Daily Community Chat Megathread

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-09-11T17:56:44+00:00

PPD Men: Lol look at female antinatalists, they hate men so much, all they do is talk about how awful men are

Also PPD Men: Why don't women realize that their rights only depend on enough men being happy with the choices they make?

Point B is literally proving point A.

afk_row · 2023-09-11T17:49:11+00:00

Is it allowed to debate about eugenics?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-11T17:42:12+00:00

I was driving home, when I took a glance at a handsome man in the distance. When I got closer I noticed it was my husband who had decided to walk to meet me on my drive home. This is hopeless.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-11T17:40:08+00:00

Does anyone know how to stop being/feeling more invested in friendships than the other person? I honestly feel like friendship doesn't come naturally to me anymore. I feel lost.

I try to give them space because obviously they have their own lives, but rarely do they contact me if I don't reach out first. And if I reach out frequently I feel like I just come across as needy/clingy/annoying.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-11T17:26:37+00:00

u/Workaholiconew, considering my little experiment here's the stats about all parent comments:

6 - fully agree (one of the comment is yours)
19 - mostly agree (agree with 4 or more points, but either not to the extreme of the points or not that these points are applicable to all women)
24 - mostly disagree, i.e. they find some truth in some points, but either it isn't gendered or in a far less exaggerated form
10 - fully disagree

I've ignored several comments as they were from women nor I counted replies to parent comments.

So 10.17% fully agree, 32,2% mostly agree, 40.68% mostly disagree and 16.95% fully disagree.

Would you agree that the majority of ppd men don't share the extremity of your views on women and dating?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-11T17:11:10+00:00

Is it weird to still feel like an outsider despite living in our new community for 2+ years? The people around us are nice enough, boychild's school is welcoming, but we just don't feel like we fit in with these people.

Our values are largely the same, but my husband and I see ourselves as the misfit poors compared to our peers/neighbors. In these past two years he's suddenly become cognizant of what other people think about our old car/lame yard/old fence/etc.

I accept every invite and drag us to all the community/school events, but I can't shake the feeling that we're the interlopers to a group of people that have known each other for years.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-11T17:02:20+00:00

Why do "secure" women have a problem with their partners liking or following baddies on Instagram? I don't get it. Any one care to enlighten me?

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-11T16:55:23+00:00

Poly relationships are dumb and any man who is talked into it by his wife or gf is a cuck unless thats what he wants

A woman approaching her man with the offer of opening up the relationship and/or making it poly is a woman who does not respect or sexually desire that man but sees him as a safety net in which she will hold on to. These women want to get boyfriend treatment and dick from multiple men but want to be able to have a main man to support

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-11T16:48:20+00:00

I think abortion ban is a good thing for men.

Because women will always whine about things they find annoying, and they are annoyed by men having fun... so they will always try to ruin everything fun... BUT!

Abortion ban is giving them an actual issue on which they are going to get focused.

Better to have them protest against abortion ban.

Then have them protesting against "toxic masculinity" in movies that we enjoy watching.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-09-11T16:43:37+00:00

happy 9/11 anniversary!!!

👳🏽‍♂️🧔🏽‍♂️✈️💥🏢🏢

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-09-11T16:34:17+00:00

Some people's loneliness is a problem of their own making. If you don't like being around people, don't like leaving the house, have very niche, often solitary interests, can't be bothered to try and find communities more to your liking, and refuse to try out anything new, you're the only one to blame for your social isolation.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-11T16:18:29+00:00

I put my B12, my C4, and my creatine all in the same bottle all at once and drink it all at once before and during lifting

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Ux5cQbO_ybw/maxresdefault.jpg

AnotherStandUser23 · 2023-09-11T15:57:33+00:00

Is it me or does it seem like women have a lot of cognitive dissonance these days? Somehow women are both strong/Independent than ever before, yet they also portray themselves as fragile weak creatures (when it benefits them) especially compared to the more threatening intimidating man. Makes no sense to me tbh which one is it?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-11T15:42:36+00:00

There are a lot of men who are sleeping with a woman who is technically overweight based on her height/weight but because she doesn’t look like a whale he doesn’t think he is dating a fat girl. Like women who 30 years ago would’ve laughed at for being fat are seen as “thick” because they don’t look like the women on my 600 pound life

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-11T15:39:31+00:00

https://sports.yahoo.com/michigan-state-coach-mel-tucker-suspended-without-pay-after-sexual-harassment-allegations-201521026.html

The amount of bags some men fumble trying to get pussy insane lol. Like women don’t really do that, fuck up million dollar situations tryna get penis.

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-09-11T15:36:25+00:00

Why do women seriously dislike men with beards?

mrrelaf · 2023-09-11T15:31:34+00:00

"Chris Evans (43) marries Alba Baptista (26) in intimate, at-home wedding"

sighs

opens PPD

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-11T15:28:40+00:00

I love receiving romantic gifts from my boyfriend, he brought me home hydrochloric acid

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-11T15:27:56+00:00

Society brainwashing young women into believing they are all deserving of “princess treatment” is one of the biggest fuck ups to the dating game

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-11T15:26:42+00:00

Think I've just found the new craziest take I've ever seen on this sub.

If you haven't vetted a potential partner using a private investigator, then you haven't properly vetted, ergo if they leave you after having a baby then you have poor judgement.

gabejohn · 2023-09-11T15:25:51+00:00

Crazy how nearly 30 years later after disbanding Nirvana has more listeners on Spotify than Foo Fighters who are still touring.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-11T15:19:27+00:00

The take: Unattractive men are necessarily worse and more (emotionally, not like "rah I'm going to hurt you") emotionally dangerous partners than an attractive guy.

Consider the following: Me, in shape, 5'6, short face syndrome, extremely bad acne

When I match with someone on Tinder (literally just have decent pictures of you doing interesting things) I have a like 90% meetup rate because RIZZ. You gotta text them a shitton and basically create almost an emotional dependence. Even if you're super clear "Hey I want this to be casual" once you start talking to them about things in a playful manner but also more serious topics they tend to get invested emotionally even if they say "Hey I want this to be casual to." It's just a pattern. So you meet up, have sex, maybe go on a date before hand and then they clearly, necessarily, want more but like I'm not trying to do that, I'm trying to stay casual. And even though you're super clear "I want this to be casual" and you state that at least a few times they're basically losing that emotional connection when you talk to them less and that sucks for them. And it can be pretty upsetting.

But if I want to get laid it's not going to be by going "Hey baby, sup, wanna fuck?" It's gonna be rizzy as fuck and getting them invested in you as a person.

Consider my friend: 5'11, looks kind of like Arnold Schwarzenegger if Arnold juiced even more, generically extremely attractive with all of the "signs" of being attractive your average basement incel would point out

Compare me to my friend. My friend doesn't need to do any of this. Everyone he fucks knows exactly what's going on, he's not creating any emotional dependence or rizzing them up. All he's doing is existing in the same space as them and they will come up to him and say "Hey me and my friend are going back to our place do you want to come?" "I have these nipple piercings because my nipples are super sensitive, you want to see?" Or just physically grabbing at him inappropriately (no guy who doesn't constantly whine about "muh double standards" gives a fuck about this) and asking him to come sit or hang out with them.

The expectations and assumptions from both parties are 2000% clear and obvious. The women want to have sex with him and are not at all invested in him beyond that. 0%. He wants to have sex and he is not invested in them beyond that. 0%. They don't need to text for 2 days talking about "Well here's what I'd do to you😉" (not phrased like that, that's not rizz) and creating some sort of emotional connection. They just want to fuck.

No expectations are created or broken. Nobody is upset afterwards. Nobody gets dependent on "if I text him I know he's going to respond". It's just simply two people who want to have sex having sex.

An unattractive men has to rely on creating that emotional connection though, which creates bad expectations no matter how many times it's said "I want to keep this casual".

TL;DR only fuck attractive men, unattractive men are bad news

Impressive-Path8736 · 2023-09-11T15:15:46+00:00

Q4M: Would you date a young widow?

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-11T15:02:25+00:00

The whole "being nice doesn't matter when you're dating. If she's attracted to you she'll stay until she's not anymore" is easily one of the dumbest ideas that get floated around here. You gotta be a special kind of stupid to actually believe that being a nice person doesn't matter. You should be nice, you shouldn't be a doormat

dela_man10 · 2023-09-11T15:00:14+00:00

I want to seriously date someone (just one person and for a long time) but I’m afraid of being married or having children. I may or may not want them. Depending on what decision I make in future I will then have to breakup with my partner. All those months and years for nothing especially since I invest a lot into a relationship. I feel more comfortable with women I see no future with. If a woman shows trad values I become afraid because the possibility of having to consider settling down is too real but at the same time I don’t want to invest into a casual relationship.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-11T14:50:59+00:00

As I get older I'm realizing that there are just so goddamn many humans that you can find individual examples of almost anything happening.

The best way of parsing through reality is with probability, which the general public seems pathologically incapable of understanding.

potoricco · 2023-09-11T14:44:23+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/78fh58cc2nnb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5d691586d7b95830090bfdc7d8e475f76d61d6fc

I GOT ONE OF MY FIRST PERVERT DMS YASSS

hannahg000 · 2023-09-11T14:40:39+00:00

i’m so obsessive with text messages. i keep track of the time between each message and try to think about what they could be doing

ThisBoringLife · 2023-09-11T14:35:29+00:00

Unrelated question: What is your current opinion of college/university?

Love it? Hate it? Does it have a use in society beyond a job training program?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-11T14:34:22+00:00

Gonna close the chapter on this part of my life. Reddit's really not that fun anymore. Might give it 72 hours to see if I change my mind.

gabejohn · 2023-09-11T14:33:51+00:00

Suddenly saw my Tinder match from 1 year ago in uni today. It's weird how your eyes are able to recognize people much faster when you saw them before on a picture. She classically did the ol' "Always respond but never take initiative" which I now know is the same as not being interested.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-11T14:22:29+00:00

Got this advice (LOL) from a blue pill sub yesterday

"Fun fact: I cancel MANY first dates, due to sheer anxiety. Some of the men I go out with are models, actors, fitness instructors. I still cancel.

Men are the biggest threat to women and some of us have experienced trauma on dates. Sometimes our anxiety just gets the better of us. And sometimes we make up a story in our head about someone before we meet them. Brains are fickle.

Keep putting yourself out there. Be calm, reassuring, patient and understanding if they seem reluctant. Good luck!"

dela_man10 · 2023-09-11T14:21:22+00:00

Does anyone else have this fear of being pre-cucked (I couldn’t come up with anything else).

Like the woman likes you and is in a relationship but you can’t help wondering if she would choose you or rather if she would treat a 6’4 handsome buff Chad much better. Like you’re just good enough but the guy who gets her super super wet is not you. You just get her wet. You’re a 7/10 to her but there is a 9.5/10 or her.

This is why guys are so bothered by celebrity crushes that their partners will most likely never meet.

I remember a girl who used to post her bf (nerd) and be in love. Fast forward she monkey branched to Chad. She started claiming that Chad was the love of her life. I asked her about her exes. She said that she was in love but this is different. This is like her soulmate. Imagine being her ex and peeking into the future knowing that you’re not getting her absolute best.

This is like beta buxxing but not quite (she still sees you as alpha to some degree) but there is a super alpha for her out there. She gives you sex twice a day? If you were a super alpha she’d give you sex 10 times a day. I’m exaggerating but you get the point…

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-11T14:20:12+00:00

Get her info. Don't give her yours

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-11T14:12:07+00:00

If you’re on a casual date, do you expect your date to wear casual clothes aka T-shirt and jeans?

hannahg000 · 2023-09-11T14:01:58+00:00

i’m manifesting a pride and prejudice style love declaration

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-11T13:59:23+00:00

Of course he’s fat, says “no fat chicks”, and gets easily manipulated about a pic of a beautiful woman with the voice of a robot.

https://youtu.be/xxQnWe8kVak?si=bOQ9Ha7peNPlrdqY

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-11T13:57:36+00:00

q4m: why don’t you just find a really unkempt woman and help her glow up? then all ur problems are solved.

potoricco · 2023-09-11T13:52:37+00:00

I have picture day

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-11T13:27:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/16fiswv/who_else_is_embracing_the_number_of_women/

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-11T13:22:16+00:00

This sub has convinced me that I would hate to date outside Northern/Central Europe.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-11T12:59:52+00:00

i successfully painted my nails without fucking up!!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-11T12:51:56+00:00

I cannot take anyone seriously using tinder nor bumble. I have been on both and they’re both shit. It’s basically about who takes the prettiest pictures and if you’re more concerned about a connection, it’s boring. Because I’m tired of scrolling through and seeing if these people can actually make a decent conversation.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-11T12:34:41+00:00

Good news, Derp is home from the hospital! He's not out of the woods yet but at least he's sleeping in a basket next to my desk.

I'm wrung out after four hours of highway driving yesterday, always a white-knuckle experience in our old beater trucks! (We were allowed to go visit him in the morning, then the vet decided he was well enough to be released last night.)

The bill came in at $1,500 and change. I'm scrounging around the house for stuff I can sell ... I really don't want to go back to work at Amazon two months early. I was hoping to be able to hold out until December. Autumn is so beautiful and I still have to cut our winter firewood. Shame to spend it working 70 hours a week! It's not so bad in the winter when it's cold outside. I'm going to have a yard sale next weekend and see how it goes.

potoricco · 2023-09-11T11:40:52+00:00

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My mom is so whatsappcore

potoricco · 2023-09-11T11:32:46+00:00

The most based thing Russia did was when Peter the great banned beards

Workaholiconew · 2023-09-11T10:20:43+00:00

I am seeying a pattern here...

Ive noticed that women with "daddy issues"... i.e. who mostly only hang with men, who are very sexual and want always attention arent actually like that for a lack of a father...

Way too many have loving and present fathers who put limits on them... in some, the issue seems to be the presence of an attention whore-y/ BPD / HPD / "daddy issues" mother...

these girls dont wanna be like their cringey mothers and are fed up with female shenanigans because of her... but they do want people around her and the spotlight too so they develop daddy issues as a way to obtain a group and attention, usually mostly by men... making them a broken reflection of their mother...

Anyone see a similar pattern?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-11T10:02:58+00:00

Hot take: A lot of dating issues and discourse would become redundant if we just banned the word "nice"

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-11T09:11:30+00:00

If my husband asked me to get a paternity test I would probably have a dialogue with him about it, not break up immediately but I really can’t imagine him even asking.

This. I’m tired of discussing paternity tests because the conversation is always so one dimensional. I’m interested in how he asks, and when he asks, because how you propose things to partner is important. It’s not just “men have this fear and women need to respect it”, it’s also about how it’s brought up and reasoned.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-11T08:52:38+00:00

Just found out the host of a mgtow show I used to watch got caught following women around to take creepshots and share them on a discord server and apparently groomed his ex's daughter. I'm disgusted and kinda pissed, but I'm not exactly sure if I have a right to be.

I wish guys like this didn't exist, women shouldn't have to deal with these kind of pathetic wretches. I should have seen it sooner, as I watched I became increasingly disgusted by his misogynistic behaivour.

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-11T00:03:11+00:00

Thirst

SianOiseau · 2023-09-11T00:06:41+00:00

I've been reading some webtoom comics and yeah, most male leads are royal, war heroes, extremely handsome and skilled. But so are most female leads. Exceptionally pretty, often with supernatural abilities, kind and thoughtful, liked by everyone etc.

potoricco · 2023-09-11T00:09:10+00:00

Men found ways to make feminism work in their favor(50/50, it’s okay for men to cry, more casual sex)

Women as a whole STILL haven’t found a way to make feminism benefit them, even though we literally created it 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

philseven12 · 2023-09-11T00:10:12+00:00

How far are you willing to go to make yourself attractive to date who you want?

potoricco · 2023-09-11T00:15:36+00:00

My evil twin: VentanaPobre

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-11T00:17:47+00:00

You ever had a restaurant you loved that fell off? Like they changed chefs or shit?

Luciansleep · 2023-09-11T00:37:02+00:00

Q4All: Who do you think hates women the most here and who do you think hates men the most here?

MUST ANSWER BOTH IF YOU PARTICIPATE.

blebbyroo · 2023-09-11T00:41:42+00:00

Damn my partner is home today and I told him not to distract me from studying and he just wakes up and proceeds to text me “not to distract you but I would really like __” guess im getting distracted

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-11T00:43:15+00:00

I remember a long while ago I saw this guy on YouTube doing interviews at a local university about NoFap and asking people what they thought of it, and the answers were actually really positive, people were either fascinated or fine with it, guys talked about their experiences with it, girls seemed to think it was a good thing too.

Twinseo09 · 2023-09-11T01:05:05+00:00

“This is not just "women are attracted to attractive men" if that were truly to be the case then women would have no problem with a dude who is 30 and still a virgin.”

Do you believe that a 30 year old virgin can be attractive?? Yes or no and explain why.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-11T01:11:27+00:00

" Even the ones who claim to be progressive and supportive of women’s rights. They all eventually marry a much younger woman when they are in middle or old age."

Just how bitter you women get regarding male celebrities.😂

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-11T01:17:51+00:00

If women consistently try to tell men that they should be more emotionally vulnerable with their partners, that they should be comfortable crying in front of them, why is it that every man has a negative experience opening up to a woman (spoiler alert: women are lying)

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-11T01:20:59+00:00

Question for people who have been cheated on: How did you find out?

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-11T01:35:55+00:00

My boyfriend came home with a pregnancy test because he thinks l'm pregnant. I would know if I felt pregnant. I think this is his not so subtle hint that he's ready to try for another kid.

invisibilitylevel100 · 2023-09-11T01:57:57+00:00

I remember looking at the female antinatalism sub a few weeks ago and remember a highly upvoted comment that said there should be less men in the world, that the optimal ratio was something like 1 men for every 9 women. The rationale was that men aren't needed anymore and that one man could produce a lot of sperm. So basically a small amount of gigachads walking around with their harem of women.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-09-11T02:07:53+00:00

Attractive men probably ARE more likely to be "douchebags" or "fuckboys", or at least in the sense that women use these terms.

Testosterone is likely going to be a common cause in many causes. Higher testosterone results in greater facial masculinity, lower body fat, more muscle, etc, all traits generally considered to be attractive by women. It also results in higher aggression, lower agreeableness, higher sex drive, etc, all behavioral traits associated with this label.
Probably the defining trait of a "douchebag"/"fuckboy" to women is promiscuity and unwillingness to commit, and attractive guys absolutely take the cake here because they have a lot of options.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-11T02:15:06+00:00

As of now I have zero desire to have kids, didn't expect this change in me

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-11T02:45:38+00:00

Just completed my first ever circuit of hypertrophy workouts. 1 month in. I used to almost always train for strength instead of muscle size. My god, my body is changing in front of my eyes. Can’t wait to see how things look 6 mo - 1 year from now.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-11T02:52:26+00:00

I feel like a true, successful adult

I bought a big BOX of name brand cereal instead of my usual off brand bag. 😎

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-11T03:50:15+00:00

I took the test to shut him up. We're pregnant. 🤣

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-11T04:35:39+00:00

Q4All: Would you rather be a big fish in a small pond or a small fish in a big pond?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-11T06:20:13+00:00

With all this talk about virgin men after a certain age, I think one of the biggest fears with women who get in relationships with them is the fact that once he figures out how to be attractive hes gonna have fomo and be resentful to the point where he goes out and tries to cheat the first opportunity when a girl is attracted to him.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-11T06:27:26+00:00

It baffles me that so many women feel that individual freedoms in the West are absolute and inviolable, no matter the circumstances. Perhaps they ideally should be; but that does not mean in practice they are.

The idea that no aggregate results from freely-made independent choices on issues such as TFR or mating could ever, even in the extremes, threaten the viability of the liberal englightenment society that creates these rights to free choice seems historically very naive.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-09-11T07:14:30+00:00

my friends and I were comparing penis sizes today and I grew >1 inch since i was 17 (22 now)

hannahg000 · 2023-09-11T08:23:36+00:00

sitting outside on a nice day and reading a book is such a good way of reconnecting to the beauty of life

supremethrone · 2023-09-11T08:27:05+00:00

God I hate working. What a dehumanising existence. I'm slaving away for millionaires and billionaires so that my taxes can fund single mothers

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-11T12:10:58+00:00

I wanted to take a break from social media, caved and promptly regretted it:

Twitter video (TW for SA)

Pictures of women who were r*ped (more TW for SA)

BLKSKNHED · 2023-09-11T16:39:06+00:00

No one makes a "Question for men" posts on R/PPD in good faith. Just want to bait crazies into replying what you want to screenshot to your twitters or friends.

odd_cloud · 2023-09-11T18:38:57+00:00

My 2 cents to the debate about nice guys. I noticed many debates happen here because the two groups of people use the same term for different things. For one group of people nice guys are neckbeards (every guy who has a difficulty with dating is a neckbeard, everyone knows it) who expect sex for saying “ma’am”. This definition of a nice guy is an urban legend and doesn’t deserve much attention.

For another group of people, like me, a nice guy is a guy doesn’t have objectify women and respectfully treats them. I wonder why women declare they need a guys who treats them like a person, but fall for guys who clearly do not. That’s the nice guy problem, not a neckbeard who got angry when he was rejected.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-11T18:57:53+00:00

Feminists/misandrists are so used to being treated with kid gloves that they will go into a shrieking frenzy the second someone slightly pushes back on their propaganda

armpitpics · 2023-09-11T19:02:47+00:00

Happy 9/11 folks!
May you have a blast on this special day!

potoricco · 2023-09-11T19:16:17+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/tco3zjfueonb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7bdf935a81ad11f6fd8582351b38e926227cea22

Why is subjugation and abuse only okay if it’s towards women?

dela_man10 · 2023-09-11T19:28:27+00:00

I want to be in a relationship but at the same time I have a phobia of committing to one person because then I have to marry them or we breakup and it was all wasted time. Don’t tell me bullshit about shared memories. Heartbreak is never fun. But at the same time I don’t want meaningless sex and hookups. Fuuuuuuck.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-11T19:31:43+00:00

Why are people so belligerent against men when it comes to household spending and responsibility?

https://www.reddit.com/r/HENRYfinance/comments/16f496z/how_do_you_deal_with_guilt_from_spending/

tldr: guy is trying to lower household expenses and wants his wife to cook more (because he's bad at cooking) and to spend less on cleaning (his wife thinks the house needs more cleaning than he does). He makes 70% of the household income and says he makes up for not cooking by doing other chores.

I don't get why everyone is so rabid saying he is a terrible person and that she should divorce him. Maybe the expenses he's paying are worth it and he should want save him and his wife's time by paying for services, but he's not a terrible person for wanting to save money and he even says he makes up for it in other chores. There's just this toxic kneejerk reaction against men in these topics. Plus, she's the one who's slacking her career, not contributing the same money he is.

I get the feeling as a man you're severely disadvantaged in this realm and these discussions. If you want her to do more household chores, you're misogynistic. If she wants you to do more household chores, it's because you're lazy, slacking and also misogynistic for expecting her to do all the chores.

This isn't that serious of an issue that it makes someone a terrible person
If the genders were swapped, you know for sure the responses would be completely different

meteorness123 · 2023-09-11T19:43:57+00:00

Blckpillers be like

youtube.com/shorts/9exUsrWut7s

baresquad · 2023-09-11T19:47:10+00:00

Conservative men have so few options. They’re basically competing among themselves for such a small fraction of women.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-11T19:54:28+00:00

So I finally watched the Super Mario movie (Spoiler Alert)...

Lemme just say If I were watching it in theaters, I prolly would've walked out. I'm all for women's empowerment, but more and more movies these days are really going overboard with these obvious nuances of Badass Women Strong, Weak Beta Male narratives. I mean, for someone who gets captured in 90% of the Mario series, they sure gave Princess Peach a lot of power. The straw that broke the camel's back for me was the Mario Kart scene.

TSquaredRecovers · 2023-09-11T20:00:28+00:00

Back from my second three-day ban in a month. I really need to behaveth myself.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-11T20:09:53+00:00

When anyone even remotely criticises me

https://i.redd.it/r0mi1rudoonb1.gif

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-09-11T20:10:35+00:00

Passport bros are being hypergamous cmv

potoricco · 2023-09-11T20:36:42+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/antipornography/s/1Rfayn2GL8

Which is why your best bet is getting an innocent pure guy with minimal social media presence. I honestly wonder to what extent male hyper sexuality is caused by society. I want a guy with 13 followers who watches cute cat/educational videos on tiktok and not naked women

potoricco · 2023-09-11T20:38:47+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/nb6k7f5ltonb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=376c4a3363b51d5046c1a431fa1c9b4175beef59

ROBLOX WHAT THE FUCK NOOOOO

meteorness123 · 2023-09-11T20:40:05+00:00

Rate young alex jones

youtu.be/xHSnJSQa-68?t=34

demedermidimi · 2023-09-11T20:54:03+00:00

have you or any woman you know been strung along by a chad recently? only cases that come to my mind had a bum doing the stringing not a chad

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-11T21:00:21+00:00

Don't be the guy to say "not all men", be the type of guy that make her want to say "not all men".

meteorness123 · 2023-09-11T21:07:00+00:00

being smart >>>> being handsome

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-11T21:11:33+00:00

I hate that the cheapest book buying sites take like, a month to ship :((

Peacesquad · 2023-09-11T21:23:52+00:00

Q4A: do women hate accountability? Why or why not?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-11T21:23:56+00:00

Throughout the course of history, women on average have always had a better life than men.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-11T21:24:04+00:00

What did I miss? Seriously I’ve been gone for days

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-11T21:27:22+00:00

I want a six pack but I like food too much 🫤

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-11T22:13:59+00:00

There's a little truth to the "men will have more options later in life" because many men's faces get better looking as they age until mid/late 20s. Many still look better in early 30s than they did in early 20s because the face improvements offset looking older.

But women's faces almost universally peak at 18-21 years old. By mid to late 20s, a lot of women's faces visibly different in a negative way compared to their early 20s.

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-09-11T22:16:34+00:00

I hope tomorrow turns out to be worse for everyone else. In the sense that it would be better for me, you know? I get what I want whereas, whatever... You get my point.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-11T22:17:41+00:00

WHY ARE GAY MEN SO HOT? WHY DONT STRAIGHT MEN LEARN FROM GAY MEN?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-11T22:33:23+00:00

I don't know one woman in my circle that passionately identifies as a feminist or believes that they are opressed or some other non-sense.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-11T22:53:13+00:00

The absolute worst fucking dating advice I ever received was to touch grass when I was younger.

That was like 8 years ago now when I turned 21 and the "touch grass" back then meant go to bars and go to clubs. After going every weekend for years there a few things I've learned

Women who like a guy will make it VERY fucking obvious. All of those guys on Reddit asking "How do I know if a girl likes me at a bar or not" are just ugly dudes who have never had a girl be attracted to them at a bar
If you are one of those ugly dudes there is absolute no reason to attempt to touch grass, it's just a bad idea.

The only thing touching grass at a bar has got me is binge drinking alcoholism. If you consider 6-7 mixed drinks (usually old Fashion because whiskey) as binge drinking.

It's annoying because I'm like 99% sure that the reason I don't have my 6 pack abs yet, and my BF% is still above 20%, is almost entirely down to the fact that I go out every weekend and just get fucking wasted. And I blame the advice I got on Reddit

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-11T23:06:00+00:00

Oh no I have to introduce myself to readers for my job. I prefer writing up crime reports.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-11T23:31:20+00:00

Get yourself the balls of Muhammad Ali

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lndlgWFcc6Q&t=48s&ab_channel=qbileyube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H9TwvGYcGRo

afk_row · 2023-09-11T23:36:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/FaceRatings/comments/16g5k3d/27f_husband_isnt_attracted_me_so_going_crazy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

This is just sad and amounts of gaslighting in the comments isn’t nice either.

She has 2 major flaws with her face.

Her first flaw is her nose, it’s too small from side, downwards tip and wide from front. unfortunately even plastic surgery wouldn’t fix her nose.

Her second flaw is her eyes. They are visibly asymmetrical. Unfortunately that can’t be fixed either.

These two flaws especially the asymmetrical eyes make her look horrible and people are gaslighting her in the comments saying she should smile more or she should wear makeup. Bro it’s not gonna make her eyes symmetrical, stop giving empty hopes.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-09-12T00:10:00+00:00

this is the best ppd post can’t cmv https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/FkS592IFdC

WHY IS EVERYONE OBSESSED WITH PEOPLE THEY DONT WANT???

SianOiseau · 2023-09-12T00:31:25+00:00

So husband is having a very bad cold/flu/covid. I've made chicken soup, berry drink, given him some wet compresses and the pills. And I think I'm going to get sick too while he hasn't got over the worst.

Nooope, just give me 1-2 more days so at least one of us is functioning.

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