Daily Community Chat Megathread

-passepar2t- · 2022-02-21T21:00:25+00:00

It's sad how every time a female artist of at least middling looks paints something, she's in the image that she posts to social media because she knows for a fact it'll increase views and engagement because we're sad little simps because that's how god made us.

decoy88 · 2022-02-21T14:43:42+00:00

It’s abundantly clear that some users are holding onto their clearly heavily religiously influenced ideas on dating and casual sex. And trying to pass it off like it’s scientific

Like Ben Shapiro

Just come out and say you think heathens are going to hell for having fun, fucking casually and partying.

annabeelongx · 2022-02-21T22:52:54+00:00

I love when men on here speak on the past and marriage as if women were marrying men they were attracted to. The truth is, women rarely married men they loved. Most men were BB. And most are made to be BB. This is not just a modern thing.

Take conservative Christians for example: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdSdQUPg/

This is the way many of the conservative/reserved women guys claim to want because they won’t DB (ha).Female sexuality was never about settling with the Chad.

Willow-girl · 2022-02-22T19:24:44+00:00

Home on my 20-minute break between jobs. Today I downloaded one of those apps that tracks how many steps you take. Anyone care to wager what my final tally for the day will be?

Winner gets a cute baby cow or kitten pic (your choice). Ready, set, GO!

DaphneDK42 · 2022-02-22T12:48:58+00:00

Girls would trade away all their acomplishments for a day of being the pretty girl

Spacechicken1998 · 2022-02-22T12:09:59+00:00

Back from a years hiatus, sup incels chads & sugar babies?

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-02-21T12:59:09+00:00

Q4M do you ever wish you were gay or bi?

Edit: I’m straight but sometimes I imagine being held in the big strong meaty arms of a large gentle bear while he strokes my hair and sings me to sleep with his deep voice. Too bad I’m straight though

lulll · 2022-02-21T14:52:20+00:00

i kind of just skim through new threads now, i've barely posted anything in any of the new threads for months now. i was trying to figure out why and then i realized....its because its all about women. why women do this, why women do that, women women women women women, lets talk about women all fucking day long. men obsessively analyzing women, women obsessively explaining women to the men here. and i finally realized, when the fuck do women ever try to analyze anything men do....? women don't ask men questions here or anywhere, they literally dont give a fuck what men have to say, they just want to talk about themselves and womens epic special laundry list of preferences all day long. seriously guys when was the last time a woman ever got in a debate with you over how men behave and you had to explain it to them? thats rare. they think they have men all figured out, despite the fact they keep getting in disaster relationship after disaster relationship. yea you really know men very well lol

women aren't worth analyzing, its simping in a different form

Narrow_Bridge5804 · 2022-02-21T16:35:38+00:00

Men have it hard, but it isn't "easy" for women either

I think men, whilst understandably frustrated by dating, don't seem to see anything about the female experience as anything but an advantage.

But take a moment (as we should all do) to try and comprehend the OTHER side.

As a woman do you know how frustrating it is that....

Almost NOBODY in day to day life or online provokes any feeling of attraction? It's just an endless slog of swiping through people we don't want. Now imagine, men, if you went onto tinder and literally almost none of the girls seemed appealing....

Constant unwelcome advances, both online and in public. YES you can block people on socials and you have more control over who you speak to on swipe apps....but getting unsolicited pictures or messages from dozens of guys a week is claustrophobic and sometimes scary, especially when a rejection or ignoring somebody is met with frustration on their end, or awkwardness with somebody you know. And in real life, being on edge about being in a coffee shop or enjoying time with friends at a bar, because a random man may try and strike up a conversation that is obviously intended to at some point lead to sex....

Being objectified and scrutinized physically, and not taken seriously mentally or emotionally.

Finding it very hard to get anything but bad treatment out of the very few men you felt something for....being used for sex and led along for weeks or months, thinking you had a connection whilst that person was sleeping with other women all along.

I understand the hardships of male dating, but the female side isn't so good either.

We all need to be more understanding of each other.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-02-21T21:15:45+00:00

So apparently The Tinder Swindler guy Simon just signed with a Hollywood agent and is in the works for his own dating show.......I fucking can't that's gold 😂😂😂😂😂

purplish_possum · 2022-02-21T22:17:27+00:00

Just ran across this article: Love is biological Bribery.

https://nautil.us/love-is-biological-bribery-14058/?utm_source=pocket&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=pockethits

(O)ur biology to seek love, crave love, find love, keep love, is a weakness. That visceral need can be exploited, it can be used to make us do things we don’t necessarily want to do. And that’s the cost of love. It can be used to manipulate or abuse or coerce us. That’s what separates us from the animals. Animals don’t use love to manipulate others. We do.

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-02-21T22:29:18+00:00

Honestly, arguing here just feels like Im constantly getting gaslit. Like none of my lived experiences mean anything at all. Its crazy sometimes.

2022-02-21T23:36:37+00:00

Guys! I got my second crybaby to block me today.

I think I like it here.

poppy_blu · 2022-02-22T12:06:19+00:00

You know who has it eaZeeIsT?

People who aren’t looking for endless excuses to justify their lack of willingness to take control of their own lives.

I shouldn’t have to tell a bunch of grown ass adults that if you want something in life you have to put in effort to get it.

Narrow_Bridge5804 · 2022-02-22T11:56:54+00:00

I think it would be beneficial for the men here to REALLY internalize one thing

I'm not speaking for all women, but myself and other women I know included...

We absolutely would MUCH rather be alone than settle for a man we're not attracted to.

Granted, some women kinda give up or "let the dream die" of being with somebody they find attractive, and kinda decide to just be with somebody (think of it as mgtow for women, but instead of being alone they have a man paying for half their lifestyle and raising children with them)

But now in 2022 and beyond - being with nobody really is more appealing, at least to women honest with themselves, than a man they don't find physically and emotionally attractive.

It's not a case of, well, if all the most attractive guys are taken then NOW my attraction falls on the guys below them, no, it's very much and always has been a case of only maybe, for me personally, one guy every month or so in the street or maybe even as low as once or twice a year that I meet and speak to face to face actually makes me feel something. It's rare, and anything less does feel like you're kinda lying to yourself about what would make you happy.

I do think women's preferences are different though, and one woman's "once a month" guy will be different to mine.

But my point is, let the revenge fantasy die, women including myself and those I am close to genuinely at least won't be happy if they "lower" their standards from what they are.

madsskayyy · 2022-02-21T22:56:11+00:00

I don’t know why but the people on here have surprisingly good music taste. First I got addicted to The Beach Boys because of you guys, and the other day someone was talking about Billy Joel songs and I played his album The Stranger and now I know something more than Piano Man by him. Gracias PPD

lulll · 2022-02-21T23:02:43+00:00

Is Russia invading Ukraine or not haven't felt this gaslit since Lost season 6

i_have_a_semicolon · 2022-02-21T14:49:32+00:00

I think my dick shrank after I caught Covid in December

Yukbghhjj · 2022-02-21T15:51:41+00:00

Cutting sucks, especially when you’re small with a big appetite and still need to lift to maintain muscle 😭

RedditDeservesNoHero · 2022-02-21T18:43:28+00:00

The industrial revolution and it’s consequences have been a disaster for the human race.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-02-21T21:56:25+00:00

I'd say to any person who wants to level up or get better with their social skills if they're struggling, get your licence to sell alcohol and find a bar or club to work in. You get to talk to some sick ass people most nights and you're placed out of your comfort zone, good chance for you guys to feel more comfortable in these situations.

I love being social anyway so getting a bar job was perfect, especially at a comedy club, love just randomly talking to the comedians that walk through to get a drink and just hearing some of their stories. Probably my favourite job I've ever had.

AquaChip · 2022-02-21T12:35:25+00:00

NFTs are a Ponzi scheme and no one can convince me otherwise. You’re literally buying nothing in hopes that in 20 years it’ll be used for something useful and be worth something. So stupid.

“Hey, buy this NFT for 20k because it might be worth 20 million one day! No I have no evidence that it will be worth 20 million and I have no idea what it would be useful for but you can try!”

It’s like buying a 20k lottery ticket—but worse because there’s no liquidity behind it. When it’s all said and done, the only winners in this whole thing will be the people smart enough to convince stupid and gullible people that a picture of monkey with a blue Afro is a rare appreciating collectible.

JustaGuyinFinance · 2022-02-21T13:19:17+00:00

I just stumbled on to this subreddit. Some mighty interesting posts you have here

lessfaterrday · 2022-02-21T13:39:57+00:00

Lifted for the first time this year, thought I’d be weak af. I am not lol. Probably weaker than I was December, but I’m far from a weak person.

For the past two years I’ve lifted at planet fitness. No free barbells so I had to stick to dumbbell bench press. Because of that I thought I’d be weaker on the actual bench compared to my college days.

On my last set I did a set of 5 with more weight than my college 1RM with no help lol. Dumbbell pressing paid off!

Keep at it boys! (and girls)

-passepar2t- · 2022-02-21T15:12:44+00:00

You know what sucks about military conflicts? No battlemechs.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2022-02-21T16:11:31+00:00

Women on PPD are so frustrating to talk to...

Lobelty · 2022-02-21T17:22:42+00:00

Ist this sun just full of frustrated men? I’m a guy coming from r/menslib and looking for more communities to discuss current societal issues, most of which seem to come from gender stereotypes. What I experienced on this sub so far mainly people venting and speaking about their frustration with daring, both men and women. But it never goes further than that, people express their frustrations which is important and valid, but is there also discussion on what the reasons for this are and maybe how we could try and fix it?

gimpgirl555 · 2022-02-21T17:32:09+00:00

Slacker theory confirmed: more men are chilling:

Almost one-third of all working-age men in America aren’t doing diddly-squat. They don’t have a job, and they aren’t looking for one either. One-third of all working-age men. That’s almost 30 million people!

How do they live? What are they doing for money? To me, this is one of the great mysteries of our time.

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/7-ways-men-live-without-working-in-america-092147068.html

Roughly 1 in 7 working-age men in the U.S. aren't employed, higher than before the 2008 housing crash.

"Less-than-college-educated white males, a group for whom the increases in labor force dropout have been stark,

https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/the-economys-hidden-problem-working-class-men-without-jobs/#app

Stay winning brahs!

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-02-21T18:44:29+00:00

Dressing up in half drag I got way more female attention than I would do normally. I even got a "you look amazing" from a random woman. 🥵❤️

This might be largely because it was Rocky Horror and so appropriate. But I'm gonna try again outside that in normal club context.

I got so many women complimenting my shoes. Absolutely mad.

I don't know if it would be a good approach for actually getting dates? I think I could wingman for days with it though. Random women just suddenly want to talk to you.

WorldWideButtCheeks · 2022-02-21T19:54:49+00:00

Good evening lovely peeeps its almost 9pm here and im cosy in bed half watching brooklyn 99 and feeling nosey! Anyone had an interesting encounter with the opposite sex lately? Do share (good or bad) and spare no details 😜💁‍♀️

chilikettlechips · 2022-02-21T20:51:32+00:00

update on the TightMax comment from this morning. If you read the thread linked in the link, now tons of women are saying it's normal. But, what if? See you next time there's solipsism and lack of introspection!

bigmonsterbitch · 2022-02-21T21:55:24+00:00

Is it a stupid rule to have men that you don’t consider your equal or don’t consider special to only do anal with them and then men who you like or love or respect can have any hole?

Aviadcool111 · 2022-02-21T22:46:21+00:00

When is the next ppd demographic survey going to happen?

ashpr0ulx · 2022-02-21T23:35:35+00:00

my brain: money money money money money money

my body: please go home. every part of us hurts.

the struggle is real

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-02-22T11:18:02+00:00

Q4W why haven’t you changed your pronouns to they/them so you can have the best pussy?

GoldenHornyChicken · 2022-02-21T12:08:09+00:00

First ?

I'll have my DIU removed the day after tomorrow. I'm so excited.

lessfaterrday · 2022-02-21T13:44:06+00:00

Side note: Swimming before lifting is a bad idea lol. Destroys your gas tank 🤣

Mark_Freed · 2022-02-21T14:38:49+00:00

Fuck. Fuuuuucccck.

How do people do cold approach?!

Like I saw this cute girl in my college canteen today and decided to shoot my shot.

I already knew she was from my hometown due to the language she was speaking and that's like one easy opening.

She got her food and was eating alone but she seemed to be vegetarian while I had taken non veg food. So I didn't want to go and sit down in front of her. I wanted to also have a way to leave in case she seemed uncomfortable.

So here I am standing like far away from her. Not adjacent or parallel but diagonal. That was weird.

Then I try to say hi and mention how I overheard her speaking our native tongue without sounding like a creep.

I fucked it up beautifully. I didn't even know I could stutter like that. I was barely audible. She was confused.

So lessons learned - speak loudly, confidently, enunciate each word carefully.

But thankfully she was understanding, I managed to repeat myself. She happened to be from the same district I was, she told me her name, which course she was enrolled in. But I didn't see her smile welcomingly so I decided to leave her alone and not bother her.

But as I gestured and said the words ok, see you around. I saw her gesture for me to sit. So I confirmed if I could sit and I sat down, DIAGONALLY!!

NOT OPPOSITE HER WHERE I COULD HAVE EYE CONTACT OR NEXT TO HER WHERE I WOULD BE CLOSER.

FML. It was awkward sitting that far away but I didn't want to move closer and we started to eat together and made conversation.

She doesn't smile a lot naturally I think. Because she seemed to be interested, she asked me questions back!

Lesson learnt : some girls don't smile a lot. They don't signal interest in obvious ways. You really need to pay attention to body language and it's easy to mistake her being shy with her being uncomfortable with your advances. Her asking genuine questions, her walking with me after dinner and waiting for me to finish washing hands all signal that she was interested. But also it could just her being polite. But it's better to assume positively 😂

I channeled my passion, smiled a lot, brought up topics, asked about her schooling, why she chose that field, what's happening in campus nowadays, I asked about the local gym, I had also overheard her wanting to work out tomorrow.

Lol I think overhearing so much is a bit creepy but I didn't even plan it!!

She asked about my parents, weather back at home, my schooling, we found a common friend among us.

It was nice, we washed out hands, walked to her cycle and I bid her bye.

And then I calmed down and considered how I did. I wasn't planning this so I could have done my hairstyle better. It was spontaneous. .

So lesson learnt is always be stylish. Even if it's late night dinner, comb your hair and style it. You never know when an opportunity strikes. Looking good is part of your lifestyle. If you want love, being comfortable can wait.

I had some cool clothes on. I think overall I did fine like 6/10 and that's also because my competition in this nerd school sucks.

But even after knowing I should be confident and just approach. It's so scary. This is when I am approaching someone in a warm atmosphere, she knows I study here and we have some mutual friends. It is a safe space with lots of other students eating around us.

How the fuck do these people go upto a beautiful girl who is a complete stranger and try to initiate conversation? What balls? What shamelessness... Like how handsome do you have to be for her to enjoy that interaction?

The obvious response is going to be confusion, fear, uncertainty, etc.

Anyway, it was a small step in dating but a giant leap for me personally! :D

Yukbghhjj · 2022-02-21T14:49:27+00:00

What are your sex partner counts?

purplish_possum · 2022-02-21T14:50:22+00:00

couldn’t resist this thrift store find

Habil13 · 2022-02-21T15:15:44+00:00

A lot of people in the comment section on my post have implied and/or accused me of saying women should not have been sexually liberated. Can anyone point me to a specific place in my post where you could misinterpret that? Either PPD’s reading comprehension is low, or my writing skills are bad.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sx6r7i/now_that_women_have_been_sexually_liberated_most/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

hornyjailer1 · 2022-02-21T15:15:54+00:00

I wish there was a way to “become” a man/woman for just one day. I’m talking about authentically becoming the other gender without the trans stuff.

Women would be shocked by the high sex drive that men have. When I see a girl with a nice ass wearing short shorts I literally imagine all kinds of sexual positions with her lol. That’s the first thing I think of

Libah05 · 2022-02-21T15:22:21+00:00

I thought for the past 3 months that I’ve been bisexual. I’ve watched trans porn and I’ve recently begun to watch soft gay porn. I felt really horny today so I made a Grindr on the pretense of only receiving oral sex since I don’t feel comfortable having anal sex with a man. It took some back and forth conversation before I finally found a suitable guy.

I went over to his apartment and our eyes looked in. My heart dropped and I just walked past his apartment. I couldn’t take it.

I’m not bisexual, I’m just very horny and I don’t have a woman to help me out.

AquaChip · 2022-02-21T15:48:44+00:00

Another thing women don’t experience that men do is post nut clarity or post-coital tristesse. After ejaculation, a wave of sadness washes over us. Sometimes it’s pure sadness or regret. Other times, it’s a numbness/dullness that can feel incredibly calming.

-angels-fan- · 2022-02-21T16:46:16+00:00

Women don't care about men, but they especially don't care about homeless and elderly men.

Am I supposed to care that a homeless guy or an elderly widower isn't getting Stacey? No.

Why the fuck wouldn't you care that homeless and elderly men are crushingly lonely??

Autonate · 2022-02-21T17:22:32+00:00

OK, I'm going to the Peruvian girl. Gonna visit Machu Picchu, Arequipa, y Lago Titicaca.

How was Peru for those who have visited? I hear it's relatively safe (mostly just pickpockets). I'm gonna stand out from being foreign and taller, so wanna do what I can to minimize risks and have a good time.

Currently learning Spanish and talking every day

ShinyBronze · 2022-02-21T17:37:05+00:00

I like making out more than sex.

Also, even though I’m a heterosexual male, areolas are unattractive to me. I prefer covered up over full nude.

Bikini over a naked body any day.

AMA

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-02-21T18:18:24+00:00

Q4W: Do you fantasise about being ravished by Nazgûl Ringwraiths? Answer honestly please.

bigmonsterbitch · 2022-02-21T19:10:45+00:00

How do you guys deal with insecurities in the short term? I know the way to gain self confidence is through developing one’s self. In the short term though, how do I stop feeling insecure? I am a toxic person due to the insecurity and I need something in the short term to make me feel confidence

Yukbghhjj · 2022-02-21T19:13:24+00:00

Recommend relativity modern martial arts movies for me please.

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-02-21T19:35:46+00:00

My big boy Bubba was kicking up a fuss over his saddle today so we went without. Never again. Riding bareback is so scary but respect to the people who can. I forget u/Willow-girl do you have horses too? 😅

LowCreddit · 2022-02-21T19:41:48+00:00

hello i take a break from my PPD break as a conflict has arisen.

i made a poll and then this guy comes and says that courts actually favor fathers. He argued that it is a misconception that the courts favor mothers due to the fact that the parents themselves decide that woman should have primary custody without taking it to court. He's got some sources to back it. However, when i Google it myself, the general consensus is still that mothers are favored.

what's the truth?

sosayeth · 2022-02-21T21:01:51+00:00

Women: in six words or less, can you tell us why you want or think you need a job, career, money?

Again. Six words or less. Simple question, simple answer. Nobody wants to or is going to read your goofy novella.

logiauser · 2022-02-21T23:03:34+00:00

I dont mean to spam the daily thread, but im just now considering how much women in general just really stress me the fuck out. This stress just poisons my headspace so much.

Scrimmy_Bingus2 · 2022-02-21T23:36:15+00:00

Women of PPD:

Rate this guy out of 10

GuitarsBack · 2022-02-22T00:03:43+00:00

Any women here who are open to dating me? At least, chat and then figure out if we want to date each other? PM me.

lulll · 2022-02-22T00:15:18+00:00

for some reason i decided to have belgian waffles for dinner, i havent had them in years. now i remember why. jesus christ how do people eat this shit more than once a decade

Lobelty · 2022-02-22T10:30:16+00:00

What is it that you are looking for in life? Is it relationships? Is it just getting sex? Do you just want to mind your own business?

Additionalparties · 2022-02-22T10:30:07+00:00

Modern society: Women can have whatever standards they want, but men daring to have standards are iNsEcuRe

Any man dumb enough or weak enough to fall for modernity's machinations against men deserves every bit of misery that will befall them as a result

Libah05 · 2022-02-22T09:33:10+00:00

What constitutes a “big” dick? In length and girth.

OneAngryBlutbad · 2022-02-22T08:04:21+00:00

Life has simultaneously gotten better yet more stressful but I’m cool with it

DaphneDK42 · 2022-02-22T06:47:35+00:00

She seems like a nice person.

gimpgirl555 · 2022-02-22T06:46:33+00:00

"Just be a good provider bro. The past is the past bro."

I found out my wife has slept with over 30 men in the past two years behind my back and also was using methamphetamine the entire time.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/sumdaz/i_found_out_my_wife_has_slept_with_over_30_men_in/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

I devoted 12 years to taking care of this piece of shit and she's been cheating on me the whole time.

I have all the screenshots saved to my phone of her various tinder fucks and other affairs a d messages where she is telling her best friend that she's only married to me because I'm have a stable job and own a house

This is what you get for being "economically attractive" and providing. When will they ever learn?

-angels-fan- · 2022-02-21T17:53:48+00:00

Why do so many women here think that a platonic friendship can replace the emotional connection you get with a LTR?

Women so often think a LTR= friendship+sex and men are just mad that they don't get the sex part.

Do they not understand the deep connection that a partner provides beyond friendship?

My wife is by best friend. We have sex. But there's also planning a life together and all the intangibles of being with someone you love.

You can't just say the solution to male loneliness is "get a friend and you won't be lonely".

Side note: is it a LTR or an LTR?

ChadThundagaCock · 2022-02-21T21:55:16+00:00

I have realized that if I were to listen to everyone here on when/where it’s acceptable to approach women, I would never be cured of approach anxiety because I would always come up with reasons not to do it which would destroy the benefits of exposure therapy.

lulll · 2022-02-21T23:28:02+00:00

I just went on an amazing date🥺🥺 literally the best one I’ve been on in months.

We went to like a seafood shack that’s right in the water. We had a few beers each and he got some raw oysters cause I said I never had them. They were actually really good, he showed me how to eat them lol. It was super fun and great conversation. We were there for a few hours.

Fingers crossed🥰

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-02-21T12:07:47+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/sx65xf/men_have_you_ever_had_sex_with_women_you_werent/

This thread was funny. Women will fuck guys they’re not attracted to but it usually has to be in exchange for something. Cash, a promotion, covering my rent etc. Men fuck girls they don’t think are attractive at all just for the nut, that’s all they need. I think at a certain age if you’re still dumpster diving that’s a problem though.

LalaTheSecond · 2022-02-22T06:34:59+00:00

I almost had my bath bombs confiscated by TSA but I think it helped that I looked like someone who's carry on would be half full of sparkly bath supplies. The dude wasn't impressed by his glitter fingers though.

houstongradengineer · 2022-02-22T06:08:45+00:00

Help, save me from my autism. I need interview tips! Please, anyone, man or woman, red or blue or black or yellow pill! SRS replies only, this is a professional issue not a personal/pleasure/funny issue

u/-passepar2t- I feel like your tips in particular would be helpful btw

gimpgirl555 · 2022-02-22T05:53:52+00:00

Friendly reminder that women will stop fucking you after having a kid: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/puorly/study_low_sexual_frequency_for_couples_with_kids/

The study revealed some gender differences. On average, men wanted to have intercourse once or twice a week, while women thought it was enough to have intercourse once or twice a month.

Be prepared to leave the first time she says no to sex.

This has been a PSA from your local Gimp.

Slipthe · 2022-02-22T05:36:26+00:00

Women get the ick. The visceral disgust for a man.

Men get the irk. The palpable annoyance for a woman.

Men can still fuck the annoying woman, but won't spend time with her. Women can't fuck the disgusting man, but will spend time with him.

redditthrowaway1478 · 2022-02-21T15:42:23+00:00

Well this is gaining traction

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/sxcvvm/why_are_young_men_giving_up_on_dating/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

geometersbane · 2022-02-21T18:54:34+00:00

Some triggered woman here reported a comment I made over a year ago LOL

Autonate · 2022-02-22T05:30:34+00:00

Hello redditors, this is your local incel autist. I've been using HelloTalk to learn Spanish and talk to girls my age. Now I'm going to 90dayfiance (Joke, I'm not getting married..es un chiste) this and go to Peru next month. I will keep you all posted to let you know how it goes for a socially retarded autist in a foreign country

chilikettlechips · 2022-02-22T05:20:15+00:00

AITA we're both software engineers and after 5 months of daily paying for dates I asked her to split the bill and she said her love language is her money is hers and my money is hers. AITA?

Thread accuses him of bait and switch

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-02-22T05:17:55+00:00

OP says online dating is not easier for women

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sxte1h/psa_women_do_not_have_it_easier_with_online_dating/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

If you believe this, you basically subscribe to the premise that women are better ppl than men, which is ridiculous. Either that or you believe women have much higher standards than their real potential

MeteorFalls297 · 2022-02-22T04:33:45+00:00

How universal do you think hoe phase is in women? In my opinion and experience, it is not that high. At best 50%. Majority of the girls call that one month in college when they were depressed, had sex with three guys and made out with their female roommate their hoe phase.

Most of the girls aren't just cool enough to be a hoe, they can't even move on from the Chad they made out with in a random party. Also, some girls only initiate their hoe phase due to FOMO. And get emotionally damaged within 2 weeks and decide to "focus on their career". Hoeing isn't for everyone.

But yeah, they rake up n-counts by having 3 three months LTRs in one year though.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-02-22T04:24:58+00:00

DRAMMMMMA

My company's ceo's wife and I are in agreement in regards to something my VP/direct report manager is not.

Nice to have the CEO on my side by proxy ;)

I actually really like her she's an electrical engineer with a fucking ton of ability and knowledge. One of the highest performing people I've ever met. Most CEOs don't have wives crucial to their company's success. But she is.

WilliamWyattD · 2022-02-22T04:24:44+00:00

I think a lot of people don't get how female intrasexual competition works. It doesn't have nearly as big an impact on female mate choice as male competition does, for various reasons. This includes that what makes men good at the actual competing part is actually attractive to women, as well as the natural advantages that help decide men's place. Meanwhile, what makes women good at competing intrasexually isn't that attractive to men; however, the results and resulting female hierarchy do matter. And women compete almost as hard as men do, even if it is for less of an advantage.

So this idea that women are being silly worrying about fashion choices that men will not notice is misguided. Men face restrictions in mate choice, possibly imposed on them by the female social matrix around them originally so as to make male mate choice not entirely about youth and beauty, and to make families run smoother.

So high value men cannot just wife up anything they want without consequence. And even if they cannot name all the designer brands a woman is wearing, they get a sense of her class level. That matters big time. Plus, these men are influenced by the women in their lives, who do notice. And men, even as socially dumb as we are, can get a sense of how other women treat each other, and what that implies.

figuringMylife · 2022-02-22T04:20:43+00:00

alright. cmv:

dating for who you actually desire is better for men because what’s considered high value for men is more attainable vs what’s considered high value for women are typically immutable traits, her values, and her past

houstongradengineer · 2022-02-22T04:11:36+00:00

CMV: Most women and men will agree that currently non-promiscuous women are higher value, because easy sex just doesn't have value for women any more than drinking or gooning one's life away does. Women and men literally both agree on this.

figuringMylife · 2022-02-22T03:51:19+00:00

can we make a high value women post next plz

effeteintellectual · 2022-02-22T03:45:57+00:00

Have any of you met an FDS woman irl or a woman you suspect subscribes to the FDS philosophy?

Slipthe · 2022-02-22T03:23:37+00:00

I swear to Jesus if one more dude agrees with OP in this CMV instead of putting their comment where they are supposed to, I'm gonna nuke it.

figuringMylife · 2022-02-22T03:19:24+00:00

really starting to get a little disappointed with the whole “women mommy’ing out” stuff.

such a small percentage of households can afford to have a single income and there isn’t an insane difference between male and female breadwinners stats considering women haven’t been in the workforce for long.

literally caring about the person you’re in a relationship with a communicating should solve 90% of ur problems

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-02-22T02:57:52+00:00

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Slipthe · 2022-02-22T02:48:58+00:00

No lie, I think my bf and me watching Love is Blind put a little spark in my bf's interactions with me.

Willow-girl · 2022-02-22T02:40:26+00:00

Annabelle is still ... not good. Drove an hour to Wheeling to the vet's to pick up a bottle of dexamethasone for her in a last-ditch attempt. Like all downed cows, she is sitting up, happily eating and drinking, looking just fine and dandy except she can't stand up. It is the damnedest thing. It is breaking my heart and my man's too, I can tell. We are doing everything we can for her ... deep bedding, turning her from side to side, giving her second-cutting hay and grain (which she loves) to keep her energy up. If she doesn't make it -- and most likely she won't -- it won't be because we didn't try.

I have to work a double shift tomorrow, followed by midnight barn chores and a couple hours of sleep before another double on Wednesday. Gonna be a long week ...

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-02-22T02:34:01+00:00

Hearing "You're sweet","You''re nice", "You're a good man", etc. triggers a response in me

Not sure what kind of response, but it's not a good one at all

Edit: "Good kid" is even worse; genuinely makes me wanna jump off a cliff

And_Rue · 2022-02-22T01:49:40+00:00

The closest living relatives of hippos are whales.

Kaleidoscopiquant · 2022-02-22T01:48:08+00:00

interesting article on how being too online is turning awkward girls into they/thems. i think it's a very similar phenomenon to the inc*l/porn/anime boys and the rant i got into here the other day.

The adolescent brain is in a developmental stage primed to incorporate experiences into the process of identity formation, and spending so much time in fantasy without building much of an identity through real social and life experiences can lead to the identity and fantasy elements becoming indistinguishable.

My perception of myself as trans formed in the intersection between overwhelming emotional struggles, heavy fantasy, emotional and intellectual infatuation with males (real people, fictional characters, and the idea of males generally), fanfiction, social and ideological incentives to be trans, and insulation from experiences and perspectives that might have challenged the views I was developing about myself and the world. Each individual girl’s story will vary, give or take a few factors, but in the broadest sense these are the basic factors that comprise the trans “social contagion” described by people like researcher Lisa Littman and Abigail Shrier in her book, Irreversible Damage, particularly when we are talking about male-attracted girls. What I’ve said here barely scratches the surface.

replace tumblr fanfic with anime/porn/gaming and you have the same result for the boys. awkward/sad adolescents shutting themselves away from normal socialization and losing touch with reality. the internet is the worst thing that's happened to weird kids.

QuenchlessGato · 2022-02-22T01:39:43+00:00

So there is this recent story about some girl at Starbucks that was approached by some guy. And the Starbucks employee decided that this guy was a some creep and they passed a note on the coffee to let the girl know that she can ask for help. Of course everyone now in social media is praising the barista for looking after that girl and protecting her from the "creep" ( which she had no problem dealing with him herself). But how is the employee's action not creepy in itself? If the staff started passing me some messages I would be very disturbed no matter their intention - just leave me alone?

Also, this is another example that cold approaching is bad since now even the employees will start shaming you for talking to women.

jax006 · 2022-02-22T00:58:00+00:00

Watching my friend go through oneitis for this single mom is crazy. Now I've got 3 different coworkers who are seriously dating broke-ass single moms lol 🤡

lulll · 2022-02-22T00:54:55+00:00

why did she overcook the steak though?

Ppdstillmental · 2022-02-22T00:50:38+00:00

A friend just told me a mutual friend told her boyfriend “I love you” and he responded with “I love spending time with you” 🥺. She made it worse by then telling him “No I’m in love with you” to which he said exactly nothing in return.☠️ Don’t know exactly how long they have been seeing each other but it’s been at least 6 months.

She made the first move too.

luliloo · 2022-02-22T00:49:26+00:00

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effeteintellectual · 2022-02-22T00:31:41+00:00

Is there any man on this subreddit who genuinely loves being a man and isn’t jealous of women? Until I came across Reddit, I didn’t realize men were jealous of women lmao. I love being male.

dysonRing · 2022-02-22T00:23:34+00:00

Stop purring in my inbox PPD women, no I won't date you, am not a catsexual.

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-passepar2t- · 2022-02-21T16:11:02+00:00

Imagine spending your whole life neurotically keeping track of what's okay to like and what's not okay to like. Just lol.

Crushed_95 · 2022-02-21T17:22:32+00:00

There's over 5000 species on this great planet of Earth and just 3% of them species are monogamous. And of that 3%, close to 50% are birds. Monogamy is unnatural, especially for humans right? Prove me wrong.

chilikettlechips · 2022-02-21T17:33:00+00:00

TIL women can TightMax with surgery.

geyges · 2022-02-21T22:45:47+00:00

I’m not a Red Pill man but I guess technically I’m spinning plates. Seems weird to call women plates tho

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