Daily Community Chat Megathread

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-16T03:08:38+00:00

Why is it that some people come off as so warm and comforting even if they don't say or do much

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-16T02:57:55+00:00

We received a group text from a male friend of ours. He wants everyone to know that he's coming out as bisexual and he's "living his truth". He's married with 2 kids. Why are you announcing to people that the idea of sucking dick turns you on when you're married? Why do we need to know that? He said he has no plans of opening his marriage or cheating, but he wants us to know that he finds men sexually attractive. What is someone supposed to say to that? Why would you send that message? If he was a single I would say cool, doesn't matter to us and you know we love you, but this makes me want to ask wtf is wrong with you.

redheadtingz · 2023-10-16T02:51:16+00:00

I think a man’s job is more important than his income. Tradesmen? Absolutely, they’re so hot. Tech bro who makes six figures? No. I don’t care about that salary if they have a job like that. It’s very unattractive. Doctors and nurses are there with tradesmen. Men who can really create something or help people are very attractive. And physically, they’re usually in good shape from the physical work.

potoricco · 2023-10-16T02:49:53+00:00

Waking up at 6am is a legitimate form of torture and no it doesn’t matter what time I go to sleep

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-16T02:48:27+00:00

A lesson is based behavior except the step-dad part but he’s still 99% based

https://www.reddit.com/user/Kermit_Defrogg/submitted/

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-16T02:45:52+00:00

This is supposed to be fat?

https://m.imdb.com/name/nm2976800/mediaviewer/rm107271425/

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-16T02:41:55+00:00

It’s almost been 2 weeks. Why do I still have a headache from Covid? Ugh

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-16T02:30:38+00:00

What's up with youtube's stories algorithm, why is it feeding me random post malone clips

my search history doesn't even have music, why so specifically post malone?

Sillysheila · 2023-10-16T02:11:53+00:00

I have a question for the older contributors on here (I’ll say 25+) I was wondering what age you would rather be if you had to be stuck as one age forever? For the rest of your life, like you’re static at that age?

I’m 29 and I really like the age I am now. I’d stay my age forever. Feels like I’m young enough to feel relatively good and have good mental facilities still but I’m old enough to “know better”.

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-16T02:08:11+00:00

If a man sounds like another man’s ex wife he’s too feminine to be called a man and should just go on HRT and be his true self

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-16T01:52:22+00:00

I wanted to get my Halloween spirit on and started watching the new Goosebumps show.

But then this fattie showed up and keeps taking air time. I can't stand how ugly she is. Every time she is on screen I can't help but notice how ugly she is.

https://static1.colliderimages.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/isa-briones-goosebumps.jpg?q=50&fit=contain&w=1140&h=&dpr=1.5

You're an actress. Your job is to be pretty or at the very least be at a healthy (19-21) BMI. Do your job.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-16T01:48:41+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CyTxev5x57D/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

relish5k · 2023-10-16T01:37:00+00:00

This week in, why divorce is actually not indeed, in the best interest of a child, obviously:

https://reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/rOGeQ4C4Wy

https://reddit.com/r/Parenting/s/lok1maMGxg

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-16T01:28:11+00:00

For real though how many of you are autistic and can barely function in society?

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-16T01:02:31+00:00

Dating is supposed to be fun. Being angry and angsty about it is a highway to nowheresville

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-16T00:55:53+00:00

weird. I'm not suspended for my earlier comments yet

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-16T00:39:52+00:00

I don’t pick the farthest away possible urinal if it’s just one other guy in the bathroom.

I pick the 2nd or 3rd farthest. That way it’s giving him adequate space but still kinda casual. Going all the way to the other end to piss in the corner is too much. It seems overly anxious

CasseroleTruck · 2023-10-16T00:39:31+00:00

Why is America synonymous with fatness lol. We aren't even in the top 10, we're like #14 or some shit.

Edit: Closer look seems to reveal a lot of the top 10 countries are small obscure islands most of us haven't heard of much less could locate, suggesting maybe a genetic component with pacific islanders. Aside from Samoa or Polynesia we're #1 out of all countries the general population knows exists.

keebydee · 2023-10-16T00:32:03+00:00

Remember guys, not wanting single mothers, fat women and high body count women is having super high standards because this describes most women. Fucking sad. 🤣

Willow-girl · 2023-10-16T00:30:26+00:00

Bought more furniture to paint and (hopefully) flip!

Edited to add: I really like the hardware on this little guy and think I can probably reuse it. What do you guys think?

I should be all set on winter projects now ...

purplish_possum · 2023-10-16T00:24:35+00:00

Finally did my 2022 taxes. Grumble. Paid 20K federal income tax, 8K state income tax, 9K social security tax, and 2K Medicare tax. 39K total.

I'm getting a puny $74 refund.

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-16T00:23:03+00:00

Has anyone posted about the 48 oysters woman yet?

Technical-Desk-7612 · 2023-10-16T00:07:54+00:00

i feel like the more u ban incel content the more u radicalize incels and dont allow incels to be exposed to conversations that would make them change their minds

Technical-Desk-7612 · 2023-10-16T00:01:37+00:00

the only way a man can fuck his looksmatch or above it is to either directly or indirectly pay for it? like either explicitly as a prostitute or by having or buying nice things for women? true or false? it seems like this is true but maybe im being too negative. does it depend on how much the guy wants to fuck like as in his sex drive, seems low libido men have an easier time getting women to be aroud them? like a man is not just inherently worth his looksmatch or am i wrong?

princedune · 2023-10-15T23:55:14+00:00

i thought hinge was supposed to be the less shallow app but women list out way more requirements here than on tinder or bumble

potoricco · 2023-10-15T23:50:15+00:00

I really want to go back to gym but my free membership is gone, even if i could pay i wouldnt have any time then it would be a waste of money, my arm muscles are gone :((( I managed to get like 60 something pounds on the shoulder press i forgot

potoricco · 2023-10-15T23:46:21+00:00

I have awful baby fever

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-15T23:36:37+00:00

I made what I thought was a fairly uncontroversial, not too red pilly point to my girlfriend. That guys are less likely to feel bad about being “used for sex”

That if a tinder match said to a guy “I’ll be honest I don’t really care about what you have to say, or what you do for work or any of that I just want to ride your dick” he probably wouldn’t take offense and be in an uber in a minute.

She was like no way, not all guys, not even most guys. Hope I didn’t burst one of her blue pills.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-15T23:35:31+00:00

Welp I started tinder again. Let's see how the new pics do.

I dislike that almost every woman has this "perfect model" face which I guess many guys prefer. Would much rather have a homely looking girl but the algorithm doesn't like that.

Give me soft round faces over strong jawline models.

Oh and all of these women's hobbies are chugging alcohol and going to raves. Big fucking yikes. Give me someone that is chronically online or reads a book instead.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-15T23:29:11+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CyJFsU5I8YD/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-15T23:00:38+00:00

Webprogramming is aids

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-15T22:50:58+00:00

The uncomfortable racial preferences revealed by online dating (qz.com)

Willow-girl · 2023-10-15T22:50:51+00:00

Hot damn! I got the item I was bidding on!

This is gonna look super cute over my bathroom sink, replacing the medicine cabinet that I got out of someone's trash years ago, lol.

Paid a little more than I wanted to but it was kinda unique so WTH! My lucky day.

potoricco · 2023-10-15T22:42:14+00:00

I have to give a presentation tomorrow. Tbh i stopped getting anxiety before presentations as a freshman, but the thing is that the topic is something i dont really know anything about (american laws bla bla bla) i am anxious because my friend is in that class as well

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-15T22:40:11+00:00

A lot of BluePill/women their go to argument here if you care about n count is due to your insecurity and worrying about being compared to her past sexual partners. Logically that makes no sense. low body count does not mean she had worse partners or less sex, she could be in long term relationships and had a great sexual partner. Logically follows if she continues to be with him it was likely for a good reason and it was satisfying. Higher sexual partners, likely mean she has not found one worth staying in, or the men had rejected her after sex.

The insecurity argument falls flat under more logical scrutiny.

potoricco · 2023-10-15T22:38:36+00:00

How quickly can someone gain weight

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-10-15T22:28:01+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cw3QGPSpDiN/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

If this guy can do it nobody in here has any excuse

meteorness123 · 2023-10-15T22:19:08+00:00

Most women don't want flowers. Most women want their hair pulled

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-15T22:06:31+00:00

I had a gay sex dream no doubt influenced by that comment yesterday about why don't men just turn gay. I was the top for the record so I still retain my manhood card.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-15T22:02:07+00:00

I baked Dutch apple and pumpkin pies this morning. Taking bets on which one disappears first!

Maffioze · 2023-10-15T21:47:00+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxEZ1zOS2s3/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==

POV: someone asks you about this subreddit.

Maffioze · 2023-10-15T21:44:50+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CyJsKAntQDv/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==

It do be like that.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-15T21:35:54+00:00

Look normal, don't be autistic , be healthy and demographicmaxx.

keebydee · 2023-10-15T20:59:35+00:00

Just came back from my walk. Feel way better now and calm. That hot sun is really helpful for calming nerves. Sitting inside was making me shake a little from the anxiety.

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-15T20:52:55+00:00

CMV: Passport Bros that leave are happier than the bitter men who tell them to give up, or bitter women who shame them for leaving. See, a bitter man is like a bitter woman, they don’t want to see anyone happy because they themselves aren’t happy in their own lives so a man or even a woman that’s happy with their life is a living reminder that they are miserable. That someone who is the same as them is happy yet they are not, you really see this with a man that’s bitter when a man who is just as unattractive as him or just as poor as him gets treated with more respect or garners the respect and admiration of women with nothing expected in return. A woman who is more successful is hated by less successful women for similar reasons, a woman who gets commitment from a desirable man or is genuinely happy in her career and not faking for Instagram will be hated for her success in life.

PBtoast707 · 2023-10-15T20:48:18+00:00

I ate too many of those Aussie Bites from Costco and now my tummy hurts. They’re so fucking good though.

potoricco · 2023-10-15T20:41:15+00:00

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Redditors dont sexualize literally everything challenge

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-15T20:39:42+00:00

CMV: Men are not being to arrested and jailed merely for cold approaching a woman, they myth needs to die with the wage gap myth

Maffioze · 2023-10-15T20:33:58+00:00

Whenever I look at a picture of my gf's face, my heart rate immediately calms down and I feel peaceful. Is this normal?

eye_fuck · 2023-10-15T20:30:12+00:00

I think since the big push to normalise mental health issues , people have defined what is an acceptable mental illness to have and what isn’t an acceptable.

I started thinking about the Kanye situation and people being like “yeah I have mental health issues but you don’t see me being a nazi”. Yeah, you are depressed because your improv career isn’t taking off, you don’t have serious bipolar disorder with unlimited resources and surrounded by yes men.

People act like generalised anxiety is as serious as psychosis. It feels like those leading the mental health discussions want to have a serious disorder to justify their mediocrity but since they don’t they can bundle all mental health issues as if they’re equal.

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-15T20:24:22+00:00

I’m scared my roommate’s cat is going to start to like me more than her. That would be awkward

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-15T20:17:09+00:00

Adhd poly women sounds like an abuser.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-15T20:14:05+00:00

TBH.. I reject taking the vaccine.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-15T20:11:27+00:00

BBLs look good,

potoricco · 2023-10-15T20:09:31+00:00

Is it just me or it’s ridiculously hard to open notifications on the Reddit app? WHO the fuck designed this app? Why am I fighting reopening refreshing every 5 seconds just to see my notifications which keep disappearing? Fuck Reddit

DerayRevan · 2023-10-15T20:03:38+00:00

"Why the fuck do you guys still cold approach?"

It's fun and you can get laid

"I’ve never met a couple that said they met because the dude randomly approached the woman on the street"

That's how l met my girlfriend, approached her friend group when she was going at the club

Maffioze · 2023-10-15T20:02:02+00:00

https://youtu.be/xuc9C-C6Ldw?si=QKzdctQZrJNu9vK4

This music perfectly describes what being in love feels like.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-15T19:50:27+00:00

Fellas if you didn't get any ass in high-school, trust me real battle is after that. The women become better body wise so your competition gets harder

Real battle starts then

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-15T19:50:05+00:00

saw some guy here say that because he's so unsuccessful at relationships hes considering transitioning mtf. I still don't understand how getting no attention/pussy from the opposite gender can cause so much strife that someone would even consider this. is it really that bad...I don't even understand why...

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-15T19:50:03+00:00

The r/ForeverAloneWomen/ sub is a pysop. Women can easily find men regardless of their looks and status. I don't believe any normal woman can be alone.

AethertheEternal · 2023-10-15T19:48:36+00:00

Most men are extremely delusional. Do they think they’ll be respected by women or society if they just grind enough? They need to be more Machiavellian. A woman’s attraction isn’t nearly as important as their compliance.

Technical-Desk-7612 · 2023-10-15T19:43:44+00:00

wow i almost feel bad for how badly i ripped u guys a new asshole this time.

Technical-Desk-7612 · 2023-10-15T19:36:19+00:00

"rats their multiplying" freduian slip. u see what the mods really think of the men here

saraimarsena · 2023-10-15T19:34:53+00:00

seeing grown adults be jealous of a 3rd grader has got to be one of the funniest things i’ve seen in a min on here lol

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throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-15T09:05:31+00:00

Nobody's here?

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-15T09:11:27+00:00

All I want is some dominant feminist man who is also a super leftist. He has to cry during sad movies but he also should be able to fight two bears at once. He also has to really love women who don’t shower.

What are the chances I can find a guy like that?

Bubbly_Taro · 2023-10-15T09:46:39+00:00

N count.

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-15T10:16:21+00:00

If you are not religious, what is stopping you from becoming gay. Like have you gave it a try and didn't like or have never tried it. of course, this question is not directed to women because we all know that they are gay by default.

Maffioze · 2023-10-15T11:06:10+00:00

Religion is such a pest. The whole Israel conflict confirmed it once again.

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-15T11:42:19+00:00

"Men fuck lots of sluts, therefore men love sluts! Stop trying to convince us otherwise. The statistics show the truth!

But also

Women fucking bad boys and bad boys statistically having more sex partners than kind altruistic men doesn't prove women love bad boys. Correlation doesn't equal causation!"

Gotta love PPD. If people here didn't have double standards they wouldn't have standards at all.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-15T11:48:37+00:00

It’s very funny when you guys claim shit about me and it’s very clear that they can’t even give you an explanation or they simply didn’t read what I wrote.

“Lilith! You hate men!” Cant explain what I said hated men.

“Lilith! You’re a hypocrite!” Cant explain how what I said was contradicting.

supremethrone · 2023-10-15T11:55:00+00:00

Reminder to ignore everyone who tells you to do therapy. They don't actually care about your mental health and just want to quickly and lazily shut down the conversation

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-15T12:07:02+00:00

I will never understand why it’s hard for so many men here to understand “You are an individual. Not part of a hivemind of the male population. Stop blaming your actions/behavior on being a guy”.

I don’t understand why this is a difficult concept to understand because even my 12-year-old cousin can understand this. L

mrastml · 2023-10-15T12:25:00+00:00

just commenting here to help me resist the urge to try and reason with braindeads

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-15T12:43:01+00:00

why most casual and formal men clothes are very unrevealing? like what is the point of working out if you can't show of your body. unlike women who happily show of their assets at every occasion.

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-15T12:45:28+00:00

Anyone here work with salesforce or use salesforce in their career?

potoricco · 2023-10-15T12:52:03+00:00

It’s almost Christmasss

potoricco · 2023-10-15T12:53:17+00:00

Anyone else’s parents have different actual birthdays than it says on their passport/official documents? Like why lie I just don’t get it

redditTesting12 · 2023-10-15T13:10:58+00:00

Why's "wheat waffles expelled from campus" video is not discussed here

relish5k · 2023-10-15T13:28:50+00:00

Sunday morning Daft Punk dance party with the baby and toddler. Sometimes married life with kids isn’t the worst thing that could happen to someone.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-15T13:39:23+00:00

My youngest son is getting his first big boy bed today. Why am I crying??

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-15T13:42:52+00:00

One of these days we need to reveals so I can see what you complaining fuckers look like

Willow-girl · 2023-10-15T13:54:12+00:00

I subscribed to a couple of furniture-flipping groups on FB, just enough to get a sense for what's currently in style, and now I've deluded myself into thinking I might be able to earn enough at it to put off going back to work in the warehouse for another month! Probably not but it would sure be more interesting than loading trucks for Jeff Bezos. Everyone wants to be an artist, lol.

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-10-15T14:06:46+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/1375JjOmAY

Absolutely brutal the kind of responses gotten from even the most bluepilled segments of Reddit on stuff like this. I’m not genetically fucked in the slightest but reading these kinds of posts just depresses me to no end, I used to believe in love and romance and now I know that everything is just compensating, if I were to fall in love with a woman who gave me the world she would despise me to no end if she woke up to find that I looked like the unfortunate fellow in this post. I know I usually don’t act too blackpilled on here but goddamn stuff like this is just brutal, knowing that with the wrong genetics you are hard locked into never experiencing genuine romantic love and having to settle for sugar babies who will just see you as an ATM just to satisfy your basic desire for connection with the opposite sex. Fuck, this is sad…

scwizard · 2023-10-15T14:20:31+00:00

I read a comment where someone said that if you ask a man what they love about their partner they’ll always mention things they do for them, nothing about who they are. Whereas if you ask a woman she’ll generally say things that are personal and specific to him. I’ve started paying attention and damn if this isn’t true.

Damn...

potoricco · 2023-10-15T14:37:14+00:00

I actually love Jesus not even just in a religious way. Like imagine someone saving humanity and loving everyone. I think Jesus would be pure light. I wish I met Jesus in real life

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-15T14:42:22+00:00

My favorite type of pseudo-intellectuals is reddit atheists. It’s hilarious to watch them sound like bible thumpers while swearing they’re superior.

abaxeron · 2023-10-15T15:10:21+00:00

https://youtu.be/UbGZaGzWdfs

I don't know what's more hilarious, what the guy is saying or how serious he's trying to sound.

scwizard · 2023-10-15T15:16:38+00:00

I'm not emotionally attached to the idea that people not affiliated with a college have a god given right to come on to campus and hit on college girls.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-15T15:37:30+00:00

Bro, avoid women with traumas and those hooked on anti depressants. Any thing can offend or trigger them -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17825f9/my_boyfriend_got_naked_from_the_waist_down_to/

le_paso · 2023-10-15T15:39:46+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/relationships/s/NbZVWSY5Ng

Comments are mad

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-15T16:07:45+00:00

Bro, this is the most delusional post I've ever seen here.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1781vix/your_physicalmaterial_attributes_arent_the_reason/

The 'male feminists nice guy' maxxers will love it though

potoricco · 2023-10-15T16:12:31+00:00

Red/black pillers live in a world of their own, I looked up this wheat waffle guy. First of all why do you know who this is or even care. Secondly as a man why are you as a man going to colleges youre not enrolled in for the sole purpose of approaching them and then Have the gall to make it about your looks when you get called out

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-15T16:13:38+00:00

I went on a campus I’m not permitted to go on to film a video without permission from the site and then they kicked me off. Is dating ruined as we know it?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-15T16:16:12+00:00

I always find it funny when I see people say “avoid people who use anti-depressants”.

Would you rather they don’t use it?
Considering the statistics on Gen Z, good luck avoiding those people!

potoricco · 2023-10-15T16:20:24+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/7e0nyrpg6eub1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c54b0380b932fb1a7a226c2216b4999426fe68d

BASEDD lmaoo Yet another L

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-15T16:44:03+00:00

PPD men: Men dont need therapy and anti-depressants!

Also PPD men: OMG! Men are killing themselves AND SOCIETY DOESNT CARE!

itzReborn · 2023-10-15T16:53:59+00:00

How do you guys get over the fact that a lot of women(so it appears) feel wary by default around guys. Like no matter if it’s a social or non social setting there’s always some level of fear. (Reading this sub/the dating subs/twox doesn’t help lol)

Like I feel like I’m a normal guy but because of all those fears I don’t approach or initiate anything with women despite men having to do that 90% of the time. And I feel like saying one wrong thing gets you put in the (creepy/bad guy) category.

And to any women, should I feel this way? Feeling extremely cautious just to not make someone possibly uncomfortable. How am I suppose to meet women if it seems like it’s never the right time.

Of course this whole post could be solved if I touch grass more and most my issues are in my head but alas

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T16:59:58+00:00

women constantly say they know unattractive men with gorgeous women. i think that by analyzing what women show with these pics we can prove women do not know what an average woman or average man is. Women will have a good- looking female friend who just turned 30 and is now settling with billy beta and women will think this woman is settling for below her worth. women are delusional about their stadards. plz ladies i want to see pics of these average men getting gorgeous women that u all claim to see everyday.

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-10-15T16:59:59+00:00

I have such a fundamental hard time understanding why guys here get mad about what women's preferences are. It literally breaks my brain lol. I am saying this as a guy as well. Preferences are biological what good does getting upset about it do?

Technical-Desk-7612 · 2023-10-15T17:03:27+00:00

show me the chad fishing experiment which shows how good chad has it? the chad fishing experiements ive seen were not that shocking "chad" was still doing hundreds of times worse than the average female experience. plz someone show me that there r men winning this game. i dont believe it.

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T17:03:49+00:00

show me the chad fishing experiment which shows how good chad has it? the chad fishing experiements ive seen were not that shocking "chad" was still doing hundreds of times worse than the average female experience. plz someone show me that there r men winning this game. i dont believe it.

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T17:09:30+00:00

women are worth their equal when they r both 18 yr old virgins. after that women are not worth their relationship market value equal and should be expected to settle for less. this is a cause of lots of women think attractive women are just settling with uggos. they dont believe that body count should or does make a woman less attractive.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-15T17:15:13+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/178a4ke/how_do_you_all_think_i_did_first_time_trying/

Awful photos, unfunny bio, just overall terrible quality as usual. Can we put the "nah men with good profiles get overlooked online" thing to rest?

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-10-15T17:21:43+00:00

Guy is having a meltdown here because guys have to put in more effort to get laid find a partner. Back when I was in the dating market we didn't even think of this shit all we wanted to do was find attractive women. Half the fun was the chase and competing with other guys. What has happened to men these days? Need to put testosterone in the water supply or something.

old_new_age · 2023-10-15T17:23:32+00:00

I don't really care about n-count, if she's had 82 dicks inside her, that alone doesn't really make a difference to me. But I do care about STD's and mental health, and if she's had 82 dicks inside her, chances are one of those isn't doing so well.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-15T17:52:23+00:00

"your looks aren’t keeping you from getting laid. your personality is. cmv"

It's either but money is the reason and always has been, so get your hustle up and start making that bag so women can fuck you

But on this two, l've actually discussed the importance they play on your outcome in dating, also depends on which age bracket of people your talking about and the environment your dating

So which is more important ?

Because some guys can pull with bad looks

And others pull with a bad personality

Ultimately to me it doesn't matter since they can both be a advantage or irrelevant depending on the woman you interact with

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T17:52:33+00:00

im convinced that just about every pornstar has herpes. u cant have consistent promiscuous sex and not get herpes im convicned

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-15T17:56:22+00:00

Have ever saw your father watching porn and thought to yourself, man, marriage is a shitty deal.

potoricco · 2023-10-15T18:01:15+00:00

I love how almost everyone on my dads side of the family is either a horrible person or a leech but he still sends them money and expects me to when I’m an adult (even though some of those people I’ve never even met lmao) Brainwashing runs strong I don’t really support going no contact with people but I wish he knew it’s ok to cut them off

eye_fuck · 2023-10-15T18:02:24+00:00

another schizoposter just dropped

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T18:03:26+00:00

There is mounting evidence that herpes leads to Alzheimer’s - BBC Future ohhhh interesting considering how incredibly common herpes is and how difficult it can be to test for herpes. i know none of u give a rats ass about ur health but some of us do

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-15T18:05:34+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/SquaredCircle/comments/178i2pw/john_cena_talks_with_howard_stern_about_sleeping/

u/purplish_possum you're in good company bro

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T18:08:01+00:00

hooking up with promiscuous women is for feminine men and the ancient greeks agree with me

keebydee · 2023-10-15T18:10:15+00:00

Sometimes I think I would be a bad partner in the event I would even get into a relationship because I'm really bad at comforting and showing empathy. When my brother was suicidal and doing self harm because of his Bipolar, mother wanted me to talk to him for comfort and got mad because I never done anything. To this day, I never even acknowledged the fact that he was suicidal.

I just didn't care. Not cause I don't care about him as a person but because I just don't understand his situation? It's hard to explain. I've never been suicidal before, what would I even say to him?

And I don't particularly like physical affection so I wouldn't initiate that if someone needed it. Expressing emotional feelings also is hard and just makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm used to internalizing everything so it's weird to talk about things that bother me.

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-15T18:10:23+00:00

I have to apologise to PPD women.

Everytime I have seen some woman posting about "I have no empathy for men who talk about loneliness but all they really care about is being able to have casual sex with attractive women without having to put in any effort." I have simply rolled my eyes and thought "not this strawman again."

I can no longer say this. After 5 years or so of posting and lurking here, I have finally found one. A man who said the only way to not be a loser is to be sleeping with attractive women constantly with zero effort put in on his part.

I can no longer call PPD women liars when they say this. I now have to concede that they merely have a batting average of 0.000000361%.

potoricco · 2023-10-15T18:12:06+00:00

Nevergetmarried

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-15T18:23:21+00:00

I don’t get why men complain about shallow women when they’re on dating apps. Dating apps are going to be shallow. If you want depth, try chatting with someone at a church or something

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-15T18:24:53+00:00

Wait is catcalling sexual harassment? If so then, most men committed SH.

I personally have never had the guts to catcall a woman ever in my life, it just looks needy and classless to me

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-15T18:26:15+00:00

My son invited his gf over to our house. They're going to watch a movie and she's staying for dinner. Kids are so cute.

Zavier221 · 2023-10-15T18:35:16+00:00

Q 4 A

What class as a good cold approach success rate

How many approaches untill you should pack it up?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-15T18:46:05+00:00

Tfw a 8 years old has had more success dating than you after 30 years on this planet.

How can life be this unfair?

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T19:03:15+00:00

your sexual success in life is strongly negatively correlated with how pro-social of a person u r. antisocial people fuck a lot more.

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T19:04:45+00:00

what do u guys think of the fact that sir isaac newtown died a virgin? i think this perfectly illustrates how a guy can not be a bad person but can have a personality that is not attractive to women. and we need to stop pretending all or even most men who struggle with dating are bad people

RelationshipNo6470 · 2023-10-15T19:08:40+00:00

i know this is gonna come across wrong but ill ask anyways. are most gay men just incels who use homosexuality to regulate the self-esteem that they dont have cuz women dont find their feminine personalities attractive? i hope that doesnt come across as mean, im like genuinely asking.

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-15T19:09:31+00:00

Why the fuck do you guys still cold approach? I’ve never met a couple that said they met because the dude randomly approached the woman on the street

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-15T19:12:08+00:00

Just a reminder: Horniness is not loneliness.

You getting upset that people wont fuck you is not the same thing as a guy who struggles to find someone to care about him on a personal level.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-15T19:13:34+00:00

If you're significantly below average in more than one area as a man, your romantic life is fucked. Badly.

Remote-Narwhal-2471 · 2023-10-15T19:14:06+00:00

Polaczki na tym subredzicie pis ma tylko 200 mandatów a opozucja 248

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-15T19:15:58+00:00

I'm so tired of working out. Maybe my body sucks but I feel like I'm wasting so much energy working out to what end. My body is tired. I spend a lot of physical and mental effort concentrating to make sure I'm really working out the right muscle in the workout.

As a man, you're punished for not working out. If you're at the optimal, healthy (19-21) BMI but you don't have muscles, people will think you're too skinny. People and society will see you ask weak and women will think you're unattractive.

But even if you become jacked, having muscles alone won't make you attractive or respected. You're just gaining muscle to not get punished as a man.

Technical-Desk-7612 · 2023-10-15T19:19:20+00:00

bye guys i cant post here and will never be allowed to and have never been allowed to cuz the mods hate me and discriminate against me because i am a masculine man. have a nice life guys.

jaybalvinman · 2023-10-15T19:21:04+00:00

So does everyone agree that the concensus here is that all women who are decently ok looking get attention from men??

No exceptions?

I have literally gotten talked to once in the past 7-8 years by some waiter at a pizza place. All he said was "hey mama, you from here? You look familiar" and thats as far as he got. This was 7 years ago. Yesterday I smiled at a home depot employer and he looked at me like I was a weirdo and I even got a chill from his cold look

My husband gets looks from women when we go out. I see them smile at him. He even had two women follow him in a car after one of them chatted him up at a grocery store.

He went to a game the other day and an "ok looking woman" (according him) chatted him up and even offered her phone #.

Technical-Desk-7612 · 2023-10-15T19:21:53+00:00

go to allpilldeabte the mods here hate men and will never ever ever allow open and honest discussions

keebydee · 2023-10-15T19:24:14+00:00

Omg, I just saw the comment here of a mother talking about her 8 year old son bringing over his GF for a date. I need to get out of here. I'm gonna spiral the fuck out. Had a shock of anxiety just reading that comment. I fucking hate my life.

potoricco · 2023-10-15T19:31:38+00:00

i AM SO TIRED OF EVERYTHING

eye_fuck · 2023-10-15T20:24:32+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/dj4ewnk1efub1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=809a5d03f1c0662f110e777d56935c0161db7a9d

potoricco · 2023-10-15T21:07:48+00:00

Ill never stop complaining about AP seminar terrible boring class and i hate when totally unimportant irrelevant classes give us work

potoricco · 2023-10-15T21:13:42+00:00

Something that will never fail to make me angry is when smart hardworking people say stuff like "omg i probablu failed" "omg my grade is so low". Im a b student but i have seen the trenches, I KNOW what its like to be totally lost and feel like a complete idiot and failure, I literally basically failed english for one quarter but through my hard work ended up with a B as my final grade in the class. And seeing people bitch because they got a 98 instead of 99 is just soul destroying tbh

Slipthe · 2023-10-16T03:21:25+00:00

What makes time move super slowly for you?

saraimarsena · 2023-10-16T03:27:22+00:00

oh my GOSHHHH

being drunk just makes me wanna scream from the rooftops that my boyfriend is the most perfect person on earth. i just wanna attach my body to his. and he’s so nice to look at

grillopie · 2023-10-16T03:43:34+00:00

CMV: being a chad isnt about how many women you have sex with, its about how often you have unprotected sex, regardless of the number of women. isn’t chad some master of some evolutionary male mating strategy? you can’t be mastering that all too well if the seed isn’t going anywhere.

CasseroleTruck · 2023-10-16T03:52:34+00:00

Honest question. Why does everyone like to say "the dating market is the dating market" or "the market decides your worth" as if everything that makes the market what it is is above being questioned or not worth questioning? It'd be one thing if people were equally blasé about all other aspects of life and were completely fine with all the other sociopolitical dynamics of the world but obviously they aren't.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-16T03:56:40+00:00

I actually really like spoiling a girl but I also found that it was extremely easy to get taken advantage of. So I just stopped 🤷‍♂️

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-16T04:46:12+00:00

I feel like I am gonna end up the male version of the cat lady in sometime lol

keebydee · 2023-10-16T04:52:42+00:00

I don't believe in The Wall or that women past 30 severely struggle in dating. Personally to me, in the end women will come out on top and they'll always get what they want. It's just useless to believe in these revenge fantasies, fellas. They'll never lose.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-16T05:45:58+00:00

Why some people here are mad about (non fat) men not wanting to be with fat Women? Its absurd. And how on hell is it a "high standard"?

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-16T06:00:00+00:00

If you are a dude and you're spending lots of money to date women in 2023 you're a fucking idiot. I know women traveling to Spain to hookup with dudes that make $500 a month. You seriously think she's gonna be impressed if you do that when you are one of 5 guys doing the same thing. If she really liked you it'd be $2 in the park for a hot dog. Shout out to my finance bro simps. Stop wasting your fucking money!

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-16T06:10:33+00:00

Q4All: Your most creative/unusual Halloween costume?

Mine: In my early 20’s I wanted to be an artiste’ while I was in still in uni. My main focus that year was reinterpreting the average Dr’s office anatomical posters. I constructed a costume that recreated the “female reproductive system” in abstract mode. I made clear plastic fallopian tubes that ran down my arms connected to oversized egg sacs covering my hands with ping pong ball sized eggs that could be shaken like rattles. A big red felt uterus with bright blue veins covered my body.

Gladboys · 2023-10-16T06:11:29+00:00

Do you think its consciously possible to change what you are attracted to physically, or is it just various forms of "settling"? My first intuition would be that an increase in libido would correlate with a widening view of attractive qualities but on the contrary it might simply enhance the attachment to the already chosen criterion.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-16T06:56:29+00:00

Been taking Diindolymethane for a few days. I feel the estrogen in my hormones reducing and having more energy physically.

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