Daily Community Chat Megathread

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-04T23:44:09+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/14qtz5j/yikes/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Am I missing something? Whats wrong with anything he listed? It all seems very reasonable yet the very first comment is shaming him and saying that hes probably looking for younger because a woman his age wont put up with that like a younger woman would

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-07-03T16:35:57+00:00

Tbh guys who don't even have one female friend🚩🚩🚩

RahLyt · 2023-07-03T12:41:08+00:00

This definitely a funny sub. Girls will fight you on one post that there's nothing wrong with promiscuity, they are just expressing their sexuality. On the next one they will feel offended if someone claims average girls have casual sex and say the average N count for women is 2.

armpitpics · 2023-07-03T14:51:46+00:00

Reading Quora and DCUM topics about income has showed me just how out of touch some posters are. People making 300K+ with a net worth of in the high six digits or low seven digits thinking they're middle and upper middle class in terms of wealth and income.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-07-03T15:19:11+00:00

When you want to own the libs so badly you fuck yourself out of getting permanent alimony 🤣

potoricco · 2023-07-03T16:02:28+00:00

I honestly can’t take male pro lifers seriously

Even though they won’t admit it, much of the male pro life arguments are just centered about limiting female autonomy and womb envy.

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T07:51:27+00:00

ALSO

THIS PLACE HAS A SENSORY DEVICE THAT ACTUALLY FUCKING WORKS

The only way I was able to talk to that woman and say "Hey I want to xyx" was because they had a literal BOX of different stimming shit that allowed me to focus even with the heavy sensory issues happening ( the music, sounds, people, etc) . There was this sudo rubix cube type thing that you could use with just one hand I just continuously manipulated that through the even and while talking to women and stuff.

But also : Everyone there knew what the fuck autism is. Nobody there was surprised when I made a weird movement or like was just..off. Someone literally said "I have autism too it's okay (edit: I did not mention I have autism) you want a hug" and I said yes

Fucking insanity.

I have found the solution for inceldom.

EDIT 2: ALSO

Consent, it's so clear. You can literally go up to people just randos (they do it all the time) and be like hey I want to "xyz" and that's okay. They say yes oh yeah it's on if they say no okay easy but like 9/10 people are up for anything

fakingandnotmakingit · 2023-07-03T10:15:02+00:00

When men say the value an agreeable, nurturing, feminine woman they're lying to you

What they mean is they want to take advantage of someone, have them take all the financial risk of not earning their full potential, and any financial sacrifice you make to take care of the house and kids is worth... Maybe $2/hour.

So before you quit your job or go part time.. Make sure everything is in an iron clad contract. Before you even have a kid make sure of it. And while you're at it ask them what they think a stay at home parent is worth to them.

Because if anything goes wrong, you won't be the mother of their children. You're just a leech.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-03T11:57:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhitePeopleTwitter/comments/14p14le/aoc_being_attacked_because_of_a_harmless_selfie/

Im fully convinced that if AOC really dropped an OF then conservatives would be the first ones with one hand on their dick and the other on their credit card.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-03T15:30:04+00:00

Guys without friends 🚩🚩🚩

Guys with no friends who don't even try to make new friends 🚩🚩🚩

Guys with no friends relying on a relationship to fix their loneliness 🚩🚩🚩

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-04T05:30:12+00:00

Also I'm still talking to that one girl I met online on SL, we're just on discord now talking about to call

i'm not sure how normal it is for two adults to call each other from bed each night seems like teenager shit

Although I'm no longer worried about her catfishing me

She's actually some really important like...investment private equity person? Like she investigates companies and then...does something with that? And makes a lot of money doing it. Like more than me a lot of money. Which is a shitton of money. Although she seems really scarily A-type. Like "I feel poor because I'm not a billionare" level A-type. I'm not sure she'd stop working if she was a billioniare. I'll be honest I'm pretty chill so I'm not sure I want to work that hard cause I expect she'd expect me to.

But she's hot as fuck though and I like talking to her she's wicked smart

huhwhatokok · 2023-07-03T05:19:13+00:00

I told y’all that this push from companies on sports gambling would be the fall of most men in these upcoming generations (and current).

There was a twitter user who had a decently sized follower count based on sports who killed himself for a multitude of reason but one of the biggest reason he cited was he couldn’t stop betting on sports. Sad too cause he had two kids and I think his baby momma had died a while back too. This happened a couple months ago but I just came across his account again.

nexkell · 2023-07-03T11:28:15+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14pdu3d/why_do_people_get_so_mad_at_women_who_willingly/

And the hate contunies. More so they don't get that men won't care if women stop dating men, its the bashing of men women do and how they feel the need to go off on not dating men. Its like how some MGTOW men will go off not dating women but keep talking about not dating women.

AngeCruelle · 2023-07-03T13:28:49+00:00

We get it, Stockton Rush was an arrogant moron who got a bunch of people killed.

Why are there daily headlines reporting some other stupid shit he said as if any of this is new information at this pont?

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T14:34:36+00:00

how do all these people have fucking larger arms than I do when they’re all pulling way less weight

It’s pissing me off

potoricco · 2023-07-03T16:32:40+00:00

Faceclaim

Maffioze · 2023-07-03T17:23:42+00:00

Tomorrow I have to go to a doctor to get antibiotics to avoid lime disease because I might have a tick bite. Fuck my life.

AspiringMogger · 2023-07-03T17:28:29+00:00

As a European I have no idea how you can’t get pussy in America. It’s insane how easy American women are.

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-03T18:01:20+00:00

Random but my life dream is pivoting to trader/quant trader in my 30s and make 1.5mil/yr

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-03T18:10:44+00:00

I need to make a bit of money. I’m planning to complete the full stack developer course by Angela Wu in one week and start applying for jobs. What do you think of my plan?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-03T18:38:51+00:00

Me in the middle of writing my great comment on a post...than a mod locks it for low effort.

Can we bring back purge it was more entertaining

potoricco · 2023-07-03T18:40:27+00:00

NEED URGENT ADVICE

I’ve really wanted this Barbie movie doll and as you know I received $100 so I’m thinking of buying it, but I hate wasting money and I hate impulse purchases, so what do you think

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-03T18:41:44+00:00

Is it expected that nearly all if not all women will pullback at some point during the relationship? Have any of your gf’s done this? Should I just break up with a woman who does this? (assuming I’ve already tried to find out what’s wrong).

Reasonable-Web1494 · 2023-07-03T18:59:20+00:00

Q4M: How do you share your feelings? Why do you have feelings? Even if you have feeling why do you think others would want to listen about your feelings?

Most women share their feelings because they are "weak individually" , and they need a support group.

Men listen to woman blabber about their feelings because they want sex. Post nut clarity is a bitch. It makes me question the purpose of woman?

scwizard · 2023-07-03T19:50:10+00:00

This piece of shit doesn't feed her healthy foods, doesn't buy her clothes (often takes the new ones we purchase), she comes over dirty sometimes and I found out she stayed the night over his random co-workers family's house. The ex's chain-smoking, hateful boomer mother is watches my daughter while he's at work and makes he clean up dog shit, she is only allowed to color, told to stay away from her cousins because she bothers them, frequently mocks my daughter, talks poorly about me and feeds her unhealthy food as well.

This probably isn't Dad of the year but do you think this is take his kids away child abuse?

He is:

Feeding her
Making sure she's supervised while he's away
Giving her coloring books
Giving her chances to hang out with other kids

A lot of that stuff is pretty abusive and fucked up, but I'm pretty sure this is a better environment than foster care for sure. The mom thinks she'd be a better parent but her living situation is.

I do not have the money for an attorney, I'm about to have my third baby with my new partner

Once again I acknowledge he's a crappy dad, but taking away his kids seems like a stretch.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-03T20:03:12+00:00

Question4Men: innie or outie vagina? I like an innie vagina because everything is tucked in and makes the vagina not look disgusting.

Edit: damn I forgot not a lot of men on this sub have seen a vagina before so I guess they have no preference.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-03T20:57:13+00:00

I’m considering attending a language course, but it’s above my level. Then again, that might be what I need now. I’ve stayed in my comfort zone for too long.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-03T21:00:45+00:00

Peacesquad AMA

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-03T21:05:40+00:00

I don't get why women spend hours preparing to their make up and hair to go out or go on dates.

It's simple and easy to be pretty as a woman as long as you're not a complete slob (e.g. you have a healthy 19-21 BMI).

All you need is 10-20 minutes at best to put on simple easy natural makeup and do your hair. You just do some hair treatments in your hair and good shampoo/conditioners to look good so you don't need to do much work day to day.

The hours are wasted spending so much time on beauty when it's simple and easy to be attractive to men. 10-20 minutes gets you 90% of the beauty that will turn all the heads of men because you're at a healthy weight and better than the majority of women who are fatties.The rest of the hours getting that small extra 10% is a waste.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-04T05:17:04+00:00

All I want is a gf who lets me rest my head on her lap while stroking my hair and humming a lullaby while i suck on my thumb

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-04T05:11:24+00:00

The woman I'm texting has a friend whose autistic who stims heavily. She says he started a new medication that has reduced his stimming significantly without major side effects.

Old_Speed_7861 · 2023-07-04T04:32:27+00:00

Alimony should be abolished for infidelity

potoricco · 2023-07-04T04:32:25+00:00

Literally no idea what they’re saying or what this song is about but I vibe with it

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-07-04T04:29:06+00:00

Regarding the heterofatalism thread I missed a few days ago:

Anyone who thinks modern gay or lesbian dating is sunshine and roses, or that gay men never talk shit about other gay men, or lesbians never talk shit about other lesbians... hasn't talked to a lot of gays/lesbians.

They may not generalize as much as the straight radfems/pillers, but they do have complaints about the modern dating culture they participate in. (Hookup culture in the gay community, for example, is hurting a lot of gay men that want serious monogamous relationships. I've also seen lesbians complain about dating women that always want her to assume the "dominant role" in the relationship, passivity, flakiness, etc.). And those complaints are generally more accepted coming from gay men and lesbians because it's assumed openly gay men and lesbians aren't homophobic.

Imagine the phrase, "We need to do something about the black crime rate in this country!" Do you assume different things depending on if it's a white person or black person saying it? Probably.

You probably just don't notice homofatalism because you don't have a lot of real-life exposure to gays/lesbians. Or, if you're a woman, a lesbian woman complaining about other women doesn't activate the lizard-portion of your brain where you think of the Handmaid's Tale. Or, if you're a man, getting cheated on and fleeced in a divorce.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-07-04T04:02:09+00:00

5PointTakedown is one of the people here that I find easy to empathize with.

potoricco · 2023-07-04T03:07:21+00:00

Everyone loves me omg

potoricco · 2023-07-04T03:00:51+00:00

To anyone here that smokes, vapes? does drugs

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-03T11:06:47+00:00

Tfw when you put a thoughtful response but there's just that one checks note: ugly guy with a backbone, that fat guy who's a hypocrite, that guy who falls in love with any chick he vents to. That PPD woman happens to know so what I'm saying is obviously wrong.

Maffioze · 2023-07-03T13:46:14+00:00

"So why are more and more women opting out? Because men are mostly shit partners. Women largely realize that the benefits of marriage don’t offset the detriments, because men are mostly shit partners. Most men have a net negative impact on our lives, despite marriage still bringing significant tangible benefits (second income, tax breaks, better insurance, etc.)."

How much truth is there really to this and how can we actually judge this stuff in a deeper way than "just trust me bro"?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-03T13:59:46+00:00

You can improve your life but only if you allow yourself to. It involves a lot of humility and awareness which is good for the soul.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-03T14:34:27+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-03T14:35:04+00:00

Instagram ruined women

There I said it. Come at me reddit

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-03T15:24:50+00:00

Wait is my flair gone

potoricco · 2023-07-03T16:29:23+00:00

I keep buying makeup that I like never wear and it’s destroying my wallet

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-03T17:18:04+00:00

Is it easy to find work as a full stack developer having specialised in javascript?

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-03T17:21:46+00:00

Are most women traumatised? I get that certain (esp red pill) tactics only work on damaged women. Are most or a large portion therefore damaged? Doesn’t this then make a man’s task of finding a decent woman even more impossible?

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T17:22:38+00:00

Q4Women: Other than being dangerously unhinged, with no (although I guess that's changed recently?) friends, and generally being an asshole what 🚩 do I have?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-03T19:58:51+00:00

The big opinions about sugar babies from people who couldn't afford one always make me laugh.

A huge portion of sugar babies don't have sex.

The intention isn't even sex. It's a "girlfriend experience."

Sugar daddies want to pay and spoil young women who, in turn, spend time talking with them, being arm candy, etc.

Yes, of course, sex occurs in some. But lots of them don't have a sexual component.

Signed, Former Sugar Baby

potoricco · 2023-07-03T20:08:51+00:00

Guys AMA

DragoonXFury · 2023-07-03T21:45:59+00:00

Sooo many lines of coke this month.... Thinking if I should buy some more this weekend when I go out.... We'll see...

lolmastr13 · 2023-07-04T02:55:08+00:00

It’s weird how despite the advantages modern western society gives to women, they’re more likely to have mental illnesses.

I assume it’s cause of biology + social media + men being more easily satiated by things like games and sports.

potoricco · 2023-07-04T02:54:23+00:00

The myth of the “ugly old hag”

Old women are some of the most honest and genuine out there This characterization of older women looking out for younger ones as being “bitter and jealous” is propaganda Designed to make women hate each other

potoricco · 2023-07-04T02:52:14+00:00

Disillusioned

DenseCompetitionR · 2023-07-03T06:05:00+00:00

It's stupid to put effort into a woman if she has had one night stands.

Imagine buying a woman gifts, taking her out, being nice/ kind when the last dude hit her up at 2am to blow her back out with absolutely no effort put in.🤣🤣

You will be receiving the absolute bare minimum from me since that's what it takes to get in your pants.

Sorry it is what it is. You've set the cost of your box and getting more bodies is not making it more expensive 🤣😂🤣😂

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T07:34:57+00:00

new favorite song

Rejoice despite the fact this world will hurt you

And rejoice despite the fact this world will kill you

And rejoice despite the fact this world will tear you to shreds

Rejoice because you're trying your best

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=hjrVHbKTDdg

There was a person playing this song tonight at the club/event along with varied AJJ and Pat the Bunny songs👍

Do not read this if you've seen my picture because you'll go 🤮, very NSFW description in the censor, Also I know there is like an 18 or 19 year old here or something? Like someone super young, you also shouldn't read the following.

! Made out with some random. I didn't get her name. The best part about making out was that we got to take off those fucking masks (n-95 equivalent) because you can only take off your masks if you're using your mouth. Apparently she was a lesbian though or something cause she was in a 3some with like 2 other women slightly later on but she waved me over to join in the pile. I didn't get to have sex because they were all way more interested in each other but like damn being naked with 3 women all touching each other be fun <!

Anyway next event isn't until next week. But there is karaoke in Wednesday I'm going to

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-07-03T11:54:18+00:00

Just a reminder that PPD mods are very biased and keep giving women a huge leeway on rule breaking posts and comments while RP men get their comments seen trough a microscope in search for anything that barely can be labeled as rule breaking.

dyngladfel · 2023-07-03T13:25:58+00:00

A lot of women like having casual sex. Your issue is that despite them having sex with lots of people, you've still not made the list.

If I'm going to have casual sex with a man he needs to be good looking and have good social skills. Your personal development of hitting the gym or learning to code means nothing when it comes to that.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-03T14:42:09+00:00

As much as I hate to admit it I think I'm autistic as fucking shit man. It's absolutely bonkers how different and alien my own personal experience is when it comes to absolutely anything compared to other people.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-03T16:12:49+00:00

i found my soulmate on ppd, y’all. wish us luck

DerayRevan · 2023-07-03T16:42:50+00:00

"What should men look for when seeing a therapist"

If he's a man like myself

I can't tell you my problems if you aren't at least the same sex as me, makes things a lot easier

EulenWatcher · 2023-07-03T16:58:10+00:00

Lol, where's my money for "should be paid for existence"?

baiser_vole · 2023-07-03T17:14:32+00:00

So I was at some place for the weekend, and I went to a bar/lounge. It was the opposite of a sausage fest. I wasn't expecting that at all. On the dance floor it was mostly women. Yeah.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-03T17:18:07+00:00

Is there anyone out there who feels like they're so self-aware and introspective that therapy doesn't really help them since the problems that people typically have and seek therapy for stem from their lack of self-awareness and introspection?

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-07-03T17:30:35+00:00

CMV: People shouldn't shame Pick-Mes, they're finding men that are compatible with them and they love the treatment and lifestyles these men give them. Just.....shhhhhh.....let them do this, let it happen.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-03T18:11:55+00:00

For a subreddit that's for women, almost all twoxchromosome posts are basically about (complaining about and hating on) men.

There are no male equivalent subreddits. The only places where you could selfpost and complain about women were basically incel subs that are banned already. TRP sub is actually about getting women and not just complaining about them.

What's annoying about it is that twox posts generalizing and blatantly hating on men appear in /r/all and /r/popular and that they don't allow any discussions. It's a circlejerk where you get banned if you disagree at all.

I wouldn't have a problem with it if either one of those weren't met. If it was a small intimate sub that only they can post in like blackfellas or a quarantined larger sub that doesn't appear anywhere like they did with the donald or if it was a large sub where you can still respectfully debate them or call them out.

On the principle of it, it just seems wrong to have a circlejerk subreddit hating on an identity group that appears in millions of Redditor's feeds.

Reasonable-Web1494 · 2023-07-03T18:46:22+00:00

Where to find these so called unicorn "Pick me" women?

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T19:10:35+00:00

Texting one of the women I made out with last night

Going on a date

I asked if she could bring her friend who we also played with (because hot)

She said she's (her friend) out of country on vacation for the next month 😔 so just me and her

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-07-03T21:11:45+00:00

See mods, this is why we need to ban, idk, ban everyone under 21. Idc

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-07-04T02:41:01+00:00

Apparently the new HR background checks also check if you ever did OF. Since the data brokers sell all the user data it’s not hard to add that to the list.

Now if I could just convince HR to also blacklist the ones who bought OF we’d be solid but I don’t know if we’d be able to find software engineers if we did lol. So maybe except for that role lol

MalandiBastos · 2023-07-03T14:07:53+00:00

Not enough women be having playstation portables

potoricco · 2023-07-03T14:38:35+00:00

One thing I don’t get about leftists is why they are so eager to kiss criminal ass

Jail is NOT for rehabilitation….. it’s primarily to punish and keep dangerous people away from society. I literally don’t know WHY leftists have this rarted idea that all criminals are little victims, a victim of their circumstances. As if they just were teleported to prison against their will on one random day, and they didn’t actively do anything to end up there. On the news I’ve seen SO MANY cases of murder, rape and assault victims where the criminal was released from jail early. Literally what is the point of this? They have proven that they are not capable or willing to live in society.

Being from one of the most dangerous parts of the US. PLEASE ARREST THEM and KEEP THEM THERE. Be like El Salvador. That’s one reason why I’m now starting to fuck with the republicans 🇺🇸

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-03T15:09:38+00:00

does anyone want to help filter the men on my tinder? just swipe right on everyone and ask for $5

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-03T15:28:15+00:00

also in case u guys were wondering why OLD is so terrible for men, as a 5 average woman i get tens of thousands of likes on tinder in like a few days.

meet girls in real life.

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T15:40:13+00:00

I do find it interesting that basically..nothing I read here actually helped. I'm pretty sure it helped more than it hurt.

Especially the whole talk to as many people as you can stuff. Or "buy someone a coffee" or "talk to people who pet your dog" type stuff. That really sucked and glad I'm not doing that anymore. I don't know how many people I made scared/uncomfortable but it had to have been..like a lot.

There was actually ONE commentator who told me to stop trying to interact with neurotypical people at all. And she was 100% right. Holy fuck.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-03T16:23:24+00:00

I have new romantic feelings for one of my friends it's all downhill from here now ✊️😔

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-04T02:39:46+00:00

someone say something about men or women being bad. why is it boring in here

LaurenTsaisCatEye · 2023-07-04T02:29:16+00:00

I wonder what happened to that famouschildkillerfan club user

towerofcheeeeza · 2023-07-04T02:27:36+00:00

Woah this thread is weirdly active today. Is it because tomorrow is a holiday (in the US)?

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-07-04T02:21:31+00:00

General bitterness is a major turn off. Whether it’s coming from a jaded red piller or a ravenous man hater. No one wants to be around someone who carries themselves like a victim.

I think there’s people here who don’t conceal their crybaby disdain for the opposite sex irl as effectively as they believe they do.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-04T02:13:15+00:00

I like that meme about the granny nightgowns. Papaw gave her 10 kids and kept all the bills paid. Boycott victoria secret, floral nightgowns for the win.

Maybe I should just be a tradwife

saraimarsena · 2023-07-04T01:52:16+00:00

one interesting about these spaces is i appreciate being able to hear about and understand other people’s experiences w dating

in a way i have very little experience “dating around”. in my entire adult life, i’ve spent only about 1 month single.

and in that, i started dating someone fairly quickly. it didn’t work out so i ended up in a situationship w an ex, who i left for my current partner.

i wonder how my perspective would be different if i had been single as an adult more, but i don’t have any regrets

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-04T01:44:36+00:00

Ukrainian - Bro, how are we going to help you, damn it?

Russian – All my guts got knocked out, it seems. And this leg here, it’s broken, it’s fractured, I guess.

Ukrainian - There's a small fragment, it's not bleeding. Get up. There's nothing in you, nothing at all. No bleeding, just a blow.

Russian – They broke my leg here.

Ukrainian - Nothing serious. Bro, you... we need to drag you away now.

Ukrainian - Take him. There's one over here. We have a Russian casualty. Come on, come on, come on. Come in. Come on, come on, come on. It's a small wound. Come on, now, damn, all will be KIA (Killed in Action). Alright, give him a couple of meds (give him meds to ease the pain).

Literally carrying a POW back to their position so that he doesn't die while under fire from the enemy and then giving him pain meds

why have we not sent Ukraine tactical nukes

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-04T01:41:53+00:00

Incels: women dont find average men attractive

Women in threads: I rarely find the men around me attractive.

Yall just giving blackpillers ammo at this point. Ik they are autistic but they not dumb

InternationalFarm55 · 2023-07-03T10:51:54+00:00

Women get 5 fwbs and have over 20 ons but then dare to say they're "lonely" while men are exoected to just "man up" and not show any sadness at being deprived of sexual contact for years at a time.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-03T13:02:23+00:00

Take Instagram and Tik Tok away so the women can heal

Apprehensive_Net7337 · 2023-07-03T14:15:52+00:00

Imagine being so attention starved that your entire personality is "being the slutty girl". And then imagine doing this all the way into your 30s

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-03T15:52:21+00:00

When my GF told me she couldn’t swim I was legit shocked. I was like wdym? She said I just never learned I like wearing bikinis and being near the water but I don’t really go in.

I just assumed everyone in Florida knew how to swim. Especially where I’m from you either had a pool, your friend had a pool, or you had a beach/pool within 10 mins of your house.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-03T16:25:03+00:00

You know what grinds my gears?

When males choose female avatars and vice versa. I just want to look at the avatar and see whether I'm talking with a XX or XY so I can adjust my processes accordingly.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-03T18:35:45+00:00

When I weighed <120 lbs, most of the men who hit on me were creeps who fetishized my size / appearance. It was gross.

As I gained weight, I noticed that I had fewer creeps and more quality men. Men who were interested in me as a person vs a thin body for their disposable usage.

So I appreciate when men self select themselves out. Always a treat when the trash takes itself out.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-04T01:29:56+00:00

How to fight the desire to tell someone off?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-04T01:25:44+00:00

Can we ban that one guy yet

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-04T01:04:35+00:00

I’m a perfect docile and undesirable man. Women like their attractive and desirable men to be confident, brash, assertive, and dominant, and the unattractive men to be calm, docile, and passive.

An unattractive man with the wrong traits is the worst possible and branded a creep by society.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-04T00:46:42+00:00

Having a daughter must be so tough for men, even more tough then dealing with a post wall wife who isn’t attractive anymore.

When you really think about it, having a daughter is one of the worst things that could happen to a man. You are basically putting time, energy, and effort to a future thot who’s going to spread her legs open for any and all cumers. Sure she’ll be not horrible in elementary school, but once she hits middle school she will inevitably start transitioning to a thot until she graduates highschool where her final form will be unlocked.

Then once she goes to college that’s when she’ll really start to wild out. Taking any and all dick, bringing home boyfriends you don’t approve of that’ll be fucking her brains out. Couldn’t be me tbh.

I rather have a loser son who has no rizz than have a female.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-04T00:28:47+00:00

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSLDRGhD2/ average ppd man

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-04T00:24:23+00:00

You should never sleep with anyone who you would not be okay having babies with, this goes for both men and women.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-04T00:01:53+00:00

Speaking of having girls, I've been childfree my whole life and never gave much thought into it, but I understand why men don't want them now.

So my last birthday my fiance (then gf) took me to a restaurant. While we ate she proceeded to tell me this story about the teen girl that lives in the apt across from us. Apparently she was in the hallway talking to somebody on the phone and said something like "so my hot neighbor isn't single anymore" (I was the only guy living by myself that 3 apt radius when I first moved in). She didn't notice my gf was right there when she said it so apparently the girl noticed, looked awkward then immediately went inside . My gf also said she noticed the girl started doing her hair a certain way after she did hers that way.

I'm oblivious to all this cause I don't pay attention to the girl but the whole time I'm thinking wtf this is some info I could have lived without knowing lol. Idk how old she is but she definitely looks high school age (14-16) and I turned 31. Not something I'd remotely be interested in but there's dudes out there that would be. So as a dad not only do you gotta look out for old mfs perving after teens, you gotta hope they not doing the same. I would wonder if he's worried but the lady that owns the apt is a single mom so he's out the picture.

Virgens · 2023-07-03T23:58:46+00:00

If body count doesn't matter why are feminists and soy-cucks so eager to shut down any and all discussion surrounding it.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-03T23:36:15+00:00

The thing is If I’m a woman and I hook up with a dude with a ONS, where exactly is the “social shaming” coming from? The only people who know about this are me and the dude. The dude? Who you will never see again? Even if he talks shit about you to his friends they don’t know you anyway or anyone you know. Your friends? Why are you hanging out with people who shame you?

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T23:35:22+00:00

I am back from Church guys, I worshiped the lord and in returns he gave me gains 🙏

armpitpics · 2023-07-03T23:30:05+00:00

Is /u/InternationalFarm55 the same guy who got banned around a year ago from a sub soon after he asked a young girl complaining about sexual assault, I think, if she was a virgin? The same guy would also ask this question to random women the same way he's doing now.

And I'm a massive slut, in case you were wondering.

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-07-03T23:27:20+00:00

For the ladies on here that keep suggesting "book clubs" as a way to meet women, here are the top 11 results I found for my city:

Women only book club for mid-20s
Mother's only book club
POC book club that only reads books related to POC issues
Gay men's book club
Nerdy book club oriented towards a popular sci-fi franchise
Women only book club
All gender thriller/tru-crime book club
Women only book club (romance novels)
Women only book club
Queer only book club
Men only book club

Idk PPD ladies, 1 (maybe 2) out of 11 doesn't seem great.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-03T23:27:16+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHCark_HJ4c

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfwJgcwE5PY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlWTASnnft4

Redpill beats for the boys to bump in the hood.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-03T23:25:19+00:00

q4people who have/want to have kids? how will you warn your girls against men?

my little niece said all the girls in her middle school are lesbians/bisexual and mostly like girls. but some girls in her elementary school liked boys. i wonder if the next generation is gonna hate men even more.

redguard_crime_stats · 2023-07-03T23:13:52+00:00

You don't want a daughter because you're afraid of her becoming a thot. I don't want a daughter because I find women to be dumb and annoying.

We are not the same.

chilikettlechips · 2023-07-03T23:11:40+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/14ppyzn/til_married_people_who_undergo_gastric_bypass/

Among our US cohort, females, those who were younger, had a household income less than $25,000, smoked, had alcohol problems, and had sexual desire more than once a week preoperative had a higher chance of incident separation/divorce. Our finding that females had a higher chance of separation/divorce is in contrast to the Danish study, which found that the risk of becoming single postoperative did not differ by sex.19

FEMALES: explain this one eh? checkmate legbeards

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-03T23:04:28+00:00

Shit in going down on fb right now. I have a friend that I used to serve in the military with, and I'm friends with his wife on fb. She's currently going in on him, exposing him for being a cheater and a liar, and posted an email of her corresponding with a divorce lawyer. She also shared this video and changed her pfp to a thirst trap pic.

A little backstory, they've been married since teens and their oldest daughter is 13 so around that long. They got 4 kids total. Whats crazy is that I rememeber they got into it years ago and his petty ass sent her a pic of him and another girl in bed. I'm surprised it lasted this long tbh.

Oh yeah on top of all this he's currently deployed 💀. And this is the 2nd married friend that is going thru a divorce this year smh.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-03T23:00:50+00:00

Sometimes, it's challenging to have conversations about adult topics with people who aren't adults.

For example, money.

Money matters because, as an adult, you use it to pay for rent and food and your needs.

As Cardi B taught us, "broke boys don't deserve no pussy."

So money isn't so much an individual requirement as it is a collective requirement (because living costs money).

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-03T22:58:48+00:00

Q4M:

What are your thoughts/opinions on stealthing?

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-07-03T22:55:27+00:00

I’ve got a friend who married a virgin. They were both early/mid 20s, he’s successful she’s gorgeous they have a beautiful daughter now.

She grew up in what was essentially a Christian cult. Something similar to JW.

It was their relationship that helped her pull away from that scene. Her immediate family eventually followed and left the cult

I’ve asked him about it once after a few drinks and he straight up said he wishes she wasn’t a virgin when they met, there’s so much baggage there. Her obsession with his past partners etc. She’s a brilliant person with a dysfunctional background that isn’t her fault.

Just a counterpoint to the chaste virgin bride fantasy

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SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-03T05:01:12+00:00

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Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-03T05:02:33+00:00

Q4A: What is the cringiest thing you have ever done

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-03T08:37:16+00:00

Our sense of self worth is highly dependent on our ability to attract the opposite sex.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-03T09:11:30+00:00

mbn being stacey. men just give her resources to try to be her boyfriend, no sex needed. smh.

happy_discus · 2023-07-03T09:40:21+00:00

This subreddit has a gigantic problem with constantly changing definitions of names.

For example:What actually constitutes as a nice guy?

Lets go by definition from Wikipedia:

In the literal sense, the term describes a man who is agreeable, gentle, compassionate, sensitive and vulnerable. The term is used both positively and negatively.

This is not the same definition users use here. More or less the definition should be angry woman hating jerk who pretended to their friend in order to gain a relationship.

This is a call for action for the mods!

Make a wiki for names with finite definitions or create a rule so users have to provide their definition of a word if they use their own definition.

Such a rule or wiki will reduce the amount of goalposts moving possible and make for better and healthier discussions.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-03T10:26:23+00:00

[Women are now making up fake revenge porn stories about themselves for views smh] (https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/14p66v3/what/)

DerayRevan · 2023-07-03T10:30:21+00:00

"Women in power are worse than men"

Wow never heard so much truth until now

eye_fuck · 2023-07-03T10:43:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/14oyjyh/it_seems_like_the_hypergamyinduced_male/

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-07-03T12:02:28+00:00

Serious question: my mom died about a month ago, she was estranged and a complete narcissist, I was sad for a bit but now I’m fine. However everyone expects me to be completely devastated.

How can I leverage my mom’s passing to get easy sex? I’m a guy who uses mostly OLD. Thanks for the advice

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-03T13:01:21+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/14p4tkd/drove_my_girlfriend_2_hours_so_that_she_could_get/

This guy is bf of the year, cause no way I'm driving a four hour round trip for her to get four damn cookies.

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T13:28:39+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/LeopardsAteMyFace/comments/14ozbal/this_is_a_death_sentence_for_me_sobs_republican/

When she dies I hope they publish it so that i can laugh heartily

Real Association of German National Jews vibe

Apprehensive_Net7337 · 2023-07-03T14:24:49+00:00

"Women are opting out of marriage"

Has anyone ever seen a man not get pressured into marriage? Has anyone ever seen a man not drag his feet?

Why do you guys spew such nonsense? It's like you are all living a collective fantasy

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-03T14:42:39+00:00

Are women addicted to the emotional roller-coaster? Do they have a constant need for drama and change? Will they always get bored once stability is achieved?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-03T15:48:47+00:00

What's the point of abortion ?

Like for one second just hold off your side, wether pro or anti abortion

What's the purpose of it ?

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CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-03T16:21:33+00:00

Female privilege is truly one of the funniest things I see on this sub. All these dumb bimbos on this sub love to act ignorant of their privilege which shows either a) they are too far gone to ever realize or b) they are dumb as fuck. I think it’s a mix of both tbh.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-03T16:24:15+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/news/comments/14op4jh/desantis_signs_bill_eliminating_permanent_alimony/jqeehf2/?context=3

divorce/family court for men in a nutshell

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-07-03T16:50:15+00:00

Hell of a weekend. Got into an accident and the right side of my body is slightly numb but ill be okay. Gonna have to pay 3,000,000₩ (which is less than $3000 to get the car fixed). Fucking hate driving in Korea.

Word to the wise: If its your bday, the least you can do is not ruin it by getting upset over the most pettiest shit. Living with someone like this is a fucking nightmare.

Yea, I should have gone to pride week and hooked up with a few opportunities in Seoul but stupid me deciding to be a good person and this is what I get. Fuck this.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-03T18:31:48+00:00

q4m: whats preventing you from being prince charming?

Dizzirron · 2023-07-03T18:34:47+00:00

I'd appreciate it if mods here would stop locking posts that become top/most popular. Thanks.

VampireChaser · 2023-07-03T19:17:23+00:00

Q4W: Uncut or cut D?

Ok-Bee-6216 · 2023-07-03T19:30:15+00:00

It feels kind of autistic to say that you were lied to when people say that looks don't matter

looks don't matter to some extent

if you think this is false explain all the ugly people that are married and have children, the normal people at the supermarket

also if they are autistic it'll also explain their struggles even though they are probably average looking

DerayRevan · 2023-07-03T19:30:52+00:00

"Morality is subjective"

Bruh nobody thinks what hilter did to the jews was anything but objectively wrong

Expect hilter himself

Peacesquad · 2023-07-03T21:01:24+00:00

I’m serious about this superhero universe yall!

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T21:16:11+00:00

I have a new political ideology

It’s called Liberal-Tuckersism

The basic idea is simple. You watch every sing episode the tucker calrson show and wherever he says something like “And these elitist liberals now are telling you [something completely absurd nobody is saying]” you write down that absurd thing and integrate into the platform as a great idea

Tucker’s fever dreams of what we’re up to would actually be great policy

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-03T21:31:41+00:00

hi i’m bri ama

jobbo321 · 2023-07-03T22:53:16+00:00

It's a shame how women with the largest natural boobies (while in normal bmi) are also the pickiest.

I really am God's strongest soldier.

InternationalFarm55 · 2023-07-03T22:44:03+00:00

Why would a 30 y.o man date a ran-through 30 y.o woman when he can date a 20 y.o virgin girl?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-03T22:26:21+00:00

If my husband and I get divorced it will be because of the heating/cooling situation in our house.

We're currently in a cold war about the A/C; I'm camp Auto-fan-mode-is-good-enough and he's camp 62-degrees-high-fan-mode-until-I'm-shivering. We constantly change the fan speed, temp, and modes behind each other's back until someone notices its too hot or cold and then its all passive aggressive shittery.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-03T22:07:55+00:00

I lowky hate acrylic nails because they always look ugly for me and they break easily 😔

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T22:04:57+00:00

So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak

[Genesis 24]

And so like Jacob we must partake in our ritual of worship

For god wishes us to hit sick fucking double legs and amazing hip tosses

I'll see you losers once I'm back from ~~throwing the dummy and shooting drills~~ worshiping the lord

5PointTakedown · 2023-07-03T21:55:22+00:00

I would like to point out one very interesting thing. Normally in the gender wars I come down on the side where it's mostly women. But in this case I don't. And that's the

Getting a girlfriend won't solve your issues

Statement

Fuck you it won't

I havent even had a girlfriend yet, I literally just made out with a few people and got some numbers. I've barely scratched the surface and yet that acknowledgement that I could theoretically be attractive under the right circumstances hasn't simply fixed my mood, it's given me an entirely new mentality.

Look at my posts a week ago. If someone said "This man is going to kill himself no shot he wouldn't what the fuck, what is wrong with this guy" that would be a rational takeaway from my posts. But now literally 0 of the things I thought about myself (I mean I'm still autistic, so maybe not great around NT pepole but who cares?) I care about anymore. Any lingering depression is gone. It took literally nothing, that's all it took.

I thought I needed friends and relationships and all that stuff. I don't I realize, I get enough social interaction at the gym, what I needed was some sort of confirmation I was attractive and that I could talk to women and that they'd be willing to fool around with me.

And now I'm done.

Self improvement journey is over. Don't need to do it anymore. I'm tired. Just gonna lift (because I like to) and all that social skills stuff I was working on developing, fuck it.

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-03T21:49:18+00:00

I've heard more than a few women now IRL complain about their "situationships" implying it's the guy's fault for not stepping up or making it official lol. If it all started with just casual sex and he hasn't said anything related to LTR, it's not his obligation to do so and you're stupid for staying in contact with him if you actually want commitment confirmed but haven't brought it up. Something something about women tryin to lock down Chad while refusing to associate with guys on her level.

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