Daily Community Chat Megathread

Old_Speed_7861 · 2023-08-22T18:08:19+00:00

Question for ladies. Women say that they want to break gender norms with women having to leave workforce to raise kids. That men should be able to raise kids and not them because if equality.

Yet women support their gender norms by mostly wanting a taller partner so they can feel safe and secure. Why can’t you defend and protect yourself? Also why is it okay to uphold this green norm?

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-08-22T04:48:29+00:00

It’s a damn shame

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-22T04:17:53+00:00

When people say " conventionally attractive " they mean how Europeans do you look.

Mundane_Vacation4989 · 2023-08-22T04:04:06+00:00

Why do women think men are robots in bed and can turn their dick on and off at will. Or continue thrusting at a good speed and not orgasm.

Also do women really expect a guy to be super turned on by her his whole life?

I don’t think women think about sex from a man’s perspective whatsoever. Yet men are the “Selfish lovers”.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-08-22T03:22:59+00:00

I’m trying to leave MGTOW and find a wife. I’ve accepted that I’ll probably die childless and alone. What’s the Blue Pill strategy for finding a wife? My requirements are not fat and no kids. I’m 5’10”, slim but fit, and only earn about 60k a year.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-22T03:00:55+00:00

Braving the international hair salon barrier soon…I need color and a cut.

My colorist back home was a genius whom I saw for 20 years. She helped me maintain my natural dark brunette for years and slowly convert to the what is now sort of natural bronde. She even saw me through my brief impulsive “oil slick” phase, lol. I don’t know what they’re going to do with me in Thailand 😬

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-22T02:47:48+00:00

My love for Jack Black is eternal and oft repeated but regardless of that I wish I would have been at this party.

https://youtu.be/vSIPRCZa_vk

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-22T02:41:11+00:00

https://www.kens5.com/article/news/crime/drunk-drivers-who-kill-parent-must-pay-child-support-new-law-mandates/273-e2b48eba-401f-4e3c-901f-21381d4d38df

Hey what gender tends to drunk drive the most?

afk_row · 2023-08-22T01:58:23+00:00

I hate wage slaving, I hate working harder than previous generations to not be able to afford anything and when you barely afford one property you pay property tax, at this point you are just renting a house from government. I also hate the fact that government is refusing to create new residential areas because they are corrupt and they want to keep the prices high for their dirty donors, so they get even richer.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-22T01:56:10+00:00

Y'all I wanna dress up for Ren faire but I am drawing a blank on any ideas that'd actually look good. All I've come up with is a Victorian inspired paleontologist (was gonna go for paleomancer but I couldn't figure out how I'd make that work)

potoricco · 2023-08-22T01:27:17+00:00

Pitch perfect has to be one of the dumbest movies wver

shanshkrishur · 2023-08-22T01:22:47+00:00

Question for women:

If a man was 6’2 but every man (or at least most of the men) in your area were 6’5 to 6’6, would you consider him either “short” or unattractive height wise?

I ask this because many of you have previously stated that a man’s height relative to other men’s height matters vs. just his pure height.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-22T01:09:57+00:00

Someone mentioned the whole 'the good ones get snatched up fast' argument. I'm not really sure what to think of it. I know people who entered relationships fast and early and I know from talking to them about it that they did it as a consequense of their limited options (and unwillingness/inability to be alone)

potoricco · 2023-08-22T00:46:25+00:00

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She is soooo fucking beautiful sorry

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-22T00:44:51+00:00

I wish Norway was a bigger country. It sucks that Oslo is the only real city here…

I’d like to have some more 500k+ cities, but then I’d need to go abroad.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-22T00:39:49+00:00

"My husband will not have to change one diaper"

Lol, I guess she has a superpower of never falling sick and she knows 100% that she won't get any complications from pregnancy and giving birth. Good luck with that attitude.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T00:39:01+00:00

Starting today I’m going to sleep at 9:30 and waking up at 6 to prep for school

meteorness123 · 2023-08-22T00:26:10+00:00

most attractive man to ever grace this earth

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_DfJa887QE&ab_channel=OwenCook

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-22T00:11:32+00:00

What do you do when you’re too horny to sleep but too tired to masturbate

huhwhatokok · 2023-08-22T00:10:35+00:00

Third wave feminism essentially nuked the nuclear family and now almost half of children are had out of wedlock. Now you understand that women are a big reason why rent/housing prices are getting out of control. If one to two chads have babies with 2-3 women each, that’s a lot of apartments/houses required that normally would be just two families.

Also women divorce for every little thing now for their “mental health”, yet depression is at an all time high, and these women are broker than ever 😂 with sky high rent. Zero accomplished.

potoricco · 2023-08-21T23:53:50+00:00

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Y’all need better rizz

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-08-21T23:44:04+00:00

https://youtu.be/hStRQ1Fj6ZU

LOL 🤣

Never be fat fat. Never look like a dork. Use minox for beard. Use brocoli hair only if you are gym bro.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-21T23:39:21+00:00

Always pick a woman who really wants you and whom you are the best option for instead of one who is lukewarm about you. In practice, this may mean that she's average looking and not the most beautiful girl in the world. And that is something you need to accept.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-21T23:37:55+00:00

According to people who believe in the 80/20 rule, why are more than 20% of women ever in relationships?

Also people over-exaggerate how hard and beneficial it is to be a top 20% men. Technically a decent amount of people I see at the gym or university are top 20%, but they aren’t dramatically advantaged since they’re also aiming for women who are roughly equal to them.

Hrquestiob · 2023-08-21T23:08:16+00:00

There’s this rhetoric in redpill spaces that women can’t become pregnant in their 30s/it’s borderline impossible. Whatever the motivation, it’s dangerous. If you don’t worry about birth control because of this belief, you’re more likely to have a child than not.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-08-21T22:43:46+00:00

Q4Non-chads: would you rather be beta-buxx or perpetually single?

Either provide for a mid-30s woman who “has had her fun” and now wants a house/kid, she plans on reducing her work hours once you get married, you have 50% divorce rate per the national average

Or enjoy your right hand till death

Which do you pick

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-21T22:33:07+00:00

Period sex yay or nay

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-21T22:26:50+00:00

Q4M: At what weight (or weight range) do you think you would find the following women attractive:

A) a 5’2 woman (157.5 cm)

B) a 5’5 woman (165 cm)

C) a 5’9 woman (175 cm)

D) a 6’0 woman (183 cm)

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-21T22:25:15+00:00

I’ve spent my birthday today reflecting on the things I’ve accomplished, and doing a long, hard look at the parts of my life that are still below average.

Now I have a game plan to continue my improvements for the next year.

We can’t choose where we start, but we can decide how we finish.

Let’s go.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-21T22:22:18+00:00

Q4A - You find out that your partner has a gross fetish/kink. Nothing illegal, just gross. But your partner has never asked you to be a part of that fetish, to participate... it's just their little dirty secret.

What do you do, if anything? Does this change anything?

potoricco · 2023-08-21T22:10:55+00:00

Guys I’m giving my teammate a ride tomorrow is it normal to be nervous like what if we get into a crash or my car breaks down then it will be so embarrassing

mummydontknow · 2023-08-21T21:51:16+00:00

What's the male equivalent of getting upset about answers to "Am I getting fat" or "would you love me if I was a worm" ?

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-21T21:48:56+00:00

How many men here think that abused women have a fetish for abuse and don’t deserve the police helping them?

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-08-21T21:48:03+00:00

Is being us a red flag? Red, blue or purple.

But just having this much interest in analyzing straight dating dynamics and arguing with teenagers about it on Reddit.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-21T21:35:14+00:00

Men, a reminder that dominance and forcefulness is the only language feminists understand. Show the slightest bit of good faith/reason and they'll jump on it and tear you to shreds like hyenas. Never be on the defensive, always verbally attack, attack, attack

magivictus · 2023-08-21T21:26:53+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15x8trb/i_want_a_boyfriend/

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T21:11:49+00:00

It’s really hard to watch my 600 pound life, because it’s basically mentally ill people surrounded by enablers.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-21T21:09:31+00:00

Guys, Be like Khabib. This level of indifference to women will get a man far in life :

https://youtu.be/mkPY51FNi24?t=171

potoricco · 2023-08-21T21:00:43+00:00

Long skinny legs and big feet🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

Maffioze · 2023-08-21T20:59:34+00:00

The post about introversion is weird to me. In my experience women love the mysterious quiet guy. Seems like people in the US don't understand the difference between being shy and being quiet.

Maffioze · 2023-08-21T20:53:31+00:00

I submitted my thesis. But now I feel dead lmao.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-21T20:48:20+00:00

Matt Walsh is a good man

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No_Ask_2241 · 2023-08-21T04:03:05+00:00

We are number one, yeah!

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-21T04:17:48+00:00

Poop 💩

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-21T04:17:48+00:00

Happy morning, day or night (depending on where you are)!

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-21T04:19:59+00:00

Q4All: Have you ever been doxxed?

learn2earn89 · 2023-08-21T04:22:02+00:00

Theories behind why a mid person would have high physical standards? Not a case where they demand those characteristics but rather why they can’t enjoy other “lower” characteristics?

I see mid people with mid people everyday and uglies with other uglies so what makes these people different to the above mentioned.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-21T04:23:29+00:00

I saw a meme on IG about people claiming to be from certain cities but then it’s found out to be a lie. For example

“Hey were you from?”

“Chicago bro, born and raised”

Ok so what high school you went to?”

“Well actually..”

And then they name some random suburb 45 mins outside the city in Illinois 😂

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-21T04:46:05+00:00

If you really put it into perspective, you only live 1 life, you only get 1 shot and it can be taken away from you at any moment, then all these dumb arguments we are having mean nothing. All this pill stuff means absolutely nothing.

md8716 · 2023-08-21T04:46:27+00:00

People who treat their household pets like human beings give me the ick. It's like a completely accepted mental illness.

I'm pretty sure in 20 years, people will just walk around flinging shit at each other, too, and of course now I'm the asshole for thinking it's not normal.

huhwhatokok · 2023-08-21T04:46:31+00:00

I swear it’s just Johnny autism and glowupgirl carrying the sub 😂. I thought Johnny autism was gonna run away with the MVP this year and Most improved but glowupgirl is quickly moving up the power rankings.

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-08-21T05:11:35+00:00

PPD pundits; here’s a brain teaser; disabilities aside; do all humans have 100% autonomy/control over their conscious thought, and decision making? Or not?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-21T05:15:35+00:00

Q4M: if a girl slides into your DMs is that considered an approach?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-21T05:17:29+00:00

This whole 50/50 concept has got to be the biggest lie within the dating atmosphere between men and women

Women always date up to a specific metric of the man

His older by 3-7 years

He makes more money

His much taller

So there's always that unequal balance in the relationship

scwizard · 2023-08-21T05:46:18+00:00

That 25, 40, etc year-old man does not love you. Nor does he think you are " mature for your age" He dates minors because he is emotionally stunted.

And you’ll always age out of that relationship. He’s in love with your age, not you.

Generally this is true but congressman John Rose is still together with his wife, even though she's over 30 now.

scwizard · 2023-08-21T05:55:50+00:00

Older men go for younger women because they're easier to control. It's sad but true.

At what age are women no longer easier to control and thusly it's fine to date them?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-21T05:56:54+00:00

My neighbor’s tonal sound is seeping through the wall between us every day between 10am-12noon. It’s not unpleasant, I actually kind of enjoy it. It’s like wordless ahhhhh, ahhhhhhh, AHHHH, AHHHHHH over and over 4 different notes. I haven’t lived with close/share a wall neighbors in decades & I am partially deaf so I’m really glad it’s not loud music that I hate.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-21T06:27:44+00:00

I am calling for a complete ban on porn in this country until we can figure out what the hell is going on!

Patrickstarho · 2023-08-21T07:27:42+00:00

Watching 90 day fiancé and first I’m a man. Secondly this fucking guy, talks to a Filipino women. Takes money out of his 401k to fly out to see her. He’s saying this is his one shot of love. He meets the family they prepare a feast for him but he’s such a picky eater he doesn’t eat the food.

Like bro you did all this shit and your gonna let a fucking cooked pig stop you? Holy fuck.

I am embarrassed I’m so invested in this show. A woman introduced me and I can’t stop watching. Send help

DerayRevan · 2023-08-21T07:31:38+00:00

Just a word of point for many uneducated people here

Whenever someone here says men also date up because they want young and beautiful women, they are completely wrong since that's optimizing not dating up

Men date across the board, they date women who are young/beautiful but they also date women who are non of those things such as fat/average-looking

So if a man dates some beautiful 23/24yo, yea his optimizing not dating up since in the same breath he once dated some fat 35yo single mom

Only women date up since they perceive this men as attractive while men they just wanna fuck anything that has a vagina and not all men but many men do

So stop pushing this untrue narrative

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-21T07:46:17+00:00

Young successful happy couples I’ve met recently:

The 20 something husband/wife team whom I hired to paint the interior surfaces of my house in the US before I left. I watched/listened to them while I was there & they were so sweet to one another. She’s a bigger girl, he was a skinny tall man but they were obviously in deep love. I asked how they met, she said “OLD”.

The 20 something 1 year together anniversary dating couple that I’ve met where I live now in Thailand. She comes to my apartment to do my lashes, brings him along to hang/smoke weed with my husband during the lengthy process. They are both very attractive young people who are happy together.

Just a reminder that it’s not completely elusive.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-21T08:07:41+00:00

I just read a conversation about young men and women living different lives nowadays (in a country where I live, not sure how much this applies globally). They live in different places (rural vs urban), have different values and vote for different parties, enjoy different things in their free time, have received different levels of education, want different things out of life.

Then there was someone asking “but if they are an otherwise good match, what does it matter?”. Smh.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-21T08:48:52+00:00

We men can control our urges and our desires. We do have the capability to do so. We don't need to be in a relationship, we don't need to have sex to stop consuming porn for example.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-21T10:02:46+00:00

I have a cruise booked in January and I'm fucking keen!!

7 nights, clear skies, cocktails by the pool deck.

Plus single chicks to bang. Got two cards I can play

"We're never going to see each other again, let's have some fun!"

Plus my birthday is during the cruise, another card to play.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-21T10:28:19+00:00

On my very long drive home from my hiking trip, I listened to the whole podcast series “Scamanda,” which is about a woman who was so charming that she convincingly faked having cancer for like, a decade, and profited from over $180,000 in donations.

While I have no desire to cheat people out of their money or do an immoral thing like fake cancer, I do admire the sort of social super powers she had to influence people. I think I’m gonna try to improve in that area.

People say you can’t change your personality? Let’s test it.

Workaholiconew · 2023-08-21T10:36:22+00:00

Happy married... what a word.

Why is it that a woman points at a non honeymoon phase happily married couple, there is always a clearly burnout/depressed guy who havent rested or stopped working in last 20 years?

mummydontknow · 2023-08-21T11:27:36+00:00

Boredom is the lack of dopamine stimulation.

potoricco · 2023-08-21T11:46:49+00:00

Morning

If it was a good morning I’d have 3 weeks left of free time. So today it’s just morning

potoricco · 2023-08-21T11:56:29+00:00

https://x.com/gunsnrosesgirl3/status/1693156156384935970?s=46&t=b2XPgsD5a-aGl20uLiFUqA

Women:”Can I eat it?”

Men: Can I have sex with it?

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-21T12:17:49+00:00

We ran into the crackhead couple who lives behind us at the grocery store. First time I’ve seen them out in the wild. Normally they are standing in front of their apartment fighting and yelling at each other. This time they were holding hands and she was talking sweetly to him. I had no idea she could speak without screaming. They must have either just gotten their fix or they are working on their sobriety.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-21T12:27:06+00:00

Rare but interesting take I heard from a woman recently is that all this talk about the orgasm gap is kind of a mistake. Because it created the notion that a woman HAS to orgasm, otherwise there is something wrong with her or her partner, and according to her that's not necessarily the case. It's like lot of people's conclusion from the orgasm gap is that the goal is to make a woman's experience mirror the man's as much as possible, while women are simply not as "linear".

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T12:55:42+00:00

If a guy has the audacity to be on a dating app with a 3 to 1 male to female ratio, and has the gall to complain about women in feeling too confident themselves and “having too much power”, there is no hope for him.

There is no point in helping a dude who cannot use critical thinking skills.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-21T12:56:21+00:00

There is fear of rejection, but there is also the fear of acceptance.

If you find a stable, loving compatible partner then... game over, you won. Now you get to play another game... get married, start a family.

But a lot of young people want to keep playing their current game.

So they don't date relationship material.

They date people which are bad relationship material, people they don't see themselves commiting to.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-21T13:02:32+00:00

I feel like alot of parents place unrealistic academic expectations of their kids based off earlier “success” in schools. Like Doug will get a D in 8th grade algebra and his mom will be like

“What is going on? You used to do so well in school, you’re just not trying hard enough. You used to be an A student”

Bro EVERYONE did well in kindergarten and first grade lmao. You really thought your son was gonna be a doctor based off the certificate that said he knows his ABC’s

scwizard · 2023-08-21T13:14:30+00:00

https://i.redd.it/cd2z1vfe34jb1.png

4SSh01e · 2023-08-21T13:51:09+00:00

I miss that user with "StacysPostWallMom" flair, I think she was a quite reasonable woman.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-21T13:58:46+00:00

Nothing repulses women more than being a woke obese depressed nice guy virtue signalling male feminist beta male.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T14:10:09+00:00

I love the “Women are too stuck up to date me” attitude. As if guys think theyre entitled to a date. Word of advice, if even ‘low value women’ dont want you, it’s time to figure out what you should be changing about yourself.

Infammo · 2023-08-21T14:14:58+00:00

Me: "That guy just threw a rock at a duck."

Women: "What an asshole."

Me: "That woman just threw a rock at a duck."

Women: "The real question is 'why did she do it?' For the record I'm not condoning people attacking animals, but in my experience people don't just do something like that for the sake of it. There's a story there between her and the duck, even though I doubt it justifies her actions I'm betting the duck has a history of picking fights even if in this instance the woman was in the wrong. If you do plan on getting involved I would just ask her why she did it in the non-accusatory way and get her side of the story."

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-21T14:26:33+00:00

And meanwhile inappropriately over in the r/ThailandTourism sub:

https://reddit.com/r/ThailandTourism/s/Mw6s7IhXhm

😝

potoricco · 2023-08-21T14:37:44+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/of06xwkw5hjb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=14f22c5d203053eb3bec084ed1bcf996c42b85d8

Found baby bird 😍😍😊🥺

And its feathers were still growing in

Sooo cute

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-21T14:41:20+00:00

Q4W - Would you date a guy which served as an emotional dumpster to an entire volleyball team?

Would you consider him ruined?

Would you consider his emotional dumpster services as too cheap?

Would you be afraid of him emotionally cheating on you?

baiser_vole · 2023-08-21T15:18:14+00:00

My boyfriend got interrogated by my mom last night, and I was facepalming for the half of it.

Mom: What would you do if you won the jackpot?

Boyfriend: Let [my name] handle it.

Mom: (Nods) You know you already won the lottery, right?

Me: What?!

Long story short, he passed the first interrogation. My mom approves of his first impressions.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-21T15:28:49+00:00

That live action one piece is actually looking decent

Peacesquad · 2023-08-21T15:28:57+00:00

What did I miss

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-21T15:31:28+00:00

half an hour until I have to give a presentation I'm wildly unprepared for.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-21T15:42:32+00:00

New idea: When I am overloaded with things to do, I’ll ask my husband to name 1 to 3 things he’d like me to prioritize each day. That way, when he comes home, he’ll be focused on the 1 to 3 things and see that they’ve been done, and doesn’t immediately assume I’ve done nothing all day because I haven’t done everything.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-21T15:59:39+00:00

Far too many posts here are just "well I've heard the men/women do X...so I'll just argue it's the opposite! Aren't I smart"

happy_discus · 2023-08-21T16:00:12+00:00

Why is the concept of men and women being friends so foreign here?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T16:01:32+00:00

The problem with guys here doing the “out yourself in a man’s shoe” tactic: Men are not a monolith.

The guys who are able to actually make connections with women without the promise of sex are not not going to be the same as guys in the manosphere, who struggle to even see women as the same species.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-21T16:21:29+00:00

Feminist women: Women aren't a monolith

Also Feminist women: All men are predators and abusers, no exceptions.

Feminism is a grift

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-21T16:28:34+00:00

british, tall, attractive, and a vice president. No clue why the fiance and him split but a guy like this is the type of guy who runs up numbers on dating apps. 200 likes in 1 day

antisplatter · 2023-08-21T16:30:11+00:00

The word Situationship was literally invented recently because too many women were entering Chad's harem so they needed a new word for it lol

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-21T16:38:00+00:00

Looking at the pics of various monoliths from around the world, I can comfortably say that

Monoliths are not a monolith!

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-21T16:43:17+00:00

What is the real difference between fucking a woman vs a warm lubed fleshlight? like I don't understand what is specifically achieved through sex vs just jerking off

Front-Case8813 · 2023-08-21T16:45:31+00:00

The Straight Woman Struggle

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T16:46:26+00:00

For men being “the problem solvers”, its fascinating seeing the male lonliness epidemic not being given any solutions and its basically whining that “Women are too picky and feminism caused this to our poor men”.

👀 So much for men being the more competent gender!

potoricco · 2023-08-21T16:52:32+00:00

Can I be doxxed if all my social media is private

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-21T16:56:06+00:00

I don’t think I’ve ever been this angry in my life. It makes me feel nasty.

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2023-08-21T16:56:14+00:00

Why am I just so much better than literally everyone else?

SlothMonster9 · 2023-08-21T16:58:48+00:00

This sub is obsessed with the housewive - male provider relationship. Get with the program, people! Most men and women have jobs nowadays and it’s been this way for decades.

scwizard · 2023-08-21T16:59:29+00:00

When he moved in, I realized that the rent he was paying at his old place was half the amount I pay at my place. And I didn't want to break him financially, so the agreement was for him to pay what comes out to 1/3 of the rent here. And that's perfectly fine by me.

That being said........

Only up until this past month, he has not bought any groceries for the house BUT he eats an insane amount of food. Oftentimes, while he's drunk/drinking

Man is she hobosexual or something?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-21T17:01:57+00:00

Women, how aroused would you be if you were on a date with a guy and he said this in this tonality ?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m7XHmIe0u-0&ab_channel=flatwyd

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-21T17:23:38+00:00

For men being “the problem solvers”, its fascinating seeing the male lonliness epidemic not being given any solutions and its basically whining that “Women are too picky and feminism caused this to our poor men”.

I don’t like anyone here but this was some unironic based shit right here. I ain’t gonna do anything because personally I don’t give a fuck, my dick is still getting sucked, I’m still getting fucked, I’m not dumpster diving like other men are, so fuck you I got mine.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-21T17:26:43+00:00

Do you think trans men face less harsh preferences than cis men? There was this girl I went to college with and after graduating she transitioned. The thing is, as a woman she was pretty attractive, kind of had that alt siren thing going on. She was tall for a woman, seemed like one of those dominant female types but more in a feminist way, not in the bimbo Stacy way. Anyways, she is a guy now and she just looks like a 12 year old husky boy. Like she looks like the kind of guy that would be like "where's my hug at?" she totally looks like a nice guy idk. It's like so many trans men just ruin their lives by becoming ugly men when as a woman they would have had so much opportunity and potential.

Johnsky321 · 2023-08-21T17:30:35+00:00

This sub will argue for eternity before admitting that most men and women are different save for a few similar features.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-21T17:34:09+00:00

When women say, they dont care about a mans money, what they really mean is - as long as he makes some level of money and usually similar amounts to me- . In their minds, broke men don't exist and they don't recognize them as people.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-21T17:39:05+00:00

Maybe Islam was right about women all along

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-21T17:39:22+00:00

Bro literally just alt music maxx and tattoo maxx, take a fake photoshoot that looks like you're in some post hardcore band and meed alt music girlies that way but say your badn broke up. So easy.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-21T17:41:21+00:00

Who you meet is a biased sample.

you’re a lot more likely to run into people who are similiar to yourself otherwise you wouldn’t cross paths
you’re more likely to meet people who enjoy socializing and have less barriers that prevent them from socializing

When women say most guys they know don’t have issues getting into relationships or sex, they’re probably mostly telling the truth, but guys they know is not representative of men.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T17:43:51+00:00

The red pill: *Whines about society demonizing men.*

Also The Red Pill: *Encourages men to leave their wives after she gains weight from pregnancy.*

Proof that the manosphere appeals to dumb men, because a smart man would realize that’s contributing the very problem they hate.

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-21T17:56:59+00:00

Loser: You’re gay

picture of my dick in a pussy on my profile

Yeah, very gay my man

foxylilthing19 · 2023-08-21T18:06:59+00:00

Should people follow society or their own personal choices?

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-21T18:12:32+00:00

Just remember, the rappers that so many guys idolise and call womanisers........are not only spending money on random women but are also bragging about it. They pay for pussy or at the very least create the illusion that she'll get paid somehow from having sex

potoricco · 2023-08-21T18:13:57+00:00

My school friend started talking to me again I’m so happy

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-21T18:14:11+00:00

I applied to a bunch of jobs pre emptively before moving across state next week. Do I explain that to them? They want me to interview this week and I'm like uhhhhh

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T18:18:16+00:00

There’s plenty of women who arent stuck up, pleasant, and arent shallow. Thing is, they also expect the guy to be a decent human being. Like he actually has a great personality and its not just him THINKING he has one just because he’s not a Chad.

potoricco · 2023-08-21T18:22:13+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/bvpp7lm2aijb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0b6337e9789635a1d3fc5d696f4700d11c87218d

Guys how feminine is your voice

meteorness123 · 2023-08-21T18:26:15+00:00

What are some great or your favorite examples of 'womanese' `? The ones I think of on the spot :

I dont care about money = I care about that he makes at least some level of money and that he's also at least as competent as me
I value kindness in men = I desirable men to be kind to me
I love you = You are my best option

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-21T18:26:46+00:00

Step-brother is crying because he has to spend 30 days in prison due to domestic abuse.

Pathetic.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-21T18:27:38+00:00

To all the young guys out there struggling, don't get too hung up on women. You're worth more than how much attention you get from the other gender.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-21T18:33:19+00:00

I very much dislike finding out what PPD users look like. It’s never a positive emotional reaction for me

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-21T18:34:18+00:00

Guys you know you better watch out Some girls, some girls are only about That thing, that thing, that thing That thing, that thing, that thing

Girls you know you better watch out Some guys, some guys are only about That thing, that thing, that thing That thing, that thing, that thing

Zabadoodude · 2023-08-21T18:39:28+00:00

I've been helping homeless people in my area by explaining to them that they shouldn't get too hing up on housing. It's a want not a need, after all. It's dry under the bridge too, and winters aren't too cold here. Their worth as a human being isn't dependent on their housing situation, so they need to learn to be happy with their life as it is.

Some of them seemed weirdly hostile to my message, though. I was only trying to help. With that attitude makes sense why they can't find a job or a home.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T18:44:18+00:00

I never understood why we’re still saying “The good ones get snatched up quick” when the average age to get married is nearing 30 and younger married couples are more likely to divorced. And considering that Gen Z is mentally ill, trying to get into a relationship ASAP sounds like a very bad idea.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-21T18:48:12+00:00

Today I used my masters degree + multiple spoken languages to teach autists on Politcal compass memes how to use ChatGPT correctly to get the correct definition of men or women using Spanish Arabic and Urdu to contest the English academic orientalist definition.

Fun times.

SianOiseau · 2023-08-21T18:56:12+00:00

"Do you really like living like this?"

The ads are getting more and more aggressive lol.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-21T18:56:38+00:00

Phrases that are instant red flags:

"I'm brutally honest"

"I'm an empath"

"People can't handle my sense of humour"

"My confidence intimidates men"

"I'm just too nice"

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-08-21T18:56:53+00:00

Why do women who complain about sexual harassment act like every woman has the same issue? None of the women I know have been sexually harassed and manage to happily go about their lives unbothered. Sounds like a personal issue of a few people!

meteorness123 · 2023-08-21T19:02:19+00:00

I wonder if anybody gets this meme :

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/F4Dd0hHaMAAiUxS?format=webp&name=900x900

Peacesquad · 2023-08-21T19:15:02+00:00

Breasts

Peacesquad · 2023-08-21T19:16:06+00:00

“If you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best”. Damn women are delusional lmao😂😂😂

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-21T19:18:26+00:00

That moment when a woman likes something and is like "yes, this will be good" and has that nest-making female energy.

Woman moment.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-21T19:28:07+00:00

You lose money chasing women but you never lose women chasing money.

This is so bizarrely accurate. Every man should have this quote framed in their appartment.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-21T19:31:26+00:00

So cringe when rich people are preaching and giving heartfelt advice about how to "make it" like they are doing some morally good, righteous thing. Society is structured in a way that it NEEDS a lot of bottom tier people, the percentages are set. So just stfu and let me deliver your pizza for minimum wage. I know you want it.

potoricco · 2023-08-21T19:33:49+00:00

I have baby fever omg

I’m in a checkout line and there’s a baby in front of me and he waved at me

Sooo cute

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-21T20:04:39+00:00

My (26F) fiancé (26M) sat me down yesterday and gave me a long talk about how he feels like I don't contribute enough to the household, particularly in the financial sense. I was a bit caught off guard by this, but was willing to hear him out, since he wasn't wrong. He makes a lot more than I do, and we've always split bills accordingly, which ends up being about 80% him. I asked what he wanted me to pay now, and he was adamant about it being 50/50.

I asked if everything was okay with his job, or if he needed to take fewer hours, and he wouldn't answer me. I honestly wouldn't have gotten upset if there seemed like an actual reason behind it, but he just said he'd been thinking about it a lot, over and over, every time I asked what brought him to this conclusion, what was going on, and eventually he just said "this is how it's going to be, take it or leave it." Those exact words, in response to literally everything I said. Full shutdown. No explanations.

I told him that was fine I'll take it, and then asked if he'd made a zillow account yet, or expected me to. He looked confused, and asked why we would need a zillow account. I explained that there's no way I can afford half rent on our current place, so we'll probably have to move into a one-bedroom apartment. He got mad and asked why I didn't have savings. I told him that I do, but I'm not paying rent out of my savings, because that's a terrible and unsustainable idea. I also began to go over what our new food budget would be, our new entertainment budget, and that we'd probably have to sell the cars and get one less expensive one because I can't afford half of the payments on an Audi and a Land Rover. Then I explained that date nights would probably have to be reduced too, and we could still do, like Buffalo Wild Wings or something, but I preferred Thursday nights because you get two orders of boneless wings for one. Basically, if he wants me to pay half, we're living within my means, not his anymore.

He kind of agreed to it, but since then, he's been incredibly angry. He's not saying or doing anything, but it's like he's walking around the house in this cloud of pissed-off. I sent him six zillow listings, all of which he's called uninhabitable for various reasons, some of which I think were valid, others I disagree with. He's now saying that I'm being unfair and manipulative, and that he tried to come to me with a serious concern about our relationship and I'm making it impossible for him to talk to me, and bulldozing over him.

AITA?

Lol.

PPD: thoughts?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-21T20:05:55+00:00

There's this story about Leo Di caprio putting on headphones and vaping during sex and telling the woman "Alright, go" while he is zoning out and putting in no effort at all.

What a legend

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-21T20:17:38+00:00

Is there anything more gay and cucked than being in prison? Like bro there is nothing, but men around you and the lack of women tend to make anyone with a slight gayness mega gay. So have fun getting raped by Big J while whatever women you were with gets railed by other men.

antisplatter · 2023-08-21T20:25:59+00:00

does the back button keep breaking on the Reddit app for iPhone for anyone else?

SadistLordofLykos · 2023-08-21T20:26:05+00:00

Q4W: What do you do to make your man’s day more pleasant?

PBtoast707 · 2023-08-21T20:29:42+00:00

Almost every time I go to Chipotle, a family of 5+ races and beats me to the door, then takes ten minutes to order and get their food. I will take less than ninety seconds to order and get my food but they absolutely cannot let that happen before them.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-21T20:34:32+00:00

"You should give your woman more attention"

If l do then she's gonna complain more

See it's like a yawn ball and a cat

You give a little bit to follow you but if you give the entire thing, then it's gonna play with it and easily get bored after

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-21T20:39:29+00:00

Honestly, thinking back on dating throughout my life…it’s fucking boring. 😂 And I realize dealing with people is alot easier when Im preoccupied with other stuff.

potoricco · 2023-08-22T01:22:05+00:00

I want to work at a country club

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-23T01:22:32+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/0w42yrgyhrjb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b765a145524e68218cda7742fd9125dbe14f54ce

Baby duck friends.

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