Daily Community Chat Megathread

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-11T01:17:43+00:00

It’s eyelash day…I found someone who will come to my apartment to do them. Bonus is she brings her tiny dog with her and he snuggles with me during the lengthy process.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-11T00:00:04+00:00

It seems we've caught a cold. I'm making a huge pot of chicken soup, so we'll have something to eat when/if we both get fever.

Maractop · 2023-09-10T23:39:06+00:00

I always find it confusing when women say their husband stopped pursuing them. Like do they want him to act like hes trying to still win her over or something? Because I dont think they mean going on dates because going on dates with someone you are in a relationship with doesnt mean you are pursuing them. And what is the male version of this? I dont think its sex because ive been told its normal if the frequency of sex lowers as you get older. And most men just put up with it. So what is the equivalent of a man still pursuing his wife for women?

TigerRude4 · 2023-09-10T23:31:31+00:00

I don't hate promiscuous women, I just don't want a relationship with them.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-10T23:31:06+00:00

Manosphere loves saying sexual experience with women is important but l would say dating experience in general is important wether it includes sex or not

If you've kissed at least 10 women from the time you started dating, then l would say that's good experience

Or had more than five girlfriends in total, that's also good experience

Or approached one/two a month, that's good experience

Doesn't always have to come down to hooking up but at least dating

TigerRude4 · 2023-09-10T23:28:25+00:00

Most women here consistently deny preselection, AF BB, hypergamy, existence of Chad, women in group bias and other obvious red pill truths you can see often and you think you can get a constructive debate with them? You're an idiot.

TigerRude4 · 2023-09-10T23:26:06+00:00

I thought the dead bedroom subreddit could lead some guys to some red pill truths, but I guess the blue pill programming is way too deep. I literally saw a post where OP said: "You can be attracted to your wife and she could still not want to sleep with you" This was meant as not wanting to sleep with him at all, not one time.

potoricco · 2023-09-10T23:17:18+00:00

I’m dead ass a genius

Last year I would submit links to google docs if I didn’t finish something on time because we had (chr*mebooks🤮🤮🤢) and they didn’t have Word so google docs was our only option. And I would just keep editing the documents after the due date and the teacher deadass never found out until like the end of the year 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹and then banned us from submitting links so I wasn’t the only one probably

I work smarter not harder

TigerRude4 · 2023-09-10T23:14:41+00:00

"Body count doesn't matter"

"You should lie about your body count"

Pick one

TigerRude4 · 2023-09-10T23:13:00+00:00

Woke people and women relatively rarely disagree with each other. When they do, they almost never express that, even anonymously.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-10T22:37:47+00:00

A common pattern in these catfish scams is that the scammed are always focused on how attractive their “lover” is: https://youtu.be/aL4hQ1k4o3E?si=dHqLDRb38SOp7mPR

So yes, I can totally believe that alot of guys who complain about “all women being terrible and shallow” just want to fuck a hot girl and aren’t paying attention to if she’s a walking red flag.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-10T22:36:35+00:00

I remember getting status-pilled in my teens. I had a lot of attention from girls, then I completely lost all my status around 15-16 (losing the female attention as a consequense as well) and then I managed to regain some around 18 again.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-10T21:53:23+00:00

Guys saying they were lied to about female nature typically lied to themselves.

“I was taught Women Were Wonderful by the media”

You mean when the evil queen poisoned Snow White because she hated how mucb prettier Snow was?

You mean when an evil bitch and her daughters abused her ex-husband’s kid and treated her like a slave?

You mean the evil witch who cursed a baby because she was salty no one invited her to the party?

Not even the OG Disney Princess movies believed “Women Are Wonderful”.

Even in Tangled, a witch kidnapped a baby and locked her away just so the witch can stay pretty.

Where the FUCK did guys get the belief Women Are Wonderful? It definitely was not the media because evil women werent uncommon.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-10T21:33:11+00:00

I was talking to this girl who asked me "what type of girls do you like?" My gut reaction is "thin girls (who have a healthy 19-21 BMI) of course" but she was chubby at around 23-24 BMI. She had a cute face though and I wouldn't have minded sleeping with her. I froze up because my kneejerk reaction was too strong and was like "uhh idk". I took the question too seriously and could've just deflected with something "girls who treat men well" or "girls with {insert her hair color} hair (there are billions of them)".

meteorness123 · 2023-09-10T21:23:15+00:00

 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man. She must be quiet. Timothy 2:12

potoricco · 2023-09-10T21:17:12+00:00

It’s like everytime I go outside I get reminded why I never do

I literally saw a cove of insects 🤢🤢🤢 and they were like crawling on the grass. Pretty sure they were babies because I saw some ugly caterpillar kind of creatures mixed in, and then they would just fly away it was DISGUSTING i hate going outside. Can’t wait for winter

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-10T21:11:48+00:00

Every time a topic that includes economics, politics or demographics comes up in this sub,i litterallly won't to gouge my eyes off after seeing 99% of the comments

"Guys,men don't get laid, that means an incel revolt will happen or somehow women will become slaves or we don't have kids because alphas and feminists"

Please, have a detailed informed view when saying crap about that stuff,it ain't"oh how can I get dates???"

SianOiseau · 2023-09-10T20:56:09+00:00

I'm trying to change my style to look my age...and I got a comment that I look like a schoolgirl in my dress. That's a bit upsetting.

Woman, you aren't even that older than I am 😮‍💨

Maractop · 2023-09-10T20:52:37+00:00

People love saying attraction and beauty are subjective but get upset when someone they think is objectively attractive gets rated as low or average. As if its insulting to have a different opinion on the person. Its contradictory. Like how that guy who said emma stone was a 6 (which is above average) had everyone going after him saying his standards were too high. I dont understand how saying someone is above average is an insult. She is seen as objectively higher than that so people thought it was disrespectful. This is why I say beauty is more objective with some subjectivity.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-10T20:52:31+00:00

Another thing about guys acting like stereotypical women: Expecting you to read their minds because their communication skills are shit.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-10T20:36:12+00:00

When a woman crosses a line :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlL3p9qNYog&ab_channel=JesusTheMesiah

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-10T20:18:22+00:00

I will always find it fascinating when dumb guys insist “Women and men are totally different” but will do 90% of the same thing the women are doing.

“Men are logical. Women are emotional and care too much about feelings” while these guys ignore stats/facts that debunk their views based on their feelings.

“Girls just love drama” while these guys start petty drama either by shit-talking for no reason or fucking around with walking red flags.

“Women only want the best” while they keep trying to find the hottest sluttiest young woman they can find.

“Women dont know how to take responsibilities for themselves” while they explain that guys are NOT to blame when every woman they know being a vapid shallow bitch. And apparently, shouldnt have to pay child support for their biological kids.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-10T19:35:43+00:00

Should you wreack havoc on those who have wronged you ?

demedermidimi · 2023-09-10T19:35:25+00:00

a glass of coke with ice is such a simple yet delectable treat

potoricco · 2023-09-10T19:26:09+00:00

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🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Still not reading that book. Idgaf

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-10T19:26:06+00:00

I watched season 1 and season 2 of vinland saga. I like the theme of " you have no enemies". Some of yall should take this advice. Women and men are not your enemies. Let all the anger and resentment go.

supremethrone · 2023-09-10T19:25:52+00:00

Oh boy. Are we about to have a new moral panic because that one actor got sent to jail for rape? That guy you think is OK? Actually he's a fucking rapist

https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/16ez4ub/christina_ricci_has_some_thoughts/

Ylduts · 2023-09-10T19:17:56+00:00

In western countries women are equal under the law and yet they ask for more. I challenge these women to spend a few years outside of western countries and then report back. I’ll be interested in hearing about your adventures in the Middle East.😂

potoricco · 2023-09-10T19:17:48+00:00

I want a diamond ring 💍🖖

TheBluePillRipper · 2023-09-10T17:59:13+00:00

How bad do you think the outrage would be if they released a punching bad dummy like this:

https://www.istockphoto.com/photo/punching-bag-bob-dummy-in-gym-young-woman-kicks-gm1320563188-407086729

but instead of putting a male looking dummy, they used a female looking dummy?

potoricco · 2023-09-10T17:45:33+00:00

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Would you eat this 🔥🔥🔥

md8716 · 2023-09-10T17:42:52+00:00

My favorite people in the economy are childfree men and women. Because when I see them, I see people who have no reason to leave any kind of inheritance or wealth behind, and are more apt to work until they die and spend whatever wealth that dozens of generations of their ancestors left behind immediately while they can enjoy it.

Being able to capture their consumption spending and put that into my own family's wealth where our kids are encouraged and set up to procreate and continue the family line, is one of my primary goals in life.

mummydontknow · 2023-09-10T17:31:38+00:00

To all those who complained about disney brainwashing you, I have a lyric to say that it was always in your face.

From Victorious, "Take a Hint" song.

"Why am I always hit-on By the boys I never like"

You have to be attractive to hit on women.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-10T17:30:37+00:00

Never teach them enough so that they can do without you.

potoricco · 2023-09-10T17:28:21+00:00

I honestly hate how sports brings out the worst in men. If I could remove one thing from this earth it would be football (both NFL and FIFA) My dad was being super rude to me because the channel he was watching Nfl on was messing up and he was trying to get me to fix it and bossing me around and being SO RUDE I hate it like it’s not even my fault? Literally was acting like he was going to have a mental breakdown if he missed .5 seconds of seeing big ogres running into each other 😱😱😱 And the tv is literally fine so he acted like a man baby for what

DerayRevan · 2023-09-10T17:18:34+00:00

Am just gonna copy/paste since l whole-heartedly agree with it when coming to being attractive to women

"Face and Height are not the only things women look at. Looks may get your foot in the door a little easier but really what matters is your body language, conversational skills, overall fashion aesthetic and m the ability to express your sexual interest in a positive and endearing way"

Guys seriously need to get out of their blackpill mind and realize women have other attraction/arousal triggers which isn't linked to your physical appearance/looks

Now again before some irrational/emotional person attacks me for saying looks aren't important, we all know universally looks are important but to say it's the only thing women want/look for is completely wrong

old_new_age · 2023-09-10T17:17:32+00:00

Part of the reason I don't think all passport bros are reprehensible or that every famous man who fucks his fans is deplorable, is because I think most relationships have some kind of shallow prerequisite. Everyone has some superficial reason they're dating their S/O, because even if that strong emotional bond of 10 years+ would keep you with them through sickness, through weight gains and weight losses, etc., that's obviously because....that bond is already there. Dating would be super easy if you spawned in the same house as someone with a decade of emotional attachment wired into your memories with them, but that's not how it works.

So even if a guy gets laid by being American in the Philippines, or by being famous, how is that different than...a guy who's extremely physically attractive getting laid anywhere? Is he inherently taking advantage of people because he looks good? If not, how is that different than someone getting laid or getting relationships because of their nationality or fame?

If most relationships were born out of this true pure love that transcends all forms of superficiality, you'd see a lot less "looksmatched" couples and more 10/10 women dating 3/10 men, or 3/10 women dating 10/10 men. People "liking you for you <3" is something that happens once you've already known them for a while, and people tend to pick and choose which methods you use to get to that point are morally disgraceful or not.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-10T16:59:37+00:00

How would you define “a hobby”? How often do you do it? How long have you done it? Do you need to be good at it? Etc.

And do people really count traveling as a hobby?

DerayRevan · 2023-09-10T16:51:04+00:00

"Women are the worst at giving dating advice"

Then don't listen to them, guys who wanna complain about women giving bad dating advice are the same guys who simultaneously always ask for it

scwizard · 2023-09-10T16:45:52+00:00

reddit recommended a "passportbros" subbreddit to me, it and it was filled with men who travel to developing countries to take advantage of impoverished women.

What are passport bros favorite countries these days?

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-09-10T16:39:47+00:00

This guy is the chaddiest guy around, learn from him.

https://www.reddit.com/r/JustGuysBeingDudes/comments/16ew6jd/the_best_plan_possible/

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-10T16:05:20+00:00

82 lays in 2 years. Numbers most men can only dream of (OP told me on another post that he was abstinent for 2 years prior because his gf who he lost his virginity to cheated on him which led to this sexual escapade for him). He posted his tinder profile cause people were asking. He’s a 23 year old 6’0 British designer who partially lived in the U.S. so not a surprise he was killing it in the states. his unique look combined with his height and accent had him playing on easy mode

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-10T15:57:07+00:00

Ok, I've been keeping this one in the drafts but I'm going for it. What is the deal with rosebud porn? It's like a trainwreck but I can't look away. I'm kind of into it, but mostly because I'm addicted to the shame I feel from liking it and I also generally dislike women because of my own insecurity. Mentally there is also this feeling that if I dislike it then I am weak. Like, as a teenager I was shocked to find that so many people were already sexually active, so by being repulsed by this I just feel like it is some kind of weakness or inferiority.

But like, isn't that bad for your body? I don't want to feel the bad feelings, but how are girls ok with doing this to themselves? How are so many guys ok with the girls doing this to themselves? Idk man, it's fucked up but I'm still kind of intrigued.

Ylduts · 2023-09-10T15:50:52+00:00

As the years go by its becoming harder and harder to find a woman who was raised right. Many younger women can’t even cook.😳

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-10T15:42:56+00:00

Q4M: Why do you think women report such high levels of domestic abuse/beatings despite claiming to have personality detectors?

Q4W: Why do your personality detectors seem to malfunction so frequently?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-10T15:31:18+00:00

Alcohol is the least masculine thing to drink. It lowers your T - levels, gives you chubby cheeks, a fat belly and impairs decision making.

Drinking Alcohol is for betas, not the superior masculine man.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-10T15:23:52+00:00

anyone want to be accountability buddies?

my goals: i want a bmi of 20 and the confidence/ability to approach any man that could makes 6 figures. i guess i really never realized how invisible most men are until now 😪

No-Regular1667 · 2023-09-10T15:16:18+00:00

Q4A: What do you score on the “robot test”?

https://arfer.net/games/robot-test

supremethrone · 2023-09-10T15:16:10+00:00

God, I'm so bored I just wanna order something and binge. Video games are boring, movies are boring, TV shows are boring, books are boring, hobbies are boring. Life is just so unbelievably dull and boring

Workaholiconew · 2023-09-10T15:11:58+00:00

It is getting ridiculous....

Great aunt died last week... I wasnt that struck by it... I was just a bit out of it... just a little less productive remembering the death of my grandma (who raised me).

A woman I was having something good left me... just cause I wasn not "as interested as always"... and "staring into the distance"...

For fucks sake... a guy cannot even be a bit less productive and them hoes flee.... I am getting too old for this shit.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-10T14:59:18+00:00

One of the problems guys have is that they rely on data to determine the conditions of the data market. This is not suitable because relationships occur between individuals, not between data sets.

supremethrone · 2023-09-10T14:58:48+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16eo794/my_bf_turns_me_off/

cuck decides to open up his relationship and will now regret it, unless he's into it obviously

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-10T14:54:04+00:00

Q4m: perfect date, what would it be like?

There are quite a lot of men here who say that dating is hard and not very rewarding, that most dates are “just ok” at best. So what would need to happen during a great date?

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FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-09T23:01:20+00:00

First

Fabulous-Assistant16 · 2023-09-09T23:06:03+00:00

Starfield is mad

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-09T23:09:15+00:00

I hear alot of girls say they like big noses on guys attractive, why is that?

Answers like so I can sit on his face will not be accepted. Ur not doja cat

Barneysparky · 2023-09-09T23:17:56+00:00

My husband and I grew up with stereotypically at the time 60-70s wasp parents who are till death do you part and had very traditional English roles.

While getting to know each other we maintained the sucrssful parts of our parents relationship and have tried our best to ditch the not so good stuff. We talked about expectations going forward, how both of us could optimize our life satisfaction. What works for us, what doesn't.

AngeCruelle · 2023-09-09T23:22:52+00:00

Him: Oh yeah I love video games

Me: (Yayyyy) Oh haha same, what kinds?

Him: On my PC-

Me: (Boooo)

dbz__f · 2023-09-09T23:23:49+00:00

Woke up with the song “you didn’t have to cut me off” stuck in my head, started singing/mumbling it without realising while still half as sleep in bed, gf was like “you didn’t have to what???”

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-09T23:32:13+00:00

Nothing beats eating deli meat straight out of the container tbh

Berzabu · 2023-09-09T23:36:03+00:00

PPD users who are or have been in a relationship:

How did you meet your partner and what made you feel interested?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-09T23:44:30+00:00

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gabejohn · 2023-09-09T23:48:50+00:00

Why do people need to make female attraction so needlessly complex? It's really no different from a man's.

The basis of all attraction is sexually dimorphic traits. Traits linked to higher testosterone are liked by women, traits linked to higher estrogen are liked by men. That's all there is to it.

Testosterone positively correlates with all these traits:

Social dominance in animals
Muscles
Height
Sharpness of jawline
How deep voice is
Wideness of shoulders
Penis size

That's all there is to it. Personality doesn't really matter, lions don't watch Marvel. Your brain just tells you to mate with that person and you can't help it thanks to the beauty of millions of years of evolution.

All you need to do to find attractive traits for your gender is to simply look whether it correlates with either testosterone or estrogen.

mike-sonko · 2023-09-09T23:51:05+00:00

Prediction for tonight's fight: Adesanya knocking out Strickland with a swift kick to the head.

happy_discus · 2023-09-09T23:52:31+00:00

I want to cycle around the lake of Konstanz so badly but I injured my foot. :(
Now I have to wait for two weeks.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-09-09T23:53:02+00:00

Could we come up with a coherent theory or framework on mating and attraction if we assumed most people posting here were right?

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-09-10T00:01:34+00:00

There’s another side to the ick coin. It is stressful to know that some subtle inexplicable thing can kill attraction. But there’s also subtle inexplicable things that cause attraction.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-10T00:14:35+00:00

Man,why all the "muh self improvement" shitty gurus always left out stuff like humour and Charisma?

You can be the most attractive person ever physically,if you are as blunt as cabbage, it won't help

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-10T00:29:29+00:00

Some people say men need to lower their standards but it's not even possible.

Even if the average man hits on fat/ugly women or women way below his league, there is no guarantee he gets laid. He has to convince her to sleep with him through a long, grueling and uncertain process. He still has to hit on and invest in 10 fatties to be able to sleep with one. It's not just the amount of effort but also the randomness and no guarantee of success. If investing 1 hour of your time into one fattie ugly woman guaranteed sex, it could sort of be enjoyable and worth it. But you have no idea if it'll just be wasted sunk cost or not. It's never easy if there is a high amount of effort and randomness to the result.

I don't even like fatties but I would get free BJs from fattie women between 23-35 BMI if it required no effort. But if I have to pretend to be interested in her and spend an hour getting to know her and buttering her up, with a high chance of it falling through and having to restart with another ugly, it's just not worth it.

Convinceparents · 2023-09-10T01:01:30+00:00

Just broke up with someone I was planning on marrying next year. Forgot how it felt since I did not date for 6 years prior to this one. Maybe I need another hiatus

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-10T01:33:00+00:00

Women are the worst at giving dating advice, their advice always comes from the angle of you wanting a relationship and the woman already having interest in you, they don't give you advice on how to get laid, I remember how frustrating it was when I was inexperienced getting such bad advice.

"Just be yourself"

'Treat her like a human being"

"Your personality is the most important thing"

Like come on, why can't you just give me advice on how to get laid instead of getting relationships?

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-10T01:57:57+00:00

i wish men gave me advice on how to rinse other men. i’m unfortunately still inexperienced so i don’t really get special benefits besides a little money and some dates which aren’t special at all - i still have to annoyingly spend time with and pretend to like men just for a date i don’t want to be on.

all i hear is “gold diggers are bad” and “men just want sex”

why don’t men just tell me how to get resources without giving sex???

Uglypostwall · 2023-09-10T02:00:58+00:00

I have tried shampooing my hair with coffee powder, and it is working.

potoricco · 2023-09-10T02:12:52+00:00

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Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-10T02:20:49+00:00

what's the proper way to hit on a girl in my lecture section. we don't sit together and we've talked once before class

old_new_age · 2023-09-10T02:42:54+00:00

im a chad guys https://voicecel.org/

https://preview.redd.it/io1wy9ppccnb1.png?width=636&format=png&auto=webp&s=9059dceb76c2c63c2e973d1fed6e06563b877ceb

potoricco · 2023-09-10T02:44:33+00:00

Male physical prime: 18-21

Female physical prime: 18-100

Luciansleep · 2023-09-10T02:52:50+00:00

Why do we keep saying that women’s preferences are more varied?

If it’s cause if K pop or timothee actor or whatever they still fit the same things that we say women find attractive.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-10T02:59:19+00:00

It's pretty confusing as to why feminists keep acting like the average woman suffers from rape- average women will never be raped in their lifetime

huhwhatokok · 2023-09-10T03:02:00+00:00

Take my shirt off and the hoes stop breathing

potoricco · 2023-09-10T03:09:13+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/48ngoj0bhcnb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5eae14e99f442e30775a459b2adaed20b7737b7a

“Why do fat western women hate passport bros”

“Lol they’re just jealous”

I used to watch this guy on tiktok, i always knew something was wrong with him

potoricco · 2023-09-10T03:17:34+00:00

I have exactly 1 day to read a 178 page book

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-10T03:27:21+00:00

I see many women with attractive bodies but I never see women working out, what’s going on?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-10T03:38:57+00:00

"If my partner has an issue with me going out to nightclubs every weekend with my girl friends, he's controlling and insecure!!"

Imagine every weekend you knew that your partner was going out to the club, you knew that he'd have many women hitting on him, some of them more attractive than you, some of them would be a better fit for him than you, they'd be buying him drinks all night, trying to get him drunk so they can go home with him, relentlessly pursuing him all night.

If you had that happening with your partner you'd not be okay with it, you'd be uncomfortable, and don't pretend otherwise. That's the average man's experience when it comes to their girlfriend going on girl's nights.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-10T03:41:18+00:00

Whenever you hear someone claim sexual harassment, you should express doubt and skepticism until proven otherwise. It's sad but the toxicity and lies surrounding the MeToo movement leaves us with no choice

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-10T03:49:06+00:00

Ok PPD People,tell me how high are my standards:

Similar political views

similar values

similar hobies

similar fitness level

similar earnings (if we end up living together or whatnot)

50/50 or responsibilities and expenses

similar personalities

ambitious

artistic

gives a lot of personal leeway

doesn't force me to change to fill her own ideal of boyfriend

chill and laid back

similar level of education

talks about many interesting topics

potoricco · 2023-09-10T03:59:44+00:00

Dogs and dog owners are sooo fcking annoying

DO NOT GET A DOG THAT YOU CAN NOT CONTROL

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-10T04:13:37+00:00

The "personality is the most important factor" copers are the funniest people on dating subs

SianOiseau · 2023-09-10T05:19:13+00:00

Our roommates are away and I'm afraid I won't be able to walk when they come back. The vigor.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-10T05:36:17+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwocqXCr5g9/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Not all hero’s wear capes

Maffioze · 2023-09-10T07:23:28+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ya0qj9ksqdnb1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63e5962b601aaf3b1a571142bf98d70f46cfe4ce

First destination: Paris

md8716 · 2023-09-10T07:33:18+00:00

I swear there's nothing in the world that's more lazy, worthless, impotent, and utterly useless than fake revolutionary internet kids unironically saying shit like "eat the rich" and talking about lining people up on a wall or guillotines or whatever.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-10T07:33:41+00:00

I think having a job is extremely helpful for confidence, I've felt super confident since I got my job and it's really helped me develop better perspective already.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-10T08:06:47+00:00

So the young Thai wives of my husbands contemporaries have decided they don’t want to know me. The husbands too. When he tried to set up a social gathering, the dudes asked “how old is she & much does she weigh?” I’ve been shunned 😝.
Meanwhile, social butterfly that I am I’m having great fun getting to know my adjacent neighbors. They are all very nice young guys.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-09-10T08:36:00+00:00

https://english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/

blebbyroo · 2023-09-10T09:56:34+00:00

You guys ever read something and literally want to wash your eyes out and then wonder how tf some people became the way they are?

blebbyroo · 2023-09-10T10:29:23+00:00

Baby in bed, glass(bottle) of wine, chick flick on. Even though I do miss hub when he’s at the bar I admit I do like the time to be able to watch embarrassing and cliche romance or chick flick shows or movies with wine because whenever he’s home I let him put whatever he wants and just watch that.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-09-10T10:41:08+00:00

Incels who think women hate ugly men are just projecting. In reality women don't care or really think about men they aren't attracted to.

If you look at any incel forum and see how they talk about women they wouldn't date such as women over a surtain age, women with children, women who are fat or have tattoos etc. They're pretty vile.

Ylduts · 2023-09-10T11:22:39+00:00

Anyone else associate green bubbles negatively? It’s not a strong correlation but it exists….. 🤔😁

hannahg000 · 2023-09-10T11:38:44+00:00

consuming so much romance media is not good for me. i want to be so in love that nothing else in the world matters and being apart from each other is painful.

not necessarily healthy. but it’s what i want.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-10T12:03:48+00:00

Idk why people get surprised when they find out the typical actor is broke lol. First off anyone can declare themsleves an actor, there’s no barrier for entry. Secondly you know how many people are in a film aside from the main stars? From the random people who are pretending to be shopping in this one scene to the guy who bumps into the star while he’s walking on the street? How much did you actually think he or she was getting paid? And that person had to know people or suck dick just to even get THAT spot. It’s Sami near impossible to get into a toothpaste commercial lol.

For the record I don’t feel sorry for them, they chose this path, a lot of them thought they was gonna be the next Jlaw or Pitt foolishly it’s just something to think about

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-10T12:04:28+00:00

I saw a meme that said the guy who is actually smashing her is not saved in her phone as anything lol

Ylduts · 2023-09-10T12:17:34+00:00

Met an attractive 25yo non promiscuous woman, did I win the lotto? 😉

potoricco · 2023-09-10T12:18:15+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/dls0j69b7fnb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2c006bd1ab54b444aadf3e0f9ac1bcabe5b8a536

Men are always assumed to be the victim

potoricco · 2023-09-10T12:28:38+00:00

I’m so sick of Reddit honestly.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-10T12:33:41+00:00

While scrolling through Twitter I saw a video of a person vomiting and now I feel sick and my day is ruined.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-10T12:35:02+00:00

q4m: what’s stopping you from being a gold digger and dating a fat undesirable unpleasant older woman?

if you do this, you won’t have to work

potoricco · 2023-09-10T13:06:20+00:00

How should I let people at my school know it’s my birthday soon? Last year I wore a happy birthday pin/ribbo. and I hated it because it was attention seeking and embarrassing. But I don’t like being forgotten. My birthday is on a Saturday this year

potoricco · 2023-09-10T13:19:07+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/3ch2zds8ifnb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a7fe775a77e9fb0efd7f94392328ab2692302a29

hannahg000 · 2023-09-10T13:24:54+00:00

how long do you think it takes to fall in love?

Blocksplain · 2023-09-10T13:28:21+00:00

Has anyone observed a dip in literacy on Reddit lately? Like, starting over the past few months, on many subreddits, post titles read like they were fed through a translator twice and posters are regularly unable to conjugate verbs correctly, and as far as I can tell, these are not bots. It's happening to PPD now.

bsmith440 · 2023-09-10T13:34:48+00:00

Why do so many modern women have main character syndrome? So many think the world revolves around them, and ALL eyes are on them constantly.

DesolateDanse · 2023-09-10T13:46:06+00:00

I like when “average/above average young men” on Reddit start going on a spiel about themselves wondering why they haven’t attracted any women yet and then mention they’re engineering/comp sci majors. Of course you’re struggling when you have to spend every night studying while business majors finished their coloring homework early and went out drinking. That’s besides the fact that pussy is not to be found in those disciplines, “women in STEM” only applies to biochem 💀

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-09-10T13:48:35+00:00

If you tip more than 15% you're unironically a massive tool.

Go take a look at r/serverlife. These people are making $50/hr+ for a basic ass job that a high school kid or a robot could do, thanks to oversocialized idiots like you throwing money at them because it's "customary" or whatever.

They're actively against proposals to abolish tipping in favor of a $20-$25/hr base wage because they're making BANK on tips that they largely avoid paying taxes on.

There is no jurisdiction in Canada or the US where servers can be ultimately paid less than minimum wage. In the US the employer has to make up the difference if the base wage + tips isn't equivalent to the hourly minimum wage, and where I live in Canada(Ontario) the minimum wage of $15 applies equally to servers.

I NEVER tip when I eat out and I feel zero guilt. You wouldn't tip a cashier at the grocery store. I NEVER tip when I eat out and I feel zero guilt. You wouldn't tip a cashier at the grocery store.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-09-10T14:06:45+00:00

Also on a slightly related tangent, the power and opportunities that women get from their sexuality is insane and many of them don't recognize it for the privilege that it is.

Unlike what many women here claim, it's far from just a minority of genetically gifted hotties. Most of you can look good to men by not being fat and wearing a lot of makeup.

They don't even have to do degrading shit like stripping or OF. As I said they can easily earn $500+ a shift being a server or something, thirsty dudes will throw money at them for bringing them food. And if they want a free meal they can just hop on a dating app and find some chump willing to take them out.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-10T14:14:15+00:00

Q4W: Why do you think the men here report such bad experiences with callous and manipulative women?

Q4M: Where are you meeting women that you're having such bad experiences with callous and manipulative women?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-10T14:17:28+00:00

Life on easy mode -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16e4tlp/girl_who_canceled_two_dates_is_asking_why_i/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-10T14:18:52+00:00

Looks & Status > Good personality, always remember -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16dva3q/would_you_date_someone_you_arent_sexually/?sort=controversial

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-10T14:38:17+00:00

I think the only people as bad as science deniers are the people who put down religion as a whole. They're so smug and mean about it.

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