Daily Community Chat Megathread

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-12-11T18:25:06+00:00

Very very proud of myself going to mma practice at noon on 5 hours of sleep running on fumes. I might puke but that's OK at least I'm gonna make it

Willow-girl · 2021-12-11T14:15:38+00:00

What's the most despicable sexual misconduct you've personally encountered? A girl in our family lost custody of her first child to the baby daddy due to a drug problem. She's since turned her life around, kicked the habit, got with a new guy and is successfully raising her second child with him.

Recently her first baby daddy tried to coerce her into sexting or sending nudes in exchange for being allowed to see their child over Christmas. She refused (good girl!) and screenshotted their conversation and posted it on FB so everyone can see what a scumbag he is.

His defense was that it was his birthday and thus he was apparently entitled to a nut! What a fuckstick. I only hope a judge someday will take a dim view of this strategy ...

PussyEatingManiac757 · 2021-12-11T14:06:17+00:00

Best way to keep a woman is to impregnate her. I plan to have multiple babies with multiple women. Only with hot, skinny, young women of course.

KJ1017 · 2021-12-11T12:12:01+00:00

If FDS was the entire female populations mindset we’d go extinct in 100 years.

I really wish there was a way to help them. It’s possible to understand the opposite genders nature and not absolutely hate them/view them as slaves meant to serve you.

WilliamWyattD · 2021-12-11T11:25:06+00:00

Adele has some great new music out. I honestly don't know enough to really make a judgment. Still, the PPD-sense in me is tingling.

She's doing all this hamstering about how hard her divorce was. But it seems to me that a lot of it is that she just couldn't admit that her husband was too old and fat for her. Adele knew she had the money, youth and basic looks to be a lot hotter. She lost 100 lbs. and goes to date Rich Paul. Hubby should have been ahead of her on the weight loss. He probably was too beta since she went right to fucking rich Paul.

In some ways, if I am right, she's kind of a victim of an old myth from an older time. The idea that 'good' women are not supposed to prioritize attraction. That they should be happy in relationships with 'nice' guys who don't get their juices running. Women are more susceptible to negative emotion and want to think of themselves as 'good'. So this old myth about the decency of female sexuality probably does a lot of damage in today's world.

dbz19 · 2021-12-11T11:06:21+00:00

Are the traits of a High Value Women defined by what men consider to be a HVW or by what women consider to be a High Value Women? I imagine what men consider to be a HVW is more relevant since they will be the ones dating and marrying them, but I feel listing the traits that a man would be considered a HVW would be considered sexist and mere statement of these traits would make the man be called insecure.

Like, for the traits of what makes a High Value Man, I accept that women are the ones who decide this, not men, and I try to achieve these traits. Since I don't want to date men, the traits of what I'd like in a male is completely irrelevant since I don't want to date a man, and the things I'd want in a male friend are completely different from what a woman would want in a male partner, for example I don't give a shit if a friend is tall or handsome, if he's a good provider, if he's good at sex, etc. I accept that women are the ones who set the definition.

But with a HVW, is it men who set the definition or women who set the definition? I'm curious as to what women consider a HVW and how this differs from what men consider to be one. For example, if a man says that he considers a HVW to be a virgin, I feel like this would be rejected by women on a number of grounds and he'd be called insecure, and his definition of a HVW would be completely different from theirs, even though men are the ones who date women (talking about purely heterosexual relationships, I'm not saying homosexual relationships don't exist).

KJ1017 · 2021-12-11T10:32:56+00:00

What would the ideal model for society be in a feminists’ eyes?

What would the pros be for men/women? What would the cons be? What would be peoples roles in society? What would each gender do to attract mates?

NarniaFox · 2021-12-11T06:55:17+00:00

The thread about HVW is rather entertaining. It feels a bit surreal to read claims that there aren't any women with "list of traits here", when you know lots of them. Sure, yeah, most of them are in relationships/married, but they were single at some point of time, weren't they?

CFinCanada · 2021-12-11T06:48:08+00:00

The more I think about it, the more I realize that I am actually a misanthrope. Deep down, I am disgusted by the shallow, greedy and fallen nature of mankind, and I'm not quite sure why our species is still around. I would like for that to be corrected, preferably nonviolently.

huhwhatokok · 2021-12-11T06:30:49+00:00

Idiots really get worthless degrees and tons of debt in undergrad just to graduate with no job, complain that no one told them at 18 that this would happen and THEN double down on the debt and the worthless degree by going to grad school. Am I supposed to feel sorry for these people lmao?? Either leave the country or try and pay off the debt till you die but don’t expect hard working tax payers to always shoulder your mistakes damn.

NarniaFox · 2021-12-11T06:15:28+00:00

Canada bans conversion therapy.

The Canadian bill makes "providing, promoting, or advertising conversion therapy" a criminal offense, the Senate of Canada said on Twitter. It will also be an offense to profit from the provision of conversion therapy.

In addition, the bill states a person cannot remove a "child from Canada with the intention that the child undergo conversion therapy outside Canada." The Criminal Code violations will go into effect 30 days after the bill received the Royal Assent on Wednesday.

Some good news for a change.

AtaCome7821 · 2021-12-11T05:55:37+00:00

Do women seriously not hear your voice in your head while you think?

GridReXX · 2021-12-11T04:47:04+00:00

Gh*slaine is making us female mods look bad 😪

My bestie knows I mod a manosphere sub and said she’ll stand by me when I end up in the pokie.

madsskayyy · 2021-12-11T04:36:28+00:00

Good morning from Madrid🇪🇸

Hope all of you have a good Saturday and for those still on Friday night — go get drunk😁

huhwhatokok · 2021-12-11T04:21:59+00:00

alhamdulillah 🤲 Free from an unjust 30 day ban from racist mods. I was outside touching grass and have so much to report.

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2021-12-11T04:10:28+00:00

In terms of achieving success, especially as a man, I think being a narcissist is the most valuable trait you can have.

Banned_BY_SOYMEN · 2021-12-11T03:53:51+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/chiaraking/reel/CW1YGuTq4cW

Dat Chad DICK GAME

Helpful_Help_9329 · 2021-12-11T03:28:13+00:00

Have you ever looked at the guy a girl is dating and think, "I could knock him out. Why is she with him?"

Slipthe · 2021-12-11T03:15:18+00:00

I gotta say, I am really into this girl who makes ice cream at Dairy Queen.

Youtube recommended it a month ago and I was like "This is dumb" and now I'm fuckin' subscribed and I just watch her makes cakes while she says stuff I don't care about.

PussyEatingManiac757 · 2021-12-11T03:11:51+00:00

I'd rather jerk off than having sexual relations with an old woman (28+)

afab_100 · 2021-12-11T02:32:12+00:00

My bf is the first guy out of the guys ive talked to who deflects my suggestive comments 🤔

maniacvirgin · 2021-12-11T02:30:59+00:00

If you've never dated someone by age 24 is it safe to say you'll never date someone attractive?

MLEMisafunnyword · 2021-12-11T02:18:44+00:00

Goin on a date with a woman seven years older than me in thirty minutes (she's 37). Wish me luck. Or misfortune. I got super drunk beforehand at a karaoke bar so feeling pretty fucking awesome. I wish all my comrades AND enemies here a fruitful Friday evening.

Orange_Paisley · 2021-12-11T02:16:11+00:00

How is everybody’s Friday night? My dearly beloved is crashed out on the couch and I’m deciding if I want to open a bottle of wine anyway.

Sad_Top1743 · 2021-12-11T01:56:13+00:00

Reading about the GMaxwell/Epstein stuff. Anyone else getting turned on by the whole thing? This Maxwell chick is sick but hot too and a complete nympho by the sounds of it

simeneta_two · 2021-12-11T01:18:57+00:00

I hate when I’m at the gym and the guy on the row machine next to me is moaning like the cable is giving him a handy 💀💀

lessfaterrday · 2021-12-11T00:58:21+00:00

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-12-11T00:47:03+00:00

Didn’t sleep well last night, so I have a feeling I’m going to be sleeping in tomorrow

Reasonable_Spinach53 · 2021-12-11T00:16:32+00:00

Would anyone mind looking at a picture of me over and pms and rating me/telling me how to improve my appearance?

poppy_blu · 2021-12-10T23:56:30+00:00

❤️ swelling watching jr tear up the court. One of only 2 freshman to make varsity. This was his dream. We told him work hard for your dreams and you can make them come true. And on top of it he’s smart and just an all around good kid. Not sure what I did to deserve such goodness from the universe. ❤️❤️❤️

Specialist-Action-33 · 2021-12-10T23:46:42+00:00

Continuation from my previous post a few days ago...

I thinks my wife secretly hates it when I go to the gym. First she thinks that I am looking at other women (we are at an army base overseas where there are very few if any). Now that covid has came out shes using that as an excuse. I tell her I have to go to keep myself in shape and don't want to end up fat. We haven't talked about if ahe is insecure about m going but I really think she is.

jax006 · 2021-12-10T23:02:00+00:00

Facebook dating app seems to be a big thing for single moms, not sure why. A couple of them I've matched with are pretty hot, I may have to indulge.

Infammo · 2021-12-10T22:35:18+00:00

It's so weird to read old emails and texts (7+ years) between me and my girlfriends. I used to be capable of such depth of affection and assumptions that affection could be reciprocated. It's like reading my five year old self saying "I'm going to be an astronaut." Just seems pathetically juvenile now.

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2021-12-10T14:54:52+00:00

Is it just me, or has The Red Pill just become a load of clickbaity outrage posts/videos designed to humiliate and pick on women? Channels like Fresh and Fit, Donovan Sharpe, Darius M, Taylor The Fiend etc. are all examples of this.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-12-10T14:25:38+00:00

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/jussie-smollett-trial-attack-guilty-verdit-lying-to-police-hoax-234756175.html

Also I don’t think Jussie Smollet should do a day in prison. He’s a nonviolent dude who poses zero threat to anyone and locking him up ain’t solving that problem and is even bigger waste of money. He’s just an idiot looking for social media clout

That being said I do think it’s kind of hilarious people on social media doing the whole “well what about all those Karen’s who lie to the police? They don’t go to jail”.

99% of “Karen’s” don’t ever put pen to paper nor do they lie in open court. That’s kind of a big difference lol. Calling 911 and saying my car is stolen and actually signing my name to a complain report swearing that this is true is 2 different things.

AtaCome7821 · 2021-12-10T14:10:57+00:00

Explain me this ladies, what part of not wanting to court someone who's already getting fucked by another dude is "insecure"?

Atlas-B-Shruggin · 2021-12-10T14:28:01+00:00

i hate reddit

Angel_in_Training_2 · 2021-12-10T19:17:00+00:00

Who wants some juicy critique of anti-incels groups' painfully stale, contradictory and ultimately dangerous attempts at countering their talking points?

I'll just leave it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/JustUnsubbed/comments/r8ssr4/ju_from_rinceltear_because_its_usual_responses_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

See you, have a nice day.

Even-Kiwi-9164 · 2021-12-10T22:15:02+00:00

What would happen if at a restaurant a guy refused to pay for the whole meal and woman refuses to split the check.

Would the restaurant force the guy to pay for both meals or would the restaurant force the check to be split? I feel like it would probs be the first cause, you know woman, but I hope it would be the second.

PronKing10 · 2021-12-10T14:08:48+00:00

How would you feel if your gf didn’t do this thing for you but did for 99 chads before you????

Slipthe · 2021-12-10T15:55:24+00:00

Man my new pair of glasses have really long arms on them. I wonder if it's common to get them shortened. It creates all this unnecessary pressure behind my ears.

Slipthe · 2021-12-10T18:47:55+00:00

There are a lot of perpetually single men these days. I think I know why, and most probably do too?

I know that there are always exceptions to the rule. But in my experience the average man need social skills to get a gf. Incels think that you need to be a tall, handsome and rich man due to their online dating experiments. But most men do get a gf, even the short, ugly and poor men. They meet their partners using social circles. Mutual friends. Or perhaps at the university or what have you.

But when I talk to people online they tell me I'm wrong. That online dating does work for average men. But it doesn't seem possible.

Am I wrong or is everyone else deluded?

wingsandeyes · 2021-12-10T16:10:29+00:00

Why do women use “IM A WOMAN!” as a defence when it suits them but clamour to be treated as equals when it suits them?

CimZim · 2021-12-10T14:17:00+00:00

Would anyone consider an arranged marriage? (not an offer, just a question)

DiabloTheDreamer · 2021-12-10T15:20:21+00:00

Why is this subreddit so active, like i see 900 comments on posts? You guys seem to have a lot of experience in the sexual market place. It seems you're all highvalue or atleast in your head (most likely the truth of the matter). But why is this popular?

RahLyt · 2021-12-10T16:41:45+00:00

Seriously where do this new trend of only rough sex came from? I don't want to fuck you rough 24/7. Two times a week it's fine, more than that I start to cringe. I don't want to talk dirty every day, I just wanna do it when I genuinely feel like that.

If you want me to be rougher you have to be irresistible to actually want me to do that, "accidentally" drop a random tit, or something...

Erotica or 50 shades of grey is ruining my sex life...

poppy03 · 2021-12-10T17:27:21+00:00

I honestly think the reason women go after the hottest guys for sex is because 99% she’s not going to orgasm anyways so he might as well be hot. But then they grow out of that because that’s gets disappointing too. I think if female orgasms were as closely guaranteed as male orgasms - women would have more casual sex and not just going after the hottest guy,

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-12-10T17:30:04+00:00

Hey u/snoo_16536 remember what you said a while about being thought of as a fetish because you're black?

And I said it was more subtle for me?

Yeah I was wrong. It's not subtle at all

Definitely not complaining though!

empresa_josefina · 2021-12-10T20:15:31+00:00

Share your giga-Chad stories here.

I had one giga-Chad friend (6'5", former college athlete) who would hit the clubs and take down beautiful women while his pregnant baby-mama (also attractive) was at home.

Had another giga-Chad friend who would play "price is right" with Tinder. We would be drinking beers and each guy would guess how many matches is a row he had that day (this is back when Tinder matches floated to the top of a stack). The winning number was usually around 20 or 30.

John_Oakman · 2021-12-10T14:04:55+00:00

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-12-10T14:11:18+00:00

My GF wants me to take her to see West Side Story tonight. I don’t really like musicals and the original bored me the first time I watched it like 12 years ago. But I want to get blown tonight so I’m gonna bear with this. Same thing when she dragged me to see “in the heights”(that wasn’t that bad though)

chilikettlechips · 2021-12-10T14:24:55+00:00

Q4A

If a guy refuses to date a girl because once upon a time she once dated a race that wasn't her own. How's that not 100% racist?

not0my0real0account7 · 2021-12-10T15:04:59+00:00

Hi! 🐸 I have a relationship question about an imaginary scenario.

Let's imagine you are happily married and deeply in love with your husband/wife. Yet unfortunately at some point they get extremely ill. You feel depressed and desperate knowing you'll lose them so you cry all the time even while walking on the street.

One stormy night, an old woman notices you crying and asks what's wrong. After learning about your misfortune she gives you a magic piece of glass and claims that by looking through it you can see the spirits and ghosts. You don't believe any of this but keep the glass.

The illness progresses. One day, the terrible event happens while you are holding your beloved spouse's hand. You yell in pain and then remember the piece of glass. You look through the glass and see a light globe flying from your husband/wife's body and leaving the room. You hardly manage to follow it outside, as it goes on the street. You run, avoiding and jumping over obstacles, keeping an eye on it. You finally see it going inside a pet shop and entering a small budgerigar egg. You come back daily to watch the displayed nest.

One day your husband/wife emerges from the egg as a new budgerigar baby. You have decided that you shall not allow anyone to buy and cage your budgerigar husband/wife, because you are worried of how they'll be treated... and... besides.. you still love them...

How will you proceed?

You'll buy all the budgerigar babies as you wonder if they are not all former people. You sell the house and go to a remote exotic place where there are less or no predators. You grow them and allow them to fly free in the surroundings. You always leave food and water for them. And they always come back to you. You befriend all of them and take all the precautions for them to be safe, well fed and happy. You develop a stronger connection with your budgerigar-spouse.
You buy your budgerigar husband/wife from the pet shop and take them home. You are too afraid to allow them to fly outside, yet you make your entire home budgerigar safe and decorate it with plants, sticks, little swings and budgerigar toys. You take care of him/her with all your love.
You take your budgerigar husband/wife home and while taking good care of them you decide you want to communicate and see if they remember anything about their past life... If they still love you... You buy books about budgerigars, you imitate their sounds and calls, and your budgerigar spouse sometimes answers. You keep on developing your new communication skills.
You wish to continue your family life together with the new budgerigar form of your wife/husband. The problem is they now also have a budgerigar mind. You'd like to go out with them, travel, and visit new places, not just spend the entire time at home. You try to teach them to stay on your shoulder at all times yet you are still afraid they might fly so you cut their longer wing feathers. You now go outside all the time with your budgerigar-spouse nervously clutching your shoulder with their claws, as they are unable to fly and may fall.
other?

Thank you! 🐸

Edit: some words were missing

NarniaFox · 2021-12-10T15:07:03+00:00

Oh, I've started to understand at last some pieces of this song. It's cool to see the progress of learning a language, but the text makes me think about this place.

How many women do enjoy knowing that men want to fuck them but can't? I know a few who really get off it, but I've never got into myself. Any unwanted interest just makes me highly uncomfortable and not "empowered" or anything.

John_Oakman · 2021-12-10T15:41:10+00:00

Since random scenarios seemed to be the rage these days here might as well ask one...

In the near future (i.e. the 2040s) Which is more likely to get the child bullied: their mother being the ex village bicycle (or sex worker or onlyfans star) or their step dad still a virgin?

angels-fan · 2021-12-10T15:51:48+00:00

Snowy roads suck

evanstown21 · 2021-12-10T16:01:37+00:00

Do most men like getting gifts? How much is too much or too little? Seems to me that the old generation tends toward the whole ‘gifts are for women and children; I can buy what I need for myself’ but I wonder if that’s changed. Maybe that older generation prefers thoughtful acts of service over material goods?

Slipthe · 2021-12-10T18:40:16+00:00

What credit card has the best cash back options?

I have the Discover IT card and it alternatives 5% cashback every quarter between different venders. This quarter it's Amazon, next quarter it's groceries, the next is gas, etc.

cautionTomorrow555 · 2021-12-10T18:47:32+00:00

At a mall that's been around over 50 years in a prime location. I give it 5 years tops. Malls are the town squares of the suburbs, it's sad to see them go. I'm still ordering online.

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WilliamWyattD · 2021-12-10T15:01:54+00:00

Anyone still watching Wheel of Time? I am and have learned to enjoy it.

Lots of the politically-motivated decisions made wouldn't bug me on my own. These things happen. Some are worth it and for the good.

But the sheer meticulousness with which the showrunner has combed the source material for not only anything that is retrograde, but that could even be possibly interpreted as so, is really disconcerting. The updating is so comprehensive I feel propagandized even on things I might agree with.

throwawayycurious · 2021-12-10T16:39:09+00:00

I was thinking about simps and pick mes today. Do you guys think that i am right about my conclusions about why average people don't like them. feel free to add new perspective.

So for me girl only be pick me if the dude she date have higher smv than her. So she makes extra effort for the relationship to not lose him. Same for simps but opposite gender. Average people don't like them because they increase the competitions and expectations so they make fun of them.

Also because of similar reasons men tent to choose younger or inexperienced girls for commitment because men think that he has a higher change that he is the best bf she ever had and lower change of getting cheat on or getting dump.

chilikettlechips · 2021-12-10T17:40:26+00:00

Acts of service gotta be the biggest con of "love languages"

Q4A, what love language do you hate the most?

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-12-10T16:29:28+00:00

If you're a man with any common sense and you knock up a feminist, that is an idiotic thing to do, especially if heaven forbid she has a son, that little boy is pretty much DOA, all you can do is wish that mother fucker good luck when the mother can't truly love him and will resent him because it could have gender from birth, the damage there got to be off the charts

syxtaly · 2021-12-10T22:07:23+00:00

Another confession:

I don’t condone violence but I genuinely think violence would be sometimes easier and better answer, shutting someone up is the least amount of effort instead of convincing them on whatever subject.

There's truth behind argumentative soyjak, i remember in my youth i believed in power of sentences like any other weaker men. Now i know humans are just a little bit sophisticated animals; brute force is better (+women respond better to violence)

rurunoa · 2021-12-10T22:04:31+00:00

why are men called visual creatures when women tend to be the ones going for only men that are really good looking and overall have a higher standard of what „attractive“ looks like.

syxtaly · 2021-12-10T21:37:50+00:00

I am going to make a honest confession:

If i am arguing with you i don't do it seriously because for too long i don't take opinions of others serious enough.

Probably when i reply to you there's whole lot of different things going through my mind (or sometimes i just enjoy mischief).

throwawayycurious · 2021-12-10T20:58:18+00:00

I hate my 18 year old self . Because the choose i made in that time is biggest reasons that now i am an alcholic and smoke addict and virgin at the age of 27. Girls used to like me when i was in highschool god dammit!

buffin-big-bowls · 2021-12-10T20:53:58+00:00

It’s so disheartening hearing that my old high school friends who are now in college are still perpetually single virgins. From what I heard, they keep getting oneitis, which for guys is like shooting yourself in the foot with a twenty gauge.

I’m doing slightly better but not where I really wanted, I mean I wanted a serious relationship but ended up with a FWB instead. And with the amount of effort I put into pursuing and trying to date women, the amount of times I got ghosted and rejected, that shit traumatized me.

I seriously hate being a man sometimes, or at least I hate being a loser man.

Slipthe · 2021-12-10T20:22:44+00:00

Is there any scenario where a normal dude would date this 22 year old girl that is physically 8 years old?

She says herself she attracts creeps and assholes. I just can't imagine a dude being ethically okay with sex with her body and not associating it with pedophilia.

Slipthe · 2021-12-10T19:19:24+00:00

I love young women, everything about them screams “fuck me”.

Special-Armadillo-99 · 2021-12-10T18:31:41+00:00

Men: I'll go fight and die on foreign soil, work my fingers to the bone in 80 hour work weeks and do whatever it takes for my family and friends to survive

Women: If I can't have chad everyone in the world can die and I won't care.

Literally just had this convo with a woman.

This is why people in the middle east see women as less than men. I don't support that because I think hope against hope most women are better than that, but convos like the one I just had makes my hope dwindle

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