Daily Community Chat Megathread

autisticgoober · 2023-03-18T11:14:54+00:00

It’s….revealing, to see how many women turn racist, sexist and hateful when men speak of going abroad to find companionship. The mask of leftist tolerance quickly disappears when their own interests are threatened. Disgusting.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-18T23:26:26+00:00

One of the most challenging aspects of navigating online dating as a man is the sheer heterogeneity in courtship preferences women have.

One woman may prefer to message back and forth and make small talk for a week or two in order to build comfort before agreeing to a date.

Another woman would fucking hate that and get bored after 3-5 messages and dip.

For first dates, one woman may prefer fancy, “high investment” dates like nice dinners or cooking classes. And asking her out to coffee or ice cream may turn her off as low effort.

Another woman might take an invite to drinks as a sign the guy just wants to get her drunk for sex.

One woman might truly want to go 50/50 on dates when she likes a man because she doesn’t want to feel like she owes him something.

Another woman will prefer the man plan and pay for the first couple dates.

One woman may prefer more chivalrous behavior, like opening the door for her, pulling her chair out, and walking on the outside of the sidewalk.

Another woman might take offense to that as if you’re belittling her.

It’s a minefield out there, gents. You never know what you’re gonna get, and every sequential step along the way is a step where you could fail because you just don’t know what she wants. And god forbid you ask what her preferences are because you should just know, ideally. Otherwise it’s unsexy to ask.

It’s like how some women secretly hope you’ll buy them flowers and don’t want to express they want flowers. Because if she tells you she wants flowers and you get them for her, it wasn’t genuine. You just need to know. Oh and speaking of flowers, one woman may LOVE flowers on a first date and another would be repulsed by the grand (to her) gesture.

AlysArria · 2023-03-17T23:51:46+00:00

Quite tired of the bad faith arguments in this subreddit against being a trad woman. The most common arguments boil down to: "you're stupid, child-like, and helpless." There is this assumption I'm going to unthinkingly marry an abusive man who only wants me for sex and chores. As if I have no say in who I date, who I get engaged to, and that I have no ability to assess men. That I will simply walk in to an abusive marriage, and that I have no way to detect red flags. There's also this insistence that I'm only there for sex and chores, too, that there is no possible way to have a relationship and dynamic that is deeper and more complex than that, and that I'm signing myself off to be a slave.

Continuously being disrespected and being forced to argue against people who aren't arguing against me, but instead arguing against a strawman, more-or-less defeats the point of this debate subreddit. I'm also told that I should not be allowed to make this choice, because it's simply wrong. Ironically, despite allegedly coming from a feminist perspective, it's also sexist: it assumes that all trad men are inherently abusive, and that as a trad woman I'm child-like and helpless and need to be told what not to do, that I'm incapable of making my own decisions, and need to be saved from them by more intelligent, enlightened women. That I'm just stupid and backwards.

You cannot argue for freedom of choice and self-determination and the ability to live my life like I choose, while telling me this choice is wrong and that I should be forbidden from it. It's also a poor argument to claim I'm stupid and helpless and will end up with an abusive man, turned into his slave. You also cannot say I'm "normalizing bad ways of living" or "destroying feminism," I am one person, I cannot be held responsible for the actions of others, and if your ideology is so frail that my single choice destroys it, then it wasn't going to last long in the first place.

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-18T07:15:15+00:00

Bruh someone named Tatiana (???) said hi to me as she was checking out and shook my hand and asked if my night was okay after I accidentally looked at her

Bruh that’s the most success I’ve had in 10 years, y’all were right about the haircut

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-18T08:54:02+00:00

I guava a very specific hatred of the absolute losers who think money matters for dating

Let’s present we weight money at like a very good repositioned ratio in terms of what letters Let’s say money matters 200k:1 vs looks wheee like every 200k is one point of attractiveness

If this was actually the case I would be DROWNING in pussy

Other engineers would literally date every woman in the United States in giant harems

but that doesn’t happen

A poor guy living in Chicago working at a 7/11 has 10 times as much chance to get laid as your average lose Amazon senior

Ylduts · 2023-03-18T14:32:03+00:00

SAN FRANCISCO (AP) — A 25-year-old Stanford University employee was arrested Wednesday and charged with felony perjury for allegedly lying about being raped twice last year on campus, authorities said.

Jennifer Ann Gries, of Santa Clara, first reported a false sexual attack in August when she told a nurse at Valley Medical Center in San Jose that a man grabbed her while she was at a campus parking lot, dragged her to a restroom and sexually assaulted her, the Santa Clara County District Attorney’s office said.

According to the DA's office, she described the assailant as "a Black male, slender, young, 6ft, late 20s".

In October she went to Stanford Hospital to get another rape examination and told the nurse conducting the exam that she was returning to her office from lunch when a man grabbed her arm, forced her into a basement storage closet and raped her, prosecutors said. She again declined to speak with police, they said.

Gries also claimed that she became pregnant with twins but suffered a miscarriage, authorities said.

”The investigation revealed that she was not pregnant at that time," the DA's office said.

Both of Gries' sexual assault examination kits were analyzed quickly "given the extreme public safety risk of a potential sex offender," prosecutors said, adding that the lab results "were not consistent with her story."

https://apnews.com/article/stanford-rape-claims-woman-charged-d769a7912f7bb9b04910c8698f82d383

False accusations destroy lives, the consequences should reflect that.

scwizard · 2023-03-17T22:04:47+00:00

Straight feminists are like "breasts aren't sexual stop exposing sexualizing breasts"

And lesbian feminists are like "bitch what chu talking bout?"

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-03-17T22:13:22+00:00

Someone took a picture of me while sleeping

😳😳

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-17T22:49:02+00:00

Guys cold approaching always works

You can mess up so many stuff with talking to the women but in the next 5 mins she's already forgotten about you and you can try your chance with another woman

Cold approach is the ultimate success method

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-17T23:28:16+00:00

You should always pay as a men

But this where many guys get it wrong, nobody is telling/forcing you to go for expensive dinner dates

You should always go for something cheap like ice-cream or drinks, and If she has a problem with that then that's when you know she's just in it for your money

Trust me you absolutely loose nothing when going for something cheap

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-03-17T23:48:49+00:00

If you're dating a girl who's even remotely chubby now while she's younger and trying her best to look good, just imagine how fat she will be when she gets older and when she gets the ring and stops caring. And if she's a fattie now, she'll become a super fattie, a fat mobile fattie.

You want a girl who is thin now so there is a better chance she doesn't become an ultra fattie later on. Women are like options. They depreciate with time and fatties are way OTM options.

liefelijk · 2023-03-18T01:31:43+00:00

Lol a colleague randomly mentioned part of the discussion that went into my hiring years ago. Apparently my now boss said, “Well, that Liefelijk, she’s a strong woman… are you sure that would work well?”

I am not physically strong, so that likely means he thought I was a bitch, right? 😂 We’ve had a great boss/employee relationship for almost a decade now, so it’s funny to hear about his initial thoughts.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-18T02:34:12+00:00

Women: " I don't know why men obsess over height, I wouldn't date someone under 6 feet but I'm sure some woman will"

GridReXX · 2023-03-18T03:38:53+00:00

Cheat code for the guys!

“How to seduce your gf/wife”: https://twitter.com/tnwhiskeywoman/status/1636719403097104385?s=46&t=18mGS4TNOXnXfF7WVlEUgQ

Every husband/bf understood the assignment.

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T14:30:24+00:00

"Your intimated by strong women"

No men is intimated by strong women but at the same time, no men wants to constantly battle with their women

This why men with options never date this type of women

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-18T14:38:30+00:00

Its still weird to see the manosphere insist men and women arent equal, but then want to cry oppression whenever double standards benefit women. Why get mad at women getting treated differently when you insist they are different from men?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-18T14:59:18+00:00

Just a reminder, if sex was a need to “function well”, we wouldn't have involuntarily celibate men. They would just hook up with each other to satisfy that need in times of desperation.

LaloTwins · 2023-03-18T23:06:02+00:00

Caesar once divorced his wife even though he didn't really believe she'd cheated on him just because she could've done

"Caesars wife must be above suspicion"

Based

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-03-17T22:02:08+00:00

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-17T22:19:23+00:00

Guys work on your chrisma

Am telling you the only way your gonna laid without your money is the ability to socially entertain a women

Women always value social entertainment almost more than anything, if you can entertain any type of women attractive,unattractive,boring,rude your chances of getting laid are gonna be probable not possible

Takes constant practice though

happy_discus · 2023-03-17T22:41:03+00:00

I think I just had the most awkward date ever.

Imagine getting asked (paraphrased and shortened by a ton): [ Me -> M, Her -> H]
H: Are we dating?
M: Yes we are and I have a small crush on you.
H: Cute, Ive never been told something like this. I don't really know I am very shy in this regard and like to take things slow.

This was so awkward. I am taking it as rejection but my opinion doesn't matter anyway.

Maffioze · 2023-03-17T23:41:16+00:00

Something happened a few days ago that could have killed us all. There was a huge solar storm that could have ruined the electric power grid but it missed the earth.

This something that I am more worried about than nuclear war, because the chances of this happening in my lifetime are pretty high.

EulenWatcher · 2023-03-18T00:24:29+00:00

Q4W who are in a relationship, any of you feel you are the leader in that relationship?

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-03-18T00:26:23+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@kennyreads/video/7196018921332362502?lang=en&q=kennyreads&t=1679099077535

look at the comments lmao. peterson out here exposing these bitches

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T01:02:59+00:00

I can never be smooth with women

I am a very direct person, so if am interested in a women l'll directly let her know, am also very intolerable of the nonsense they display, majority of gf l immediately called them out when they said/did stupid things around me

My brother on the other is quite the opposite, he will play and entertain a women without letting her know his interested and his more tolerable than me at the nonsense of his partner

This is why l got my first gf at 19 while he at 16

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-18T01:08:18+00:00

Is 70k to break your legs and gain 3 inches of height worth it?

potoricco · 2023-03-18T02:19:29+00:00

I seem to not be able to listen to songs normally anymore I have fried my brain. Now I just get obsessed with 1-2 songs at a time and no other songs appeal to me and I listen to them on repeat until I inevitably get sick of them

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-03-18T04:09:50+00:00

Going to a comedy show where the comedian is straight up bombing is such an uncomfortable experience. Like it’s cringe

It takes balls to be a stand up comedian man. A lot of people thought they were funny cause they made their friends laugh with the same inside jokes they were telling in high school and get exposed in front of strangers in a live show. Even the greats get bood out the building

mummydontknow · 2023-03-18T04:36:20+00:00

Q4M: would you befriend a girl that you wouldn't sleep with, given the chance?

edgyny · 2023-03-18T13:51:49+00:00

Someone should ask that ChatGPT whether James Kirk should be considered a hero or villain because Kirk destroys any and every uppity computer he encounters that dares assert an ounce of authority over living things.

CMV James Tiberius Kirk is the hero we need.

aka I'll be damned if a fucking computer is going to tell me whether or not it's "okay" not to date a slut. Stay in your lane, you lump of melted sand.

Play_Muted · 2023-03-18T14:09:47+00:00

I've noticed a trend with bluepill men being uglier, sample size is over 100 at this point

example of a bluepill guy, another example. These pictures are public, I think this correlation exists because its easier to accept the comforting lie than to accept the ugly truth.

most bp guys are ugly or below average cmv

meteorness123 · 2023-03-18T14:13:50+00:00

Mabye its because Im not a parent but some parents are unbelievably dumb. Like for instance trying to force a kid to go into a professional direction they don't want to or trying, picking a partner for them or in general trying to lead by force. It's going to cause the kid to rebel in a spectacular fashion everytime. This is basic psychological knowledge.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-03-18T15:18:23+00:00

You can tell who the dudes here who went out last night vs the ones that stayed in watching YouTube/RP content this morning just by how pissy some of the responses are under the comments. Even the dudes that it didn’t go exactly to plan on St Paddys day still sound way more chill in their responses than the other bros.

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DumpApe135 · 2023-03-17T22:03:42+00:00

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-03-17T22:28:34+00:00

My best friend told me sometimes he and his wife feel kinda guilty dropping his 6 month old off at his parents 4 days a week. He works Monday to Friday 6-2, and his wife does Tuesday to Saturday 8-4. On one hand, they are saving a fortune on child care because you know it’s free and his parents agreed to it but still. They kinda old and mom is never gonna say no. Her dad is dead and her mom lives like 2 hours away. My boys parents are like 15 mins away so it’s convenient

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-03-17T23:14:12+00:00

Whats the best way to improve sunken/baggy eyes besides sleep/water?

cantu_200 · 2023-03-17T23:24:02+00:00

Just successfully seduced another woman. I’m so grateful that I’m not an incel

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-03-18T02:06:53+00:00

I don't understand a few things....

The obsession with body count on women specifically.

The concept that high school relationships matter.

Focusing on looks instead of confidence, humor, or charm.

Plopolok · 2023-03-18T04:36:11+00:00

I'd like to express my appreciation for the author of this brilliant troll: "TIFU by... discussing consent?!, which manages to get a lot of top rated threads simply saying nta without discussing how the guy was weird. In the eventuality that the event described actually occurred, my appreciation extends of course to its woman participant.

Edit: sorry, it's a tifu not an aita so there's no nta, but that's the general idea

2023-03-18T04:54:28+00:00

The whole world is just one big giant cope designed to attack beautiful women and the small number of men they actually lust after.

The world denies this fact and censors the truth because they're basically just jealous of the most beautiful women and the men that they genuinely love, and then they replace it with a fake, money oriented culture of lies where everyone is hopped up on prescription drugs and living in fake marriages

I tell people how many women have cheated with me and they act like women are angels and this is impossible.

It's hysterical to see, meanwhile dudes like me dont work, dont do shit, just make a constant mockery of society right and left

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-03-18T05:04:32+00:00

Q4M: for reasons outside your control you are locked in prison for the rest of your life with only men. There is no way out and no women. Would you have gay sex?

purplish_possum · 2023-03-18T05:44:40+00:00

I bought a lavender linen shirt at a thrift store for five dollars this afternoon. The color of the shirt makes my skin look much darker than usual. I look like a real Puerto Rican.

lehibu38 · 2023-03-18T06:13:31+00:00

Looking for book recommendations regarding becoming more charismatic and developing emotional intelligence. Have already read how to win friends.

Much appreciated.

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-18T06:45:15+00:00

You know the worst advice I’ve ever heard and wish I never heard it was go out to bars

So here I am, again, at a bar sitting by myself drinking. It’s pretty crowded.

I’ve been going to bars for so long and just watching people for so long it’s just interfering to see how normal looking people react to each other. You got the girls making eyes at the guys trying to get them to come over, you got the guys scanning around (they usually find they eye contact they’re looking for).

It’s just interesting

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T06:47:38+00:00

Wear your watch guys, especially when talking to woman

It a symbol of status and shows you've your shit together and women love that

scwizard · 2023-03-18T07:00:22+00:00

My good friend's wife is apparently drinking every day when she has a 9 year old daughter at home.

The little girl knows "mommy's sick, so it's good not to bother her"

Wish there was a pill to cure alcoholism...

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-18T07:56:55+00:00

I’m pretty drunk

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-03-18T08:11:45+00:00

My Mum agrees that women who sleep around are damaged good, her words exactly were

"A woman that sleeps around is used goods, those disgusting hoes deserve the life of misery ahead of them."

I knew she was based, but she's definitely based after that.

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-18T08:14:35+00:00

Here’s to drink 6 and that one dude who sat next to me and then asked me to move so that someone else could sit there’s

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-03-18T08:37:13+00:00

So now AI is also reeing about body count eh

lehibu38 · 2023-03-18T09:12:33+00:00

From most important to least IMO at this moment in time. (for men trying to attract women)

Social skills/Charisma/Personality
Status
Looks
Money

The reason I put social skills first, is that a poor conversationalist or the typical unconfident/insecure man, will hinder his success greatly and be unable to maintain a woman.

Would love to see everyone's ranking especially womens input and their subsequent reasoning also :)

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-18T14:31:52+00:00

I am awake. I have a hangover. And I am about to be punched in the head in 2 hours.

I'd just like to say now that I'm not drunk one of my drunk thoughts that I realize was 100% correct.

That look women give you when you accidentally make eye contact is fucking soul crushing. It's like a 3 step process

Oh shit that guy is making eye contact with me (surprise)
Them thinking, oh my god what is wrong with your faaacee (or maybe it's because I am visibly autistic, it doesn't really matter either way) A major look of disgust
Turning away as quickly as possible

It's just fundamentally different than what most people experience at bars. I've been going and people watching for so long.

The idea of 99% of men going out to bars and hooking up with a woman is true, it's easy. All variety of shapes, sizes, looks, can do it. You can see the exact same process happening with other people except slightly differently

Oh shit that guy is making eye contact with me (surprise)
Oh shit he's kind of cute and i want to talk to him, make some ""eyes"' at him
He comes over and talks

Like I see this play out all the time. It's just they get that look of disgust when they accidentally make the eye contact with me.

lulll · 2023-03-18T14:35:14+00:00

if women want to be with 6ft+ tall men then they need to start paying extra taxes for that shit. if tobacco can be butt rammed with taxes then possession of 6ft+ tall men will be figuratively butt rammed with taxes as well

scwizard · 2023-03-18T14:46:11+00:00

I went to this bar I haven't been to in a while last night, and the bartenders were wearing pretty ridiculous outfits with like panties showing.

I don't know how their convince girls to wear that for bartender sorta money.

meteorness123 · 2023-03-18T15:00:59+00:00

Andrew Tate saying some surprisingly accurate things about the redpill

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BrviUXqfmw&ab_channel=TateHustles

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T15:29:56+00:00

"Preferences are fine just don't bash anyone"

Nope, men we are logical so we give reason to our preferences

"Why don't you wanna marry a promiscuous women"

Because she's been sexually used and emotionally traumatized to be the mother of my children

That's not bashing but giving reason behind my preference

asofiro · 2023-03-18T15:58:49+00:00

My roommate is on Hinge and apparently is just there to lurk on men's profiles and deletes matches immediately.

This is why I gave up on apps, very tiny percentage of women are actually there to date. The percentage who are willing to date are often screwed up in some way. Best option is to be out in the wilderness for a while and meet someone the old fashioned way.

nandor_the_relenting · 2023-03-18T22:53:57+00:00

QFW and QFM post comments should require age to be included, CMV AMA TTYL OMGWTFBBQ

Ylduts · 2023-03-18T22:44:23+00:00

Neuschwanstein Castle, Yannis Papadopoulos, yes please!😁 For a good time

HazyMemory7 · 2023-03-18T22:40:02+00:00

Western women: "The patriarchy!"

Meanwhile the WNBA operates at a $10 million loss every year and the US women's soccer team gets half the men's prize money, in a sport where there is 1000x more talent both domestically and internationally.

lulll · 2023-03-18T22:36:58+00:00

stop putting silicone camel toe inserts in your yoga pants you lying non camel toe heap of shit

EulenWatcher · 2023-03-18T22:36:51+00:00

Another self-doomed guy

It would be hard to believe that some people can be that clueless, but I've actually met a guy like this in real life. He could get first dates, but never a second one and it was clear as day one - he couldn't shut the fuck up about traditional gender roles and how even women were and how his exes are all bitches. Exes who have gone on exactly one date with him.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-03-18T22:33:22+00:00

It’s funny how a subject has been heavily on my mind for the past month and it’s all I’ve been seeing on PPD and other subs today. The universe works in mysterious ways.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-03-18T22:29:49+00:00

There is nothing that convince me that modern day feminists aren't just salty and bitter as a result of negative personal experiences with men. I don't think any remotely intelligent person can be deluded enough to believe that women are oppressed in western culture. There is REAL oppression of women occurring in other parts of the world, and the bickering of these privileged feminists trivializes that.

Without fail any feminist that starts posting misandrist rhetoric or talking about how women are oppressed, or talking about it in real life, they are almost always dissatisfied and unfulfilled in their romantic life. Posting in places like r/niceguys, datingoverthirty, fds. Ditto for real life. Likely overweight, likely 35+, likely single.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-03-17T23:01:09+00:00

I saw a ppd thread where a guy thought he was looksmaxxed. Women and men offered advice around losing weight, styling hair, etc. Said advice was rejected because he thought there was nothing else he could do, or that it wouldn't matter.

Just goes to show others can't help you unless you help yourself.

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-18T15:21:37+00:00

Bruh the lady who gets my coffee every morning said my haircut looks nice 👀 this is not something that’s happened before

VampireChaser · 2023-03-18T12:36:02+00:00

Most people using they/them or neopronouns are women, which just proves that women are generally more delusional.

Willow-girl · 2023-03-18T15:36:46+00:00

America in 2023: The banks are beginning to fail. Meanwhile, Republicans are worried about transgender people and Democrats are preoccupied with arresting Donald Trump for paying hush money to a prostitute.

I think we're in trouble here, folks ...

liefelijk · 2023-03-18T14:58:58+00:00

Too many men here seem to think that Blue Pill advocates prioritizing personality over everything else. But it’s literally accepting the social status quo, which teaches us that dating is a combination of appearance, personality, status, etc.

So, straight from the sidebar:

To BPers, "blue pill" is basically disagreeing with TRP, usually with it's stance on women, relationships, and/or science. Generally by agreeing with societies mainstream view of these matters (hence, the blue pill). There's no set philosophy or goal other than disagreeing with RPers, so /r/TheRedPill and /r/TheBluePill shouldn't be seen as two contrasting ideologies so much as one strategy and set of beliefs about the world and another group that satirizes and disagrees with it. To many RPers, "blue pill" is everything they used to see themselves as: doormat, "beta", "white knight", "oneitis", putting women on a pedestal, etc. It is everybody who has not taken the red pill.

VampireChaser · 2023-03-18T22:29:16+00:00

Leonardo DiCaprio is such an embarrassment. Not because he dates younger women, but because he has all this fame, status and wealth and is choosing to not do anything about that embarrassing body of his. Like at least workout 2 days a week and try to get a respectable body. Is this the 'high value' man women are desperately chasing for?

LaloTwins · 2023-03-18T22:20:03+00:00

Anyone watching UFC 286 tonight?

danish_danish · 2023-03-18T22:03:25+00:00

Imo, there is no way to know whether a girl is into you unless you ask her on a date.

I’ve heard people say that “If you have to ask whether she’s into you or just being nice, she’s not into you. It would be obvious if she was into you.” This isn’t true imo.

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-03-18T22:01:50+00:00

np.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/tk6eg0/society_needs_to_stop_telling_ugly_short_guys/

Man tries to voice his concerns/troubles on a public forum
No one even tries to recognize his perspective, instead? The man gets shamed, downvoted, rebuked, gaslit that his experience is not reality, almost none of which are even attempted to be done in a respectful way
[Individual Hypothetical] Man ends up going into deeper pockets of the internet in which his experience is validated
In turn, we see more and more manosphere conglomerates continue growing in size over the years

Yet we have people actually asking the following:

'How come men never talk about their problems?'

'How can we fix all of the mental health issues men have?'

'Why are so many men being radicalized?'

Just FYI, I get the whole woe is me schtick won't get any man anything, so it's technically the right response. With that being said, the data is there to show that at least some of his experience is definitely representative of reality.

Can someone explain to me why do people need to lie about what's obvious?

I think the best response would be something like:

"Yeah bro, I totally understand, it sucks. Men and women will disrespect you for things that are outside of your control and aren't related to your character as an individual or personality. It's also true, women will prefer men who are taller and attractive. The best thing you can do is focus on yourself and keep trying to put yourself out there and try to find something you're passionate about."

Acknowledge, reinforces, doesn't gaslight, and gives some form of direction. It's funny how the people who talk the most about having 'empathy' are the people who have the least amount of it.

throwawayofc1112 · 2023-03-18T21:58:10+00:00

Anyone looked at the amiugly subreddit? It’s a bit sad seeing all these normal looking dudes thinking they’re ugly, especially when it’s like a 16 year old

chancetolive · 2023-03-18T21:25:49+00:00

You Mr Man need sex (or temporary fixes such as wet dreams, masturbation, erotic material) as much, if not more than you need the internet, clothes, electricity, phone, computer, a comfy bed, showers and all your life's conveniences. For functioning better as a human being and having the full human experience rather than an impaired one. Everything you won't die without like food water air. All evolved actions are proxies to lead to survival and reproduction https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1386256329648611330?lang=en-GB

https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1470442180766539788?lang=en Can't reproduce without sexual release. Men need sex and no technology or social conditioning so far has changed that biological fact. Thank you to the ppders who are smart enough to see I'm right but not advocating for forced arrangements with obligated desire.

Maffioze · 2023-03-18T21:24:58+00:00

No offense but American rap is pathetic compared to this masterpiece.

https://youtu.be/seZmlnTDa2w

Preme2 · 2023-03-18T21:21:35+00:00

Q4M: Would you get a vasectomy after having children?

Ashley Graham talks about her husband getting a vasectomy

Granted she wears the pants in that relationship. I think this might be one of the most disrespectful things a woman could ever do. For her to even have unmitigated gull to approach me with something like this is asinine.

good_at_math_2 · 2023-03-18T21:10:04+00:00

If there is anything I’ve learned on this sub - as a millionaire - people need more $$$ to have control over their own lives.

Drug dealers don’t get paid much - my friend is one of the best dealers in LA and he’s trying to get into FANG with my help.

Or you know you can stay broke. Up to you guys,

Katatonicsnake · 2023-03-18T20:55:10+00:00

My mother attacked me two hours ago because she didn’t want to go to the hospital. I’m sure mothers and daughters can have excellent, loving relationships, but this is not it.

Maffioze · 2023-03-18T20:50:34+00:00

Pro-tip: play this song while having sex. https://youtu.be/yEG2VTHS9yg

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-03-18T20:44:08+00:00

Why do the guys over like age 40 here or way out of their way to boast about how awful and inconsiderate they are as husbands or sex partners?

For example:

Different kinds of polyamory/ open relationships/ side partners/ cheating

openly insulting or bullying their wives/ long term girlfriends to “humble” her or to get her to lose weight or to improve her appearance or to cook more

if they are single they have a great disdain and hatred for the women they sleep with or date

massive condescending attitude towards their female peers

Why would anyone want to date these guys? They seem like they are just plain mean and unpleasant to be around and view it we being hard or alpha.

Maffioze · 2023-03-18T20:41:49+00:00

I miss the times when I was young and ignorant. Its way easier to be happy if you're delusional.

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T20:26:55+00:00

Listen am not gonna tell you don't simp but better learn a lesson out of it

Most simps never learn their lesson which is why more simps are born, we've all simped even men among the top 10% but the difference is those men learned their lesson and wanted things to change

Even l simped during my high-school years with this girl who embarrassed me infront of her friends so obviously l wanted things to change and become better

usatman · 2023-03-18T20:26:38+00:00

Whether they like to admit it or not going through a lot of dick negatively affects women and deteriorates them significantly. There’s just something missing when a woman has dated a lot. Nothing is special. She becomes even more selfish and calculating. Men are also negatively affected but nowhere to the same degree. She is still capable of pair bonding but the bonds are much weaker and she will give up on you at the first sign of an obstacle. Not the type of women you really want to be starting a family or settling down with. Good for fucking though.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-03-18T20:24:44+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11uqb0y/you_should_not_shame_people_for_liking_someone/

My first thought was, if you're struggling or below average at all, you wouldn't be getting sexts or hookups from apps at all, or you would at least complain about all the effort and having to message hundreds of women and getting few responses in return. OP must be tall.

Of course, it checks out that OP is 6'1. Women fetishize height so much, they would even overlook that someone is obese. OP is ironically complaining about women filtering him based on something easily in his control while already getting better results than average men because of a trait he didn't earn.

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T20:19:39+00:00

Winners reinvent themselves every single time

It's not a new concept, winners never stop trying their chances while losers already give up

This is one of the biggest differences

If your talking to a women and you mess up pretty bad, you reinvent yourself so the next time when talking to a different women you've success. A loser on the other hand will loose confidence and think he will never perfect his social skill in talking to woman

Winners always find a way to win while losers always find something to complain about

Wild_Contribution969 · 2023-03-18T20:01:06+00:00

Here is a study on how teamwork dynamics differ in men vs women:

https://magazine.utoronto.ca/research-ideas/business/teamwork-men-vs-women-jennifer-berdahl-cameron-anderson/

>“Women tended to prefer egalitarian norms in work groups whereas men favoured more hierarchical structures in groups”

Then should it be a surprise that there are more men in higher positions of power and higher income than women? This study suggests men are instinctively more competitive and compete for a higher spot on the hierarchy whereas women are more commie.

So why is it a problem for feminists that the average man makes more than the average woman and more men occupy positions of power? Even in an equitable, equal opportunity society, this study suggests that such positions will naturally be occupied by more men than women, due to our biological programming making us intrinsically more competitive and hierarchy-minded.

Conclusion: Feminists will play the eternal victim until men start using testosterone blockers and the government heavily subsidizes women solely for existing so women finally have their "equality" to men.

WestCombSplit · 2023-03-18T19:57:38+00:00

Desperate people turn other peoples preferences into deal-breakers just to feed their victim mindset. Women generally prefer a 6ft+ guy but they don't value that single quality anywhere near as much as some people here make it seem

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-18T19:52:36+00:00

It’s a common belief and saying that women love attention, even from men they don’t necessarily desire romantically.

I don’t understand this. When women I’m not interested in give me attention, I don’t want it at all.

The only attention I want is from women I want. Yet it seems some women are content to hang out and talk with guys they have no romantic interest in. They’ll text the guy when they’re bored, etc. Really odd to me.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-03-18T19:46:01+00:00

I wonder how much of attraction is shaped by inherent preference vs. what people in one's environment tell them they're "supposed" to like. When I hang out with my female friends, I'll occasionally hear a conversation like this:

Girl 1: Hey, John is kinda cute. Maybe I'll try to talk to him.

Girls 2/3/4: Ew! You can do so much better than that!

Girl 1: Fine...

Now, sometimes Girl 1 will ignore her friends and talk to John anyway, but oftentimes she won't.

The same thing happens with guys to a certain extent, but it happens more with girls from what I've observed.

jobbo321 · 2023-03-18T19:23:32+00:00

What would society look like if men weren't as horny? My guess is that we wouldn't have evolved beyond apes. Good traits that are naturally selected for don't matter if you don't care whether you'll reproduce. Just eat banana and hang in tree all day.

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-03-18T19:13:52+00:00

I've lived through so many hypothetical marriages and lives in my head that I should be qualified to give married couples advice.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-03-18T18:53:10+00:00

The average age in the US is almost 40. We need a baby boom

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-03-18T18:52:19+00:00

CMV: The average young women has it a lot better than the average man in the US. Therefore, feminists should focus more on men.

meteorness123 · 2023-03-18T18:49:33+00:00

If as a woman you have decided to divorce a man despite him being a good father, she will have to deal with the consequenses.

No step-parent. The father, if he's a good father, has top priority over any step-parent and it's the duty of the woman to understand and accept that if she's the one who initiated the divorce, the priority is the well-being of her children. No step-dad, no new "love". None of that. Or at least keep it seperate from your kids and if it collides with what's best for your child, the new "love" has to go.

Any woman who goes against that is a narcisstic and selfish person.

Maffioze · 2023-03-18T18:40:01+00:00

What kind of non-fiction books do people read here?

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-18T18:35:30+00:00

Some of the bad faith, inflammatory takes I see here are mind boggling. To think that these people genuinely believe they’re promoting and suggesting reasonable, realistic, logical takes just blows my mind.

How does one’s mind become so warped? It’s frightening.

scwizard · 2023-03-18T18:34:30+00:00

I found out that the man who abandoned me and our son while 4 weeks pregnant has a whole other family and child.

This is someone who blocked me as soon as I said I'm keeping the baby. I found his mother's obituary with his partner and child listed. He didn't want me and my child and threw us away like trash and refused to acknowledge our existence and he is loving, caring for, and providing for another family.

Girls making babies with guys they really don't know at all.

iliyb · 2023-03-18T18:33:06+00:00

Why does this sub like to act most men in the US aren't fat?

Ylduts · 2023-03-18T17:49:08+00:00

Does anyone else notice that many couples look alike?

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T17:42:43+00:00

Date 6/10 at best

Talked about a lot of stuff, asked her questions in between conversations and as usual she was glad to answer them

On the other hand she really had an attractive friend that l was really trying to talk and eventually invite her over at my place but she just kept shutting me down and said she was only here to look after her friend

Which l knew was a lie but ok missed out big time

I never know why beautiful woman act like they've no sex drive towards guys but anyways my friend can have her since l was only interested in her friend

Wild_Contribution969 · 2023-03-18T17:30:37+00:00

is domestic violence human nature or a product of modern humans being confined in cramped artificial environments with artificial stressors we weren't evolved to tolerate?

are there examples of domestic violence in other primates?

Dolphin_Moon · 2023-03-18T17:29:05+00:00

Who wants to decode manspeak!!!

Had a 4th date w a guy yesterday, and we were at his apartment. More of a chiller date which was fine w me, and after much back n forth we finally had sex. I wanted to do it and theres only so much making out/heavy petting you can do before you’re like AHHH!!!

Before we had it I told him I am trying to take who I have sex w a bit more seriously and am not looking for just super casual. I said I’m looking for something a bit more substantial and can grow a bit. He said he understood, and he nodded his head in agreement but then began with “its so early-” and I’m like…IM NOT SAYING RIGHT NOW DUDE.

Anyways I decided if he was freaked out by those two sentences after we had sex then whatever. I felt comfortable doing it and wanted to and thats that. He sounded pretty jaded from nyc dating but said i was a breath of fresh air so idk.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-18T17:16:53+00:00

I love that “Sex is not a need” can bring out the most unhinged response such as “Not everyone needs to survive and live for humanity to persist.” and “For a straight man, yes, real sex is between a man and a woman”.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-03-18T17:06:11+00:00

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meteorness123 · 2023-03-18T16:36:46+00:00

People need to stop saying divorce ruins children. It doesn't. Stupid parents ruin their kids, not the divorce itself. I've seen many children of divorce turn out very well. It all depends how the parents go about it.

I sometimes kind of wish my parents would have divorced. Being a kid and feeling like you're the grown up in presence of two actual grown ups is a pretty strange experience.

Wild_Contribution969 · 2023-03-18T08:04:52+00:00

women are cringe. men are based.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-18T06:35:57+00:00

This sub is older women telling men in the highest single bracket, why they're wrong about the current dating market

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T16:34:49+00:00

Men don't benefit from double standards but they do benefit from different standards

Majority of women aren't gonna disqualify you for sleeping with multiple women but

Majority of men will disqualify a women from sleeping with multiple men

liefelijk · 2023-03-18T16:17:43+00:00

Easy dinner tonight: Sheet pan Bibimbap

On a sheet pan, roast kale, sliced red onion, corn, sliced zucchini, and red peppers in oil until tender. Transfer to bowl once finished.

Cook rice in a rice cooker or stovetop, then transfer rice to hot sheet pan and bake until slightly crispy.

Toss vegetables and rice together, add dollops of gochujang and mayo. Top with 3-4 eggs. Bake until whites are set, mix together before serving.

Ylduts · 2023-03-18T16:15:01+00:00

A young father who was driven to attempt suicide after fantasist Eleanor Williams falsely accused him of rape says he is 'destroyed' by the fact that there are 'still believers on her side' despite her being thrown in jail.

Jordan Trengove spent 73 days in prison in a sex offenders wing after Williams, then 19, claimed he drugged and raped her after they met in a nightclub in March 2019. She further alleged he came to her flat, threatened her with a knife and attacked her.

Angry locals who believed her lies targeted Mr Trengove, 22, by smashing his window and spray painting the word 'rapist' across his home.

Despite Williams being proven a serial liar, the young father has now revealed that he thinks she 'should get life in prison'. Williams was jailed for eight-and-a-half years after being found guilty of eight counts of perverting the course of justice.

The judge told Preston Crown Court on Tuesday that she has shown 'no significant signs of remorse' and her motive for lying about being a rape victim remains unknown.

Jordan was simply accused and his life was ruined. “Believe women” destroyed this innocent man’s life. This is the world we currently live in.

iliyb · 2023-03-18T16:12:26+00:00

Sex is a luxury for staright men not a need.

huhwhatokok · 2023-03-18T04:55:17+00:00

The K-pop effect is so real. Walking through the mall it was so evident in the couples I saw. Women are really just socially conditioned/marketed to like what they like.

5PointTakedown · 2023-03-18T09:30:23+00:00

If this post gets one upvote instead of going home from the bar with a woman (like most of the people who set next me did) I will instead play the Teutonic Order in Eu4 and go as the crusader TO path and form the Mongol Empire

BUT

also conquer Germany

Instead of getting laid like all of the guys around me at the bar are doing right now

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-03-18T14:51:21+00:00

Should have stuck to my rule of no women in investment banking and private equity

They are always crazy

NannersBoy · 2023-03-18T15:38:11+00:00

This sub is getting way too hostile. It looks like a front page sub at this point, just people bashing each other to earn points…

BingChilling13 · 2023-03-17T22:11:35+00:00

Women: Would you be willing to be in a relationship with a man that had slept with several men in the past?

If not, why should a man accept you if you have slept with several men in the past?

Edit: Clarification: Let's say he slept with the same number of men as you. Would you rather be with him or a man that has not slept with other men?

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-18T07:06:01+00:00

Being single is nice guys

You can date and get laid by multiple women

What men won't want that, especially in his late teens/20s

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-17T23:02:27+00:00

Ok l keep seeing this constantly so am gonna address it

Too many people here either see no value in friendship or have a skewed perception of what it is, this is gonna include felationships like FWB or where the men is sexually attracted to the women

Guys friends aren't for fucking, your friend aren't your fuck buddies, they come in your life to add value not sexually please you

Heterosexual women have a weird concept of friendship since they do sexual activities with each other apparently for "fun"

Heterosexual men are the only one's who see the value in friendship since they never do any of this sexual activities or view friendship in a sexual way like FWB, which is why guys should only have male friends

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