Daily Community Chat Megathread

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-14T22:11:06+00:00

I put so much cheese in these eggs I'm not eating eggs with cheese

I'm eating cheese with eggs

potoricco · 2023-09-14T21:48:06+00:00

Is it just me or body count discourse is virtually nonexistent outside of like pill/manosphere spaces? I’ve literally never seen anyone talk about that, now I have heard of girls being seen as/called slutty but that had to do more with their attitude/the guy making shit up/her appearance rather than the truth. I can’t imagine anyone caring unless they were religious or something

Sillysheila · 2023-09-14T21:44:17+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=g9p7YJ6a9F0

Hitting 9 years with my husband this month. I feel this video in my soul lol

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-09-14T21:40:26+00:00

Where would you draw the high body count line?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-14T21:40:13+00:00

All the jobs my bf is applying for and will probably get means he can't smoke weed anymore. He's like "I can just hang out with you while you're high" not even the same thing. I don't want to be around sober people when I'm high. Devastating tbh

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-14T21:37:36+00:00

Anybody got their 30 minute of High intensity interval shower training in today? 💧

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-14T21:25:48+00:00

After seeing those alien post, now I only want to fuck aliens. But since i can't find them, I will only fuck women who look alien-ish. It's over for women who don't look alien-ish at least for me.

https://imgur.com/a/lJI0cVp

gabejohn · 2023-09-14T21:25:34+00:00

Carry on my manlet 'cel

You'll have sex when you smell well

Consider your small size blessed

Don't you cope no more

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-14T21:19:27+00:00

These are the voyages of the sexship enterprise, it's 5 year mission to explore strange new worlds and fuck the aliens there. To seek out new life, have sex with it, and then never call it again, and new civilizations to have orgies with. To boldly go into holes where no man (or woman) has gone before.

Hire me porno writers

potoricco · 2023-09-14T21:17:55+00:00

I WANT TO BE SHORT

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-14T21:12:23+00:00

I was just joking about giving him a hug. Does he have an impressive skill like good musician or dancer? Combine that with good charisma, I like to think he would have a good shot. But why [x] women specifically?

He wants to ''level up'' in social standing.

I don't think I've ever had such visceral disgust at a comment in my life. Imagine wanting to date someone simply to increase your social standing.

Awful fucking people.

I never hear women saying this shit. It's always men. Even if women do this shit the fact that someone is comfortably openly willing to state this means we don't have enough social shaming towards men.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-14T21:11:11+00:00

After eating keto bread for a while it just kind of tastes like cardboard

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-14T20:49:57+00:00

I’ve been told that men who date women with “a high body count” lack self respect.

How very presumptuous.

gabejohn · 2023-09-14T20:35:32+00:00

Is the Godfather good? I have a feeling it's going to be painfully slow.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-14T20:26:41+00:00

Q: Have you ever felt so chronically tired you could barely even move and you felt like you have no energy at all or something was holding you back ? If yes what was it and how did you resolve it ?

TheBluePillRipper · 2023-09-14T20:19:22+00:00

Are there any normal human beings to seriously date in America anymore?

I’m fairly centrist, but all the girls that I see on dating apps are either wokies that don’t make good long term partners (either tatted up, massive body count, dislikes men, has psychiatric disorder, etc.) or some insane conservative (believes in conspiracy theories/Trump cultist, demands you strictly adhere to gender norms while loosely adhering to hers, lowkey racist).

Where are the ”normal” women who believe in equal rights for both genders without double standards for male gender roles & male = problematic oppressor bullshit, acknowledges Trump lost the election, doesn’t think the slightest critique of women is misogyny, isn’t a gun nut conspiracy theorist, isn’t promiscuous af, isn’t an actual racist, etc.

Literally the only women who don’t fall into one of these undesirable archetypes I encounter are immigrants or daughters of immigrants.

Also f off with your “touch grass” nonsense, they’re the same offline once you actually get to know them.

¡Buena suerte y ande con Dios!

TapeEater6969 · 2023-09-14T20:19:06+00:00

every time I see someone say the ancient greeks were gay I want to bash my head against a wall. its so blatantly untrue. For example Aristotle wrote the pederasty was a disease akin to plucking out your hair or eating dirt and even Plato in Laws referred to homosexual sex makes one lower then an animal likens it to whoring and wrote that sexual intercourse between men should be prohibited

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-14T20:16:57+00:00

I have the eternal problem that I literally cannot eat enough to gain muscle (I simply do not consume enough calories) nor am I eating little enough to lose weight

If I want to gain weight I need to eat around 4500 calories on days that I wrestle and do MMA.

If I want to lose weight I need to eat around 2000 on the days I'm not wrestling and only lifting and throwing the dummy and hitting the hammer. I just feel so fucking hungry on days when I'm not wrestling so I overeat on those days. And on wrestling days I undereat because I don't want to wrestle and fight on a full stomach and I literally do not have the time to eat as much as I need to

So I'm in an eternal loop of staying at around 175 with like 22% body fat.

Pain

princedune · 2023-09-14T20:06:51+00:00

Guy's whose only experience with dating was before the swipe apps and social media became popular had it so damn easy. Their advice is completely useless to anybody today.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-14T20:06:18+00:00

Something I really hate that my colleagues do is if they have to @ here on Slack they'll be like "sorry for the loud ping!" It's like first of all, we're not an English company, who the fuck says ping, and second of all, that function is available for a reason. If you were really sorry you wouldn't be doing it, and even if you do it who fucking cares? So we all get a notification, whoop dee doo, we'll live. Jeez, I hate the forced pleasantries.

phosphophyllitekun · 2023-09-14T19:42:37+00:00

Thoughts on "geomaxxing" to the country of your ethnic origin? I will look like everyone else, but then when they talk to me they will realize how whitewashed I am. I can learn the language but I will be speaking my own language with a broken American accent. Kinda pathetic huh?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-14T19:28:09+00:00

The boy must die so the man may live.

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-14T19:27:44+00:00

Finally watched the Spider-Verse movies, they were in fact really cool. And then I came across someone talking about how Gwen is like the best trans character ever, cause it's finally some trans representation without all the special treatment and emphasis on them being trans, instead they are just portrayed as a regular person. And I was like... wait, what? So I looked into it a bit and it seems like it's a popular fan theory that is based on very very little. She has a "secret identity"... like literally any Spiderman ever. And there was like a pro-trans poster in her room... which is apparently something they tend to drop there in Marvel movies. And that's pretty much it.

I don't feel strongly about this or anything, if trans people find her relatable that's cool and all, I just find it really funny that the "best trans representation" is a character who's transness is portrayed so "subtly" that they are basically just cis. Just... lmao.

TapeEater6969 · 2023-09-14T19:24:45+00:00

it's kinda sad how people have such kneejerk reactions on any topic regarding race or cultural friction or immigration. It's a topic that requires serious dialogue and engagement but if the only people who are willing to tackle it are racists then its not gonna end well

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-14T19:10:23+00:00

The movie series "Nymphomaniac" weren't works of arts, they were social commentary on what the median man's experience with women will be like, through the POV of the priest.

Rainbowdark96 · 2023-09-14T19:02:48+00:00

Purple is my favourite color💟💜

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-14T18:59:23+00:00

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Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-14T18:38:54+00:00

I tend to make assumptions here.....such as...

In my mind, when a male poster says, "most women", they are referring to 1-3 women in their family and/or a handful of Tiktoks or Reddit threads. Wildly concluding "most women". For example, the single mom thread.

When a female poster says, "most men", they are referring to men they've interacted with, their friends have interacted with, their family have interacted with, etc. They are pulling from dozens upon dozens of lived experiences.

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-09-14T18:30:43+00:00

You guys try out Feeld yet? So many couples. Many of whom seem to have a mismatch between the guy and girl's body fat percentage. I understand Feeld attracts a type and couples are probably overrepresented just like there's dating apps I do well on and dating apps I don't. It really makes me feel like dating has changed now seeing all these couples that don't care if you sleep with their partner either separately, together, or together but only with them watching. They tend to be older generation as well. I think I ran into one single girl in her early 20s looking to experiment and several 50ish year olds.

MysterySolverDog · 2023-09-14T18:13:13+00:00

Beard, stubble, or clean shaven?

Update: Clean shaven currently winning by a landslide

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-14T17:52:07+00:00

Those 1980’s teen movies mostly sucked to me

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-14T17:43:03+00:00

I had to approach students to do interviews today. They were all nice but wow that was actually difficult.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-14T17:33:38+00:00

Yesterday our friend couple posted pics together. I told my husband how good they look, especially her. “She has such a great body, no curves at all!”, because she truly has virtually no hips or waist. Apparently this would not be something I should give her as a compliment?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-14T17:27:10+00:00

Turned around to see my co-worker looking at me smiling, sorta held eye contact for a second. It's probably nothing but I kinda wished I talked to her lol.

I'm probably overthinking it. In the end I hope we can have some sort of friendship.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-14T17:25:03+00:00

i think I have CTE

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-09-14T17:24:31+00:00

The cat has started knocking shit down when he wants something. The other night it was for his dinner (cause I forgot to feed him), today it was because I wouldn't get his toy from under the oven after he shoved it there for the 10th time. People were right, cats are dicks.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-14T16:51:26+00:00

Bro, delayed gratification, self control and rejection of degeneracy is the way of the superior masculine man.

Stay masculine, always

DuetLearner · 2023-09-14T16:38:53+00:00

I know a 5'1, balding Indian man (from India) from India who wants to date white women. He's an accountant living in Dallas.

What would you tell him?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-14T16:37:32+00:00

I wanted to play hooky today and just grind BG3 while my shitty music plays throughout the house (boychild at school, husband at work).

But it seems like I have to actually work today which is very disheartening.

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-14T16:12:43+00:00

You have no excuse.

y2kjanelle · 2023-09-14T16:07:04+00:00

why is everyone so obsessed with what everyone else is doing? Okay a promiscuous person got in a relationship or got wifed up…what’s that have to do with ur lonely bitter ass?

I srsly don’t understand the people who r like super lonely and bitter criticizing people who have casual sex or were promiscuous and settle down.

Stfu for once and learn something so we don’t have to deal with ur whining that no one wants you after u were being a fucking asshole to everyone.

It’s so embarrassing.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-14T15:41:16+00:00

"Dismantle the patriarchy, it's disgusting that it's 2023 and we still adhere to traditional gender roles!!"

"Do you ever make the first move with men?"

"...That's not my preference."

platinirisms · 2023-09-14T15:34:00+00:00

Nothing makes me cringe more than going to /r/all and seeing posts from /r/aliens or /r/UFO and seeing 1000’s of people genuinely believing people have found actual aliens flying spaceships.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-14T15:22:28+00:00

Just when I was about to call it quits on Bumble, it sucked me back in again.

I've been having a truly horrible dry spell, but a match actually showed enthusiasm and is putting energy into the conversation. And she has a body of a pornstar, it's killer! I'm excited to find out what her red flags are, she's mid 40s, single, owns her own company and is the sister of a B level hollywood star apparently.

I seriously can't wait for the weekend. Just hope John Mayer hasn't hit it, that would be a deal breaker.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-14T14:51:56+00:00

Chivalry is Sexism, princess treatment is entitlement. Both reinforce the 'toxic' patriarchy's ideas.

Stay W0kE

meteorness123 · 2023-09-14T23:31:59+00:00

People who are healthy are so privileged.

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HolidayWhile · 2023-09-14T03:01:36+00:00

First

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-14T03:07:29+00:00

There was a meme I keep seeing on Instagram where it was like “when you find out your boyfriend is not the leader of his friend group” lol. I was like so basically if this is Entourage, he’s Turtle? Nothing wrong with that, behind every great man there’s a sidekick. Michael Jordan had Scottie Pippen, Batman had Robin etc

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-14T03:09:23+00:00

Why do women cry after sex? At some point during my time on Reddit, I subbed to r/sex and everyday on my feed some girl posts that she cried after sex with her bf.

Ladies help me out with this.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-14T03:09:51+00:00

I bet if you asked people what’s your great grandfathers first name and if you say it right I’ll give you 1 million dollars large segments of the population would fail. I only bring this up because there’s these constant discussions of “legacy” when 99% of people are forgotten by their own damn family within a generation or two much less strangers.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-14T03:20:36+00:00

Been seeing this for almost a month now.

https://www.nbcnews.com/specials/lesbian-bars-resurgence-united-states/index.html?cid=mob_npd_nn_and_mar

I'm pro LGBTQ+ (or whatever various ways its called now), but women want everything to be exclusive for them even in these spaces. For a group of people who suffered constant discrimination, its astronomical levels of hypocrisy when people within that discriminated group discriminates within that same group. It wasn't enough to have a safe space, but now they want their own.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-14T03:36:32+00:00

I don't get why women squander their beauty standard privilege. By just being at a healthy (19-21) BMI, they have the close to optimal body for their genetics.

As a man, you can be at a healthy (19-21) BMI i.e. be at the optimal weight for health and for facial aesthetics, and still be considered a skinny nerd. You have to to spend 2+ years working out to not look skinny at a healthy 13-14% body fat. Being bulky and with a lot of muscle is less healthy than just having a lower body fat % with little muscle, so being at a 13-14% body fat is ideal. Men have to go through bulk phases where your face looks bloated and ugly and then cut down on a special diet, while pushing themselves many times a week at the gym painfully going near failure many times in a single workout to really get that hypertrophy.

And at the end of the day, it's all just to be unattractive. Getting muscle isn't going to make a man attractive. It'll just make him not a skinny nerd.

Women can have it all for free. Health and facial aesthetics without even working out or having a special diet. Being at a healthy (19-21) BMI doesn't just make women not attractive. It straight up makes women attractive.

Beauty standards are so lenient on women. It's so easy to be attractive as a woman. I just don't understand why women don't take advantage of their privilege.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-14T03:36:44+00:00

Imma rage bait to get banned.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-14T04:22:36+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/ThailandTourism/s/21PPVThBqI

Meanwhile a young man ponders an uncertain path forward with a Thai woman.

HolidayWhile · 2023-09-14T04:35:52+00:00

College towns are the only places left with a majority female demographic (well, for different reasons, high-crime cities are too). As a non-student, if I visited a college town, what's a good place to connect with college women?

SianOiseau · 2023-09-14T05:16:47+00:00

Cousin's husband gifted her a car for their 10th anniversary without discussing that with her first. They're paying the mortgage. She was...perplexed but still grateful.

My husband and I opted out from gifts for our 5th anniversary, but I'd like to prepare something special for the next "round" date. Not a car though. I don't think I can realistically choose a car for him and I'm not sure we'd be in the right financial situation for this kind of gifts.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-14T05:18:27+00:00

Women are attracted to only a small subset of men. Most men will never attract or find a woman that truly desires them. She might settle with him if she’s running out of time and he has something worthwhile to offer.

Why does this upset you? The world has never and will never be fair. There’s so many examples. There’s no purpose to life. You will die and be forgotten one day. Thinking otherwise is just some just world fallacy nonsense.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-14T05:39:45+00:00

Would you ever willingly enter into a relationship knowing it’s not going anywhere? Like risking there potential breakup and heartbreak one day?

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-14T05:41:39+00:00

It’s so hard to find an LTR as a guy these days holy fuck

janedoebreakin · 2023-09-14T05:43:54+00:00

I feel like I’m incapable of being accepted by other women. I always feel like I’m being judged and hated. Something about me just doesn’t fit. I’m a nurse’s aide at a surgery center that is staffed by mostly women. I’m miserable there and I want to quit. I’m almost 24 with an entry-level job there, and girls younger than me with bachelor’s degrees act like they’re so much better than me because of it. I feel like the only people who accept me are my parents and my fiancé. I want to talk to someone other than them sometimes.

scwizard · 2023-09-14T06:20:01+00:00

I’ve recently gone official with a man I’ve been dating for a couple of months. He’s kind, respectful and considerate, I really think he could be the one.

But something is eating at me.

I wanted to build slowly with this man, so we didn’t become intimate until after going exclusive. But between the first date and that point, I did see an old FWB a couple of times.

Back then I didn’t think anything of it, as I wasn’t exclusive. But I underestimated how much I would care for my boyfriend and I feel almost like I’ve cheated on him?

Have I done something wrong? Do I need to tell him? Will he end things with me?

Update:

There was mixed reactions here, but my gut told me I should tell my boyfriend.

He said “sorry, I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who does that”, then he blocked me on everything.

Wow umm ok...

Wow...

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-14T06:40:52+00:00

I think a flaw in alot of blackpill and redpill thinking is they see a girlfriend kind of like hunting, finding an animal and doing everything in your power to have it. But it seems like relationships are a lot more incidental, you don't go searching your wife, you meet people and make platonic relationships and perhaps you meet someone you have a connection with.

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-14T07:13:48+00:00

Is gender ratio that sever for it to be effective in preventing men from having a relationship?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-14T07:23:11+00:00

I miss schizoposting on Twitter to my audience of no one

dbz__f · 2023-09-14T08:46:43+00:00

Those of you who spend every night with your partner, what would you do if you had a night alone?

potoricco · 2023-09-14T10:28:21+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/07uxl9ta77ob1.jpeg?width=1081&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a41bbbe32cfbe16828d327a2e562f7d69d0d19f9

Ok look I absolutely hate age gaps as much as the next person but nobody over the age of 20 is still a child💀 I believe that childhood ends when adolescence ends

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-14T10:34:25+00:00

The attitude a lot of guys here have towards "female nature" frustrates me.

On one hand, they'll state that there is a biological drive for women to be highly selective with partners due to the need to ensure their child has the best chance of surviving and thriving. We as a species have developed biological signifiers that indicate a good male mate, i.e. strong, tall, courageous, high social standing and won't back down from a fight, your basic "Alpha traits". They'll frame this as something that is separate from morality, it's just biology and essentially it is what it is and you just gotta work with it. OK, cool.

Then in the next breath they will be incredibly snarky towards women who are highly selective, and bemoan that women's standards are too high and they need to stop being so delusional. They'll label them sociopathic, cruel and lacking in individual thought, just slaves to their biological drive. Essentially, there's clear animosity.

If you're going to act like it's all down to biology and women are just following their natural drive which has contributed to the most "successful" species that has ever existed, then frankly why the hate?

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-14T11:12:37+00:00

Why does bluepill so vehemently insist that human sexual preferences cannot be systemized, and that "everyone is a special snowflake teehee"?

Humans are animals and you'd be a fool to think evolutionary pressures didn't shape human reproductive behavior like they those of other animals.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-14T11:22:46+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Marriage/s/fWbN8o8iPf

I big fucking LMAO at this dude's last update.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-14T11:36:50+00:00

when i was 12 i was in love with this fictional character but in one of the books it was revealed he was gay. i was so heartbroken that i couldn’t finish the book for like a week

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-14T11:59:32+00:00

Ladies, what do you think about this tiktok.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJWB6RHD/

Basically, a woman says that men themselves are to blame for being lonely. Because that they cheat and don't treat women nicely. The content creator implies that she doesn't even consider the majority of men who are thirsty and cannot cheat evrn if they eished to.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-14T12:01:12+00:00

women love to say shit like "being wary of men is smart and it's for our safety blah blah blah"

honestly being misogynistic is good for men. $$$ women want to milk you $$$, they take advantage of men's love and lust for them. when you're misogynistic you're less generous with women, less likely to make dumb decisions like getting married to one out of "love", etc.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-09-14T12:18:39+00:00

I have never seen, other than online, a woman state that she had a healthy relationship with someone and it just didn't work out. The guy in question always has to be toxic.

Why do nearly all women have bad/toxic relationships? And how can it be explained in any other way other than what the red pill purports?

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-14T12:35:03+00:00

Why do women say things like: "Young girls do not want old men." When men say that they like young women?

How in any way is that related? It would be like saying that most wannabe doctors cannot enter medical school because that they are not preferred over others.

Why do women feel the need to bring it up?

hannahg000 · 2023-09-14T12:40:01+00:00

people bring their horniness to the wrong places. i’m on a language learning app and some guy is asking me if i like older men. the funny part is that he is 23 and i’m 20

PrettyBoyDanish_ · 2023-09-14T12:54:00+00:00

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-14T13:06:56+00:00

What’s your thoughts on Vaping? Are you about that vape life?

I remember a friend of mine who says she has a strict no smoking rule for potential partners, this guy told her she doesn’t smoke, then like at the end of their first date he pulls out a vape pen and starts smoking. She’s like oh hell no, never again

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-09-14T13:07:11+00:00

Unpopular opinion. Most of these issues are caused by western culture not being consistent with any form of morality.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-14T13:09:06+00:00

Is it just me or do the general threads not have the same volume of posts that they used to?

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-14T13:24:17+00:00

https://youtu.be/eGpiU3m9ws8?si=569CU3-0YalWA34_

Here is a Seattle detective calling a woman who was run over and killed by a cop (Seattle PD) while legally crossing a crosswalk “limited value” for being 26 and Indian. She was 23. I guarantee you that that dude is a “red pill” man.

baiser_vole · 2023-09-14T13:34:11+00:00

I think I have quite a strong foundation for a marriage compared to most people with both my boyfriend and I not believing in divorce after having kids, believing in restraint, doing whatever it takes to make things work, and both being really into one another physically.

But I gotta admit. Marriage is a bit scary even in my situation.

UneastAji · 2023-09-14T13:45:30+00:00

Don't ask sources over people's personal experience if your entire point is formulated from your personal experience. Don't be this kind of hypocrite.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-14T14:16:26+00:00

I may be a very weird mix of extreme introvert and extreme extrovert

Like,i can go for a month not seeing a person and be extremely calm and happy,and also loving going to social events with my friends and starting conversations and chuckling jokes with random people lmao

potoricco · 2023-09-14T14:25:52+00:00

I’m a rad fem again 🌹

potoricco · 2023-09-14T14:28:05+00:00

I’m so tired of this fake UFO/alien mongering unless you actually have something meaningful to say then stfuu

Peacesquad · 2023-09-14T14:28:22+00:00

There’s always something hilarious about seeing a man get on one knee and propose to a woman who’s fucked and sucked off a bunch of men that never took her serious

Peacesquad · 2023-09-14T14:29:17+00:00

What did I miss

hannahg000 · 2023-09-14T14:29:48+00:00

do you think the saying “nice guys finish last” can be applied to nice/good girls?

a better question being is a plain and sexually boring girl enough to keep a guy interested (whether he has other options or not)?

i might make a post about this. i’m interested in the responses.

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-14T14:31:29+00:00

If confidence really is one of the biggest things that women are into, then men having insecurities about their desirability, and asking women to have more empathy for that must be such a mindfuck for women. It's hard for me to imagine how that would be, honestly. Cause it's like the very thing that makes women go "ew", right? Like THAT is it, men being insecure about their desirability, that's exactly it. I mean women are saying this stuff too.

That truly is kind of weird. Cause for me, I get that being a conventionally unattractive (eg obese) woman must suck in some ways, but them being sad about it simply doesn't feel like that much of a direct attack on my sexuality. Seeing vulnerability and lack of confidence in women is just not that viscerally repulsive - them being morbidly obese is. I think that's why it's not THAT rare that men can hold back from calling a slim girl who is terrified of gaining weight a "terminally online femcel", we can probably separate these things a little better. Maybe women quite literally have a harder time empathising with men about this, like biologically, stemming from the very logistics of their sexuality, in which case it's an understandably hard task to make them considerate of male insecurities.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-14T14:47:51+00:00

I went to a barber shop for the first time in my life today and I liked it. I will be sticking to barber shops from now on.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-09-14T16:23:02+00:00

Getting usurped by sex objects and chads socially and financially is not for the weak. Sociopathy rewards you with shit, psychopathy gets you money and respect and young white women.

https://preview.redd.it/8qdvxsyny8ob1.jpeg?width=1049&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c8c435110ee0d42c8c97927514bedd5d114f006c

potoricco · 2023-09-14T22:47:24+00:00

Is it actually BAD to be a Disney adult? I love disney, and I’m going to go to Disney land by myself when I’m an adult because I’ve never went. But I’ve seen so much Disney adult hate recently like is it genuinely a taboo to be an adult who likes Disney?

potoricco · 2023-09-14T22:51:13+00:00

I won’t let you forget about him

LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-14T23:05:10+00:00

u/potoricco Do you still miss u/LillthofBabylon?

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-14T23:11:34+00:00

What is the best ice cream flavor? I need options. I want ice cream, but I don't know what kind.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-14T23:13:18+00:00

I can't/don't date older women bcz they look like my mother or remind me of my mother. (pun intended)

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-14T23:23:48+00:00

Ever wondered what it'd be like to hear Kanye sing an Adele song?

https://youtu.be/VQyLt-7GLBA?si=GqqmlcU1nfk50apt

potoricco · 2023-09-14T23:32:51+00:00

I too want to eat out of a clear Telfar bag

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-15T00:20:17+00:00

passport bro but I'm a woman and instead I go to china where according to my mom I can shamelessly find a man who owns a house, car has a good job and lots of money... she said I shouldn't tho bc they have bad personalities 😢😢

rutbb · 2023-09-15T00:20:40+00:00

Does something like a male glow up/HVM routine exist? Something with granular, actionable steps I can check off one by one.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-15T00:47:38+00:00

If you're healthy, bodily abled and you don't deviate too extremely form the norm physically, the reason why you don't have any succesful interactions with the opposite sex is a mental one. Mental and social deficienciesy you don't wan't or lack the skills to look at.

edgyny · 2023-09-15T00:52:53+00:00

Q4W: are you more sexually attracted to computer programmers or serial killers?

https://vole.wtf/coder-serial-killer-quiz/

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-15T01:17:47+00:00

I finally brought my cat peanut home from the shelter and the poor thing is terrified and won't leave the bathroom. Y'all got any advice on how to cheer him up?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-15T01:24:46+00:00

Semen retention is God's way of saying "Here's your redemption arc".

Let go of your lesser self and become a man that rivals the position of the ancient Gods themselves. Like Hercules, you will beat your human nature to rise up to Mountain Olympus. Become immortal. In spiritus et carne.

potoricco · 2023-09-15T01:26:12+00:00

God is able to enable the unable to be able❤️✝️

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-15T01:32:47+00:00

Males: “Ugly men will treat you good if you just stop fucking Chad for 2 seconds and give them a chance!”

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-15T01:43:50+00:00

I wonder how long a woman who has basic personal hygiene (a healthy 19-21 BMI and puts minimal effort in their makeup and clothes) can go without getting approached at a bar or club by themselves.

I just saw a woman who left her friend to go walk somewhere get approached in literally seconds after leaving her friends. Being lonely just isn't possible as a woman.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-15T01:50:10+00:00

Lmao,why people get freaked out with men watching porn, while the overwhelming majority of women also watches porn (i don't even touch smut,just regular porn).

Like Yeah porn addiction is bad and i agree and all, but it is weird to shame only mane for watching porn,when women do it too.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-09-15T02:08:00+00:00

Would you care if people that have had sex with your partner were invited to your wedding?

An old friend is getting married in a couple months. We hooked up a few times, if I was a normal person that didn’t have the brainrot this stupid subreddit causes it wouldn’t seem strange at all.

But because of this place I did wonder how other people would feel being in her groom’s shoes.

potoricco · 2023-09-15T02:19:52+00:00

Glowupgirl111 is my soulmate

potoricco · 2023-09-15T02:28:47+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/wmm07earybob1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=731edfa04d23e1a13dcdd3fd294c449923c8970a

It’s getting really old Selener

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-15T02:37:38+00:00

Today is the day…as soon as my grocery delivery arrives I’m starting a sourdough culture. It’s time to start baking in my tiny kitchen.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-15T02:45:51+00:00

Is icy -> big vulva alt account ?

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-09-15T02:50:16+00:00

I don't get why my stray cat is 110% vulnerable with me, moreso than the cat I've had for 9 years who is my greatest companion, yet petrified of anyone else

meteorness123 · 2023-09-15T03:07:40+00:00

Any natural sleep aid alternative other than valerian ?

potoricco · 2023-09-15T03:08:41+00:00

I am so full of resentment, I hate everything and wish I wasn’t born

DuetLearner · 2023-09-15T03:14:18+00:00

Middle Eastern women >>>>>Mexican and Central American women

Blocksplain · 2023-09-15T03:30:08+00:00

Damn, some women receive so much attention that they just so cool with exploiting a nice guy for dinner. Shit's fucked up.

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