I noticed a lot of men can’t stand to be alone. Not only that but they’re desperate to get married and start a family. They don’t cultivate relationships outside of dating which leads them to be socially inept and needy when they do interact with other people.

They also try to put the woman’s needs first whereas women in similar situations would ghost or flake on them. They take their self esteem and validation from women when men could be building up and supporting each other.

Women also don’t put up with men’s nonsense regardless of how she feels about him. If she likes him he will have a few days to act on it whereas a woman can string along a platonic friend for years. In short men need to have a lot more self respect and be willing to forgoe their horniness.