Daily Community Chat Megathread

Keeenw · 2023-11-24T16:24:01+00:00

Woman confirms alpha fucks beta bucks dating strategy

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-24T16:19:59+00:00

I have forgotten how to walk in heels in snow. I used to be able to run uphill to the tram like nothing, sigh.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-24T16:02:45+00:00

I don't get it, fascists mess up once and its all over for them.

Communists mess up every country their ideology spreads, cause massive loss of life over and over and some how its not a taboo to refer to yourself as a commie.

Something doesn't add up.

Keeenw · 2023-11-24T15:33:32+00:00

Just seen White Lotus season 2. Good example on how girls only want excitement and nice guys finish last.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-24T15:31:23+00:00

Q4W: Thoughts on these boots?

keebydee · 2023-11-24T15:20:40+00:00

Had another dream of a woman being interested in me again. I wish I could stop these dreams 😒

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T14:34:59+00:00

The rthing i dont get about trad relationships is literally who does it benefit in 2023 Like genuinely cant think of even 1 possible benefit

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dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-24T14:28:01+00:00

It’s always we like weird women until they see all thirty six of your dolls that look the same

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-24T14:17:00+00:00

The best thing we can probably do to fix our current dating infrastructure is for women to lower their standards, which literally means women being attracted to more men. Who wouldn't want that? We all know that female sexuality is more flexible than male sexuality. This wouldn't be forcing women to be with men they don't find attractive. This would be women finding a man attractive who she didn't find attractive before. Women just don't want to put in the work to improve themselves.

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-24T14:14:28+00:00

The lesser of two evils is sacrificing some of women's bodily autonomy for men's bodily autonomy. We need to redefine what bodily autonomy means. It doesn't matter that women don't think it is fair. The world isn't fair. Deal with it.

itzReborn · 2023-11-24T14:07:18+00:00

Saw a comment on another sub saying men have to level up to keep up with what women want today, and like I slightly get it but level up from what to what? You always hear the bar is in hell for guys but then head things about needing to level up it’s all so confusing. It’s like men today are getting punished for what men of the past did

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-24T14:06:26+00:00

Today I woke up at 7 am thanks to my neighbor's kid who woke up screeching like he was being murdered

perfect contraceptive

RelevantAnywhere7002 · 2023-11-24T13:55:43+00:00

A few of women here say that men should "vet," not be so easy, etc. But that's a stupid argument. A man rejecting the zero women interested in him will not get him the bare minimum type woman he wants. Not the perfect woman, the woman who is one millimeter away from not at all attractive in any way.

What they're really trying to do when they make that argument is to get men to flip flop so that they can then say that men have unrealistically high standards.

low or no standards? "you should vet women better"
some standards? "you should drop your unrealistic expectations"

dbz__f · 2023-11-24T13:08:29+00:00

Why does rainy weather outside enhance the sexual intercourse experience?

saulbasedman · 2023-11-24T12:18:11+00:00

Just found out women poo. I need a moment

Ylduts · 2023-11-24T12:05:30+00:00

Yo ho Mexico Far to the south where the cactus grow Tequila and a donkey show Mexico, Mexico

happy_discus · 2023-11-24T11:57:49+00:00

Why would I use good pictures on OLD. All that's gonna do is catfish women, since I am ugly IRL. /s

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-24T11:41:37+00:00

I’ve been crazy about this guy when I was 20 and I thought I rekindled that old flame recently, but I realize I need to let that shit go. I’ve been happier on dates with complete strangers than I have with him. I have had straight female and gay male friends tell me they love me before he ever has. And I realize now that I’m outgrowing his shenanigans.

What pisses me off the most is that he’s one of those people that always complains that he’s lonely, he’s scared he’s gonna die alone, and never have a happy family. Thing is that he barely socializes. And at this point, my pity has ran out. If he can’t maintain a social life and work life balance, that's on him. If he wants to come up with excuses to why he’s not ready for a committed relationship, that’s on him.

I could tell him to step his game up if he wants to keep me around, but nah. I’d rather see what other guys have to offer. So far, they’re offering a lot more in a lot less time. What’s even better is that they’re eager to talk to me and they don’t come up with excuses for weeks and weeks on end. Maybe one day he’ll get his shit together, but clearly today is not that day.

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-24T11:31:14+00:00

Not sure I can understand why many redpill and incel communities were banned for "hate", yet subs like r/TrollXChromosomes or r/WitchesVsPatriarchy which are blatant "men suck and we'd be better off without them" circlejerks are allowed to stay. Is it because when they talk about killing men, they dress it up as joking and satire?

ratboi34 · 2023-11-24T11:12:42+00:00

If the women you are dating aren't showing any symptoms of body dysmorphia, you are not fully looksmaxxed yet.

Ylduts · 2023-11-24T10:57:50+00:00

For those that have a wife as a hag!😁

Sillysheila · 2023-11-24T09:46:43+00:00

QFall: Some people talk about toxic masculinity do you think such a thing as toxic femininity exists?

If yes, provide a description of what that looks like.

If no, why do only men have toxic masculinity but there’s no equivalent for women?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-24T08:57:49+00:00

Seeing another post with the platitude "Treat women like people"

I have to ask: Q4W who parrot the above quote,

What does a man getting romantically/sexually involved with you look like. Like how does an encounter escalate from a guy not being sexually/romantically involved with you to being that whilst treating you like a human?

___Cesar · 2023-11-24T08:41:34+00:00

I saw a woman yesterday at Walmart. I Looked at her for maybe 2-3 seconds and tought to myself that she is pretty. And then turned my head away. I also realized how weird I am to even think that. Anyway. Also I used to hte women and be bitter toward them. Now I am indifferent. I make peace with myself first, peace with women secondly (and how extremely shallow they are) and peace with this shtty world.

dbz__f · 2023-11-24T08:31:55+00:00

Women how do you react if you’re hanging out with a bunch of guy friends and you’re the only girl in the group and they’re talking about gross shit and sex in a really crude/typical guy way?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-24T07:59:58+00:00

Meanwhile my monk neighbor is going soon & a goodbye dinner is being planned to send him off. I’m honestly going to miss him & the sounds of his devoted daily chanting through the wall. He offered up his pet snake for me to adopt but I’m in a no pet adoption mode these days & he’s going to release her into the surrounding jungle. He recommended a specific mushroom tea for my situation & I’m probably going to try it. Still just mad respect for this particular bro.

Gladboys · 2023-11-24T07:54:18+00:00

Second year in a row of volunteering on thanksgiving instead of being with family I think I might prefer it more now lol. It’s easier being grateful for what you have when you aren’t being questioned constantly for what you don’t have.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-24T07:30:43+00:00

i love buying gifts for people. it’s so much fun. i’m going to be buying some christmas gifts this weekend

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-24T07:10:54+00:00

Someday I’m going to visit my family’s old farm in this tiny town in Louisiana. What are the odds I revert back to Catholicism and become a homesteader tradwife once I set foot on these ancestral lands?

saraimarsena · 2023-11-24T07:02:20+00:00

id rather date someone who’s had other experiences and with all the information, chosen me. than someone who’s only chosen me because they don’t know any better.

that’s just me personally

Ylduts · 2023-11-24T06:53:01+00:00

Monogamy only works when both parties actively work towards that goal. Having an active social media account as a woman contradicts this.

scwizard · 2023-11-24T06:39:12+00:00

Here we go again. A Muslim yells Allah Akbar and stabs 5 people but if you say they're a Muslim you get banned from everywhere.

AngeCruelle · 2023-11-24T06:35:54+00:00

Wait is Thanksgiving officially a soft purge now?

I feel like I'm seeing more openly hostile comments just casually hanging out on threads than usual lol.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-24T06:33:48+00:00

I am shedding like crazy for past few days. It's over for me.

Ylduts · 2023-11-24T06:20:32+00:00

68% of college graduates are female, 60% of college attendees are female, 95% of psychologists under 30 are female, there are more female military pilots than there are male kindergarten teachers. When are we as a society going to recognize that equality was never the goal, domination was?

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-11-24T06:03:46+00:00

I’m not sure why I’m starting here. I think it’s because this has been my “hurt locker” for so long.

Jesus Christ is my lord and savior. I love all of you and hope you all seek the lord’s embrace.

May God help us all.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-24T05:57:09+00:00

Charleston, South Carolina is a very pretty city with very nice people. I recommend going if you haven’t been before.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-24T05:50:14+00:00

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fake and gay?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-24T05:32:58+00:00

Would you rather go on the TLC reality show MILF Manor as a son or as a mom? For context, it’s a dating show where cougars and their twenty-something-year-old sons stay in a house together and participate in a variety of disgusting activities designed to make everyone uncomfortable and get the so-called MILFs to hook up with each other’s sons.

keebydee · 2023-11-24T05:25:52+00:00

I tried my hardest to be like everyone else. Played by their rules. It still wasn't enough. I overcame a lot of problems regarding my disabilities purely so I can be loved, liked and worthy of being in someone's life because it was made clear to me that the way I was before wasn't gonna cut it and my efforts still wasn't enough.

I wish my pet was still here with me. He gave me what I wanted all along, to be simply accepted for way that I am. I was good enough for him the whole time.

saraimarsena · 2023-11-24T05:25:11+00:00

so, i’ve decided that either for a wedding or engagement gift i’d like to get my boyfriend a new camera (he’s a photographer).

we were talking about cameras earlier in the week and we watched a YT video about a fantastic camera (sony A9 III for any photographers out there). i asked how he’d feel if i ever got one for him, he said he’d truly shed a tear. they cost 6k!!! and he said his next step would be to take it back and get something cheaper.

in discussing this, he told me his dream set up would include 2 different cameras, costing $2k and $2.5k respectively. id like to get him one of these as a gift. it’s something extremely important to him and a dream for his career as a photographer, i think he would really really love it.

now my question is, we aren’t even engaged rn, would it be weird if i started saving up for it little by little now? even if we were to breakup, i feel like it wouldn’t hurt to have that money set aside. also how normal is it for a woman to get a guy an engagement gift? it’s something i wanna do regardless but i’m curious how customary it is

hannahg000 · 2023-11-24T05:06:12+00:00

there are times when i can feel my frontal cortex developing

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-24T05:05:57+00:00

I saved up some money for a necklace I like, but now I’m wondering if it’s crazy to spend that amount on a single piece of jewelry. How do you decide if something is worth the splurge?

NalkaNalka · 2023-11-24T04:52:14+00:00

The problem isn't that other people are getting all the sex that certain people aren't getting. It's that thanks to the internet all that sex that other people are getting is right in their face every waking hour.

I would wager that a few decades ago virgins did not feel anywhere near as deprived as they do now.

old_new_age · 2023-11-24T01:35:10+00:00

got thanksgiving drunk and had a flashback to one of my first atomic blackpills

I was 19 and entered a standup comedy competition at my college. I won, which wasn't very hard, because college kids are notoriously unfunny (drug dealers and dropouts are usually much funnier). The guy who got 8th (admittedly still making it pretty far) was a 6'3 chad and about 30% of his set was r*pe jokes. Not even good ones either. He walked out the venue with two attractive women and I walked out with $200 and a barrage of men saying I was hilarious. I shared this story with my online inkwell buddies that night and we had a good laugh at the bullshit "just be funny bro!" I don't miss college

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-24T04:50:43+00:00

Me when I get a new notification from Reddit: 😀

Notification from “PurplePill-ModTeam”

Me:

https://preview.redd.it/agkchxjp782c1.jpeg?width=1169&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e69bf72431aa3eddc956ed4d32352cebc70b5aec

keebydee · 2023-11-24T17:05:42+00:00

It's a new day. I can't wait for the why it's men's own fault they're unsuccessful in dating post #1,734,921 😁

keebydee · 2023-11-24T17:41:58+00:00

I remember recieving the good ol' "Hey, my friend said that she likes you/wants to go out with you" fake out joke back in my day. Only situation to where I could get asked out. Life is a joke when you're someone like me. 😁

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-24T18:25:13+00:00

Did she just call non western women, "low standards women"?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1822d0h/does_anyone_feel_weird_when_people_say_that_they/

And bro, she thinks all passport bros should just be 'better people' to get laid. SMH. This is why most men discard women's advice on dating.

keebydee · 2023-11-24T02:33:04+00:00

If bl*ackpill is banned here then pinkpill should also be fucking banned.

derektheaccountant · 2023-11-24T17:11:26+00:00

I think a lot of men are starting to wake up about the absurdities of dating as a guy. Basically every guy I talk to nowadays has at least some red pill lite views (even if most aren’t like true red pill)

Even the guys who are left my wokesters have negative views on dating for men. It’s becoming a really combative arena for the genders at this point.

mummydontknow · 2023-11-24T19:27:43+00:00

There is something very icky about the idea of having the exclusivity talk.

I can't even imagine entertaining the idea of committing and being vulnerable with someone who was fucking other people after meeting me.

If it's not love at first sight, i don't want it.

keebydee · 2023-11-24T21:13:14+00:00

I really thought this sub was over the "men think they're entitled to romance and intimacy" bullshit. Omg, I swear people don't even know what entitled means. That word belongs along with narcissist and gaslighting. Words that people never use in it's proper context.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-24T02:34:48+00:00

Damn finally started getting the “do you have a girlfriend” question this thanksgiving. It’s been a long time coming, and since most of my family think women would actually be interested in me while i’m fat I just have to play it off with the bs line “I’m not looking rn” when in actuality having a gf is one of the things I want most in life.

At least my weight loss is noticeable now, I’m happy I have that going for me atm.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-24T19:14:49+00:00

Get looks or perish trying

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-24T20:48:40+00:00

To anyone capable of understanding and sympathizing with people which different lives than yours, I wish you a good day. The rest of you piss off.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-24T21:37:28+00:00

I can never sympathize with the women complaining about how they can't "find something serious or long term".

Bruh, I'm out here not getting matches and begging women to even talk to me for a few minutes at bars/clubs. How can I relate to women complaining about not getting the final stage of dating success when they have no issues getting dates, hookups, attention, validation, dates and chat buddies who will shower them with entertainment, attention and validation for hours.

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T21:38:09+00:00

When do you feel bad for the opposite sex, for me its when they get upset about balding, and when they get sent to war, also when they have to care about what their muscles look like

AbsolutelyNobody0 · 2023-11-24T00:01:10+00:00

Dead sub

meteorness123 · 2023-11-24T02:44:29+00:00

One of my bizarrest experiences was going on dates with women of various levels of attractiveness. There was this one girl who didn't look that good was not interested in me at all and then there was other girl who was significantly more attractive who was also really interested me. Logically, this doesn't make sense to men. But what I learned is that you can't really predict chemistry. Realistically, if the good-looking girl was interested, the worse looking one should have as well. But, doesn't work like that. I've had several such experiences.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-24T03:12:38+00:00

I am once again asking anyone who believes women aren't as picky about looks as some men here make them out to be, if they have examples of women or data of women actually liking unconventional features in men? Like many men like women that are fat or women that are tall. But I have literally only seen like a handful of women say they like fat guy or short(or even average height) guys lol. Hopefully the examples will be ones that I can actually and judge from myself rather than blindly trusting you lol

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-24T04:47:42+00:00

I just got a text from one of my brothers. My father has passed away. My only feeling is regret that he couldn't be the facade that he presented to the world. I wasn't sure how I would feel when this moment happened, but l feel sad that I don't feel more about it. Rest in peace.

Keeenw · 2023-11-24T19:10:41+00:00

Nice guy is told he has to wait until women mature before he gets his shot at sex and love.

Nice guy complains about this

Women and bluepillers : "See he is not a nice guy!! He's a fake Nice Guy tm/incel"

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T23:15:23+00:00

Maturing is realizing that the average rp man is more misandrist than the average feminist, like if u think about it they constantly say things like "men can help but to cheat/want younger women/objectify and sexualize/ bla bla bla, . like how is that supposed to portray men in a positive light LMAOO Honestly if ppl had more smoke towards OTHER men for suggesting that men are like animals who cant control themselves than feminists who simply repeat what theyve said time and time again, the world would be a better place Tbhhhh🤡

Keeenw · 2023-11-25T00:59:32+00:00

I never approached a woman in real life with the intention of showing interest in her as I know I will get rejected.

keebydee · 2023-11-24T01:00:34+00:00

I know it'll never happen so it's just a fantasy but I wish I could experience getting a love letter. Reading how someone feels about you via a letter probably feels so good.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-24T03:23:07+00:00

It's a vodka and music night for me. Send me your horniest and saddest music

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-24T03:34:39+00:00

Now I can make banana pudding from scratch with oat milk. It's really nice, if I figure out how to make it low-sugar, it's gonna be my favorite dessert.

purplish_possum · 2023-11-24T04:02:04+00:00

My daughters butter pecan rum cake turned out great. I'm sticking with the argument that it's not contributing to the delinquency of a minor to give her a pint of rum for cooking purposes.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-24T04:05:37+00:00

I fucking love the menkampf sub. All they are doing it swapping the subjects of feminist articles, posts, signs, etc, and just from that you get messages that look like they are straight out of Germany in the 1930s.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-24T17:35:19+00:00

These are the women I filter out:

Obese
Mentally disabled
Wheelchair-bound
Blind
Deaf
Older than 27
Has children
Married or has a boyfriend
Shorter than 5"0
Missing Limbs

derektheaccountant · 2023-11-24T17:57:06+00:00

One can always say that if a man is not the equivalent of Brad Pitt, then it is his fault if he does not succeed in dating because there is always a way for him to in prove or be better.

So realistically there’s an always an argument to just say that it’s a man fault he struggles, he’s not Brad Pitt, and just end the convo.

But I think it’s better to ask the question of why is so much improvement needed for normal guys while no improvement is needed for women?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-24T18:37:41+00:00

actually where are these techbros who can't find gf located. I just wanna know for... research purposes

grillopie · 2023-11-24T21:10:53+00:00

Are women really unforgiving of awkwardness? i forgot where i parked my car on a first date once, had to get a ride to take her home.

old_new_age · 2023-11-24T21:33:26+00:00

Whenever I take a break from reddit my mood is much better. I don't think our brains were designed to witness so many bad opinions at once. Don't forget to touch grass

Keeenw · 2023-11-24T22:13:01+00:00

https://mashable.com/article/albie-the-white-lotus-performative-nice-guy

Another bad take by a woman regarding the Nice Guy trope.

NoTea4448 · 2023-11-24T23:25:42+00:00

Man I never realized how anti social Reddit was until I realized that almost every subreddit was full of introverts complaining about human interaction. Lmao

4SSh01e · 2023-11-24T00:05:50+00:00

felt cute, might delete later: https://i.imgur.com/S2aUccx.jpg

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-24T00:11:22+00:00

Is Thanksgiving over yet? Anyone make any new interesting acquaintances?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-24T00:35:19+00:00

Gay men have dating privilege like women.

It's annoying when people try to make it seem like gay men have a hard dating life when it's shooting fish in a barrel for them at any LGBT space. Sure, there are a lot of men you might like in your day to day life who are straight and aren't into you, but that's basically how it is in straight men's day too, except straight men don't have any spaces where they can shoot fish in a barrel like privileged gay men do. Most women aren't interested in the average straight man and straight men have to hit on many women to find one that's actually interested.

Meanwhile, gay men have spaces where there will be guaranteed men who are interested in them. Gay men like a variety of body types and personalities, so gay men can't be incels. They can always find someone decently attractive that are also mutually interested in them. The average gay man can order sex from dating apps in less than an hour like straight woman can. As a straight man, I've had more gay men hit on me and show interest than straight women and I don't even hang out in LGBT spaces.

Gay men having dating privilege.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-24T01:52:16+00:00

Hunter eyes are overrated. Guys with large expressive eyes mog

meteorness123 · 2023-11-24T02:17:10+00:00

Man, the women I meet in real life are so vastly different than the ones you see on podcasts, tiktok etc

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-24T03:18:53+00:00

I want to help women become more progressive and understand the types of female privileges they should be thankful for.

Less likely:

To be bullied or made fun of
To suffer from physical violence
To be lonely, left out or ostracized

More likely:

To be included in groups
For people to be interested in them
People to be nicer to them
To invite them out to hangout or events

Other:

Free drinks and entry to bars and clubs
Free food and drinks on dates
Men and women are both biased in favor of women for both friendships and social conflicts
Much much easier to both hookup and get a relationship
Guaranteed a relationship with a decent upper middle class man as long as she has basic personal hygiene
Guaranteed upper middle class living standards because of the above
Given the same job and pay, the woman will have much higher income and living standards because she can marry someone making 2x her pay to get 3x household income while the man has to marry someone making 0.5x his income to get 1.5x household income
Can choose to retire early by becoming a stay at home wife
Much more realistic and attainable beauty standards
Can't be undesired because men have a diverse dating taste
Most of the desired traits in women are easily attainable (healthy 19-21 BMI, basic minimal makeup, basic feminine look, not mean, not slutty, not annoying, not loud)
Can get infinite validation and attention in mere seconds from quality men

Female privilege.

There's a lot more but I'm too lazy to type it all out. I hope this helps women check their privilege, increase their social awareness and become more progressive and empathetic.

Be thankful for your female privilege.

soupmastwr · 2023-11-24T03:32:37+00:00

I think men and women should work together to find solutions to our dating problem instead of blaming one gender over the other. I know no matter what we do there will be bad faith actors but we just have to look best them and have productive discussions. Honestly life sucks but at least we should try to work together to make it better 😊

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-24T03:38:28+00:00

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T03:42:10+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvmq4Uf/

Me running after any male here i see saying bitch

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-11-24T17:07:07+00:00

Does anyone have a male acquaintance who has a good career/ high paying career? What is their dating life like?

I have a first cousin who is pretty well off ($300k+/ year). He is married to someone who is a bit above average in all metrics. When I was younger I would have imagined he would be getting the best of the best with that kind of income. If he suddenly became single, he is 40 yo, I think he would be having a hard time getting a good partner IMO.

This persons brother who is decently successful as well did pretty poorly in dating. He couldn’t find a suitable match in the US so he married someone from his hometown in a different country and is in the process of getting this person here in the US.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-11-24T17:44:18+00:00

I am one day late I don't like this

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T17:55:33+00:00

I cant get into mitski i hate sad music. One time i listened to me and my husband and started crying and then i turned it off

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-24T18:03:06+00:00

Men don’t believe me when I say I don’t need a man who is six feet tall with a six-figure salary and a ten inch cock. Like, I’m telling you I’m dating a 5’9” tradesman with an average dick, isn’t that what you want to hear? I don’t fucking get it.

Equivalent_Term_6319 · 2023-11-24T18:05:25+00:00

Is it gay to have sex with another man?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-24T18:17:40+00:00

Watching romance and love in movies and TV shows, I do want to experience that lovey dovey innocent love.

But as a man, I would come off too strong, desperate and nice guy if I tried to act out that love fantasy and most women would be turned off.

It's a female privilege to be able to live out the stereotypical romantic fantasies. Women can actually act in the innocent lovey dovey way and have quality men interested in them.

Female privilege

Keeenw · 2023-11-24T19:43:00+00:00

Q4W : how would you feel if you were the gender struggling to find love or sex and were constantly told by men to self-improve instead before getting your shot at dating ?

(keep in mind you are not overweight in this case and self-improvement is not something as obvious as losing weight as most incels are not overweight)

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T19:49:02+00:00

Whatsapp and facebook are to my mom what tiktok, reddit, twitter and youtube are to me

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T19:55:24+00:00

Guys who do you ship on here

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T20:52:38+00:00

My halloween costume for next year afff

https://preview.redd.it/dsy54hzhzc2c1.png?width=1200&format=png&auto=webp&s=acf26f1a19c8d6475c4c19f0f107ba3372625e2a

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-24T21:28:58+00:00

5’9 is pretty short though, like it’s borderline okay, but below that 😬

dbz__f · 2023-11-24T22:24:51+00:00

No cam girl or only fans content maker would ever date someone who pays money for her pics, because even though she’s a pornstar, she sees him as lower than him on the social ladder because he dumped for her and paid her money for that stuff. If he never bought anything off her then he might stand a chance. That alone speaks volumes

4SSh01e · 2023-11-24T22:38:33+00:00

HOT Girl Finds out what it’s like to be an Average Guy on Tinder

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-24T23:18:55+00:00

Some women's reddit history makes me so depressed. Like she is exactly 💯 what TRP says about women.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-25T00:06:22+00:00

Sydney Sweeney with make up

https://assets.glamour.de/photos/64f5a2be4e24d959a4851721/16:9/w_2560%2Cc_limit/04092023-Sydney-Sweeney%2520GettyImages-1606793872.jpg

without make up

https://wordpress.bigissue.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/1565_Arts_sydney-sweeney_2-1536x864.jpg

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-25T00:14:02+00:00

Would you rather be an incel or have an affair with your best friend’s wife?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-25T00:20:32+00:00

When is the new daily chat, I have something I want to say.

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meteorness123 · 2023-11-24T01:03:00+00:00

As cultish and as much meme potential has, the most amount of women I dated was on no fap. Probably because my brain understood I need to put myself outthere and I can't rely any longer on my mighty hand.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-24T01:57:19+00:00

Watching noncommittal anti-social guys cry about being lonely is very eye roll inducing.

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T02:59:40+00:00

Noo reddit is like totally tripping why did i find out my old account appeal was accepted and they lifted my suspension but then banned me AGAIN because i made new accounts.... Man that is just bullshit but whatever

sirbumposfabroci · 2023-11-24T03:08:27+00:00

i feel like I found the root of my social issues. i figured out what was wrong all along. it's like i was searching around for the lightswitch the past 2 months now I can turn it off 30% of the time. peoples reactions are like night and day.

soupmastwr · 2023-11-24T03:32:52+00:00

I think men and women should work together to find solutions to our dating problem instead of blaming one gender over the other. I know no matter what we do there will be bad faith actors but we just have to look best them and have productive discussions. Honestly life sucks but at least we should try to work together to make it better 😊

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T03:36:19+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvmwc6h/

LMAOO is that what it was based off od

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T03:40:15+00:00

Like it seems 999% of women above 45 think like this which is why I dont believe in any of the talk about women having more options Bc more options yeah but whats the good in having options if 99.9% arent even good. Can we be real

https://preview.redd.it/279w5g9zu72c1.jpeg?width=827&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=093c4c60d449a6b34d4dfe0187411bf655f06b8e

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-24T04:08:52+00:00

😐

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CztN6tXshmd/?igshid=NTYzOWQzNmJjMA==

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-24T06:08:15+00:00

Unironically he had a point

2023-11-24T06:25:48+00:00

If there’s one thing I’ve learnt about dating is to not take it so seriously. Men here expect some fairytale unconditional love. No. Become the best version of yourself. Date multiple women. Cheat on multiple women. Tell them whatever they want to hear. Lie to them even. It’s not that big of a deal. It’s just a game.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-24T17:22:34+00:00

Let's take all men who have a job, aren't deformed, aren't obese, aren't geriatric and aren't crazy. Even if 5% of those men couldn't find a girl it would be awful.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-24T17:42:04+00:00

Yesterday I overheard some of the ladies at thanksgiving talking about how in the muslim community everyone insists on getting a degree before they get married. People just have complete brainrot about how expensive children are.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-24T17:54:52+00:00

Turkey pot pie is tasty. I'm thinking about making turkey noodle soup as well.

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-24T17:57:39+00:00

For everyone in the states hope you had a good thanksgiving, what was your favorite thing you ate?

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T18:03:36+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvmoFFg/

Ok hes apparently a terrible person but hear me out

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-24T18:36:14+00:00

Guys love to chase potential partners, and the chase with a strong lady is definitely exciting. Women like this don’t need a man, and therefore it makes it even more exciting for a guy to chase her and win her heart."

https://hernorm.com/do-men-like-independent-women/

Solid advice to all women

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-24T19:03:07+00:00

I'm kind of surprised gen z is bringing perms back

shanshkrishur · 2023-11-24T19:10:07+00:00

Scrolling Reddit and per usual, I notice the general trend of the typical hypocritical double standards coming from a lot of women when it comes to dating:

1) Woman: If you don’t date a girl who does OnlyFans because it’s “sex work”, you’re insecure and a misogynist. Your girl should be able to do OnlyFans while you’re in a relationship and you shouldn’t judge a woman who had an OnlyFans in the past (or present). If you think it’s cheating because other men are giving her attention and seeing her body, then you’re a small, weak boy.

2) Also many of these same women: If you are a man and you have used/purchased OnlyFans, then fuck no I will not date you. If we are in a relationship and you pay for OnlyFans, you are basically cheating by giving her that kind of attention and paying and seeing her body.

Basically: “Like, OnlyFans is ok and women should be able to do what they want, but I wouldn’t date you, even though I would call you a sexist if the genders and roles were reversed and you were an OnlyFans girl and I was a guy”

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-24T19:10:54+00:00

Q4A: I will describe a man to you. Would you say he is above average, average, or below average? And how hard do you think he’ll find dating?

Evan Everyman

Height: 5’9
Weight: 170 lbs
Facial attractiveness: Somewhere between the 40th and 60th percentile, depending on who’s judging.
Fitness: In decent shape; lifts 3 days a week and likes to run.
Income: 80k per year in an area with an average cost of living.
Hobbies: Hiking, board games, cooking, tennis, learning languages
Social Circle: Has a sister he’s relatively close to, a core group of five friends he met in college, as well as some acquaintances from work.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-24T20:51:24+00:00

Nature is such a bitch.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-24T20:59:59+00:00

Don’t go on the engagement ring subreddit

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T21:07:21+00:00

Snail mucin is such caca i cant

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-24T21:32:30+00:00

If you need an exclusivity talk in the first place she’s not the one

monster_lily · 2023-11-24T22:20:26+00:00

Nooo but lin manuel miranda is 100% a musical genius.., like i just listened to we dont talk about bruno and like. The way he jumbled all the ppl singing at the end 😍 I LOVE YOU 😍 Ive always seen the genius in him ngl

saulbasedman · 2023-11-24T22:25:36+00:00

I'm trying to watch the first episode of Friends. My god is it painfully unfunny. It's such a drag to get even past the first 5 minutes. Mabye I'm missing something.

People say that it's hard to get past the first episodes of the Office. If that's the case then this feels like an endlessly boring lecture. Literally it's just an endless stream of dumb jokes every 20 seconds with a laugh track inbetween to fill the gap and setup the next joke. If you removed that laugh track the conversations would become nonsensical.

The jokes go by so fast as well. It's like a machine gun of junkfood comedy, endlessly shooting new dumb jokes to see what sticks. And it's weird to say, but it manages to be even cringier than The Office. And The Office was a comedy about cringe humour. So hats off to that.

I hope it's just the first episode. They really would've done better by cooling it with the jokes and establishing the characters first. I don't know who these people are or why I should care about them.

Also none of these people are talking like actual humans yet at the same time they are.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-24T22:51:34+00:00

Can we shame pick me guys more they are so annoying.

dbz__f · 2023-11-24T23:06:52+00:00

Why can’t more of you women be based and redpilled like this?

https://twitter.com/barstoolsports/status/1148760563423633408/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1148760563423633408&currentTweetUser=barstoolsports

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-24T23:27:38+00:00

Q4W: who is more likely to get in a relationship with above average physique/fit partner, men or women?

Keeenw · 2023-11-24T23:37:52+00:00

Q4W : what advice would you giva a 33M virgin (me) if I don’t want to pay for sex ?

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-24T23:50:49+00:00

I like a guy and it’s great but it also comes with feelings of impending doom and depression

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-24T23:54:53+00:00

Do women who use wheelchairs have lower height requirements than those who don’t?

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-11-25T00:01:06+00:00

Booked in for my birth control removal after 14 years of being on it. Gonna be weird having a menstrual cycle again.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-25T00:05:57+00:00

so is male loneliness actually about no pussy or is it about something else

on this sub, of course. male loneliness outside of this sub is different

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-25T00:13:12+00:00

Q4W: Do you care about height more for dating or for hook ups?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-25T00:16:05+00:00

Would you rather be in a happy relationship and have no healthcare (you can’t afford to see a doctor, dentist, optometrist, gynecologist, dermatologist, etc at all) or be single with great healthcare?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-25T00:27:27+00:00

Interesting, so the highest number of mass shootings on record in the US was 690. I am not sure what year that was, but it was the highest number since mass shootings have been tracked. (Source is CNN)

There are 162.4 million men in the United States (Source is Google)

So assuming all of those 690 mass shootings were men, and assuming they were all disgruntled incels (which logically speaking this is impossible for them all to be that) then we arrive that 0.00042% of men commit mass shootings.

Do you see how ludicrous your Margaret Atwood girl boss logic is?

I'm going to be honest. I used to shitpost about manosphere stuff, and I do still think a lot of the manosphere is cringe as fuck, but something I found along the way is how ridiculous feminist logic is.

So, I wouldn't say I'm red pilled, I wouldn't say I'm pink pilled. I would like to think I identify the strengths and weaknesses of both sides.

u/monster_lily This is why being a radfem is a rut and it is no different than incels or antisemites, or racists who place their perceived frustrations on an entire group. I know it seems cool and edgy and exciting now, but that mindset is not productive and is more harmful in the long run.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-25T00:51:30+00:00

Would you rather date someone who appeared on Maury or My 600-Lb Life?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-25T00:59:06+00:00

Once you debunk the feminist delusion that men are some big scary monolith, then you realize their entire belief system is built on a house of cards whereby they gain social currency from their self victimization.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-25T19:32:51+00:00

Does any capitalist business innately spiral to a monopoly?!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-24T00:33:15+00:00

Just because you dont like the current dynamics of hookup culture doesnt mean its not fair.

y2kjanelle · 2023-11-24T02:06:59+00:00

why do men get so mad about women having so many options (that they don’t even want bc most are god awful)?

Like what are we supposed to do about that??? Tell them to stop? We already do and then they get mad and bitch that they can’t approach or dm or text.

Like how the fuck is everything womens fault 💀💀men r allergic to personal responsibility here or something.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-24T04:36:36+00:00

Sorry guys, my dad won’t let me date anyone less than a Chad. I think he’d make me break up with a guy who is too ugly.

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