I have no words

ShamblingTriangles · 2021-06-08T18:27:06+00:00

She should bleed on all his possessions; his PlayStation, his car seat, everything. Borrow his gym shorts and stain the crotch. Leave blood in the toilet and don't flush.

And then divorce him.

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-06-08T18:35:53+00:00

She wants to know how to explain it to him, but he’s leaving midway through the first sentence. He knows, he just doesn’t believe or care.

vbych76 · 2021-06-08T18:29:52+00:00

I would leave the blood to flow everywhere! On the sheets, on the floor, on the bathroom tiles. Fucking everywhere. After that will make a video, pack my suitcases and send it to all his female relatives with several sentences about what he did.But that's just me.She, on the other hand is not confrontational...

DallasOMalley · 2021-06-08T18:38:18+00:00

That man is an abusive piece of shit.

souredskittles · 2021-06-08T18:53:48+00:00

Sex pest. Who has scroach spray? 🪳

millennialpink2000 · 2021-06-08T19:39:09+00:00

holy shit this is abusive, possessive and scary. He sees her body for his use only and is punishing her for 'denying' him access to what he 'owns'

I hope the comments tell her to run immediately

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-06-08T18:29:17+00:00

This is abuse. Plain and simple.

If a man posted that his girlfriend hid his gaming controllers because he hasn’t gone down on her in months the comments would be telling him to break up with her.

Dense_Cattle · 2021-06-08T19:59:27+00:00

Yet another an age gap relationship where the older partner is a controlling, abusive male...

I'm really curious about the timeline of their relationship. Like when they started dating and how long they dated before they got married.

helppleasekk · 2021-06-08T20:10:01+00:00

I don't know where some women get this kind of patience. If my husband ever did anything remotely like this my first thought would be divorce. I don't put up with male immaturity.

Twohagsover30 · 2021-06-08T19:00:14+00:00

calls the local knacker to see how many buckets of fresh blood can be purchased after she finishes packing

Just some light redecorating seems to be in order

anotherdamnloser · 2021-06-08T18:48:05+00:00

What a piece of shit!!!

ButterfliesHurricane · 2021-06-08T19:35:58+00:00

Not the kind of individual that would take any notice of what she has to say. I wouldn’t waste my breath apart from maybe inform him that I will never have sex with that pig ever. Then pack his bags in bin bags and stack them neatly outside the front door from when he comes back from work.

throwitawayuserna213 · 2021-06-08T20:08:20+00:00

Imagine having a p*nis so small, being this insecure, that you're jealous of feminine hygiene products. Cardboard and cotton and silicone. I just cannot.

cliterally_speaking · 2021-06-08T18:51:46+00:00

“I still don’t know how to say to him how shocked and disappointed I am with what he did”

Easy, you leave him. 🤷🏽‍♀️

denimlace · 2021-06-08T19:09:00+00:00

His dick is the size of a tampon then?

Mcccy · 2021-06-08T19:16:35+00:00

Hope she's packing his bags and kicks him tf out as soon as he comes back

ihaveafunnyname71 · 2021-06-08T20:55:55+00:00

I knew I’d be seeing this one here too. It boggles the mind how so many horrible men think they own that bit of skin we have cuz we let them access it occasionally.

Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to successfully boycott sex with LVMs around the world?

NessaMonsta17 · 2021-06-08T21:38:15+00:00

The man is jealous of fucking tampons and a diva cup. And is being a total dick about it. It's as bad as throwing away you car keys. Cause he wants you to only come to him for a car ride.

This is straight mental abuse. Period. 🩸

MadamLeFay · 2021-06-08T18:35:18+00:00

The only problem with bleeding all over everything is that she'll be expected to clean it all up...

Meredeen · 2021-06-08T22:08:42+00:00

Wowee look at that age gap, I'm sure surprised ^/s

azureangel35 · 2021-06-08T20:36:07+00:00

there is no hope for womankind if she married this dude.

WHY DO WOMEN THINK THIS TREATMENT IS OK?!

and when the fuck are we going to collectively stop taking this shit?

Orange_Paisley · 2021-06-08T19:53:50+00:00

Dump. Him.

NurseBubbleGum · 2021-06-08T21:34:37+00:00

"I'm filing for divorce."

aquietsword · 2021-06-08T22:04:59+00:00

Menstrual cups changed my period for me and I will not go back. If some pigeon dick EVER did something like this he would fucking regret it.

randowordgenerator · 2021-06-08T22:30:46+00:00

He sounds like he hits her.

cutekittensmeow · 2021-06-08T23:27:04+00:00

Occasionally I start considering dating again. Then I get on Reddit and read this bullshit.

Why can't men just be better?

tomatfrogbubbles · 2021-06-08T18:58:18+00:00

Jfc.

NotEvenRemotelyLisa · 2021-06-08T19:51:53+00:00

She can say whatever she wants. It won’t change the fact that he doesn’t care about her, besides her being a vending machine for sex.

blackmetalbetty · 2021-06-08T20:15:19+00:00

This dumbass thinks inconsiderate, repetitive jackhammering on a healing body is akin to inserting a NECESSARY product and leaving it stationary. I- 𝗯𝗶𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝗳𝗶𝘀𝘁

Condom-Ad-Don-Draper · 2021-06-08T20:48:50+00:00

I know what she should say.

Get out.

sunflowerpaint · 2021-06-08T21:22:14+00:00

Holy shit she needs to leave, there is so many things wrong with this that honestly there is no hope of saving anything. It's abuse rolled into narcissism rolled into insecurity all in one basket of bullshit.

Low-Big-1911 · 2021-06-08T22:15:56+00:00

Welp use his best cotton shirts as make shift period diapers. Fuck it.

lostmillenia · 2021-06-08T22:51:43+00:00

THE MEN ARE GETTING DUMBER...?!

sloppylobster92 · 2021-06-08T22:59:40+00:00

Throw the whole man away, wtf

CasuallyFeral · 2021-06-08T20:54:20+00:00

My ex-husband tried this sort of whiny shit on me. I'm so glad that I stood up to him what little I did at the time, because this sort of thing would be... intolerable. No life partner worth shit does this. Fucking scrote. If he wants sex so bad, the best option here is probably to hold him to her cunt and drown him. This level of cruelty is unfixable.

thruwuwayy · 2021-06-08T23:10:56+00:00

Divorce papers say plenty. Being married to a man that stupid is almost criminal anyways tbh.

randowordgenerator · 2021-06-08T22:28:30+00:00

JESUS MARY AND JOSEPH

Get the FUCK out of there

expectothedoctor · 2021-06-08T21:01:09+00:00

I lolled when reading all these comments. Soon there will be a huge Reddit co-delivery of used Divacups and tampons to this sod.

"Hey I heard you like tampons, here, have some."

mothermarshmallow · 2021-06-08T22:42:42+00:00

Don’t bother with a confrontation, just throw the whole man away. Irredeemable behavior. Have fun REALLY not getting laid now, you immature prick 👋

Muffcakelord · 2021-06-08T21:59:05+00:00

Do we have any stories of these women bleeding on his things?

catlady4u · 2021-06-08T23:17:35+00:00

Put on a pad and use the time he's gone, to pack up and leave him. It's not going to get any better.

purasangria · 2021-06-09T00:02:30+00:00

This is abuse. I'd divorce this asshole.

brasscup · 2021-06-08T22:46:39+00:00

She deleted her post after getting tons of comments telling her to divorce him

hyperjinxx · 2021-06-09T00:24:23+00:00

This grown man needs to be aborted.

DiscombobulatedFix90 · 2021-06-08T19:23:36+00:00

If you aren't having sex by that logic he does t need his penis either.

PoptropicaRocks · 2021-06-08T21:32:39+00:00

This is disgusting. He doesn’t own you or your reproductive organs. Your body your choice.

I understand that sex is an I important part of a relationship. However, regardless of if you got surgery or not, he has NO SAY as to what you decide to do with your reproductive organs.

starfighter07 · 2021-06-08T22:02:36+00:00

Ex husband I hope

ChaoticNichole · 2021-06-08T20:18:16+00:00

r/nothowgirlswork

SaintSeven-s7 · 2021-06-08T22:03:15+00:00

Wtf is he your husband then? He obviously only cares about 1 person in your relationship... himself. That's ridiculous...

ChallengeAcademic · 2021-06-08T22:48:47+00:00

The fact that people like this even exist is nauseating

dr_mcstuffins · 2021-06-08T23:52:14+00:00

Post-FDS me would have called the movers and been out of the house before he even got home

cakewalkofshame · 2021-06-09T00:12:26+00:00

She should go full Carrie on his ass, paint the whole house with blood. Un fucking believable. I feel so sorry for this woman that she thinks there is something that can be said to this man to change the fact that he's an unrelenting psychopath.

PhilosopherOk6002 · 2021-06-08T19:01:02+00:00

Tell him he's a rapist.

SnooOwls4023 · 2021-06-08T20:59:42+00:00

Saw that earlier today. Made my blood boil.

blackwidowe · 2021-06-08T23:12:23+00:00

Fucked up.

But I thought you were only supposed to use pads after that type of procedure??

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-06-09T01:17:56+00:00

Throw anything of his in the trash that you don’t approve of. Ps5-garbage, watches-garbage, collectibles-garbage, do a porn scrubber on your shared computer if you have one, and laugh in his face when he gets upset. He earned it. And when he starts telling walk out in the middle bc you’re “busy”. Give him back that same energy 🥰

Bombs_ · 2021-06-09T06:38:55+00:00

A scrote warned reddit because I might be in danger like suicide ideation. Scrote, I'm great. Sorry if you know that your peepee is not much bigger than a tampon 💀💀

Watzoo · 2021-06-08T23:04:40+00:00

Time for a bonfire!!!

It’s not fair that he spend time with his PlayStation when he can’t spend time with you!!!

Cheap_Preference_326 · 2021-06-08T23:20:57+00:00

The only thing she should say to him is goodbye.

waddamelone · 2021-06-09T00:21:25+00:00

Why do people deal with this? WHY?! What would she say of her friend told her that she went through this nonsense this morning? The fuck?

LadyGrimes · 2021-06-09T00:30:02+00:00

This motherfucker is jealous of a diva cup and tampons?

Superb-Cancel9071 · 2021-06-09T03:00:24+00:00

This is 100% the kind of thing my ex would do. There is no hope besides leaving.

cutiebranch · 2021-06-09T00:41:31+00:00

Well, I would assume she’s on pelvic rest which means the husband is right - nothing is supposed to be going up there, including tampons and cups

BUT since that wasn’t his explanation for why, then yeah, she should bleed all over his stuff

9hazle · 2021-06-09T00:45:37+00:00

We need a scrote asylum

breadandbunny · 2021-06-09T00:50:01+00:00

I would literally divorce a man if he did this to me. WTF.

ApartPersonality · 2021-06-09T00:50:05+00:00

Time to free bleed all over his stuff ❤️

Meredeen · 2021-06-09T01:26:04+00:00

Everyone has already said everything that needs to be said about this fucked situation, but can I mention a Diva Cup is like 30 bucks new? I know this cause I use one, and fuck I'd be pissed if my partner had the freaking AUDACITY to do something so selfish and abusive. She should save some money in the long term and divorce this clown.

NotYourCirce · 2021-06-09T01:38:13+00:00

Take this time to prepare the divorce papers and leave

Mella_20 · 2021-06-09T02:20:19+00:00

That guy hates her. Who the fuck does this shit?

Wkndwhorechata · 2021-06-09T02:21:28+00:00

I know I'm not ready for a relationship because my first thought was to tattle and call his momma. 😛🤣🤣🤣

Crows-and-Ravens0 · 2021-06-09T03:01:05+00:00

Please tell me he's an ex-husband now.

It is so disgusting and vile for him to throw out her diva cup & tampons. On top of it all, his wife had a major surgery and he doesn't care about how she is feeling and her recovery. Like WTF.

capresesalad1985 · 2021-06-09T08:13:23+00:00

I have endo and the period after surgery is RAGING HELL. Your body is adjusting to the lack of scar tissue emitting hormones and it’s not just the vagina canal that’s in pain, it’s your entire abdomen. What a garbage fire man child.

HengroenAndLlamrei · 2021-06-09T01:53:40+00:00

This fool is jealous of a tampon.

YesPleaseMadam · 2021-06-09T04:55:14+00:00

why are these women marrying children?

mintmint33 · 2021-06-09T05:45:06+00:00

I would consider divorce him not because of him being abusive -which he is- but because of his ignorance. If a man is so fucking stupid there is no way he can benefit me in any aspect. Just imagine having kids with a scrote like that.

akashyaboa · 2021-06-09T07:38:54+00:00

The age gap ....

Also if at 30 he doesn't know the difference between sex and periods, no one can save him

glowmilk · 2021-06-09T10:10:37+00:00

That’s so fucked up, what disgusting piece of shit. I feel like crying sometimes when I read about the shit women are putting up with. Like, when we will ever be free? The man has done something truly despicable but yet, the woman takes the time to come on this website and ask for advice, meaning that deep down, she probably hopes the relationship is salvageable and that the issue can be resolved. There are so many posts like this too. Different man, different situation, but the same abusive, toxic negative value shit every single time. I really hope there were comments telling her to fuck his shit up and divorce his ass.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2021-06-09T05:33:17+00:00

I can’t believe this. Dude is jelly of a tampon🤣

bringtwizzlers · 2021-06-09T05:40:43+00:00

Oh fuck no. This might be one of the worst I've read

nyclaurco · 2021-06-09T05:41:02+00:00

dudes will do the most insane shit ever instead of just breaking up with you

Gourmay · 2021-06-09T06:53:04+00:00

Rarely do posts in here elicit a big reaction because I’ve seen and heard it all but I holyshitted out loud here in an airport. Imagine the years of abuse and conditioning this poor woman received to just be mildly upset about this.

Vmwvi · 2021-06-09T09:09:34+00:00

6 year age gap. All you need to know.

sveji- · 2021-06-09T10:13:41+00:00

He got rid of it? Time to get rid of him

immortallogic · 2021-06-09T03:02:33+00:00

Someone tell me what the comments are saying please lol

owlette26 · 2021-06-09T09:55:11+00:00

This is just insanity...like I can not believe the mentality behind this. I really This is a turning point for her and she moves on from him.

Round-Antelope552 · 2021-06-09T10:18:55+00:00

This guy is 10000% likely to either be abusive or become abusive.

Please listen.

RUN.

Edit: (written by a single mum who spent her pregnancy in a domestic violence shelter and has been ditched and gets treated like the charity case despite in the past having better jobs and far higher living standards than anyone I currently know and is now going to food banks)

namasdating · 2021-06-09T10:22:15+00:00

Seriously, WTF

LEAVE HIM

IAteTheDragon · 2021-06-09T12:16:37+00:00

They think those are...sex toys???!! 😮

PizzaNo7741 · 2021-06-09T04:08:57+00:00

mmph. people don't know how easy it is to strike a name from the family tree and let them be completely forgotten by their grandkids.

QueenCrownn · 2021-06-09T17:59:46+00:00

Umm, I know what to say…divorce. The more I live and see the more I know my decision to never get married is the best one. That stupid m’fuc*er!

geoffersonstarship · 2021-06-11T00:50:34+00:00

that’s as if he had to put ointment on his dick and you threw it away because if you were t making his dick wet nothing else can

IntelligentQuality6 · 2021-06-08T22:49:58+00:00

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Title	I have no words
Author	Bombs_
Upvotes	1385
Comments	158
Date	June 8, 2021 6:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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