Daily Community Chat Megathread

Thotlesswhisper2 · 2023-02-02T17:58:09+00:00

Man, the extreme biological urge to make more babies when you absolutely do not want more kids for perfectly rational reasons is insane

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-02T13:19:24+00:00

Just a reminder that being horny and being lonely are not the same thing.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-02T11:47:54+00:00

Why do you think, when i open the app store and look up dating apps. Why are almost all reviews so bad? I mean people are still using the apps but apparently every reviewer hates the app itself and gives one star reviews?

Reasons they give may vary. Too many ads, filters don't work etc.

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2023-02-01T14:10:40+00:00

Some of the most nonsensical takes here is men claiming women can just make up for their shitty dating mistakes by letting the government funds them.

How much do you really think single mothers are making from their refunds through taxes? Section 8 housing takes years and is literally a lottery for most.

Ecstatic_Celery7194 · 2023-02-01T08:23:50+00:00

women, stop trying to prove us wrong by saying “i see average men doing pretty well” when we all know these men are clearly not ‘average’. stop referring to handsome men as ‘average’ just to validate your own point of view.

bluealexandrite · 2023-02-01T14:05:40+00:00

So yesterday was the first day of my psychology class this semester at my cc, and this clearly autistic/disabled kid that sits in the row across from me deadass started stuttering and babbling about how he was a lonely virgin, had no gf, and wasn’t allowed to date when he was younger to the professor in front of the entire class during a conversation about “normal” social development.

Like no shame either even as classmates were giggling. The professor was playing it off like “oh, well that’s a choice, nothing wrong with that.” You could tell most certainly it was not a choice 🫠

It was a grim reminder that as a single autistic virgin woman these types of guys are technically “my league” when accounting for male variability but most aren’t even ready to have a friend they can acknowledge and treat right much less a gf. Anyways autistic men are the only trucels cmv 😟

seeyouonthelanai · 2023-02-01T15:54:09+00:00

Just a point of reference about the "30% of men didn't have sex in the past year" thing

It comes from the a 2019 study which reported that

-28% of men did not have sex in the last year and

-18% of women did not have sex in the last year.

So, only 10% of women are doubling up with the chads. Concerning the other 90% of women, 18% are not having sex at all and 60% are bumping uglies with not only Chads but even gasp... average men.

shocked Pikachu face

https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/

why-b-less · 2023-02-01T16:15:10+00:00

Autism and online pill-propaganda are the explanation to 90% of the posts here. Not society, or femenism, or dating apps, or gender differences. This is not to say those things aren't having some effect on all of us, but so many of the posts here are just so out of touch with reality. I don't shame young men for having a tough time with relationships, but for alot of the posters here, it's pretty obvious that they themselves, not society are what's holding them back.

GridReXX · 2023-02-01T06:54:33+00:00

If charm and swag don’t matter why is it that all of my little male cousins are talking about “rizz”? 🧐

Seems like the socially tapped in 15-22 year boys are figuring out that his behavior is important to attracting the ladies in a way that he wants to be seen as attractive.

Rizz: One's ability to seduce a potential (usually female) love interest. synonyms ▲ Synonyms: game, charm. Derived from “chaRISma.”

At this point, the little kids from Abbott Elementary should be teaching the manosphere workshops 😂

relish5k · 2023-02-01T19:28:34+00:00

The idea that men need to be top tier to attract a woman is just silly in the evidence of my "lived experience" as they say. My kid is a toddler, so a lot of our socializing is around other young kids / their families. Most of my daily social interactions are with coupled parents, who are not particularly good looking but seem to get on just fine. These couples are almost exclusively looksmatched, though occasionally you will see an older/uglier guy with a (somewhat) younger, hotter wife. Granted, it's a somewhat affluent area, and these couples are all 30s+ so that probably skews things somewhat.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T07:01:08+00:00

u/Mrs_Drgree Can we do a weekly megathread on either the orgy cop or twitch deepfake porn controversy?

https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/10qisbw/this_picture_on_an_article_about_the_orgy_cop/

I get it, I get that what she did was bad, I just feel so bad for her.

None of the males she had sex with are being harassed the same way.

There’s people literally showing up to her ex workplace with posters of her asking for her signature.

A local strip club offered her 10k to do some pole dancing for two nights.

Paparazzi is apparently watching her now, too.

I think everything she did was wrong, but man, she’s gotta be living in her own personal hell

Discussion on whether she gets outsized attention/sympathy compared to how much of a role she played (only one that fucked everyone).

OR This: https://www.reddit.com/r/LivestreamFail/comments/10qi63g/poki_on_consent_and_the_old_but_you_woreposted/

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HazyMemory7 · 2023-02-01T10:59:43+00:00

Idk what some women think they are accomplishing by trying to paint all men as mass murderers, or rapists or domestic abusers, outside of radicalizing more young men who just start to feel like society hates them for just existing.

Men that commit violent mass acts make up an astronomically small % of men. The missing nuance is that these instances are the perfect storm of psychopathy (a severe form of antisocial personality disorder), a tumultuous life, law enforcement not taking signs seriously, access to weapons ect...

There will never be any progress in the gender dynamic conversation so long as women keep demonizing all men for the actions of some men, and refuse to acknowledge that men and women both need to step up when it comes to dating. Like damn...how can anyone seriously put themselves out there when they aren't even putting any effort into their physical and mental health? But there are so many women and men doing just that.

lulll · 2023-02-01T13:06:20+00:00

i am going to tell women what men want. men want an evil horny mommy. now you know what men want

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-01T13:40:57+00:00

Sometimes before I reply to someone i look at their profile to see if they're unhinged.

If they're unhinged imma give a lazy reply.

Willow-girl · 2023-02-01T14:14:05+00:00

Last night in my random reading, I discovered that the poet T.S. Eliot's first wife, Vivienne, was widely regarded as dangerously volatile to the point of being mentally unstable. Virginia Woolf, a friend of both, likened her to "a bag of ferrets hung around Tom's neck."

I relayed this bit to my man, who also enjoys trivia, but he chuckled overly long, arousing my suspicions. "Am I like a bag of ferrets hung around your neck?" I asked.

"Maybe one ferret," he demurred.

Ladies, what's your ferret index?

teball3 · 2023-02-01T14:41:32+00:00

CMV:The biggest contributor to misogyny and misandry nowadays is heteropessimism, the idea that hetero relationships are a bad thing. Mgtows and women "checking out", because they have misconceptions about how bad their counterparts are and think a relationship (or trying to get one) would be a negative thing for them.

Side note, the oft quoted "women are happier alone" is an urban myth. Article about why incoming.

Edit: https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2019/6/4/18650969/married-women-miserable-fake-paul-dolan-happiness

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-02-01T15:55:31+00:00

I think a lot of niceguy types see their sexuality as sexist, creepy and degrading so put on a persona of nonthreatening innocence. Then think women like assholes when guys who act more normal get with the women they like. But they over correct and dial it up to 11.

Joking with a female friend, the jokes got kind of sexual but it was mutual and chill and all laughs. This both helps our friendship but also is probably a reassuring sign I have a healthy relationship with sex. Niceguys need to be just a touch more assholish, treat women like men is the goal.

Willow-girl · 2023-02-01T17:28:16+00:00

Love is blue. Imgur

SlashCo80 · 2023-02-01T09:29:48+00:00

Girls: blame guys for "friendzoning themselves"

Also girls: Aww, you're so nice and sweet. Why can't I have a boyfriend like you? Not you, though. Ew.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T11:16:02+00:00

The causal misandry displayed by subs that regularly make it to frontpage while also being subs where dissenting against those views is disallowed is what makes ppd so valued. Women are doing the most to show they just don't like men and think men are shit.

https://www.reddit.com/r/WitchesVsPatriarchy/comments/10qaxg0/right_on_the_soul/

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10qgup7/straight_men_believe_that_they_are_competing_with/

lehibu38 · 2023-02-01T11:53:51+00:00

Thanks to the anonymity of Reddit it's embarrassing confession time ppl.

When I was younger I learned french just so I would have a better case, for when I would lie about my race to girls :(

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-01T08:07:33+00:00

In regards to the ongoing discussion on sex tourism, I think the vast majority of men who engage in this are just tryna fuck hot girls in the week they happen to be on vacation. Nothing more, nothing less. I think it’s a small minority that are tryna to find some wife that they can take back to the states and shit lol. If he goes to DR and fucks 4 girls that’s a win, that’s more women he had sex with the rest of the year(and most men in general). Same thing with the women who engage in it, they just tryna get their backs blown out that week

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T12:11:53+00:00

Reddit really is carrying a lot of water for the cop that fucked like 5 or 6 colleagues while married on the job.

https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/comments/10qmw8z/come_at_me_hive_mind

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-02-01T12:16:14+00:00

Seeing folks on the internet get surprised that they could be deepfaked is interesting.

I’ve said this before to my sisters and to my female friends. With sufficient enough photos of them. Anyone could toss that stuff in the deepfake Ai software and deepfake them into pornography.

Reddit when this tech came our years ago had a subreddit that got banned who did this with every celebrity and streamer and famous Instagram person years ago. When Ai software was shit.

Eventually it’ll get to a point where Mid journey like software will be able to create these type of things from a prompt. Or you could just import the Instagram account of random women and I’ll be able to do this from scratch.

What this will do to the social media. Women will either not have profiles up of themselves. Or be ok with everyone around them having ultra realistic porn of them

This will kill the OF market. Because those idiots who made porn trained these Ais.

What’s worse isn’t even that. Video proof of any crime will be impossible to tell if true. No more video evidence of anything can be trusted.

Jobs that will also die off with digital prostitutes. Actors of any type, singers, song writers, UX designer, photographers. Why pay anyone a lot when the Ai can act film and dance for free?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-01T13:47:07+00:00

That’s my QB 😢

https://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2023/02/01/tom-brady-announces-his-retirement-for-good/amp/

Now he a true rich Florida man and smash young baddies while sniffing coke of their asses

TooHornyToFap · 2023-02-01T16:10:48+00:00

Of all the delusional takes I've seen on reddit, the idea that a 30 year old is predatory for being friends with a 22 year old is one of them

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-01T18:02:25+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@datingwithaly/video/7195029241212210478?_t=8ZWJ6RO94sl&_r=1

Kinda refreshing to see after hearing Reddit women say that every other guy they date has skid marks on his underwear and mold growing in his car.

I will say though that only attractive women have attractive options. It's not just a matter of high standards and saying thank you, next. But that's to be expected, she is a dating coach - she wants these bitches to think that most guys are out there freezing bagels, just gotta look hard and pay for her coaching.

_chasing_daylight · 2023-02-01T06:02:08+00:00

First

adool666 · 2023-02-01T06:03:15+00:00

Women just want a guy who understands them.

2023-02-01T06:59:51+00:00

damnnn 💀💀💀

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-01T07:55:20+00:00

Young people are fat too lol, millennials are an obese generation. I only bring that up because often times when people point out obesity rates for Americans someone gotta say or imply that it’s mostly “old people who are fat bro” and once you look at people under 30 plus it’s “not bad”

scwizard · 2023-02-01T09:15:16+00:00

Ridiculous ethical dilemma time...

Denmark to grant asylum to all women and girls from Afghanistan

Would it be ok if Denmark were to buy women from the Taliban, then fly them to Denmark and set them free?

Women are absolutely for sale in Afghanistan, and the Taliban would be willing to sell them to Denmark for very reasonable prices. In fact they'd probably be happy to get rid of some of their more independently minded women.

For the Afghani women to get to Denmark on their own is virtually impossible. For Denmark to rescue them militarily is also not feasible.

But if Denmark just purchased them and set them free. They could just land a passenger jet at the airport, and the women could be Copenhagen that same day where they could do stuff like pursue an education, choose who they want to marry, and drive a car.

lehibu38 · 2023-02-01T10:27:12+00:00

2nd date with a girl got cancelled because she "forgot haha" when i reconfirmed, its over for me. I hate dating

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-01T11:29:33+00:00

Taking good picture of yourself is definitely a skill and not dependent on your gender. Women just get way more leeway because men are more horny.

I mean some pics of women i see are just soo atrocious that i'd be like, "Bitch, why ever would you post this? I know you aint ugly but this is just horrible"

dbz_f · 2023-02-01T13:16:50+00:00

I love my gf so much, I’ve never felt this strongly about anyone before

lulll · 2023-02-01T14:22:09+00:00

women have officially lost their minds

tinasnow-poty · 2023-02-01T17:37:05+00:00

My cousin used to dog out his ex gf and was surprised pikachu face when she finally left him. I’m now dodging his calls because I can’t listen to yet another plan on how to get her back

blackpilledanon1 · 2023-02-02T05:33:09+00:00

This title is crazy 💀

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-02-02T04:52:06+00:00

I feel like a trend i wanna see is men being able to wear makeup. Nothing crazy but like I feel like you using a little bit of foundation would be nice. Hide the eye bags. Use some of that stuff that makes your eye lashes darker.

I think this would probably boost men +1 points. Its so hard trying to be naturally good looking everyday. Its like damn. Everything gotta be perfect to be attractive. Natural beauty is fucking hard.

lady_ven0m · 2023-02-02T04:48:45+00:00

Any good shows on Netflix, Hulu, or HBO Max?

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-02T04:14:55+00:00

It feels mean even posting these accounts but it's still a good perspective to hear from unattractive women who are blackpilled.

@bittertobetter

@thisisanhle

They talk about red pill stuff like with online dating but most of the topics center around lookism/pretty privilege.

u/HazyMemory7

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-02-02T04:06:02+00:00

i'm supposed to be strong and red pill but i'm so blue pill for this girl I just want to ask her to be my gf. but I know have to hold out, play the game, and wait until she asks me to be her bf

its really tough. almost like a strange purgatory where I can't express my desires because then they will be taken away, and I have to wait until its offered without showing that I ever wanted it.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-02T04:03:46+00:00

I hope one day I end up on one of those "do we have the same boyfriend" pages.

Like if anything it just shows I'm capable of bagging multiple girls at once, the fuck would I be ashamed of?

lewdakuma · 2023-02-02T03:43:14+00:00

just watched the last of us episode. it was a beautiful story but i dont like how hard it diverged from canon. it took away from some of my favorite moments in the game and some of the relationship building between ellie and joel, which i care about infinitely more than bill and frank

watching it with my homophobic dad was NOT fun lol he still liked the episode but complained about the Gayness the whole time, which was really annoying

dysonRing · 2023-02-02T02:37:20+00:00

I am so tired of PPD women dismissing male contribution to society as so "rare" as to be irrelevant then I wonder if we should abolish the police. Crime is sooooo rare, we don't need it, a true jungle once more. I could survive, could you?

AssEater69x · 2023-02-02T02:23:46+00:00

Scrolling through "are we dating the same guy Miami page" on my gfs phone. A lot of these guys are quite mid. I can't believe these guys are getting multiple bitches.

Its actually inspirational.

the_butter_lord · 2023-02-02T02:21:10+00:00

sigma males don't eat pussy

HazyMemory7 · 2023-02-02T02:10:03+00:00

I honestly can't think of any woman with a channel or social media account centered around talking about dating dynamics from a feminist or bluepilled perspective that isn't hella unattractive. It seems to me that their anger towards men has more to do with the fact that society treats unattractive people worse, not men in general.

The woman from one of the vids my crazy former fwb sent me is just legit morbidly obese. Maybe she's a lovely individual, but you're just flat out not gonna attract decent quality men being 100+ lbs overweight.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-02T02:10:01+00:00

I saw a tiktok saying there are clubs in Korea that don't allow anyone in their 30s or older to enter into the club. Can we please start doing that in the US. I get second hand embarrassment seeing 30+ yr olds out clubbing.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-02-02T01:54:34+00:00

Women: Young women should be having fun dating around, gaining diverse life experiences and not taking any guy too seriously.

Women: Older men still aren't mature and only want to sleep around.

Also women: OlDeR mEn CaN'T dAtE yOuNgEr WoMeN. tHeY'Re NoT aT tHe SaMe LiFe StAgE.

Ecstatic_Celery7194 · 2023-02-02T01:18:13+00:00

you also need to look good to be her ‘friend’, to be allowed to hang around her or to be seen in public walking next to her. women only befriend good looking guys becsude having an ugly guy friend lowers her public image. have you ever seen a pretty girl with an ugly guy friend? no? my point exactly ;)

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-02-02T00:49:03+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/vWHhKIOEoOQ?feature=share

This is just vile 🤣

lulll · 2023-02-02T00:40:10+00:00

based

stop cutting off part our fucking penises

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-02T00:27:49+00:00

It’s always the “not all men” types that are the first to defend a rapist. Josh Sills (football) got indicted by a GRAND JUDY for rape and kidnapping. A lot of men are saying “why did you take so long to report” as if the victim can decide when the state prosecutes their cases.

Thotlesswhisper2 · 2023-02-02T00:20:30+00:00

Marriage is nice

EulenWatcher · 2023-02-02T00:02:42+00:00

Q4Mods, I want to translate a lengthy work criticizing one of articles from "incels wiki". Can I post it here or will it get filtered out for having the word "incel" in it? Should I censor the word? It criticizes both black and red pill considering they use a lot of the same studies.

FizzleMateriel · 2023-02-01T23:47:30+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10r03lt/i_can_now_understand_why_people_in_their_later/

This thread is incrediblely pessimistic given the sub.

purginggastonist · 2023-02-01T23:43:16+00:00

Men love to fight and women love to look sexy, and we do those things is because they feel good, deep in our lizard brain fighting feels good for men, and showing off there body feels good for men

The reasons we developed that feeling goodness is because violent men and sexy women are more attractive to the opposite gender.

So when you say you do something for yourself you are not wrong, but the underlying reason why you enjoy such a behavior is because it makes you more attractive

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T23:33:29+00:00

Vaush going on about femcels and some about incels. https://youtu.be/MgcOj3MIeYs

Ecstatic_Celery7194 · 2023-02-01T23:32:31+00:00

i want to address the worry and conflict asian men on reddit have about white passport bros. asian men should stop being so worried about white passport bros for two reasons. first, asian men can be passport bros too, asian men born in the west also do far better in asia then in the west. and secondly, white passport bros are also making a whole generation of more attractive hapa women who will date asian men. don’t asian men want to date more attractive women? its a well accepted fact that hapas are more attractive. most passport bros do not ever intend to leave asia because we don’t want our wives to absorb toxic western feminism, so guess where our daughters will be staying? in asia with us of course. so who will benefit? asian men. so you guys have really nothing to be afraid of, we are actually doing you a service :D

Thotlesswhisper2 · 2023-02-01T23:17:49+00:00

I am momentarily back, so it’s time for an update on the (now inaptly named) Botox Chronicles.

I had my last PRP appointment on Jan 10, and my appointment to get fillers yesterday. I decided against getting the Botox because, at the suggestion of another PPD user, I did some more research, and learned that “preventative” Botox actually ages you faster, as the paralyzed facial muscles atrophy and cause overall volume loss. (I’ll probably use the $400 I pre-paid for future PRP sessions instead.) I was debating with myself about the fillers since my initial consultation last month, and I did end up getting them.

My aesthetician got me seated in a room, and with the help of a very attractive friend who was observing her work, prepped the hyaluronic acid into the syringes. It made me a little nervous, because it seemed like the understudy knew a bit more than the aesthetician, the way she was supplying her with suggestions… they chatted with me as the numbing cream tingled away the feeling on my face, and I felt my eyes creeping down her low-cut, well-filled-out top more often then I care to admit. (What an uncouth bisexual I am.) Next came the lidocaine injections, which felt pinchy, but not terribly painful.

Then she started filling my tear trough lines. It didn’t hurt, but it felt… extremely disconcerting, like something alive was worming its way into my face and depositing its offspring. My whole body went stiff, and the aesthetician kept reminding me to breathe. She had some trouble piercing the skin once she got towards the end of the trough line (supposedly because I have “such good, strong skin”) and had to poke it multiple times, which has resulted in some unilateral swelling and a blueberry-hued bruise that made me worry strangers would think I’m being abused at home.

The other side went more smoothly though, as did the filling of my nasolabial folds— she did those super quickly, and though they were pinch-ier than the tear troughs, they didn’t hurt nearly bad enough to warrant the cat-shaped stress ball I was handed beforehand. Afterwards, she gave me a little mirror, and I wanted to smile at my new reflection (though I was too numb do so properly.) The troublesome, tired-looking lines were finally gone.

While I was waiting for Hubby to pick me up from the med spa, the owner told me I now look 12. (Not sure if she said this because she thought that’s what I wanted to hear and she is a clever businesswoman, or if she genuinely thought so, or both.) I got in my husband’s car, and he peered intently at my face before asking me what I got done, which I count as a success in terms of subtlety. I told him, and he just shook his head and told me I’m crazy. It’s kind of nice to think he doesn’t notice the same imperfections I do, though.

I was told to sleep on my back for the next two weeks(!), and that was proving difficult last night, since I’m very much a side sleeper. On the bright side, it’s a good habit to get into anyway. Today, I spent an excessive amount of time in front of the mirror, ogling my slightly sore face as if it were the understudy’s tits. I’m pretty pleased with the results.

Now I just gotta pay off my credit card.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-01T23:14:07+00:00

There was a thread last month on askmen asking “how did you ask out your prom date?”

I was like she was my GF, so it was sort of implied we were going together lol. It was interesting cause we started dating the November of senior year and I knew people whose date was basically locked in prior to that.

SlashCo80 · 2023-02-01T23:06:51+00:00

Anyone else follow some of these "dating advice for women" coaches out of curiosity? There's some real gems out there. They're literally like "Does he pay for everything, anticipate your every need and exist only to please you, while you do whatever you want? GUESS WHAT SISTER THAT'S THE BARE MINIMUM, IF HE DOESNT DO THAT, NEXT HIS ASS! THE BAR IS IN HELL" and everyone in the comments was like "Yass queen, preach!" Where do these people live?

KommandaKoopa · 2023-02-01T22:48:54+00:00

Anyone else just like drinking coffee/tea with nothing in it?

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-01T22:46:21+00:00

Some kids really know more than some adults

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-01T22:22:20+00:00

Since my IRL options a severely limited atm i thought i'd give dating apps a try. Mainly to forget about my unhealthy obsession with my coworker and maybe i'll be lucky and find someone decent idk. I used Tinder last year for about 1 month and a bit and got a decent amount of likes and matches, not always quality but mostly fine.

I just looked at the google playstore and searched for the relevant apps. Every single app is full of one star reviews. Seemingly every app is the worst and sucks completely. Bumble, Hinge, Badoo, Lovoo whatever. There was one that got good reviews but has a super small user base so probably is a waste of time anyways.

Doesn't really fill me with confidence. Really disheartening. Feels pointless to try

AssEater69x · 2023-02-01T22:16:25+00:00

Eventually you'll be able to create an entire "body" using AI, get a blank robot, stick a USB C in the robot's ass and download the body onto that robot.

You'll be able to fuck whatever you want.

Move over women.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-02-01T21:52:55+00:00

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UnapolegeticPumper · 2023-02-01T21:29:18+00:00

Q4A: Do you have ugly friends of the opposite sex?

RegTextoffender · 2023-02-01T21:27:50+00:00

Guys, quit being little whining bitches about paying for dates, as long as she seems honestly interested in you.

Let old man regtextoffender explain.

Most humans (not all yes there are going to be users out there) have a trait to give when they get a gift, its a basic cooperative survival, and in fact its easier to get them to give MORE than they get in return. This has been studied, and while its not universal and doesn't work as well if you are aware of it most people aren't.

So you buy dinner, she feels she "owes" you, and unlike the "she owes me sex" trope, its more she owes you another night out, maybe to go get ice cream, maybe to follow your next suggestion "lets go for a walk down the river walk" whatever.

It puts her psychologically in your debt.

Oh noez I saw a blog where a girl did this for free food! Yes sociopaths exist, bfd, this is the game, those are the penalties, don't cut yourself off at the knees just in case shes a user.

Check comes.

You take the check.

She makes any move to pay....

"No let me please, I had a great time talking to you, and I'd like to learn more, you can get the next one."

Obviously the text is going to change based on your ages, type of people whatever adjust for yourself.

(and don't go over every detail of the check, put the cash/card in without fuss)

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T21:18:31+00:00

Its so tiring when I make an assertion and someone else makes a different assertion challenging mine. Then I post an academic study and other articles to back up what I say. And someone will point out some perceived "flaw" or limitation in the data. Then I post more studies... all the while the assertion the other person made is backed up by fuck all.

liefelijk · 2023-02-01T21:17:09+00:00

A parent complained to my principal today that I was “bullying” her child because I told her that she had missed too many days of school and needed to try to attend more regularly.

She’s missed 30 days in the last 7 weeks of school. 😩

meteorness123 · 2023-02-01T20:51:34+00:00

Men : don't give as much attention to a woman's looks (if you are looking for a wife and children). We need to screen women for traits and behaviors :

Does she put her job over her family (major red flag). Does she overly care about material things and impressing people and friends( red flag). Does she think social media is bad (green flag). Loud and agressive (red flag). Having an obsession with going out and "having fun" (red flag). Etc.

I know its hard to disregard a womans looks but its necessary. Her character comes first.I've made the mistake of disregarding some regular looking women.

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-02-01T20:36:28+00:00

Since foreign wives seem to be the new hotness question, are importers guys who can afford it but expats just guys who are too broke to actually have a willing wife in the US?

purginggastonist · 2023-02-01T20:34:29+00:00

Q4all what is your most stereotypically opposite gender trait

mine is that I don't like paying for dates, listen to Lana Del Ray, and fantasize about getting married and having kids

edit; here is my favorite summertime sadness remix btw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xApX2256Zg

Lysa_Bell · 2023-02-01T20:31:05+00:00

I wonder why guys are so enticed for pushing deep fake porn? They don't even think about the possibility that their photos are used to blackmail them. Imagine you just google some rich/famous guy and make a deep fake porn with him and threaten him to send it to his family. Or even easier... Make a sexual harassment/assault scene that looks like a security camera/hidden camera footage.

They jerk of to deep fakes but don't even think about the threat that can come from it. It's not just for porn. You could easily fake someone being somewhere having an affair if you really tried to. But yeah! At least we get some fake porn of hot women!

TigerRude4 · 2023-02-01T20:17:32+00:00

One of the laziest feminist arguments is "Who invites you on a date, should pay on a date". Hell, just say you want men to pay, I'd respect you more.

purplish_possum · 2023-02-01T20:02:58+00:00

This morning I discovered what petite blonde Stacy looks like after four decades of partying and drugs.

purginggastonist · 2023-02-01T06:03:38+00:00

I don’t want to be tall to attract women, I want to be tall to mog others

Unfortunately I can’t due to money, anyways here is an actual orthopedic surgeon breaking down the issues with height surgery

https://youtu.be/Tbn_hVaNDKE

Bangmade · 2023-02-01T06:53:52+00:00

Which possessions have the most status

WomenSelectMen · 2023-02-01T07:54:49+00:00

I always get asked, how do you know if a woman likes you? By my friends, because apparently women desire me.

The short answer is that they hyper fixate on your mouth. Oral intimacy is the most intimate of intimacies. That's why so many men have beards now - no mouth play at all.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-02-01T10:49:04+00:00

Video game to television adaptions usually suck, but the last of us has been really damn good so far 3 episodes in.

Ecstatic_Celery7194 · 2023-02-01T14:04:36+00:00

any guy here having luck with seeking arrangement (sugar daddy site)? im not even going to ask about tinder because i know it sucks, but what about seeking arrangement? i dont seem to be getting matches either?

saraimarsena · 2023-02-01T14:28:55+00:00

recent post on r/AskFeminists … what do you guys think about the post/resulting comment section?

imo it seems like there’s a real lack of honest conversation about how alienating modern day feminism is. like it or not, the word and what it stands for has been tainted almost irreversibly by “radfems” and groups who demonize men and paint a picture of everything masculine as oppressive and toxic.

that being said, an honest acknowledgment should also be given to the fact that a movement like feminism, and the power and strength that it generated worldwide, came out of valid feelings and experiences of women. while not all men are dangerous, one cannot pretend that there isn’t a large amount of very bad men out there. it’s a disservice to young women and girls to avoid honestly discussing the the dangers that a woman might face, that many many women have personally experienced.

similarly, the same acknowledgement has to be given to the men’s movement and it’s origins. while there is a pervasive issue of hate within the manosphere, there is validity to the struggles and experiences that men speak on. young boys and men deserve acknowledgment for their hardships and fears that they face, and they deserve attention in certain spheres where their well-being is forgotten and pushed to the side.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2023-02-01T14:54:33+00:00

Rate these AI women

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2023-02-01T15:04:10+00:00

Americans, what’s it like walking through town/the city knowing anyone can end your life in 2 seconds if they choose to do so?

Yes, I’m talking about guns. I can’t fathom walking through the streets knowing my life can be over in an instant. The threat is constantly there.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-01T16:58:25+00:00

I can't take a hetero dudes complaints about casual sex all that seriously.

90% of the time the complaining is coming from the fact he gets zero pussy.

mwb111300 · 2023-02-01T17:12:46+00:00

There was a post about “telling men to treat women like people is bad advice, it’s abuse and gaslighting” and I thought I made a good comment but the post was deleted :(

Just curious what people think of my opinion on this if anyone cares to read. My comment -

“Abuse is out of the question, and gaslighting is too strong a word as well. I wouldn’t use either of those. But I agree it’s bad advice.

Personally I don’t really know what it means to treat people like people. I am awkward no matter who I am talking to, and that’s something I’ve been working on.

But is it not natural to feel a little flustered, have some butterflies, be exceptionally awkward when you’re talking to someone you’re attracted to? That seems like a natural reaction to me. Like here I am, intimidated by you’re beauty, fascinated with your ideas, impressed with your accomplishments. But I’m supposed to ignore all that and talk to you like I do a grocery store clerk??”

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T18:30:52+00:00

Women ☕️ https://www.reddit.com/r/shitposting/comments/10qq3os/wholesome_posting

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T18:52:26+00:00

The best video laying out the "how long before sleeping with someone you just started dating" discussion.

https://youtu.be/pZaSi3XTdoI

The biggest thing is it was asked would a woman be willing to do "pay for all the dates,do all the driving, you do all the planning, all the courting, all of the follow-up all that other stuff" and she didn't like it. But then she mentioned she would pay her half of the date. That's what I keep trying to get women to understand, paying for half the date is not splitting the load. I'd rather pay for the whole date myself and then have the woman handle the next date, the asking, deciding, arranging, paying for it, etc. than splitting the cost at the end of the night. But women want to be like "he gotta lead".

Scarce12 · 2023-02-03T04:25:38+00:00

https://mobile.twitter.com/DegenRolf/status/1618565662921850881

In 2002, the top 5% of guys had 38 sex partners, in 2012 it was 50 sex partners.

Meanwhile the distribution of sex partners among women remained unchanged.

The amount of sex partners among the top 5% was more than the bottom 50%

In a room full of 20 guys, one guy has had more sex partners than the sum for 10 other guys in the room.

Just really hard to get you'd head around it.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2023-02-01T19:59:46+00:00

Rate this AI babe

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GooseneckRoad · 2023-02-01T06:09:18+00:00

I just watched a good movie that kind of reminded me of you all. It was called Possessor, I would recommend it.

uno_21 · 2023-02-01T07:47:50+00:00

Is marriage really that bad? Redpill and mgtow content aside. It seems like most people online and offline are in miserable marriages where they just get by. It’s almost like it’s near impossible to maintain a healthy long term relationship in which both parties remain enthusiastic and attracted to each other to some degree.

I also think of the relationships I’ve had. The women have been somewhat fickle emotionally. It’s like women will lose interest eventually and then cheat/fall out of love/lose the spark and divorce eventually. There’s also the risk of dead bedroom. Add to that the temptation to cheat on the man’s side. It’s not like I’m against being with one life long partner but I’m starting to wonder if that just has a low probability of working out. Even if you vet a person can still change a lot during the course of many years. I’m even afraid of getting bored or losing attraction myself but at least I can control that but I can’t control the other person. Is it even worth the risk?

AssEater69x · 2023-02-01T13:06:40+00:00

Does anyone know what "earthside" means in the context of pregnancy/giving birth?

JoeRMD77 · 2023-02-01T15:40:54+00:00

A couple weeks ago I read a comment about how men shouldn't take eye contact from women seriously because it doesn't mean anything. Like, if a woman scoping you out, doesn't mean she finds you attractive, she's just looking at you because that's what people do right?

So, in the same breath if a woman makes an eye contact with you and then looks away quickly or tries to avoid looking at you again, then we can also assume that that doesn't mean anything right?

Obviously, women scoping you out and being repulsed by you is the same thing because it means nothing according to guys on here.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T16:08:15+00:00

Dad and son ‘murdered wife’s lover after finding him in a wardrobe’

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/father-son-murder-wife-lover-norwich-downham-market-123642589.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAABWe0IPuL0DJnK-Kmxuw-GyBGVnxO1ZIEU1uEUEWrU5PtX5XK-9dYa_IkUPvYkZCzS2ll7yWk74NrdiEWh7FtLrqVP9KzIZtLMvA2dkFqfbhKxk_jo0S3iNCZcPLissu9BgVIXZXqgSL2LEWBd70A8l5eLl8HyaVin6iUZWsoiOb

THHBHStT · 2023-02-01T16:59:08+00:00

People love to shit on Andrew Tate and I see why I don’t really like him either, but you still should not ignore the impact he has regardless of your opinion on him

You can go under any Andrew Tate video or tweet and you’ll find countless of comments saying that “ he saved their life” or something similar and I think this is largely ignored when it comes to criticism of him

Most people don’t even criticize him on what he says, they mostly say “well he’s a sex trafficker so you’re a bad person for listening”

Same goes for most manosphere things, instead of acknowledging the people who say it’s helped they say “wel you must’ve been autistic, misogynistic or a evil person if you needed that advice and used it” in an attempt to denigrate whoever their talking about rather than actually listening to what they’re saying. Nothing gets solved by not actually listening to the people your critiquing

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-01T17:20:33+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/UgNVb0Dgfaw

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-01T17:39:39+00:00

My time on this sub is soon up, and there are still some questions I haven’t found the answers for. Like why would you give a bj to someone you don’t want to have piv sex with? Why would you take the risks that come with it and do all that work for someone you don’t really care for? Makes absolutely no sense, unless you’re crazy about giving bjs, which doesn’t seem that common.

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-01T19:56:38+00:00

So far Married at first sight Australia has not disappointed. One couple is falling apart because she's pushing the whole "what do you do for work, how much money do you make" thing. Another couple is falling apart because he was dating a bunch of different women before going into the show and was telling them to wait for him. His bride has seemed to move past it (meaning she wants to stay on the show for more airtime) but next episode he's gonna tell her he's not sexually attracted to her. A different guy is gonna ruin his relationship because he hates astrology chicks and....... she's carrying a crystal in her bra deep into it. Lol His whole face dropped when she asked him when he was born

Radiant-Cry1176 · 2023-02-03T23:23:14+00:00

would you rather be born ugly but have a big dick, or born handsome but have a small dick?

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-02-04T04:54:30+00:00

A 50/50 division of labor would be each person spending the same amount of their available free time on chores - resulting in an equal amount of free time to each person.

/u/novadina

Please review how the dynamics of labor economics functions in the macro real world for a moment. If one person's time is valued at a statistically significant higher level of value, then their free time is technically even more valuable than the other person's.

Thank you

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-02-04T04:57:14+00:00

Being attracted to women has caused all the stress in my life.
Asexual dudes are probably the most calm dudes in existence

- /u/Royal-Tip4585

Nice finding.

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-02-04T04:58:15+00:00

I actually prefer women who aren't so overly done up and fake looking — much easier to distinguish and assess true beauty than the unfortunately mainstream popularized trap look.

UnapolegeticPumper · 2023-02-01T15:29:26+00:00

I don't get it why people take the redpill. Is it because these guys are naive and optimistic?

dysonRing · 2023-02-01T16:30:57+00:00

Some dude was complaining about sugar dating and assuming he is correct I came to the same conclusion. Salt Daddies have turned Seeking into Tinder lol. A sausage party.

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-02-01T16:39:12+00:00

Amazing how fast a beautiful woman loses her value the moment you empty your load on her.

You even want her to leave, her presence now annoying you, the woman you've dreamed of for long...

UnapolegeticPumper · 2023-02-01T18:55:06+00:00

CMV

Most conversations between man and woman are sexual in nature especially, if the woman initiates them, and there are no apparent ulterior motives.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-02-01T16:29:34+00:00

My long time FwB just informed me that after I left her place, she went on a date with some guy, she took him back home and had him lick her up...

and she said she hadn't washed after i left her apt. And this guy was eating her out like he won the lottery LOL.

He said he smelled some cologne on afterwards. LOL this guy...

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