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potoricco · 2023-09-09T22:41:40+00:00

I got the ick from this comment

Like why is a grown man eating peanut butter, jam and marinara 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

potoricco · 2023-09-09T22:37:12+00:00

Polygamy is objectively negative to society. If you are a man and you support polygamy, let’s just say you are no einstein

potoricco · 2023-09-09T22:35:57+00:00

It’s very interesting how older people reason

My mother is filling out some kind of immigration thing for my grandmother so she can get a visa/passport I don’t really know. (this is a different grandmother, I have 3) and we got to a point where it asked about places she’d lived in her life and for how long

And she couldn’t tell us the general dates when she moved in or out or for how long, but she remembered it by saying things like “Oh well when I moved out of there, y child was still a baby”

“When we moved to x location, I had just given birth to z” And then she did the math from there

It was super heartwarming

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-09T22:01:07+00:00

I find nothing lamer than average height guys (5'8"-5'11") complaining about being manlets.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-09T21:33:37+00:00

Porn addicts=Vibrator addicts

They're as bad as eachother

A woman who is hooked on her vibrator is a deal breaker

Don't believe the studies that were funded by companies that profit from their sales

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-09T21:22:22+00:00

It's no wonder why so many young men are angry considering the amount of misandry in the west.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-09T21:20:13+00:00

Maybe it is time to accept the hand I was dealt and just stoically deal with it.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-09T21:10:48+00:00

Pickup lines used to be a thing because male interest used to mean something to women. The thought was that showing interest was bold and it would be appreciated and would make her somewhat like you.

Now, no one even entertains the thought that a man's interest or telling a woman she's pretty would do anything to the point that they barely even joke about pickup lines anymore. Male attention has been too commodified and has no value now that women can get validation and attention for free so easily.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-09T20:51:58+00:00

Matt Walsh is an American hero

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-09T20:46:24+00:00

Every time I go to the skincare aisle there are women there and it makes me uncomfortable. I'm just ordering shit off of amazon from now on.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-09T20:32:06+00:00

Was at a funeral and the grandson of the deceased cried while giving his eulogy. His wife broke up with him in the parking lot for not maintaining frame.

Actually, that didn't happen, she comforted him and they went on normally because the real world isn't some TikTok street interview.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-09T20:24:37+00:00

What’s your success rate from approaching women in the club? 5-6/10 dudes only

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-09T20:23:35+00:00

Maybe the Saudis were right about women after all

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meteorness123 · 2023-09-08T22:01:50+00:00

I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-09-08T22:02:21+00:00

Where does this idea that a man playing video games is a highly undesirable trait that makes him an undatable loser come from? I've never encountered that sentiment IRL.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-08T22:03:06+00:00

Why do they call it “getting lucky”?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-08T22:03:59+00:00

So far, I can divide guys with dating problems into two categories:

Bad social skills.
Mentally children, but also not hot nor rich.

When I say mentally children, I mean these guys think far too simplistically about things that it baffles me that they’re adults. It works if you’re hot or rich, it does not work when you have neither, and you refuse to date someone equally as mentally childlike. For example, thinking people get the perfect ideal love, thinking social media = reality, conflating romance with sex, complaining about women with the same flaws that he has, etc. This is very evident when they say “Girls put in no effort and get all guys wanting them!” because that is the most middle school comment I ever seen....and grown men say this!

I don’t believe people saying most guys ignore women they don’t find attractive, but I can totally believe these are the kind of guys that do that, because awareness of themselves and their surroundings are so disturbingly lacking.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-08T22:05:09+00:00

Boo. My date canceled.

Guess I'll stay in and organize my closet. But first, I'll take myself to dinner and observe people in the wild.

I find the men I meet offline to be far nicer and more chill than the most the men here. Internet anonymity makes people real bitchy.

dbz__f · 2023-09-08T22:08:51+00:00

Shopping with le gf

Asks if she wants sushi

She says no

Try to help her shop

She says the things I pick out are the wrong thing and she puts them back in the aisle and gets the correct one

Okay guess I’m useless then

Ask her again if she wants sushi

She says no

Tell her I’m getting sushi

She says ok

Leave and buy sushi for myself

She gets all butthurt I didn’t buy sushi for her

mrrelaf · 2023-09-08T22:15:09+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/Fhda2VRmZo

Imagine pulling the most blue pilled stunt and still being called TAH. Men really can't win

the bio dad has never been in the picture, she doesn’t even know who he is

Also marrying a single mom who has no clue who got her pregnant is wild

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-08T22:20:57+00:00

A lot of 35+ women and men start looking like men and gay respectively to me.

potoricco · 2023-09-08T22:32:06+00:00

2 things can be true at once

If you’re a woman and you wear skimpy clothes, people will stare at you (not saying it’s okay but I’m just saying it happens)

If you’re a man you need to control yourself around women, even if they’re wearing revealing clothes

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-08T22:33:19+00:00

Interacting with my co-workers is making me want to take up cycling. It'd probably be good excercise too. Could help to meet people.

potoricco · 2023-09-08T22:42:22+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/f24sz95w04nb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e833cab6a474e61e53274b64a3c91481f909fff3

Football game

meteorness123 · 2023-09-08T22:50:11+00:00

Its so bizarre when fitness influencers or people who work in a related business claim natural when it's well known that everybody that makes money with their body takes steroids. You can look like you dont take steroids but still do them because its not just about size but also recovery speed.

DrCornSyrup · 2023-09-08T23:01:37+00:00

Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears flashy clothing in public?

I have seen this topic come up but to me it does not make sense. I wear halter tops, fishnets or leggings all the time because they are comfortable. I will also wear modest clothing depending on the setting and depending on what I feel like wearing that day. My boyfriend has no problem with it and he has never tried to tell me what to wear. If anything I think it increases his status to be next to a visibly attractive woman. I like to reflect well on him, and if we are being honest one of the best ways to do this is to show everyone how pretty his girl is.

Not trying to start a debate here, I just want to hear the other side because I do not understand it. Why do so many men have a problem with this?

potoricco · 2023-09-08T23:21:26+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/yf6objgu74nb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e80f98f514bc001ed0bf53d2e02957d16f319756

It’s tew fucking hot in here but at least it’s pretty

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-08T23:31:57+00:00

I was at paradise the other day.

I was at some cultural event that mostly immigrants attend. Almost every single woman there had a healthy (19-21) BMI. Even though most of them were with their (average looking) boyfriends, it gave me the feeling of abundance, like there were a lot of dating options available. In that world, it's just normal and expected for men to be able to get healthy bodied women. I realized that I've been a boiling frog all along in the land of fatties that I didn't notice how much scarcity fatties make men feel.

Fattie women aren't just hurting themselves by being fat. Fattie women are depressing men, making men feel like there are no options available. They are harming men. Harming others is when it stops being a personal problem and when it becomes a societal problem.

Society needs to do better to stop women from being fat. This is a dire problem to solve.

redheadtingz · 2023-09-08T23:35:38+00:00

I love getting bundled up and sleeping on the porch when it’s really cold. I feel like one of those Norwegian babies that are put outside to nap when it’s below freezing.

MysterySolverDog · 2023-09-08T23:39:07+00:00

It has always interested me how the vast majority of the women on here are convinced of two things:

1) They know men's dating issues better than the actual men.

2) If they were a guy, they'd have zero problems.

I've read some RP posts that come across as very out of touch and self-important, but are we sure it's only the guys being very arrogant here?

demedermidimi · 2023-09-08T23:56:07+00:00

who else up being a slave to her hypergamy

meteorness123 · 2023-09-09T00:11:59+00:00

There's nothing better than Mike Tyson's philosophy on 'fornicating' :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ph-5cuJgVRs&ab_channel=bokicar1

What is your take on the art of fornication ?

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-09-09T00:27:47+00:00

Is anyone surprised by the ideas they find here? Frankly, I continuously find myself saying, “a real adult in the world is willing argue about this in good faith?”

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-09-09T00:34:19+00:00

Some dude's blocked me and I can't even recall if we've ever even commented back and forth on this sub. Weird.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-09T00:50:15+00:00

Public m/f cheek kissing? Is it a common thing? A man I know gave me a big ‘ol kiss on the cheek the other day. I wasn’t offended but I can’t recall that ever happening in my life before.

potoricco · 2023-09-09T00:56:18+00:00

Would you eat this

https://preview.redd.it/45j9be1to4nb1.jpeg?width=2089&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=112cb8fd0bef7b06f14973b7b2a91ffee1b4d76b

purplish_possum · 2023-09-09T00:58:38+00:00

The hotel I'm at is hosting a "VetteFest". The place is overrun with sorta rich old white guys are their "Karen" wives. The parking lot is totally full of their over priced fiberglass toys.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-09T01:04:30+00:00

I need a good camera for news shots. Willing to buy used. Does anyone have any suggestions? Price range is currently 200-500 dollars. I'm considering buying something cheap and then saving up for something better later on.

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-09T01:38:50+00:00

It’s interesting how homophobia affects male male and female female relationships differently.

A lot of straight men are careful with how they interact with other men in order to not be seen as gay or feminine.

Straight women don’t need to be careful in the same way with how they act towards other women, but in exchange lesbians aren’t taken as seriously and are heavily fetishized.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-09-09T01:47:52+00:00

A sense of civic responsibility is such an underrated, attractive quality in a man IMO; apathy and defeatism towards the state of the world is a huge turn off.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-09-09T01:54:36+00:00

Woo hoo!

Im getting some use of my hand back! Today was a good day!

Ive barely been able to use it for over two weeks now.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-09T01:56:51+00:00

Apparently I’m a whore and my bf is a cuck, so fun night on PPD thanks guys!!

potoricco · 2023-09-09T02:08:50+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/jjhxpmdq15nb1.jpeg?width=832&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=84216eabe07ae8b99f06cc86985f8ddfe5d15d92

He would be so fine without this beatd

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-09T02:15:05+00:00

A lot of people on Reddit don't seem to understand that you can still have problems in a relationship even if you talk things out, it's not the be all and end all solution. Notice how whenever couples are having issues, the first thing they say is:

"HAVE YOU TRIED TALKING ABOUT IT AND COMMUNICATING????"

Nah, definitely never once thought about doing that, you're a revolutionary genius, nobody has ever thought about talking it out with their partner before, not one.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-09-09T02:35:53+00:00

The only trustworthy childfreers/antinatalists are men. Harrowing to think the world population would probably be 16 billion if Good men were more common.

https://preview.redd.it/ntcem6gh65nb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ddb252e8c4fdaf79bc89dae0d49ff6773b20bc9b

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-09-09T02:39:49+00:00

Been seeing a lot of media/shows with little people.

Might be your time to shine soon short kings we know how women’s attraction bends to social norms 😏😂

Maractop · 2023-09-09T02:57:50+00:00

So most men arent desireable to women but women are also attracted to average men? Arent most men average? Both cant be true. How can you desire (to be with) someone without being attracted to them? I dont think its possible.

This is why I think some of women who say they have responsive desire just dont really desire their partner or actually find them attractive so they cant trigger spontaneous desire. Do women have responsive desire with their celebrity crushes or guys they have one night stands with? They desire them and are very attracted them so I highly doubt it. They have never even met or spoken to their celebrity crushes and know almost nothing about their one night stand but still desire them greatly. I dont think its possible for most men to trigger that response in women.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-09T03:00:08+00:00

Are you one of those people who have had the same 1,2 passwords for everything your whole life?

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-09T03:12:16+00:00

I think I’m about to cave and get on a conservative dating site. Boy, I can’t wait until a recently divorced 40 year old welder named Dale/Wayne/Kyle with a Dodge Ram pickup takes me on a classy date to Applebees, maybe even Texas Roadhouse if we’re feeling extra fancy. It’ll be the night of my life.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-09T03:31:36+00:00

Women are always gonna put less importance towards looks than men, that's just facts since they have other attraction triggers that require a guy to be good-looking

Guys should know because it will benefit them in the long-run, if you aren't winning in the looks department then figure out her other turn-ons since she's got a bunch of them

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-09T04:44:46+00:00

Q4W:

5′ 11″ = 180.34 cm

6′ 0″ = 182.88 cm

Now, bearing in mind that I'm 181cm, should I just go ahead and lie and say I'm 6'0''

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-09T05:05:56+00:00

My house in the US is just about ready for becoming a vacation rental, just in time for fall leaf season. I’m going to be so excited when someone actually pays to stay there 🤞

meteorness123 · 2023-09-09T05:06:48+00:00

My love language is getting head.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-09T05:28:40+00:00

Well, we had a disaster.

One of our beloved cats (Derp) needs to be medicated daily for urinary blockage issues. It had been a long time since he had any problems, so we became lax in medicating him, and today he plugged up, necessitating a late-night rush to the emergency clinic an hour away. Oy!

The good news is that they cath'ed him without any issues and his bloodwork came back, and I quote, "awesome." He will still be hospitalized for three days to flush his bladder and observe him once the cath is removed. All of this TLC is expected to cost between $1,700-2,300. Oy. Guess I will be going back to work at the Amazon warehouse sooner than I had anticipated ///

Derp (right) and his brother Maxwell, when they were kittens years ago. Imgur

Their mom Juliet is going around the house crying tonight. She knows one of her sons is missing and there's no way we can convey to her that he's is good hands and (God willing) will be back with us soon!

Maractop · 2023-09-09T05:37:45+00:00

Q4W mainly but anyone can comment: So lets say you have a toddler and your husband planned a date night. So he drops the baby off at a grandparents house and takes almost everything needed but forgets the baby bottle. The grandparent tells you that the bottle is missing while you are on the way to the date spot but says its not an issue and buys one at a store. Would you get extremely upset and think your husband intentionally left the bottle and refuse to go to date night? Then make him drive back to get the bottle to give to the grandparent even though they bought a new one? Because I just seen this happen (im not the grandparent) and I feel kinda bad for him tbh.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-09T06:20:16+00:00

There was a teenaged boy at school this week going around in an "I Heart MILFs" t-shirt.

NGL, I laughed like a hyena ...

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-09T07:30:09+00:00

I feel accomplished - assembled 2 ikea lamps and a table for my oven, unfurled a new rug & viola, my apartment is starting to feel like a home instead of an anonymous dwelling place.

supremethrone · 2023-09-09T08:12:18+00:00

People who advocate for therapy are agents of Big Pharma and should not be taken seriously.

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-09-09T09:07:04+00:00

I wonder what percentage of men never get to experience the feeling of a woman absolutely fawning over and romantically infatuated with them. Like for women this is a far more common experience cause men simp, but I feel like a great percentage of men spend their while lives without every getting to experience this

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-09T09:08:20+00:00

Going out be like

Begging women to spend even a few seconds talking to you
Getting hit on by gay men (there are blatant flamos but they choose to hit on me instead)
Getting hit on by zero women
Watching chad-lites get with girls who are leagues below their league

dccidal · 2023-09-09T09:11:18+00:00

damn imagine being a guy visiting this sub everyday. It's a complete wrap.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-09T09:17:27+00:00

Yesterday we went to watch improv, today my husband has a surprise date for me. It involves outdoor clothing so thankfully nothing fancy.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-09T09:33:55+00:00

I watched a very insightful video recently. Basically it was about how men aren’t supposed to seek relationships. That’s a woman’s job. You’re supposed to be focused on acquiring resources and power. You’re meant to be on a mission.

Whether or not women come your way is truly irrelevant. They’re a distraction at the end of the day. It’s nice if you get one but you honestly shouldn’t care whether she comes or goes. That’s a feminine trait. Let her initiate the relationship. It doesn’t mean avoid women but you shouldn’t be so eager to get into a relationship.

Also stay away from porn, sex etc for at least a year to facilitate this mindset.

Shazamo333 · 2023-09-09T10:33:48+00:00

Looking for suggestions for captions/quotes on my bio which indicates i'm single.

I've had a few girls I'm talking to keep thinking I'm married or in a relationship and if i can put a convincing quote in my bio i think that would work.

But it can't been too obvious because it will come off as desperate (e.g. no 'single and ready to mingle' shit)

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-09T10:39:06+00:00

At this point, people who complain about settling are annoying. Most people settle, most people are not someone’s ideal, and people would rather compromise than chase a fantasy that’ll never happen.

That’s how so many people get catfished, because they think an extreme hot person (maybe even a celebrity) honestly contacted them and they would rather chase a fantasy than deal with reality.

nexkell · 2023-09-09T11:32:12+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16d7s6d/my_husband_just_made_my_heart_flutter/

Woman see's a highly attractive woman and sends a test for her husband and amazingly enough other women call her out for what she did.

Maffioze · 2023-09-09T11:34:15+00:00

The modern day meaning of patriarchy feminists use is a completely subjective framework that can't be proven, and most of the time the reason why people use it is that they can't imagine men as victims easily, which is sexist.

Yet still you have these people acting like they are just saying "the truth" when they say "this is actually because of the patriarchy, patriarchy harms men too" instead of a completely subjective framing of men's issues which is inherently dismissive.

demedermidimi · 2023-09-09T11:41:41+00:00

For example instead of only having to ask herself "Do I like this man?", now it's:

Will my friends think he's attractive/will they like him? 4) Will he come across well in the group chat? - Most women are in some sort of group chat discussing their boyfriends/SOs.

I've never in my life thought any of my friend's boyfriends was attractive and same goes for my friends and my boyfriend. "what do you see in him" is a very common phrase

potoricco · 2023-09-09T12:37:04+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/r3ypqn2t58nb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa52f7382410ee52ccda149b478a0086b241af0b

“Bdsm” is evil and illogical

hannahg000 · 2023-09-09T12:46:05+00:00

in a podcast i was listening to, the woman was talking about the cute vs sexy spectrum. i’ve always seen myself as cute (albeit a more awkward type of cute). i don’t think it’s possible for me to be sexy. i’m just too awkward and clumsy

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-09T13:02:18+00:00

That's just one example but I think that in general in the social media era or rather the era of, women in particular are more concerned with the optics of dating and what appears good.. For example instead of only having to ask herself "Do I like this man?", now it's:

Do we look good in pictures together? (If I had an nickel every time a woman commented on a picture going "OMG THE HEIGHT DIFFERENCE!! 😍")

Will my friends think he's attractive/will they like him?

Do other women want to sleep with him? (Social proof is everything)

Will he come across well in the group chat? - Most women are in some sort of group chat discussing their boyfriends/SOs. Nothing is private.

This is great proof that guys go after asshole women just as much as women go after asshole man. It’s just the guys are far less aware of it. The girls who do this always get the most boys because they’re hot, hypersexual, and they flaunt it to their advantage so they can easily attract thirsty simps. It’s incredibly easy to avoid these women when you’re not thinking with your dick.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-09T13:09:18+00:00

Reasons why Lenin was an Alpha Male:

1) He cucked his wife with a French woman,no tensions arose whatsoever

2) Very into lifting (he litterallly said to his mother in law to get out because she was disrupting his workout)

3) Came back to Russia and litterallly said to everyone that they are wrong and they should listen to him

4) When Tserteli (beta soyboy) said "there's no party in Russia that can lead on its own" and the whole Room supported him, alpha Lenin said "Theres is Such Party"

5) He litterallly criticed and had sick burns for everyone, from anarchists to kautsky

6) There's some speculation he died from siphilis (he litterallly died because of he had so much sex he caught a disease

gabejohn · 2023-09-09T13:18:15+00:00

Girl with fat ass while being skinny was delivering something to people in my street. Let us pray she does this next saturday again.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-09T13:27:40+00:00

Feminism is a mistake because there can never be equality of the sexes because women have an inherent advantage of being able to birth children. This is why the idea of a patriarchy is so dumb. How can there be a patriarchy that simultaneously disadvantages men while also giving preference to women and children. That doesn't sound like patriarchy to me. If patriarchy is real then it is completely inefficient at completing the task feminists claim it is after.

So any kind of feminist claim for equality is actually an attempt at supremacy which is absolutely what we see. Women are out earning men, and suddenly the wage gap isn't a problem. Women are dominating in college and suddenly the education gap isn't a problem.

Women will advocate for the abolishment of unfair beauty standards, but then support one another in their own vanity as they display mating behaviors akin to nazi eugenics.

To paraphrase Voltaire, if the patriarchy didn't exist, it would be necessary to create it. Perhaps what feminists denounce as the patriarchy was really the male version of feminism, an attempt to make things fair and just, but women desiring supremacy fought against that because they know their inherent value will trump that of men, but they cling onto the covert narcissistic manipulation tactic of playing the victim.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-09T13:30:48+00:00

Women: we need to abolish beauty standards

Men: I agree, it is unfair how women give preference to imutable characteristics like height

Women: heh sorry little guy, that is the patriarchy's fault, I'm not accountable for my own decisions

Men: Well that is unfair, but I guess it is like how the patriarchy makes me attracted to women that are much younger than me

Women: uh, actually you're a creep and need to stop any behavior I don't like or else your a misogynist

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-09T14:24:11+00:00

Can someone explain these weird terms like Chad and Stacy?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-09T14:30:48+00:00

Matched with yet another girl on bumble.

Cute but sickly looking. Within 5 mins told me she's been engaged three times in her life, all three times she broke off the engagement. Kissing was fine. My cock in her mouth within the hour was fine. Me suggesting sliding my cock in her pussy was somehow not fine, and ghosted me.

Q4W: Make it make sense.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-09T14:32:57+00:00

i don’t understand why people (both men and women and even some feminists) see femininity as incompatible with intellectualism. just because i like putting bows in my hair and want to frolic in a flower field wearing a pretty dress that doesn’t mean that i can’t be intellectually driven.

also while we’re on the subject, emotionality does not imply mental weakness. i can cry myself to sleep, wake up the next morning and still make a 100 on an exam.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-09-09T14:33:01+00:00

I've seen women on these boards pushing the "men only struggle if they're turning down women on their level and holding out for Stacy" narrative. It's the biggest projection ever. Furthermore, it tells us these discussions are absolutely useless since our experiences in life are so different, and there's not going to be any real effort to understand the experiences of others.

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-09T14:38:30+00:00

This is for men who are absolutely against visiting an escort. Yes, it won't solve your life. Yes, there is no guarantee that it will be super fun, and you can't expect them to fall in love with you. But in my opinion, if you can masturbate to porn without hating yourself, it could work for you.

If you are a heterosexual man living in this age of the internet, chances are you are already regularly getting off to literal strangers who show off their bodies for money, they are just on the other side of the screen. You already spend time enjoying what they are doing, quite literally. Okay, I get that some people have an unhealthy relationship with porn, but in general I'm strongly sex-positive and I'm on the opinion that men should make peace with how their sexuality works. Men seem to be more into the idea of sex for sex's sake, we ARE easier like that. And that's fine.

"Paying for what other people get for free will forever stain your soul". Fucking irrelevant, mate. Again, masturbation, even if you don't watch porn but just fantasize, is ALREADY an act of getting off sexually without a deep, meaningful connection with someone else, without you "charming a woman" into falling for you. And again, masturbation is something that the majority of men already do. What is the "moral" gap between that and actually visiting an escort? Have you never in your life said to yourself "that was nice, she was good!" after watching porn? If you have, then why couldn't something like that happen in real life?

I get that sex-work has lots of negative connotations and that actually doing such a straightforward thing in person is more extreme, and definitely less "sure" than just watching porn from the safety of your home. I get that it has a chance of feeling kind of "empty"... like a lot of porn does, right? But if you have this sort of mentality, if you can just forget about your insecurities and pain, and instead approach this as "okay, I don't hate myself for getting off, so let's try to make that a bit more real", I think it could be worth a try. There is nothing wrong with it.

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-09T14:48:25+00:00

Dating when you got options as a man is so great. I’m on my way to a date right now and I don’t care about the results. There is no pressure cause I’ll be going home to my fwb after anyway. I can truly scrutinise this girl and see if I really like her.

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-09T14:51:32+00:00

How do males with tons of options still end up picking the wrong woman. Joe Jonas could have quiet literally gotten with any woman. He got with a 19 year old married her when she was 22 now she has FOMO after having two kids lol.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-09T14:56:57+00:00

I have to give feminists some credit though. They successfully crippled and dismantled the MRA movement. Most men won't even know about MRAs until they probably get divorced.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-09T15:03:49+00:00

Women want a god, not a man

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-09-09T15:15:10+00:00

housework split discourse

Can someone explain to me how you girls all end up with guys who somehow refuse to come up with a mutually agreeable division of tasks and then stick to it?

if the problem was really how you split chores it would be ridiculously easy to solve.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-09T15:21:28+00:00

Went shopping yesterday.

Husband: 2 pairs of pants, a longsleeve, 2 shirts, a t-shirt, 6 pairs of socks

Me: a sweater and 5 pairs of socks

We're getting ready for the fall and it's so much easier to shop for husband's clothes, because most clothes he tries actually fits him. Most clothes I try is either too big or too "tall" for me.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-09T15:26:37+00:00

Tradcons: "chase success not women"

Me: well don't complain if she's sees you as a bank deposit

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-09T20:27:58+00:00

dasda

Maractop · 2023-09-09T21:17:35+00:00

People love saying attraction and beauty are subjective but get upset when someone they think is objectively attractive gets rated as average or low. As if its insulting to have a different opinion on the person. Its contradictory. Which is why I say beauty is objective with some subjectivity.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-09T22:09:44+00:00

A lot of guys just don't respect women and l totally understand why because l was the same growing up

Outside my female relatives l got no reason showing respect to a woman

Especially in dating were both genders want commodities from each other, women want attention and men want sex, so it naturally creates a barrier were both sexes cannot respect each other

I would often get attacked by bluepill whiteknights saying "you need to respect women bro" which just made me loss more respect since they always need some simp fighting their battles

ioniqc · 2023-09-09T20:15:28+00:00

"I’m in a similar situation. I always said I’d never cheat. I tried for many years to make it work and he made no effort in the bedroom. This past year I met my Dom, who is also in a similar situation. Our mental and physical connection has added so much to my life. I’ve had the most incredible orgasms/sex in my entire life with my Dom, so I’m no longer that grumpy unsatisfied wife. I no longer feel guilty. I’m actually happier in my marriage because we no longer argue about sex and I’m no longer disappointed. We have filled each others voids. It may sound weird, but my marriage is happier and stronger than it ever was. I decided life is too short to spend the rest of it with terrible, no effort, boring sex. Many people would say to leave my husband but….other than sex everything is perfect. He is in a similar situation with his wife. We both love our spouses, but we satisfy our needs and our kinks with each other."

(original)

ioniqc · 2023-09-09T20:12:15+00:00

"My husband was positively impacted by my affair, my cheating partner helped me perfect my blowjob technics"

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-09T19:59:59+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/ysUFSdWXQP I think I’d rather he lie to me. No way would my self esteem be able to cope with this

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-09T19:58:56+00:00

Random 20 year old probably Onlyfans model: I want a Man that's 6ft 3 and makes 500k a year at least. Needs to be dominant and emotionally present and has to pay for everything blah blah blah

Pathetic loser guys on the internet: omg dating is fucked in this generation. The average Man has no hope. Women's standards are too high blah blah blah

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-09T19:58:35+00:00

Q4W: Why don't you agree that equal rights = equal fights?

demedermidimi · 2023-09-09T19:33:26+00:00

so often i see a ppd post that's like "explain this!" and it's a statement or opinion that I've never seen before in my life

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-09T19:31:46+00:00

TIL people actually take the critics score on rotten tomatoes seriously. Wow. The IMDB scores are wayyyyyyyy more likely to be accurate

baiser_vole · 2023-09-09T19:25:27+00:00

I used to crush on this guy. How would you rate him?

https://instagram.com/cateen8810?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-09T19:15:16+00:00

Isn't it strange how women always assume the worst about a man's intentions and then act shocked when there's a massive backlash to their misandry?

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-09T19:05:52+00:00

What is up if you think certain female celebrities is mid, average, or not highly attractive then you would get certain response about you being mid yourself or most likely below average yourself.

That makes no sense regardless how unattractive one might be doesn’t mean they can’t be objective.

That is like me think Kirk Cousins is mid as a QB, yet certainly no one is questioning my ability as a QB. Most people who give their opinion are nowhere near as good as the professional athlete.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-09T19:04:14+00:00

PPD should become an OLD sub. I mean the female feminists here can get matched with the blue pill betas. RP alphas can matched with feminine pickmes. Win -Win, isn't it?

potoricco · 2023-09-09T18:59:59+00:00

My mom is sooo nice I feel bad asking for money. She gave me $30 which is so 😇 but I feel bad. Like a gold digger but for families

dela_man10 · 2023-09-09T18:55:15+00:00

The problem with PPD guy is that they expect to find love in a relationship. Men weren’t made to be loved or to seek relationships. If you get one or the other then great but you’re meant to pursue power and resources.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-09T18:51:43+00:00

What I do like about Destiny that this guy just doesn't give a fuck. He's a short guy, doesn't look traditionally masculine. Doesn't give a fuck about not meeting a standard. Stays in his home all day to stream and argue with people about non-sense, has no fomo at all. Dies his har blue, gets made fun of for it, does not give a fuck. I personally think his relationship is kind of absurd but once he does not give a fuck what I or other people think. Really good attitude to have.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-09T18:47:55+00:00

Chicken, Rice and eggs, a real masculine man's diet.

dysonRing · 2023-09-09T18:47:17+00:00

Ok I have a new theory gossiping is the IRL version of online shaming. It allows you to say the things you would never say to someone in person and you have the plausible deniability of " I am only repeating what I heard".

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-09T18:40:41+00:00

Women get beaten and abused by their boyfriends/husbands so often that I'm starting to think that they're lying about having misogyny detectors

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-09T18:38:52+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/findapath/s/1azfYLhrC0

This post actually makes me want to cry. Wtf

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-09T18:30:53+00:00

Men: we are the less superficial gender! Why dont women give us a chance 😞

Also men:

https://reddit.com/r/FaceRatings/s/pm9QTcrocG

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-09T18:22:12+00:00

If he doesn’t sell one of his kidneys on the black market to buy your engagement ring does he even care?

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-09-09T18:00:15+00:00

What do you talk about on dating apps? What questions would genuinely spark your interest in a good way that would signal that the person you’re talking to is interested and might be LTR worthy?

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-09-09T17:33:11+00:00

Are men who are DL gay? Or do they just wanna get their nut off regardless if its a woman or man?

There are a lot of men who participate in closeted homosexual behavior behind the scenes. Are these men gay or are they just ridiculously horny and men are more open to sexual advances

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-09T17:09:36+00:00

Q4W: How do you stop creeps from staring at you?

There's a lot of gay men in my area and when I'm on public transportation, they keep checking me out and looking at me and it makes me feel uncomfortable, but they don't do it blatantly enough for me to call them out. I need help from women who are skilled at creepshaming.

* Disclaimer that this is different from men checking women out because women can appreciate the attention and can actually be interested, so women should appreciate male attention, although I still use your expertise in creep shaming

Expert-Judge9762 · 2023-09-09T16:59:36+00:00

30s women, yuck 🤢

Peacesquad · 2023-09-09T16:24:17+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-09-09T16:24:06+00:00

Women have main character syndrome

demedermidimi · 2023-09-09T16:19:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/16dvs4z/aita_for_building_my25_gf24_a_fitness_regimen_and/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

and didn't even think to ask lmao

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-09T16:05:56+00:00

Crispy fried onions that come in a can are the bomb fr fr

DerayRevan · 2023-09-09T15:55:48+00:00

"How do males with tons of options still end up picking the wrong woman"

Not understanding female nature

Many guys have an abundance of options but still have a Bluepill mindset when coming to inner sexual dynamics

Never vetting the woman

Promising her a luxurious lifestyle after she let him smash ONCE

Already pushing for marriage early on and giving her commitment when she hasn't earned it

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-09T15:52:10+00:00

Soju is a hell of a drink. Kids need to stay away from this shit.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-09T15:42:29+00:00

I wish I learned earlier that ...competence is more important than looks to attract women. And for life in general.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-09T15:41:41+00:00

A pattern I notice with guys who do decently with women is that they dont entertain Stacies. They see a hot girl with a shit personality and theyre not willing to deal with her whatsoever. It’s not even that he has to “have options”, he’d rather be single than deal with her.

potoricco · 2023-09-09T15:38:12+00:00

I am so tired of seeing ugly spotted lantern flies everywhere. Winter HURRY UP!!!!

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-09T15:34:35+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/au5nB76H0cE?si=WasPoSQ7GTampxom

I'd have to move

This takes "old people don't give a fuck" to a whole new level

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