This is in context to my post a few weeks back. I've been convinced men and women don't want to settle (and probably shouldn't). So my question is directed primarily at women but men are also welcome to chime in (hence the "Discussion" flair). My primary question is as follows:

"If men and women are not capable of settling for each other happily, are we content with watching birth rates collapse?"

I'm a transhumanist leaning towards posthumanism so I think AI, artificial gametes/wombs will pick up the slack of population collapse so it's all kinda not a big deal but I realize that's not a popular opinion and maybe a bit too dystopian for many. It feels like as this gender war wages on further, the trad-cons will more or less out-breed the progressive world view of "my happiness is all that matters" and hyper-peculiarity of current dating standards.

So what say you all?