Daily Community Chat Megathread

Lysa_Bell · 2022-11-01T20:34:07+00:00

Actual toxic masculinity trait: not going to a doctor despite noticing changes in your health and you are already in older years. FFS men! Go to a doctor! Get a regular check up! You notice something is changing in a unusual way? Get it checked out. Don't just wait to drop dead.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2022-11-01T17:21:33+00:00

As someone who earns significantly more than my partner even though they work a few more hours and commute while I work at home, I cannot imagine finishing up and playing video games whilst he comes in later and tidies around me to make up his “value” because he earns less. Why not tidy when he’s commuting then have fun together? Some fucking weirdos on here.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-01T20:47:32+00:00

Guys here really be like "it's unfair that I have to like people for women to like me"

RodyChodes_ · 2022-11-01T13:19:31+00:00

I hate when people act like they're smart because they're cheap/poor.

I don't wanna hear a lecture about the expensive hotel room I booked and how you can get a spare bedroom in a crackhouse for $30 on airbnb.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-11-01T16:59:39+00:00

Open thread that's more than 8 hours old

Half the comments removed

Every time.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-11-01T13:54:33+00:00

Claiming "Child Support is a scam" will always be the dumbest thing the manosphere has championed.

Whines all day about women not taking responsibility for themselves, but then want to bitch and moan that men are obligated to support the children THEY CREATED. lol

lulll · 2022-11-01T13:41:51+00:00

women actually like it when you blame them for everything because it makes them feel special

you go gurl

Infinite_Signal90 · 2022-11-01T13:43:52+00:00

If you are a woman and you expect a man to hide his emotions, you are 100% perpetuating toxic masculinity.

the-lone-squid · 2022-11-01T14:09:06+00:00

Boomers seem to get mad when you tell them that it's their generation that doesn't want to work. Even tho they keep complaining that "young people don't want to work"

What young people?? Gen Z is a small generation. As the boomers retire there's going to be more job openings.

Companies will just have to pay more and be competitive

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-01T20:23:46+00:00

Women overrate the fuck out of other women’s attractiveness

RodyChodes_ · 2022-11-01T14:22:36+00:00

I love the concept "emotional labour".

Women realized they brought nothing to a relationship other than their vagina so they made up a vague, unquantifiable concept that they can claim they do the majority of.

Actually genius.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-11-01T14:23:10+00:00

Could someone explain what exactly could a trans woman could do in a bathroom that is a problem?

Wait in line.
Go in a stall, close the door, pull pants/undies down, piss/shit, pull pants/undies up.
Wash hands.

How is threatening to women? And how is this stop women from doing the same?

Ohmaygahh · 2022-11-01T15:40:14+00:00

In this week's hilarity of online dating platforms:

Has anyone seen an uptick of late 20s, early 30s women who declare to be ethically nonmonogamous looking for a "primary" partner?

I can't help but read that as " i'm getting railed by a my regular FwB, and some randos but I'm looking for a guy who will not only be ok with that but also want to legally look after me and take care of me financially... "

I mean, I applaud the boldness of it but... seriously ladies. What guy in their right mind would accept this? What is the profile of such a man that would be enthusiastically agreeable to this? Is it me, or is a girl just asking to find a man without balls?? Or am I too fucking old and missed the boat where we normalized shit like this, akin to the situation in Sweden??

Discuss!

WestCombSplit · 2022-11-01T18:35:57+00:00

If Jordan Peterson was a Woman people wouldn't be laughing about him crying. Which just further illustrates how bulshit the feminist narrative around Men's emotions are

Bandit174 · 2022-11-01T22:39:09+00:00

CMV: NNN is for coomers. People with healthy relationships with their sexuality don’t need to stop masturbating for a month

SheMyHeroine · 2022-11-01T13:31:14+00:00

Every time I go on this sub I feel like Im limiting my potential as a person 💀

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-01T15:07:06+00:00

Love it when zoomers (and quite a few millennials) try to pretend that replacing real life social interaction with social media and online gaming won't have any negative effects on a generation of people...

Humans are fundamentally social creatures. Social ineptitude is not something that should be celebrated.

UnjustlyBannedTime11 · 2022-11-01T16:55:42+00:00

Why are men here acknowledging the inequality in dating, yet whenever someone says they need to accept it because it cannot be changed, they get mightily pissed off? It goes like this:

Commenter 1: "I have come to the conclusion that women are the main choosers in sexual relationships."

Commenter 2: "You are correct, women are the ones having the monopoly on both sex and relationship. That's how it has been since the beginning of humanity. It is unfair that women play and men have to dance to their tune if they want intimacy, but that's how it is. Maybe we should accept it and strive to fit in their standards."

Commenter 1: "Fuck off, you bluepilled betacuck, Imma become a Chad in my 40s and plough through an infinity of 20-year-olds while women my age hit the Wall and grow decrepit and miserable."

Like man, A) You cannot become a Chad, you have to be born one, B) Man hit the Wall too, currently even worse than women due to the lack of self-care, C) Ain't no 20-year-olds waiting for your 40-year-old ass, D) Believing in the Wall for women is a c0p3 and just a revenge fantasy. Many women are absolute milfs at 40 and more than glad to live happy single lives. Nobody is shedding tears for you. Either accept that you are the one who has to be selected in the dating market, or don't date. You don't get to set the rules.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2022-11-03T23:06:10+00:00

Am I indifferent or just half dead? I can't tell anymore.

AquaChip · 2022-11-02T13:37:07+00:00

Being a project manager at work sucks sometimes. I do everything right and on schedule but all it takes is one person under me to mess up the whole timeline. A person missed a deadline and now I’m getting flack because I’m the one in charge of the project. Even though said person received like 3 reminders to do their part. This also isn’t the first time this particular person has done this. Ugh.

I haven’t said anything to higher ups because it seems like I’m the only person who notices this person’s idleness, I don’t want to rock the boat because we work closely together and snitching is not particularly in my nature. I don’t feel like having an enemy at work but damn, I’m not about to take this bullet for someone else.

depo_ten · 2022-11-01T13:17:51+00:00

If you really want to attract someone to your life then just start to be happy alone. I don’t know why but it always works. I don’t know why that is but when I start to embrace singledom that’s when life throws someone my way through very little extra effort from myself. It has to be genuine though.

pinktuliplover · 2022-11-01T13:56:01+00:00

2 months until 2023.

Have you completed any of your 2022 resolutions?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-01T14:05:37+00:00

I love how the music that plays in my store is just all music from like 2017/18 and onwards yet you've just got Superman from Goldfinger on it's lonesome as the sole old school song.

So here I am......doing everything I can.....

TigerRude4 · 2022-11-01T14:58:11+00:00

When I see what Americans (and westerners) are discussing on Internet. I'm glad I don't live there. I heard the word "misogyny" maybe once or twice in my language.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-11-01T16:01:40+00:00

I got a good one boys. Would you rather be the Avatar and be able to bend all 4 elements, or would you rather have an Omnitrix and be able to tranform into all the 10 aliens from Ben 10?

With the Omnitrix assume there are no time limits on each alien transformation and there is no residue of the alien personalities left on the Omnitrix, i.e. Ghostfreak can't try and take over your body.

figuringMylife · 2022-11-01T16:56:13+00:00

i want all my holes filled like rn 😩

everyone is so miserable it’s so boring. i’m so fucking sexy. my ass is fat, my stomach is flaaaat. my skin is clear. my titties sit pretty. But i dont have a man 🤬

do i miss my ex or do i want a cuck 🥴

Truth_Sellah_Seekah · 2022-11-01T17:08:07+00:00

"I can't be arsed" – this is what I am, I have been for almost 21 years.

Am I tired of this situation?

"Yeah but not really"

Am I happy?

"No but not really"

"I am ok."

Play_Muted · 2022-11-01T17:36:13+00:00

ow2 players:

do the objective ❌

chase kills lose game ✅

Mark_Freed · 2022-11-01T17:59:05+00:00

How many of you would be in favor of restrictions on access to birth control.

I watched Aba's video on Pearl and it made me wonder what ppd has to say on this.

Would any of you be in favor of say needing to show you are married, or have medical reasons before pharmacies issue birth control medicine. Would the world be better if sex came with consequences again?

themayorofhoodville · 2022-11-01T18:17:07+00:00

Q4 anybody in Tech:

How’d you get into it?

TigerRude4 · 2022-11-01T19:20:36+00:00

I’ve had enough of being terrorised by my friends and installed BeReal. It’s actually fun. I’m shocked

mib732 · 2022-11-01T21:01:54+00:00

What would be the best advice for a man who has never received mutual interest from someone that I am interested in?

Of course I look max through: fitness, skincare, attempt to dress well, etc.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-01T21:33:59+00:00

Why the fuck should I not nut for November honestly

-angels-fan- · 2022-11-01T22:07:58+00:00

From Mission Impossible 2:

Ethan Hunt : No. She's got no training for this kind of thing.

Mission Commander Swanbeck : What? To go to bed with a man and lie to him? She's a woman - she's got all the training she needs.

Based AF

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-11-01T22:11:49+00:00

Halloween being right before No Nut November is strategic. How can you be horny when your stomach hurts from too much candy?

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-01T22:20:52+00:00

I’m so horny I just wanna fuck a tall girl while her long ass legs are on the air 🥵

flash13131313 · 2022-11-02T12:47:56+00:00

Anyone watched the Before Trilogy with Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy? Good movies to watch with a chick?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-02T12:38:38+00:00

women hate on men for having a picture of them fishing in their bio as if most women have unique and exciting hobbies

TooHornyToFap · 2022-11-01T15:11:13+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yiqczy/should_i_tell_a_guy_i_gained_30_pounds_before_i

These ppl so overzealous about age gaps even though the younger party is 26 💀

TigerRude4 · 2022-11-01T16:10:31+00:00

How will women see me in a sexual way if I am not seen as adult at 22? A woman asked me if I'm underage, friend told me I haven't changed since high school, I get carded every now and then. I can't grow a beard either.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2022-11-01T16:56:17+00:00

As a 27 year old woman, I’m worried about aging in the sense that I’ll have less life to live and my flexibility/strength/energy/mental sharpness etc. will dwindle. I’m not concerned about “hitting the wall” or looking older at all.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-11-01T19:00:36+00:00

What are your thoughts on the women who be like

“Girls don’t like me hehe, I only have guy friends”

My favorite is the claim that it’s over jealousy. Sweetheart girls who look WAY better than you manage to have at least ONE homegirl what makes you so special 😂

purplish_possum · 2022-11-01T19:23:18+00:00

Checked my bank account today and discovered that the California Franchise Tax Board sent me $250.

Thanks Gavin.

Anti_Thing · 2022-11-01T19:28:17+00:00

Is there any hope for us awkward, mildly disabled (NVLD, Apergers', &c.) guys with no interesting hobbies?

lulll · 2022-11-01T23:07:17+00:00

cmv: no nut november is womens fault

Lysa_Bell · 2022-11-01T13:05:03+00:00

LaloTwins · 2022-11-01T13:15:32+00:00

Damn RIP Takeoff

_EndlessWinter_ · 2022-11-01T14:35:54+00:00

Update: Treadmill got here today. Loving it so far. It feels good to really be moving again.

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-11-01T14:44:11+00:00

Just read a thread on here that said 24 is hitting the Wall. I just turned 24. If my peak was 22, im gonna kms. Time to get off this sub for the day 👋

the-lone-squid · 2022-11-01T17:09:55+00:00

Retiring at 40 was a mistake. Got boring quickly..

I need a job that’s fun. Not worried about pay

LaloTwins · 2022-11-01T17:18:03+00:00

End of my 10 day isolation going back to work tomorrow

🥲

bzl33 · 2022-11-01T17:58:31+00:00

What are these complicated chores that people keep talking about. Washing the dishes, doing your laundry, taking out the trash, folding your clothes, and ironing your clothes for example are just things you're supposed to know how to do and they're not at all difficult to do either.

The only things I can see that are non-trivial are cleaning your house (house cleaning is fairly affordable nowadays) and cooking food.

tempbannedgastonist · 2022-11-01T18:21:26+00:00

got out of the gym today, and looked at myself in the mirror, pumped up. and I was just thinking to myself "you are still weak, you are still small, you are still pathetic, its not enough, you are not enough". No matter how much progress you have made you are still at the starting line

never be satisfied with your progression, never be content

come on bros lets go to work, we got a lot to accomplish

meteorness123 · 2022-11-01T21:30:39+00:00

Lol a couple of hours into no nut november and I'm already getting an urge. Male sex drive is retarded.

TigerRude4 · 2022-11-01T22:36:28+00:00

Til 30 of parent households in US were single parent.

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-02T12:08:37+00:00

Women with traditional guy hobbies like cars, video games, or guns are such double-edged swords. They're too used to having hordes of sweaties falling in love with the fact that she's not like other girls^TM

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-11-02T11:53:22+00:00

I have three women interested in me right now. Of course I'm most attracted to and interested in the one I've spent the least amount of time with. Help.

jackedsoon · 2022-11-02T11:30:10+00:00

I dont get why people are upset if their partner says ‘no sorry i got a bf/gf’ when approached. A lotta times only thing stopping them from giving number or agreeing to a date is them not being single.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-02T11:20:22+00:00

I love it when a HAES numpty says something that goes against all medical science, backs it up with one study and the author of that study is something like "Centre for Fat People are Healthy Actually Research"

It's like when a Conservative uses a study where the research organisation has the word "Family" in it, red flag.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-02T10:58:12+00:00

So one of my co-workers who's also a theatre kid like myself said that her boss is desperate for male actors in her company because nobody is willing to dress as a prince for kid's parties (they all want to be Spider-Man, Batman, that's it) I said I'd be down so hopefully this turns into something. Money isn't really something I care about here, I care more about gaining connections in the industry.

liefelijk · 2022-11-02T10:27:13+00:00

My mid-thirties brother only dates small blond women in their early twenties and it’s starting to negatively affect his chances. He’s had a string of serious relationships that failed when the girl realized she wasn’t ready to settle down. Or at least wasn’t ready to settle down with him.

What can I do to best support him and get him to adjust his vetting process?

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Play_Muted · 2022-11-01T13:06:28+00:00

not first :(

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-11-01T13:14:09+00:00

first

FFTzzz · 2022-11-01T15:34:35+00:00

So if you want to get more chicks get more gay brothers. Wow so simple.

monkymonkk · 2022-11-01T17:03:39+00:00

rip takeoff

figuringMylife · 2022-11-01T17:07:06+00:00

Q4E:

would you rather marry someone who meets all ur initial qualifications and over time becomes like meh: think fat, doesn’t put effort into themselves, lazy, doesn’t initiate sex, has a bad attitude?

or someone who meets none of your initial qualifications but over time becomes an amazing person?

Katatonicsnake · 2022-11-01T18:55:52+00:00

If you could recommend me one book, what would it be and why?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-11-01T19:11:07+00:00

Q4 all thoughts on being the other woman/man? Is it immoral or nah

LaloTwins · 2022-11-01T20:54:24+00:00

This post tore through like 5 subreddits, including this one

Had some people so mad

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-11-01T21:43:21+00:00

These ho’s are really out here thinking people aren’t seeing all the chad fucking

Not sure if it’s solipsism or they consciously ignore it.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-11-01T22:09:32+00:00

Some advice to make it through No Nut November.

Whenever you feel sexual urges come on, pay close attention to bodily sensations. Try to attach a physical action to you noticing those sensations. For me, I flex my left forearm whenever I notice the urges come on. Bringing up conscious attention and behavior disrupts automatic routines.

Install the Self-Control App on Mac. Go on Terminal and extend the block length to last the whole month using these commands:

defaults write org.eyebeam.SelfControl MaxBlockLength -int 43200
defaults write org.eyebeam.SelfControl BlockLengthInterval -int 1440

Blocksite is also really good on Chrome and they have a mobile version on the appstore. You can also add another layer of blocking through iOS parental controls.

If you can't resist looking at pornsites, turn on grayscale on your desktop/phone. Sounds stupid but it actually works. Porn is much less stimulating in black and white.

You will most likely lose but continue the challenge anyways. Keep a pocket notebook and pen with you, and write the time of day immediately after you nut. Write a sentence how you feel, and write yes or no if you think it was worth it to bust to step-sister porn.

Waxing poetic for a bit here but this goes beyond porn. You have to prove to yourself that you're not some muppet that can get dragged by every hit of dopamine that presents itself. The goal of dopamine is to chase more dopamine. And every guy that says no it's perfectly fine to sate the sexual motivation system that's meant to get you to actually engage with women in real life with porn is high on copamine.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-11-01T22:53:42+00:00

Q4W is men cuddling with pets cute, gay or cringe

bossman146 · 2022-11-01T22:54:30+00:00

Do you have a PPD enemy?

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2022-11-01T23:00:51+00:00

Anyone seen Burning (the Korean movie)?

!i can’t believe there are people that are 100% convinced that Ben is a killer, the film wasn’t subtle about Jong-soo being a bit nutty too, and we see things from his perspective. it’s supposed to be ambiguous, even leaning towards no!<

Feels like Midsommar all over again, where people just see what they wanna see and assume that’s what the movie’s all about…

TigerRude4 · 2022-11-01T23:03:09+00:00

https://www.aloyoga.com/products/w8141r-charmed-tennis-dress-white?

What do you guys think of this outfit?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-11-02T10:19:03+00:00

Men being territorial is masculine. Imagine as a woman how you'd feel if your dude didn't give a fuck if you talked to other men. Flirted with other men. Get real. It means he doesn't care.

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-11-02T09:42:57+00:00

I am fucking bombing my math quiz tomorrow LOL

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-02T08:44:17+00:00

went with my friend when she was getting her nose pierced. On our way out, noticed one the piercers had WOW running on his computer lol

depo_ten · 2022-11-02T08:31:03+00:00

How come bad boys are able to maintain relationships longer? They are constantly cheating and breaking up etc but their women always return. With a regular or decent man the women break up and never look back.

WestCombSplit · 2022-11-02T07:17:26+00:00

Who's still not vaccinated? 🙋🏾‍♂️

SheMyHeroine · 2022-11-02T06:39:28+00:00

Humor did have a positive effect on the less attractive (even more than it did on attractive men), meaning it could serve as a compensatory trait

Results also revealed that individuals who were high in humor production received higher ratings of physical attractiveness than individuals low in humor production

Everyone who says "PeRsoNAliTy DoeSNt MaTtEr" is exposing themselves for having a boring as fuck personality. Why do men get so upset when you tell them that cultivating a more attractive personality will make them more attractive to women?

scwizard · 2022-11-01T13:40:37+00:00

Is 24 the new wall?

I’m 24 and many will say that’s so young, plenty of time, but I’ve already noticed a huge quality drop from dating at 18-21 vs 24. I’m still using the same pictures as back then. Some professional headshots when I was 21. I haven’t changed in looks at all, so didn’t feel the need to update that. So I know it’s not me. Guys are matching just to say rude stuff where before they didn’t do that! There’s also a huge decrease in... attractiveness. I’m trying to say that as nicely as possible. I don’t want to be mean about all this but I’ve had to lower my standards so low to the point where I don’t even want to kiss the guy. Otherwise I get nothing. The guys that swipe for me look unkempt, scary, much older than they’re saying, unhygienic, etc. Before it was so easy, decent looking guys (or even really good looking) were a dime a dozen. I got a lot of genuine connections.

Although I don't get why she can't just date one of her "genuine connections" from when she was younger?

wub1234 · 2022-11-01T13:48:22+00:00

I just read a review of an office chair that said the following:

This is a very overpriced chair. The height doesn't go down low enough to be the optimum sitting position for a woman. It should be called a patriarchy chair.

That sounds like a joke, but it isn't.

FancyComfortable4678 · 2022-11-01T16:17:19+00:00

Every other week some minor celebrity does and Twitter acts like they were John Lennon or something. Who’s takeoff? What’s a migo? Literally never heard either of these words before in my life.

Mandela effect is real

Luciansleep · 2022-11-01T16:55:51+00:00

After the post about chores I’d say men need to stop dating women who make less at this point. I’m not gonna be paying most of the bills to go home and do most of the chores.

I think we need to get better on vetting by how much someone makes.

account892 · 2022-11-01T17:18:47+00:00

I got a job offer today with a solid increase, but it means changing industry and moving into a shared house (instead of living with my family). Also I’ve only been out of uni a couple years - I’m nervous as hell and I know I’d have imposter syndrome

ChorizoWestern · 2022-11-01T18:14:22+00:00

Lmao, I get reported and earn a warning from reddit for telling a troll she has a loose pussy when she has literally said the same gender reversed.

Men are the petty ones, yeah lmao

LaloTwins · 2022-11-01T18:28:12+00:00

I told some friends recently that really the dad who's in the room is the hero during birth since he technically doesn't have to be there

Facts 😎

meteorness123 · 2022-11-01T18:34:05+00:00

No nut november has begun.

LaloTwins · 2022-11-01T18:52:26+00:00

Q4W Hoes

why say you're not hungry and then ask us if we got you anything

GridReXX · 2022-11-01T18:57:31+00:00

"Affirmative action appears in jeopardy after marathon arguments"

It seems East Asian Americans and Indian Americans are leading that charge.

My biggest thought here is this:

If they wanted "meritocracy," the closest they're going to get to that is the state school admission process.

Yet... they don't seem to want that.

For the ones making noise, state schools seem beneath them. They have their hearts set on "high status" and "elite" schools like Princeton, Yale, Vanderbilt, etc.

Do they know that "test scores" aren't the sole determining factors for entry into these schools?

Do they understand that "status" and "desirability" aren't based expressly on these "hard metrics"?

LOL.

They're complaining about being only, let's say, 33% of these schools. Once they get this ruling to go in their favor, they will be 3%. And it's what they get. Dummies.

pinktuliplover · 2022-11-02T05:24:18+00:00

When you move out of your parents’ house that’s when they want to start being all generous.

I asked my parents did they pass out candy for the trick or treaters and they said they gave out full sized candy bars, caprisuns, and cupcakes!!

Where was this energy when I was a kid?! xD

lulll · 2022-11-02T05:14:37+00:00

i dont know why but i suddenly remembered these skits

https://youtu.be/1KCJep5RV1E

https://youtu.be/30InBgGhiSo

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-11-02T05:13:56+00:00

Straight from the horses mouth

You’ll never here about it on ppd tho cause these ho’s all talking about relationships (which we wouldn’t want with them anyway)

Patrickstarho · 2022-11-02T05:12:40+00:00

Reading Stillness is the Key and there's a chapter on Confidence and Ego. I thought of this sub because I remember reading a lot of men don't know what confidence is.

Confidence comes from experience. Like when you do something you know exactly how good you are at it. You have to be completely honest on what your strengths and weaknesses are. Confident people are open, reflective and able to see themselves with no blinders. They are not scared to disagree with people and are not scared to admit they were wrong or change their opinion in the presence of new information.

Egotistical people are the opposite. They cannot see themselves without blinders because doing so would damage their ego, so they are not open and reflective and as a result they are riddled with doubt.

There will be setbacks in life. Even masters and geniuses struggle with learning new things or entering new domains but confidence dictates whether that journey will be miserable or perceived as an enjoyable challenge. Confidence wavers but finding that kernel of calmness in the chaos is what makes people confident.

I think where most people fail is they try to portray themselves as someone they are not and that is their ego. Being true to yourself and others is confidence. Not shying away from disagreements and knowing when to ignore others opinions is what makes people confident. All of this is dictated by being honest with yourself, knowing truly what your weaknesses are and what your strengths are.

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-02T04:40:52+00:00

Seeing other people talk about and appreciate the weird niche stuff I'm into is such a good feeling.

Helplessadvice · 2022-11-02T04:07:46+00:00

I did nnn 1 time and it was such a fucking waste

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-11-02T04:04:04+00:00

Saw the girl my ex moved on with. She literally could be my twin except she has lighter hair color and less stretch marks. She also is training for a body building competition? I think? Good for her thats tough

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2022-11-02T03:59:03+00:00

I think men and women are equally shallow in general

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-11-02T03:57:59+00:00

Entering my 11th hour at the ER with my husband who is in diabetic ketoacidosis. They keep assuring me that he will be released this evening once they get his blood sugar in check but his blood sugar does not want to cooperate. There should be rooms in the hospital where spouses can nap while their partners are in the ER. My ass hurts from this hard ass chair.

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2022-11-02T03:57:09+00:00

To my no-nut kings:

Never be sure of yourself. Never make a good resolution, and never think: Oh yes, I’ll make out all right. Never believe in your own power and strength to resist temptation of any kind, great or small. Think, on the contrary: I am sure to fall as soon as it comes upon me. Self-confidence is a dangerous confederate. The less strength you credit yourself with, the more surely you stand. Acknowledge that you are weak, completely unable to resist the slightest beckoning of the devil. Then to your astonishment you will find that he has no power over you.

huhwhatokok · 2022-11-02T03:55:24+00:00

Breaking the touch barrier is probably the most intense thing in the courting process. It’s why I’m not as successful as I could be.

Willow-girl · 2022-11-02T03:49:01+00:00

My man always finds a way to make me laugh! Earlier tonight, I texted him from work, grousing that I had to unclog a toilet. "Pray for me," I joked.

"May the Lord open," he replied.

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-11-02T03:38:49+00:00

I met this girl in class some time (around a month) ago. We had a good conversation. She was engaging, not just giving one word answers. She laughed too. My point is that it seemed like she wanted to engage in conversation with me at that time.

After class ended, I left and never saw her again until yesterday. Yesterday, I say her eating alone at a table. She was not on her phone, she was not talking to anyone else, and she did not have headphones.

Should I have gone up to her and asked her if I could sit next to her, and if we could eat together? I was considering it but I was already sitting at a different table, and was almost done eating anyway. Would it have been weird or creepy if I had asked? I’m kinda regretting not asking her now.

EulenWatcher · 2022-11-02T03:21:26+00:00

I find it somewhat ironic that FDS and tradcon ideas have quite a lot in common.

https://www.reddit.com/r/FundieSnarkUncensored/comments/yizqzz/something_i_found_from_someone_who_goes_to_a_very/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

I've tried to imagine implementing these rules to my personal life - they'd have just led to an extremely early marriage for no good reason and we'd have lost on exciting dates and some outdoor sex.

JumboJetz · 2022-11-02T03:12:28+00:00

According to some stats in the Match Groups investor report, 16% of unmarried 18 to 24 year olds use Tinder every month.

At first I thought this number was small, but it’s actually big. Consider maybe 50% of 18 to 24 year olds are in a relationship maybe. So the true single population is maybe only 50% of unmarried singles. Of those 16% are on dating apps.

So that’s like 1/3rd of presently single people between 18 to 24 are on Tinder.

And by the way that’s just Tinder. The other 2/3rds could easily be on another app like Bumble.

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-11-02T03:00:04+00:00

Anyone find socialization really hard?

lulll · 2022-11-02T02:57:48+00:00

lol my home page here is filled with people and kids taking buckets of halloween candy that they left out on the porch and everyone is aghast. really, youre surprised kids and people are rotten bastards?

meteorness123 · 2022-11-02T02:46:16+00:00

This in my opinion is an average guy

https://likefollow.org/img/career/48/who-is-bigdawstv-bio.jpg

scwizard · 2022-11-02T02:45:24+00:00

I'm in Scottsdale AZ for some reason right now.

And all my Uber drivers have told me that this is a huge bachelorette party destination.

This bar I met my friend at is like "bad ass bitch dip" and such for menu items.

Feels weird man.

SheMyHeroine · 2022-11-02T02:40:33+00:00

I dont get why men make the whole vulnerability/"showing emotions" thing so fucking complicated. If you arent an emotional or vulnerable man then dont worry about it, if you are then embrace that, not hide it like a coward. Why is this so hard to navigate.

The root issue isn't that you're vulnerable, it's that you're afraid of a woman not liking you as a result. You should work on resolving that fear, not deny or censor how you feel.

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-02T02:34:06+00:00

I think every woman with a big butt should send me a picture of it in my dms. Can’t have all these big booty hoes going around unverified. I alone shall carry this burden of having my dms flooded with ass pics

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-11-01T13:06:39+00:00

The side chick is who you supposed to have the fun with, who you are supposed to have no arguments with or games. If she is driving you crazy it kind of defeats the purpose, you might as well have been faithful to your wife/GF lol. Like I’ve known quite a few guys who would be like my side chick is annoying the shit out of me and it’s like yeah she’s not a good side. Her role is to get fucked once a week and STFU

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-11-01T13:09:16+00:00

"UMC men are less likely to cheat" is the weirdest pre-selection placebo I've ever heard

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-01T16:13:08+00:00

Bro there are mad videos of ugly fat bitches stealing candy on Halloween. Care to explain, women 🤨🤨🤨🤨

Play_Muted · 2022-11-01T18:31:48+00:00

Beautiful women with beautiful feet always think they can boss me around. Well been there, done that. I'm not going to do what you say just because you're a beautiful woman with beautiful feet.

tempbannedgastonist · 2022-11-02T02:21:38+00:00

the whole idea that man should be more "sensitive" or "men can cry" or "it's ok to be weak" or "vulnerability is true strength"

is just a giant societal shit-test IMO

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-02T02:17:07+00:00

I remember hearing about how your balls become full of semen after around 2 months, so I think instead of abstaining from orgasms completely on NoFap, if after 2 months you haven't "released your seed" either go find someone to fuck or just pay for it. Don't waste it by masturbating.

If you go longer than 2 months it'll send signals to your body that your sex drive needs lowering because you're not doing anything with it.

Also it's good to get into a habit of only letting yourself finish with someone else, no more of that jacking off alone like a sad piece of shit.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-02T02:12:07+00:00

No matter what any woman tells you, just don't be vulnerable around women guys. Keep practicing stoicism and learn how to control your emotions, never show them unless necessary.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-02T02:12:06+00:00

is jeff bezos attractive? like ladies would u like to fuck him? and like would u enjoy sex with him if u would fuck him?

meteorness123 · 2022-11-02T02:06:31+00:00

I'm gonna masculin maxx hard in my thirties. Gym and probably some martial arts. Trying to play the pretty boy shit as a grown man is extremely cringe.

The9thElement · 2022-11-02T01:49:28+00:00

How do I stop getting so attached to people easily? I find myself sad that someone in my class is moving far away. I’ve barely even interacted with that person….

Bluebeard6666 · 2022-11-02T01:47:09+00:00

I'm unlikely to get a response from her so in honesty, what do you think of my last e-mail to my ex? We were together 5 years NC for 2 months.

"I'm not coming to your home. That will never happen again. I don't have an interest in rekindling anything. I'm once again frustrated by how you are keeping me at arms length emotionally, but it's the perfect reminder of how toxic things were during our time together. I'm not pining over you, I'm thankful that our time together is done. I'm saddened by the abruptness and completeness of this separation, but I realize that expecting more from you is just the same old trap.

I've lost a lot with your decision. I've lost my friend, who I looked forward to sharing my day with. I miss that more than anything else.

I want to be clear, I know this is for the best. You see me as toxic but I see you the same way."

TheSinema · 2022-11-02T01:44:51+00:00

Hot guy was the worst date of my life. Jesus Christ, men are awful. I need FDS, I have terrible luck

Plenty-Photograph-52 · 2022-11-02T01:34:49+00:00

Hi!

I am conducting a class research project on OnlyFans and would love to hear various inputs on it (and don't be shy with the responses!)

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/X7S3BTM

tempbannedgastonist · 2022-11-02T01:27:01+00:00

I do not watch porn or masturbate because I am a soldier of Christ. Every drop of seed I spill is the spiritual death millions of unborn children. Do not let the devil lead you astray.

November is the time to become a mighty warrior for Christ. The Son of God wants mighty warriors with high testosterone and balls full of cum.

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-11-02T00:54:33+00:00

Basically why Brady and Gisele divorced

What attracts women initially isn’t necessarily what’s needed longterm, it’s why these old heads on ppd with husbands are so out of touch with the young guys dating experience

Anardus · 2022-11-02T00:47:11+00:00

As much of a fallacy bootstrap mentality is, I prefer it over whatever the hell weirdos at r/antiwork and countless other loser subreddits believe in. Something about 24/7 victim posting just ew

This is partially why I can’t stand the Democratic Party, they’re always talking about how I am oppressed as a POC.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-02T00:43:49+00:00

My brother straight faced told me that women are sexually attracted to money like as in money gets their panties wet. not money can buy sex that money causes women to be genuinely sexually attracted to you. i tried to explain to him that that's not how it works but of course i just think i know everything and he doesnt wanna listen but here's my question if ur man told u that how would u react? beta buxx energy af

meteorness123 · 2022-11-02T00:35:01+00:00

Does anybody here truly believe that the average guy can't attract a woman ?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-11-02T00:28:34+00:00

Guys I've already masturbated 36 times. NNN is tough

DumpApe135 · 2022-11-02T00:20:52+00:00

Call it pseudo-science, but I've had great success with nofap I don't use their Reddit page or anything but I think it definitely gives a small boost in the gym and at the bars, it is probably placebo but if it works than does it even matter?

MedicineSpecific9779 · 2022-11-01T23:47:10+00:00

Weird question, but how many of you have heard of the Christmas song A Spaceman came Travelling?

I've been putting it on to help my youngest get to sleep, and was surprised to discover that none of my American Friends have ever heard of it.

https://youtu.be/GmZg7tvGN9o

Embarrassed_Cup2524 · 2022-11-01T23:12:20+00:00

I'm 27, have had unprotected sex with five men, protected (condom) sex with five men. Had sex first when I was 18 to a boyfriend/ best friend.

Now in 27 with no job, I'm not in school. I love with my mom and dad. I have no kids. I've had (1) abortion by surgery. I knew the guy or the father of them. I've never been married. I'm female.

Sometimes I feel incredibly disposable just because I'm not a young child. I've felt this for several years. I would see memes saying women over the age of 13 are just going to be deemed used roasties. Where do I post this to vent? I'm used to internet culture talking about red pill and blue pills. I'm new to the purple pill and I've studied the black pill sorta. Also I dropped out of high school, what I do in my spare time is study stuff I missed out on or ignored earlier. I am not trying to call all the women the age as me as useless. But to me in my eyes I'm used up and dehumanized.

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