.

Impossible_Mud_7599 · 2021-06-12T06:35:12+00:00

Ha..hahahaha..hahahahahahahaha…hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Aha.

Men don’t need anything but something to stick it into, for it to work for em. So many have actually said this, too.

Men need to feel desired. Tf out of here. Men WANT to feel desired and NOBODY CARES ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT. well, I don’t.

cleverlittlemouse · 2021-06-11T14:24:50+00:00

Uh, yeah, men think you're coming on to them simply for being pretty. Men have a lot of problems, but convincing themselves a woman wants them isn't one.

sveji- · 2021-06-11T16:37:38+00:00

I agree with the point that men are labelled as gay if they wear certain clothes/ do certain activities that have nothing to do with being gay, and that shouldn't be this way. However, I think OOP focuses too much on the attention women's bodies are getting, and even though they kind of understand that it can be creepy, they don't fully understand how terrifying it can actually be, and they're jealous, while we as women would do anything to receive less attention from creeps.

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-06-11T22:32:13+00:00

From my personal experience, they don't give a flying fuck about being desired. They just wanna do stuff they seen in porn. Passion and desire isn't one of them.

monch-bred · 2021-06-11T23:19:31+00:00

Yes, let’s add even more requirements for women in the bedroom or else they’re not good partners!!! /s 🤡🤡🤡 clown world forreal.

Fiebre · 2021-06-11T23:38:30+00:00

'to prove this, look at porn' is where one should stop reading.

CokeMooch · 2021-06-12T00:17:12+00:00

Yeah I stopped reading at “shorts are gay.” This guy is ridiculous and clearly has super toxic views of masculinity and sexuality, and it sounds like he’s just defending p*rn and why it’s sO nOrMaL! Yeah, no. You don’t need to be out here talking abt men need to be desired, gtfoh lmao, men are desired already—almost every shape, size, age, race, fashion sense or lack thereof and legit everything in btwn is socially acceptable as desirable on a man. Clearly this individual man isn’t experiencing it bc he’s gross af, end of.

aquietsword · 2021-06-12T01:13:11+00:00

Last time I complimented a man I regretted it. It inflates their ego like crazy and all of a sudden a 4 thinks he's a 9. Also, women are simply more beautiful. If that hurts the feelings, tough shit.

Mighty_Wombat42 · 2021-06-12T07:57:07+00:00

Maybe she’s not making you feel desired because she’s standing there, self-conscious about the thousands of “flaws” and “problem areas” she’s been told that will make a man instantly repulsed by her body if he notices. Maybe she’s so focused on looking hot for you, being at the right angles, performing those porn scenes for you and making sure they look good, and trying to ignore how awkward, uncomfortable, or even painful it is for her that she can’t be focused on your self-esteem right now.

Maybe she thinks she is showing you her desire, because she’s been taught that if she really loved you, really wanted you, she’d let you do whatever you want. If she’s willing to let you hurt her for your own pleasure, thats how she shows how much she wants you, right?

Maybe she’s not attracted to you. Maybe you’ve never heard women talk about our physics desire for men’s bodies because we’re shamed for being sexual, shamed for having preferences, shamed for having desires. How are we supposed to somehow make you feel desired while also not actually experiencing desire ourselves?

Maybe there’s a crumb of truth to this, and there’s a portion of men that do long for genuine intimacy and desire. But they’ve sabotaged themselves, through porn culture and commodification of women’s bodies, through turning sex into something we perform for them and something they do to us instead of an act we do together for mutual pleasure, through rejecting relationships in favor of casual sex, and now demanding that we create for them intimacy and connection of a relationship in a casual encounter.

Men like this always see themselves as the subjects and us as the objects. We need to be the objects of their desire, and also the objects that bestow desirability upon them.

ItsFreezen · 2021-06-12T11:38:45+00:00

This doesn't stop Scrotes from visiting prostitutes.

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-06-12T20:26:32+00:00

I don't compliment men unless I'm actually dating them, and by dating I mean I've known them for a bit. If you compliment a guy you're trying to date, or still vetting, they'll take it as you're DTF right then.

justforfds · 2021-06-12T20:44:43+00:00

My first reactions was his "F off with that nonsense. This is the best laugh I've had all week. 😂🤣

2021-06-13T12:07:41+00:00

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Title	What do you ladies think ?
Author	motioncaptureF
Upvotes	136
Comments	151
Date	June 11, 2021 1:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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