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Mrs_Drgree · 2023-02-14T21:57:49+00:00

You guys know we have a whole mega thread for the valentine's day stuff?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-14T20:17:26+00:00

I'm still shocked how men will blame women for shit men do to each other.

For example: "It's so disgusting that women hate seeing men vulnerable, no wonder men kill themselves!....Also, therapy is a scam and men shouldn't express their feeling if they don't want to look like pussies."

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T20:00:19+00:00

Its funny how in the male dominated subs I'm subscribed to like r/knives or r/miata most of the posts are photos of knives or miatas, no people. You might see hands in the background holding knives, etc. But the vast majority of the time the main focus of the photo is subject of the subreddit.

Then when someone does post with themselves included, aka posing with their car or posing with their knife, overwhelmingly its a woman doing it.

Real life data: Right now if you go thru r/knives while you may see a hand or leg in a photo, no one is posing with their knife. You have to scroll all the way until page 5 to see someone doing it. So the vast majority of posts are just a whole lot of dudes posting their knives. The person who posed with their knife on page 5? Well you can guess.

Yeah made it to page 21 and no one else posed with their knife.

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-14T19:44:13+00:00

Men need to be vulnerable

Is a stupid line. It's an underhanded way of suggesting that Men have to cry and share all their deepest darkest secrets with anybody they've known for a short period of time ~~so they can then throw it back in their face whenever they get into an argument~~

Men and Women need to learn how to navigate emotional situations and how to effectively process and express their emotions

Is a much better way of saying it. But it's not spicy enough and/or short enough for the TikTok brains out there

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-02-14T23:03:58+00:00

When people complain about the "older women" of PPD...

Who are they even referring to at this point? Poppy, Smurf, and Atlas are all seemingly gone. The first two left who come to mind are redpill as far as I know.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-15T02:29:48+00:00

R/antifeminists are tackling the real issues, like how every single woman is ignoring THOUSANDS of attractive men that want to date them

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-02-15T03:46:37+00:00

Brought my mom a canda goose. Never felt like more of a man in my life. This high im on is crazy.

Yall got issues a goose is a coat

auteurfantastique · 2023-02-14T19:08:40+00:00

This is my policy on how pornography and prostitution should be regulated:

Prostitution would be legal but the government would make ending it part of their agenda. To do this, they would provide income and support to prostitutes until they can leave the sex worker sphere and find another line of work, as well as stopping trafficking, etc. The aim is that over time the supply of sex work would go to zero.
Visual porn, as in porn with real people, would be banned outright. Too many cases of companies exploiting workers/actors in the production of these videos. OnlyFans would fall under this category.
Written erotica seems very victimless to me and you could probably argue it's a free speech thing, so it would reman legal.

red__hulk · 2023-02-14T19:16:34+00:00

What a day

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-14T19:18:13+00:00

I think the rise in rapes against teenage girls is mostly being driven by adult men not teenage boys. Abusive or undesirable men usually target vulnerable easily exploitable groups (see passport bros going to Philippines)

To whatever degree teenage boys are doing it, it is definitely being driven by the online manosphere (which promotes rape and assault) and online pornography

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-02-14T19:24:58+00:00

Our generation is too obsessed with extremes. You probably shouldn’t watch porn several times in your day and you probably shouldn’t cut out masturbation all together.

There’s in betweens. Why do so many people feel like they have to be one or the other.

Nofap should not be a thing.

meteorness123 · 2023-02-14T20:02:33+00:00

Making being sexually desirable your highest aim is probably the worst thing you could do in your life. For both men and women.

gofigure62 · 2023-02-14T20:49:02+00:00

I never found Destiny attractive. Now im constantly bombarded with shorts on tik tok and YouTube of his debates. Suddenly he's attractive to me after hearing his beliefs and watching his composure. I find people more attractive if they share my beliefs, can articulate themselves, and aren't emotionally unstable.

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-14T21:49:50+00:00

I just wish USA colonization doesn't go any further and my country doesn't end up celebrating another capitalist day like valentines although I know it's a lost cause since Halloween is also starting to be celebrated here as well.

what's next? prom? thanksgiving? 😤

Willow-girl · 2023-02-15T01:31:05+00:00

My foot hurt so bad tonight that I actually called off from my school job. I don't like to give in to pain but figured hey, they're saving $3,000 by not fully funding my health insurance for a year, so they can afford to give me sick days, right? Grrr.

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-15T02:32:08+00:00

There’s a girl in one of my classes who refuses to talk to me even though, with the way the classroom is situated, when we pair off to do group discussions, she should talk to me. This wouldn’t be a big deal if it didn’t make it awkward every time we have group discussions because I have to find another group really quick and am often just left without a group.

Today, I very politely brought up the issue and all she said was “I’m sorry you feel that way.”

So that’s how my valentine’s day went.

Mark_Freed · 2023-02-15T04:10:04+00:00

When you fall for someone your productivity dips.

But once you are in a secure relationship with them. Your productivity can peak I think...

I don't know. I used to think a great relationship can help with motivation, focus, drive.

But now I think it will just take up time, energy and sure I 100% believe the value and fun of it pays for the loss of productivity but there is definitely that loss.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-02-15T05:26:38+00:00

Anyone here from MSU? Prayers go out to everyone there.

LaloTwins · 2023-02-15T09:12:27+00:00

Poor women Trafficked by Andrew Tate

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-02-14T19:01:39+00:00

First

VampireChaser · 2023-02-14T20:02:31+00:00

Q4ALL: What's your BMI?

jackedsoon · 2023-02-14T21:02:45+00:00

i dont see the point of people being upset at being single on a day like this. life is much more than relationships.

VampireChaser · 2023-02-14T21:34:51+00:00

My girl was on her period and I went down on her. You guys will never beat me. Bloody Valentine.

Warm_Philosopher · 2023-02-14T22:52:59+00:00

Are people for real when they are pessimistic about our future? The scientific discoveries we are doing are so crazy, the way cancer is being treated is groundbreaking and the rates of survival is higher each year. Life has been getting better for all of the world every year (Bar covid uff)

Is there issues? Yes the climate threat is very real, but so was the nuclear threat in the 60's. Or the two consecutive world wars, or the world wide pandemic which killed almost an entire generation of young people. I can't really relate to all of this doom speak.

CliffPR · 2023-02-14T23:02:33+00:00

"If I could work my will, every idiot who goes about with 'Happy Valentines Day' on his lips should be baked with his own heart-shaped pizza and buried with a dozen roses through his heart! "

BN5130 · 2023-02-14T23:12:04+00:00

Man those ladies at TwoX be crazy. Now they have problem with guys not chopping off their dog's testicles.

Like first of all if it's not your dog then it's not your business.

Second, a biological human male can empathize with another biological male losing his/its balls. Probably like women might be able to empathize with female of another species having a miscarriage.

She is spinning it from the angle of somehow chopping the balls off of the dog affecting the guy's masculinity and not from the angle of him empathizing with the pup he loves and not wanting to hurt him. If this is not a prime example of misandry then what is?

BN5130 · 2023-02-14T23:28:57+00:00

Woman admitting red pill phenomenon herself

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-14T23:41:37+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ei2hpd/is_there_proof_and_examples_of_women_mocking_a/?sort=new

It’s still shocking to me that despite me getting so many answers on this whole question, only three guys bothered to show me any proof of women mocking men’s masculinity.

Even then: One example was in r/NiceGirls One example was just mentioning men should learn how to lean on one another and stop treating women like a free therapists. The others were bitches on twitter with little to no followers.

Meanwhile, I find way more popular examples of men bullying other men based on their masculinity. Biggest example, the Soy Boy meme being pushed by men with millions of followers.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-14T23:46:16+00:00

some of you need anxiety meds fr

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-02-15T01:24:13+00:00

Most insane take I've seen in this subreddit yet: all dogs should be banned

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-15T02:39:16+00:00

Original Post

update

This kind of situation is like my worst fear in life. Ever since I was little one of the things I was most afraid of is divorce. Especially in a situation like this, where you do everything right and everything you can to fix it, but your partner just isn't cooperating. Super tragic.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-02-15T02:39:44+00:00

NBA is letting Karl Malone judge the slam dunk contest. I need to stop watching sports. At least if I watch a show or movie and the actor is a shitty human, I am just rooting on the character. Sports is just rooting on terrible people being themselves.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-02-15T03:32:46+00:00

When men are in a position where they have a lot of options, they will naturally use it to capitalize on women's tendency to date up, and women finding a smaller percentage of men attractive than vice versa, to get a lot of sex. Especially if that man had to put in a lot of work to become desirable (like me personally) and wasn't like a legit "chad"

I'm convinced that this will happen in literally any sex positive society where sex without commitment is normalized. If western women all collectively decided tomorrow no more sex without commitment, society would improve exponentially. If you look at all of the cultures (that immigrated) in the US that have the lowest rates of children out of wedlock, lower rates of divorce and single motherhood, lowest poverty, highest representation in professions that require higher education ect... they are cultures that look down up casual sex. It's not a coincidence.

Now, I always say if a non-virgin woman isn't having having sex with you within the first 4-5 dates you should be suspicious she isn't attracted to you and has ulterior motives, but that's because premarital sex is so commonplace now. If you're a guy with options, there's really no need to wait for sex when there are other girls interested in you who wont make you wait.

Preme2 · 2023-02-15T03:56:16+00:00

We need Pew Research to do an emergency survey tomorrow. Ask women if they are single. I bet women between 18-29 will be at 50%. By next week the delusion will have returned and the numbers will drop back into the 30’s.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-02-15T09:16:18+00:00

Cold approach report:

Petite cutie with shoulder length hair, around 18-19 years old. We made strong eye contact. She went on a call shortly after so I just chilled nearby and waited. I approached and began chatting. Her teeth were in bad condition which turned me off. She also gave me virgin vibes. I ended up wishing her a nice day and left.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-15T11:44:53+00:00

How the fuck do people figure out their political opinions?

I talk to conservatives, read conservative articles, research conservative policies, hang out in conservative spaces. And I'm like "oh, sure, these perspectives make sense, and these approaches to solving problems sound reasonable."

Then I turn around and talk to liberals, read liberal articles, research liberal policies, hang out in liberal spaces. And I'm like "oh, sure, these perspectives make sense, and these approaches to solving problems sound reasonable."

The more information I absorb, and the more critical analysis I do, the less certain I become of my own opinion or what is "right." Does that not happen to other people? Or if it does, how do they handle it?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-02-15T19:56:14+00:00

Fuck! My husband just reminded me that we survived the NIU Valentine's day mass shooting in 2008.

What a crazy thing to have gone through, and I just completely forgot about it.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T19:42:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/11303pe/as_wholesome_as_can_be/?ref=share&ref_source=link - funny how this guy didn't go into prostitution.

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yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-02-14T19:03:59+00:00

Second :)

stjohnswyrt · 2023-02-14T19:08:54+00:00

Is it better to have loved and lost, or to have never loved at all

dysonRing · 2023-02-14T20:55:15+00:00

I will never understand how PPD women don't realize that the same way we laugh at red pill influencers/coaches we laugh at therapists.

Why is it so hard to understand that it is a scam?

My gender creates a problem pay me for these 5 simple tricks to fix it!

Prestigious698 · 2023-02-14T22:21:22+00:00

What do you think about people who say “Everyday is Valentine’s Day”

KommandaKoopa · 2023-02-14T23:30:45+00:00

Gf chose 3000 Years of Longing to watch on Valentine’s Day.

stjohnswyrt · 2023-02-15T00:30:26+00:00

Thxsomch has gotta be my definition of hot

meteorness123 · 2023-02-15T00:57:29+00:00

Athletes have some of the highest divorce rates ever.

Intellectual realms have some of the lowest.

SUM TO CHEW ON

saraimarsena · 2023-02-15T00:59:42+00:00

Bray Wyatt is one of the most attractive wrestlers I have ever seen. I wish more of them had his vibe.

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-15T03:15:23+00:00

https://twitter.com/raphousetv2/status/1625163506290155521

Men, are you dropping her?

Women, does she deserve to be dropped?

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-15T03:34:19+00:00

what's up with Elon Musk's tweets filling my feed I have never clicked him now I see all of his dumb replies to everything what's happening

is it just me?

Mark_Freed · 2023-02-15T03:40:06+00:00

I had a great valentine's day. In the spirit of sharing my happiness let me give some advice.

It is less about the overt things. All the red pill ideas of status, height, looks are what gets you interest, curiosity, openness. Just gets you past the first filter. Warm approach, mutual friends, passion, intelligence can also earn you attention and time past the first filter. Then attraction and affection is built on more subtle things, small things. Paying attention to their mental state, comfort, sacrifing small things for their happiness, making sure they don't forget things, protecting them from traffic.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T03:49:02+00:00

F:M:K Canada edition.

Jessica Lucas:Emmanuelle Chriqui:Lacey Chabert

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-02-15T05:06:33+00:00

I love valentine's day

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T05:14:43+00:00

No fucking CHILD. People will starve next to you and everyone will keep walking !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Where they walking to? They going to the... Thunderdome?

YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT! SHAME ON YOU! MURDERER!!!

I'm just advocating for people not having babies calm down dude. Relax.

red__hulk · 2023-02-15T07:46:00+00:00

Theres an actress in a show that looks and behaves almost like the carbon copy of one of my exes. JFC its so distracting to watch that show even tho i love it.

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-15T07:48:07+00:00

Jordan Peterson explaining why Women fall for assholes

It's kinda wild the victim mindset of some of the guys here that they're incapable of grasping the concept that someone can get better at picking someone to be in a relationship with

italian_whip · 2023-02-15T09:33:23+00:00

Unpopular opinion: downloading tinder as a dude really helped my self esteem. I think I first got it when I was 20 in my sophomore year of college. Prior to that I literally couldn’t comprehend a woman finding my attractive at all. Never got attention from women, thought I was being generous to myself thinking I was a 3/10 and I am below average in the height department. Decided to download tinder with the lowest of the lowest expectations. Although I put my height in my bio, I got matches with attractive women daily. Went on my first date, got my first kiss with a girl I still think was out of my league. All is well.

TigerRude4 · 2023-02-15T19:41:51+00:00

Women on Reddit pretty much confirmed that women in the West are over coddled when they see any criticism of women or dating preference as misogyny (you'll notice it's the same with trans people, but even more)

Noisexfloor · 2023-02-14T22:20:24+00:00

I don't see how my post was a shit post 😢😢😢 i really wanted to know

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-15T00:14:48+00:00

Knowing Rihanna was pregnant during that performance makes it super cringe. She shouldn't be performing whilst pregnant. What a stupid decision to not prioritize the baby's health

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-14T19:05:46+00:00

This goes without saying, but the manosphere arent knowledgable about things that would be common sense to even a teenager.

A big example is denying the existence of predatory men, despite the fact there’s been famous cases like Weinstein and society responds to predatory behavior such as creating Age Of Consent laws, creating Juvenile Detention centers, laws against scamming, alimony/child support, and many more.

TigerRude4 · 2023-02-15T19:35:58+00:00

Q4M: Women here overwhelmingly deny almost every red pill tenet while misunderstanding trp fundamentally, what are you trying to get from debating with them here?

TigerRude4 · 2023-02-15T19:19:33+00:00

This is what happens when you declare a war on masculinity, a big counter reaction

Mark_Freed · 2023-02-15T19:15:34+00:00

It is a strange kind of irony that I find the love of my life a year or so before the world ends...

God might exist after all

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-02-15T18:49:34+00:00

Man, there's a lady in Colombia, some sort of professor of architecture, that shares my name, and our email addresses are differentiated by a single '.' (i.e. [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) and [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]))

I receive so many of her emails, her students final assignments and projects, personal correspondence, etc. I have to wonder how many of MY emails she's received, and what I've missed.

fucking get it together google.

WestCombSplit · 2023-02-15T18:38:55+00:00

America is a weird country. How they gonna boast about being the best country on Earth, give out 100billion in aid, but then make people live with lead poisoned tap water and poison gas?

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T18:36:55+00:00

It's fun to point out feminist hypocrisies because it's mainly virtue-signalling and it's obvious the mindset is "Men and society! Change this thing to benefit me... until it doesn't benefit me!"

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T18:34:55+00:00

PPD women:

The “rational and logical” sex are throwing a tantrum because the CDC is concerned that 60% of young girls are depressed.

Also PPD Women:

The article is about mental health and depression. So they should be focusing on girls

And that second statement is why men are taking issue. Just say you don't like men and be honest at this point.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-15T18:33:30+00:00

It's fun to point out manosphere hypocrisies because it's mainly virtue-signalling and it's obvious the mindset is "Women! Do this thing to benefit me......until it doesn't benefit me!"

TooHornyToFap · 2023-02-15T18:21:42+00:00

The dating advice sub has a post rn about age gap and the responses are not nearly as inflammatory as usual. I wonder why 🤔

PitbllLvngMlFmnst · 2023-02-15T18:19:43+00:00

We've had one Valentines, yes. But what about second Valentines?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-15T17:54:28+00:00

For anyone curious about my view on age gap relationships, I'd personally say 10 years is generally a decent max. Keyword: Generally.

Ok_Thought_1818 · 2023-02-14T21:01:01+00:00

25th Valentine’s Day alone, in a row. Fun stuff. Here’s to 25 more 🥂

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-02-14T21:22:34+00:00

Quick tip gentlemen. If you are going to send flowers to multiple women, make sure not to copy and paste the NAME of the last girl on the note attached to the flowers. Although when the 2nd girl does get the delivery, it does add a lot of excitement to the office for the day!

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T02:07:51+00:00

Red Piller's inability to grapple with the idea that 8 billion people on this planet is too many people with the rate we're using natural resources, affecting the climate, etc. and that any sort of population decline is in fact good before the climate wars does it all for us.

Edit:

Please, grow the fuck up and grow a brain. You are literally slowly destroying our society and you don't even know it, in fact, you think you're doing the opposite by thinking not having children is somehow the moral option.

But sure, stop your entire bloodline because the person in the telly told you to, sheep.

See. They get very upset at the idea.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2023-02-15T03:59:29+00:00

Being single on Valentine’s Day can be brutal. I felt weird the whole day. I just swiped on tinder and bumble the whole day but that didn’t make me feel better

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-15T17:52:29+00:00

r/news "CDC reports unprecedented level of hopelessness and suicidal thoughts among American young women"

of course mensrights were jealous

r/mensrights Apparently the lives of young men don't matter

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-02-14T20:18:25+00:00

If its the 21st century and we are getting rid of gender norms, why is a man still expected for pay for dates? Why is this still a thing? Men dont expect women to come around a couple of times a month and wash their dishes and cook for them

Workaholiconew · 2023-02-14T20:41:06+00:00

I seriously think we are in a economic depression...

And it is mostly shown by our young men...

I was interviewing some new boys to a possible job this morning and it was depressing... none of these guys really think there is any future for them... and the worse of all there were so fucking many of them...

They dont hope for anything better to go on their lives beyond escapism...

To those who go on the discord, you know I am not the most optimistic guy around, but this fatalists just makes me seriously worried...

big_lenad · 2023-02-14T21:07:38+00:00

Decided to spoil some women for Valentines. They were in complete shock at the treatment they’ve been receiving from me and especially today. Especially since I specifically picked women who weren’t expecting anything. Yes their standards for how they should be treated will rise substantially after dealing with me. One was even shocked that I came over just to give her gifts. It’s like she expected me to make a move whilst I was at it but I just left. These women will be ruined for future low effort men. Just playing my part in poisoning the well.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-14T21:21:09+00:00

I utterly despise people who say stupid shit like "You don't know what it's to be male/female" because these people will then provide NO UNDERSTANDING of other people and say absolutely heartless shit about the opposite gender.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-02-14T21:28:17+00:00

I not only judge women on their n-count but also on the quality. If you have a history of banging slobs, losers, sociopaths or other similar types, then I won’t date you after we’ve had sex.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-14T21:34:25+00:00

Everyone start posting cringe Valentine's stories.

When I was in junior year high school, one of my buddies bought a teddy bear and flowers for his crush with a note: "From your secret admirer <3". I was tasked to leave it at her seat because we sat next to each other in science.

She kept bugging me to tell her who it was from. Was it Andrew? Tell me if it was Andrew. I know it's Andrew, you're just not telling me. Andrew was the guy she was crushing on.

Andrew wasn't the guy who sent it 😬

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-14T21:48:57+00:00

This sub makes me very aware of how lucky I am to live where I live. I’m so happy that our Valentine’s Day is mostly targeted to friendship, not romantic partners.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-15T02:03:43+00:00

DM I got from someone fighting with the mods

https://i.imgur.com/BjQhnhN.png

Ok-Divide4621 · 2023-02-15T04:01:38+00:00

Low key I might bash women for being picky, but I hate pick me women that bash women.

Like God, women went through a lot to get the rights they do have. Stfu, no you don't believe the shit you say you just want attention and validation.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-15T17:44:14+00:00

Google:

How much a sex worker earn in Canada?

The average sex salary in Canada is $91,982 per year or $47.17 per hour. Entry-level positions start at $74,800 per year, while most experienced workers make up to $105,359 per year.

Holy shit

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-15T17:42:17+00:00

A lot of men here will project male sexuality onto women despite also believing men and women are fundamentally different which is quite weird.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T17:26:54+00:00

If a user is going to post continuous troll takes their reports should have a handicap in the mod queue.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-15T17:07:07+00:00

There was some guy on the daily chat thread who was genuinely surprised prostitutes are grossed out by their clients and the work they do.

That's like being surprised people who work in sewers don't like their jobs very much.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-15T17:00:53+00:00

Woman A: OMG, I can't believe I dated that asshole! There were so many signs!

Nice guys: Arg... I can't stand women always dating pieces of shit. Why can't women just stop dating assholes? Why can't women make better decisions?

Women B: So I'm 18 and I'm dating with 45 year old-

Women: Be careful. He might be a shithead dating you for the wrong reasons-

Nice Guys: HOW DARE YOU JEALOUS BITCHES TRY TO COCK BLOCK HIM?!

meteorness123 · 2023-02-14T22:34:05+00:00

kind of a based thread tbh

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qsdsnv/cmv\_red\_pill\_advice\_would\_be\_perfect\_if\_all\_the/

HazyMemory7 · 2023-02-14T23:57:34+00:00

Went on a date with a lovely girl yesterday who mentioned she's went on dates with 2 guys I know personally in the same program/career path (one of which is my superior)

Girls really do share all the same dudes lmao

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-15T02:59:46+00:00

Does it not concern men that their low/no body count partner might one day realize "Hey I've only slept with 1 or 2 dudes? I want to see what's out there before I die!"

My low ncount friend who almost got married to a depressed freeloader incel is now poly, bisexual, looking for a threesome and with many FWBs

thank god she broke up with that looser

ncount doesn't mean anything

relish5k · 2023-02-14T19:16:04+00:00

Re: declining birth rate - it might not actually be declining, rather just "shifting" as women are having babies later in life. So while annual fertility may be down, lifetime fertility may stay about the same, and we are just seeing a lag right now because the women who used to be responsible for birth rate (20s and earl 30s) are shifting it by a few years (30s and early 40s).

86% of women became mothers by the age of 45 in 2016, compared to only 80% in 2006 - they just did it later in life.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-14T19:38:24+00:00

I’m big on keeping family business in house. When I see regular people, celebrities “airing out” significant others, siblings, parents on social media that’s crazy to me and a big no no. I cant ever trust you after that even if I get over the original dispute we had

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-14T20:09:48+00:00

Who's going to tell Johnny Autism that it's probably because of the autism.

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-15T05:00:06+00:00

I think taking reddit advice on relationships and sex is going to keep men on here virgins. When I first came to this site and saw people suggesting talking about sex before having it, asking if you can kiss someone, etc. I thought I was the weirdo because that has never been my experience in the 17 years I've been sexually active.

I can't imagine a person in real life not being weirded out by some guy asking her over lunch what she likes during sex. Makes it a business meeting instead of just a feeling or flow.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T04:26:57+00:00

I JUST SHOWED YOU HOW IT IS A GIANT ISSUE THAT WILL GET WORSE YEAR BY YEAR YOU DENSE MOTHERFUCKER!!! You just believe whatever you want huh?

ppd user continuing to short circuit about declining birthrates not being a big deal.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-02-15T16:50:24+00:00

Theres this thing on Twitter yelp dick reviews. Nasty works on that app. And she tags the men who they talk about it. And her account isn't banned.

Now imagine if guys did this pussy yelp. Tagged women. Imsgine the outrage. Smh.

bzl33 · 2023-02-15T16:50:18+00:00

one thing I believed that has been solidified by returning to Reddit is how fruitless "debate" is. On the other hand, mindless conversation can be good to pass the time.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-15T16:37:02+00:00

Why do incels think pussy should be redistributed to all men because it's good for society or something but think children of single mothers should just starve?

How's that consistent in anyway?

No-Regular1667 · 2023-02-15T16:16:30+00:00

Women: The standards for men are in hell

The standards for men

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-15T15:59:50+00:00

The manosphere: Stop projecting your femaleness onto men. Men and women are totally different!

Also the manosphere: It's upsetting that women are given special treatment! The fact that men arent treated the same is an injustice!

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-15T15:46:03+00:00

Idea: A relationship advice subreddit where you don't allow people to post info about sex/gender. Gender neutral relationship advice since dating is still follows gender roles.

AquaChip · 2023-02-15T15:35:35+00:00

Went out with a guy last night who I met at a party last week. I’ll refer to him as Chad #13. Now tell me why when I asked Chad #13 what he did for work he said he did OF. 💀 I made a “yea, sure” joke but he pulled out is phone right at the table and sure enough, he was right. Although he’s nice enough. I’m not interested in anything serious with him. After seeing a little bit of is OF I will however be keeping him around for sex.

GridReXX · 2023-02-15T15:29:23+00:00

Saw this tweet of a TikTok couple where she was 21 and he was 41.

When the original TikTok went viral mostly women questioned the relationship and told her to be careful and that older men who seek out younger women tend to be 🗑️

Bunch of dudes called those women “old jealous wenches” or whatever.

She’s given an update. The women were obviously right.

Man. I'm glad she's safe and ok now. Older women don't say these things out of jealousy but from experience [and observation]

VirtualRow4074 · 2023-02-15T14:54:26+00:00

What qualifies as a late bloomer & is it different standards for men and women? I was having this conversation with friends lately & I found it interesting lol. For context I’m a woman & I did not have my first kiss until I was 18 & I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 21 when I was in my senior year of college 2 months before I graduated specifically. According to them, people I’ve dated & even my younger sister this qualifies as late blooming & people are surprised that I lasted so long lol some don’t even believe me.Maybe I’m naive but I don’t consider that late blooming as I was still in young adult & my early twenties. I think it’s an interesting question to ask this sub

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-02-15T14:21:53+00:00

This place gets weird on VDay when all the regulars are out celebrating.

Preme2 · 2023-02-15T14:19:59+00:00

This is a good one.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRtHydT9/

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-15T14:16:10+00:00

The waitress at the restaurant me and my girl went to last night was cool but I think it was funny to me how she circled with a yellow highlighter the gratuity section on the bill. On some you better give me this amount shit, get outta here lol. The seafood was cool tho

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-15T13:37:41+00:00

Yeah show us your beta buxx 😠

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRtHUdw1/

BN5130 · 2023-02-15T13:25:37+00:00

If I don't jerk off then my sex drive dies and I can go long without jerking off. If I break that spell out of boredom or whatever then it comes rushing back and then I am always horny.

EBZ1722 · 2023-02-15T13:08:30+00:00

It seems like a lot of modern women project their standards and preferences onto men. I've talked with a lot of guys about this and almost nobody cares how much money a woman makes or even her education level when selecting for a partner.

High level careerist women who "can't find any good men" don't realize that the vast majority of men don't care about a woman's career or income potential. Why would heterosexual men be attracted to masculine provider traits? It just makes no sense from an evolutionary perspective. These types of women can't seem to connect the dots.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-15T13:02:03+00:00

I find it fascinating that men would rather simp for a woman who constantly dates assholes instead of moving the fuck on and pursue women who arent dysfunctional.

Thus, ironically proving theyre no better than the women they complain about. She’s an idiot who keeps pursuing shitty men. ‘Nice guys’ are idiots who pursue shitty women.

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-02-15T12:28:38+00:00

I’ve seen multiple post about women upset that their guy didn’t book dinner or take them out. Do they not know how to book a reservation themselves and say to the guy “hey we are going here at this time”?

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-02-15T11:50:41+00:00

What is a Chad??

Apparently it's not enough to be in a certain high percentile of looks, he has to actively do ONS/casual dating.

What's the consensus, can a "chad" be in a monogamous relationship?

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