Daily Community Chat Megathread

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-01T02:46:04+00:00

I truly think if men were more willing to let go of the past, they would give themselves room to become truly special.

The time that group of women laughed at you, let it go.

Those times you got rejected by every woman you asked out, let it go.

The times you got teased/mocked by dudes who did much bette with women, let it go.

Sadly, many of your harshest experience like these come in your formative years as you're understanding your identity. As a result, if you don't have the experience of the average man, it's easy to feel 'less than'. Like you're not attractive enough, or even worse, worthy enough to have the things you want.

The other sad truth is that every man is not socialized the same. Some grow up nerdy and shy. Some grow up athletic and popular. Parenting can play a huge part here. So can your overall life experiences. Sadly, life doesn't dish these out fairly.

Yes, most women don't want inexperienced men. So what? You can only get expeirence by trying.

Yes, most women don't want to be "approached". So what? You can still engage with them in a socially calibrated way.

Yes, good looking men have it easy by orders of magnitude. So what? You can still build a lean, muscular body and rock the best facial structure you can.

Yet absolutely nothing is possible if you don't try. Nothing will change if you don't try. I mean genuinely try, well beyond what you think is required.

As hard as it can be to accept, nothing will change in your life unless you do. If you're willing to have the courage to accept the past for what it is, let go of the regret and take on a new identity, you can become something special.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-01T02:43:26+00:00

Q4W

If you were a straight man, what would you say to start a conversation with a woman at a bar?

Ylduts · 2023-10-01T02:42:39+00:00

Question For Women

6”, six pack, attractive, 500k+ a year, what am I looking for in a woman?

PBtoast707 · 2023-10-01T02:37:58+00:00

I’m due in about two months and my husband has already gone full dad mode. He’s rocking the white New Balance and khaki shorts combo, and bought a new GMC Canyon. He’s 22 years old and is already becoming a middle-aged man. It’s cute, though. He’s so excited for the baby to arrive.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-01T02:32:43+00:00

Seems it is single mom Saturday for the subreddit. I really don't have much to say about single moms, but I've heard there's a lot of them on dating apps? It seems like men here are upset or worried about being pressured to date one. I don't understand what that's about. No one is stopping you from pursuing childless women.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-10-01T01:52:25+00:00

instagram influencer posts this video

Men in the comments be like

“She’s fat”

“She’s obese”

“She is fat and stupid and fatherless”

“She looks like Lizzo”

Men.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-01T01:45:47+00:00

One of the most frustrating relationship dynamics is letting yourself be put on the defensive constantly.

My ex ignored the oil light and drove our car to death. Expensive engine death. A car we share and I made the payments on. Felt like I was “allowed” to be mad for like 5 minutes then it became about how important it is that she doesn’t feel too guilty and that I still love her and it’s ok mistakes happen.

That whole relationship was whack like that. She’d do something wrong and then it was on me to “react right” and not be too hard on her. I get to be mad for a day then I have to spend a week reassuring her it’s all ok

meteorness123 · 2023-10-01T01:36:41+00:00

Decent looking guy talking about how his childhood trauma ruined his ability with women :

youtube.com/watch?v=EoeswE6hSEY&ab_channel=busybecomingmyself

this describes 99,9 % of guys in the manosphere

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-01T01:18:02+00:00

why tf do women buy starbucks drinks for $6, like for that money I could get two big cans of good craft cider

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-01T01:16:45+00:00

imagine if chicks were the physically strong ones and we were the small weak ones

they would put us through so much physical abuse

Some of us weren't raised right and some of us have moments of weakness but we arent mean spirited like they are

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-01T01:16:14+00:00

have any of you seen the "high school english teacher that flirts with the boys" trend on tiktok. a lot of ppl are saying they've seen it.

BeautifulThoughtes · 2023-10-01T01:15:42+00:00

Humans are gross and this physical existence is a curse CMV

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T00:57:52+00:00

Sitting bored here now I kinda regret choosing the more chill 1 night camping/climbing trip vs the longer 2 night (3 days) hiking trip I also had the option of doing.

I say kinda because I enjoy the former group more, but now I have fuck all to do on sunday.

demedermidimi · 2023-10-01T00:43:57+00:00

q4w, how often and how many dms from men do you receive on average? include if you're average, below, or above if you'd like

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-01T00:40:17+00:00

Going to concerts is one life’s most overrated experiences

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-01T00:35:47+00:00

How come the movies and shows never portray how men really act when they struggle?

In the media, when some man is struggling, he becomes all unnaturally confident, manic, DGAF, assholish, druggie and destructive e.g. Kendall in Succession. But realistically, most men who struggle just become shy, introverted, withdrawn and depressed. They withdraw from the world, become meek and non-confrontational, eat ice cream, watch netflix and play video games all day or practice some hobby or sport over and over avoiding other people and everything else in life.

When women don't see how men really are when they are down or not doing well, they become super judgmental and toxic when a man is down like a normal man is and will lose attraction. It's basically better for a man to be the crazy extroverted manic destructive stereotypical "struggling" man portrayed by the media because women see that and think that's the "masculine" way to be down when that's not how men really are when they are down. But the few men that are like that media stereotype are unstable people who are violent and a danger to other people and probably go to jail and/or become drug addicts.

Women can't accept when men have more normal, non-destructive behavior when they're down. Women expect men to act in ways that only crazy violent men act.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-01T00:29:58+00:00

Artificial sweeteners taste better than sugar to me now. I think its bc I'm addicted to diet soda

meteorness123 · 2023-10-01T00:26:34+00:00

I dont like when a woman likes me for my looks. It feels good but not in a good way. There is something very diabolical about it.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-01T00:08:01+00:00

Lost a good friend today.

Our bread machine died ...

Ylduts · 2023-10-01T00:06:54+00:00

Why do women wear fake eyelashes? In my 40+ years on this planet, I’ve never heard of a man rejecting a woman because her eyelashes were to short. It’s never happened.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-10-01T00:02:47+00:00

I hate people who take up a machine at the gym for half an hour because they're spending more time on their phones than actually using the damn thing to exercise.

Ylduts · 2023-10-01T00:01:53+00:00

Motorcycle men or women of PPD

In our current age of distracted driving how can you possibly put your life in the hands of someone else? I’ve ridden my entire life but I won’t ride on public roads.

keebydee · 2023-09-30T23:48:02+00:00

Mother recently told me that she personally believed that I was on the spectrum when I was a kid because of my Selective Mutism and other autistic traits. Why I was never tested for it, I don't know. She also said she wanted to send me to a special school to help with my social skills but we didn't have the money. I really wish I could have went. Looking back, I hate mainstream school even more. Most of my attention came from the fact that I couldn't speak. Having to watch others succeed in areas where I always failed all the time. Being so full of self-hate, shame and embarrassment because of my disability. And I still do. I wanted to be like the normal kids so badly. Not one woman has showed interest in me ever. Only ridicule and jokes from girls because I couldn't talk. I hate myself and the way I was born.

AngeCruelle · 2023-09-30T23:29:36+00:00

Came across...this interesting post on my feed. From a sub called r/love.

I'm trying to understand her perspective and be as charitable as possible.

But every time I think I'm finally getting there I remember some other part of the post that makes me want to throw the whole suitcase away.

An excerpt:

So I wonder why people seem to disregard strong passionate love and promote boring slow burn "love". Is it because they never experienced being madly in love? Is it because they did but it broke their heart and it's coping mechanism? Or are they heartless?

TapeEater6969 · 2023-09-30T23:07:41+00:00

With a perfect hatred I have hated them. What is perfect hatred? It means, I hated the sins in them but I always loved your creation. To hate with perfect hatred implies that you neither hate the persons because of their vices nor love the vices because of the persons. This interpretation is confirmed by the next words, They have become foes to me; the psalmist shows that they are not only God’s enemies but his own as well. How, then, is he to do justice both to his own declaration, Do I not hate those who hate you? and to the Lord’s command, Love your enemies? How is he to do justice to both, except through a perfect hatred, whereby he hates everything in them that makes them sinful and at the same time loves them because they are human beings? Even in the period covered by the Old Covenant, when a carnal people was customarily kept in line by visible punishments, there was a man whose insight gave him kinship with the New Covenant. This was God’s servant, Moses. How could he have hated sinners when he prayed for them? [See Ex. 32:11–13] But, equally, how could he not have hated them when he killed them? [See Ex. 32:26–28] The answer must be that he hated them with a perfect hatred. In the perfection of this hatred he hated the iniquity he was punishing, but in such a way that he loved the human beings for whom he habitually prayed

- St Augustine expositions of the Psalms on Psalm 139

0DarkFlirty · 2023-09-30T23:06:30+00:00

If what you're primarily looking for sex money isn't really necessary and basically overrated. Idk why guys keep saying they need to make 100k to date. Broke jobless dudes fuck the most. A guy busting his ass 100hrs a week as an analyst making 120k simply doesn't even have the time. How many stories can one hear of a rich dude's wife who gets lonely because he's always away and she needs someone to break her back. It aint fucking him that's for sure.

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-09-30T23:00:49+00:00

I said this in another post but I think it bears repeating here:

Women love to brag about "men being expendable" because they get countless messages from men in their inbox. The thing is, it's not a flex at all. Women are playing a difficult game. You see, women are much more monogamous than men are. Women really really want commitment from the best man they can get. If she chooses a man that's too valuable, she runs the risk of ending up used and spat out for the next chick, needlessly increasing her N-count and decreasing her value for the next man. But if she chooses a man that's not valuable enough, then she won't feel any attraction and the relationship will suffer.

So unless a woman is a total slut and is content with being that way (which is unlikely since studies show that promiscuous women are less content than non-promiscuous women), having an inbox flooded with men is not a flex.

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-30T22:56:04+00:00

If someday we become able to control the gender of the unborn babies, do you think we should prevent some women from having baby boys.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-30T22:40:11+00:00

So l saw a post about single moms 3hrs ago and to be honest

Single moms are a absolutely no-go

Raising another man's semen always puts me off edge and another thing is your always gonna be expected to provide which that expectation doesn't apply to a single mom

So single mothers are just off the bet for me

NoVisual1552 · 2023-09-30T22:33:04+00:00

lately, i have been thinking wayyy too much about how random getting a "good partner" is at the end of the day.
friends of mine who would be the absolute nightmare of all men (according to this sub and others) are in super happy relationships with amazing men meanwhile other friends who are seemingly "dreamgirls" get strung along for ages and done so dirty by very much less interesting men.
i wish well to all of them, just feels like there is truly no system to it after all.

scwizard · 2023-09-30T22:30:18+00:00

https://www.popsci.com/health/texas-abortion-law-births/

Wow 10,000 additional births due to the abortion ban.

I can't believe roe was overturned on my birthday. That's always gonna be a weird birthday present.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-30T22:27:23+00:00

When and how did you learn to cook?

I started when I was like 11 because I found a kids cookbook by Emeril in the library, and that piqued my interest. By the time I was 13 I started cooking most of my meals since my parents separated, and I was living with my dad who was working two jobs and not a very good cook.

GridReXX · 2023-09-30T22:13:48+00:00

I’m late as hell to the whole high yield savings account thing. I just got hip to it this year. My friends were all like “duh bitch what you been doing???”

They’re right! I made $1000 in interest in five months. Idc if this comes off like a humble brag. I’m geeked!!! 😂🔥

meteorness123 · 2023-09-30T22:08:48+00:00

Man, I shouldn't be laughing abut this but this title and this guy's cynicism is cracking me up

youtube.com/watch?v=vMMANdvR6-g&ab_channel=Dbdr

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-30T22:06:15+00:00

I camped at this lake last night

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-09-30T22:02:08+00:00

I have 6 months worth of convo from my gf and I when we met on reddit. All text since we only started calling after those 6 months. I've never went back to read it and I wonder if I would cringe or find it wholesome. Probably a bit of both.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-30T21:55:33+00:00

Makeup is probably the main reason that women think they're better-looking than men.

DivineDaedra · 2023-09-30T21:47:46+00:00

My friends need to stop telling me I’m “too good” it’s starting to go to my head 😅

But also I wouldn’t need to be this good if they would take just care of themselves and I can’t be the one to tell them that because I’d be a massive hypocrite 😭😭😭

scwizard · 2023-09-30T21:44:31+00:00

This woman works as a professional fact checker.

https://static01.nyt.com/images/2023/09/24/multimedia/MISINFO-DEFENSE-01-qfch/MISINFO-DEFENSE-01-qfch-square640.jpg

Some stereotypes are just so on the money.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-30T21:42:02+00:00

I want to help women understand their female privilege.

Almost all the non-related men who have ever been nice to you or engaged you socially in any way have been because of your gender.

A good thought experiment is whenever a man speaks to you, ask yourself if he would be nice to you or even bother talking to/engaging you in any way if he could get laid with women much hotter than you on command.

If he wouldn't, if he would just ignore you or not even notice you or engage with you in anyway, then you're experiencing female privilege.

It's actually kind of funny to experience this in first person. When I'm walking by myself or with other men, no one engages us. If I'm with female friend(s), all of a sudden random men (and women) are making small talk with us being nice and engaging.

Whenever men are engaging you or being nice to you, you're experiencing female privilege.

demedermidimi · 2023-09-30T21:41:49+00:00

i think men should stop rating women on here, just cause it's getting embarrassing

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-30T21:38:44+00:00

Prison is pretty fucking gay when you think about it. Like all these gangster men talking about how they fuck bitches left and right and then they end up in prison. How many bitches are there? It’s all fucking dudes and you’re basically living on top of each other. Ain’t nothing more gay than a gangster really.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-30T21:38:37+00:00

How is it that young men like Miller who have/had the world at their feet end up like that ?

eye_fuck · 2023-09-30T21:29:43+00:00

My dick do be kinda hard and fat what the heck

eye_fuck · 2023-09-30T21:27:56+00:00

i LOVE kissing

JokeElectronic3188 · 2023-09-30T21:27:38+00:00

Most young women of this generation will one day be smacked in the face by the reality what they wanted was never achievable.

They will either need to die alone or settle.

business_explained · 2023-09-30T21:23:52+00:00

https://youtu.be/fJFCLUEoKeM?feature=shared

This video will be seen as the bible by future generations of men.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-30T21:05:58+00:00

This was such an all star show :

youtube.com/watch?v=gdsUKphmB3Y&ab_channel=NFL

business_explained · 2023-09-30T20:35:13+00:00

With the chuds I'll share this lonely viewin'
With the chuds I'll share this lonely viewin'

meteorness123 · 2023-09-30T20:24:58+00:00

Was there a type music taste that was predominant or tha you liked the most in your youth ? In my teens and early twenties, it was Hip Hop, no doubt.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-09-30T20:20:38+00:00

Idk why some people think a guy is supposed to be excited by the prospect of his wife appreciating how great of a husband he is despite not being that sexy to her. Dad bod my asshole my mans trying to get crazy monkey sex swinging from the chandelier how the fuck he gonna do that looking like a teletubbie!

Character-Math-1778 · 2023-09-30T20:20:04+00:00

It's so weird to me when people are claiming only a minor percentage of men are virgins at age ~20. Among my computer science friend group, literally everyone there (except perhaps one guy? I'm not sure) has never had a girl look into their direction. It feels like a different universe. These guys are amazing though, I really like them.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-30T20:19:04+00:00

Being unattractive sucks but there are some pros to it honestly

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-30T20:13:37+00:00

Update: so my dumbass friend finally picked up the damn phone and agreed to come with me, together with my other friend that had already aggred.

(Context: Yesterday i met a very sweet girl. Although he is a bit overweight, she doesn't look fat and has all extra fluff in all correct places,and she is kinda hot in her way. She invited me today for drinks, together with her friends. I said ok but i asked if i could bring 2 friends with me,she agreed. I called 2 friends and the one asked and said yes,the other is a dumbass and although he said yes,but he didn't answer the call for hours.)

meteorness123 · 2023-09-30T20:05:34+00:00

Every now and then, I realize that we are all going to die. Gone. The only thing certain in life is death. Very strange feeling to be aware of this (unlike other animals). Consciousness is a curse and a blessing for sure.

scwizard · 2023-09-30T19:45:08+00:00

I've been in a relationship for almost 5 months. Some background, a friend of mine ended up going through a divorce. He had no where to go, went to live with his dad for a while, but then that wasn't working out. He was about to head across country to live with a guy friend of his. I was his main emotional support during this hard time and so he wanted to visit me first before leaving.

Friend comes from out of state, I let him stay for a couple of days, but feelings developed on both ends. He helped out a lot with chores at my house. BIG chores like yard work. Needles to say, he ended up staying here and that's how our relationship began. It was very unexpected on my end to even fall for him. He's not my type, but he really wooed me.

Man guys can be really charming when they don't have anywhere to stay...

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-30T19:44:20+00:00

I don’t understand these threads saying that most women are sharing the “top tier” men. I want a man who is absolutely smitten with me and me only. I need him to be so obsessed with me he’ll let me breastfeed him and tie him up with fuzzy handcuffs and other weird shit like that. I don’t think Chad would let me do that to him.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-30T19:38:19+00:00

Q4Men & Redpill

Would you rather live in a world that's very sexist to women or mildly sexist to men?

This is purely a hypothetical and not at all supposed to be some sort of rhetoric or gotcha.

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-09-30T19:37:58+00:00

It’s actually crazy to think about when you realize how hard it is to get pregnant on purpose. Women have like a 6 day window each month where pregnancy is even possible (and the odds are still pretty low peakin at ~1/3 on the last couple days).

This, combined with any form of contraceptive should essentially prevent pregnancies and yet…

scwizard · 2023-09-30T19:36:05+00:00

Girls be like "man it's so hard to deal with my job, and all my business and my issues. Why can't I find a guy who have a job that's just as stressful, and will handle all his stuff, all his issues and all my issues?"

meteorness123 · 2023-09-30T19:31:10+00:00

Western feminism isn't about truth anymore. What it's really about : If you're passionate feminist in the west, it means you have unhealed trauma related to a key male figure in your life. Sometimes the trauma is direct and sometimes indirect like a woman losing her father which the young woman due no fault of her own interprets as abandonment. It now becomes harder for her distinguish male assertiveness and competence from danger. To combat this, the woman joins a movement that has an explanation for her suffering. The mission isn't the truth but as with every ideology it is tribal reinforcement and psychological protection.

Women with healthy attachments do not become feminists. At some point this limbus of stunted development (that really wasn't her fault) should be overcome.

Ylduts · 2023-09-30T19:30:24+00:00

As a lover of women there is no such thing as to small when it comes to boobies. In my experience women who do opt for enhancement tend to be women who enjoy attention from random men and I have to ask, is that the type of man you are looking to attract? Nothing is sexier than a woman comfortable in her own body. #natural is better!

scwizard · 2023-09-30T19:19:54+00:00

40F, here, and yes. After 20+ years of being responsible, going to school, getting good grades, getting a good job, and now taking care of my elderly mother and century old house, I would LOVE to come home to a partner who's cooked dinner or done some of the things on my neverending To Do List. Someone who makes my needs a priority while I'm taking care of the rest of life's chaos.

And yet I have trouble meeting anyone, much less a man, who doesn't expect me to immediately become their caretaker. All I meet are men who suddenly forget how to cook or do laundry the minute there's a woman in their lives. Men who can't make a doctor's appointment or hotel reservation on their own. Men who hop from woman to woman to avoid doing any kind of emotional labor at all. My job is social work-adjacent so all I do all day long is emotional labor.

I need an equal, a companion, not another burden in my life. I have a good job, friends I adore, and a dog I love more than anything. I'm usually too busy or burnt out to feel the absence of a romantic relationship, but it does hit me from time to time. And it sucks.

Damn girls want housewives too. She should find a cute 19 year old gf too be her housewife.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-09-30T19:17:42+00:00

Okay, this is weird.

https://youtu.be/kVu3_wdRAgY?feature=shared

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-30T19:09:18+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/16w2n9h/comment/k2ulg5v/

Am I wrong though? Lol the Job testimonials are funny IMO because you really see how desperate a lot of dudes are in these environments if you have been in the workforce.

OneLobster23 · 2023-09-30T19:06:48+00:00

Women, will you date a man who is not attracted to you?

He really likes you as a person, enjoys your company, how kind you are, how caring you are. The intellectual compatibility and emotional connection are amazing.

That being said, he doesn't find you physically attractive. He's not repulsed by you but looking at you naked or touching you (sexually) does nothing for him.

He wants to date you for who you are as a person.

Will that be fine with you?

Edit: Short men are fucked lmao.

NalkaNalka · 2023-09-30T19:04:59+00:00

Daily reminder that whinning about not getting laid, looksism, hightism, woe is me, your doomed if your not chad etc Are backpill/incel talking points not red pill ones.

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Character-Math-1778 · 2023-09-30T19:00:46+00:00

Just ordered some LSD, so excited, it's gonna be great

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T01:03:11+00:00

The happiest people are those chill religious guys. Big sense of community, strong family values, doesn’t go around being spiteful of everyone, thinks they will go to heaven.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T02:58:30+00:00

The best case against high n-women is just reading comments on reddit by high-n women defending themselves.

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-10-01T03:05:00+00:00

Is makeup toxic femininity?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-01T03:12:00+00:00

Q4All: Ever have gay people hit on you (assuming you’re heterosexual)?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-01T03:17:14+00:00

Reddit just asked me if this community contains content “intended to arouse”… uhh… in what context?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-01T03:20:19+00:00

Why does every fucking usb cable start getting loose and stop fitting correctly into that shithole of a phone jack ?

BeautifulThoughtes · 2023-10-01T03:28:01+00:00

Casual sex is just selfish pleasure. Literally using someone else's body to get off as though they're a sex toy.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T03:33:45+00:00

My dad worked with Brigitte Bardot’s son. He works a completely normal job in Norway.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-01T04:08:37+00:00

On my way to the strip to go tell someone’s mom Happy 25th birthday

Slipthe · 2023-10-01T04:10:23+00:00

I realize a benefit to marriage is that it brings security, validation and reassurance to a relationship.

But if a relationship was actually good and right for you, you would already have those things...

NalkaNalka · 2023-10-01T04:51:09+00:00

Showerthought: Because of woman's passivity in dating, luck is a greater determinant factor in their long-term romantic success than it is for men.

HolidayWhile · 2023-10-01T05:52:48+00:00

Long story short, I've finally cleaned up my appearance sufficiently to where women treat me like a normal person and I finally feel confident and can make introductions.

Unfortunately I am getting all my practice at a niche convention on a single weekend. Where exactly does one meet women in 2023 outside of degenerate places like nightclubs and apps?

md8716 · 2023-10-01T06:00:25+00:00

Recieves a profitable windfall and I'm currently trying to figure out how to spend 50k cash by the end of the year.

Idk I guess I'll let it sit in savings until I figure something out.

old_new_age · 2023-10-01T06:03:52+00:00

I am eating stale graham crackers at 2 A.M. A druggie girl from my high school finally got back to me after 2 weeks. I think I'm going to do DMT with her. Life is okay.

scwizard · 2023-10-01T06:05:14+00:00

With all the harsh laws around child support it's amazing how many men still don't pay.

Hi! I've been raising my son alone for 15 years without a single fucking penny in child support! I never even asked for it, because you can't get blood from a stupid, stubborn, arrogant stone who can't hold a job to save his life.

She posts in r/asexuality too. What he lacks in his productivity as a worker he seems to make up for in his ability to impregnate asexual girls.

scwizard · 2023-10-01T06:11:10+00:00

My daughter is an adult now, but I also never got a single cent from that man.

It's funny though because on the rare occasion when he'd come to see her, it was almost always because he was dating some new woman and he was just trying to make a good impression. He'd show up and buy her a new backpack and coat, maybe some shoes and a new stuffed animal with his girlfriend fawning in the background, then he'd disappear again for 2 or more years.

So many people hated me because he'd told everyone I was kEePiNg HiS dAuGhTeR aWaY fRoM HiM when in reality, he was actually hiding from her.

I wonder how many of those women he was performing for he ended up impregnating.

Ylduts · 2023-10-01T06:16:05+00:00

Women wear makeup because it’s socially expected and because it enhances beauty. The average woman without makeup looks like the average man, heaven forbid. Please stop saying you wear it for yourself, no one is buying that bullshit.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-01T06:22:58+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AskWomen/s/I1b06vnaRO

Tallness + attractive face with good hair ( both are rare traits lmao) . But they are not gonna say. Smh

scwizard · 2023-10-01T06:33:10+00:00

My cousin and I are pretty close and in the beginning of the year, she moved in with me. Shortly after, she began dating my male roommate. He hit his ex girlfriend who was my friend as well.

Well she’s pregnant and due in December

I’m really worried about her because he constantly punches things and slams doors. He’s said really disrespectful things to her when he has been angry. He even went off on me once. He’s constantly using substances.

What is it about guys like this that make women want to stop taking their birth control?

She excuses his behavior by saying he’s stressed from work. Just now he was punching stuff for 5 minutes straight and it was really loud, if there was any windows open I’m sure anyone outside could hear.

eye_fuck · 2023-10-01T06:43:01+00:00

Good morning

I love women

scwizard · 2023-10-01T07:09:42+00:00

I was pregnant and he wanted me to have an abortion. I tried to go through with it but in the end I couldn’t. I’m not against abortion. I had an overwhelming urge that I had to protect the fetus and I also thought if I aborted due to convenience I would end up with serious mental health issues. Because I didn’t, he was angry and chose not to be a parent. He has told me it feels like he was traumatized from not getting a say in it. You can’t force a person to parent. But they do feel justified in this and I think it’s gaining some ground.

I always said it felt like he drove me out to the middle of nowhere, made me fall in love with him, then kicked me out of the car, handed me a puppy and told me to kill it or he was leaving me there. The child is 12 now. The abandonment has ruined me. I don’t date. Feel dead inside. Feel unlikeable and alone. And it’s definitely affected the child emotionally as well.

That's heartbreaking.

It's also a great fundie ad for the dangers of premarital sex.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-01T07:20:20+00:00

Imagine being a woman at a bar, club or party or on dating apps.

You're making new friends and meeting new people everywhere. Random women compliment your outfit or you compliment theirs or you share a favorite crappy girl pop song with her that comes on and then you guys have your girl bonding moment.

Men are lining up to talk to you. You go to the bathroom by yourself and then another guy tries talking to you.

Everyone is trying to get your attention and engage with you and you have to decide who to engage with and who to reject.

The environment and everyone is making you feel like you are unconditionally desired and valued just for existing. You didn't have to lift a finger to have everyone engaging you, trying to talk to you and meet you. You get all that validation and attention with no effort at all.

It keeps giving gifts even when you aren't there. Are you ever feeling lonely? You have nothing to fear. You know you have a reliable way to get people to interact with you and give you the attention and validation you need to cheer up whenever you need it. It is psychological safety.

Female privilege

scwizard · 2023-10-01T07:26:51+00:00

Wow 45% of single parent families receive food stamps? I had no idea the number of people on food stamps was so high.

redheadtingz · 2023-10-01T07:30:19+00:00

All I want for my 29th birthday is to watch my fiancé clean the house, wash my car, and make me dinner in his tighty whities. Maybe I’ll even have him wear his chaps from his rodeo cowboy days. He turns 41 the week before, and I know he has plans like this for me, so he’s going to be my boy toy for the following week.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-01T07:36:40+00:00

-> J is my total opposite. She has had many bfs (she is a chubby girl but she is attractive). She has been pursued by many guys, actually her kid is probably not her current husband's son(she was talking to me about this), she shared with me that she was seeing another guy when she got pregnant and her husband still married her knowing this kid might not be his. She used to be very social when single, she says she misses going out and partying.

Wtf is going on with these guys ? Stay hermit please instead of going downthis path for God sake.

Hoodfamous098 · 2023-10-01T07:42:50+00:00

Went on a date with a girl, who is super intelligent and beautiful, but as we talked for some time it showed that she was also very arrogant, and blind to her privileged upbringing, which had made her very judgemental. All in all, I did not feel like she and I were a good match, and I decided in my mind not to go for the kiss when we would say goodbye.
So we said goodbye I gave her a hug, and she kept holding me. She was almost crying as I left. I feel so awkward and bad

baiser_vole · 2023-10-01T07:52:22+00:00

Oh my ego is so happy.

My boyfriend’s mom thinks I’m better looking than my boyfriend.

What a win. I do not like to lose.

dbz__f · 2023-10-01T08:05:36+00:00

Need quick answers (within next hour or so)

What are some movies, preferably in Netflix or Disney plus, that are sexy/erotic and are likely to get your partner horny for sex?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-01T08:26:51+00:00

Question for my fellow Americans: if a woman doesn't want the children when she gives birth, can she give it away? Does it vary from states to states?

I ask because in my country (France) a woman can (roughly 700 cases every year so not a lot). The identity of the woman is protected and if she doesn't choose to reveal it, the child will never know who is the mother. The father can claim the child, but he has only 2 months to do so. The mom has also 2 months to go back on her decision, after that it's too late. The child is given for adoption.

supremethrone · 2023-10-01T09:35:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/16why4q/man_tries_to_talk_about_male_suicide_gets_shut/

dbz__f · 2023-10-01T09:37:40+00:00

girlfriendoid gets to pick movie

she picks an entry in a franchise where she’s seen the movies before it but I haven’t meaning I won’t understand anything

This is why I don’t support feminism

Sillysheila · 2023-10-01T09:40:02+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/rch7f3nu9krb1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=86aa7797bb23d714a1851331b5fef7e6d0c93d98

Touched lots of grass for the King’s Birthday long weekend Holiday down in the lucky country.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-01T10:19:01+00:00

Should I invite my monk neighbor over for dinner? I hear him chanting & screaming next door and know he’ll be done soon. My husband is still away in Bangkok & I don’t really want to eat another takeout meal alone. He’s a nice guy.

Yuruyakatou · 2023-10-01T11:14:09+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ke0p82gdqkrb1.png?width=1830&format=png&auto=webp&s=c7d3d106c5160bfdb7a98ad0c89209297bd94e15

business_explained · 2023-10-01T11:16:25+00:00

Accounting quizzes are going bad despite reading all the material and attending every lecture. Last one I got only 70% correct.

I mean what the assfuckery kind of question is this:

Which of the below cases is not a revenue recognition issue?

a) Channel stuffing

b) Failure to take delivery
c) Recognising revenue after goods are delivered
d) Mischaracterising extraordinary or unusual items

How the fuck is it C? And what kind of answer is that? To whom are the goods delivered in this instance? To yourself as in, you bought them and they were delivered to you, or to the customer? You can't be this vague in an answer for god's sake.

I suppose you need to read it as in "after the goods have been delivered to the customer". Which then is the correct way of recognising revenue. This is some absolute language fuckery because I read it as as buying the goods from a supplier.

Also, D isn't necessarily a revenue recognition issue. Mischaracterising "items" can also be on the balance sheet. Again, the usage of the word "items" is way too broad in this scenario. Items is not limited to the income statement, there's also items on the balance sheet which was my line of thinking.

Rant over. Sorry everyone. Maybe I should accept my low (or average?) IQ and do HVAC shit.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-01T11:36:01+00:00

The best divorce song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4SxgSSA2izg Not that I’m getting another one but just love John Prine…

Yuruyakatou · 2023-10-01T11:54:39+00:00

Saw this video a couple of months ago but it keeps popping into my head every now and then. Guy was struggling with his mental health, calls the mental health line, and they treat him like fucking shit. Sends him off the deep end and he winds up getting shot by the cops.

Then people have the gall to ask why men don't talk about their feelings.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-01T11:58:33+00:00

looking at wedding dresses on pinterest out of boredom

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-01T12:34:00+00:00

A woman refusing to marry her man although he has a better financial situation than her is hot af

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T12:37:37+00:00

Men should never give a woman a big wedding. There’s no reason to.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T12:45:54+00:00

An equal partner is a fuckbuddy. Actual relationships require asymmetry.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T13:01:37+00:00

This guy has a wife and child, what is your excuse?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-01T13:44:03+00:00

We were visiting my aunt for my cousin's birthday,and i stumped upon an old family photo album. A few interesting stuff:

1) My aunt was super fucking hot lmao when younger,like lmao she looks like night and day comparing then and now,it looks like a different person. Like fr fr, she looked like she was 25 when she was 38(although the following 2 decades haven't been kind to her,to say the least

2) My dad was a fucking giga chad. Like, he looked like a douchy rockstar. Long hair,metal jacket, riding a motorcycle.

3) My dad also was the most punchable baby ever,fr i wanted to punch the photo

4) No one in the family had hair loss in old age,so genetically wise im safe.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-10-01T13:46:26+00:00

I'm so excited to hand out candy for Halloween and then even more excited for Christmas. I'm gonna make my cat his own stocking and everything it's gonna be great

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-01T13:47:21+00:00

I’m going out to smoke weed down the street…my “monk” neighbor has rejected my dinner offer to continue guttural chanting, lol. ✌️

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-01T13:54:21+00:00

I don’t plan on traveling to the US, but if I did, these are the places I would like to visit:

Texas, Austin specifically
Mississippi river
New Orleans
Some national park with big trees
Smithsonian institute

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-01T14:49:34+00:00

5’10 and broad shoulders or 6’3 and lanky?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-01T14:54:53+00:00

Something I think about a lot is that guys who were incels in the 90s and 2000s would channel their frustrations and confusion about unrequited love into music. Bands like Weezer and Radiohead make careers out of this stuff and in turn it increased their SMV, or at the very least allowed an outlet and a way to make friends in a community.

SianOiseau · 2023-10-01T14:57:43+00:00

PPD guy: female privilege, everyone wants to talk to you and is nice to you!

Me: struggle to form a new social circle and find some girlfriends. And I'm sure I'm not the only one with this situation.

I did get into a book club, but next meeting isn't anytime soon.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-01T15:04:38+00:00

Another thing I've noticed about incels is that they will claim no women like them because you have to look like a model to attract women. When you bring up an example of a normal looking couple, they will say that the woman is unattractive so it doesn't count. Essentially, incel men are doing what they claim women do. They are filtering out women they don't find attractive, and then feeling sorry for themselves.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-10-01T15:13:56+00:00

Today bf and I are getting some chores done, going to an evensong service at church, and then I’m taking him out to dinner (actually, I think it’s his turn to take me out but he had a hard day yesterday and I want to treat him).

It’s a gorgeous fall day!

potoricco · 2023-10-01T15:26:10+00:00

Hey guys!!

luliloo · 2023-10-01T15:32:05+00:00

I discovered a new ick. Him spelling sorry like this is just 🫥

Me: I think you said this near my phone too many times. Now I get this ad lol

Him: 😂😂😂 sowwy

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-01T15:44:12+00:00

Feminists be like

"Let's silence all talk on masculinity and where we permit it, let it be about toxic masculinity. Then, we shall win over the support of all men"

And just like that alot of young men get their masculinity fix from Andrew Tate.

Thank you feminists

business_explained · 2023-10-01T16:40:04+00:00

Paul Allen has mistaken me for this dickhead Marcus Halberstram. It seems logical because Marcus also works at P&P and in fact does the same exact thing I do and he also has a penchant for Valentino suits and Oliver Peoples glasses. Marcus and I even go to the same barber, although I have a slightly better haircut.

potoricco · 2023-10-01T16:44:44+00:00

Bring back appollo man this Reddit app is so trash the thread is glitchign

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-01T16:53:43+00:00

Q4A: You're very sick and catch your partner licking your boogers in the tissues from the garbage bin. Do you feel:

Flattered
Disgusted

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T16:54:48+00:00

Gymbros out there arguing that cardio is unhealthy now lmao

purplish_possum · 2023-10-01T16:58:45+00:00

Well this is interesting. A guy who conservatives promoted as a poster boy victim of angry overreaching feminists has been arrested for killing and dismembering his fiancee.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/sep/30/metoo-california-murder-rachel-elizabeth-imani-buckner-joseph-roberts

SlashCo80 · 2023-10-01T17:10:38+00:00

Are there any modern sex trends you hate? Personally I don't like when women refer to the guy as "daddy", I find it slightly creepy and offputting. Calling herself "mommy" isn't much better either. Can we just leave the parental relations out of this?

business_explained · 2023-10-01T17:15:14+00:00

Apparently bonobo groups are ultra blackpilled. In one study the highest ranking bonobo male fathered 60% of the children.

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/07/170710122949.htm

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-01T17:18:15+00:00

They destroy any man who resists to instill fear in the population.

When men are too afraid to resist, they win.

RESIST, bro

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-01T17:28:11+00:00

Anyone else not like the look of body hair but enjoy the fuzzy feeling of it?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-01T17:36:38+00:00

You know one thing l'll never understand whenever we discuss this libido gap in relationships, it's always people responding with the typical stuff saying the man needs to self-control or suck it up if his wife/girlfriend isn't giving him enough frequency sex, and you'll get this responses from both men and women

But let a woman complain about the lack of emotional intimacy she's receiving from her husband/boyfriend, which is the number one complaint from women in relationships, everyone immediately throws bad shade at the man both men and women

So that's the funny trend l've seen over and over again in this very gynocentric society is we often put women's wants over men's

potoricco · 2023-10-01T17:51:42+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/dev2pkzzpmrb1.jpeg?width=426&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63a4b1525650a77e3bb0bfa017e5b80b78fd5ca2

Who want him

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-01T17:57:56+00:00

Today's plans include microdosing mushrooms and decorating for Halloween.

towerofcheeeeza · 2023-10-01T17:58:08+00:00

The CMV post about women not tolerating social awkwardness got locked already, and in it people were talking about creepiness and how guys will be perceived as creepy but not women. Wrong. I have firsthand experienced that women can 100% be creepy.

I am a bisexual woman. I was at a lesbian bar once and I was chatting with some people and these two women came up to me. One of them apparently thought I was cute and she was my type so I had no problem talking to her, but she quickly started to get way too close and started stroking my hand. I was trying to pull it away because I found it kind of uncomfortable but she wouldn't let go and kept telling me she found me so pretty and would I like to go somewhere. Meanwhile her friend kept egging us on being like "oh my friend really likes you ;)" and eventually I had to make an excuse and leave. So yes, women can be creepy. I would have very much appreciated if she could have gotten the hint that I was not comfortable with her touching me repeatedly - I just met her and she would not let my hand go for like 5-10 minutes. Even when I said I didn't want to leave at the moment she kept trying to encourage me to go with her.

I've also had male friends tell me about girls they knew who also behaved creepily, so it's not like men are the only gender capable of it.

Also in college I knew some very socially awkward people, and both my female and male friends were uncomfortable around them.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-01T18:14:44+00:00

I can't help but laugh at the ignorance of the words "gynocentric society".

Like a deep belly laugh because it's so utterly ridiculous.

I can only imagine that the people saying it are egocentric stunted preschoolers playing dress up in papa patriarchy's shoes.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T18:43:18+00:00

Proof you don’t have to me a man to get a wife

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-01T18:54:56+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwU_SJXo9aA/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

ChinaThrowaway83 · 2023-10-01T19:06:34+00:00

I'm part of a travel buddy group on facebook. Today someone posted a photo of a male model, I'm pretty sure, as a social experiment. He's a white guy with a 6 pack that I'm pretty sure is actually a catfish doing some social experiment since I've seen the photo elsewhere (the steroid nipples are easy to remember). A lot of girls were thirsting after him by just leaving hearts so he could dm them.

I looked through the rest of the travel buddy group since there seem to be a lot. Every time a girl said she was going anywhere there were guys trying to join lmao. One girl was just like "I'm in NYC, can someone pick me up" and another guy was like "Would anyone like to go to Cancun, a theme park, national park, ski resort, city exploration with me? Mostly no cost to you!" which I'm pretty sure is targeted only to girls. So much is left out like whether he'll fly the girl to Cancun.

It's funny how people can't say they're only looking for people of the opposite gender and the social dynamics.

Plenty of guys looking to go to Thailand and Phillipines too, with advice from guys who've been to Thailand 18 times.

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-10-01T19:08:35+00:00

I'm part of a travel buddy group on facebook. Today someone posted a photo of a male model, I'm pretty sure, as a social experiment. He's a white guy with a 6 pack that I'm pretty sure is actually a catfish doing some social experiment since I've seen the photo elsewhere (the steroid nipples are easy to remember). A lot of girls were thirsting after him by just leaving hearts so he could dm them.

I looked through the rest of the travel buddy group since there seem to be a lot. Every time a girl said she was going anywhere there were guys trying to join lmao. One girl was just like "I'm in NYC, can someone pick me up" and another guy was like "Would anyone like to go to Cancun, a theme park, national park, ski resort, city exploration with me? Mostly no cost to you!" which I'm pretty sure is targeted only to girls. So much is left out like whether he'll fly the girl to Cancun.

It's funny how people can't say they're only looking for people of the opposite gender and the social dynamics.

Plenty of guys looking to go to Thailand and Phillipines too, with advice from guys who've been to Thailand 18 times.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-01T19:08:40+00:00

This is what I imagine whenever I read icy_ordinary on here

Maffioze · 2023-10-01T19:08:46+00:00

I find it hilarious to see people in the US tell men to go to therapy, when its extremely expensive to do so and while the newly published APA guidelines for men and boys are unscientific, sexist and just unethical as they are more concerned with making men feminist allies than actually helping them with their issues.

Why would any self-respecting man that is already struggling want to be gaslighted into thinkin they are privileged and sexist?

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-10-01T19:32:45+00:00

How much do women care about men spending money on them for all the things like dates, gifts, paying for stuff when out together. I know everyone's different but I want to know what does an average woman in general expect?

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-10-01T19:45:16+00:00

Can one make their personality more fun, charismatic, funny? Or are you stuck with the one you're born with? I feel like I'm very bland and uninteresting, i never have anything interesting to say and add to the conversation, it's deeper than just getting girls cause I'm like this even with the boys. Can I do anything to change this?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-01T19:58:44+00:00

Bruh,can someone explain me why straight Americans are so hanged up about paying for stuff, while most LGBT Americans seem to be chill and mostly just split?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-01T20:03:38+00:00

I'm dying laughing listening to this :

youtu.be/cqc2JMN4Eeo?t=358

y2kjanelle · 2023-10-01T20:42:13+00:00

finished my hw for the day and waiting for my man to come home and snuggle 🥰

potoricco · 2023-10-01T21:00:47+00:00

Me, my mom, my brothers and my grandmother all went out for lunch, while my dad did not come because he was watching football even though i asked him if he wanted to come several times. In the same vein he’ll always tell me about how I only want to spend time with my mom and only call him when I want money when it’s actually the other way around. I love both parents equally but my mom is the one who makes deliberate efforts to spend time with me while my dad seems like he thinks money is a substitute for affection. On my birthday my mom gave me a meaningful gift while my dad only gave me money

Honestly when it comes to things like male loneliness. How much of it is caused by men just not making any attempt to form and maintain relationships? I don’t think women are inherently more loved or whatever. Women just try harder

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