Daily Community Chat Megathread

md8716 · 2023-11-19T20:21:07+00:00

My job involves a lot of travel, and it really struck me how many dudes whose lives literally revolve around being a passport bro.

Like they'll do work assignments in various countries in Latin America and have multiple girlfriends, wives, even entire 2nd families. It's wild. Like a geographically separated harem of 3rd world sugar babies.

I mean these dudes are in their 50s and 60s, and they'll just do the same stuff for multiple decades until they retire. I knew it existed, but until I did one of these assignments recently and saw how it goes down with my own two eyes, it never really dawned on me how easy it was to set that up.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-19T19:55:06+00:00

"If I get shot today, my phone would stop ringing AGAIN,

This industry niqqas ain't friends,

They know how to PRETEND"

One of the coldest Hip Hop lines.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-19T19:53:35+00:00

6ft or 6 figures you can only pick one

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-19T19:53:25+00:00

I love it when my friends and colleagues like books I recommended for them. It warms my heart.

Willow-girl · 2023-11-19T19:43:18+00:00

To all of the lonely men out there: Hey, at least you didn't spend half your morning putting a new radiator in your girlfriend's truck!

The transmission cooler line gave us some trouble but WD-40 saved the day. Lubricant FTW!

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-19T19:41:57+00:00

The more tattoos and peircings she has, the more likely she’s slept around more than the average woman

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T19:41:32+00:00

Why do women as friends with each other do gay acts? I've seen women sitting on each other's lap, holding hands and stuff. Very very weird.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-19T19:20:13+00:00

I honestly wonder how many guys here are... "eggs" 😐

some of the things u guys say r... suspicious

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T19:16:43+00:00

Remember guys that the vetting never stops 👁👁

meteorness123 · 2023-11-19T19:09:32+00:00

Rate this man

https://m.media-amazon.com/images/M/MV5BNjY0NTc2NTAxNV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTgwMjYwMDMzNjE@._V1_UY1200_CR84,0,630,1200_AL_.jpg

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T19:08:05+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjUP4a3PbKI

Ok the OTHER DAY i said i wanted to be in a jubilee video but im now gonna add.. NOt these kind where cant see the guys face

Cuz imagine going thru all that just to match with an ugly person and you eliminated cute ppl i dont wanna be mean but seriously though

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-19T19:01:32+00:00

If a woman dates a man just cause he's rich, it's ok for him to cheat

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-19T18:58:46+00:00

I JUST BOUGHT A CROCKPOT

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-19T18:56:59+00:00

NO RANTS teehee

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-19T18:39:34+00:00

Q4All: Did you workout last week?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-19T18:25:28+00:00

I finally figured out how to make a roux cheese sauce.

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T18:23:50+00:00

I hate #everyone

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-19T18:02:56+00:00

I finally had the potential unexpected pregnancy discussion with my boyfriend. He was pretty happy to hear I’d keep the baby and refuse an abortion. I thought that would be expected, given we’re both conservative, but I guess women in his past would have rather had an abortion.

Keeenw · 2023-11-19T17:59:34+00:00

Examples of some average male and female faces :

https://i.imgur.com/aDoUtXk.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/YwbK0NA.jpg

These average looking women will be rated decently attractive by men and have no problem finding sex or male attention.

https://i.imgur.com/w6jmCbQ.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/aPMX6EA.jpg

These average looking men will have no matches on tinder; be completely invisible and be rated below average by women.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-19T17:54:52+00:00

Why do men constantly take it upon themselves to tell women they don’t deserve a good man, then question why women “pick bad men” or “are attracted to bad boys”?

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T17:28:38+00:00

This is infuriating Y would they have a discussion on feminism and have 4/6 ppl be guys

https://youtu.be/w1nQU4E1tNg?si=jFMGbss1hJQyl-tZ

armpitpics · 2023-11-19T17:20:48+00:00

I'm just leaving this here:

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dmatthews021120 · 2023-11-19T16:27:56+00:00

CMV: Most of the mutual frustrations in modern dating from both sexes is that neither can really compete with strangers on the internet

So: Women struggle to compete with beautiful women on Instagram, and in porn, and likely the situation is going to get worse as AI and sex doll improve. Men are also increasingly distracted by ever-more entertaining games, watching sports, etc. and the ability to indulge in these online. This is actually a double bind: men are putting in far less effort, as, bluntly speaking, they can bust a nut easily from whatever is available on the internet and then the consequent lack of effort in themselves and relationships are downstream from there.

Related, men can't compete with the attention women get from social media. Women can pursue their hypgamous impulses in a huge vast network (the internet), and aren't limited to the social networks of old. And women might be better at escaping into fantasy then men -- that kind of limmerance-from-afar effect -- and can satisfy their desire for socialization, contact with high status men, funny/engaging men or all of the above via the internet.

Put bluntly: women can watch an hour of a Matt Rife special on Netflix and get much better, satisfying engagement than they can with a normie. Given the choice between sitting on their phone for a night, or dating a normal guy, the phone is a rational choice. There are better men in there, and it's pretty easy to access them as long as they're willing to forgo just a little bit of personal intimacy.

My question then: have there been any academic studies or good thought pieces in publications about this effect? Namely, that the internet, gaming, entertainment and all of the algorithms that power them are so good at capturing our attention that we're understandably too distracted for meaningful and deep socialization with fellow humans? Namely that dating and modern romance are an understandable struggle because it's frankly just impossible for a vast majority of people to compete with the dopamine and pleasures available in all of our pockets?

Again, specifically looking for the romance angle. Feels like this is all intuitive and understandable and you'll see the anxiety about the effects on children/teens, on lonely men, on neurotic women with social media addictions, etc.

But I'm looking for either a study or a good article from thoughtful media that captures this precise phenomenon, namely that dating and romance are difficult in the modern context because most humans are simply not competitive with the elites you can now access given the rapid and acute modern technology developments in the past 25 years especially. In particular, I'm hoping that the study or article just bluntly confronts the harsh reality here -- that attraction, dating, sex, and romance is difficult because the situation is intractable. We simply can't compete with beautiful/funny/smart/interesting people available on the internet (or various other fun experiences like games).

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-19T16:27:00+00:00

I thought smoking weed was making time go too fast and so I went 6months without smoking weed (or alcohol) and I can now confirm even while sober AF time moves fast af now makes no sense.

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T16:20:42+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UCPHn9/

Ive technically been on Tiktok for almost 8 years if you count musical.ly

Keeenw · 2023-11-19T16:18:24+00:00

It's better to be good looking at 30 years old than at 18-20 years old.

What you look like at 30 will be the base for the rest of your life. You can be good looking at 18 but descend a lot the next 10 years and look like a completely different person by 30.

Most women at 30 already know if they will age fast/badly; most men at 30 already know if they will have heavy balding or not. When you are searching for the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with wait until he/she turns 30. Don't think you hit the jackpot by finding a pretty 25 years old girlfriend. Women can age shockingly fast and you can tell which ones will be most affected by it by the time they reach 30.

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T16:17:49+00:00

Guys the skating rink at the plaza opened its like seasonal i lowkey wanna go Ive never been ice skating but i can roller skate though

iliyb · 2023-11-19T16:17:16+00:00

pro-sex work 'feminism' has got to be some psy-op created by pimps

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T16:16:04+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UQwR6X/

No but the thing ive noticed with new iphones is that the camera is like 4K CRYSTAL CLEAR for like 2 weeks and then it just goes back to normal

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2023-11-19T16:12:04+00:00

Men are the new women. Go with me here, 6' is the new 36-24-36. Basing all your worth and value on if you're in a relationship. Redpill blogs are just Cosmo magazine.

Shits super weird.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-19T16:09:32+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/s/Qga4svrm3G

The cap on this app. The comment history is the icing on the cake.

Tldr; femcel mad men refuse to approach her, will not take it upon her self to approach and now society doesn’t care about the 25% of the women in the world who are ugly.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-19T16:04:08+00:00

"Guys love to chase potential partners, and the chase with a strong lady is definitely exciting. Women like this don’t need a man, and therefore it makes it even more exciting for a guy to chase her and win her heart."

https://hernorm.com/do-men-like-independent-women/

Solid advice to all women

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T15:59:02+00:00

Guys what should i make fir thanksgiving. Its my grandmothers bday that day so im def making a cake I also wanna make other stuffff

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T15:57:21+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UCJnP3/

Ok not judging but how can ppl live like this

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T15:50:01+00:00

Guys i did the survety

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-19T15:48:50+00:00

"Guys, if you eat pussy,you are gay cuck beta"

-Person that can't make Women cum.

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-19T15:40:24+00:00

Speak softly and carry a big stick.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-19T15:32:50+00:00

Men here saying “I chase ALL types of women” is the biggest lie told in PPD.

If that was the case, guys wouldnt only seem to know:

Women dating terrible men.
Women whoring around with Chads and then looking for a beta male.
Emotionally unavailable and hates seeing guys be vulnerable.
Has a hate boner for short guys

And whenever I ask for examples of the average woman doing this, the only examples I get are women who are caked in make up, clearly beautiful, obviously vain, and unironically calls herself a bad bitch.

If you’re going to make the claim that you chase all types of women, don’t make it obvious you’re chasing after Regina George.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-19T15:30:27+00:00

With step kids involved the family is not a cohesive unit.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-19T15:29:17+00:00

Doing the PPD survey for the first time.

For the question:

What is your n-count?

Do sex workers count?

Keeenw · 2023-11-19T15:19:28+00:00

"I prefer pretty boys over masculine chads. See I told you women have a great variety in what type of men we find attractive!"

Women the meme gender..

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Inside-Gur5568 · 2023-11-19T15:06:50+00:00

When a man says that men prefer younger women, women always counter it with "young girls don't want you back."

How is this even relevant? It is like saying that I want a Ferarri. But the Ferarri doesn't want me back. What?

iliyb · 2023-11-19T14:47:53+00:00

is this perhaps the most chronically online video?

https://youtu.be/_R7H3uDXn30?si=xMI9gGen-AJ8p750

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-19T14:47:31+00:00

If women are hypergamous, they shouldn't be mad when their man cheats.

AngeCruelle · 2023-11-19T13:30:26+00:00

Ha check out this dude who's literally mad at women for letting him kiss and touch them too easily

odd_cloud · 2023-11-19T13:28:09+00:00

Does someone seriously believe dating is not harder for men?

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-19T13:24:06+00:00

I can't fathom who watches channels like this. I'm all for giving young men advice, when it isn't typical Jordan Peterson / Andrew Tate wankery. But the cringy imagery and tryhard "cool" voice make it feel like a parody. How do you watch something like this with a straight face?

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T13:20:19+00:00

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My turn

acne: no,

weight:no

size: no,

skin color: no

spots on skin : no

hair: No

arms: no

Smile: Yes

Face: No

Lips: No

Voice: Yes

Personality : Yes

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T13:14:40+00:00

Guys i could be miss universe if i wanted to

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T13:13:03+00:00

WHo the hell is tate mcrae

Keeenw · 2023-11-19T12:35:45+00:00

Can’t buy Andrew Tate as an alpha male slayer while having a weak recessed chin. Too redpilled on looks for that. He knows his lower third is recessed that’s why he tries to hide it with beard frauding. No wonder he has to pay for female companionship.

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ratboi34 · 2023-11-19T12:26:27+00:00

The biggest low n-count female cope is, that they want a a man that treasures sex the same way she does and treats it as the most sacred and intimate thing. They are more delusional than virgin hunting redpill men. Almost every man craves variety and most men show a high willingness to have casual sex. They might not have the ability to get it easily or the energy to pursue it that much, but the desire and for those things are the most established sex differences in evolutionary biology. Replicated in many studies. In a certain study they made an attractive woman ask 100 young men for casual sex at that exact moment and more than 70% of them agreed lol. The guy that tells you about sex being special would probably agree as well, cause there was also a study that looked into women that thought of sex as a commitment and sacred thing and men that expressed the same belief. They actually found out that this belief had an impact on how women lived their life with a significant effect, but not for men. The way men see sex is not necessarily dependant on the man that much, but on the way that man sees the woman he has sex with.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-19T12:01:29+00:00

It makes no sense to complain about lack of qualities in people when you never cared about those qualities in the first place.

If your standards for women is “have a pussy and be willing to fuck me as soon as possible”, why are you upset that the women around you are terrible, trashy human beings? You clearly didn’t give enough of a fuck about finding a good person to make it your priority.

Should I care that some women can’t find good men despite the fact that her standards for men is be really hot and have a big dick? Should I feel bad that she can’t find a good man despite the fact she actively dates violent felons?

TigerRude4 · 2023-11-19T11:56:53+00:00

Women: Men's dating analogies suck and are offensive

Also women: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/D4uConVnSK

Keeenw · 2023-11-19T10:52:11+00:00

“Looks don’t matter guys just be confident; dress well and make her lau… OMG I just saw a really cute guy in my class how do I make him notice me ??”

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-19T10:16:56+00:00

From now on when someone asks why I'm single I'm gonna say "I love and respect women too much to inflict myself upon them."

dbz__f · 2023-11-19T08:38:54+00:00

Women would you rather: guy who’s short but has a big dick or guy who’s tall but has a small dick?

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-19T08:08:34+00:00

Dear ladies, rate how attractive the following skills are in a man:

Athleticism.
Musical talent.
Humor.
Culinary prowess.
Household handiness.
Wealth

bison5595 · 2023-11-19T07:37:40+00:00

What’s an example of a black man that is hot?

blebbyroo · 2023-11-19T07:22:07+00:00

Making a strawberry cheesecake bar with a lotus biscoff crust for the ladies at work tomorrow. It’s in the oven smelling like heaven

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-19T06:33:37+00:00

Straight people, if you were in prison for life would you stay celibate or mess around with the other inmates?

hannahg000 · 2023-11-19T05:49:10+00:00

there’s a really cute guy sitting across from me in the cafe 🥹

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-19T05:30:05+00:00

Considering doing a part 3 of my "Clubbing In Seoul" series sometime before the end of the year. Maybe again for NYE '23 as well. Too many weekends I've spent working 12 hour shifts at night while knowing there are others out enjoying themselves. That shit gets depressing when you realize it.

dbz__f · 2023-11-19T05:11:00+00:00

Sometimes I play around with my gf’s face, like pinch and pull her cheeks, push her lips together. Apparently I pinched the cartilage part of her nose too hard and she got hurt and now she’s upset at me

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-19T04:56:26+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/LERsF2TtLow

Great advice right here. I'm not rich, nor am I particularly handsome, but I know how to make women laugh and turn them on.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T04:39:48+00:00

My brother has been calling me out and saying the things I do are peak autism. I will admit the things I do is pretty weird so I don't take it personally. There are labels on certain bottles and packages that overstimulate me I guess I would say so I avoid looking at them. And touching them too. I avoid touching as much as possible. Like there's a pack of avocados mother has in the fridge and the wrapper of it really bothers me so I kinda been refusing to open the fridge recently so I wouldn't have to look at it.

Also I have a fear of stickers. Can't touch them and if I accidentally do, I have to wash my hands with hot water. No one outside the house knows this because I don't want anyone trying to put a sticker on me for laughs.

Inside-Gur5568 · 2023-11-19T03:45:08+00:00

Does anyone else cringe when someone over the age of 35 say that they have "a boyfriend" or "a girlfriend?"

If you're not married just say "a partner."

iliyb · 2023-11-19T03:39:56+00:00

Had a fat old man try an hit on me while as was at work...

I want to have this level of delusional confidence someday 🙏

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-18T19:37:12+00:00

I wish men would realize younger women can also read and be disgusted by what they say about older women too

TigerRude4 · 2023-11-18T19:47:34+00:00

Yeah I'm plus sized but I don't find myself attracted to bigger men. You can't help who you're attracted to.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-19T00:55:41+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/c76qyR7IXm

I will say it again "Women are user and abuser".

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-18T22:31:37+00:00

You know what, this the most open minded sub in all of Reddit, every other sub is composed of uptight cu*ts.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T01:23:46+00:00

My friend told me a story where in middle school he would get together with this one girl just so she would do certain school projects for him, break up with her after she would finish and then repeat the cycle whenever he had a new project to do. He said that he must've done this to her about like 3 times.

Man, it's literally so insane how much you can get away with if you're attractive enough. Hearing stories like this in person is really something else opposed to just reading it online.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-18T19:27:54+00:00

Get looks or die trying

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-18T20:21:14+00:00

Mother turns into an annoying loud mouth when she drinks. I fucking hate drinking culture 😒

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-11-18T22:52:49+00:00

Check out my new tattoo

https://imgur.com/a/uFMUXlv

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-19T01:11:57+00:00

I am humble enough to admit that dating as a girl rocks and I would literally never want to be a guy dating in any way shape or form

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-18T19:28:11+00:00

I was so sure this girl that I wanted to ask out on a date was gonna say yes that I made reservations and prepped a week ahead for the moment. She said no 😭

I had a whole weekend of fun stuff planned but instead, I'm sitting here doing nothing at my house like an asshole.

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-18T21:44:52+00:00

Some of you guys seem to care more about proving that you’re a manly man than enjoying your lives. Quite silly to me

FreeTaylorSwift · 2023-11-19T00:32:52+00:00

Men are romantic, women are utilitarian.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-18T19:10:04+00:00

md8716 · 2023-11-18T19:45:15+00:00

My life's biggest challenge hasn't been getting money, possessions, achievements, or sex.

It's learning the most difficult possible language for a native English speaker well into adulthood. I wish I had started when I was like, 13. Instead I was probably playing Mechwarrior 2 on my computer or some shit.

FreeTaylorSwift · 2023-11-18T19:49:12+00:00

Should i attend drawing classes or karate classes in order to find a virgin gf?

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-18T19:52:51+00:00

I can't believe I just learned how to fold a fitted sheet so i didn't feel called out

Fuck you strikead

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-11-18T20:12:40+00:00

If your league is "who you can get," then why aren't all the men complaining that they can't get their "looks match" just as unrealistic as all the women pining after Chad?

Obviously if your "looks match" was in your league, then you'd be able to date them. Yet somehow men say they have to "date down" even when - by their own logic - those women willing to date them when they "date down" must actually be their league, because that's who they could get.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-18T21:19:32+00:00

Take me to Pizza Hut and I’ll pretend to be normal for at least an hour

https://preview.redd.it/wwdzg0rua61c1.jpeg?width=800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b7d4bcaf8e47a9582983dd2f258c9f4e44c5a3b7

houstongradengineer · 2023-11-18T21:47:46+00:00

My littler nephew is fun and sweet. Exhausting maybe, but I love him.

So now I've decided maybe I'd be OK raising a boy. Even if he has some issues later on, many people do and I'd live. I'm sure there would be good things, too.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-18T22:33:35+00:00

I be watching movies, chatting, taking walks, cooking, doing stretches, everything to procrastinate on my work and once I actually finish everything I don't feel like doing any of that anymore.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-18T23:37:23+00:00

One thing I’ve enjoyed now that I have a Starbucks addiction is chatting with “Stacies” and “stacy-lites” while I wait for my cookie. Ofc these women would never talk to me outside of there but within the confines of waiting for coffee it’s almost like, if only for a brief moment, we are all equals.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-11-19T01:45:45+00:00

Seeing liberals seethe over Andrew Tate is so cringe it almost makes me like the guy

blebbyroo · 2023-11-18T19:03:17+00:00

First

scwizard · 2023-11-18T19:21:00+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/user/whoevenisthat5/comments/14vb4wi/update_on_the_last_post/

It's crazy that you can sometimes not realize someone is a witch until you're literally about to marry them...

happy_discus · 2023-11-18T19:32:08+00:00

Stupid question of the day:
Do you think a average looking guy with high functioning autism can find a partner?

RevolutionaryFig929 · 2023-11-18T19:32:57+00:00

How do you know if a woman is just putting up an act kiking you?

Anyone any experience?

Can they really fake, this horny look in their eyes?

meteorness123 · 2023-11-18T19:33:45+00:00

My god, australian accents are so fucking ugly.

I guess you can't really expect much from expelled criminals, can you.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-18T19:42:06+00:00

The ultimate car in my view, aesthetically at least

https://www.porsche.com/uk/_ireland_/models/911/911-gt3-rs/911-gt3-rs/

monster_lily · 2023-11-18T20:41:19+00:00

I am such a BAD bad terrible terribileee friend bc i was supposed to meet my friend at a restaurant since its her birthday but it was in another county and kinda far away, the quickest way to get there is thru highway but i cant go on the highway yet so i set my gps to have no highway but it was still routing me to places far away. One of the areas, i went there once before school started, was literally hell it was so convoluted to drive in and i got beeped at several times, never again

So i tried to be brave but i still got to this point where i just started freaking out like my gps started getting a little laggy, i just pulled over and went home i told my friend that i couldnt drive there and that i would ask my dad but she said its okay if i cant come. I feel extra bad bc we were supposed to hang out since october weve been planning it but i was in new york, then the saturday before that i had something rly important, last saturday couldnt hang out cz she was in another state, and now I disappoint again all bc im a pussy ahhhh driver i feel SOOO bad

meteorness123 · 2023-11-18T21:39:37+00:00

Kim Kardashian is man of the year.

Maffioze · 2023-11-18T22:06:39+00:00

https://youtu.be/3WMuzhQXJoY?si=FDdPdK6chnrMAFwk

If only all feminists had this much self-awareness, then atleast things could be changed through cooperation instead of gender war.

Keeenw · 2023-11-18T22:29:40+00:00

Who has it worse in this very typical scenario :

- Average girl has many flings with hot guys. She gets pumped and dumped by them but cannot lock one. Getting past prime she is forced to settle with her looksmatch but with the memories of the more exciting guys she had in the past she is very frustrated with her life despite her boyfriend/husband treating her well.

- Average guy went through high school and college as an incel nice guy. Maybe he fucked a couple of overweight girls to lose his virginity. He is happy that at a later stage of his life he finally gets a chance with his looksmatch. He treats her very well because this is the prettiest woman he ever interacted with on a more intimate level. Deep down she hates everything about him.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-18T23:01:25+00:00

It is so weird to see complete nighttime outside when it's only 6:00. I don't like daylight savings. Lol.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-18T23:44:16+00:00

A highly educated rich woman moves countries to take advantage of a mentally stunted hobo

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Willow-girl · 2023-11-19T00:05:38+00:00

One more day of freedom before I have to go back to work!

Got the T-posts pulled out of the main garden tonight. The man ran the DR trimmer over it to chop up the dead tomato vines while I cleaned the cabbage stumps and frozen pepper plants out of the raised beds. Tomorrow we have to put a new radiator in my truck.

We have a ton of black walnut trees out at the farm and I'd like to try my hand at making black walnut dye to stain the wood for my next furniture project. I Googled and it seems it's pretty straightforward: add water, boil, strain. I have a little server that I picked up for less than $20 in an auction that I want to play around with. Imgur I think I might remove the doors on the bottom, refinish the top and whitewash the rest. Oh and give it new drawer pulls. The batwings gotta go!

SO MANY PROJECTS, SO LITTLE TIME!

3PointTakedown · 2023-11-19T01:03:57+00:00

Ya'll still here

I have more thoughts now that I am Certified Ascended Chad^^^^<sup>TM</sup>

Fat women? I'm finally with that one guy who doesn't like fat women. I THOUGHT I would have no problem with bigger women but my god, it is just not fun to have sex with women who are too large. It is a logistical issue. Most women, seemingly, want you to move them around in bed but how the fuck are you supposed to move someone whose 250 pounds.

Second though. Women are fucking crazy oh my god. You sleep with someone once and they are CONSTNATLY checking up on you. It's happened like 3 times now where someone will text me going "Hey what the fuck why aren't you responding to my text?" (that was sent today). How often are you people on your fucking phone. Why do you constantly need to be checking up on each other. I don't understand. This is a legitimate question for women by the way, what are you all even fucking talking about in texts because apparently you're all texting people all fucking day, what's there even to talk about.

Third: The idea that personality matters is obvious and complete doody dogshit horse shit. I'm the exact same person I was before I started working out and got new pictures and started having regular sex with people.

Finally: If you're an incel you're not a hopeless romantic looking for their "one person". You're just fucking horny. That's all it is. You're just horny. You just want to fuck.

But also fucking is a MASSIVE improvement to your life. 99% of the depression I had before I started to fuck is gone . I don't give a single solitary shit about being in a relationship anymore (despite thinking that's what I wanted) and have literally no desire to "date" at all. I don't care about going out with someone, I want to go out by myself and do what I want and then when I come home someone is going to come over to fuck. I don't want to bring them with me when I go to do the thing. I don't want to have to fucking text them constantly and make plans or any of that bullshit. I literally just wanted to fuck.

AethertheEternal · 2023-11-19T01:37:53+00:00

I want to live in Costa Rica when I’m older. It seems like a charming little country. Thanks to its social cohesive, safety and stability, I can’t imagine myself living in any other country in Latin America.

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-19T01:44:12+00:00

People who brag about being able to drive manual are the worst. Like sure buddy, it's a cute skill and all, but 96% of Americans drive automatic cars these days. They'll always bring up the highly unlikely scenario of "What if you're trapped somewhere and the only car available is a manual?? 😱". They look down on others who don't share their outdated skill.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-19T02:37:04+00:00

Is this a women thing, people thing or is it just mother? She cannot just fully seize contact with her exes to save her life. She always HAS to remain friends or some bullshit. I hate this because some nonsense argument happens between them and now she's ranting, raving and getting drunk and shit because she's upset about some old shit in the past regarding their relationship.

My brother for her recent ex told mother to block him and to KEEP him blocked because she has a tendency of not following through on her boundaries and ends up unblocking. And what happened this time? Exactly. She unblocked him and she started losing her shit over arguments. Beyond annoying. Just let these motherfuckers go! No more friend bullshit.

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T02:38:44+00:00

Guys watch top boy

Waitttt drug dealers are lowkey attractive 😍

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MalandiBastos · 2023-11-19T03:25:23+00:00

SEA update:

Just sent my main bih home after another weekend together ( its sunday morning here).

On friday night me and 4 other western male friends are sitting in my room as another filipina is cooking me dinner. After im done eating I send her home and have my main bih on my way. To my friends, this is completely normal and acceptable to do, they, like I, see zero problem with leading girls on and cheating on them.

I took a picture of us and sent it to some of my american friends who think its kinda losery im passport broing, and they said "Looks exactly as id expect a sexpat meeting to look like". They are 100% correct 😭

One of my friends here is just here short term, coming for 10 days before he has to go back to the hellscape known as american dating. Late 30s and spergy, hes proof that even when youre surrounded 3rd world women desperate for american dick, you can still fumble. Last year when he came here, he actually fucked a quite hot chick. He talked to her on tinder and we split a bottle at a bar, and when she arrived I essentially chatted her up the whole time for him, and pulled him into the convo, and he was able to seal the deal with my help.

This friday our group went out for a night out for me to try and work on night game, while my main bih lays in my bed waiting for me. I have only gotten women from online, which, I have no problem with carrying things on from when we meet, its just I have terrible approach anxiety my friend is trying to break me out of. He jokes "I want to help you with that, but youre always with a woman when I want to do it. Youre too busy fucking to learn game". Which is hilariously kinda true.

It actually went pretty bad. The club was suprisingly filled with a decent number of western Chads, manila is getting a lot more western guys since I was last here, though its far more and most evident in the clubs as thats the Chads playground. I did dance with some girls but I didnt find any of them that agreed attractive enough to pursue, nor would I even really know how to escalate from that point anyways.

Though I had my girl waiting up in bed for me when I got home anyways, so no skin off my teeth.

One last thing, my friend "J" and his gf "M". They are my closest friends here, and my bih has met them a few times now, she has a lot in common and is now friends with his gf, as they are from the same island and speak the same dialect.

"J" was open to my bih about the fact that they have an open relationship where he can fuck other girls and she can fuck other girls with him.

My bih was actually quite sad/upset about this. Last week when she was crying, its one of the things she brought up. "I wish M would know her worth!"

I told J about this. He said "Wow thats cruel. Know her worth? So zero?. Shes dropped out of school now and cant even do division or multiplication"

I say "Yeah, when it comes to her value, looks like shes been multiplying when she should be dividing".

Even among filipinos, our girlfriends are considered low status and not uncommonly discriminated against because they come from the poorest parts of the phillipines to work here in Manila doing things like being maids, other low cost labor jobs or being prostitutes.

I told him he should keep his gfon a tighter leash, because she acts up too much with him. Any woman I claim, she already knows what her life would be like without me, and they know theyre out the door if they give me problems and a new girl is gunna be in my bed that night. I mean, a new girl is gunna be in my bed that night regardless, but at least i wont rub it in her face if she behaves. 😭

I believe in peace through realpolitik. Women only behave and thus deserve me when theyre outleveraged by overwhelming firepower.

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NefariousnessLife220 · 2023-11-18T19:03:47+00:00

You guys would be well-served listening to this guy, rather than that Tate asshole.

https://www.tiktok.com/@sabastianenges?lang=en

TigerRude4 · 2023-11-18T21:48:23+00:00

Blue pill programming is so strong. When I and an attractive woman like the same thing, I previously thought that we could bond over it and she could find me attractive. Now I realize it doesn't matter because I don't meet her looks threshold.

houstongradengineer · 2023-11-18T21:50:18+00:00

Holy moly, little dude is not only climbing up and jumping off heights taller than him but he also is holding himself up by his arms like in bars. And he is SO young. Dude going to be an athlete.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-18T22:17:10+00:00

One pro of me is that I'm a cocky bastard

One con of me is also that im a cocky Bastard

monster_lily · 2023-11-18T22:23:00+00:00

can i talk to someone

dbz__f · 2023-11-18T23:06:36+00:00

One thing I will never understand is guys who want to split the bill or don’t like paying for dates. If it was up to me I would pay for every single date out of my own pocket. But alas I have to compromise cause sometimes my gf wants to pay

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-19T00:19:51+00:00

A hot accent bumps a man up at least two or three points. A Kiwi or Aussie accent makes a 4/10 a 7+/10 for me.

CasseroleTruck · 2023-11-19T00:20:50+00:00

There was a thread a day ago or something and the OP was implying women should go for the friendzoned guy since all it takes is a bit of improvement here and there to make him into someone she'd find attractive.

But a huge part of female attraction is being drawn to the abstract and the idea of who the man is. The idea that a man crossed first at the finish line b/c he's inherently the best, well accomplished, preselected. If she has to push a guy to work out and get a job, the result of him being in better shape and having more money has a greatly diminished effect. Never mind that it's possible if not probable the already accomplished or superior men she meets have had help in the past, it's not supposed to entirely make sense. In a weird way it's almost like how it's impossible to truly like your own stories or artistic creations because you're the one who wrote it, despite knowing other authors are not perfect.

One of my friends was with a guy for a few years and over time he gained weight and never helped out around the house or made an effort to keep things alive or exciting. After she had several talks with him about her losing attraction, while threatening to leave, he finally started going to the gym and doing all he could to clean, prepare dinner and surprises and such. Even she wasn't consciously aware of it, but despite these changes she realized she had already lost all attraction for him and there was no turning back and she ended up breaking up with him. Her view of him as a man was irreversible despite the guy becoming fitter and more responsible and saying the right things, because presumably she won't ever see him as an ambitious driven guy who can get his shit together naturally.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-19T01:32:49+00:00

I would 100% consider taking my ex back if he tried- only considering the circumstances of our breakup but I genuinely don’t think his pride would allow him to ever admit he missed me and that makes me feel I don’t even know how

AethertheEternal · 2023-11-19T01:43:46+00:00

How many kids do you have? How many do you want to have? How did you guys bring that topic with your wives/gfs? How did that conversation go? If she agreed, what made her say yes?

meteorness123 · 2023-11-19T01:52:49+00:00

Rate this guy

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GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-19T02:09:24+00:00

In terms of dating success and enjoyment: top 10% guys > top 20% girls > top 80% girls > top 60% guys > bottom 20% girls > bottom 40% guys.

Top 10% of men have the most fun because they can basically do whatever they want, whenever they want. These Chads can easily have a rotation of dozens of chicks who will do literally anything for him. Women will literally end lifelong friendships with other women just to be with Chad.

Top 20% of women obviously can get any guy they want. From birth they're showered with love, affection, and lavish gifts, but since women tend to be more monogamous they usually won't have as big of a rotation of different sexual partners as Chad, therefore less sexual fun.

Top 80% of women (AKA "fuckable" women) still have easy mode dating lives, but it won't come as easy as their top 20% counterparts and they're more likely to get cheated on or pumped and dumped.

Top 60% of men: This is where effort actually starts being required. These guys can have decent dating lives, but unlike the above groups they'll need to put in work for it. No one's going to automatically shower them with love, affection, and lavish gifts. Unlike the above groups, these men are not appreciated merely for existing (except by their parents).

Bottom 20% of women: Obese chicks, ugly chicks, weird chicks, etc. I'd say they have it harder than most men because even incels don't want to commit to them. Even in the event that someone does express interest in these chicks, it's most likely just to pump and dump them. But at least they can still get laid fairly easily.

Bottom 40% of men: The most brutally difficult zone. A lot of men end up here through no fault of their own, simply as a result of being leftover since most women chase after Chad. Many of these men will become blackpilled and/or stuck doomscrolling dating apps begging and praying for just one match every month. These men simply cannot get laid, except maybe with a bottom 20% chick every once in a while.

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T02:44:52+00:00

No but seriously though spiritually i am british I can just feel it

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T02:51:33+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UHBHEC/

Nahh Imma do my own thing 💀

monster_lily · 2023-11-19T02:55:10+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8UHAjS1/

Help why does it have hair its supposed to be naked

dbz__f · 2023-11-19T02:59:29+00:00

Women, if you had to pick one of these scenarios, which would you choose.

Be as part of a harem of four women for a 10/10 chad. He will be your ideal man in every way but you have to share him with three other women and his love and attention will be divided amongst the four of you.

OR.

Have your own harem of four slightly above average men but not full chads. Men who are like 7/10 or 7.5 out of ten, pushing 8 maybe. You can’t ignore them and have to give them all sincerity and attention. But at the end of the day they still love you.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-19T03:15:10+00:00

Talked to a couple friends of mine last night. They were both complaining that men would talk to them for weeks without asking them out.

Just goes to show the dating app game isn’t all golden on the other side.

RicePresident_ · 2023-11-19T11:20:01+00:00

My dumbest most alcoholic move ever was hitting the airport bar at the airport where I arrived

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-19T11:57:18+00:00

Casual sex is such a tricky thing, and it honestly kind of makes sense that people are often bad at it, and that it's unsatisfying especially for women.

The ancient Greeks apparently had like 7 different words for "love", one of which was eros: "love, mostly of the sexual passion". They basically considered lust a type of love, which is something I really like (although they also said it's dangerous). This is a snippet from wikipedia: "Plato refined his own definition: Although eros is initially felt for a person, with contemplation it becomes an appreciation of the beauty within that person, or even becomes appreciation of beauty itself."

In my opinion, this is needed for casual sex, for hookup sex. Because by definition it's between two people who don't know each other that well, so eros is the primary basis for their connection, that's how it can be passionate, instinctive. In theory, I think even a lot of women can at least imagine that being exciting, but then the thing is, this is also something that people - ESPEICALLY men - supress in themselves all the time. (Yes, women were/are more deliberately shamed for being promiscuous, but assuming men are hornier, it's easy to see that actual internal suppression happens significantly more on the male side out of necessity). We just spend disproportionately more time supressing it in ourselves then "letting it out", and so when a man somehow wriggles himself into a position where it's time, it's just... awkward. Because that's just something that we don't do, in fact "appreciation of the beauty within that person" sounds eerily familiar to "he just sees me as a means to an end" that women often complain about. It's still kinda seen as morally wrong. But I'm absolutely convinced it isn't necessarily that, and that it's actually fundamentally required for hookup sex, and that women too can actually enjoy it if it's deployed by the man just the right way at the right time, but again, that's not that easy. It's basically expected to manifest in the vacuum of the bedroom where the woman is ready for it, and it's almost like it's not supposed to exist outside of it.

So the "first build a human connection" approach makes sure the participants have a connection on another level. Maybe even for casual sex, a bit of that is still required as like "assurance". But it's still such a mindfuck. Leaning into eros is kinda scary and risky because it's almost like an opposing force to "normal regular humans being civilized and stuff".

I would say perhaps the biggest argument for women making peace with male sexuality and caring about it a tad more even in other contexts than just when the woman herself is turned on, is that it would improve the ability of humanity to have satisfying sex. Casual sex in particular, but probably just sex in general. By acknowledging that the fun passion of the men during that rare satisfying casual sex (or even the fun passion in a ltr) exists in men for much bigger periods of times, that they have to supress it a lot, having some "friendly acknowledgment" of that would make it less of an angsty thing for men. It's really difficult for women to see it that way though, which is also understandable, but I will just say that sometimes I come across women who make me feel seen that way, so I'm convinced it's possible.

Otherwise there is "sexuality is a selfish pursuit, suck it up" which then will continue to include women finding hook-up sex unsatisfying and we can just be okay with that, and then perhaps slowly turn back towards the good old "no sex before marriage", but that's the lamer direction imo.

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