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[–]Notanothrshitthrow18 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Gonna put my Redpill hat on for a second:

I am sick to death of women responding with "we're not your therapist!" when men complain that their female partners get turned off by them expressing their emotional/mental concerns.

Do women genuinely not know what they're like in relationships? Every, and I mean every single relationship I've had, I was expected to listen and provide help for their emotional/mental concerns regularly (and I very much suspect this is not just applicable to me). I've had so many conversations about their well-being that I've completely lost count. You know what though? I'm 100% fine with it, it's just something that comes with a relationship and I value being seen as someone that can support them.

But as soon as guys start noticing that often the offer is not mutual, all of a sudden it's not women's responsibility to listen to their concerns. I understand that there will be guys who are genuinely hurting and require help beyond just the comfort of a loving partner yet won't seek it, but it would be incredibly naïve to assume that's true for all men who have noticed that women don't appreciate them airing their own grievances.

Edit - it's also hypocritical in another sense. Women constantly go on about how men need to express their emotions more and avoid complete stoicism. I agree with that, but the gall to then say "I'm not your therapist" when a man does express their emotional/mental well-being to their partner is honestly baffling.

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You think that just because women aren't punching holes in walls that they aren't destroying shit??

Even my incredibly unstable sister doesn't destroy shit in her tantrums. Healthier men than her have done much worse. It does happens with women rarely, but no not any moreso than men becoming weak at work and crying.

Women abuse children at a significantly higher rate than men.

Wait... are you talking about the single mom versus simgle dad stat? Were you the one who posted that to me earlier? I did here someone say something about that, but life got busy and I never had the chance to respond. There's a selection bias there. Men who have any history of abuse or violence will not become single fathers as a judge will not order custody. Women, however, become single mothers and their histories are probed less. Most violent women can't be violent towards men, so they have no history of family violence when entering court. I wasn't talking about abuse, though. I'm talking about the fact that men who play throw shouting tantrums over having to change a diaper or having to listen to hear a child scream where women will hardly ever do that.

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One of the biggest things regarding male attractiveness is height. There just isn't good surgery for that. You get 3 inches, which isn't enough. It is very painful and takes you out of commission for a while and is expensive (not covered), so you have to be independently wealthy or willing to sacrifice career advancement. There are also downsides too. It makes your legs weaker, running is impaired. I would imagine leg weight exercises would be incredibly diminished as well. You also come out disproportional if your arms were proportional initially.

I would think most people here have gotten braces if they had crooked teeth. Besides hair transplant, what other surgery is really meaningful for men?

The biggest things that make me unattractive are my height and race. How would you propose I change that?

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Why don’t men who are unhappy with their appearance try it?

I thought about getting hair weave done. I saw some friends fixing their myopia. I also had read a bit about korea and the increase in people doing plastic surgeries.

So personally I think it is a shortcut - I would rather hit the gym and get a better body. Try to compensate for say my bald head with the Rock look.

The issue with shortcuts like surgery is that you don't fix the issue of self esteem. Most girls still have body image issues after surgery.

I think the analogy is using PUA tactics to get girls without building "inner game". You focus too much on the ends and sacrifice the means.

I genuinely don't think it will help me feel better. In fact I will become more self conscious.

Also while I think the whole idea of "fat phobia" is a joke. I support the idea of body positivity. It is important we embrace the body we were born with. Using filters, getting surgery, contributes to an arms race where people are racing to feel ok. That will not end well.

So it is a costly way to compromise on my principles with no real benefit. No thanks.

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Yep, here's the data to support it. But look what happens when you look at the bottom 25% of men vs... 90% of women. Let's start with marriage as the standard.

https://dqydj.com/height-percentile-calculator-for-men-and-women/

90% of women, 5'6-5'7

25 % of men 5'6

https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/how-common-is-it-for-a-man-to-be-shorter-than-his-partner/

Look at this, every inch matters.

92.5% of couples the man was taller by an average of 5.6” / 14.1cm. Standard deviation of 5.6” / 14.224

3.4% of couples were the same height.

4.1% of couples the woman was taller. Standard deviation of 3.7” / 9.3cm

If choice were out of their hands, 10.2 percent of heterosexual couples would have a man either the same height or shorter than the woman — the reality is 26 percent lower than that.

https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/blog/dating-statistics/how-tall-are-you-really/

Women definitely like taller men, but dislike men shorter than themselves even more: notice the sharp change at the point where she is the same height as her Bagel. If he is shorter than she is, she is much less attracted to him: being an extra inch shorter decreases the odds of her liking him by 40%. If he is taller than she is, the taller the better, but the effect is nowhere near as dramatic: each extra inch only increases her odds of liking him by 10%. Now let’s look at this for women of all heights.

http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf

Study Says Men Who Are 5’6” Need To Earn Additional $175k To Be As Desirable As 6-Feet-Tall Guys

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I don’t understand any of this. Did you find her attractive and are you single? Did you find her unattractive?

Sorry, honey, but your peers have made it abundantly clear that it's "creepy" to hit on women at the gym/anywhere. Be upset at 2022 feminism, not me, for giving you the cold shoulder.

If true, sounds like she was subtly and tactfully hitting on you, not accusing you of hitting on her, you weren’t interested and she moved on. No harm, no foul.

Since then she ignores me

Sounds great. The appropriate response. I wish all cold approaches were this innocuous, whether from a man or a woman, this sort of interaction seems far from a #metoo scenario.

If you are too terrified of feminism to hit on women, and put off on women hitting on you, I hope you are happy gay or forever alone.

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See that is the cool thing, it does not matter how hard working, motivated you are. It does not matter because what matters is survival. If your beliefs or values don't help your own genes propogate then the genes are fundamentally flawed.

Sure maybe we will have lower intelligence, less hard working people "genes" being passed down. But these folk will struggle with say a lack of doctors or inventors and this pressure will help them grow and become better.

But if a species loses its motivation to have kids, raise them.. that is a death knell. That is a fatal disease. Those genes are pruned out automatically. It is very interesting....

Especially because materialism as a philisophy is taking root in our popular culture, since red pill is basically biological determinism I would expect people to care more about which genes get passed down.

It is not just height, intelligence or personality traits like grit. Your political leanings itself often are predicted by genes.

Which value system you are favorable towards, how important family and kids are to you, how invested you are in the well being of your offspring as compared to your personal comfort and happiness.

These things matter way more than any individual's "productivity". We are in late stage capitalism. Most humans are replaceable cogs. You can always hire someone else to replace this person. It is a matter of training and experience.

The only people I would mourn not having kids are the creative types - artists, authors, mathematicians, inventors, etc.

But even that is a matter of time. Creativity will also be automated eventually.

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If your cat walks up to you and farts on your arm, your arm isn't gonna smell like cat fart for longer than a few seconds. Smells are volatilized (vaporized) molecules, they diffuse into the air. When something stinks it's because the source that creates the smell is there. Like, a turd releasing volatiles. A flower releasing perfume. You remove the turd or the flower, and give the volatiles a few seconds or minutes to diffuse, and the smell is gone. The only scenario where you would continuously smell the volatiles is a very strong smell that enters into an absorbant surface.. like smokers who smoke inside for decades or a house fire, the porous paint of the walls of the house need to be deep cleaned to get the volatiles out. Definitely not the case with a vagina. The body itself is self cleaning, not porous or absorbant, and farts are tiny amount of volatiles compared to a long term smoker. Again, more akin to your cat farting on your arm

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I live in a small town in Appalachia, although I acknowledge that Mississippians probably have it even worse. The median household income in my county is $63K.

Here is the first page of Indeed's job postings for my area, with the stated salaries:

Part-time evening cleaner, $12-13 an hour Light production work, $13 an hour (this company seems to always be hiring) Lawn care technician, $680-800 a week (includes mandatory Saturday overtime) Donut decorator, $9.50 an hour Warehouse associate, $17-18 an hour (requires heavy lifting)

A job offering $30 an hour that doesn't require a college degree or certification would receive hundreds of applications here.

The US has a huge labor shortage and if you choose not to take advantage of that that's a personal problem.

I'm certainly applying for everything feasible and networking like crazy. I'm also currently working a patchwork of 4 part-time jobs. Most of the people I work with are doing the same; for instance, the gal I worked with last night works days in a school cafeteria, nights as a janitor and cleans two churches and two houses on the side. Nearly everyone I know is either hustling this way, or is drawing a disability check. (Welcome to Appalachia!)

If you ever venture outside your privileged bubble, you'll find that more than 1 in 4 Americans makes less than $15 a hour. And ghod help you if your industry is ever disrupted by technology, outsourcing, etc., and you're forced to start over and find a new way to make a living, because I have a hunch that you wouldn't fare well.

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You being a significantly below average wage earner does not mean that I'm in a privileged bubble. I went to college in the south for 5 years and worked while I studied. But guess what? I was in engineering so I was making $30 an hour at ages 20-22 working for an electronics overmolding plant. Donut decorating.. yeah there's a lot of $$ in donut decorating lmao. Come on.

I will repeat, age has a significantly impact on average wage for that age.

You don't seem to get that. Being young and low earning is kind of expected. 1 in 4 Americans make under $15, if your stat is true, but how many of them are under 25 years old? Most of them. Why? Because they're young and haven't gotten said college degrees or alternate certifications.

Do you have an internet connection? Yes? Then you can make more than you currently make working remotely doing any number of jobs from tutoring, to coding, to working for a large corporation remotely.

(Welcome to Appalachia!)

You are aware you can move cities for jobs or in pursuit of jobs? I've done this 4 times in my life and made progress each time.

And ghod help you if your industry is ever disrupted by technology, outsourcing, etc., and you're forced to start over and find a new way to make a living, because I have a hunch that you wouldn't fare well.

Lol. My industry is immutable. And being a high earner does not mean you're not a hard working person as I work and attend school fulltime just like I did since I was 19 (seems like you have a superiority complex about work ethic to try to justify your low wages... good luck with that)

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Being young and low earning is kind of expected. 1 in 4 Americans make under $15, if your stat is true, but how many of them are under 25 years old? Most of them. Why? Because they're young and haven't gotten said college degrees or alternate certifications.

Your assumption ("most") is incorrect. The government doesn't track statistics on who is making more or less than $15, as far as I could tell, but a 2015 study by a pro-labor group found that 46% of workers making less than $15 an hour were age 35 and older. And the U.S. government does compile statistics regarding minimum-wage workers, and here we find that 48% of those making minimum wage are over age 25. So at best we can say that a slim majority -- but not "most" -- low-wage workers are young.

Do you have an internet connection? Yes? Then you can make more than you currently make working remotely doing any number of jobs from tutoring, to coding, to working for a large corporation remotely.

If you have the education and/or skills to land that kind of job, sure. Otherwise, simply having an Internet connection will get you a "job" on something like MTurk, or filling out surveys for a few cents an hour. (I've known a few desperate people who resorted to these tactics.)

You are aware you can move cities for jobs or in pursuit of jobs? I've done this 4 times in my life and made progress each time.

Living in an urban area doesn't automatically guarantee higher wages. There are people in cities who wash dishes and clean hotel rooms.. The biggest difference is that in cities, they're more likely to be renters, and to be only a couple of paychecks away from homelessness, and possibly living in a crime-ridden area. Out here, we have the security of owning the land under our feet, and living in a place where you don't even need to lock your doors at night.

Lol. My industry is immutable.

I sure hope so, for your sake, but bear in mind that a lot of white-collar workers are finding out that their jobs can be automated or outsourced just like blue-collar ones have been for generations. Better not get too comfortable!

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that 48% of those making minimum wage are over age 25. So at best we can say that a slim majority -- but not "most" -- low-wage workers are young.

Another way to say that-- "out of the 164.6 million working aged Americans, a population of seven years (18 to 25 being seven years) comprises half or more of the minimum wage workers"

Seven years... vs 28 years of Prime Working Aged Americans. You can do that math easily - young workers are exactly four times more likely to make min wage than older workers.

Living in an urban area doesn't automatically guarantee higher wages.

Plenty of urban areas have open lowskill jobs with higher than $20 starting. A Starbucks in my area in CA near my work had $21 starting salary. I have no sympathy for people refusing to move for work and then complaining about low salary. You take what you get if you live in the rural south like I used to.

I sure hope so, for your sake, but bear in mind that a lot of white-collar workers are finding out that their jobs can be automated or outsourced just like blue-collar ones have been for generations

It would doxx me to say my exact title but let's just say it's a job that's both impossible to automate without Artificial General Intelligence and in VERY high demand due to knock on effects from the covid pandemic...

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low n count, be thin then

be young, even if he’s 40, don’t expect him to want some post wall. also don’t be unattractive, don’t have kids, be willing to have sex whenever he wants, but don’t put out too early, but don’t put some obsolete number on how many dates - and if in your last relationship you started dating after hooking up on the first date, that should be the expectation for every man. don’t expect men to pay for dates, or court. be independent enough, not TOO independent but we don’t know where that line is yet. also be submissive, but he probably needs you to approach him. be willing to depend on a man, but she shouldn’t bet her life on it and if he marries her and she’s a sahm but it doesn’t workout bcuz they married young, don’t expect him to financially support her while she figures her shit out, she decided to give up her career and raise his kids and let him be the traditional man he wanted to be, she should have had a back up plan. also don’t expect any guidance from him whatsoever on a career if she does decide to stay together, he shouldn’t have to care about her career. don’t make more money than him, even if she does, always listen to him because he needs to be the man of the house. be feminine all the time, always look good. be kind at all times, even if he’s not kind, she should always be the bigger person. always cook and clean. shut up when he’s not talking to her. blowjobs on command. have nice boobs. sandwiches on command. get back in shape fast after having that baby. have interests, but not too many, and only girly interests - we don’t want her befriending men.

i think this is the perfect woman for most incels? 🙂 all the unspokens. they won’t settle for less than this. and they will keep searching and blaming women and looking over average girls because they are hypergamous.

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Watching some shows where they show mothers with newborns and infants. I know this doesn't impact everyone, but one can see how the idea of having sex with their partner might go away for a while. Maybe a long while. Infants demand a lot of touch, making the woman feel worn out. Also, just general exhaustion. Finally, it is hard for a woman to switch from mother to lover mode easily, particularly when she is in such hard core mother mode.

I think we had a discussion about this a while back. But it seems to me that men should be very patient here, and even if they had to go one to two years without any physical sex or intimacy, so be it. Cost of doing business. I suppose there could be some point where it might be a problem warranting more extreme measures, but I think guys can and should go without for much longer than is often thought 'endurable'.

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27, M, black pill. My parents were not long term compatible at all and really should never have dated in the first place, much less married and had a child together. As it is, their "marriage" was a complete trainwreck that disintegrated before I even started preschool, and some of my first memories are of them yelling at each other. The fallout from their divorce continues to this day. So with that in mind...

My mother hates that I'm a lot like my father. She at least tries to conceal it, but there's just no concealing the contempt in her voice and face every time she realizes that I have something else in common with him. For my part, I hate how both she and my father fed me the blue pill lies when I was growing up, and to this day they continue trying to lure me back into the proverbial Matrix. I also hate how she didn't even try to stop me from getting circumcised when I was a baby--even though she is a proud feminist who believes in "my body, my choice". She also hates that I've chosen mostly right wing political positions while she herself is a hardcore left winger.

Things have improved a little in the last few years since I got my own place and found a steady job, but I'm fairly certain she's going to disown me in the future. It's not what I would want to happen, but it is a very real possibility and I need to mentally prepare myself for it.

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I definitely have a poorer view on niceness and passiveness in general. But that applies to both men and women. Being a doormat doesn't make you a good person. There's nothing positive about agreeing with people when you secretly disagree.

But I will note I have had a fair number of female friends growing up, so I have a broader view than just my mum.

I do prefer actually independent women. I think that's why I can do much about women paying on the first date. When women make a lot of noise about being independent and then don't have the ego or pride to not let men pay for them. That's not to say I don't mind being generous. But I want a partner I respect.

What do I think of the red pill?

That's a complicated question. The red pill and the manosphere in general has its positives. I like that it teaches men boundaries and some good amount of self respect.

I've not read it but I think "no more mister nice guy" seems like a reasonable book.

I very much dislike it's prescriptions for women. There is too much of a "women should be led, not lead" mantra which I don't think is constructive. Women are encouraged to be more submissive and weak which is not helpful at all. I would never point a woman who's having issues to 'red pill women'.

Do I think there are differences between men and women? Yes. Do I think effects like hypergamy exist? Probably to some degree.

I think for me, TRP constantly overstates things. Humans appear to be naturally MILDLY polygynous. That tends to manifest more as serial monogamy than anything else. Red Pillers often get too stuck in ideas like harems, lions and gorillas.

Also the manosphere can be a bit too self masturbatory. The title of the book "the rational male" makes me laugh. It almost sounds like a parody of men's bizarre view of themselves where they are "the rational sex" (this is not true at all. Both men and women can be perfectly rational and irrational. In fact men will often form strong opinions based on gut feelings and then present them as 'objective fact'. It's frustrating)

So do I lean red or blue? I don't really know TBH. My main criticisms of blue society is how it doesn't present enough positives for men. There is a constant stream of negativity about men. I do see it in some of my friendship groups.

It does also underrate the importance of physical appearance for men in modern dating. Most normie dating advice puts going to the gym/getting exercise way too low. I like that TRP has a culture around fitness.

Sorry, long response.

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There's nothing positive about agreeing with people when you secretly disagree.

nothing positive is a bit extreme. It can help avoid unnecessary conflict. I mean does it really help in most cases to make your diffrences known. Does everyone deserve to know?

I personally am honest to my closest friends because they deserve it. Most people can't handle the truth so I give them what they want to hear. win win, they are happy and the relationship is not strained.

Imagine living in a religious country as an atheist. My non belief is a personal stance, why should I try to irritate people who would otherwise feel positively towards me.

In fact men will often form strong opinions based on gut feelings and then present them as 'objective fact'

Yeah all humans seem to do this. A fav quote of mine

“Science is a way of trying not to fool yourself. The principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool.” ― Richard Feynman

There is a constant stream of negativity about men. I do see it in some of my friendship groups.

yeah it is sad. But I don't think we will have to undergo multiple decades of this. Soon there will be enough people paying attention to the unfairness and there will be a correction. I am kinda optimistic in that regard.

Sorry, long response.

No I really enjoyed reading it. I tend to go long form too.

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innocuous things like my age and my name.

The hilarity that you realize these things aren't innocuous at all.

The western woman crumbling under day to day stress because so-and-so said something to her 3 days ago deserves disdain.

Is this what you think a western woman crying looks like. Lmao. I mean sure it can go overboard, and if it's forced on you to deal with someone else's meaningless drama I get that you are allowed to be upset. Other than that, let the people have their feelings. It sounds like you have no concept of what's going on in their brains anyway, because that's not what we cry about. I cry mostly in private, and usually it's related to major grief in my life or hard decisions that I make with a stuff upper lip when it comes down to it. That woman crying in the walk-in freezer? She's not crying because 1 customer was mean to her. She's crying maybe 5 minutes every 3 months because her body is decaying day in and day out, while at work (foot pain), her kids are struggling without her at this very moment, and she still isn't getting paid enough to meet some pretty important life needs. Then she goes out and she gets all that shot done. There is nothing to disdain.

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Putin crying in the washroom because he's having a hard time with geopolitics?

Wow OK first of all, Putin is your symbol fir masculinity here? Haha. Anyway no, Putin's situation is for different than anyone's in their early 20's working some wage slave job. If Putin somehow lost all power and ended up flipping burgers, oh yeah. Tears galore.

crying about things akin to toddlers.

OK I can't take it anymore, I have to ask. What exactly is it that you do? Are you these girls' boss? Or do you flip burgers with them? I'm trying to get how you could work with them, and then also be so oblivious to what they go through on a daily basis as to not understand how they get stressed. Anyone I've ever worked with in the restaurant industry, man or woman, has better empathy than that. Also, remember that you don't know about their personal lives. I assume they have something going on for themselves outside of the local Whataburger. It's also possible that the women you're dealing with are the bottom if the barrel, just like the men in their positions. Maybe the women act like toddlers, but I'm sure there are ways the men act like toddlers as well.

which are feminist not feminine,

Really? So, women wanting relatively equal leadership power among the entire group of genders is unfeminine now? I get it that women aren't the same as men, I do. I don't want to be a pseudo man at any time, but yes the fuck I do want as many RBG's and AOC's as I can get in the world.

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They are definitely not claiming they are oppressed by the patriarchy and breaking down in tears when they dont get their way.

No, you're right. There are plenty of women who don't break down in tears. Those women aren't flipping burgers, or whatever it is you do. There's a fundamental difference there. I never used to understand it myself until I worked in the industry and lived to be over 25. I think it's important for you to be open to the change in perspective, though.

RBG and AOC are very anti-patriarchy, by the way. AOC has called out very real problems with the level of respect women are given in today's world. Not even specific women- just women. Like, a whole patriarchy just lumping us together the same way you do here:

there are many things that women are respected for, unfortunately western women don't possess many of those qualities.

What do you mean respect? Do you mean like minding your own business instead of calling other random people pathetic when they show an ounce of weakness? Do you mean respect like not putting someone in a box and determining what qualities they should have for optimal treatment? Everybody deserves those kinds of respect, by the way. Some men can be incredibly weak when it comes to talking about feelings or saying they're sorry when they know they've done wrong. I don't bitch about that and call them pathetic or weak. I mind my business unless it's personal. You don't have to look up to specific women if you don't want to, but to look down on the wrong people very well might make you look like a dick. You don't get your burger on the go without some smiling (to your face, anyway) cashier or waitress, so maybe grant dignity at the very least even if you can't look up to someone.

As for western Women: I'm not going to even ask what you expect of us. I'm sorry you've had a bad experience, but your lack of tears really doesn't give you the right to tell us what qualities we have. Feel free to not like your coworkers. Some of them more than likely deserve it. Regardless, I'm really past the post if caring about a damn thing that any man on this sub says about what a woman should be. You're on here like I am, so you know what I've seen. The vast majority of us women are more capable of figuring it out ourselves, and even if we mess up, the consequences fall on us. Let women do what we want to do. Maybe get some dialog use going and fund out what actually makes one cry. Find out really why women in out society might be less willing and able to raise children than generations past. It's not a character issue, and even the lowest of adults don't face the issues that toddlers face. Frankly, that assumption is self-evident in its absurdity.

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AOC is a dummy.

Do you mean like minding your own business instead of calling other random people pathetic when they show an ounce of weakness?

I'm allowed to judge others. Just like you're allowed.

Those women aren't flipping burgers, or whatever it is you do.

Subtle attack on my status, nice. So you judge others for their career right?

As for western Women: I'm not going to even ask what you expect of us

Dont be fat feminist sluts with a victim complex.

Let women do what we want to do.

And then when you fuck up it's mens fault. Or societies fault. How about take responsibility and accountability? Western women seem incapable of not playing the victim

Find out really why women in out society might be less willing and able to raise children than generations past.

Because you want to have an endless slut phase, a travel slut phase, a career phase, then go through 1000 point check list like a robot for finding a suitable partner. Under the guise of all of this you are a victim of the patriarchy and men are bad and all your short comings can be passed off to that. 0 self awareness, 0 femininity, 0 reason to marry you

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Subtle attack on my status, nice. So you judge others for their career right?

I asked what you did and you dodged the question. Restaurant Jobs are well known to be the most overstimulated and stressful job out there aside from the military. I know personally because I did it myself for a while, too. No shade to anyone. Recall what I said about needing cashiers and waitors/waitresses? Yeah, that. I judge people for sure, but not for stupid shit like that. Nor weight, nor who they choose to mutually and enthusiastically and safely sleep with. I wanted to clarify my position on that.

Under the guise of all of this you are a victim of the patriarchy and men are bad and all your short comings can be passed off to that. 0 self awareness, 0 femininity, 0 reason to marry you

I have tried to politely suggest that you to get out of your bubble to interact with women and find out what's really going on outside of your manosphere narrative, but you refuse. I can tell you all day about how I was slutshamed as a literal virgin, handicapped in my male-dominated industry but still succeeding, and mostly just about how I am sexually harassed by men when I am trying to be a proper feminine lady. You wouldn't hear any of it, though, and it's truly sad. I have the proven self-awareness awareness to succeed. So did AOC, and you insult her anyway? Is that supposed to make me think that women are given due respect? Oh, and I AM married. I don't think all men are bad at all, but when I encounter some mistreatment towards women you bet I'll say something. Wouldn't I be pathetic if I didn't?

The best part? Literally no one asked you to marry anyone. Learn to mind your business. The goal isn't to be a slut and then find a beta bucks. I'm already married with the sex life I choose, and I'm not changing that any time soon. Marrying you or sleeping with you doesn't grant us respect. Matter of fact, you call women who do that whores and you acknowledge that their value decreases! That isn't the kind of respect we ask for! Do you even listen to women or read what we say at all? Do you need reading comprehension help? We want the respect of you minding your own business unless you have some positive to contribute. We have been doing this for men, and we are within reason to ask for reciprocation.

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I can’t believe I’m saying this in 2022 but apparently it needs to be said in light of the west elm Caleb situation and D.C. safe dating registry situation. But here it is Ghosting is not abuse if you are not in a committed relationship with an individual and you are just talking. It’s not good behavior and it is pretty shitty and shows signs of poor communication and willingness to be upfront with a person but it’s not abuse and saying it is really takes away from a lot of legitimate abuse people face in romantic relationships. If you legitimately think ghosting is abuse when you are not in a committed relationship with a person then you don’t need to be dating im not saying ghosting is cool or fine it’s not people should be upfront I am saying that painting it under an abuse lense makes no sense. Also if you can’t handle ghosting or the potential of being ghosted then don’t date or try too it’s not a new phenomenon it’s just increased because we have social media and online dating. People really think people didn’t ghost before smart phones , social media , and online dating which makes no sense back in the day people would wait for a call back at the phone and it never came that was old school ghosting. The only behavior you have any control of is yourself in any situation and dating , sex , love , and relationships is no different the other persons behavior is out of your control but what you as an individual can do is make choices that are the best for you and exit any and every situation with your dignity in tact. If someone ghosts you for no legitimate reason leave that situation alone delete the number and never allow that person to crawl back that’s the best that you can do as an individual. In an ideal world no one would ghost and everyone would be upfront but we don’t live in that world so deal with practicality in the world we are currently in with the fact that people ghost and in some situations you might even need to ghost a person. I’m saying this as 21 year old woman who has experienced ghosting and has also ghosted in some situations where it called for it. I hate to be this Person and I’m not trying to sound like a boomer but I don’t think a lot of younger people were taught too or just don’t have the fortitude to really understand that everyone no matter who they are takes dating L’s at least one or twice and dealing with that is a part of life if someone tells you they haven’t then they are lying for sure. A lot of women and men need to learn that a lot of times you just have to charge some things to the game and move on. So what that person ghosted you they clearly were not fit for you let yourself feel hurt and whatever emotion you want but get up dust yourself off and move on. Like I said charge it to the game and go.

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I'm a dude and I only go by what people have said on r/amiugly and here, it was mainly 5ish as one dude said "not ugly but not too special either" and one lady said "5 and 6 if you're muscular"(that was an ego boost ngl).

Mind you I don't agree with them at all, I'm very insecure about my looks, I can't gain weight no matter how much I eat even though I'm very physically strong(I once beat up a 5'10 tall guy) and my face is very asymmetrical, so I think it's a bit unfair for some people to say we guys overestimate our looks, in fact I'd say that underestimating of my looks is the reason I got so insecure that I'd reject two beautiful girls in the past because I believed they were so far out of my league, even though both of them were very interested in me, one even called me out of the blue two years later.

I may unsure and a little bit insecure but I'm very much sure I'm no hunk, hell I'd show you a pic if there weren't so many creeps on Reddit lol.

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Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know About

Pay no attention to that user name, I'm sure it's a coincidence. DISTURBING NEW DATING TREND BY MEN.. with no examples in the OP. So Backtracking gets to be whatever a woman can imagine or want it to be. So click the article in the op and here's an example.

For example, a broke man might accuse women of being “materialistic gold diggers,” and in an effort to prove she is not materialistic, she offers to pay for him, lowers her expectations, and stops asking as much from him.

Instead of just saying this is just being an poor broke asshole, and telling her to move on from someone that uses such crass language. Invent a new bad term for it. Scare your base into donating more money and subscribing. And keep the grift going.

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I have almost the same story.

Woman at my favorite bar, exactly my type. We were having a great time, talking a lot. For some reason I mentioned that I love looking through photo albums. (I actually do). She says that she has a lot of photo albums and that she puts a lot of effort into arranging the pictures.

Hours later I drive her home and suddenly she says: "You can just let me out here, I'll walk the rest."

"What? No. It's completely dark. I won't let you walk home alone."

"Oh, okay... Oh! That means you could come in and I'll show you the photo albums I told you about."

"Awesome!"

And that's exactly what happened. For hours. :D

In hindsight she started to look visibly confused. I am not a shy guy, so she probably wondered what other reasons I could have for not making a move. I really just wanted to look through the albums. They were great!

It was the embodiment of the "do you want to see my stamp collection"-pickup line.

We came together eventually, but man, it was really embarrassing.

Especially stuff like:

"Oh that's me in a bikini. I wish I was as skinny as I was back then." "What are you talking about? You look exactly like in the picture. You're smoking hot." Turns page, "Oh, and that's Hamburg, right? Would love to visit Hamburg one day."

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Sure it does. Before it was more normal to turn rejection into self-hate, and lately more and more into women and self hate. Both kinda push for self-improvement, and both have negative sideffects.

Guys usually grow confidence with accomplishments, unless you're part of the few who got into the focus early. But those who were the target of female lust as teenagers also don't like or respect women.

Most guys don't know the feeling of being chased by a woman. And a lot of girls swim in the sea of attention and sweet lies to get into their pants. It is easy for the average girl to get at least a few places where they can get sexual validation.

We stop being generally cute and likeable to all (family usually gives love, but also think you're a major pain in the ass) when we hit puberty, so our formative years are on average without affection and filled with rejection or passivity in a game we don't understand and are too awkward to ask.

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Sweet lies means more telling you what you want to hear.

Well it is easier to blame others then confront own insecurities and neediness (you are hungry, but you don't think it'll work), especially if you feel hurt by them. When you try hard and get a cold shoulder, but see some cocky asshole behaving in all ways that girl said men should definitely not behave, and she fawning over him thinking it is the best shit ever.

Forget about her, find another fixation, and then it happens again, a few failures here and there, until you feel your whole youth is a festival of inadequacy and cringe.

You either start hating, or you get better, and then 20's usually bring good stuff.

This was expected route for many insecure guys. Although you young ones have access to porn before going to puberty so probably we see more openness and hating.

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I pretty much agree with you, but...

We're all fucked up, and fighting over nuances of who's having it worse. And we're in these societal shifting times where we lose the traditions based on lies and half-truths which gave us stability. And it is getting unpredictably more chaotic, as our monkey brains can't really deal with large numbers (of people, choices, you name it), and we are definitely not equiped for technological progress making all social conventions obsolete in matter of years, not decades as our parents and grandparents had, or the much slower pace of earlier generations.

Also we created a society where, due to very high level of human rights now, there are no failsafes against psychopaths (as in no empathy) or other predators. It used to be kick the different out of the group, stranger bad mentality which was horribly unfair, but also pretty effective in stopping them. And they are prospering.

And just to end on a depressive note with lies - our blind belief in what we are told is what separates us from animals. That allows us to create more abstract concepts like language and skill learning and allows for the culture and technology we have. It also means we will forever be a naive sponge while growing up.

That is why the betrayal by people who's words and lessons you believe in the young age does so much damage. That is why people can easily adopt fringe beliefs.

A few study links - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2596905/ https://www.eva.mpg.de/documents/Springer/Tennie_Two_Primates_2010_1552769.pdf

Edit: for TLDR here's a video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwwclyVYTkk

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No exceptions, don’t care. To be clear, I mean serious contact. Not like “we are technically friends on Facebook.”

There was sexual chemistry there for a reason, and that doesn’t magically go away. Avoiding cheating in a relationship isn’t about having this iron willpower to resist all temptation (not that people even have that considering most people are overweight). It’s about not putting yourself in positions conducive to cheating.

Keeping in touch with someone you have serious sexual and emotional history with is a setting yourself up for disaster the second you hit a rocky patch in your relationship. I keep myself out of compromising situations like that, I expect the woman I’m dating to do the same. I’d feel exactly the same about the woman I’m dating keeping in regular contact with a guy she is crushing on, for example, even if it’s “totally innocent.”

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[–]ChromaticVengeanceLess Typical Young Millenial 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Kaisha001 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

[–]CatoftheBanals 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]AtaCome7821"Miraculous! Simply the best!" 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]funlightmandarin 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CatoftheBanals 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwaway213091345🟪 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]dysonRing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwinoutex-Red Pill, now Purple Man 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwaway213091345🟪 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Ppdebateismental 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Libah05 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (48 children) | Copy Link

[–]IcarusKiki22F 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]ChromaticVengeanceLess Typical Young Millenial 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Libah05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]ChromaticVengeanceLess Typical Young Millenial 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AtaCome7821"Miraculous! Simply the best!" 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Libah05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]LalaTheSecondPumpkin Spice Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Libah05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]LetsDelveIntoIt1Purple Pill Woman 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (29 children) | Copy Link

[–]SpacedNuggetsDelicate dance between Muppets, Nillies and Nuggets 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AtaCome7821"Miraculous! Simply the best!" 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Nervous-Ad9872 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]LetsDelveIntoIt1Purple Pill Woman -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]geometersbane 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]LetsDelveIntoIt1Purple Pill Woman 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Nervous-Ad9872 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]ChromaticVengeanceLess Typical Young Millenial 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]geometersbane 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwaway213091345🟪 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

[–]Bandit174🦝 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

[–]purplish_possum 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Nervous-Ad9872 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Nervous-Ad9872 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwaway213091345🟪 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

[–]ChromaticVengeanceLess Typical Young Millenial 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwaway213091345🟪 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]Bandit174🦝 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]ChromaticVengeanceLess Typical Young Millenial 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwaway213091345🟪 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]ChromaticVengeanceLess Typical Young Millenial 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Bandit1741 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Bandit174🦝 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]throwaway213091345🟪 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Bandit174🦝 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Bandit174🦝 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]And_Rue 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AclopolipseNo Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Libah05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]AclopolipseNo Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]lulll 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

[–]figuringMylifeBoring Breadwinner Black Brat w/ a Booty 🥳 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CatoftheBanals 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]LalaTheSecondPumpkin Spice Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

[–]lulll 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]lulll 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]LalaTheSecondPumpkin Spice Pill 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]lulll 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]LalaTheSecondPumpkin Spice Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]lulll 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]Bandit174🦝 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]lulll 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Bandit174🦝 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]LalaTheSecondPumpkin Spice Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

[–]AtaCome7821"Miraculous! Simply the best!" 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]chalkandapples 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]chalkandapples 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]rurunoaNo Pill 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]RegTextoffenderGreen eyed devil -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]rurunoaNo Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]ahandtoyourdarknessx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]E-2-buteneProfessional Nice Guy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AclopolipseNo Pill 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]AclopolipseNo Pill -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]geyges🐇 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]AclopolipseNo Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]jax006MGTowing my boat to the lake 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Kaleidoscopiquant 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]A1Goblin 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (25 children) | Copy Link

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[–]houstongradengineer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]houstongradengineer 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CrazyBaby8891🤦‍♂️NAMALT/NAWALT🤦‍♀️ 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]ahandtoyourdarknessx 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]A1Goblin 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]shreddedgrinch 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]A1Goblin 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]shreddedgrinch 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Dulce__CriaturaMy Stacy's Stacy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]A1Goblin 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]LalaTheSecondPumpkin Spice Pill 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]And_Rue 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]E-2-buteneProfessional Nice Guy 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Nervous-Ad9872 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (67 children) | Copy Link

[–]Novadina 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]IcarusKiki22F 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]jordan_form 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]AclopolipseNo Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Kaleidoscopiquant 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]Kaleidoscopiquant 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]dysonRing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Kaleidoscopiquant 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Kaleidoscopiquant 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Devourer_of_felines 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]Kaleidoscopiquant 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Kaleidoscopiquant 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago* (49 children) | Copy Link

[–]angels-fan7 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada6 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]angels-fan3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–][deleted]3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–][deleted]2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]rurunoa2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]rurunoa1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]angels-fan3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]angels-fan2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]jax0062 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]angels-fan5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Devourer_of_felines -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]rurunoaNo Pill 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Devourer_of_felines -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]rurunoaNo Pill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Devourer_of_felines -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]lulll 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link

[–]Radijob8 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada4 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]E-2-butene5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]And_Rue5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]E-2-butene3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada0 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]E-2-butene3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Radijob4 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Radijob2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Radijob2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Radijob2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Devourer_of_felines 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]ilove2bowcat 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]CFinCanada 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]madsskayyy0 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]ashpr0ulx3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]houstongradengineer2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]jax0062 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]madsskayyy0 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]jax0062 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Devourer_of_felines1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]Mrs_Drgree0 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	8
Comments	1468
Date	January 24, 2022 9:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sbhtwo/daily_community_chat_megathread/
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