I'm starting to believe women are delusional about penis size in two different ways, I'll also admit to using the word "delusional" for outrage bait even if I still hold to beinh right. Here is my claim

Claim no.1: women tend to have a wrong idea of how large penises are even when they touch those penises.

Claim no.2: women judge "averages" based on their partners, and it's possible men with larger penises have had more sex partners.

I've been on 2 subreddits a lot over the last few weeks to help get to this idea(among personal xp and more):

r/bigdickproblems r/smalldickproblems

Claim no.1 noticed how many people on the former complain about women having no clue of what size these men were. I've had this happen to me as well(6"5~/16.5cm length), where some girls have told me I'm about 18-20cm(7-8"). This is called "girl inches", essentially having a bad perception on how large something is are and adding size in your mind.

This is likely[or maybe this relates to point no.2] why I've heard girl friends talk about their experiences with 8/9inch dicks(very small amount of men have them.

Claim no.2 honestly this is mostly just "expirience" talking to women, and I've spend quite a lot of time in my life with...well...very extreme sluts. I think that there is generally an agreement to how easy men are with getting to have sex with these women when they have bigger penises, not due to their size but due to the effect on their personality. As we base our perceived averaged on this I think that the average penis(in partners) for women tend to be larger than the overall average. Though again I wonder to what extent this is "girl inches" again.

Also additional claim, men of r/smalldickproblems and similar sites, 5 inches is ok, stop being a pussy just because it's not ideal.

Edit: finally as someone in the comments said "overestimate" that was the word I was looking for. Sorry this is my 3rd language.

Edit 2: i never made a claim about women's preferences, I just tried to point out how women are bad at measuring penises with their mind(which causes them/the men they tell to assume wrong things). I also pointed out that women aren't per say wrong to believe that based on their own expiriences.

Edit 3: this post is not about women, it's about the effect women's claims have on societal understanging of penis size.