Daily Community Chat Megathread

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-04T21:29:58+00:00

Saw an extremely handsome guy in the gym parking lot two weeks ago. He was in his car, I was in mine. I was floored. Rarely have I ever seen someone so utterly handsome in real life. It wasn't just his facial harmony, but the fact that he looked like a young Superman. He was "classically handsome", which is quite a rare archetype of male beauty today.

I was eager to see more of him, but he drove off. As he did, I noticed a big ring on his ring finger. Obviously a man like that can have pretty much any woman he wants, he's the level of handsome that woman would unhesitantly backstab eachother for in order to secure as a mate (all social courtesies go out the window when it comes to men who look like him). The level of handsome that would prevent him from ever having platonic female friends, because they would all undoubtedly fall for him and eventually have to part ways when it turns out he doesn't feel the same. And while women would definitely compete for his affection, men around him would give him no trouble if they both had their eyes on the same woman - they know that there is no competing with a specimen like him.

He did nothing to become so handsome, and yet he still gets to reap all the rewards of it. The unfairness in the distribution of beauty amongst the human population is something we as a society need to discuss more.

4SSh01e · 2023-08-04T11:39:57+00:00

If your partner went for a massage from a massage therapist of the opposite sex, would you be upset?

AspiringMogger · 2023-08-04T10:31:28+00:00

Dating for me (and presumably men like me) is so fucking strange. Some weeks I got no hoes and other weeks I’m dating 4 at the same time.

I want to hear the thoughts of men who experience this as well. Why?

dbz__f · 2023-08-04T09:46:12+00:00

How the fuck does Donald trump have 4 criminal charges and George bush have 0? America is a broken country

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-04T07:39:06+00:00

I struggle to believe these two:

Women who have smaller breasts than I have, complaining about back pain (edit: because of their breasts specifically)
People who are under 60 and breaking apart (excluding those with obvious health issues).

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-04T06:54:10+00:00

While I don't hate subs like r/menslib, they're fighting a losing battle, they are under the same impression that women and men are the same so pretty much everything they propose will never be implemented.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-04T06:09:33+00:00

Masculinity and what it means to be a man it is not negotiable, it is very rigid and hierarchical. not living to this ideal is low status, low value, weak, and mediocrity. There is no gray area of what is means to be a man or express masculinity. There is one path, you are taking it one way or another. Either you admit you fall short or delude yourself.

For women it is different. What it means to be a women is not rigid, it is a choice and freedom express themselves.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-04T05:32:31+00:00

I just don't wanna be old and bitter. So many old people be so mad. I get though, you 40, bones is breaking down, back hurts, I understand, but why be angry at the world. Get yo shit together

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-04T04:44:05+00:00

Q4W: Ever have a professional massage go…wrong?

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-08-04T04:30:20+00:00

Haven't been on the sub in a while, or any of my social media now that we have another newborn in the house, looks like the same old in here, even though I'm sure the Jonah Hill stuff led to some animated discussions lol

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-04T04:02:37+00:00

It is striking that Angus Cloud, a normal if not ugly man, has some of the most attractive women in Hollywood releasing heart felt tributes to him. Maybe personality does matter?

saraimarsena · 2023-08-04T03:08:38+00:00

pam beasly and jim had no chemistry CMV

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-04T02:50:33+00:00

Hollywood is interesting because it’s an industry run exclusively by white liberals. There’s no right wing boogie man that the racism sexism homophobia etc in that industry can be placed on.

Slipthe · 2023-08-04T02:44:40+00:00

Just found out Barbie was named after her creator's (Ruth Handler) daughter Barbara AND Ken was named after the creator's son Kenneth...

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-04T02:34:09+00:00

It seems my rib is minorly fractured 🤔

I know it's not broken because I broke my rib in high school wrestling and it doesn't hurt as bad as it did then.

At least I hope it's only a fracture, I can wrestle on a fracture, I can't on a break. Just turning hurts a lot damn

potoricco · 2023-08-04T02:13:52+00:00

My 13yo brother is honestly delusional and immensely ungrateful. According to him he will move out at 18 to go to film school in California, and will also have a car and a house, and “will have fun everyday”. We “treat him like a baby” (he behaves like one, complains when given any chores or responsibilities, neglects his health and hygiene)

It’s honestly such a huge slap in the face of my father and mother. like it’s just so frustrating even to me just hearing this kid spout bullshit constantly because he has this idea that he’s being treated unjustly when in reality he is fucking privileged in several ways. My parents would give him the entire universe if he asked for it, and it still wouldn’t be enough.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-08-04T01:56:39+00:00

Do you think most women go through a hoe phase?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-04T01:55:32+00:00

Can someone explain to me why feminism push hyper sexuality yet want to be respected for other qualities for their talent, brain, career, etc.

Very counterintuitive. People judge you based on how you carry yourself and what you offer.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-04T01:38:00+00:00

Imagine being a woman and not wearing a white dress (while having a healthy [19-21] BMI).

A woman with a healthy body wearing a white dress in the summer looks like a majestic, relationship material princess to men. You'll be swatting off roses, boxes of chocolates and relationship offers everywhere you go. Men will all be lovey dovey over you and treat you like a princess.

Difficulty to obtain a relationship = demo mode for women

Slipthe · 2023-08-04T01:31:48+00:00

Is Roseanne Barr trying to make a come back?

Was the Ambien-alcohol Twitter racism too much to come back from?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-04T01:29:22+00:00

Q4All who think the whole "femnism ruined traditional marriage" shit

What do you think things were like for women when they had to date guys like me?

Imagine it, I'm in the 1940s and I'm working uhm...Idk some sort of high level white collar management position. Equivalent salary including inflation to what I'm making now. So I got a large house with a white picket fence and a dog.

The woman who can't work (she doesn't have education obviously) finds me and is like "Okay well, I have literally no other choice, I will marry you". And now she has to literally be in my house all fucking day, dealing with me (just imagine that) all fucking day (and even worse, she has to have sex and sleep with me) because she literally has no other choice. She might be able to bring over some other guy while I'm at work to get a miniscule amount of enjoyment in her life but it's not like she's in any way happy or even remotely satisfied with her life. Eventually this keeps going until she kills herself with alcoholism or literally just kills herself.

How is this even remotely better than what we have right now?

SianOiseau · 2023-08-04T01:08:44+00:00

Husband: "I've seen my colleagues' wives, you're the prettiest".

Nice compliment, but also he's the youngest there so it's expected. I also didn't expect men to show each other their wife's photos lol.

purplish_possum · 2023-08-04T01:07:53+00:00

2nd installment in my Rock&Roll explains it all series. Another old time classic -- Buddy Holly's Midnight Shift which tells us that even in your grandmother's day branch swinging was a thing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAuTT0sEyiU

If you see old Annie better give her a lift
Cause Annie's been a-working on a midnight shift

If Annie puts her hair up on her head
Paints them lips up bright, bright red
Wears that dress that fits real tight
Starts staying out 'til the middle of the night
Says that a friend gave her a lift
Well, Annie's been working on a midnight shift

If she acts a little funny, seems a little strange
Starts spending your money for brand new things
Tells you that she wants to use the car
Never explains what she wants it for
Brother, there just ain't no "ifs"
Cause Annie's been working on a midnight shift

Early in the morning when the sun comes up
You look at old Annie and she looks kinda rough
You tell her "honey, get on out of that bed"
She says "leave me alone, I'm just about dead"
Brother, there just ain't no "ifs"
Cause Annie's been working on a midnight shift

If you got a good mama that's staying at home
You'd better enjoy it, 'cause it won't last long
When you think everything's all right
She starts slipping round in the middle of the night
Brother, there just ain't no "ifs"
Cause Annie's been working on a midnight shift

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T01:04:16+00:00

Rate Machine Gun Kelly's mental health :

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/1PUQY4YcRq0

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-04T01:03:43+00:00

Q4W what would think about your boyfriend listening to one of these ear eating/ear kissing ASMR videos?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5LxWPDAdrE

old_new_age · 2023-08-04T00:53:26+00:00

as a black man (half but probably considered black here) I see the word "female" used a lot in the black community, by both men and women, so next time I see someone complain that "female" is a slur I'm going to call them out for racism

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-04T00:53:00+00:00

That "high value woman" thread is so hysterical. All the comments are so appearance focused. The one thing that is guaranteed to change is someone's appearance, and yet that is all some men focus on. Oh bonus, that the woman is quiet and has no opinions of her own. No wonder they are struggling.

purplish_possum · 2023-08-04T00:47:39+00:00

Lizzo's entire thing was body positivity yet she resorts to body shaming herself. Not cool!

Scarce12 · 2023-08-04T00:40:20+00:00

Is casual sex monogamy? Are "friends with benefits" / "situationships" monogamous? It seems to me they aren't, but then why do people say they're a monogamous person? I find this puzzling as I always thought monogamy was an identification you made, like homosexuality. So I don't understand people essentially saying "oh .when I was young I was non-monogamous but now I'm totally monogamous".

This runs inline with the concept of "oneitus", which is essentially an argument against holding monogamy as an ideal or a goal, that people who do so are being played by the market.

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-08-04T00:26:12+00:00

I think he’s about to propose 😬

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-04T00:24:47+00:00

What does Reddit have against duck lips

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-03T23:40:07+00:00

We will drink milk (from female cows) and eat eggs (from female chickens) but won't drink blue whale jizz (from male blue whales) despite the high protein content and each ejaculation producing 20 liters of it. Curious...

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T23:40:00+00:00

Another one (DJ Khaled voice). Rate this man, ladies :

https://media1.popsugar-assets.com/files/thumbor/hOkCHC7nFdJPRWgJ0LhZ2OUvwcc=/800x1202/filters:format_auto():quality(85):extract_cover()/2016/03/04/956/n/1922283/0191335c_edit_img_cover_file_40443412_1457121065_khal.jpg:quality(85):extract_cover()/2016/03/04/956/n/1922283/0191335c_edit_img_cover_file_40443412_1457121065_khal.jpg)

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/5b/3d/01/5b3d01695b863a4514e06a148d8f791b.jpg

potoricco · 2023-08-03T23:32:17+00:00

Irish guys 😍😍😍🍀🇮🇪 Love ireland so much

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T23:13:07+00:00

Rate this sexy man, ladies.

https://i.redd.it/ihkbg0ru1jc41.png

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-03T22:57:58+00:00

Oh BOY! Was told the cliche “You hate on incels for no reason”! And then found where incels on an incel forum praised the Oxford shooter! Even better, they posted the pictures of three of the deceased AND LAUGHED ABOUT IT.

Barneysparky · 2023-08-03T22:52:50+00:00

I'm going to make a prediction.Now that the guys here have been introduced to the concept of hypergamy is not gender specific some of them will double down (just ask them if a 40-year-old woman has the same SMV as a twenty-year-old.)

They will double down for a month, then not talk about it for six months until the next crop of pilled young men come in. During that time the propaganda people will still be here.

In the end pilled guys will figure out something else to be mad about.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T22:44:26+00:00

I'm starting to think sex isn't that important in a relationship after all. Physical contact/touching each other is. But not necessarily sex itself. Most of the time spent together isn't time spent banging it out.

Thots ?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T22:28:51+00:00

Ladies, you know what to do :

https://www.pcgames.de/screenshots/medium/2023/03/jon_snow_fitness_quer-pc-games.jpg

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T22:24:04+00:00

Funny how some men are really desperate to grow a beard. Meanwhile I can grow a good one and I still prefer to be clean-shaven (most of the time).

potoricco · 2023-08-03T22:05:24+00:00

I hate when women do their makeup and their face looks 3 times lighter than their neck it’s just so eeyeowwbsiw 🤮 we have to do better

potoricco · 2023-08-03T22:01:09+00:00

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Men

Meanwhile women: My husband doesn’t shower, almost got our child killed and can’t do anything by himself, isn’t that just sooo cute and funny 🥰

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-03T21:54:47+00:00

I think this “sexual market place value” talk is evidence of deep brain rot. The best benefits of being married are intangible and cannot be measured. I am deeply skeptical of anyone saying things like, “low/high value male/female” or “what do you bring to the table?” We should resist these weirdos!

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T21:53:35+00:00

Rate this man

https://nypost.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2022/08/samharris.jpg?quality=75&strip=all

potoricco · 2023-08-03T21:36:40+00:00

Guys I’m literally ecstatic right now

At planet fitness the maximum weight I could do on the shoulder press was 45 lb but now I just did 60 lb. 5 times. Wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T21:35:28+00:00

This subreddit wouldn't exist if people meditated and shit

LaloTwins · 2023-08-03T21:35:06+00:00

Barbie is a movie bout a communist uprising being suppressed

And they made us cheer for the bourgeoisie

keebydee · 2023-08-03T21:24:09+00:00

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Man, I really want Vegeta's muscles one day. 🤤

And maybe that Saiyan armor as well 👀

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keebydee · 2023-08-03T11:03:01+00:00

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MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-03T11:19:04+00:00

From my middleschool to highschool days, being the athlete was the epitome of male status and hence most male athletes had no shortage of female attention. In university, it was being rich. Contrary to the claim of many psychologists, I have not seen artistic talent ever be a major attractant.

How unique is my experience?

Bubbly_Taro · 2023-08-03T11:27:08+00:00

The three genders of PPD:

Man
Woman
Strawman

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-08-03T11:50:03+00:00

Women say they don’t want nice guys (I mean the real ones) because they can’t have fun and be adventurous with them. But people aren’t one sided, they come as a package. It’s there, you just need to find it.

FourthHarbinger · 2023-08-03T12:01:19+00:00

Anyone here into sports betting? I threw some money into a sportsbook account. Gonna try to turn this into an infinite money glitch. I'm sure I'm the first one who has thought to try this

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-03T12:04:06+00:00

I asked my dentist why he became a dentist and he said “well my grandpa was a dentist and so was my dad. They told me when I was young that I’m gonna become a dentist and not tot worry because they were gonna pay for my entire 8 years of schooling so I just had to worry about my studies”.

I was like well do you like it? He was like “I’m grown to like it over time”

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-03T12:10:52+00:00

One of the biggest qualities woman can have today is humbleness.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-03T12:13:41+00:00

I went to a group dinner with my GF on Sunday(8 people in total) and 2 of the people suggested hey let’s just split the bill evenly among the 8 of us and I’m like hell no lol. I’m paying for myself and my main squeeze that’s it. One of the women who suggested it conveniently ordered like 5 martinis for herself. They just also happened to be the only ones who were single and without a partner

FineDevelopment00 · 2023-08-03T12:15:48+00:00

Of all the subreddits I've ever taken a moment to lurk in, TrueRateMe is the sub I despise the most to the point I can't even hate-lurk over there. It's soullessly shallow, cruel, and its mods are some of the absolute worst of the worst on this entire Godforsaken website. 😤

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-03T12:18:54+00:00

Men here often say that a woman should check her qualities before she expects anything from a man. I’ve only ever dated men who play one or several instruments well and work in stem fields (with one exception being a finance bro). I dont play any instruments and I don’t work in stem field. Am I unreasonable?

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-03T12:31:17+00:00

About "pump and dump". Deliberately lying about intentions is obviously bad, but at the same time, isn't the first time having sex kind of an important milestone, no matter what? I'm absolutely sure that women too break things off with men if the first sex, or even just the first kiss felt "off", shit like that happens all the time. At the end of the day, I don't see why we can't give the benefit of the doubt to a man who bails after they got to have sex (or at any point). Even if men can ejaculate fairly easily, that's not all that it takes for a committed relationship, obviously, and it's not like we hold physical, mechanical arousal against people in any other context.

I seen men telling stories about how the woman they were on a first date with said she had fun and that they should totally meet again, and then she disappeared forever. Is that really that different, morally?

Heck, sometimes people in committed relationships break up for no dramatic reason, just because one side got bored of the other. Women absolutely do this too.

Again, not to say there aren't douchebag men out there, but I'm not convinced that our default outlook of men who bail after sex should be "douchebag" as opposed to "for some reason it didn't work out for him", which IS our default outlook on women bailing at literally any time.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-03T12:35:40+00:00

The women bitching about men being passport bros are hilarious. They don’t want the men who are passport bros and they could not give a shit less about 23 year old Ting Ping in Thailand who is looking for a cash cow to give her a better life

Its just women finding a reason to shit on men who they would not give a 2nd look if they passed them on the street

Infammo · 2023-08-03T12:45:58+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhitePeopleTwitter/comments/15gmaev/this_is_what_taylor_swifts_been_trying_to_warn_us/

lol love the comments

Could raising boys to despise their own gender have backfired? No no, it's Andrew Tate that's to blame.

BigCollectionFor · 2023-08-03T12:56:23+00:00

Women often shame that men prefer younger women because that they are more easily to controll. And older women know their worth and will not pit up with theams bullshit.

To summarize, she is now older and more demanding. In what way does that make women look good and men bad? It would be the equivalent of men shaming women for not wanting them when they are older and more demanding. They are bald now and refuse to put up with women who do not cook and clean the his to his liking.

That would make older men seem like bad partners. And women dumb for not dating younger?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-08-03T13:28:43+00:00

I don't get the whole "women live life on easy mode" thing because the argument is always about how easy to get sex. How is having sex with men supposed to make your life?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-03T13:30:45+00:00

Treat women as equals, watch them get the ick and friend zone you.

anonymous375555 · 2023-08-03T13:32:35+00:00

Is Sweden really that depressing for single men. Are they all unable to get a house, or create a family?

Horses4causes · 2023-08-03T13:35:49+00:00

Women lose their looks by having multiple sexual partners. Men develop a distinctly feminine visage by having multiple sexual partners. Just look at Christopher Walken and Steven Tyler. Yikes!

hungrychick404 · 2023-08-03T13:58:45+00:00

How’s your relationship with your parents? Are they together? Do they have a good relationship?

Electronic-You-1717 · 2023-08-03T14:08:10+00:00

Female equivalent of height

Horses4causes · 2023-08-03T14:12:17+00:00

How do women feel about straight dudes boning each other? Men are on the downlow nowadays. Very common.

NotMattDamien · 2023-08-03T14:21:24+00:00

Why is passport such a big issue when people don’t care? Why are women kicking and screaming online about passport bros when they don’t care? Why is this topic mentioned every other day?

NotMattDamien · 2023-08-03T14:22:12+00:00

Looseness of vagina isn’t a myth, prove me wrong. r/loosepussyland

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-03T14:29:41+00:00

Opinions : https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvfCgzuAq7l/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

potoricco · 2023-08-03T14:44:22+00:00

Fat guys that can sing 😍

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-08-03T14:45:50+00:00

Q4men what's the ideal height and weight of a woman?

Peacesquad · 2023-08-03T14:48:09+00:00

Call off the search party. Lift is safe and secure

Peacesquad · 2023-08-03T14:48:14+00:00

What did I miss

BigCollectionFor · 2023-08-03T15:15:39+00:00

What do you think about my take on why online dating doesn't work?

I am skeptical towards online dating. I have this theory on why it fails a lot. Most people meet their partners using their social network. It could be in real life, maybe at a get together?

You might point oit that most couples meet online today? Even if it is online, you mostly use social proof. It might be sliding in to a mutual friends inbox on some social media app. Instagram is the worlds largest dating app. Women are more open to give a guy a chance if other people have vetted him. Since her friends and society deemed him worthy of an invite. This is how you see short men having partners in the real world. If you have no social proof like mutual friends, you're out of luck.

Not only do men wastly outnumber women on dating apps. It also seems like average women have too many options on dating apps. I can't see how any woman can know their level. Men will fuck anything. Even women they find repulsive is better than masturbating. Women get lost by this sonce they tjink that they are giving the uhly guy a chance. But other women also want the ugly guy. So he can do better.

What do you think of this take on why most people fail with online dating?

Nyx_the_hexer · 2023-08-03T15:28:53+00:00

https://youtu.be/-K3dKMS7T_w Thoughts? Found it in my recommendations and needed something to listen on the way to work.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-03T15:37:25+00:00

It's bizarre to read early 20-somethings complain that marriage is now a choice and that it is suddenly bad for men. In fact, it seems these young men believe that women having choices is the overall problem.

Business-Ad-5344 · 2023-08-03T15:55:05+00:00

when you talk about passport bros or even if you talk about future hypothetical sex robots, you often find women getting mad in the comments. it's because pussy is all the power that they have. you're taking away some of that power.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-03T15:58:46+00:00

I otherwise wouldn't care but Icy_Ordinary blocking me makes this threat goddamn unreadable

potoricco · 2023-08-03T16:07:48+00:00

I’m not afraid of aging anymore

DerayRevan · 2023-08-03T16:13:21+00:00

"Women initiate 70-80% of divorces but why does Fresh and Fit and the red pill make this seem like a bad thing ? Are women suppose to stay in bad relationships"

It goes up whenever the woman is educated because you'll see the common cause of divorces half of the time is when she later becomes the breadwinner of the household

So yea this is the reality for how women are in marriages

But when you begin to apply a moralistic view on this saying is it a bad or good thing or saying

OMG are women suppose to stay in bad relationships

That is when it goes against your Ideology or Bluepill conditioning

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-03T16:13:25+00:00

The real dividing lines are individualism versus collectivism.

Not rural versus urban. Not men versus women. Not white versus black. Not rich versus the poor. Not blue pill or red pill.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-03T16:39:14+00:00

Ew. An ex just messaged.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-03T16:48:33+00:00

Whenever a woman makes a Q4M post about passport bros or male preferences on traditional/submissive women

I already know it's in bad faith lol

DerayRevan · 2023-08-03T17:04:10+00:00

Listen if your get into a relationship as a man

You need to least know the relationship is always at risk of ending since l've many times

Women's hormones,emotions,feelings change every single

One day she's happy being around you and other she doesn't want you around her

It's how they are

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-03T17:09:42+00:00

If there is some massive social and societal pressure on women not to be fat, it’s clearly not working in America.

Again maybe in other countries.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-03T17:10:38+00:00

Everytime women describe a relationship it immediately becomes very female, about

Emotionalism,50/50 shit,communication,

And you got all this male dorks taking them seriously and going to them about relationship or getting a girlfriend

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-03T17:19:24+00:00

I don’t think acting platonically towards a woman makes her lose interest in you/auto friendzone. Imo too many women have stories about unrequited crushes for that to be the case. But bending over backwards to be friendly is a waste of time and effort. Also if she’s into you, she won’t solely act friendly.

keebydee · 2023-08-03T17:20:16+00:00

I'm the only person I know that has never had any romantic interactions now. My younger brother has never had a girlfriend either so I assumed we were in the same boat but apparently has had numerous occasions where he's been hit on and could've had sex. A women flat out asked him if he wanted a hand job one time.

I tried asking more stories but he stubbornly refused. It drives me up a wall when someone brings up a juicy topic about their life but won't share stories for whatever reason. Like, why'd you say something in the first place then, asshole? 😒

Anyways, it did make me feel bad for a little while but what can you do?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-03T17:53:38+00:00

If you hang out on diet subs so many people with eating disorders will post as if the fact that they just became underweight isn't a problem. They're like "how can I restrict my calories more?" "How do I stop binging after eating sub 1200 calories for several months?" I can't tell if it's a cry for help or a complete lack or self awareness.

Or they are in recovery and they are asking how they can stop gaining weight (they are still underweight). The mental gymnastics are insane.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-03T17:54:30+00:00

I could be a passport bro without it being predatory

Because I am so disabled I'm basically unable to consent to sex or a relationship, therefore there is impossible to be a power imbalance with anyone I date

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-03T17:55:32+00:00

Here's the easiest way to reduce obesity in your community.....

Unite and ban those restaurants, stores and fast food places from your community. Also put into place limitations on what drinks and foods can have in them, to make sure they aren't disregarding the impact it'll have on the health of the customer

Boom, now you have a healthier community. But no it won't happen because the companies make too much money and you've been convinced that it's all your fault and not companies spending millions of not billions to figure out how to make you addicted. Personal responsibility obviously comes into play but there's zero responsibility placed in the hands of the government for their oversight and the companies for their negative impact

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-08-03T18:00:26+00:00

Whats the funniest thing you've seen on here?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-03T18:01:13+00:00

If you build a relationship where the man is the captain of the ship and then something happens to the captain of the ship incapacitating him to be captain (for example illness, depression, some unfortunate event, etc) your wife will probably don't know what to do.

It's a role she's not used to

don't come crying when she leaves you for a more competent captain.

in relationships where nobody is the leader, she will be able to stay by your side because she's a partner, not an employee.

Exciting_Pay_1898 · 2023-08-03T18:10:08+00:00

Let's set aside "being happy," "having sense of wholeness," or anything like that. Let's focus on solving one problem: how do we get me a girlfriend?

Don't tell me "self improvement" only for me to tell you that it won't work, and then for you to tell me that I should "self improve" for its own sake. We aren't trying to solve the problem of me "improving," we're trying to solve the problem of getting me a girlfriend.

philseven12 · 2023-08-03T18:15:56+00:00

Drunk thought: I wish I could find a woman that would "allow* me to be nice to her or honor her without her using it as a weapon against me. If I'm nice and straight forward with women I meet, they wanna slime me out.

why are women so messed up in the head that any dude that try to do right by them they act up? If I treat you nicely you act like I'm a goofy but if I send a dick pick the you down for the get down. Wtf is up with that?

Im not in the business of trying to finesse women or act like I'm above them but they punish me for being civil. I know the game and protocol but where are the women who are mature enough to enjoy a compliment?

It's like you can't say nothing positive to a woman without her taking it as a pass to step on you. I can be toxic, but WHY do I need to be toxic?

No good deed towards women goes unpunished

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-03T18:36:02+00:00

Men ask other men for dating advice and then wonder why they aren't successful.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-03T18:42:35+00:00

Having legit ADHD can make you a non-functional organism, unable to act upon your mind's imperative.

How have you solved this ?

Peacesquad · 2023-08-03T19:09:28+00:00

I like ugly girls as long as they’re attractive

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-08-03T19:11:16+00:00

Are you acquainted with anyone who is promiscuous? How do the parents feel about their kids' lifestyle?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-03T19:21:05+00:00

"Is Kobe Bryant a overrated defender"

Kobe made 12 all defense teams and 9x first selections

Same amount as MJ

But Phil Jackson did say he made many of those appearances later in his career and due to his reputation

And l agree with that because if you look past his winning championship days, Kobe had too many times were he let the offense easily get past him

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-03T19:36:35+00:00

Ah, the good old days when my parents arranged 3 wives for me... but feminism took them away and I'm now feeling oppressed.

At least usually when I leave my home, I am greeted by a business man in a suit with a warm smile and a firm handshake, who appreciates my achievements.

potoricco · 2023-08-03T19:48:36+00:00

Son obsession go brr

My moms friend is over 45+, has 2 daughters, is ill but still trying for a son. My aunt, my moms sister, adopted a child and when we went to the friend’s house, she was asking my mom to ask her sister to hook her up with adoption agencies. For the past many years or so she has been telling the daughters they will have a brother. They are hardcore Christians and they literally spent a month praying on a mountain last year. Nobody has the heart to tell her that that ship sailed a long time ago

It’s just so Ughh. I wish people knew that daughters are enough. You don’t need a son to legitimize your family.

As for how I know about this stuff? Eavesdropping on my parents

DerayRevan · 2023-08-03T19:51:03+00:00

So the quickest way in grabbing a woman's interest used to be money and still is unfortunately in 2023 especially if your living in a low income 2/3rd world country

Nowadays looks do a effective way of doing that

Status has always grabbed woman's interest, because if drake or whoever celebrity or athlete walks in,the women are gonna line up since they know what time is it

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-03T19:52:36+00:00

Why do men feel as if they have to have their life figured out before they start seriously dating?

Nice to a see a woman vaguely comprehending/noticing something about how dating is as a man.

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-03T19:58:58+00:00

Rosie Cotton is cute as fuck.

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-05T02:38:30+00:00

Has anyone else noticed the "glow" that many religious women have?

I saw it firsthand when I attended a church roughly 4 years ago. But I see it on Christian women online too, for example this girl or this girl. For me, that glow signals "purity", and purity is so important, I just feel like I'd be missing something huge if I settled down with a partner who didn't have that glow. As if I'd look at my partner's face, but feel like I were staring into a void.

What even is that glow? Where does it come from? Why don't I notice it as often in non-religious women? I'm not even religious myself. I've noticed the opposite in people who live hedonistic lifestyles, they often have a kind of soulless look to their face - for example, whenever I searched up ASMR women on Youtube I noticed that most of the women lacked that glow and had a promiscuous vibe to themselves, and for me personally it doesn't matter how physically attractive someone is, if they give off promiscuous vibes I lose interest immediately. Literally immediately. I just have no attraction to people who seem promiscuous or hedonistic, only women who seem monogamous and traditional.

Does anyone understand this "religious glow" phenomena?

Is it immoral to pursue a religious woman if I'm not religious myself?

purplish_possum · 2023-08-03T21:17:37+00:00

This makes me oddly happy:

Donald Trump appeared to stumble over his words when he was asked to state his full name and age at his arraignment on charges of attempting to overturn the 2020 election.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/trump-news-today-arraignment-indictment-b2387336.html

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-03T21:02:12+00:00

It’s weird how mostly everyone can agree that managers are super important in sports and the difference between a good and bad manager is enormous, but when it comes to CEO suddenly it’s not important at all and any idiot could run a fortune 500 company.

4SSh01e · 2023-08-03T20:53:36+00:00

How much do you all leg curl? I tried it for the first time today and did 50 kg for 17 reps after rest of the leg workout (paused ass to grass, touch and go ass to grass, and pistol squats)

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-03T20:47:25+00:00

>There are people willing to date you right now

>No there are not

>Yes there are you just have to [change your base personality] therefore there are people willing to date you

I just...do people not know how words work?

Maybe it's that some people do not realize how temporal reality works? The word "now" and "later" and "in the past" have no meaning to them? I've heard there are people who cannot conceptualize the concept of time, have I met one? Apparently there are languages out there without the concept of time, maybe that's what's happening.

potoricco · 2023-08-03T20:45:00+00:00

Why are all of the r/teenagers and related subs filled with almost dumbass users? Who think saying things like “LOL FOLLOW ME IF YOU LIKE FEMBOYS POOP FART CUM BOOBS LOL OOP-“ is peak comedy????? Is it too much to ask for one????? subreddit with normal chill users? But if I complain I’m the villain

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-03T20:43:06+00:00

Anybody here have sensory issues that make touching/being around other people uncomfortable or impossible?

Sometimes I can't be close to someone. If I can smell their breath, I can't breathe. Touching their skin feels like bugs are crawling on me. When they say certain words, especially with "s" or "t" sounds, it's like nails on a chalkboard.

Someone shook my hand today and I got a shiver in my spine. Why am I like this? Make it stop.

Kero_9 · 2023-08-03T20:31:07+00:00

So Apparently the usual phrase that you need to love yourself before you can love others is just not correct

I watched a therapist on tiktok explaining that women with low self esteem and depression have the ability to love and they absolutely can have a healthy relationship

Ironically the word men wasn’t mentioned at all 🤷

HolidayWhile · 2023-08-03T20:00:44+00:00

Sex before marriage is just cheating on the spouse you haven't married yet.

Fite me.

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