Daily Community Chat Megathread

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-04T17:49:06+00:00

If men want more compliments, they should compliment each other.

gabejohn · 2023-09-04T17:43:02+00:00

The power of love is a curious thing.

Make a one men swipe, make another man simp.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-04T17:36:49+00:00

Why can't I consume media in a normal way? I just finished the second season of Good Omens and it left me an emotional mess.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-04T17:17:57+00:00

Most men's standards these days:

Don't be fat
Don't be masculine
Don't be promiscuous
Be cooperative

That's all men want. Why do most feminists have a problem with this?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-04T17:16:46+00:00

What are your thoughts on this:

https://reddit.com/r/ask/s/cMIhYSbKTS

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-04T17:13:30+00:00

Q4All: Should I get a Rolex Oyster Perpetual 34

If I'm going to buy something luxury I want it to be the cheapest possible luxury because it just feels...weird to go higher than that. But I like the bloo color

https://www.chrono24.com/rolex/oyster-perpetual-blue-dial-smooth-bezel-steel-mens-watch-114200--id29878527.htm

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-04T17:00:12+00:00

Irl guys don't have the perspective on fertile Women that RedPill internet warriors do. Some single 35 year old Men will be more inclined to date a 29 year old because they don't want to be with someone who's worrying about the biological clock

Fertility is rarely used as a reason for why some guys prefer to date a 21 year old

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potoricco · 2023-09-03T17:01:14+00:00

First

potoricco · 2023-09-03T17:01:20+00:00

Second

potoricco · 2023-09-03T17:01:31+00:00

And third

demedermidimi · 2023-09-03T17:18:58+00:00

the fuck do you wear in 19-23 degrees c with extreme humidity

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-09-03T17:24:10+00:00

I just posted what might be the most comprehensive thread to maybe stop some of the senseless division on this subreddit and it's been awaiting mod approval for like an hour even though none of my far lower quality posts have had to wait that long...crazy.

potoricco · 2023-09-03T17:38:15+00:00

for my birthday should I have a slumber party? my birthday is on the 23rd and we don’t have school the Monday after my birthday so its a 3 day weekend maybe I could do something then

saraimarsena · 2023-09-03T17:43:53+00:00

on a date kinda nervous 👀🥂💖

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-09-03T17:57:31+00:00

My dumb ass went for a swim in the frigid ocean yesterda and I think I'm a bit sick today. If it isn't the consequences of my actions....

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-03T17:57:47+00:00

What is wrong with simps?

How can someone no be attracted to people who would do anything to please them?

DesolateDanse · 2023-09-03T17:59:14+00:00

I wish I was a pretty girl so I could post on those face rating subreddits and get free validation via “🎣“ “OF???” and “sexy girl ❤️❤️❤️” comments instead of “a little makeup goes a long way” and “4/10. Poor facial harmony. Consider jaw surgery, brow lift, and a nose job.” 💀

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-03T17:59:45+00:00

Just got home from my long run with a running group.

One of the guys in my pacing group is so cute. I invited him to join for post run refreshments, but he had plans. He suggested we plan something for next week.

Later today, a friend and I are going out looking for action. 🍆

pterry-dactl · 2023-09-03T18:08:36+00:00

I went to a nudist beach for the first time today.

I went in the sea and thought 'I'm missing something, I feel naked' then realised that I was just naked.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-03T18:11:07+00:00

it is rage inducing to see men constantly bitch about tinder, but refuse to stop using it and expecting people to feel bad for them.

You can tell these were the kind of kids that kept putting their hands on the stove and still couldn't figure out why their hands kept hurting.

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-03T18:15:00+00:00

I always thought that America contains all ethnicities from all over the world. So when passport bros say we will travel thousands of km to have a wife, that always puzzles me. Dude I am pretty sure that any group of people in the world have some community in America.

That and also where would you go? Where would Americans go to find a spouse? And where would they never go? For men and women.

Adding00 · 2023-09-03T18:43:32+00:00

A nontraditional woman wants a traditional man to romance that will have no commitments, obligations, or responsibilities to. Ok, then what? Then she wants more of something else. A toy to pull out of the chest. Play with it. And put it back whenever she wants. Then demand no one else touch they toy, as it waits in the chest ( even if she's already playing with another toy or not ) . Any the problems the toy has, must stay with the toy, until she's ready to deal with it. The point is not to settle, even when she gets what she wants ( or if she loves him or not ) . There's always another life aspiration that must be explored.

Women romanticize that kind of reassurance, safety, and support ( it's the support that attracts them ) . But they also want to either throw it away on a whim to avoid dependency, or hurtle challenges at it based on expectations. Want the experience of being in love for the first time, all the time. It's a long distance open relationship, but close up. A best friend that acts as a reoccurring guest star. Expecting a safe space to always be available for her, with no downvotes or disagreements. Looking to be enabled, keep at arms length from the bad stuff, and stay a priority. Anyone whom endures the gauntlet, must be ' the one ' ( if she so chooses ) .

If there was a popular character to visualize what nontraditional women want in connecting with men, it would be the Elaine and Jerry dynamic from Seinfeld ( if you delete George and Kramer ) . Elaine lives alone, has her own career, no kids, dates whomever she wants, but still hangs out with Jerry ( and have sex once in a while ) and goes on misadventures together. Jerry is equally independent of Elaine. They have no responsibilities or obligations to each other. What if they were in a relationship during the entire series run.

Women like emotional conflict and activity, but only as long as it's comfortable. Gives a sense of fulfillment. The pursuit makes sense, but it's still a fantasy built at the mans expense, while he gets what she's only willing to give ( he's not supposed to ask for anything in return ) . Women want to be chased, but dictate the terms on how the chase progresses. Even then, there's no way of telling what will affect it will have on men or society ( written or unwritten rules or roles ) . Can't demand someone to be reserved, while you get to be unhinged. But that doesn't stop a woman from desiring it. No matter how much power you have, communication and compromise is still key. Women have to love men as unconditionally as they expect men to do for women.

old_new_age · 2023-09-03T18:43:46+00:00

alright I made an okcupid profile and got 30 likes in 12 hours, was super confused because that's not my typical OLD experience, turns out more than half of them were from the philippines; changed my location to manila, got more likes/matches. do they all want a green card? I don't present as very rich and I'm only 23 so I don't think I appear as a high quality sugar daddy. if they actually just like my profile/what I look like then I think I understand passport bros - as a black man in America I only match with 400 lb white women and this is a different experience. again, I'm open to 100% of them being scam artists. I know I'm late to this party but lol

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-03T18:43:49+00:00

I'm convinced nightclubs are the most degrading environment.

You as a guy have to pay a $10-20 cover (more in some places) for a chance to enter the establishment. You get taxed because the owners understand how badly you want to get in and monetize it. So you pay, go in, and then compete with every other group of 3-4 single guys who had the same brilliant idea that Friday.

The women get in for free, but the price they pay is being the product. On some nights they might want to be go for their friends and some drinks and music, but have to deal with the thirsty sausage fest and occasionally even sketchier personality.

Seems like a scam. Even working/owning that place means having to deal with the constant loud music, hustle culture, artists, local gov, etc. bullshit. I can't imagine it's that good (unless it's really profitable).

I've had good nights out at clubs. But bruh tell me this isn't the dynamic.

shanshkrishur · 2023-09-03T18:59:02+00:00

Why do women say that men are “intimidated” when men don’t want to deal with a woman for any given reason?

For example, I saw a video of a woman saying she revealed that she is a роrn star and her date walked out on her. She then claimed that the man was “intimidated” by her being a роrn star. Or a common thing that women like saying is that men are “intimidated” by combative women, women their age or women who make more money than them. Basically anything about a woman that a man doesn’t want, all of a sudden it’s reframed as that grown men being “intimidated” by women whom not even their own cats would be afraid of.

Imagine the roles reversed and the absurdity of a man saying that women are “intimidated” by short men, balding men, broke men, misogynist men, incel men, etc. It would scream delusion, yet when women say that them being combative, adult actresses, 35+ year olds, etc. makes them “intimidating”, they don’t see the obvious delusion in that line of thinking.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-03T19:16:14+00:00

I really wanna know who made this whole narrative of men wanting validation through sex popular

Because that has to be the most laughable thinking l had around here and so incredibly wrong

meteorness123 · 2023-09-03T19:22:38+00:00

Lebron James and Eminem talking about growing up without a father. You can still the disappointment in their eyes, decades later :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6hMjyCtfxhw&ab_channel=MartinLondo%C3%B1o

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/t2P_0v8WWlc

demedermidimi · 2023-09-03T19:27:43+00:00

anyone else find hollywood type sex scenes in shows and movies insanely uncomfortable? im fine with them when they're a bit more chill and realistic but the over the top mood lighting, dirty talk, perfect hair makeup and lingerie and orgasming at the same time and then rolling over is so insufferably cringe i don't know why

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-03T19:29:13+00:00

Whiny men: It’s not fair that the average woman thinks she’s too good for the average guy.

What they think are the average girl - E-thots, mean girls, Party girls, bimbos, girls who are extremely conventionally attractive and popular with boys.

Hard To Swallow Pill time! Real life is far uglier than what you jack off to on your screen.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-03T19:55:15+00:00

The Gang starts a Webcam business

Dennis gets the girls and helps kidnap them

Frank is the financier at the beginning and cooks the books to make sure that the gang takes the money from the women

Dee is angry that she's not one of the kidnapped women because she is too old and ugly

Charlie thinks that all the women are super into it and is happy that Dennis is helping them out

And Mac is the muscle who keeps the girls in line

Maffioze · 2023-09-03T19:57:32+00:00

Nothing makes me more annoyed than people telling others they are uneducated when really just mean they are not indoctrinated like they are. Really reminds me of religions idiots forcing their beliefs upon everyone.

happy_discus · 2023-09-03T19:58:34+00:00

8 really don't understand the point of posts like this: LINK I've approached over 100 women since January and gained nothing from it no experience, no dates, nothing. Am I allowed to voice my discomfort now?

BLKSKNHED · 2023-09-03T20:13:37+00:00

hilarious, if male content creators didn't exist social media would be no different to pornhub. Inb4 "it's your algorithms fault my feed only has cats and dogs🤓"

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-09-03T20:23:13+00:00

Q4M aged 25 or over:

Would you rather date an 18 year old or a 28 year old?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-03T20:23:19+00:00

CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNKCM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK

Firm_Shirt_2553 · 2023-09-03T20:23:45+00:00

WOOOO REDDIT LIFTED MY SHADOWBAN

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-03T20:33:11+00:00

Looking into sterilization. Apparently there is a gynecologist in my state who does it for childfree women over the age of 25. I'll have to start saving for it I guess. Although going through a surgery I don't "really need" (as in not medically necessary) irks me, but it would still give me more peace of mind.

Odd_Bluejay4019 · 2023-09-03T20:38:48+00:00

The only reason LillthOfBabylon hasn't been banned is because she's a woman.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-03T20:42:53+00:00

CMV:

Men live life on ULTRA HARD DIFFICULTY mode

potoricco · 2023-09-03T20:45:34+00:00

Gotcha!!!

https://preview.redd.it/cw93dkegr3mb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6e89532e32e34cc635d1e5380d6f8427a9af1ca7

Im actually fucking smart holy shit !!

meteorness123 · 2023-09-03T20:46:45+00:00

0:38 this is how I impress women

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o166h2OOo-k&ab_channel=FinneganMcBride

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-03T20:50:22+00:00

The girl I hooked up with last week just sent me a text

wyd

But I'm meeting a different girl for a date tonight

How do I respond

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-03T21:00:09+00:00

I'm not gonna make this a post but I did want to address something:

When women come here and debunk things like 80/20 rule, and the dual mating strategy evo pysc theories. Your coming in with anecdotes " well my friends boyfriends are a,b,c", thats just not enough.

Like I was just reading a article about how dual mating strategy where women pick the most attractive guys for short term dating isn't a general trend. It only applies to the most sexually promiscuous women , which is like 10% of the population. Most women aren't out here having casual sex with only the most attractive guys or any casual sex at all.

Or like when guys here say " the most attractive women on dating apps are banging all the Chad's". The most attractive women actually report less sexual partners then less attractive women. Like saying " you know my friend group we are all attractive and we've only had sex 2 times this year ". Thats like not enough.

These dudes are coming with established research and their cleverly misinterpreting data to suit their agenda. Even if they are being dishonest, like some of guys here are actually pretty well read. They aren't just idiots walking around. They just have a agenda they want to push. They can make really compelling dishonest arguments.

Just an observation

Willow-girl · 2023-09-03T21:12:37+00:00

Holy pentagrams Batman! I flipped that Cradle of Filth T-shirt on eBay for $80! It's funny because I went to Goodwill looking for a pair of jeans which I didn't find. Guess I can take the money I made and just go to Old Navy now, lol.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-03T21:25:49+00:00

Are/Were you more productive during the day or in the evening ? Seems to me like day time is better. Everytime I tell myself that I'll just do it later, I end up switching into "comfy mode" in the evening and not do anything at all.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-03T21:27:36+00:00

What did I miss

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-03T21:30:36+00:00

Q4All: Would you fuck a dragon (you can fuck him, i doubt him fucking you would really work if one of your goals is to live) if he promised you all of his gold in his horde

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-03T21:33:57+00:00

Yet another baller day my guys, I got to go to a fancy grocery store

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-03T21:35:28+00:00

People seem to forget that the 63% of young men are single stat was only about relationships. That doesn't mean the guys aren't dating and fucking around. Also, there’s this thing with Gen Z called Situationships. A bunch of young people don't know what they're doing and aren't communicating about if they're officially a couple or not.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-03T21:38:39+00:00

Rate this guy, ladies :

https://i0.wp.com/allresultbd.com/ent/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Jack-Denmo.jpg?fit=400%2C500&ssl=1

https://london.ctvnews.ca/content/dam/ctvnews/en/images/2021/10/22/jack-denmo-1-5635096-1634944099164.jpg

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-03T21:43:06+00:00

Question

Can you see a future where women in general date up in looks rank, or at least lower portions of the SMP clear with the norm being for women to date up in looks rank?

(Using looks RANK to bypass arguments over whether women are objectively better looking than men)

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-03T22:00:22+00:00

I had a discussion with my mother about body count. She said that a reason women could potentially have a high body count is because since men typically are not good at sex, she has to sleep multiple guys to finally figure out what gets her off. 🤨🤨🤨 How true is this statement because I've never heard this before. Sleeping with a certain number of guys in order to learn what pleases you sounds off.

gabejohn · 2023-09-03T22:01:44+00:00

When in doubt, look what chimps & monkeys do.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-03T22:03:30+00:00

Ladies, rate George Clooney for his age :

https://assets.cdn.moviepilot.de/files/7e2c237c8c384724cb1fa40636154e0e3e6d16ce420241cbc05c305be3c3/fill/1200/576/Clooney.jpg

https://photogallery.indiatimes.com/celebs/celeb-themes/sexy-after-50/photo/28377939/Sexy-after-50.jpg

gabejohn · 2023-09-03T22:06:55+00:00

Cucks who genuinely think that paying on the first date improves your chances are the funniest.

She decided whether she wanted to fuck you within the nanosecond of seeing you. All you can do is not fuck it up by saying weird shit.

potoricco · 2023-09-03T22:26:02+00:00

Guys someone I know has 33k tiktok followers

potoricco · 2023-09-03T22:30:11+00:00

I aspire to be this bling

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-03T22:30:52+00:00

You've literally reduced men's loneliness and their emotional need for love and romantic relationships to "wah I can't use women for pussy and have a harem!!!"

When all they do is look up to fuckboys and talk about fuckboys, of course that will be the conclusion.

Hopeless romantics dont sit around obsessing over dysfunctional relationships of cheaters, felons, abusers, etc. Nor do they get jealous the unhinged women not wanting them.

potoricco · 2023-09-03T22:39:00+00:00

Christmas soon❤️

Maffioze · 2023-09-03T23:20:27+00:00

One of my most controversial opinions is probably that a lot of those exact sciences types of guys criticising the social sciences are completely justified in doing so. There are so much issues with ideology or even just personal beliefs being sold as science in the social sciences. The only people who generally deny this are these exact same people doing these things.

baiser_vole · 2023-09-03T23:21:34+00:00

How do people do low weight high rep without getting bored… I was bored out of my mind today.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-03T23:36:20+00:00

Q4M: what makes a girl a starfish? I struggle to imagine someone will just lie there completely still but there’s not much you can do with all a man’s weight on top of you other than some kegels and use your hands. What participation are you expecting during missionary?

Or does it mean they don’t even get on top as well? Throw it back a lil?

meteorness123 · 2023-09-03T23:37:17+00:00

Life for men is about conquest, finding your tribe and competence and aiming towards things. For women it's about memories and feel good type of things, etc. I did not understand the difference when I was younger which caused great suffering.

afk_row · 2023-09-03T23:46:52+00:00

Any of you use antidepressants? Any side effects and how do you feel?

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-03T23:59:20+00:00

Theoretically, would it be possible to quantify certain aspects of the dating market just like we do with the economy?

GPD, Gini coefficient, etc.?

I know there's a lot of statistics floating around, but I'm talking KPI's here,

Aggregate intimacy
The relative difference between men/women

dbz__f · 2023-09-04T00:22:00+00:00

Why does taking a shit feel so much better when it’s at work?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-04T00:28:12+00:00

Question for the lifters out there: Should I be trying to increase my lifts while in a cutting phase?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-04T00:32:09+00:00

I get why the rules exist, but there was actually some good discussion going on with the race post 🙃

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-04T00:44:59+00:00

What should I have as a side for my chili? Rice or tortilla chips?

Odd-Diet6704 · 2023-09-04T00:48:06+00:00

Whenever you see the body count shouldn't matter message its always towards high n count women. I never hear it mentioned for older virgin guys and I thought women wanted equality. Those men have a right to be angry with the hypocrisy of women.

Maffioze · 2023-09-04T00:59:39+00:00

"Women's preferences for penis size may affect men’s comfort with their own bodies and may have implications for sexual health. Studies of women’s penis size preferences typically have relied on their abstract ratings or selecting amongst 2D, flaccid images. This study used haptic stimuli to allow assessment of women’s size recall accuracy for the first time, as well as examine their preferences for erect penis sizes in different relationship contexts. Women (N = 75) selected amongst 33, 3D models. Women recalled model size accurately using this method, although they made more errors with respect to penis length than circumference. Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners. These first estimates of erect penis size preferences using 3D models suggest women accurately recall size and prefer penises only slightly larger than average."

These are always the funniest studies to read lmao. I am just imagining these women sitting there rating dicks.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-04T01:23:45+00:00

bro is about to learn the hard way

potoricco · 2023-09-04T01:50:11+00:00

I'm actually afraid of dust

I have this like crevice that i really need to sweep under but ive been postponing it for months because i dont want to lift it up and see dust 🤢 I usually get my brother to deal with that

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-04T01:52:55+00:00

People on here like to say that you can pursue casual sex but it becomes "monotonous and shallow" after a while, I'd argue the same for long term relationships, which this same people seem to believe are more meaningful.

I've had both, short term casual sex is more fulfilling.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T02:24:26+00:00

Im actually kind of mad that for our summer reading i think they (DELIBERATELY) chose a book that was kind of obscure so we cant find it on like sparknotes or something and we actually have to read it

They gave us jane eyre last year and i read like one chapter at most. It was sooo boring but i still passed the assignment Lmaoooo

potoricco · 2023-09-04T03:02:45+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/3654l2aqm5mb1.jpeg?width=2664&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0aca75a46fa81f66ef5a6d1b97b08a7d167a9d4a

My dad gave me this phone case out of nowhere and its kind of ugly, bulky and masculine but trust me I will find a way to make it bling

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-04T03:24:11+00:00

Meet Scooter: He was hired to be my clerical assistant in the late 90’s. The deal for him was the same one I got, work for someone already experienced/successful to learn the business for a year then you’ll be promoted and have your own accounts/clients. It’s his first day on the job & I ask him to fax something for me. His response: “Suck my dick”.

Can you imagine?

potoricco · 2023-09-04T04:18:05+00:00

I HATE REDPILLERS!!!!!!

Slipthe · 2023-09-04T04:34:53+00:00

Pre-selection is kind of silly when I think about it.

Because you were attractive enough for someone to select you to start the pre-selection.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T04:36:31+00:00

Why do people hate gender reveal parties? I get hating the ones where they do over the top dangerous stuff for attention but a gender reveal party doesn’t sound inherently wrong

potoricco · 2023-09-04T04:56:36+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/whatbugisthis/s/NyfAvyvFN8

When i say that getting bed bugs is one of my biggest irrational fears

No joke if i ever had bed bugs I would have to be committed… same with lice.. Lmao when I was a kid one time I thought I had lice (I didn’t) and it would keep me up at night crying and scratching my scalp

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-09-04T05:00:07+00:00

Just hopped on the discord channel, got reminded why I dont be on discord. Ima stick to twitter

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-09-04T05:23:04+00:00

Omg, I hate parents that have a hard time seeing from their children's point of view whenever they criticize them for something they did. They get soooooo butthurt whenever you called them out on some bullshit they pulled on you as a kid. If they didn't physically abuse you, refuse to feed you or some other stupid extreme example, then you have little room to complain and your issues get downplayed in the process too.

I appreciate and know you made sacrifices and went above and beyond for me but at same time I'm not gonna worship you, applaud you for having me and think you're above criticism for it. You only just did your job that you opposed on yourself, nothing more. I understand you're not perfect and only human so I let some things slide before knowing this but there's just some things that NEED to be called out.

Just fully own up to it, like why is that so hard for you? You halfheartedly acknowledging what happened isn't gonna cut it. I never said a WORD about any of the nonsense that happened when I was a kid/teenager, I started speaking up for only like 2 years now and you throw a hissy fit? Like, gtfo. Lol.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-04T06:05:32+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wccRif2DaGs

Boomer music moment - sorry youngsters but I bought all the “piano men” albums with my own coin back in the day. I’ve decided that I’ll finally visit Vienna as a classical music piano fan, it’s time. My solo burning season travel will likely be anchored to Vienna.
Austrians of Reddit, tell me - is it worthwhile?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-04T06:35:56+00:00

Getting into a relationship with somebody for their personality is stupid.

sine120 · 2023-09-04T07:17:30+00:00

Everyone's a feminist until there is a spider around.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-04T08:20:06+00:00

I'm just saying, I see a lot of Redpillers who talk about passport maxxing but I hardly see any of you actually doing it...

Go on, do it! Take the dive! What's stopping you? If it's such a great idea, book your flight!

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-04T08:39:19+00:00

Does anyone find it creepy that women like the idea of having a taller/bigger/stronger man as a partner. They say that it is to feel safe, small, protected et c. But it also seems borderline pedophilic. Like fetishizing the idea of a Father fucking his daughter.

happy_discus · 2023-09-04T09:12:14+00:00

Whoever decided GF role-playing ASMR is something we need on YouTube should get a medal. That stuff is so good. If you are lonely just listening to it.

shanshkrishur · 2023-09-04T09:26:24+00:00

Lmao so apparently a user made a post as bait to lure people into their cock and ball fetish, is this true?

Workaholiconew · 2023-09-04T09:56:52+00:00

Does... Do women actually not see that most average women are boing, annoying and/or uninteresting to talk to with for men?...

I thought it was clear enough by the fact that most guys just prefer staying in their phones rather than talking when not pursuing sex...

4SSh01e · 2023-09-04T10:22:17+00:00

Ever since I can remember, relationships and love held this massive importance in my life. I’d say, over a span of 15 years or so, the idea of finding someone was this itch I couldn’t quite scratch. Every other night, I’d lie in bed, overwhelmed by these intense waves of loneliness, wondering why love felt like a jigsaw puzzle I couldn’t complete. Society has its way of making single folks feel like outsiders. I mean, everywhere I turned, there were couples, oozing with happiness, and here I was, feeling like the one perpetually left out.

The club scene became my arena. I’d step in, eyes peeled, always on the lookout. The hope? Maybe tonight’s the night. Maybe she’s here. Each dance, each flirtatious banter was laced with an undercurrent of hope. Would she be the one? But beneath the surface, it was exhausting. My mind felt like it was on overdrive - always looking for that perfect line, the perfect jest to ensure I was likable, to ensure I didn’t go home feeling defeated.

But here’s the kicker: life is unpredictable. You think you’ve got it figured out, but it throws you curveballs. Each rejection, every unrequited feeling felt like a gut punch. But, and this might sound crazy, it’s these very setbacks that built me. Every “no” carved out a lesson. With each passing situation, I began learning the value of being genuine, of looking beyond the superficial. That long chapter of situationships? Man, was it a roller-coaster! But it was like this mirror, reflecting back parts of me I hadn’t seen before. I realized I wasn’t just losing out on potential partners; I was finding bits and pieces of myself.

Now, at 30, there’s a strange sense of calm. The clubs, the drinks, the music – they all feel different. Not because they’ve changed, but because I have. I’m not in there looking to validate my worth anymore. I’ve grown to understand it’s not about chasing love or fitting into a mold. It’s about being me, raw and unfiltered. With this newfound perspective, the future, once a daunting abyss, now feels inviting. No matter what lies ahead, I’ve evolved, and I’m ready for it.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-04T10:36:10+00:00

Now down to more or less my optimum weight and a good baseline of strength.

Now the real gain chasing begins 😈

WilliamWyattD · 2023-09-04T10:41:06+00:00

HOT TAKE and TRIAL BALLOON

I think the biggest underlying issue in the discussions of modern dating is the expectation that any percentage of men or women are supposed to find sex or a mate. We are currently in undiscovered territory. Technology has changed the environment dramatically. Women have never been this independent or able to manifest their true desires. Society is trying to discover what women want.

Yes, cultures always do constrain and channel both genders' sexuality for the common good. We need children. And we need an environment conducive to raising healthy children. It also needs to deal with the possible effects of some people being unable to find mates.

But our understanding of the basic nature of men and women, as well as how that interacts with modernity, is still new, incomplete, and in flux. So society can't know what the best mating architecture will look like that solves these issues and meets the ideals of modern beliefs. What is settled on may look very different than the widespread, enforced monogamy of the past. Perhaps this kind of mating architecture runs against female nature and selectivity, and violates our modern belief that not being forced to sleep with someone you do not want to is a core principal.

So until it all shakes out, men and women alike just must make do and do their best. But do not expect anything. Don't expect a mate or sex just because you are a good person. Do not expect men and women of similar SMV to pair up. Do not expect anything.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-09-04T10:49:37+00:00

What’s with the recent influx of posts/comments of men saying that if a woman doesn’t enjoy sex with them, she must be the problem 😭 I pray for y’all

gabejohn · 2023-09-04T11:10:22+00:00

Schrödingers PPD woman: Deny that the 80/20 rule exists while simultaneously answering you only find 1% of guys your age you see on the street attractive.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-09-04T11:21:28+00:00

QFA: Why does mating(romantic partner) jealousy exist?

I obviously i know the answer, but would like to hear your guys answer.

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-04T11:30:56+00:00

Disliking age gap relationships while strongly believing that women's sexuality is utterly uncriticizable (which is of course what the vast majority of women hard-agrees on) is... strange. Exactly the same amount of young women are in age gap relationships as older guys. These two groups of people are equally common, by definition. Even if we don't just look at actual age gap relationships but include men liking younger women in general, I don't think there is any evidence that's any more common than teenage/young adult women being into successful 30 years old men who are already set in life and know their shit.

It's just weird that so many women can simultaneously roll their eyes at these dynamics and store this kind of stuff in their heads as an example of "shallow, predatory things men do" but somehow simultaneously think that men are utterly delusional for thinking that "hypergamy" has ANY truth to it. Women being drawn to experienced, competent powerful men is somehow an utter delusion that whiny men brainwashed themselves into... but at the same time, men should really think about the power dynamics, cause those are unfair for vulnerable women and that's somehow an actual issue...

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-04T12:02:22+00:00

I discovered AITA from this sub. Most of the cases there are just bizarre imo. Couples fighting over trifling matters, mostly. Most of them are probably fiction, but I do know some of it happens in real life. Some couples I know fight several days over things like “you said she was pretty” or “you didn’t bring me flowers” or “you’re constantly nagging”. Maybe those relationships have some sort of balance I just don’t understand.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T12:11:32+00:00

No school today but plenty of homework

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-04T19:34:51+00:00

I just tested positive for COVID, which actually gives me a sense of accomplishment, because I managed to avoid it for 3 full years. Fuck yeah.

My sister has a different accomplishment because she managed to get infected four times.

Oh by the way, my sister gave me COVID.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T16:55:10+00:00

Guy: Why cant men have standards without women criticizing them?!

The Same Guy: I want a woman to have my baby and I will leave her after her post-pregnancy body grosses me out. Also, I want a woman who isnt a whore..but will fuck me within a week of knowing me.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-04T16:53:19+00:00

My recently divorced friend and I had a conversation about dating success.

Her definition of dating success right now is short-term flings. My definition of dating success right now is marriage.

We agreed to review our definitions at the beginning of 2024.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T16:49:14+00:00

Why is misogyny the only socially acceptable form of discrimination?

“You can’t be a feminist if you’re not also an x”

Why is feminism the only movement thats not allowed to stand on its own? Why can’t we have a movement that is unapologetically for women and nobody else?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-04T16:47:08+00:00

Remember that everyday is always a new day to get better. It doesn’t matter if you mess up or lose progress, you can still win if you keep moving forward.

Be kind to yourself.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T16:41:20+00:00

Men: Wahhhh I want a fertile woman wahh

Also men: She can’t have body hair, she can’t be a single mother, also I won’t find her attractive anymore when she ACTUALLY has my kid, also periods ewww

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T16:39:11+00:00

People who say “You don’t understand because you’re not a man/woman” are intellectually lazy. They think people of a certain gender act/think the exact same way to feel good about themselves. All it takes is for someone of that gender to disagree with them and they disregard the person and move on to another excuse.

It’s really hard to respect adults who keep thinking like children. I still can’t believe adults are doing what I did as a child. That’s pathetically sad. I truly pity them because I can’t imagine what life is like being mentally 8 years old as an adult.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-04T16:06:32+00:00

When a low SMV guy tries to escalate -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16904iq/told_off_my_creeper_from_the_gym_and_what_he_said/?sort=controversial

y2kjanelle · 2023-09-04T16:04:15+00:00

The fertility argument is lowkey nastyyy. And whyre men so concerned with fertility when they’re the gender who be abandoning their children at significantly higher rates 😳💀

Like it’s okay, a 26-30 year old woman isn’t going to have any type of severe issue having the kid you’re going to abandon alright?!!

Also do men know that women have their periods as girls at age like 13…so idk why men talk about fertility so much just to be shown by stats that children are technically fertile. Teens have a 90% chance of pregnancy so it’s kind of gross for men to be like “I want the most fertile woman because men are attracted to the most fertile females.”

Sir that’s a child 🤨😭

Also as a 21 year old it’s rly disturbing to constantly be told how many old fugly dudes are into my age🧍🏽‍♀️pls stop. young women rly don’t want to hear how many dudes our fathers age are attracted to us💀💀 please leave us alone to enjoy our teens and twenties without old men constantly sexualizing us 🙏

Young men are hot af. Their only issue is that they’re utter shit at socializing

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-04T15:40:38+00:00

Okay, I kept dancing around this topic for a while, so I want to articulate a straightforward (and hopefully not too long) Q4W this time (tried to make a post about it but it hit the "shitpost filters" so I'll just copy it here.)

I come from a pretty left-leaning family so I was aware of common feminist talking points from a fairly young age. I thought that female beauty standards was a big one, something that almost all women are constantly aware of and dislike. It's this constant pressure that most definitely has to do with men's liking of physical beauty. It's so bad that even conventionally attractive women have some serious insecurities about their appearance. And I thought I'm supposed to be considerate of that as a man, even if I don't HAVE to date an overweight or conventionally unattractive woman. It felt like a degree of sympathy was expected of me, and that felt reasonable and fair and natural. I did (and still mostly do) feel bad for overweight women, for how much less attention they get, for how obviously harder it is for them to find people who are interested in them. For example, the last few years of high school, my class consisted of only about 12 kids, only 2 of them were girls. One of those girls was rather overweight, and of course nobody in the class found her attractive. Sometimes, when the boys were talking about liking girls and stuff like that, I was very aware that this poor girl was sitting there in the back, listening to it, I felt bad for her.

The thing is, average people are in relationships. And it seems to me that the majority of women thinks it's utterly ridiculous that men also feel "pressured" by stuff that women tend to be into, so much so that this "average people in relationships" kind of became this ultimate argument against male whining. Men are angsty about having to be kind of cool and successful and tall, but that angst is ridiculous and annoying to women. Average men are in relationships, they say, and that's pretty much the end of the discussion.

But average women are in relationships too. I worked at a hospital for 2 years where I was basically surrounded by overweight, middle aged women who almost all had husbands and families. Even growing up, I knew a bunch of overweight women who have/had partners. Multiple of my elementary school friends' moms were rather overweight, for example.

So... what's up with all this? In retrospect, after exposing yourself to a high degree of male whining, do you see this general issue of female beauty standards differently now too, as a woman? And why did I feel sorry for that overweight girl in school, like how do you understand that?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T15:34:59+00:00

women cannot understand sex drive.

I can’t believe someone would say that and think they should be taken seriously. The gall to say something this incorrect with such confidence.

What’s next? “Women dont have body hair on their arms, legs, and chin”?

Workaholiconew · 2023-09-04T15:15:59+00:00

... a person asked if brazil is an european country...

How freaking bad is american education!?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-04T15:09:46+00:00

Most promiscuous US state is?

No googling!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T15:02:39+00:00

I find it interesting that no one in this subreddit seems to ever notice that the places with the most single moms are typically high crime, low income neighborhoods. God forbid people use their brains to realize these places are usually dysfunctional and create a cycle of dysfunctional people.

That’s why I always think people are stupid to say that single mom household create criminals. If you pay attention, you notice they were born and raised in areas where criminals run the streets. The dad is most likely not in the child’s life because he himself was a criminal who is now serving life in prison, got killed in the streets, or is too busy thugging to raise a kid.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-04T15:01:40+00:00

Feminists: Fresh and Fit only interview low class bimbos instead of normal women

'Normal women' meanwhile --> https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fCwogYUPXzo

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-09-04T14:59:44+00:00

Men complain on here that women never compliment men so yesterday I complimented a guy on his long curly hair. It really was great hair. But afterwards I had to wonder if this 22-25 year old was appreciative of being complimented or if he was creeped out that some middle aged lady was hitting on him. I wasn’t, mind you. But a lot of men do think a woman complimenting him is hitting on them. Oh well.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-04T14:53:50+00:00

Q for people in a relationship: does your partner know about this sub? What do they think about you writing here?

My husband knows and does not understand why I’m here at all.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T14:47:57+00:00

Seriously, what the fuck is up with people thinking they can speak for an entire gender? Where do people get this idea they can telepathically link to everyone of their gender? Just because you are born with a certain set of genitals doesn’t mean you can speak for everyone with those same set of genitals.

How do you these “adults” expect me to see them as my equal when they struggle to figure shit out that I figured out in elementary school? I don’t see children as my equal, especially not grown adults who are mentally children.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T14:47:14+00:00

“Men are the protectors of women”

$top talking

Peacesquad · 2023-09-04T14:35:57+00:00

Q4All: do women respect men that constantly give them validation praise and attention either IRL or online? Why or why not?

Peacesquad · 2023-09-04T14:34:16+00:00

What did I miss?

baresquad · 2023-09-04T14:28:35+00:00

The amount of single moms in the US south is insane. I’m legit culture shocked.

I don’t think it’s their fault, I think they’re victims to a sexually repressed religious culture that suppresses sex education and birth control. And with how rampant teen pregnancy is down here, I gotta imagine that this culture has kids not even knowing that pregnancy results from sex or that condoms protect against pregnancy. They’re just acting on pure curiosity, bringing lives into a world that they’re not even equipped to be a parent in yet.

Where live, it’s rare for people my age (28) to have 8-10 year olds and shit. If anything, people are just now starting to have them after being in school/career for some time.

And where the fuck are the dads? To seemingly be so absent that there’s such an overabundance of single moms, I can’t help but think the dads are just as much at fault. They may have equally been a victim to repression at first, led to believe that they have to be the leader of the household and family, but that doesn’t absolve them.

Being a young dad in that culture is a lot of pressure to live up to so I can see why it’s crushing, but at the same time, accountability.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-04T14:20:41+00:00

Where are the 8ft billionaire chads hiding

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T14:06:12+00:00

It will always be hard to help guys with their dating problems because most of it is self-sabotage and laziness. They overcome the problem if theyre not willing to put in the work, listen to criticism, and stop having these stupid standards.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-04T14:05:16+00:00

i get horny when men in tv shows defend a woman’s honor 😩

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-04T14:01:29+00:00

I'm gonna put a blackpill hat on for a second:

People don't talk enough about how much an unattractive voice can fuck you as a guy. You can train it but if you've got a high pitched voice, that's basically what you got.

I knew a guy who was handsome, tall and built like a brick shithouse. Girls would seem interested before he opened his mouth, which was a high pitched, raspy northern English accent with a noticeable lisp. Dude never stood a chance.

Maffioze · 2023-09-04T13:53:16+00:00

Today I am really missing my gf too much and it physically hurts.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-04T13:52:19+00:00

Women do shitty things because evil men have brainwashed women with patriarchy and gave them internalized misogyny.

Proving that on top of being physically stronger, men are also mentaly stronger, being able to brainwash women at a moments notice.

Like in movie Barbie, Ken was able to brainwash entire Barbie Land in less then a day.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-09-04T13:44:37+00:00

Q4W: what’s stopping you from sailing the high seas and catching dinosaurs like this dude

https://youtube.com/shorts/jmLWr_EWkmY?si=BMfZzc5fpRfN11w2

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-04T13:43:22+00:00

CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK! CM PUNK!

"Look in my eyes, what do you see ..."

DerayRevan · 2023-09-04T13:04:01+00:00

What many blackpillers don't realize is we agree that looks are important, l mean looks are important even outside of dating, you gotta look presentable at work,interviews,events

We agree on that part however my disagreement is when they wanna portray the idea looks are the only thing in the attraction field, that if your not 6ft or strong jawline, basically some chad archetype then your out of the game, women will never give you attention or you'll never find a woman interested

That's the extreme end many blackpillers take with the looks category, and l've always said looks get at the door but what keeps it open are other things such your attitude,status,money etc

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-09-04T13:01:50+00:00

One of the most surprising things from my most recent festival was the amount of pretty average looking guys with a mullet and a moustache who had a fit girl by their side.

Like damn I knew it was in fashion but I thought it was mostly an ironic appreciation 😂

hannahg000 · 2023-09-04T12:55:48+00:00

if i’m a woman and i don’t get special treatment just for existing, does that mean i’m ugly?? 🤔

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-04T12:44:39+00:00

bro i woke up at 5:30, like 20 minutes ago, and she was already gone left me a text she had to go to work but wanted to come back later 💀

potoricco · 2023-09-04T12:35:27+00:00

I need a job so badly but it’s useless I probably can’t get one until spring next year i will have to continue being a stay at home daughter for now

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-04T12:33:32+00:00

Female Delusion Chart

A lot of these women will constantly rate themselves very high but when they see a man who is an 8 they will rate him a 6. They will chase the top 10% of men but will rate men as if that top 10% doesn't exist. Its only when they look for a man to settle they will be realistic on how they rate men.

The guy in the video hasn't missed yet.

potoricco · 2023-09-04T12:33:15+00:00

Nothing pisses me off more than people acting like being concerned about age gaps means you’re a bitter older woman jealous

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T12:17:48+00:00

Do women actually not see that most average women are boring, annoying and/or uninteresting to talk to with for men?

This will only ring true when guys stop begging for women’s attention to cure their lonliness. This is as funny as guys here claiming male friendships are than better female friendships and yet men struggle with lonliness more than women. 😂

potoricco · 2023-09-04T12:11:19+00:00

There is a user here dedicated to downvoting every thing i say

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-09-04T11:41:47+00:00

If an 11 year old has more self esteem than a grown man, no wonder male sexlessness has exploded. Most women dont want to be with a pussy. They already got one. I want to raise a little boy, I dont want to date one.

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