Fuck the game

Painkiller967 · 2021-12-08T15:15:40+00:00

You had more sex than me this year congrats!

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-12-08T09:15:14+00:00

I like your username

Revengejefe · 2021-12-08T09:37:17+00:00

Once is better than none

command76 · 2021-12-08T15:58:21+00:00

Sounds like life has been hard on you. I suggest just trying to find joy in life again. Forget about the girls for a while. I know it’s cliché but a positive mindset goes a long was. Find out what makes you happy, and focus on that for a while.

TheTolietWhoSpeaks · 2021-12-08T10:30:57+00:00

I would say you put too much pressure on this. Treat the game as a game, it's a bonus to your life. You shouldn't need girls to be happy. Take a break man

Lanky_Banana8599 · 2021-12-08T09:28:16+00:00

I think you need a break…

Low_Fondant9911 · 2021-12-08T18:13:24+00:00

Maybe quit worrying about getting laid and working on yourself? Tf you think the game was, bud? Oh I try therefore I succeed? That ain't life B. Focus on leveling up and the biddies will come.

Therocksays2020 · 2021-12-08T09:31:49+00:00

This is a vent post so I’ll let it be but you are sending five paragraph conversations? No wonder you are getting ghosted.

Women want to go out with men who ask them on dates.

You’re going up to women in day game and telling them their attractive? Yeah that’s going to make them fall for you…

norwegiandoggo · 2021-12-08T13:05:26+00:00

You're doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. This is not how you improve your game. You shouldn't expect a lot of results your first year. The first year is mostly failing. You're doing several things wrong, like texting women many paragraphs and cold approaching women on the street by complimenting their appearance. Those are two huge mistakes, and those are just the ones you mentioned! Can you imagine all the mistakes you make in your game that you didn't mention here? It's probably more than 500. Shit takes time bro. Learn one piece of the puzzle at a time. But if you fail, learn from it. Don't do the exact same shit that lead to failure another 20 times just to fail in the exact same way 20 more times for no reason. You have to learn and adjust from every single failure and every interaction. You could have probably been banging a lot more women at this point if you actually took an active learning approach along the way instead of just racking up the number of failures by doing the same moves that don't work.

manuel_phoenix · 2021-12-08T19:50:28+00:00

The reality of things is that women are more brainwashed than ever.

It's social media era.

Why move an inch in real life when 150 dicks answer to my stories? They are aware that no matter what they will never be in scarcity.

Maybe it would also help by men side to stop running for every human being that has a pussy and actually search for quality.
Maybe then women would cool down a bit and come back to planet earth.

It's not normal to search for "gurus" and "rules of game" to hang out with girls or fuck, Jesus Christ.

BetaCuckSimp · 2021-12-08T19:39:04+00:00

Hey man I’m a little late here. Just letting you know I’m going through it too. And like others have said there’s a weird paradox where the less success you have, the more you want it, the more desperate you seem, and the less success you get, and on and on.

There comes a point when you have to figure out what you need for yourself, minus the women/sex/dating. Get really focused on physical and mental health, hobbies, passions, etc.

Then, surprisingly, you become a more well rounded and interesting person that tends to attract what you’re looking for, and the women gravitate toward you.

The old adage: less is more. Best of luck to you. You’re not alone.

Hayden_Beroc · 2021-12-08T14:41:55+00:00

I can feel your pain bro, I've experience it all except online game girls seducing me, girl smiling through her teeth when i approached, girl proposing me in RL after first meeting, girl telling me joke while daygaming her and some boner during kino escalation but when I am closing them they act like they were not even interested or give Fb or IG but no number closing or worst blatant rejection. Some girl i do close lead to being ghosted not even accepting the request from social media platform.

But remember bro these girls you've meet are fking somebody out there, if there is a chance that this somebody could be you would you take it?

random_af_guy · 2021-12-09T04:23:00+00:00

You, my friend, have just figured out the secret. You unlocked level 2.

You learned the basics. You learned what not to do that will blow your chances. And more importantly, you learned to stop caring.

Now that you stopped caring, go out into the world and find something worth caring about. Next time you talk to a girl, stop trying to sell her. You don't care, you have something much more important to care about. If she likes you, and what you care about, maybe she will follow. Maybe she won't. You don't care.

Fuck the game like it's your bitch. Tell this world who's boss.

burncushlikewood · 2021-12-09T07:19:06+00:00

I remember I used to be a virgin with no game, but I turned it around and where I live is a tough market, try reading some material watching videos and doing approaches, you'll get better man trust, don't let women get you down, it's hard out there for a playa, when I worked on my game, for 4 years, I became unstoppable and I was pulling, a girl I knew even asked me if I take girls home from the club often, get inside her mind

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-12-08T11:18:55+00:00

SELF IMPROVE, LOOKSMAX, STUBBLEMAX, LIFTINGMAX, SWAGGERMAX, CHARISMAMAX,..JUST FXXKING MAX.

"He who approaches as he is, gets a sprinkle of success...but he who approaches AFTER maxing will drown in it."

pentr45po · 2021-12-08T15:52:23+00:00

keep going but know the limitations. 'You can't seduce someone who doesn't want to be seduced by you' as they say.

HyakuShichifukujin · 2021-12-08T17:02:40+00:00

5 paragraph conversation? You’re doing it wrong. Online game is to quickly get the girl to either meet up or next because she would have wasted your time no matter what you did (95-98% is about right, you need to efficiently get to the 2-5%).

Save the long conversation for after you’ve met up, preferably for after you’ve already smashed your naughty bits together.

Sylar546 · 2021-12-09T00:32:21+00:00

Yea it feels extremely depressing when every guy you know can get girls except you. It feels like a curse, like a literal mental hell

Stunning-Field4388 · 2021-12-09T00:49:19+00:00

I 100% agree with this. Why do men who have no personality and treat women terrible get more luckier then I? Women don’t want a hard working man who treated them right and take them on dates. This generation sucks for dating.

viggerydoo · 2021-12-08T11:02:43+00:00

Yup, the game is rigged. That's why I'm not playing anymore.

StereoFood · 2021-12-08T16:48:55+00:00

Your second to last paragraph is so damn true.

2021-12-08T19:37:36+00:00

I with you dawg, me trying to so hard to be successful with women is why I struggle with them now. I’m starting to realize that I cared to much about sex and sleeping with tons of beautiful women. To the point I start subconsciously tip toe around them looking for their approval in the back of my mind looking for my next burst of pleasure. And this alone started fucking with my mental health and made me feel like sex was my self worth.

But in reality this shit holds no fucking value. There just human and alot of them have issues to just like me. I only wanted to be successful with women. To prove a point to people in the past who made me feel insecure for being a virgin at the time. This shit will no longer be my first or second priority in my life….probably won’t even be a priority at all. If see a women I like I’ll go talk her and I won’t try to act or do certain thing order for her to sleep me. I’ll just be honest and pure with my intentions when talking to them.

Own-Illustrator-3793 · 2021-12-08T21:40:20+00:00

So..some easy tips:

1) Text Game Improving: Study Playing With Fire on YouTube. Look up what he texts girls, write down everything he says, and now you have a glossary of advanced lines you can use in your own interactions.

2) Cold Approach: Study Todd V infields. I would write down everything he says, word by word, and memorize it, so I would have lines I could bring out in difficult situations.

This is how I started and it saved me a huge learning curve, because I just had to copy what worked for them until I learned to integrate it into my real self.

Todd's lines in particular got me waay more results than I should've been getting as an unsocially calibrated guy in the beginning.

LivingPlayful2737 · 2021-12-09T00:03:43+00:00

Feel you 100% my guy it’s annoying as fuck.

Jdaddyk07 · 2021-12-09T02:48:12+00:00

Facts dude.

Yes, you can get laid if you FOCUS on it, but god, but I already have a job, I'm REALLY not in the mood for another one.

I spend my time at the gym and watching the cooking channel. Every now and then I pick up my phone and look a bumble, swipe a few times, respond to one or two messages (I get consistent messages) and then just set it down.

I just don't care enough anymore.

NiceChad69 · 2021-12-09T05:23:46+00:00

The first 1000 approaches are just warm up brooo.

Did you shower broooo?

Edit 1:- Seriously though, Dating is generally based on looks, if you’re good looking, you will success. If not, then Looksmaxx. Join r/Blackpillscience

PetroBooming · 2021-12-09T06:22:31+00:00

Man, just go with the flow....or just be be toxic. Threat her like a shit and she will be in your sheets

andreecook · 2021-12-09T07:25:59+00:00

I feel ya bro! I’m sick of it as well! Sick of being treated like hot garbage and then all your told is “just move on” nah fuck that shit! These girls are able to just treat people like shit and treat them as expendable toys from one to the next and it’s made out like we’re the problem?? You try so hard to do the right thing, keep your chin up, don’t dwell on it but it comes to a point where you feel so worthless it’s not even worth it. Literally lied to for no reason, it’s bullshit and I’m sick of being told “get better not bitter” too, nah fuck that shit I’m sick of it too bro, not just you

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-08T13:10:15+00:00

Fuck online game. Where 98% of time I get into a 5 paragraph conversation and ghosted.

Um, that's exactly why you're getting ghosted lmao. No one wants to waste their time reading and writing paragraphs to strangers. Spend a few messages having basic small talk on the app, then ask them out.

Fuck real life. Where I talk to girls in these dirty shitty nightclubs, night after night so they can barley hear me and shoo me off after a 5 min convo.

Try going to bars instead. Easier to have conversations there.

And day game where they treat me like I’m a psychopath for coming up and calling them attractive.

What's your exact opener?

Fuck this shit bro. What’s the fucking pay off.

Getting laid is?

I’ve been in the field for a solid year, and I’ve gotten laid one fucking time from rl.

You're obviously not doing something right. That or you're objectively ugly.

200+ matches and 3 dates from online game.

If you're getting tons of matches, then you're not ugly. It's just your technique that's off.

Tired of getting shit on and ignored like I don’t mean shit. Like I’m not putting the fucking work in.

Fuck getting better and not bitter. Half of these chicks don’t have an ounce of value and literally their source of happiness is taking the next dick in the club and a insta pic.

Fuck all of this. It’s better to just get the fuck out while your ahead

This type of attitude is only going to make it harder for you to get laid lol. Recalibrate based on what I told you and you'll be fine.

Mmm91for · 2021-12-08T15:08:24+00:00

You’re right though bitches ain’t really sht. If you’re gonna hate the game then you better fuel that energy to something more useful. I’m telling you fam when you genuinely stop giving af about these bitches that’s when you’ll start getting them

131ank · 2021-12-08T19:12:48+00:00

I feel your pain bro, stay strong and keep on keeping on!✊

Shovel777 · 2021-12-08T22:04:44+00:00

Now you have the right mindset. Go out and do game with this fuck it I don’t care about the outcome mentality. This is the secret to game. Women can smell if you care about the outcome!

SirEjayyy · 2021-12-09T00:06:38+00:00

Focus on you King

Emotional_Sort2034 · 2021-12-09T01:38:16+00:00

Feel ya man. Have put 15-20% of efforts as you and still no good. LA is not the best city or game is fucked up in itself!!

elcanoscuro · 2021-12-09T04:11:02+00:00

Gentlemen, we just witnessed a sigma male being born. Start the grind

Troklokhan · 2021-12-09T06:22:09+00:00

Yeah, fuck the game. Even if you succeed, it's just not worth. Most people who succeed at game are those who base their entire personality on it, which is pathetic at least.

If you want then read Models by Mark Manson, it's a good read and not really "game". Focus on doing activities you enjoy, don't go to clubs unless you actually like clubing, stop using bullshit techniques and focus on being authentic. Look for a niche in which you can meat people that actually reasonates with you, and stick to it. Look for meaningful relationships, quality over quantity.

And overall, fuck the game.

excentrik-art · 2021-12-08T11:03:39+00:00

Wow much "fuck this" attitude ...

If a hot lady came with such attitude where, if I havent gave her what she wanted in like 5 minutes she would be like "fuck this shit", then yeah, fuck your shit I dont have time for you.

Seriously, google patience a persistence, try some of that stuff.

But I feel generous - try and text me here some of your "special" techniques, and we will see how we can help

TheTolietWhoSpeaks · 2021-12-08T14:42:38+00:00

Didn’t mean to say paragraph, meant a 5 sentence exchange.

Bars where I live, are pretty much just as loud.

Last time I did day game, literally walked over and said “Hey, just had to come over and say I thought you were pretty cute” got looked at like I was ab rob this chick. Even though I used the same opener 10,000 puas used before me.

lil_hiccup · 2021-12-08T17:30:14+00:00

Girls stand at the finish line waiting to fuck the winners bro, keep leveling up and good luck the grind don’t stop

valteri777 · 2021-12-08T14:59:09+00:00

Bro not to be corny and shi but this could be a sign to ghost everyone and work on yourself. Fix that mentality(respectfully), go eat right, get your grades up, get your money up, maintain relationships with loved ones, pursue your goals, pray. Don’t let getting laid be the center of you life.

thetrickster2k · 2021-12-08T16:11:07+00:00

Half of these chicks don’t have an ounce of value

Am sry sir, you just cant spit facts just like that

B0ssnian · 2021-12-08T16:24:40+00:00

Half of these chicks don’t have an ounce of value

Takes a while to realize that, better late than never. Why else would they play hard to get? They act like they're diamonds coz they know they're average hoes.

It's understandable you're frustrated, but it wasn't all for nothing. I'm sure you've learned a lot more through experience than you would reading posts here, even if they were quality posts.

Not only might've you inspired or reminded someone to aspire for what's better for them for their own sake and not for random girls (going to the gym, eating well, doing what you enjoy etc), but I'm certain you came to the realization of your own worth

Noblejunior · 2021-12-08T17:30:49+00:00

You’re the problem not the women. You can keep whining or you can do yourself a favor and ask the right people the right way for you to be taught. It seems like what you’re learning and practicing, you’re doing it the wrong way or for the wrong reason and that’s why you’re not getting better results. 1. First ask yourself why am I doing what I’m doing and for who am I doing it? 2. Is it really for the right reason I’m doing it? Take set back and look at what you’re doing and how they keep going wrong. You just doing it without analyzing what you’re doing and learning your failure

nigendra · 2021-12-08T18:22:03+00:00

I feel you bro.

Asperger1001 · 2021-12-08T18:30:51+00:00

So I went shopping like crazy these weeks and plan to starg going out after I learn how to dress myself. I think I will be you in a year, or even worse😂

elmsfordays · 2021-12-08T18:42:20+00:00

Your venting is refreshing lol, I can relate. The main difference between us is I've been focusing on improving my life constantly along the journey.

brandonmcgritle · 2021-12-08T18:44:33+00:00

This is a pretty intense post and I feel like you are writing this in a very emotional state right now.

What I would suggest to you is to take a step back for a while from dating & women altogether and focus on other things in life that you enjoy. Forget about the game, flirting, and all the bullshit that goes along with it.

Once you figure out other things in life that make you enjoy it more, you won't put as much emphasis on women.

Women like men who have more important things to do rather than flirt with them

Outrageous_Fill3231 · 2021-12-08T18:52:40+00:00

Can totally understand bro, it all seems so exhausting. The only thing that keeps me motivated is seeing the broke or trashy guys that some of these girls are giving it up to, which keeps me motivated to find out just what these guys are doing to be so successful with women

ObamaWhisperer · 2021-12-08T18:57:42+00:00

It’s this mentality man. Gtfo Reddit it’s a cancer. Every subreddit is just an echo chamber feeding into our subconscious. It seems that this subreddit is digging into yours and has created this worldview for you and dating. It is going to be an absolute BITCH to overwrite that save file (if you catch my drift) but I’m telling you. It’s all how you view it friend.

xfromzerotoherox · 2021-12-08T18:59:33+00:00

MY MAN SPEAKIN FAXXXX

p1nkdot · 2021-12-08T18:59:58+00:00

Preach bruh 🙌

willgo-waggins · 2021-12-08T21:56:19+00:00

I’m curious as to your age, physical description and all. Just from a standpoint of seeing what might be potential flags for women or reasons why your current approaches aren’t working.

Also tbh I recommend just not wasting time or money with OLD. There is a very narrow parameter that will get you to a place of being successful with that and it involves your appearance or a LOT of work and time invested.

TheRealBobaFettt · 2021-12-09T00:02:10+00:00

I find that if I put too much time and effort into it, you get diminishing returns and it stops being fun or even worth it. Find a happy medium and stay around there. There are many other worthy passions aside from sleeping with copious amounts of women.

Zealousideal-Bar-154 · 2021-12-09T00:08:07+00:00

Yolo!!!!

Moikepdx · 2021-12-09T01:27:57+00:00

If what you're doing isn't working, you should change what you are doing. It sounds like one or more of several things need to happen:

1) Work on yourself. Improve your hygiene, style, BMI, muscle, hairstyle, etc. Work on becoming attractive.

2) Stop being creepy. If a woman is telling you to go away after 5 minutes, you've stayed too long and become scary and/or repulsive. Ideally, you should leave while she still wants to talk to you. This is why the "false time constraint" is a concept. Don't overstay your welcome.

3) Have someone objective watch your approaches. You're likely doing lots of things wrong. Social calibration is important, and it sounds like you are not well calibrated socially. Getting some honest and direct feedback is probably the best way to change this.

This is not an exhaustive list, but the simple fact is that something is wrong with what you are doing. The fact that you are "working at it" does not mean you are working at the right things. Do something different.

AbjectScar3729 · 2021-12-09T01:38:22+00:00

Money=Girls thats the equation. Most of the girls look at your shoes and watch first. It's sad but true.

Sensitive-Permit-877 · 2021-12-09T01:52:20+00:00

Yeah dating in 2021 is almost a pointless endeavor except personal getting off. 99% of women and laws will fuck a man over after you break up. Women know men NEED sex sooooooo....

JustJuggles · 2021-12-09T03:28:45+00:00

Honestly this might sound nuts but I’m a firm believer in praying to the god of YOUR understanding. Idc what or who it is just keep asking for inspiration throughout your day, really focus for just a minute. Give it a week and believe it. What do you have to lose? Sending light and love your way dude it’s only up from here

RageBeastGusta · 2021-12-09T03:48:18+00:00

Notice how much you’re saying fuck.

Now realize how much of this is because you’ve only wanted to fuck.

Swallow the black pill if need be.

Be down in the dumps. And then let it make you grow the fuck up.

Become the man, YOU’D be happy living with for the rest of your life (cause you will).

And boom. The women will find you.

Business-Purpose-724 · 2021-12-09T04:48:54+00:00

This is the crucial step to being hella successful with women. Don’t reject this mentality, fully embrace it; it doesn’t fucking matter. You don’t need success with women to be happy. Getting women is a byproduct of being happy within yourself.

SuspiciousEssay3 · 2021-12-09T08:47:40+00:00

That's gold, Brother!! 🤣🤣🤣

FatherSun · 2021-12-08T17:25:14+00:00

BLACKPILLED lmao

shinymusic · 2021-12-08T22:48:37+00:00

Honestly man and what you need to hear in honesty. This is on you. If girls find you creepy its on you. If women get bored of you, again, it's on you. Go join an ultimate frisbee team and try meeting some new people.

emperatrizyuiza · 2021-12-08T18:05:45+00:00

Sounds like you hate women of course things aren’t working out for you

SitsDownToP · 2021-12-08T17:18:40+00:00

You’re acting like you’re owed sex or that each woman you talk to should simply know “you’re trying so hard” and should sleep with you just because….No one has to sleep with you!! You’re talking like you clearly don’t care about the women you’re hitting on, you simply want to get laid and that’s it! If you’ve matched with over 200 women and they’re all ghosting/blocking you fairly quickly, there is something wrong with the way you present yourself or the way you talk to them. You sound like you think it’s every individual women’s duty to make sure you get laid!!! Work on your attitude, your motives behind your conversations, and maybe work on aiming within your “league”…

smind893 · 2021-12-08T11:30:56+00:00

Feel like you need to be more present.

You're harping on the failures of the past that are long gone and the dread of a future that hasn't happened.

I respect your pov and have felt frustrated at this level about other areas of my life. However, it adds nothing to your life excepted wasted seconds and stress on the brain , heart and other organs.

Take a breath, go for a walk, take up shadow boxing or if need be, save up a few bucks, Google "AMP" in your area and get your nut off.

Then get back in the game and remember, it's just a game. Never take it personally.

Entire-Part1066 · 2021-12-08T16:50:15+00:00

Hahaha, hey man, you're doing good, just take a break and improve your approach to game. Sounds like you have good work ethic, but go in full meathead retard mode. Mix up your strategies and try different things, watch videos on game and actually learn.

Of course you're going to get shitty results if all you do is go in meathead mode and approach every girl with the same awkward 'hey thought you looked cute' line.

Odd_Plastic_2305 · 2021-12-08T18:07:26+00:00

Give yourself a break dude. Most of us have been there. Sometimes when you try to force things in life they just go in the opposite direction. Take some time to do things you enjoy (for genuine fun) and see how your perspective (and results) naturally shifts.

If you want some ideas, here are some of mine: Spending time with friends and family. Climbing. Calisthenics and learning about body mechanics. Going for hikes. Visiting new towns/cities.

I'm sure people can think of more fun things, but these are just a few off the top of my head that genuinely make me happy.

Make your life an adventure, make it interesting and chicks will be lining up to join in on your fun.

whomeverIwishtobe · 2021-12-08T18:50:13+00:00

Op dont take this the wrong way (you will) but I think you’re just being too try hard.

Remove the pressure. Have fun interactions where you have ZERO intent to attract or take things further. I don’t know why, but sometimes when you act disinterested it helps them be more interested.

Lower your standards. Maybe you aren’t as attractive as you think or the type of women you like tend to dislike you. Idk, just throwing out some options here I seriously doubt you’re that butt ugly nobody is.

Have you done 100s of IRL sets? Taken a free day or multiple hours a week to only approach women? Sometimes you have to open a lot of people to find success, teach yourself to talk to people, or just “get lucky”.

Do you see a doctor for mental health issues? Do you have depression or anxiety?

Are you a part of groups? Gaming groups, anime conventions, etc

Are you fit? You could always be fitter, women are just as shallow as men and improving your appearance will definitely help.

Have you tried being MORE sexual with matches online? What’s your kino escalation like? Do you have trouble pulling the trigger so to speak?

Who knows, who cares. Keep trying till you get it or quit. Nobody will notice either way we are all dust try to be happy or wallow in self pity.

8syd · 2021-12-08T18:53:44+00:00

bif oof pal....This line right here... "half of these chicks don't have an ounce of value and literally their source of happiness is taking the next dick in the club and a insta pic".

i bet you have a great personality that makes people want to be around you...

SunDevilElite42 · 2021-12-08T19:25:28+00:00

It’s American women trust me. I started dating foreign women who were not born in the US and holy shit it’s a night and day difference. So much more respect, way better conversation. Especially Latin women, there is some sort of traditional edict and morals that they adhere too that’s been completely lost in modern American women. I swear it’s the Kardashians they sold entire generation that being constantly rude and boring is what makes you attractive. Trust me bro try going after the foreign women that are new this country don’t waste your time on entitled rude ass American women, the grass is way greener over here.

xJohnThe1 · 2021-12-08T20:14:20+00:00

I don't mean to assume.. because I really don't know your situation. however logically it seems to me like you've been doing the same thing and expecting a different result. If girls are not invested after a 5 minute conversation, that tells me that your conversation skills may not be where you think they are. That is something even a guy who is not trying to get laid should be able to pull off especially with the friendlier girls who are more open to conversation. Like forget game for a second.. you saying you can't spark up a decent conversation shows an inability to quickly make friends with new people.. that is something literally anybody with social skills can do, regardless of looks or whatever.. yet you're not even making it to that stage? This is not to disrespect you brother, but again maybe you think your level of social skills are higher than they are.

And if you approach 200 women on the street and they all look at you like a psychopath.. after the first 2 or 3 times it happens what you do is try to figure out why and fix it. I personally wouldn't even approach again until I found out what might be wrong, meaning the next time I'd be going out would be as my test run to see if the change I made fixed the issue or not. And if it wasn't fixed, I'd just keep going back to the drawing board until I was able to advance past the issue. Are you approaching them from behind like a creep? Are you smiling while approaching or is your face subconsciously looking like you want to murder them? are you coming across robotic and cringe in the things you say? So many guys do stuff like this without even knowing. Approaching 1000x isn't gonna get you laid if there is something fundamentally wrong with the way you're doing it. Find the issues whether through watching videos, recording yourself and rewatching it, analyzing past interactions, or seeking professional help, and find out how to fix them. It's how every guy who's ever gotten good has gotten good

RaisinComfortable534 · 2021-12-08T22:14:18+00:00

Man, take your ass to the gym over this next year. If you are done with everything and everyone then you have ZERO excuses to skip a workout! You can blame laziness on anyone else but yourself. Gym's closed? Do some fucking pushups, crunches, squats and jumping jacks. Quit on this, sure. Quit on trying, ok. But don't quit on yourself. Do it for no one else and for no reason except for the drive and love of the pain. What are you going to do?

fiestax · 2021-12-08T22:48:48+00:00

https://open.spotify.com/track/4RWkW7tGWseUu1T9LzpEBP?si=-5uc9K0ORkq3b7oV3m-71w&context=spotify%3Aplaylist%3A64MZUThxid23JpfY7benMd

ItzYaBday1103 · 2021-12-08T22:53:14+00:00

…and this too shall pass

According-Mobile-993 · 2021-12-09T14:53:32+00:00

“Game” isn’t real and you proved that. You might be ugly (sorry if you are) but that’s similar to my experience except I never got laid or matches…… or went on dates. I’m 45 now so yeah lol

heatherleean · 2021-12-08T20:17:57+00:00

this whole post screams i hate women because they won’t have sex with me!

rosebudsxox · 2021-12-08T14:41:00+00:00

Maybe focus on making yourself happy without needing a relationship? Someone will come along without you trying so hard

JohntheAnabaptist · 2021-12-08T14:58:57+00:00

Date men?

EstablishmentLimp477 · 2021-12-08T15:32:16+00:00

How many approaches have you done IRL in night game this year?.

ebmnm · 2021-12-08T17:08:05+00:00

Its not fun if your trying super hard and girls will know if you are. Try a more easygoing approach

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2021-12-08T18:22:55+00:00

Dude, chase excellence not women. Once you're in your late 20s and you're doing better than most, girls will start to notice you and approach you. There is plenty of beautiful women, but it's the chasing excellence guys that are just a few. And it also sets you apart from the other guys. By then your game is not a trick, it is a part of you and responsible for delivering the results you have in life.

Imaginary-River136 · 2021-12-08T18:48:16+00:00

No one said it was easy in the first place and the best players had dry spells too just keep sourcing

Woujo · 2021-12-08T22:24:42+00:00

Half of these chicks don’t have an ounce of value and literally their source of happiness is taking the next dick in the club and a insta pic.

This is your problem. You hate women. How are you going to form an emotional connection with somebody you hate?

You are acting like all girls want to do is get fucked at nightclubs. Ok, then why aren't they fucking you? If girls were such stupid whores you would be slaying right? You either need to admit that you need to become more attractive or girls are not stupid whores like you think. I think the answer is both.

Your posts oozes neediness, desperation, and hatred for women, all of which are unattractive. You do need to take a break. I assume you don't have many friends. Maybe find some. Go find a new hobby. Focus your thoughts and emotions on something else.

byteseed · 2021-12-09T01:09:23+00:00

Stop doing online game. Stop going nightclubs. Start going places/doing things you like and pick up girls at those places! Nightclubs are only good for the approach skill.

IamWisdom · 2021-12-09T03:58:50+00:00

In true incel fashion. I could literally get 7 dates a week or more if I wanted to from online dating. You have to keep working on your text game apparently because I haven't been having that issue.

Illustrious-Goat-878 · 2021-12-11T08:48:25+00:00

u/TheTolietWhoSpeaks you are clearly not enjoying the game, and to me, it seems like you are focused on results (positive or negative). If you don't enjoy what you are doing, it will manifest in your words, your voice, and your body language and women will see it and it will turn them off. Try recording yourself using your phone, or a voice recorder while doing day/night game. Listen to your voice and see whether you sound confident, desperate or if you voice is strong, weak, etc. You will be surprised.

SecretNefariousness1 · 2021-12-08T21:55:28+00:00

Today I had the courage of going and ask a girl out, I ended up being ignored and getting one single phone number which turned out to be fake. I lack the social skills needed along with the appearance, that much I already know.

CrimsonConquistador · 2021-12-08T23:58:11+00:00

Don't let other people here gaslight you my friend. Look at these comments: "One is better than none", "Treat the game as a game", "Quit worrying about getting laid", etc. Do these responses solve your question?

You not getting laid is a symptom of a bigger problem -- feminism, the rise of social media, and the sexual revolution. Treating the western disease with 100s of hours of daygame is like taking a handful of painkillers because you have terminal lung cancer, that is to say a temporary relief but ultimately futile .

The truth is that 50 years ago, you as a man would have had been virtually guaranteed a wife. It didn't used to be this hard to get laid or start a family. It's not your fault. Let that sink in. Let it make you angry.

You have two options:

a) Put in a massive amount of effort compared to your ancestors to fight for scraps of pussy

b) Leave the west and enjoy virtually unlimited sex and financial freedom.

DM me if this interests you.

Abovemeis · 2021-12-08T16:49:55+00:00

How’s your physique? Are you well groomed? Do you wear good clothing? Do you have a style? Do you exude confidence? Are you somebody a woman would want to sleep with? Focus on becoming the best you can be and the women will fall in line. Sounds like you’re putting too much in to this instead of yourself.

throwaway79368 · 2021-12-08T16:51:59+00:00

I agree, I feel less valued to myself playing all these mind fuck tricks just to get a women. My generation is full of stuck up bitches. Fuck all that I’ll work on myself and let them come to me. STAY UP KING

FakeSafeWord · 2021-12-08T17:18:33+00:00

"taking the next dick in the club" "don’t have an ounce of value"

Yeah man, maybe go focus on something else besides getting laid. You're getting some unhealthy ideas here.

People can fuck whoever they want. They don't owe you shit and you don't own them. They don't sleep with you because they don't like you. That's on you. Not them.

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2021-12-08T19:54:00+00:00

Seddit has degenerated into a place where pansies whine about how getting laid is hard. Pitiful.

If you're not interested in learning to seduce, in opening yourself to rejection, get the fuck off this sub.

jlfb100201 · 2021-12-08T21:13:39+00:00

Imo you sound like a whiney bitch rn. No one owes you shit, girls don’t owe you sex for trying. People probably don’t like you because you’ve got some level of of entitlement and prickery about you. Go be a normal person, it’s not all one big game it’s life and if you live it like an asshole you tend to not have a good time. Next!

LaidBackAndRowdy · 2021-12-08T21:45:58+00:00

Well, it's pretty easy to figure out why you can't get laid 😂

You're so fucking focused on getting women to give you sex that you've flipped all of your priorities completely on their head, and now you're whole mindset is so twisted that you're going to fail miserably no matter what you do.

Enjoy being an angry, little incel.

TheTolietWhoSpeaks · 2021-12-08T22:39:15+00:00

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Estropelic · 2021-12-09T04:58:08+00:00

You're doing it all wrong oppie. Do you first, period. Hit the gym, get the gains. Set zero expectations bub. Report back in a year you louzy negative Nancy.

WillyM35 · 2021-12-08T16:32:38+00:00

You are trying way to hard. Time for some self care bud.

creamyturtle · 2021-12-08T18:01:31+00:00

hit the gym, find a way to make 6 figures, and buy some new clothes. then girls will show you with eye contact that they're truly interested. that's when you capitalize. you chased 200+ cold leads, what you need is a warm lead. start going out with groups of friends and meet their friends, this way they've already vouched for you and the girls are open to talking

EdUNC- · 2021-12-08T20:07:32+00:00

The second I saw 5 paragraph conversation is the second I knew you don’t have game. Keep things minimum regardless how long her “paragraphs” are. Stop with the emojis, “lol”, “haha”, “lmao”. Treat them like you don’t care to lose them and I promise your chances will increase

Starshine-moonlight · 2021-12-08T20:16:08+00:00

I thought this was about The Game (the one you weren’t supposed to think about & just did if I had to go down I’m taking you all down with me)

maplemario · 2021-12-08T20:51:44+00:00

Stop focusing on this indefinitely. you’re clearly mind fucked by it

ClassicPollution5 · 2021-12-08T21:03:31+00:00

Stop trying to get laid and start living your life. Getting laid is not the goal, try to have fun with other things.

Next time you speak to a woman, try to do the opposite and rule sex out of the equation.. just have fun and treat her as if she was "one of the boys".. DO NOT TRY TO GET LAID

CigarFrog · 2021-12-08T21:05:43+00:00

I was 40, fat, balding and penniless recently divorced than between my roommate and I gamed until I found the perfect woman, married had a kid, turn my life from a loser to a success story within 2 years of my divorce. During my single time, fucked strippers, models and an adult entertainer. I retired at #24. My roommate continue to game for another 8+ years. In a LT relationship currently with over 100 confirmed. He too, was brokeass and fat. So "The Game" works! - ZenMachine

Corndesu69 · 2021-12-08T21:14:53+00:00

If you want sex that desperately lower your standards, my roommate brings a different girl at least twice a week they’re ugly af but he doesn’t seem to mind

SoA_MC · 2021-12-08T21:41:13+00:00

You’re too entitled by the sounds of it. Like you expect results just because you “put the work in”. You need to be attractive, so either you are not attractive looks wise, or you are genuinely coming off as a weirdo even if you don’t realise it.

5_7pickup · 2021-12-08T21:45:42+00:00

Bro if youre struggling that much with game then you should just focus on career/money and pay for escorts.

I do night club game and I get laid pretty frequent but the girls i bang are definitely no where close to escort level. I just like to earn it more than pay for it.

cbh28 · 2021-12-08T21:53:41+00:00

Don't you think if everything goes wrong for you, that maybe you are the problem and not the girls? I mean, clearly some other guys are managing to get them, so why not you? This anger is just blinding you to the real problem: you.

bestinwpb · 2021-12-08T21:57:00+00:00

Start dating for a relationship and work on yourself physically. Being attractive or high value looking can smooth over many mistakes.

Individual_Mind_8652 · 2021-12-08T22:03:37+00:00

Maybe the “game” isn’t for you then. If you’re doing that much work then it seems you should start looking for a different kind of women instead of the the one’s you’ve been searching for.

Call me crazy but it sounds like you’re just tired from all your fruitless efforts. Since that’s the case you should attempt to be in a serious relationship or just focus on self improvement. If you have then switch something else up. The worst thing you can do is do nothing.

Why? Cause you’ll just repeat everything and become worse off than you were before.

Who cares if some random girl doesn’t like you. Talk to you. Doesn’t always appreciate you. Acknowledge you. Respect you. It’s gonna happen whether you’re looking to get laid or not.

Do some soul searching and find out what’s really important to you cause I’m willing to bet that it ain’t just about bumping uglies with some chick.

TheTolietWhoSpeaks · 2021-12-08T22:27:14+00:00

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1master_dom · 2021-12-08T22:42:37+00:00

If you spent that year grinding you would be in a totally different place.

Sex is not as fulfilling as it seems

Paradoxically men who focus of Sex never get it as much as those who focus of success in every other area of their lives.

basedjr- · 2021-12-09T03:32:17+00:00

Girls come when you don’t try so damn hard.

Be you, you’d be surprised who chases you when you decide to chase goals.

redeyerds · 2021-12-09T04:51:27+00:00

A fisherman can always spot another fisherman from afar. Girls can spot a thirsty guy the same. It might be your approach. A comedian can have the funniest joke ever but the delivery can butcher it. Yes fuck the game instead be honest with them, that's the best game. "Darryl Philbin is the most complicated man I've ever met. I mean who says exactly what they're thinking. What kind of game is that?!"...stop following these "games" and be yourself man.

Frankiedrunkie · 2021-12-09T04:52:26+00:00

Dude, put in the work for yourself not for girls, fuck all that shit, do you, go to the gym, party, get money, these bitches will follow

Don’t do shit to please people, especially girls

TheTolietWhoSpeaks · 2021-12-09T05:49:21+00:00

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IamRocksteady · 2021-12-09T11:19:36+00:00

You think it's your looks, your game, a combination of both, life circumstances or something else that doesn't get you the kind of success you would want?

Shadow__Account · 2021-12-09T17:14:55+00:00

You done?

vanillapopsicle · 2021-12-09T00:12:52+00:00

Honestly, I think you would be better off trying to get one longterm good woman. Better return.

Blubehriluv · 2021-12-09T07:05:52+00:00

The more you focus on yourself, people will flock to you. Just make sure you've got hobbies that get you into communities of people that share your passion.

PinkTopform · 2021-12-08T14:58:30+00:00

r/thegame

Transurfer_ · 2021-12-08T15:21:16+00:00

Exit the matrix

gmacc21 · 2021-12-08T16:59:10+00:00

I would look into Kantian deontology, specifically the formula of the end in of itself

oceanstwelve · 2021-12-08T16:59:31+00:00

if you understood the game you wouldnt react this way. you would make the exact same post expressing dissapointment . but not RAGE.

(speaking from experience, have been in worse phase than you)

RobertChardonnay · 2021-12-08T17:17:13+00:00

Respect

Successful-Try7035 · 2021-12-08T17:50:10+00:00

Google fitxfearless

Alternative-Many-722 · 2021-12-08T18:36:13+00:00

More for me 🤷🏻‍♀️

comacove · 2021-12-08T18:45:35+00:00

i think you're over thinking things based on this vent. This whole "game" thing is to not put you at a point where you vent like this. It's to tackle things head on on your terms, notice signs if things are going good or bad (to avoid time wasting), and to have a fun time doing it.

Focus on yourself more.

heyitsnotdrew · 2021-12-08T18:49:21+00:00

Dude work on yourself for YOU not for women

yuyo874 · 2021-12-08T19:00:04+00:00

Take a step back and work on inner game then.

CheekyBurgerr · 2021-12-08T19:02:11+00:00

Work on yourself bro. Girls are overrated.

Mikkster643 · 2021-12-08T19:07:38+00:00

Your thinking about it way too much bro, stop complicating it so much.

l1ght- · 2021-12-08T19:22:26+00:00

Honestly dude sounds like you’re still putting the girls on a pedestal or you’re too focused on the outcome. You gotta enjoy the journey, for everything in life.

2dice1hand · 2021-12-08T19:33:44+00:00

You as an entire person I could level up.

Sultmaker_9000 · 2021-12-08T19:42:10+00:00

Cos your game sucks. If life were easy it would be a slut not a bitch.

gardenofeden123 · 2021-12-08T19:42:29+00:00

This might be where you’re going wrong. The game shouldn’t be the purpose of your life. Be on your own personal grind and use the game alongside that. You’ll probably get better results from naturally being less tightly wound.

cyrusol · 2021-12-08T19:45:51+00:00

200+ matches and 3 dates from online game.

Those are some well above average numbers.

THER0v3r · 2021-12-08T20:06:17+00:00

yup, it’s tough out there

omggreddit · 2021-12-08T20:56:36+00:00

How old are you?

monstawonder · 2021-12-08T21:01:16+00:00

Well, sometimes I feel like you. Life is a bitc* :/

angelsfan-34 · 2021-12-08T21:38:10+00:00

Focus on yourself. You’d be surprised what happens when you stop actively trying to date

kamikazeskydiver · 2021-12-08T22:46:06+00:00

I'd suggest taking that energy and effort and putting back into you. Go to the gym instead of nightclubs. Invest your knowledge into something like analytics, finances, or software development. All of these are possible without going to college simply by explore online courses and they will make you more money then over half of the population will ever see. Change your mindset to where growing more lean, strong, and rich gets you fucking hard. Stop pouring all this wasted energy into "the game". The older you get the more you see that shit just doesn't matter and health, wealth, time, and money are the rulers of this world.

Risen_17 · 2021-12-09T00:52:13+00:00

Could be worst

Nice_Equivalent_514 · 2021-12-09T01:27:28+00:00

Be yourself, the game doesn’t exist, express yourself as you are. If you aren’t the one who takes the first steps, don’t take them. Don’t try, don’t be ashamed of what you are and what you like. Do you prefer hookers? Go for it. Maybe OnlyFans? Go ahead. Things will change in the same way, for better or for worse. Victories are celebrated, rejections are lamented, there is frustration at not taking the chance. There is no need to despair. Blessings

riskusrisk · 2021-12-09T04:16:26+00:00

Make sure you’re not sounding or behaving desperate, they can sense it miles away, make peace with yourself and don’t give a fuck genuinely, things got better for me when i did this.

H8beingmale · 2021-12-15T02:38:14+00:00

ya i always hated and resented the dynamics of dating, i put it in my new thread post, in the "Vent" section on reddit

Fuck the game

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truth Part of my roommate and I's success was not about getting laid, but it was always about having fun! Getting laid was just the byproduct!

Title	Fuck the game
Author	TheTolietWhoSpeaks
Upvotes	557
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Date	December 8, 2021 8:45 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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