Daily Community Chat Megathread

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-06T14:32:22+00:00

Every day I thank the lord I don't have to go on rants about how much I hate the gender I'm supposedly attracted to

(women) are boring as fuck. I think 3 out of 100 ideas or sentences I hear out of women are not something I have already read somewhere before. Seriously, if I'd find guys as cute, they would hands down be the only people I'd hang out with.

🌈

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-01-06T16:47:19+00:00

Til that even though I'm not, apparently me, my mom, the obese woman next door, and your grandma all get to fuck the top 5% of hottest men! Damn it's so nice to fuck chads all the time. Wow. I'm so glad I learned that all women are fucking the top 5% of men. Thanks ppd! I'll never settle again!

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-01-06T05:25:17+00:00

Can people stop suggesting "meetups" to meet women? Have these people actually attempted to go to one or are they talking out of their asses?

99% of the meetup postings are trash and either some form of scam attempting to sell you something or a feminist/LGBTQ gathering. There's essentially zero meetups consisting of normal people doing normal things.

JosieSandie · 2023-01-07T05:56:08+00:00

Incels, would you pray to St. Chad for help with socializing with women?

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-07T05:29:50+00:00

a previous comment made me look through jordan peterson meme subs and I found this I can't stop laughing

UneastAji · 2023-01-06T08:05:34+00:00

Many people here seem to despise it when men are like "we were lied to".

This line of thinking has been introduced by feminism. Feminism constantly resorts to blaming a sexist upbringing and education to justify how limited they are socially or to justify their shortcomings.

It makes sense men turn around and use these same rhetoric's to broaden women's understanding, or to at least make them drop the idea that their shortcomings comes from an educational oppression.

blebbyroo · 2023-01-06T09:08:48+00:00

Baby in bed, partner at work, time to eat homemade bbq pulled beef sliders, drink a 6 pack and watch Tokyo vice

I called in sick today and got to have a lazy day with my prtner and cook and catch up On cleaning. Now it’s time for me to properly relax 🍻

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-06T15:18:29+00:00

Went out on a date. Spent a good two hours getting ready. He told me I looked beautiful. He proceeded to eye fuck another woman sitting at a table in a large group over the course of dinner. This kind of shit happens frequently. I met him for breakfast recently, same thing happened. He kept looking over at another woman the whole time. It’s like I’m being used in a game of preselection bc he likes the attention from other women. Seriously considering ending things but he would call me crazy if he knew how I felt. I usually just get pissed off in silence and cause a dramatic fight days later that to him feels like it came out of nowhere. He’s absolutely clueless that I’m fuming over his behavior when we go out. Does he even like me if he does this? I want to dump him and move on. I’m not his involuntary wingman.

rickjames334 · 2023-01-06T15:49:02+00:00

I remember a response to a post on this sub that said that women tend to be more people focused and men more object focused growing up and I wonder if that’s why more men tend to be socially awkward compared to women. Would you guys agree ?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-01-06T16:16:16+00:00

Hot girl/below average guy couples almost exclusively are a myth built on women underrating men and overrating women, right?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-01-06T17:31:51+00:00

Been trying to play FF15, I just can't get into Brotime, the Road Trip Game. I think I need to admit that I'm obsessed with Cyberpunk 2077, and just do ANOTHER play through.

GridReXX · 2023-01-06T17:47:28+00:00

Saw this reply downthread.

For calibration, how would you rate these guys

1)

https://qph.cf2.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-b36b6a535f6c36d18fe2ae022baec2ca-lq

2)

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/1c/ce/fe/1ccefe4b83895c8f7be668ac89d57f16.jpg

3)

https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/smiling-young-man-beard-brown-600w-233628346.jpg

1) Mainstream hot

2) can be hot. He’s giving Lip from Shamless/ The Bear. Or Shia. probably most masculine and on his hottest day is hotter than the other two

3) Also decently attractive and probably very hot to hipster or bookish women

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-06T19:00:35+00:00

Its is so soulcrushing to see someone who wouldn't change for you, change for someone else.

I'm very bitter right now.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-07T04:11:05+00:00

[repealed]

_chasing_daylight · 2023-01-06T05:00:42+00:00

69th, 1 hour and 37 minutes in advance

Play_Muted · 2023-01-06T05:04:20+00:00

Third

bulbous_24 · 2023-01-06T06:02:52+00:00

As someone who used to frequent blackpill and redpill forums I’ve finally starting to realize what they mean when they say sex isn’t that big a deal. Most of it is meh unless you find a really good partner. Regardless I’m willing to just wait and go on dates with the next woman I meet. I have no urge to rush into sex. I actually what someone to chill and talk to now.

Play_Muted · 2023-01-06T07:25:59+00:00

I got a massive pay rise at work today. This combined with me meeting the most beautiful and kind angel on earth just a month ago makes me feel unreal. I feel like I’m living in a dream or have entered another world. I find it hard to believe this is happening to me. It makes me scared that with all these blessings, something terrible may happen

decoy88 · 2023-01-06T11:07:21+00:00

TwoXChromosomes really is missing a few.

This woman must be like 19 if she thinks this is bad.

Ok-Divide4621 · 2023-01-06T12:58:35+00:00

Saw this beachmaster today at the gym just cranking out mad reps on the bench.

A few ladies were impressed, but women say they don't like muscles 🤥

RegionalPolice · 2023-01-06T13:09:52+00:00

As a 6'1 guy it doesnt happen too often, but everytime i meet a man thats taller than me i automatically kinda hate them. I think i have blackpill brain damage

Willow-girl · 2023-01-06T13:58:17+00:00

Another night at the warehouse ... three more pairs of fake leather pants in the customer returns. WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?????!

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-06T17:29:41+00:00

STOP DATING DIVORCEES I swear theres a new death by simp story every day

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-06T17:42:40+00:00

I gotta say, The Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent is one of the best bromance movies in a long time.

meteorness123 · 2023-01-06T18:07:30+00:00

funny and somewhat accrute tbh

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zznnfx/its\_insane\_how\_the\_other\_gender\_refuses\_to/

chancetolive · 2023-01-06T18:14:17+00:00

The only acceptable N count is 0.

Only when you're both above 30 it is acceptable that she had one LTR.

No exceptions.

MalePsychopath · 2023-01-06T18:19:48+00:00

Nothing shows the difference between females and men like the kind of love songs they write.

Death Cab for Cutie - I Will Follow You Into The Dark

Love of mine
Someday you will die
But I'll be close behind
I'll follow you into the dark

No blinding light
Or tunnels, to gates of white
Just our hands clasped so tight
Waiting for the hint of a spark

If Heaven and Hell decide that they both are satisfied
Illuminate the no's on their vacancy signs
If there's no one beside you when your soul embarks
Then I'll follow you into the dark

Taylor Swift - Wildest Dreams

He’s so tall and handsome as hell
He’s so bad, but he does it so well

Y'all have no heart. 😭

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-06T19:03:28+00:00

Marriage is just a voluntary prison sentence for both men and women.

https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/104hya7/aita_for_prioritizing_my_sons_dog_over_my_wifes/

Imagine having to compromise and reconcile differences instead of just being able to walk away and living however you want without making sacrifices.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-06T19:20:43+00:00

Can the mods allow polls? Jesus Christ this sub would be way better with polls

purplish_possum · 2023-01-06T19:22:08+00:00

Sucks when you spend two days drafting an argument and gathering supporting authority only to find a case with your entire argument already laid out more clearly.

teball3 · 2023-01-06T19:22:11+00:00

Q4A: Can you name a single hobby or activity that is getting increasingly co-ed? I don't mean an increase in segregated or anonymous participation, I can't think of a single hobby that is getting more equal and interactive across gender lines.

edit: I mostly ask because I'm beginning to believe that basically all hobbies are getting increasingly segregated, and I can't think of a single counter example.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-06T19:33:23+00:00

There should be a poll to decide whether this sub should allow polls

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-01-07T03:17:19+00:00

Man I consider myself a Jordi P fan but when I see another one in the wild I have the urge to put a paper bag over my head as they regurgitate all his -isms.

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nastyfella · 2023-01-06T05:03:42+00:00

The high libido/ low n count woman post made me feel like a unicorn

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-01-06T06:15:48+00:00

Why do women have such a problem with being direct? When I go up and talk to a girl I don't give a shit about any of the things I'm saying to her, I literally do not give a shit about music, whatever movie is playing, popular culture, her stupid politics etc. By being there I'm implicitly saying I find her fuckable and potentially viable to birth my kid. What I really want to say is this explicitly to her along with my other quantifiable qualities and ask if she would like to do an activity with me to further gauge compatibility.

Why do women have a hard time understanding this?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-06T06:25:17+00:00

Guys if you wanna get more bitches just bully your female friends more, usually works for me.

purginggastonist · 2023-01-06T07:42:48+00:00

I know I gotta get over my unwillingness to approach but the idea of getting filmed and posted on tiktok for millions of people to mock and call me a creep just doesn't seem worth it

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2023-01-06T07:55:04+00:00

Final interviews for companies I'd really like to work for. Asking basically everyone I know what they think about the situation. Technically not offered any yet but I interview tremendously and have already gone through like 9 interviews between the 2 companies.

Company A: Big company revenue/profit wise. Likely to pay me market rate, maybe a slight raise from my current number, no bonus or stock. HIGHLY HIGHLY prestigious. Like, you know the names of people who worked there in the past if I said their names. Very flexible on job title & projects, if my potential boss was telling the truth. Could internally switch careers easily. Very flexible with remote work so I wouldn't have to move, maybe commute to HQ once in a while. Very stable job and I'll never get laid off.

Company B: Medium company with a few hundred employees, but recently got a big-boy check so expanding quickly. Likely to pay me decently above market rate with decent stock and a bonus. Same job title as current but basically a small step up as it's a bigger Org. Pretty decently prestigious and would look great on resume but also company A is like a "wow, you worked there!?" And B is like "Oh cool I heard about them once." IPO $$ chance. More traveling for work to different parts of USA and abroad, almost no remote work. Would have to move from current location, though I do have a few friends in the area I'd move to, don't love the city though. It's OK. Cheaper, but not as fun. Risky-ish, since it's a startup, but a very well funded one.

Company C: current company. Paid exactly market rate when averaging the post mba salaries published from my school. IPO $$ chance but I didn't get a tremendous option price, not bad but not great. If IPO with all shares vested probably I'd make between 50-100k. Very risky as the company is struggling financially hence me looking for new jobs for options. Amazing boss who's the best boss I've ever had bar none (even told us, "look for jobs so you have leverage with our HR team." Super guy keeps it 100), and great team. Somewhat flexible on remote work but I travel for a week or so once a quarter to finalize some deals. No prestige though people think the Product is pretty dope when they Google it. Already know everyone incl my boss and team, obviously, but really enjoy them to the point I'm worried if I leave the next team won't be as good.

Anyone think one of these options stands particularly out? Including staying.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-06T09:41:48+00:00

CMV :In theory TRP/BP is correct about woman.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-06T10:18:12+00:00

So tonight should be a fun night, going out to the clubs for the first time in months and I've already got at least two sure things lined up.

I've got a girl I've been talking to for about a week now meeting me there, we'll have a drink, makeout and shit, whatever happens happens.

Then I've got another girl I've been talking to for months bringing two of her friends with her, one of which is hot as fuck too so honestly? I might just try and get with both of them, I got nothing to lose 🤷

So 2 potentially 3 scores tonight. Not bad.

Play_Muted · 2023-01-06T10:35:24+00:00

I missed purge, fuck me

2023-01-06T12:15:57+00:00

Its a good feeling when a user you hate deletes their account. I hope they had a miserable day.

Peacesquad · 2023-01-06T16:11:35+00:00

….but seriously we need to talk about N count. I can’t sleep at night until we do

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-06T16:53:46+00:00

We should standardize the scales we use when we talk about rating men's looks vs women's.

For women it's easy. A woman rated a 5 can be accurately called average. Half of women would be rated above her and the other half below.

The average man, on the other hand, is typically rated as a 3 or a 4. I'm assuming that when you guys rate a guy a 3, that you just mean he's closer to being ugly than he is pretty, not that he would literally fall in the bottom 30th percentile of attractiveness.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-06T17:57:56+00:00

Q4A: Can you compliment someone platonically?

Are you comfortable with your spouse complimenting the opposite gender, platonically?

chancetolive · 2023-01-06T18:07:07+00:00

https://youtu.be/rf8YebDBcbY

Enjoy, and don't look away when the dudes come up.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-06T18:22:16+00:00

Reddit muppets are at it again:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Damnthatsinteresting/comments/104xqal/in_1984_gary_plauche_tracked_down_the_kidnapper/

All the comments are further proof that most people let their immediate emotional response guide their views on any matter.

chancetolive · 2023-01-06T18:34:24+00:00

Since you lot don't like like my intellectual posts.

Discussion on different family systems and it's effects https://youtu.be/-RFFwhbVqeU

2023-01-06T19:27:24+00:00

There's more to life than sex

There's more to life than any particular thing, but that doesn't mean it's okay to deprive someone of it when they really, really enjoy doing it.

DumpApe135 · 2023-01-07T03:04:49+00:00

The gender pay gap is a good example of privilege and not equality, it's eqaultiy if you good paid the same for the same work, not when you work less hours, do less dangerous work and are less willing to travel and such, if you think that women and men need to make the exact same on a total basis you are arguing that women desere to get paid more for working in less dangerous jobs and ones that have more benefits hence the privilege and not equality.

DumpApe135 · 2023-01-07T03:02:29+00:00

I think after ukraine with all the women fleeing and the men either staying by choice to fight or being drafted(plus all the volunteers) whenever a women says that men aren't protectors and you can't take pride in being a man for that reasonm its a weak argument since it is quite clear that men are the oens who have fought and died in wars and will continue to do so, same for doing the jobs with high workpalce mortality that again men overwhelmingly do.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-07T02:54:48+00:00

some r/contagiouslaughter to lighten the mood

https://reddit.com/r/ContagiousLaughter/comments/1056b6q/size_of_lube_comparison/

meteorness123 · 2023-01-07T02:39:54+00:00

It is kind of strange and interesting how many of these high-status men don't end up fulfilled after fucking thousands of women like depp, pitt ,etc

meteorness123 · 2023-01-07T02:32:06+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/y-iQ8KnVjiA

watch till the end lmfao

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-01-07T01:51:44+00:00

How scummy is it to take advantage of social welfare programs if you're not needy?

I have enough saved up to pay for 10+ years of living expenses but I'm nowhere wealthy enough to retire. Some programs are income but not asset tested, so you could have millions of dollars but still qualify if you have zero income.

I'm thinking about taking an extended break from work to travel or just relax and will have no earned income.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-07T01:44:21+00:00

purginggastonist · 2023-01-07T01:42:30+00:00

I first was drawn to red-pill stuff because I blamed women, but once I reached the end I realized that everything is the fault of men

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-01-06T11:16:10+00:00

Am I the only one who has nightmares about receiving messages saying I've been perma banned from PPD?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-01-06T12:25:08+00:00

Q4A: What is your opinion of a woman in her late 20s who says she is "too young and too hot" for relationships?

She's never had a relationship - only situationships and ONS encounters, which she says she prefers.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-06T13:52:10+00:00

Edit: you guys all mad today? shes got a really nice smile.

Agree or disagree:

Type is more important than overall attractiveness/hotness.

for example this girl is fine as fuck

https://www.tiktok.com/@therealalinarose2

but im just not into the bad bitch type from rapper music videos with booty so big you can see it from the front.

i like basic bitches. i'll take a regular girl who likes playing chess at the library over this ultra hottie.

VampireChaser · 2023-01-06T16:26:12+00:00

Submissive and feminine men are not respected by women. Sure, she might bang him(and peg him) but I highly doubt it would end up in a LTR. The woman would eventually lose all respect for him and crave to be with a more masculine and dominant guy. It's like how a lot of men treat hoes, he would fuck her, but she's not wife material. Women would fuck a sub and feminine man(if he's pretty), but he's not husband material.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-06T17:07:42+00:00

Imagine being able to just order all the hottest women on the planet on tap:

https://twitter.com/dailyloud/status/1611382546625089537?s=46&t=rACFMh5_hJ4t4we5vmHeyw

Fuck. This is something that even emperors in the past didn’t have access to.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-01-07T01:39:15+00:00

Who violates the no downvoting guideline more?

pinacolorada · 2023-01-07T01:26:23+00:00

seems like there’s no acceptable way for a woman to use OLD.

if she only matches with a few guys she’s picky and hypergamous.

if she get lots of matches and then doesn’t respond to most of them, she’s a rude time-waster.

if she chats to lots of guys at the same time, she’s a hoe/attention seeker.

… what exactly are we supposed to do?

EulenWatcher · 2023-01-07T01:23:26+00:00

It’s pretty hilarious when used here block you. Do you want to have the last word that much?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-07T00:50:12+00:00

what do you guys think of this idea:

Hooters but for gyms.

I won't start this because I don't want to get Harvey Weinstein'd but im not sure why it wasn't already a thing.

If there are hot gym thots walking around giving you motivation guys would probably pump those weights harder and get better results from that boosted testosterone.

also hot women would motivate women too

Anyway if you start this good luck, I'll sign up. but i do think its probably no longer a viable strategy now that women who want to use their looks to make money can just do Onlyfans or other similar websites electronically without having to be physically present anymore.

Exciting-Nebula9270 · 2023-01-07T00:26:12+00:00

How do you guys define casual sex?

Is it only when there’s no strings attached or emotional intimacy like a ONS?

Or is it just anything outside a committed relationship? Like if two people are dating consistently and on the way to a relationship but have sex before it’s official.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-01-07T00:19:04+00:00

"Stronger influence of maternal than paternal obesity on infant and early childhood BMI". Fat women are more likely than fat men to pass down their fattie disease to their children.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3765070/

This is why it's important to help female fatties cure their fattie disease by shaming and criticizing them as motivation to lose weight and become healthy.

SlashCo80 · 2023-01-07T00:01:02+00:00

Any of y'all checked out r/onlyfansadvice? Stumbled across it today. It's a recommended & fun read especially for those guys who entertain any notions that OF models see them as anything other than a dollar figure.

chancetolive · 2023-01-06T12:18:29+00:00

If anyone wants to know what real BluePill looks like, not the strawman that PPD has constructed, ask something on Quora.

Its insufferable

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-06T15:42:58+00:00

Made pretty good conversation with a woman and then made eye contact with a woman and smiled without awkwardly looking away. I think I'm getting better at this all.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-06T18:22:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/104t08q/the_woman_who_caused_the_death_of_my_best_friend/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

But the pATriArchY. There needs to be HUGE consequenses for anyone that makes false accusations of sexual assault or abuse.

I hope this guy plasters the girls admission of lying on his social media and goes to the police.

Last week I posted an ig post of a musician, explaining that surveilance footage and the accuser's own bf's testimony proved him innocent and police droppred all charges. And women on here (and on the post) WERE STILL assuming the MF was guilty. Shit is disgusting man.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-06T07:05:52+00:00

Interesting!

Not a single feminist could name 1 thing they couldn't do that a man could, yet yelled oppression the entire time.

Sure if the you are claiming inequality from disabilities or race, that's a different discussion and not about men vs women.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2023-01-06T14:41:13+00:00

The reason why no one seems to care about your plight if you're a guy who gets no women is because you're unsuccessful for one of two reasons:

Either you're ugly or haven't really spread out and "done" enough if that makes sense.

If it's the latter, you have work to do and since the problem is fixable, no one wants to hear you complain about it. If the a/c is broken and you have a toolbox plus some knowledge of how to fix it, you get up and fix it. Complaining about the a/c because it's not working will be a waste of time.
If it's the former, then I'm sorry, I truly am, but you've to find some way to enjoy life without that. If you've really tried everything to fix the a/c and nothing whatsoever worked, then it sounds like you've got to find another way to cool down. But again, complaining or talking about the a/c not working doesn't make much sense

And if you think I'm whiteknighting or something, I do in fact believe the same applies to women and their dating plights.

In my own case I know with certainty that a lot of my problems (both with women and otherwise) are caused by my own stupidity most of the time. But not once nowadays will you see me complanin about a lack of big booty bitches or that something is too hard. It just is what it is. You get up and move on.

You either persevere until you get the results you want, or find your way around it. "Cope" if you must, because coping is actually not the worst thing in the world despite what internet lingo wants you to think

djblackmith · 2023-01-06T17:08:07+00:00

Sometimes I think the women on this sub have a point then I hop on Twitter to news about the Prince Harry and William beef and all the women I know and that are commenting are siding with Harry because Prince Williams is ugly. So maybe the incels have a point.🤔

Look at the comments here for example https://twitter.com/PopBase/status/1610793420364328961?t=c2EYiAljRlch27HKRdjRjg&s=19

The fact that they are basing he's character because of his looks says a lot.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-06T23:52:54+00:00

Women: "I want a dominant, masculine man"

Also women: "Why are men always so competitive!?!?!?"

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-06T23:38:02+00:00

Generally not a fan of Matt Walsh and think he has some deranged opinions, but he said something very insightful recently: the more interesting question we should ask in regards to Andrew Tate is not about whether he says is right or wrong, but WHY do so many men seem to resonate with his messages? If not Tate, another figure will come along with similar beliefs.

The consensus normie belief in regards to dating seems to be that either a) young men are not struggling (you aren't entitled to sex go away boo haha kind of thing) or b) young men are struggling but it's because women have upped their standards and men aren't up to par.

As with all things in life, the truth is somewhere in the middle. What people get wrong is that young men aren't up to par, but young women are also not up to par. The average person is not a very enticing dating prospect. Average people still get married and have kids, sure, but the divorce rate and rate of children born out of wedlock is quite high in the US. The west has some serious issues, personal accountability very high among them.

BornFirstDieLater · 2023-01-06T23:37:38+00:00

https://voca.ro/1kJts4AQVwQX

It's kinda mid and u can def tell it was recorded at 3am lmao but oh well I'll get better

lulll · 2023-01-06T23:28:14+00:00

so basically the original onlyfans

BornFirstDieLater · 2023-01-06T23:22:39+00:00

I finished my first song but idk how to post it lel

stjohnswyrt · 2023-01-06T23:15:26+00:00

Today was so romantic. Me and Chad filled salad dressing containers at work together.

Beat that losers.

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-06T06:32:23+00:00

Women ☕

Ohmaygahh · 2023-01-06T15:08:43+00:00

Anyone else hate when someone says "treat women like people".

Literally what does that mean? Do women realize that if I were to treat women like "people", like the way I treat men, I'd just ignore them. As if they don't exist on the planet. That's how I treat "people".

But the moment someone, or I , speak to a "person" , the scope in which i take into consideration who they might be or are, their hopes and dreams, if I want to fuck them, the scope widens with more interaction...

so what the fuck is the point of screeching such a flat statement.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-01-06T13:59:57+00:00

I think most redpilled guys have either a history of domestic violence or sexual assault

They have too much built up angry that they don’t release properly so take it out in the closet people around them or when they finally get a gf they start to control and then abuse her.

Or they get fed up being rejected they take any opportunity with women including drunk/intoxicated or young stupid/vulnerable or even just as a superior in the workplace

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-01-06T16:51:47+00:00

Looks like NorCal gets a day off from the rain before the next round of storms! Hoping work will be slow so I can take the dog to the park. He needs a good walk and I want to see how high the river is.

rivhsinda · 2023-01-06T23:13:49+00:00

What does toxic masculinity even mean anymore?

purplish_possum · 2023-01-06T23:05:00+00:00

Apparently the only way to solve the world's problems is to force women to stay home and have lots of kids.

Just look at how well that worked for Afghanistan and Somalia.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-01-06T22:54:47+00:00

If you guys really loved your husbands, you'd be giving him a blowie right now.

Q4w: why are you here and not blowing your man?

liefelijk · 2023-01-06T22:44:39+00:00

Every one of these husband-murder/suicides is like a kick in the gut, especially when it’s uncovered that it was caused by the wife trying to leave.

This one also feels close to home because they’re Mormon, just like I once was. There was no escape for that woman, her mother, or her children.

BigZaddyZ3 · 2023-01-06T22:16:18+00:00

I can tell this forum won’t be around in a couple years. Seems to be on its last legs these days imo.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-01-06T22:08:23+00:00

Something I've realized about TRP and the former FDS sub- both sides encourage each other to become exactly what the other gender is afraid of:

TRP posits that women are amoral harpies that will squeeze every last resource they can out of a man until they can drop him for someone with more resources. As such, men should only use a woman for sex and then discard her when she asks for more from them.
FDS took the stance that men are emotionless apes that will use a woman for sex and then discard her when she asks for more from him. As such, women should squeeze every last resource they can out of a man, then drop him for someone with more resources.

It's a vicious cycle that ends with pretty much everyone being miserable.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-01-06T22:00:05+00:00

If women don't benefit from and enjoy casual sex, then it would be reasonable for men to expect and require (for a relationship) that most women to have had sex outside of a committed relationship at most 2-3 times.

darkfog235 · 2023-01-06T21:58:21+00:00

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Ok-Divide4621 · 2023-01-06T21:55:15+00:00

Need to change my former petition. Chad shouldn't be changed to beachmaster.

Beachmaster should be a term for a Chad that's spinning a lot of plates. Now it makes more sense.

Like a step above.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-06T21:50:36+00:00

It’s Friday and i haven’t seen the one cute girl at work. I wonder if she found out I got a crush on her lol

Preme2 · 2023-01-06T21:46:58+00:00

I met a recent Korean immigrant to the US that told me that Korea was going to the shits because most young men have no hope of finding a job that pays enough to attract a wife or afford a family and most young women have no hope of finding a husband or having a family. It sounded like the current situation in the US projected forwards a few years.

This was the top comment from a post on r/economics speaking on Korea’s population decline. PPDxEconomics chitchat when?

Exciting-Nebula9270 · 2023-01-06T21:33:17+00:00

It’s pretty well known that men find younger women more attractive. Is it because they look better or because they are actually young?

I’m 24 but have been confused for an 18/19 year old a lot. My little sister and I get asked if we are twins and she’s 19

I’m asking because I’ve noticed a few times men will approach me in public and flirt a bit, ask for my number, etc. and then they usually ask how old I am. When I say 24 it sometimes goes like “wow you look younger than that” and then some of them seem to suddenly lose interest. These guys have all been between 24-31 so it’s not like a teenager is approaching. It’s happened 4 times in the last year where they seem to lose interest while the rest don’t seem to mind.

octavius774 · 2023-01-06T21:26:09+00:00

Why is European/Asian history like 10,000x more rich and interesting than the rest of the world?

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-06T21:13:48+00:00

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Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-06T21:07:25+00:00

Fellas! Are you scared of rejection? Worried about getting emasculated? Do you want to keep your self esteem high while hitting up as many females up as possible so you can spin them wildly like plates at a clowns tea party?!

Here are some amazing comebacks to say to completely eradicate any rejection and make HER feel rejected:

"it was just a prank!"
"you are ugly anyway!"
"my friend stole my phone!"

You want to know more dating hax?! Just DM me and I will give you amazing advice after you paid me $100. Trust me bro! I would never lie to you! I had sex with more females than you could imagine!

1Here4Bach · 2023-01-06T20:55:16+00:00

This male (who posted the below text on another sub) has completely lost his ability to pair bond. Even if he cures his “addiction” any relationship he gets in will inevitably fail. This is why so many women don’t want to date males that have been to escorts.

I have an escort addiction.

Would like to start the new year hopefully ending this problem. I'm 24 and I've been with 150 different people(trans women and cis women). I'll say 99% of them are escorts. It started when I was around 21. I haven't had a "GF" since high school. I haven't been on a date since high school. After trying online dating a few years ago and some meetups I got tired of the rejection. I'm really insecure about everything. I'm slightly receding, I'm dark skin, I'm introverted, only good thing is I'm tall. I don't know what to do at this point. I don't have any positive male role models in my life. I don't know how therapy can fix these issues but I'm open to ideas. My social life is non existent, I have an okay job but it's not great. I don't have a degree. I feel like a loser.

purginggastonist · 2023-01-06T20:40:13+00:00

ok I'm not gonna lie the new puss in boots movie is looking pretty good

WestCombSplit · 2023-01-06T20:39:35+00:00

The misandrist Women sound the same as the misogynistic Men. The RedPill guys sound like the female empowerment Women. You people are just different sides of the entitled victim peacocking coin

The whole "Women can only fall truly in love with Chad" is equally as dumb dumb as "Men can never truly love a Woman". "Women only love Men for what they provide" is equally as dumb dumb as "Men only love Women for sex". "If he's broke she'll leave him eventually 100% of the time. That's what it's like to be a Man" is equally as dumb dumb as "Women are just tools for sex. That's why husbands cheat or leave as soon as she falls I'll and has to be hospitalised for a prolonged period of time"

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Thotlesswhisper · 2023-01-06T20:30:22+00:00

Some men want women to feel ashamed of casual sex so that women are kept from satisfying their sexual needs, making them desperate for relationships in which they can comfortably have sex, and then those same men pretend like they want "relationships" with the sexually starved women in order to deceive them into having sex.

If women universally rejected societally imposed shame about casual sex, I hypothesize fewer of them would end up feeling "used" for sex, or pumped and dumped. Because if they see sex as simply sex and not something that's only meant to be had with someone who truly loves you, they could easily get their sexual needs met and not be lured into sex with insincere men through fake love and commitment. They would essentially achieve the female version of post-nut clarity and not waste their time and feelings on disingenuity.

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-01-06T20:19:31+00:00

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Libah05 · 2023-01-06T20:06:47+00:00

CMV: Women are more homophobic than the average man💯

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-06T19:49:23+00:00

Just got home from the clubs and have to say it was a good night.

One of my sure things went as expected, nothing out of the usual.

The other not so well, the most we did was grinding but still a fun time with her nonetheless.

Ended up with another score, ran into an old coworker who was with her friends, later we end up over near her friend group and one of her friends pulls me in and starts grinding on me and then we made out until another one of her friends had to drag her away.

The old coworker sent me a message saying that the girl wanted my number/Snap too. So who knows? Could be something good.

Luciansleep · 2023-01-06T19:35:06+00:00

Why is every woman basically bisexual now?

I’d guess it’s over sexualization of women in media. Either way dating is getting harder if I want just a straight woman.

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