Daily Community Chat Megathread

Willow-girl · 2023-08-06T16:06:38+00:00

For all of the fellows lacking in female companionship: Remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. For instance, you were probably able to enjoy your morning constitutional in peace and solitude, without being interrupted by a woman screeching at you to come put gas in the lawn mower for her, because last time you torqued the cap down too tight and now she can't unscrew it.

taman999 · 2023-08-06T14:06:23+00:00

I've been going to a divorce support meetup group for 2 years now, here's some general trends I've observed:

Most common story from men is "it came out of nowhere, I thought we were doing well".
Stories I've heard from women typically are the guy was abusive in some way or cheated.
If even a mildly attractive under 40 woman shows up, God help her. There will always be a handful of guys that swarm her immediately.
Even just sitting there being a sympathetic ear is all a lot of these people want. You can see the relief in there faces to just be able to spill their guts, even to someone they just met. Since it's a support group about going through divorce there's of course the implicit permission to talk about this stuff openly.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-06T13:59:19+00:00

alpha fucks. beta bucks

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-06T13:21:55+00:00

This never gets old.

Whiny guys: Women dont get how hard it is to court, to pay for dates, and to play jester just for it to be all for nothing.

Me: Change your method.

Whiny guys: Im not doing that.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-06T13:09:04+00:00

I feel like we have to get a concensus on how much looks matter. If ur gonna make it a pre-requisite then looks matter 100%, becuase your not getting to level 2 without it.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-06T13:05:41+00:00

CMV: Feminism is not to blame for the Wests' current dating woes...

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-06T11:49:53+00:00

USA ARE OUT!!!!!

This is one of the best penalty shootouts I've watched

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-06T11:01:40+00:00

Q4All Are you watching the Women's world cup?

Ylduts · 2023-08-06T10:59:43+00:00

Candice Owens. Is she right?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-06T10:18:04+00:00

Woke up with ringing in my left ear. ChatGPT says it could be a brain tumor😨

blebbyroo · 2023-08-06T10:08:21+00:00

Maverick top gun 2 football scene 😮‍💨🥵💦

Ylduts · 2023-08-06T08:57:04+00:00

Infinite alimony has been axed in Florida. My question is who in their right mind thought this was acceptable in the first place?

ComboboxFromHell · 2023-08-06T08:29:54+00:00

How much money and income does a passport bro need? Say, Philippines.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-06T08:09:04+00:00

Just made the most delicious chilli basil chicken stir fry. Fucking yum. I love that my baby eats pretty much anything I put on their plate. I only adjust the chilli a fraction to what I would normally put for just myself and partner, like tonight I would use 3 chillies but put 2 since sharing with a baby. Their spice tolerance is higher than some adults I know lol.

GoalPsychological719 · 2023-08-06T06:15:22+00:00

I’m 22f and never had any kind of romantic experience lol. I see autistic girls and 600lb girls see success (no hate to them lol) but I’m neither? I think the biggest factor in this for girls like me is we have an avoidant dismissive personality type…and also being ugly?

blebbyroo · 2023-08-06T06:03:03+00:00

Your babies laughter is the most beautiful sound in the world. So grateful for the blessings in my life and sincerity hope any of y’all who want a family one day are able to have it

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-06T05:59:39+00:00

Happy happy news - my gastro system is perfectly fine/normal results from my CT scan. Endocrinologist says I’m ok too, maybe gotta monitor for hypoglycemia after meals. Tomorrow back to cardiologist to do the “tilt table” test for POTS.

Middle aged Americans, I can’t “upvote” the Thai healthcare system highly enough. Brits dealing with long delays from NHS, same. It’s better than the whoreing over here once you reach a certain age. Inexpensive, efficient, & extremely high quality. What I used to pay monthly in the US for individual health insurance (being self employed in my latter work years) generously covers every single expense my husband & I have here including a penthouse apartment in a prime location.

We’re going out for a vegan feast to celebrate 🤞I don’t spontaneously pass out in my green tofu curry, lol.

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-06T05:47:01+00:00

Conventional thought here on this sub from men goes: women want alpha fuxx for sex, betabuxx for relationships.

The truth with nuance is women don't want betabuxx even for commitment. They don't want them at all, for anything. If they had their way the alpha would provide sex and all other relationship needs. But they are forced to because they need a wallet or emotional validation once they get jaded or the fun wears off and they know they won't be able to get that from chad.

Don't be a wallet, you are literally not even valued or desired for your money and kindness. You're not even a plan B or backup option. You are a grudgingly accepted last resort and she'll secretly (or not so secretly) resent you for it for as long as you're together.

mummydontknow · 2023-08-06T05:12:34+00:00

1 am thought that I might make a post about.

Men are attracted to status and power in women.

potoricco · 2023-08-06T05:02:30+00:00

Another reason to watch what you eat

I’m at another party where the food is served buffet style, the server gave me a fucking chicken drumstick, I get to my seat, luckily never took a bite from that shit because when I cut it opened it I saw fucking baby maggots 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮like miniture white creatures smaller than a grain of rice

Literally my mom wrapped it up, we reported it to the kitchen people I don’t know what they ended up doing but most people already got their food at that point so ignorance is bliss for them

I’m just SOOOOO happy I didn’t eat from it

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tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-06T04:19:59+00:00

Q4A pick one

https://www.instagram.com/p/CP6XiBcDrH-/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

https://www.instagram.com/p/CpXoBQoNQTN/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

https://www.instagram.com/p/CcBR_vTrXpC/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-06T04:19:05+00:00

Every time I notice people putting men down, I think it's almost always men being the majority, especially on here.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-06T04:14:16+00:00

When people say "dating is about knowing the person"

That's from a female way of looking at it

Because unless your not hot or have no status, women need to know who you are before considering to fuck you

dbz__f · 2023-08-06T03:58:41+00:00

I don't get how guys can just make a spontaneous proposal out of nowhere without consulting your partner first. I get the details and how to make it special and memorable and romantic are left to the guy.

But I feel before you propose, you have to get an okay from your partner, like you have to both have many conversations about your plans for marriage, wedding, timetables, etc. and make sure you're both on board with it. And then the actual proposal itself is just like picking out a card, a formality with an element of surprise for fun.

But you need to know 100% that your partner is on board with marriage with you.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-06T03:57:57+00:00

That "60% of blah blah single" statistic..... is officially 1 year old.

Stop clinging to old data. Especially data that says "single". That shit can change multiple times in a year.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-06T03:38:11+00:00

Reading a story book, House of Leaves. It's been at least a year I've read a book that wasn't a college text

No-Regular1667 · 2023-08-06T03:17:29+00:00

It’s funny how people say women are more social than men when the vast majority of social events and spaces are complete sausage fests full of desperate single men.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-08-06T02:40:24+00:00

Met a guy I have some 'hots' for. Its been at least few years Ive had any sort of interest at all. Im a meet people in the 'wild' as they say.

Slid into his DMs for civi business stuff met up to talk about this business stuff. The vibes were flowing between us.

Hes coming to my BBQ tomorrow and we can talk some more business stuff and see my work space and the piece he would work on.

Bottom line no matter what I want to do the business collaboration. Hes talented and we could make some money on the project and have good business relations. I can actually help him in some areas.

If we go past that it will be my first tell him I part time escort too. I have not even tried to date since I started the job.

I have a feeling he would not run in an instant but know he may.

My stance is Im not going to lie and weed out men Im not meant to be with. I know many men will want nothing to do with a working escort or former. Im ok with it and own it.

dbz__f · 2023-08-06T02:38:46+00:00

There is nothing that would make me happier than to win the lottery and be financially secure for the rest of my life and never have to work again.

I hate my job, I do it for money and nothing else. I do it cause you need money to live. If I got rid of that need for money, I would not enter the office for even 1 more day. That would be it.

I would enjoy life, spend it with my gf, and play video games all day and play every game I ever wanted to.

The fact that I need to work all the time for money is eating into my precious hours of life which are fading day by day. Time is the most important commodity I have and I'm trading it all for money.

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-08-06T02:33:29+00:00

Finally watched Barbie. 10/10 movie, no notes. Drinker is a grumpy old man who doesn't get it.

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-08-06T02:17:12+00:00

I'm curious what percentage of women do sex work at some point in their lives.

Seems like there's literally an infinite amount of hot women doing softcore and hardcore stuff on various platforms at all times.

baiser_vole · 2023-08-06T02:12:54+00:00

So I'm meeting my boyfriend's mom soon, and I've been picking out a gift for her. I asked my boyfriend if she would like something to discipline his lil brother with. He asked his lil bro, and apparently she already has a big arsenal. I sent him a picture of the dishwasher safe stainless steel rolling pin, saying what I have is better. The lil bro said, he will remember this, and that my actions will have consequences in the future.

We are all joking around btw.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-06T02:11:04+00:00

When did you first read about intersexual dynamcics ? For me and some friends of mine it was very early (as early as 16-17). Pick up was the original redpill although the term wasn't present at the time. I remember some pick up books being passed around in school. It is interesting to me that apparently some men find this stuff way later in life.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-06T02:09:41+00:00

My partner thinks short people are the people Of the future when our resources are less and their bodies need less fuel to function optimally. Short people will be seen as more desirable

Our kid is short and he points this out as a potential benefit

FunEducation1434 · 2023-08-06T02:05:53+00:00

I was doing my daily walk when I saw two homeless people 69ing on the floor by the side of a building, just 20 feet from the street. Is this what some of y’all mean when you say homeless chad still gets ass?

SeaSquirrel · 2023-08-06T02:04:00+00:00

Anyone ever run into someone who knows redpill vocabulary irl?

Ran into this guy at a wedding who was hammering this girl about who gets laid more, if a girl would swap men for someone richer, and other redpill arguments.

I said the word hypergamy and his eyes lit up. Hi Adam. Relax.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-06T01:59:23+00:00

So I'm at this venue and I realized my goth phase isn't over because I saw this super attractive skater guy. Super skinny, jeans and oversized windbreaker with a beanie in that typical skater pose all dark clothing and I was like FFFFFFFFF

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-06T01:49:44+00:00

Was driving to work this morning when “Don’t Tell Me” by Avril Lavigne came on over the car. I used to love that song when I was much younger,so I was excited to listen. I was soon mortified to realize the song was about a someone not wanting to have sex with her boyfriend because she’s “not like that girl/who throws it all away.” Cue the biggest eye rolls ever. Totally ruined for me.

Anyway, I went googling to see if other people had the same thoughts, and I stumbled across a 3 yo Reddit thread about “incel/pickme anthems.” (Some honorable mentions were “How Do You Like Me Now” by Toby Keith, “You Belong With Me” by Taylor Swift, and “Sk8r boi” by Avril Lavigne. That led me to discovering this song:

https://youtu.be/EsD-zUwTxB4

Which is also sort of pissing me off because it feels like raging feminist BP bullshit. So I thought I’d share it here and let y’all tell me your thoughts.

I need to go to bed before I fall down any more rabbit holes though

Peacesquad · 2023-08-06T01:31:53+00:00

Short kings stay strong 🕺🏾🧌

meteorness123 · 2023-08-06T01:31:41+00:00

Looking back, the pick up community back then was more productive as the RP space. At least puas went out and took action instead of circlejerking about subjectively interpretated studies.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-06T01:31:27+00:00

I’m going to depressionmaxx to fuck some goth chicks. I’m a genius

djblackmith · 2023-08-06T01:25:07+00:00

lmaooo

ZealousidealWish9392 · 2023-08-06T00:57:44+00:00

There's literally only going to be small men and tall women in the near future

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-06T00:53:33+00:00

How important is alcohol for guys to get laid?

FourthHarbinger · 2023-08-06T00:48:11+00:00

I'm still on the sports betting train. Won a few bets in a row then lost it all on one. I can see how people get addicted to this shit. The good news is, I'm on vacation in a state that doesn't allow online sports betting so there's no risk of an addiction forming

WilliamWyattD · 2023-08-05T23:42:17+00:00

Why do so many men think it is a realistic expectation that 'one day' they will get treated like Chad when they are not Chad? I'm 5'3", 35 years old, and a virgin with no jaw or hair. But my self-respect demands that I hold out for some girl who will treat me like the hottest thing she has ever seen in her life.

WTF? Be happy if you get a girl to sleep with you who isn't being paid or doesn't need trauma therapy after. If your sex life is mostly fueled by love with enough desire that she at least enjoys the sex, praise Jesus for a miracle. Don't be stalking FB pics of her exes and wondering if she thought any were hotter than you, or did sexual things with them she didn't do with you. Talk about looking a gift horse in the mouth.

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tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-05T13:03:15+00:00

Oh first

According_Listen_897 · 2023-08-05T13:03:22+00:00

Shout out to the LGBTQ community!!

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-08-05T13:13:48+00:00

I’ve lost 15 pounds! Time to see if being fit really makes it easier to date lol. 20 more and I’m good to go!

potoricco · 2023-08-05T13:16:11+00:00

I finally feel how the millennials and boomers felt. My favorite films from Disney are getting turned into live action. I am soooo pissed off omg. I FEEL YOUR PAIN, FINALLY✊✊✊

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-05T13:17:07+00:00

Reject the red pill truths, call the manosphere toxic, reject your masculine gender roles, embrace the victim hood mindset and go for tHEr9py to heal (LOL).

Cong's pal, you now repulse women and have now become an incel

SuperFix9351 · 2023-08-05T13:27:34+00:00

In the future, do you think it will be harder or easier than it is now for a man to score younger women?

One argument for harder is that fewer people are having children, so there will be a smaller pool of hot, 20 year old women most men will compete before.
Argument for easier is that tech will render more and more young men socially stunted, so if you're a 40 something man with your shit together you will be able to compete against 20 year old guys, even though they look better than you.

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-05T13:39:42+00:00

For phd holders, did you notice great gender imbalance in the number of students, and what was the major of the phd? Because so far I have only noticed gender imbalance towards men, I can’t see the excess women PhD holders

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-08-05T14:31:46+00:00

What is with elder millennial women using the absolute worst filters in dating apps

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-05T14:41:55+00:00

Continuation from yesterdays post about bumble Bios stating "no casual no hookups"... unsurprisingly, we smashed. She seems to be really into me.

I of course shared this with my long term FwB this morning. She said something that made me pause.

It's not my honesty or openness, or being "virtuous" or "honorable" or having "integrity" that seems to keep these women around. I could have been more vile, more cold hearted more insert negative trait (up to a point) and most of them would still be done to fuck.

Unsuccessful men really get tripped up about the self improvement cycle. Because we didn't get the love/sex and suddenly become more successful later in life, we think we did something to deserve it.

But that's a bad way of looking at it. As women love to remind us, no one is entitled to anything. And men know that it's not the hardest worker that gets paid the highest, nor the most conscientious and considerate person that gets all the attention.

For men, almost everything in life, at least in the western world belief system, feels like things are, or should be, a meritocracy. And unsuccessful men have a hard time disabusing themselves from that misconception.

So if love and sex aren't based on anything deserved ... than is it simply based off chance? Randomness? It's interesting to ponder.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-05T14:44:55+00:00

Ok but what did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-08-05T14:46:14+00:00

Let me have seggs stop being so insecure

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-05T14:58:00+00:00

"It ain't over till the fat lady sings"

~ Nostradamus

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-08-05T14:59:59+00:00

Anyone attend a wedding where the couple eventually got divorced? What was the story?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-05T15:04:51+00:00

Before finding this sub, I truly thought most people’s dating/relationship issues were due to not being able to find the right partner. Literally not finding them, like having a small social circle, having very specific preferences, not having time, etc.

The fact that many people don’t know what they want in a partner, and develop or change their preferences later on in their life is intriguing imo. I found my old blog from when I was 14 or 15, before I had had my first boyfriend. There was a list of requirements for a boyfriend. If I were to write a new list today, it would have all the same things plus one or two more (which I realized after my first breakup at 15).

weaverofjoy · 2023-08-05T15:35:06+00:00

Hmmm, I wonder what the pop culture world is like

Lurk r/Fauxmoi and r/popculturechat

Good God, these are some of the most vapid places on the site.

eye_fuck · 2023-08-05T15:38:59+00:00

what one thing men can change that makes his appearance improve the most in your eyes?

scwizard · 2023-08-05T15:40:17+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15iug4v/ive_recently_realised_how_marriage_and_weddings/juwmcqe/

What does the new girl see in him? Or was she just groomed?

eye_fuck · 2023-08-05T16:07:08+00:00

Why are women like this?

It is a special type of abuse that seems specific to our generation. Like, our moms were straight up controlled by men because, “it’s a woman’s role.” Whereas men in our generation deep down want all the same patriarchal benefits their dads benefited from that they feel entitled to, but they also want to feel like modern, progressive “ally” men so they manipulate us with therapy jargon and gaslighting.

Many years into it, I was comforting my ex for abusing me while he was abusing me. I was telling him that I understood his fits of anger came from his dad mistreating him as a kid and that it was ok and I didn’t take it personally and next time I would try not to trigger him.

Good riddance.

The ABUSE in question is Johan Hill situation.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-05T16:31:40+00:00

So women are throwing their top underwear at drake now

This are the same women who'll complain about men objectifying them

So just shows women have no power over status, same way men have no power against sexual lust because many men would get distracted by that expect drake because he just ignores them throwing their underwear

So huge respect towards the brother

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-05T16:33:56+00:00

Shoutout to all the gays for not taking any of our girls.

scwizard · 2023-08-05T16:35:54+00:00

This happened in broad daylight just before 8 AM. A 19 year old woman running on the trail was approached by a masked man who said he had a gun. He forced her into the woods and raped her. Police have not made an arrest yet.

Who the fuck is waking up at 6am to put on their ski mask, get their gun, and go out raping joggers?

The obsessiveness of some of these criminals is insane.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-05T16:38:13+00:00

I finally found one girl who was approachable at a bar last night after many nights not seeing even a single woman who is approachable, contradicting my post about how there are no approachable women. Her situation was perfect for approaching. She had 2 decently attractive friends, both talking to men while she was looking around for a guy to talk to because she was getting left out of the conversation.

Guess what the one fatal flaw was in this situation?

!She was a fattie!<

BADUM!

That's why she didn't get approached within seconds of looking approachable/lonely.

"jUsT Be cOnFiDeNt aNd tAlK To wOmEn" they said when there is literally not a single approachable woman <span class="md-spoiler-text">with a healthy body</span>. Every woman is actively socially engaged with someone. You have to interrupt women in their current conversation and beg her to want to talk to you just to be able to talk to a single woman. There's no free lunch as a man.

ZealousidealWish9392 · 2023-08-05T16:48:37+00:00

Are we allowed to make any comment on this daily chat megathread that we want? Because I've been having a convo with one of the mods about what is appropriate in what context or thread.

Are these daily megathreads sort of an "anything goes" situation?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-05T17:18:32+00:00

Alright I have my bar story too since automatic is doing his.

I was out last night reading my book (Political Violence in the Weimar Republic, 1918-1933. Fight for the Streets and Fear of Civil War. Dirk Schumann, although I was reading it in it's original German because I do not trust translations) while drinking my old fashioned and this absolutely beautiful black woman with long curly hair, pretty tall and (shock horror for my friend Automatic here) a bit thick (like noticeable double chin) sat down next to me with her friend on the other side.

I pretended not to notice them because I mean...come on I had literally no fucking shot. But man she was so pretty. But when I was trying to order (it was super packed, normally they bring me my drink immediately) and failing to order the big ones friend said to me that it's super packed and laughed and I had no idea what to say and froze and went back to reading my book.

But I swear to god the bigger one kept looking over at me. I'm probably schizophrenic or something but I swear she looked at me like 4 times. I should have talked to her but I had no idea what to say, I wanted to tell her how pretty her dress was (it was, not just on her body which..made it better but it was a great dress cool colors) but instead I sat there, read my book and eventually she got up with her friend and left

Sad

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-05T17:35:47+00:00

I tried out my sisters peloton bike yesterday and woe its exhausting for something that burns so few calories. I'm sticking to walking at incline.

SuperFix9351 · 2023-08-05T17:36:59+00:00

Can someone explain this to me.

If a guy is 30 and still a virgin with dating FOMO, how is he more compatible with a 30 something woman who has dated for over 15 years, tired of playing game and just wants to settle down over a 19 year old virgin woman who just wants to explore and have fun?

SorryEm · 2023-08-05T17:53:15+00:00

Men are the more emotional than women. We feel emotions like sadness, anger, fear and empathy more than women!

According_Listen_897 · 2023-08-05T18:03:38+00:00

Homosexuality is really a gift in these trying times people. Imagine if you were attracted to men just as insanely as how you're attracted to women? And they've had the same socialization as you, the world looks at you all the same, same sex-drive, you have similar standards, you have the same understanding about sex, and so much more...

DerayRevan · 2023-08-05T18:12:10+00:00

The bar has really been set low today in 2023

Most men don't approach, so if you approach one woman every month

By the end of the year you'll have approached more women than most men in their lifetime

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-05T18:15:39+00:00

Stayed over at my date's house. He's making us coffee and breakfast. We're gonna discuss exclusivity over breakfast.

I'm very impressed with him. He's very much the embodiment of "if he wanted to, he would".

purplish_possum · 2023-08-05T18:19:04+00:00

One of my GF's coworkers described me as "massive". Not if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-05T18:24:52+00:00

Men with anxiety disorders and things of that nature are the real losers of the dating game. Unfortunately, nothing makes a woman's pussy drier than a nervous and anxious man.

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-05T18:33:40+00:00

In a situation where a guy is genuinely calling someone a high value man, it usually goes one of a few ways. If he doesn't consider himself "high value" then he's talking about a guy who he'd let fuck his girlfriend. If he's calling himself "high value" then telling the world he's a narcissist without calling himself a narcissist

DerayRevan · 2023-08-05T18:36:10+00:00

Now l know some men like tall women but this isn't about them so l could care less

The idea of me physically looking up towards my woman

Makes no sense, the other way around does since most men are taller than most women

So yea l want her eyes up staring at me while look down and stare at her boobs

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-05T18:37:12+00:00

Q4All: On a scale of 1-10 how cringe are the "money/alpha mental affirmation videos".

I'm talking stuff like this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NlE_AjLzlU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QYJpLRB-Gx8

I recently found out these were a thing, and I cannot stop laughing. They're amazing. There are people living in their moms basements just watching video after video like this and it's making me fucking die laughing.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-08-05T18:51:28+00:00

I don't usually find 'entitlement' talk useful.
But it could be that the biggest issue for men on PPD is their assumption that most men are supposed to be able to find a woman of roughly equivalent rank with whom the man can mate and have children.

This seems natural and normal to many, but in the bigger picture, maybe this is the definition of male entitlement. Freed from their biology by technology, and from paternalistic control by social revolution, Women may be deeply agnostic about whether this widespread monogamy model is in women's interests or is something they want.

Women have never been this free before. Maybe that means men have to also totally revisit all their a priori assumptions about what is normal or natural.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-05T19:05:41+00:00

Do you ever wonder where some posters here will be in 5 or 10 years? Am I an asshole if I want to bet on where some people end up? Like, I read comments sometimes and just wonder....

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-05T19:11:36+00:00

We're gonna discuss exclusivity over breakfast.

“Only 5 more weekends over at Bradley’s house and I’ll be your girlfriend.”

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-05T19:12:18+00:00

I'd absolutely do a sugar baby relationship.

At least with that kind of relationship I'm not wondering why the fuck she's tolerating me. Like let's say 4k a month + she can sleep around (isn't allowed to bring them home obviously) and do whatever she wants but she has to sleep with me. She doesn't need to have sex with me but I don't care about sex that much anyway, I want to fall asleep next to someone.

It's actually why I got my dog, because I wanted to cuddle him when I sleep but he refuses to sleep with me too :(

I'd absolutely do that.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-05T19:15:43+00:00

A “break” where you’re allowed to have sex with other people is just an open relationship with extra steps.

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-05T19:20:19+00:00

Don't listen to Men. They'll just tell you whatever they think you want to hear

It's kinda funny how so many Women don't register this as misandry and are very quick to call it misogyny if you switched genders

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-05T19:21:37+00:00

Honestly the refrain of "never take dating advice from a woman" has taken so much weight off my shoulders because men are always like "I tried that it didn't work" or "I can't approach women there!"

Its a free pass for me to not care about some poor schmucks romantic prospects and thank the lord for that. I'm gonna tell men IRL that I can't give them advice since I'm a woman.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-05T19:40:25+00:00

Ladies on here don’t want to admit but chicks are a lot more common then media wants us to think:

https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/15inods/crying_at_your_wedding_is_gay_now_fellas/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

And it’s lead to all the toxic masculinity men can’t cry type of stuff y’all get mad at men about. Y’all think it’s the dudes reinforcing this behavior but it’s really the women who reject and shame men who really change the behavior of dudes. If women categorically act mostly like this one. Then the problem wouldn’t be so prevalent.

But every guy on here has a story where he showed emotions to any chick and got a similar response as above.

Hell husbands Facebook groups talk about how they’re wives even got annoyed at them for crying at funerals sometimes.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-05T19:43:36+00:00

It's weird how some of the men here think that a relationship means unconditional love and someone to fix your faults.

Zabadoodude · 2023-08-05T19:58:20+00:00

I've never been called a Chad more than by the guys on here who need an excuse to ignore my experience and advice.

Thanks guys! ☺️

DerayRevan · 2023-08-05T20:00:46+00:00

All this guys wanting to get into relationships

Listen all my relationships have been effortless as l said before

Why ?

Because the woman was always happy being around me so l never had to put effort in making her happy in the first place

It should be the same for you as well, if you've to put effort in making a woman then she ain't gonna be around too long

According_Listen_897 · 2023-08-05T20:08:18+00:00

I think we all know that getting into a relationship won't fix an already fucked up person and their misery is sure to follow. However, what are the ways that you think a relationship really does fix people?

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-05T20:15:04+00:00

I have a friend who lost a lot of weight and was wondering if he could get out of the friend zone with some of his female friend. I would say no. When I lost the weight 5 years ago I wasn't;t able to get out of the friend zone with any of my female friends even though the primary reason I was put it in it was because of my weight. But curious what everybody else thinks.

FourthHarbinger · 2023-08-05T20:20:38+00:00

I'm on vacation for a week. Thank the lord. I doubt I'll do much socializing and I certainly won't make any friends, but I'm still glad to be here

DerayRevan · 2023-08-05T20:32:05+00:00

"Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s"

Because your BROKE in your 20s

That's why they get no women

SorryEm · 2023-08-05T20:43:20+00:00

Question for bluepillers: Do you actually think we're dumb enough to believe what you say? Do you actually think the average man is in the same situation as you or if you're a woman, the same situation as your husband/boyfriend or your friend's husband/boyfriend?

SorryEm · 2023-08-05T20:45:14+00:00

"DUUDE JUST GO OUTSIDE BRO GO OUTSIDE"?

Where? When?

Willow-girl · 2023-08-05T20:48:10+00:00

Couldn't resist buying it because it was so pretty, but what the hell am I gonna do with this thing?! Imgur https://i.imgur.com/wC6qlzX.jpg

SorryEm · 2023-08-05T20:49:49+00:00

I don't know how tf do bluepillers comprehend everything else in life. How is every bad thing that happens the fault of the individual? How do you expect someone to justify their own unhappiness?

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-05T20:55:06+00:00

Q4All: Do you enjoy musicals? What is your favorite musical? If you could be a character from a musical who would it be? If you could date a character in a musical who would it be?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-05T20:56:26+00:00

I think it's clear to say a lot of women are insecure about themselves, that's why they are attracted to men who are confident in themselves and their abilities

This is how females just are

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-05T21:07:06+00:00

For me personally 99% of my rejection of TRP philosophy comes down to the simple fact I don't believe ANY red piller when they say they don't hate women.

My Gigachad friend who is staying with me is pretty RP talks about women in a normal fucking way, like they're human beings who he actually enjoys being around. I'd probably be more amenable to it if more RPers were like him.

People on here with RP flairs use the most disgusting dehumanizing insane language imaginable. Like it's very clear that they really fucking hate women and are only willing to tolerate them long enough to fuck them.

SuperFix9351 · 2023-08-05T21:07:34+00:00

The leftist solution to men struggling with dating is basically like this

"We will create a massive government which will cover free therapy sessions for everyone where you can go and get convinced that you can be happy without a romantic relationships and that there are other ways to be fullfilled such as going out and doing volunteer work in your community".

And they are wondering why these men are not voting for them.

potoricco · 2023-08-05T21:23:30+00:00

Im at a birthday party im like panicking cuz people from my school are herw

4SSh01e · 2023-08-05T21:39:07+00:00

The seduction of Connie by Paul in the movie Unfaithful is in my opinion a masterful display of the principles of seduction.

MysterySolverDog · 2023-08-06T01:43:49+00:00

Hate it when I spend hours filling out a lengthy application form for a role in a large business and they take a full month to get back to me. The emails that are sent out for one of an interview/Watson-Glaser test/rejection are always automated too .

Please just let me know if the work experience I've been piecing together gives me a shot at an actually desirable role or not, don't leave me hanging for so long 😓

DerayRevan · 2023-08-06T07:12:10+00:00

When we talk about what women are attracted to vs what they are arsoused by, it becomes a different topic

Ylduts · 2023-08-06T10:38:43+00:00

[Candace Owens](A Short History of Slavery | 5-Minute Videos | PragerU https://www.prageru.com/video/a-short-history-of-slavery). Is she wrong?

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-06T12:49:26+00:00

It's funny and kinda cringe when women who literally use dating apps get triggered when a guy tells them that it's a ton of swiping and "trying to impress" on their end. Not the first time I ran into that. You know, it's the classic female disgust with guys "not seeing them as an individuals" and playing a numbers game instead. eyeroll.

I get it if you find that cringe and DON'T use dating apps, I mean I agree, I don't like dating apps myself. But if you are literally engaging with the apps, maybe try to comprehend that it's just how it works for the majority of men lol. It literally IS a numbers game. Most dating apps are majority men to begin with, that's basically common knowledge by now, no?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-08-06T14:23:01+00:00

Had a guy tell me that it’s “almost biologically impossible” that I truly love my boyfriend because we split bills and he’s not your stereotypical “wimp.”

Men: Please stop telling women how we feel about our own lives and relationships. We know ourselves better than you do.

dbz__f · 2023-08-05T23:42:10+00:00

Turned the heater way up last night before I went to bed cause I knew once we fell asleep all the blankets and quilts/doonas would be rolled off me like an airport conveyer belt and I’d wake up with no covers. This morning when we woke up she was complaining the room was too hot 😂

potoricco · 2023-08-05T23:38:38+00:00

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If you asked me 6 months ago what guy I want I would have said right

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-05T23:24:03+00:00

I’ve started being active in a local hiking group (hiking+ kayaking) for young adults (16-30) and basically everyone that participates are early career professionals in their mid to late 20s. Barely anyone from the younger half of the age range participates…

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-05T23:02:15+00:00

Insults from men are one of three options.

Calling us ugly or fat.
Calling us whores or bitches.
Calling us old.

They are especially funny coming through anonymously. How am I supposed to take an insult seriously when it comes from username H20_Super_Soaker69. Lol.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-05T22:55:31+00:00

It’s scary how some women age man. I understand why makeup companies keep raking in the dough now😂😂😂😂😂💅🏽

md8716 · 2023-08-05T22:51:26+00:00

Idk what it is about sitting in first class watching plebs board and sipping champagne, but damn it feels good.

I get why rich people burn so much money on this shit lol.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-05T22:46:20+00:00

What. Did. I. Miss

Peacesquad · 2023-08-05T22:46:12+00:00

My dumbass is going to buy Madden again this year. What’s the over/under?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-05T22:26:36+00:00

I'm in the mood get on a horse and ride into battle.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-05T22:24:09+00:00

Should you sometimes do stuff that you’re not enthusiastic about for your partner?

Does this extend to the bedroom? (Excluding stuff that genuinely makes you uncomfortable)

potoricco · 2023-08-05T22:19:30+00:00

New career endeavor

Become a dj

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-05T22:17:38+00:00

Why do we eat pigs? when they are more intelligent than dogs, can form bonds with human and show affection like dogs.

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-05T22:14:07+00:00

is dating a career women in college a good idea?

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