Daily Community Chat Megathread

AquaChip · 2022-05-23T03:04:08+00:00

Never met a man who had a stay at home wife that didn’t hold his money over her head during an argument.

SockInCloset · 2022-05-23T04:03:14+00:00

After killing female fetuses and infants, many parents in China and India are complaining that they can’t find wives for their precious sons

link

AquaChip · 2022-05-23T12:08:45+00:00

Person 1: There’s no good women where I live 😤

Person 2: Where have you looked?

Person 1: OLD

Me: 😑

Swiping on OLD is not looking. You’re being lazy and expecting women to fall into your lap. You’re not Chad. You need to put in extra work.

E-2-butene · 2022-05-23T14:33:23+00:00

LMAO THIA DUDE REALLY JUST SAID MALE SEXLESSNESS IS A BIGGER PROBLEM THAT ACCESS TO CLEAN DRINKING WATER

I don’t even know what to say at that point lmao

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-23T03:36:35+00:00

Some of you ladies ain’t exactly giving us a strong case for why we shouldn’t date high n count women.....

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-05-23T09:58:15+00:00

I think when people say "she has a quadruple digit body count but why does it matter, she chose YOU" is an indirect way of saying "shut up and accept her because you never had options and she will be as good as it will get for you". If you ask me, its a pretty shitty cop out advice and a form of gaslighting.

Slootando · 2022-05-23T01:18:44+00:00

Just from my perception a lot of the red pill guys are very egotistical and totally wrapped up with themselves and what everyone has to offer them and incels too

Like please do the peace corps or something

FenaPugi · 2022-05-24T01:26:51+00:00

My sister and soon-to-be sister-in-law can't play board games together without one or the other blowing up and leave partway through. It's somewhat entertaining but also a bit annoying.

FenaPugi · 2022-05-24T00:44:44+00:00

Me waiting for the new daily megathread to comment a question

thetruthishere_ · 2022-05-23T01:08:20+00:00

Honestly ladies, if you found out your boyfriend used to simp for the women he was into but doesn't simp for you, you'd be entirely reasonable in asking why and considering it a red flag.

DonQOnIce · 2022-05-23T01:08:33+00:00

Just had sex. Thought I’d abstain during the heatwave but y’know. AMA or whatever.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-23T09:11:28+00:00

It's always ridiculous when guys here claim "I got after average girls" or "I go after all types of girls" and yet, their "AWALT" complaints about women are about the same type of women.

For starters, that she's super promiscuous and "riding the CC" even though studies/surveys that younger people are having less sex and most young women only have one hookup at the then quit hookup culture.

The next one is that "she's surrounded by an army of simps". Unless you guys are projecting your porn fantasies onto women, most women do not have a bunch of subpar romantic interests that they can control. Honestly, that says like a Mean Girls esque movie.

"But the Okcupid study-"

Shows men disproportionately messaging the hottest women on the site, under-messaging average women and basically pretending the ugly ones don't exist. Please dont bother citing it. It only helps my case.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/koag0c/men_love_talking_about_the_okcupid_study_except/

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-05-23T15:48:55+00:00

A guy who doesn't have any friends, doesn't see the need for them, and admits that they don't get anything from people unless it only serves their self interest asking where to pick up women is peak PPD.

FourthTryYo · 2022-05-23T13:34:14+00:00

Paging mods to have an internal discussion about being a bit more lax regarding the black pill and discussions about race.

I really do think it could spice up the conversations here. Obviously if people get too comfortable with racism, you can ban them, but it would add another dimension to the topics at hand.

Plus, I’m of the opinion that TRP struggles to answer this main point from black pillers. Blue pill has been defeated for awhile now.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-23T14:00:54+00:00

CMV : most people fall off physically in their 30’s because society convinced them >30 was old, not because of natural causes.

Where the mind goes, the body follows

tgirlbreeder90 · 2022-05-23T03:16:20+00:00

I dont get why there are so many TERFS on Reddit. Do they fear that men they didn't find attractive until late in age have already jumped to transwomen with much better bodies? I am just curious because one girl from a few years ago didn't talk to me saw me out at the park with my transwoman date and suddenly decided to have a convo with us in the most passive aggressive way possible. We actually laughed at her on the way back home because it was obvious how she acted.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-23T04:45:08+00:00

Mods r asleep post big booty porn

huhwhatokok · 2022-05-23T03:46:53+00:00

My Chad friend stays cheating on his girl and she’ll go through elaborate ways to catch him just to get back with him. Shit makes me die laughing bc she really invests all this time just to ignore him for 3 days and then get back with him. And then the cycle repeats. She’s 5’3 and has openly said anything under 5’10 is too short so it’s ok to laugh fellas.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-23T16:50:11+00:00

Women swear up and down only insecure men slut shame or care about n count blah blah

Bro most of the slut shaming I’ve witnessed was from women talking about other women though

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-05-23T01:00:23+00:00

Finally First in your timeline

simply_fab · 2022-05-23T01:05:18+00:00

New thread new me, no longer a virgin, instead I am just committed to celibacy

meteorness123 · 2022-05-23T03:19:34+00:00

People forget about the exposure effect. Peoples attraction to other people increases the more familiar they become to them. Probably why being social is so important.

It also should tell you that you shouldn't be so terrified of her previous partners as pair-bonding will do its own

FenaPugi · 2022-05-23T08:56:15+00:00

~~Netflix~~ Carl Sagan and Chill?

Pretty sure watching Carl Sagan correlates and causates to overall increase in generational penis size.

FenaPugi · 2022-05-23T14:59:23+00:00

Bro I didn't know you were supposed to gauge someones interest based on pupil dilation.

But like... I don't even consider something like that a big deal? Sociologically speaking, what are you supposed to do with that information?

Yes I'm autistic so explaining to me in excruciating detail is probably not conducive to people getting their dopamine at the correct intervals but could someone at least entertain the idea that I have no idea?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-23T15:11:31+00:00

Sometimes I feel bad and wonder if some stuff I say here ever makes someone genuinely not feel so great 😔

BigBlackFatNaughty · 2022-05-23T15:24:10+00:00

80/20 rule says women are the gatekeepers of sex AND relationship

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-05-23T15:33:42+00:00

Just got back from vacation , Cincinnati is exactly how I left it the last time I drove through there lol, but you got to visit the wife's family sometime as well, shout out to Tickle Pickle best new burger I've had in awhile

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-23T17:07:24+00:00

Warning: Extreme Cringe

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-05-23T18:11:55+00:00

Day 39 of music sharing. Jorn Lande & Trond Holter - Hands Of Your God

thetruthishere_ · 2022-05-23T01:18:24+00:00

The sale/show is coming along and the neighbor kid brought his dad to meet me yesterday and has a friend from school coming to sell too. They are both 10.

How cool is that? 10 'hustling' money! LOL

I love it. Im excited for them to participate. It will be a cool experience for them. There will be 9 vendors for this mini sale.

2022-05-23T01:18:34+00:00

Thanks everyone who commented on my post, several of the replies were helpful

meteorness123 · 2022-05-23T03:50:53+00:00

Im really torn on the phrase "Beauty fades" and I wonder what you guys think

On the one hand, yeah sure, beauty fades. But everything fades. Thats not really a great argument.

And the factors that decide that couples become couples are still inportant.

purplish_possum · 2022-05-23T06:21:34+00:00

Fuck it, I swore I wouldn't bother posting here again but I'm back. Big cities are turning into giant leftist poly communes where women share a couple "hot" liberal guys and have sex with each other.

The percentage of normal behaving women(not poly, not liberal, and don't have kids from prior bad decisions) in big cities is rapidly approaching 0.

I should also add the herbivore-class of liberal men is hilariously pathetic, these people get fucked over because of their self-destructive politics but they don't care.

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-05-23T06:55:12+00:00

Thinking about how Andrea Dworkin was the ultimate femcel and how she married a gay guy.

bighuddi · 2022-05-23T07:04:24+00:00

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4062022/

http://www.parity-uk.org/male_dom_abuse2.php

http://www.parity-uk.org/RSMDVConfPresentation-version3A.pdf

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-05-23T10:06:42+00:00

Q4W: Whenever you picking something to buy for your significant other, such as clothing, so it ever cross your mind "This will look good on him, but I can't have him looking too good because he will start attracting other women, so I will buy a slightly lesser good looking item. That way most women will think it looks ugly, even though I only think it still looks good"?

I hope you understood what I was trying to say here. You intentionally buy something not as good looking for him from possible insecurity.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-23T10:10:38+00:00

Scoffing is not a counter argument. If you believe your counter argument is superior to the 'stupid argument' someone presents, you should easily counter it, instead of scoffing about how you can't believe the argument was made.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-05-23T11:13:34+00:00

I love when guys put 6ft or higher on their dating apps and then we meet up and I’m looking directly in their eyes, shit guess I’m 6ft too

nemma88 · 2022-05-23T11:55:37+00:00

If a Incel declines sex or pursuing a population based on their standards are they a vocel or MGTOW?

And if then their dating woes are legitimate then so are the women's or FDS I guess, as the reasonings are the same ?

Then when we get to trying to measure people and pair them up, should we be using some sort of equal measurement between sexes (money for money, age for age, n count for n count) or relative to the degree that sex cares about & leagues based on those factors (including looks but they're gonna be pretty far down the list), and how they sit on a scale relative to their own sex (rather than the opposite)?

I think those factors are the most of the talking past each other PPD current does. I was prompted by that single mom casual sex thread where I noticed Blackpillers get a bit shirty because standards, while RP I wouldn't consider to be getting all moral with factors that are irrelevant to STR.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-05-23T14:16:57+00:00

Lmaoooo me n UK girl snagged free food from a church group at the beach last weekend and now they're blowing up my phone trying to get us to join

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-05-23T15:34:11+00:00

Could someone please explain what the Blue Pill advises for men to do for the purposes of dating, short term, or long term relationships?

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-23T15:54:49+00:00

I found this funny

Is this what they call autism? I thought maybe the author was trolling... But after finishing the article I think it was written in all seriousness for the sake of helping others.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-23T16:06:01+00:00

Neighbor let their cat out by mistake and I tried for like 30 minutes to get her but she kept running away too quickly or hiding 😡 She’ll hopefully just get hungry and come back eventually

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-23T16:33:14+00:00

I'm out here committing assassinations and getting handjobbed in a car

peteypete78 · 2022-05-23T18:26:39+00:00

Do you want your wife to be happier or do you want more sex?

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2022-05-24T00:11:40+00:00

Q4A - has anyone you know IRL ever mentioned any redpill/blackpill lingo or concepts, without any prompting from you? I never talk about this stuff in social settings, but every now and again someone mentions 80/20 or juggernaut law and I play dumb. Could be a Gen Z thing.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T23:35:22+00:00

Are they some people who are truly hopeless ''romantically'' or even ''sexually"? Are they some people who can't ever manage to attract a person no matter what they do?

Not a blackpill post. Just pondering.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-23T23:26:29+00:00

Interesting comment from the guy who said to never call attractive women attractive 🤔

I think it depends on how you look, come across , speaking of the man. If you are attractive yourself, I personally believe it won’t hurt your game if while you are flirting with her ,you tell her she’s attractive .

Would I ever open up with that though ? Most likely not

meteorness123 · 2022-05-23T23:09:29+00:00

reminder that this is not normal. we are not normal.

raving about dating, statistics, studies..

We need to find our tribes and build social support systems. One thing that is true that nobody cares about mens struggles. So we need to build our own social safety net. work, socialize and hopefully finally be able to settle down with someone.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T22:56:41+00:00

You guys traveling anywhere this summer?

Quantum_Supremacist · 2022-05-23T22:52:08+00:00

Is there anyway to get rid of your sex drive without severe adverse side affects.

If there isn't I'm extremely pissed science hasn't done it because it is definitely doable. But the fucking elites want their fresh workers popped out one after the other.

MisterJose · 2022-05-23T22:40:06+00:00

OLD has changed. I haven't really done it in like 4 or 5 years. Tinder used to be 100% bust for me, but OKcupid was alright. I got back on OKCupid and was depressed with the results, but recently tried Tinder again and was shocked how decent I'm doing. Dunno what's changed, perhaps just one good photo makes the difference, or maybe I'm just more direct and specific now.

MrMushySauce · 2022-05-23T22:38:11+00:00

Food for thought to all the men out there on the dating scene:

DO NOT TELL ATTRACTIVE WOMEN THEY'RE ATTRACTIVE

This was something I harped on hard as fuck in college to people. I've loosened up on a lot of my more rigid rules from when I was "gaining experience" but let me tell you.

Every time I'm talking to a girl on a dating app, no matter how "politely" (or even the opposite--no matter how aggressively) I say it--if I tell a girl who is objectively very attractive that I think she's really attractive, she will stop talking to me soon-after.

I could speculate on the reasons behind it all I wanted but the fact is--DO NOT DO IT. I would say it's because it "makes you look just like all the other men" but--that part is speculation. What is not speculation is the very firm correlation.

Side-note: if she is not objectively very attractive, have at it. Girls who are not hot, in my experience, like being called hot. Irony lol.

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-05-23T22:32:04+00:00

Travelling to London for work tomorrow first thing and I’m so bloody excited. First work trip since covid began! We are getting back to normal baby!

ByzantineBoo_ · 2022-05-23T22:27:01+00:00

Today is Monday rate

Rate this woman that I have found today thanks to Hillbilly

https://www.google.com/search?q=Linda+fiorentino&client=firefox-b-m&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjb5PnEsPb3AhUBGuwKHej_AqUQ_AUIBigB&biw=396&bih=726#imgrc=3bqefnYzq_afAM

Imo 10/10

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-23T22:19:14+00:00

Do you think I could go way above my league in terms of looks by offering to give girls head and telling them I don’t expect sex or a bj in return as well?

ThisBoringLife · 2022-05-23T22:05:22+00:00

Random opinion: If I had a female gym partner who outlifts me, I'd be hella motivated to continue working out.

It's the same with the fellas, but the beauty factor adds in.

simeneta_two · 2022-05-23T22:03:29+00:00

I've been obsessed with soy eggs lately. Why are they so good.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T21:45:27+00:00

Young Adult Jodie Foster was sooo hot. My ideal look in a woman.

errrright · 2022-05-23T21:28:59+00:00

Update to my comment on medication: did a little bit of digging and found out that the SNRI I was prescribed may help, but overall it seems I should have been prescribed an SSRI first as they seem to be more effective and don’t cause the buildup of anxiety for weeks before deregulation/decrease of anxiety occurs with an SNRI. I think that means I should no longer trust this psychiatrist and get a new one instead of starting this prescription.

Baen99 · 2022-05-23T21:23:01+00:00

genuinely the funniest shit how most of the women that end up on here are either seething pump n dumpee's that tried being a mommy bangmaid for a dude with options thinking he'll switch up and now screeches 'ALL MEN! :(((" or already married and they try to tell everyone how hard dating is for women, and what's even more demented, the women that are married spend their time here thinking their opinions hold any value in the current dating market. like seriously retard enjoy your married life why the fuck would you spend your free time in here? can't fathom how people like that get enjoyment out of this sub, there has to be some mental illness going on

Ainsleygz · 2022-05-23T21:15:34+00:00

One thing about me is, I love having my boyfriends wait on me 💅🏼

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-05-23T21:13:47+00:00

Q4M: what man has the ideal build in your opinion?

PM_Me_AvocadoToast · 2022-05-23T21:06:38+00:00

I went to my first ever anime convention this week with some friends of mine who are into cosplaying. The people watching was great, but one thing that I found particularly different than I expected was the number of men/boys in maid costumes. Like only a maid outfit, which wasn't from any particular anime. A friend told me they were "femboys". They weren't particularly feminine, not any makeup that I could see, several had beards. They were just youngish, slim guys in maid outfits.

Now, I know PPD has a particular subset of women who like men that don't conform to gender roles, are more shy or submissive, etc. Are these "femboys" the kind of men those women go for or is this a whole different niche?

E-2-butene · 2022-05-23T21:02:20+00:00

I think if you’re in the process of pulling out of a parking spot and someone walks or drives in front of you anyway, it should just be legal to hit them.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T20:55:24+00:00

Planning to go to Spain, Florence, and Istanbul this June. Hopefully, it will be good.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-05-23T20:52:48+00:00

tfw your lifts are getting better but you've also gotten fatter at a proportional rate 😞

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-05-23T20:43:15+00:00

I’ve been fighting medication for so long, but I think I’m gonna start on my prescribed Strattera soon. Sleep and attention issues are not letting up, same with anxiety, and despite my fear of medication I guess I’ve gone too long without results to not give it a try.

On the bright side, I’m realizing most people that seem to be vocally against medication online seem to be the types that were prescribed a cocktail at early ages and got fucked up developmentally, so that kinda helps me think “maybe this won’t fuck me up”

Infammo · 2022-05-23T20:42:57+00:00

Who's the modern day gold standard for sexy man? People still name drop Brad Pitt like he's not almost 60.

Chris Hemsworth?

DivineDaedra · 2022-05-23T20:33:18+00:00

Why is not enjoying social interaction such a foreign concept to people? I don't get it. The perception that you must be longing for it internally isn't accurate.

I don't want a wife for friends, I don't want a wife for social interaction, I want a wife for the purpose of being a wife.

DivineDaedra · 2022-05-23T20:06:33+00:00

First proper workout since the medical emergency trifecta: 0/10 would not recommend.

I knew I’d need to take it easy but man… I feel so weak.

ppd_reject · 2022-05-23T20:05:25+00:00

Someone I know constantly complains about the lack of women going through the homemaking route, but every time he meets a woman he might like he also complains about her high standards in terms of salary.

I'm not sure how much money he makes but based on his profession it must be high 5 digits per year, which can support a family in my area. However, he insists that he doesn't want some gold-digger who is waiting to be hitched by Billy Millionaire. He doesn't want a low-life waitress either. He wants a college educated woman from a respectable family that won't put him to shame among friends. I told him that college educated women from "respectable" families come from above average income households and very often are capable of making good money themselves. These women either don't want to give their education to depend on someone or are looking for a man with deep pockets who can provide the lifestyle they're used to on a single income. The guy called me a "typical self-entitled feminist and a gold digger enabler". Is he really that delusional?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-23T19:53:42+00:00

I'm gonna be celibate until my wife says Bilal is cool

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T19:53:28+00:00

How would you guys rate Aniston from a scale from 1/10? (Yes, I am obsessed with her lol)

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-05-23T19:40:17+00:00

My mom taking to my dad the other day.

You guys are just crazy: if your team lost:, you act like “of course they lost! what do I expect, why would they do anything for us fans ! But if they win it’s like “well why didn’t they win by 20?l If they win by 20, “why Don’t they win by 40?!” If they get the guys you want, it’s “well why couldn’t we get this squad in the first place?” I swear, you guys are only happy when you are unhappy!”

And it got me thinking: that’s the mentality of some of the dudes here on PPD. Even if they could pull some tail, it won’t be enough: they are only happy being pissed off.

ashpr0ulx · 2022-05-23T19:31:00+00:00

"I'd rather argue with you, angel, than laugh with anyone else"

do you agree / relate with this in regards to your partner?

Longshot_56 · 2022-05-23T19:18:50+00:00

The unspoken truth about ghosting is only seen as bad when a man does it to a woman.

If you're a guy who got ghosted, shut up and take it because the last guy couldn't take no for an answer. You're not entitled to an excuse or explanation (but she is).

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-05-23T19:01:03+00:00

I've heard Jordan Peterson say a few times that it gets really lonely if you don't have a family after about the age of 45. I think he's speaking mainly about women, but I'm sure for many men it's a similar situation.

Would you say this is true? And can I predict if it will be true for me?

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T18:58:51+00:00

https://www.alamy.com/stock-photo-jan-09-2007-hollywood-usa-actress-jennifer-aniston-at-the-33rd-annual-44179223.html

https://www.shutterstock.com/pl/image-photo/jennifer-aniston-late-show-david-letterman-180070487

People underestimate how stunning Jennifer Aniston is. Don't tell there is a single man who wouldn't to date/bang Aniston back then.

simeneta_two · 2022-05-23T18:50:13+00:00

Q4 people who had an "ugly duckling" stage: did you get treated worse by men or women? This video was interesting to me because I feel like I got bullied way more by women then men back when I was chubby & weird. I actually can't recall men ever being mean to me.

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Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-23T01:33:01+00:00

I've just realized what the most likely case was with the girl I mentioned a while ago

(the story where I said it seemed to be going well and I got blocked out of nowhere)

Based on the context clues I can remember leading up to it, I'm thinking that she assumed that I only wanted to use her for sex

(I'm more of a go-with the flow type of guy, though)

luliloo · 2022-05-23T02:26:26+00:00

Went on my first motorcycle ride yesterday. I was very worried but it wasn’t as bad as I expected. He didn’t go too fast. He took me shopping for a helmet and leather gloves beforehand which was cute cuz he making sure I’m properly protected and wanting us to go on rides together ☺️

But my ex texted me today and I’m mad that it got me thinking about him again 😒

lulll · 2022-05-23T03:18:10+00:00

i like the show barry but i cant deal with sally anymore, 2 seasons was enough of that annoying airhead. shes probably based on a real person bill hader knew or even dated because shes impressively unlikable in a realistic way

FireCaesar23 · 2022-05-23T03:24:45+00:00

Worked on my waiter gig last night at a wedding party. PPD-relevant highlights:

-19 year old workmate girl say she wants to marry early and that she's been with her boyfriend for one year and 8 months. She had a fling with a friend of mine for a few weeks, hit on a guest who was there in front of his (hot af) girlfriend a month ago, causing the two of them to get out due to the girlfriend's distress with the situation and there was an instance in which she said she was going with a guest that was hitting on her and that it was her lucky day.

-Male waiter mate hit on the ceremonial staff girl who was quite open and friendly towards us and got her number.

-Had two female guests who were sitting by themselves giving me IOIs even though there's a problem affecting my looks lately. Feels good but feels like an impostor.

AquaChip · 2022-05-23T03:48:05+00:00

Warriors in 4. Heat in 6

FenaPugi · 2022-05-23T04:40:21+00:00

Q4A: What qualifies as quality time for you and your partner?

schizo_ostrich · 2022-05-23T08:03:58+00:00

Will the wage gap flip soon?

The problem with the wage gap is that Boomers and Gen X are included in the statistics; these are different generations to Millennials and gen Z.

Now with under 40s the women are far more ambitious than the men are. Women are willing to lock their cats and dogs in their apartments for 16 hours a day to climb that corporate ladder. Plus since promoting women is the right thing these days and women being inherently more likeable than men; the days of men being promoted may soon be coming to an end.

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-05-23T10:20:40+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/uvopb1/i_got_a_girl_pregnant_as_a_teenager_abandoned/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

He left his pregnant gf as a teen and now she’s not letting her see his daughter. Thoughts?

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-23T10:50:00+00:00

"There's difference between adult needs and children's needs!"

Me: Name them.

"*scoffing*"

Me: You gonna name them?

"*Scoffing*"

Me: So you can't name them?

"Google them!"

Me: So you dont even know the differences and need someone to google them for you?

"*Scoffing.*"

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-23T10:57:13+00:00

“Like those girls who insist their best friends are attractive” https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ixa9EUqqAuc

Lol I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman admit her female friends are ugly. Male friends? Yeah Women tend to be more honest. Maybe not to his face(“nah you’re handsome”)but to other people absolutely.

Soon-to-be-Catlady · 2022-05-23T11:54:45+00:00

Q4M in countries using the metric system: is there a 6ft equivalent that you come across (women talking about it, OLD profiles etc)?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-23T13:06:27+00:00

I wish I knew all these 5’9-5’10 pro wrestlers were actually like 5’6 when I was younger. I coulda taken it up and be making millions while I banged wrestling groupies smh

lulll · 2022-05-23T13:36:37+00:00

so theres a new planet earth like documentary about dinosaurs. seems....interesting? the cgi looks kinda shit in some places though

chilikettlechips · 2022-05-23T15:04:22+00:00

Son leaving me

Hi i have an 18 year old son and we get on brilliantly together. We have a good bond. I have noticed a problem recently where he might stay at his friends house Friday night and I may not see him until Sunday. I know that's normal for an 18 year old. The only problem is that come Saturday morning I start to get very anxious and I keep looking out the window and checking my phone to see if he is on the way home.I am anxious all day Saturday and eventually he normally comes home Sunday. When he comes in the door my anxiety completely disappears. I am not actually worried about him as he is very street wise and sensible. The reason i am anxious is because I keep wondering what he is doing and who he is with and what is he talking about. I feel left out is what I am trying to say. I don't like that he has all these new friends and this exciting time ahead of him. 🤡 I kind of want to keep him to myself to be honest🤡 . I need help in changing my thinking as I know it's a bit skewed. Thanks

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Being the mother of a son and having a great relationship with him, I understand what you're going through, it was similar for me when he was 18 (he's 31 now). Yes, he is going to leave you some day in the -probably near- future, but that doesn't mean that you can't keep being close. You're talking about 🤡 'pulling back'🤡 , so, basically, 🤡 leaving him before he leaves you🤡 , like a preemptive strike, so to speak. Don't. He won't understand why your behavior towards him suddenly changed, he'll be upset, and instead of being able to enjoy the time you have left with him, you'll push him out of the door even sooner. Instead, find some hobbies to occupy your time and people you can hang out with and tell him all about them, it'll make him happy to see you happy and having a life beyond being his mother. Even though he's a young man now, he will always be your baby and he will always need you -trust me!, but you can't have your happiness depending on his presence, it's not fair to him. You don't have to 'cut the cord', you can still be close, even if you're no longer living under the same roof. Also, you are more than his mother, I'm sure you still have hopes and dreams for yourself, so go out there and make them a reality! Good luck, Momma, you can do this!

What kind of codependent momma's boy weird oedipal fuckin weird clown🤡 shit is this? lmao

Q4W: if she were your friend, what would you say to this woman that is not like all women?

baresquad · 2022-05-23T15:05:58+00:00

I just saw one of the most pathetic things from a politician that really embodies how I feel men bring other men down

Ted Cruz, an admitted virgin by choice until marriage asked on his podcast “Pete Davidson, alright, how come that dudes get all of these, like hot women?”

We gotta stop being so obsessed with other men sex lives. If the man next to you is successful, be happy for him, not hate and question what’s wrong with the women dating them, that’s none of your business and more likely than not, there’s nothing wrong with the women

Kim K and Ariana Grande are never gonna fuck Ted cruz and maybe he’d feel better about it if he didn’t get duped into believing he had to save his virginity for marriage, but it’s lame to bring down other dudes for your shortcomings, and I feel a lot of us gotta learn that

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-23T15:44:51+00:00

The majority of the PPD has a type from what I gathered from my “ type “ comments

So my question is this, when you are single what percentage of the time do you reject Someone mainly because they weren’t your type ?

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-05-23T15:49:20+00:00

Can you guys take this test and post your romantic and social standing?

I'm 0th percentile in romantic & sexual, 52th in low inhib and 11th in extraversion

https://27types.netlify.app

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T15:57:17+00:00

What's the point of going to a bar if you aren't going to get laid?

thegamescentrifugal · 2022-05-23T16:04:14+00:00

Is it worse as a guy to experience young, “pure”, love in high school or college and then be yearning for that same feeling as an adult or to have never experienced it all and just be searching?

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T17:14:12+00:00

https://imgur.com/gallery/91Ad8l7

https://odysee.com/@LittleApostate:53d1950fb08d3a1dd5efc790ca869dcd1a32dc5b

How attractive is this woman scale 1-10? (Don't like this post? Don't reply)

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-05-23T17:45:43+00:00

Who are woman that people consider to be 8/9s? I feel like that type of beauty should be objective to all.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-23T18:16:54+00:00

How do you feel about getting treated better because of factors you had no control over ? For example looks.

It makes me feel like shit tbh. Taking pride in general for something as superficial really does induce feelings of self-disgust. Especially when you feel good about looking better than somebody else.

How do you handle that `?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-23T18:24:49+00:00

Which of these guys you swiping right on. Yes you have to pick one

Guy A

Guy B

Results so far : guy A 4 votes / guy B 8 votes

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-07-22T00:44:32+00:00

https://vocaroo.com/195rspMsSMQE

Guess where this individual is from based on his accent. (the answer may surprise you)

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-07-22T01:20:51+00:00

Would you guys date someone who isn't from your native country? (as in not born and raised in the country you live in)

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-08-11T16:22:04+00:00

Why don't men get hair transplants? It's better than looking like George Constanza.

meteorness123 · 2022-05-23T15:27:53+00:00

For some reason people really ignore the degree pill.

If you don't have a college degree, it's extremely hard to find (quality) women because you simply don't meet them. Not in university and not at work later. Not even through mutual friends

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-23T09:37:33+00:00

I do love when people bad mouth Florida's politics because it's shows how misinformed they are.

First it was, "Florida's just trying to make wh*** people comfortable by ignoring the history of slavery", then it was "Florida signed the Dont Say Gay bill!". Now it's "Florida just banned abortions!"

Florida just restricted abortions to 15 weeks. I hope everyone sees the problem with complaining about that.

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-05-23T12:25:57+00:00

which is the better age for a woman to have kids if she wants plenty of time for herself before but not so late that it's a risky pregnancy?

28 or 30?

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