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I know the woke answer is "yes, of course", but it's obviously not that simple. The question is, are you attracted to this person as a man, a woman, or something in between? Because our libido doesn't generally care about a person's gender identity, at least not at a first impression.

If you're pro-trans enough to put stock in someone's described gender identity, and someone with female sex characteristics initiates sex with you, and you're not deterred at all by the fact that this person self-ID's as a man...maybe that's a little gay. But maybe not, maybe you're just good at compartmentalizing.

On the other hand, if this person has been at this man thing for a while, has a beard, muscles, a flat chest and maybe even a prosthetic dick, you might want to say "no homo" beforehand just in case.

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For example, in the US 2700 deaths have been reported among persons aged 12-29 until june last year, while only 636 myocarditis cases have been observed.

Yes, because the vaccine has been given to fewer people than contracted COVID. Soon that will change.

We do know for sure vaccines, by their very nature, do not tamper with the body long-term so as to cause side effects after years.

The COVID vaccines are not the same as the older mumps/measles/polio vaccines. They are new, didn't finish full testing and were given exceptions to get them out quicker.

We don't know whether there will be side effects.

Not a single vaccine in history has been observed to have effects long after its administration.

They all do, that's how they work. If their effects weren't 'observable' long after administration they'd be rather useless as vaccines, as you'd have people contracting polio years later.

It's a thing you take once or twice, not a substance you repeteadly take for years.

We're on what, booster # 3? Seems to me the pharma companies are quite interesting in people being forced to take the 'vaccine' repeatedly for years.

[–]flyingbee1231 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yes, because the vaccine has been given to fewer people than contracted COVID. Soon that will change.

how so? in the US there are 55 million infections and over 70% of the population is vaccinated at least partially. now, certainly the real number of infections is higher, but it seems very likely that it surpasses 70% out of 330 million people.

The COVID vaccines are not the same as the older mumps/measles/polio vaccines. They are new, didn't finish full testing and were given exceptions to get them out quicker.

but it's nothing new. mRNA technology has been known an worked on for well over 2 decades now, and then there are the classical adenovirus vaccines that use the old technology. I don't really know what exceptions you're talking about. people were in a hurry to develop them asap because it's literally a pandemic and there was an emergency, unlike before. also economically speaking governments etc naturally pumped more money into it because of the urgency. but they went through all the normal clinical trials and were found to be alright. it has gone through the 3rd phase of testing. it's literally as safe as any other medicine, people can report any problem they encounter with it.

We don't know whether there will be side effects.

we do. ever since the first vaccines in the 18th century, vaccines haven't been known to cause long term adverse, unwanted effects. because it's not how they work. whatever side effects may appear will arrise very soon after administration. they don't linger in your body, they just trigger a response. there hasn't been a single known vaccine to ever do that. and again there is nothing new here and mrna technology has been proven to be highly efficient

They all do, that's how they work. If their effects weren't 'observable' long after administration they'd be rather useless as vaccines, as you'd have people contracting polio years later.

I meant negative unwated side effects, not the vaccine doing its normal job

We're on what, booster # 3? Seems to me the pharma companies are quite interesting in people being forced to take the 'vaccine' repeatedly for years.

pharma companies have always come up with vaccines and medicines. we live in capitalism. of course they make money off of it and are interested in profit, but they can't dictate everything. multiple experts have pointed out that it's not sustainable/realistic to vaccinate the entire world with 3 or more doses. we will see. you're really reaching here, just because a 3rd dose after 6+ months strengthens protection.

[–]Kaisha0011 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

how so? in the US there are 55 million infections and over 70% of the population is vaccinated at least partially. now, certainly the real number of infections is higher, but it seems very likely that it surpasses 70% out of 330 million people.

Unless you have links, I can only speculate; but we've gone through 3 versions of the virus now. And your numbers are at least a few months old (usually 6+).

Bottom line is, you need to compare the probability of the given outcome vs the cardinality. The last time I looked at the numbers, they were near identical (the chance of dying due to COVID vs the chance of dying due to vaccine side effect).

but it's nothing new. mRNA technology has been known an worked on for well over 2 decades now

It's been in research for 2 decades now. Clinical tests have been much smaller portion of that time frame. And while that sounds like a long time, for medical research 2 decades IS something new.

I don't really know what exceptions you're talking about.

The vaccine was allowed to be released prior to completing it's phase 3 trials.

also economically speaking governments etc naturally pumped more money into it because of the urgency. but they went through all the normal clinical trials and were found to be alright. it has gone through the 3rd phase of testing. it's literally as safe as any other medicine,

No they didn't. They also didn't do any testing on pregnant women or children. As those populations are considered vulnerable and generally not used in phase 3 trials. So we have vaccine mandates, vaccine passports, and all sorts of draconian violation of our rights; all to push a vaccines on children that don't need it (they're the least at risk) and that hasn't been properly tested.

people can report any problem they encounter with it.

And summarily get ignored by MSM, politicians, and the public in general. Case in point.

ever since the first vaccines in the 18th century, vaccines haven't been known to cause long term adverse, unwanted effects. because it's not how they work. whatever side effects may appear will arrise very soon after administration. they don't linger in your body, they just trigger a response. there hasn't been a single known vaccine to ever do that. and again there is nothing new here and mrna technology has been proven to be highly efficient

You're intentionally conflating the older adenovirus vaccine with new mRNA vaccine.

I meant negative unwated side effects, not the vaccine doing its normal job

It's the same thing. All medications have side effects, that's the point. Some are good, some are bad, we try to pick ones that favor the good side effects over the bad. To say that 'there can't be bad long term side effects' is completely ignorant on how these things work.

you're really reaching here, just because a 3rd dose after 6+ months strengthens protection

And you've done nothing but happily drink the koolaid. How many more times do they need to 'move the goal posts' before you realize the MSM is full of shit and playing you like a fool. It's manufactured hysteria to drive profits, at the expensive of people healthy and long term economic viability.

[–]flyingbee1231 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

the US now has 60 million cases which is way lower than the number of vaccinated

No they didn't. They also didn't do any testing on pregnant women or children. As those populations are considered vulnerable and generally not used in phase 3 trials.

initially. it was quickly demonstrated they were safe for pregnant women and for children, first 12+ and then 5+

You're intentionally conflating the older adenovirus vaccine with new mRNA vaccine.

I'm not conflating anything. they're 2 different technologies but they both have proven to be safe and efficient.

To say that 'there can't be bad long term side effects' is completely ignorant on how these things work.

why, exactly, is that? do you have any example of vaccines affecting a person years after they were taken? no, because it doesn't happen. there's not substance that lingers in your body to tamper with it.

The vaccine was allowed to be released prior to completing it's phase 3 trials.

wym? phase 3 ended in nov 2020. phase 3 trials are normally longer bc there's just no rush. it's all formalities by then. it's under emergency use because it's a special situation. but by all practical means it has proven to be good for use.

It's the same thing. All medications have side effects, that's the point. Some are good, some are bad, we try to pick ones that favor the good side effects over the bad.

goal poasts are going to be moved as we learn more. nobody has the full truth. it's how it has always been. and of course there is also politics involved unfortunately so politicians are going to make different statements in order to get the response they want from their voters. so listen to the doctors.

again, you have nothing to prove mRNa isn't safe, or that this vaccine will backfire long term.

and do you have a number of people dying from the vaccine? at most it has been noticed to be a couple dozens after tenths and hundreds of doses administrated. how is that worse than covid?

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initially. it was quickly demonstrated they were safe for pregnant women and for children, first 12+ and then 5+

By testing it on them??? Do you realize how unethical that is!?? Testing experimental vaccines on children and pregnant women! How can anyone in their right mind advocate for that??

they're 2 different technologies but they both have proven to be safe and efficient.

No, only 1 was proven to be safe. The other clearly causes deaths.

do you have any example of vaccines affecting a person years after they were taken?

That's not how medical research works. We don't prove that medical treatments are unsafe, we assume we don't know and prove they are safe.

so listen to the doctors.

We SHOULD listen to the doctors... They are saying NOT to vaccinate children and pregnant women.

It's only MSM, politician's, and few 'soon to be very rich' CEOs claiming everyone needs to be vaccinated. Most nurses, doctors, and experts are against it.

again, you have nothing to prove mRNa isn't safe, or that this vaccine will backfire long term.

Apart from people, ya know, dying. Safe apart from that!? Do you hear youself?

how is that worse than covid

Because children and otherwise healthy people under the age of 30y are NOT dying of covid. The vaccine is a higher risk to them.

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Because children and otherwise healthy people under the age of 30y are NOT dying of covid. The vaccine is a higher risk to them.

they are, just not as much as older people. even if they're not dying they can still suffer long term. show me how many people died from the vaccine, because it really doesn't seem to be of any concern. older vaccines for diseases like smallpox have had a couple of people die out of millions. it's normal.

By testing it on them??? Do you realize how unethical that is!??

dude, it was obvious it was the same for everyone. it doesn't make sense for pregnant women and children to react differently. it was just a concern that was later addressed.

No, only 1 was proven to be safe. The other clearly causes deaths.

do you realise most blood clots and issues have com from the classical vaccines-astrazeneca and jj, not pfizer and moderna?

That's not how medical research works. We don't prove that medical treatments are unsafe, we assume we don't know and prove they are safe.

yeah, so you have no answer. no vaccine has ever killed or hurt any person years after its administration.that was my point.

i'm saying it was proven to be safe. it isn't any less safe than any other vaccine out there. it completed its clinical trials. after that, there are departments focused precisely on reporting any issues the people that participated in the trials might have later. guess what, nothing arose now, it's not gonna happen years later

at this point you just want the vaccine to be unsafe for some reason, but it's not. I understand media can be wrong and shouldn't be always taken at face value. but you have no ground to stand on here.

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they are, just not as much as older people. even if they're not dying they can still suffer long term. show me how many people died from the vaccine, because it really doesn't seem to be of any concern.

I've run the numbers. The chance of people dying from COVID in these younger age groups is near identical to the chance of dying from the vaccine. So there's no benefit other than added risk of possible long term side effects

older vaccines for diseases like smallpox have had a couple of people die out of millions. it's normal.

Yes older adenovirus vaccines, not new mRNA vaccines. Again, you're intentionally conflating the two.

dude, it was obvious it was the same for everyone. it doesn't make sense for pregnant women and children to react differently.

Are you kidding me? Nearly every single medication on earth has different dosing requirements for children/pregnant as opposed to everyone else. They react VERY differently. It's why stage 3 trials almost never include vulnerable populations.

I can't believe people are actually arguing for the testing of experimental vaccines on children...

yeah, so you have no answer

Because no one has the answer... we don't know yet. That's the POINT.

i'm saying it was proven to be safe

Which is wrong. It has not completed stage 3 trials let alone stage 4 (and generally stage 4 is what the medical community considers 'safe'); and it was never tested on children/pregnant women.

So no IT WAS NOT PROVEN SAFE. There's no argument over that. That is a simple fact.

it isn't any less safe than any other vaccine out there

Again, you don't know that. You're making unsubstantiated claims.

it completed its clinical trials

No it did not.

at this point you just want the vaccine to be unsafe for some reason, but it's not. I understand media can be wrong and shouldn't be always taken at face value. but you have no ground to stand on here.

Coming from the guy who's blatantly lying and stating trivially refutable untruths, and is advocating for testing of experimental vaccines on children/pregnant women? I'm not the one on shaky ground here.

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Amy and Brenda are friends. Charles is dating Amy. Brenda is single. All studying the same thing same year. After last exams of college. Charles proposes publicly, Amy turned him down. Was meant to be a surprise but Brenda found out and told Amy anyway so she had a heads up.

Charles is totally devastated and Brenda is pissed because Amy didn't stop things before. She offers to date him out of pity. But she's clear she's not looking for marriage with him. He's not what's she's usually looking for but he's vetted and he'll do for now. It all works out and they all go on National Service for about a year. They serve together.

One year after grad, Amy wants to come back. She wants the ring after all and tells Brenda to step aside. Brenda still isn't interested in marriage and she knows it's important to Charles. She doesn't think she should have to move on. But she values her friendship over the relationship. Should she leave?

I'm Brenda's beaver

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Yeah, we definitely got Motte and bailey'd with that one. Although to be fair I don't think there was any way to know for sure without more time to collect the data, and there just wasn't time.

Jamie Metzl and Dr. Battacharya have addressed this in public articles, and, predictably and unfortunately, they've been attacked by the public health intelligentsia as "fringe."

That said I think the hysteria about the vaccine is dumb from both sides. The vax probably only presents a risk to fractions of 1% of people who get it. And I also think the cultic belief that all must comply and be mandated to do so is bizarre groupthink. The fact that it doesn't prevent transmission, and only slightly diminishes likelihood of contraction, with decreasing effect over time, means that the vaccine's only solid benefit is protection for the individual, and should remain an individual choice.

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They’ve been waging a war against men for years and now men are waking up to it.

That's not true. Outside of this bubble, what could a stupid ineffectual woman have done to you anyway? Just by your words alone, I'm wondering this. What's the real story? Because that I can respond to.

Aside from in the workplace, I am a quite respectable married woman. I do give and get respect, which is why I'm a little unnerved by your lack thereof.

you aren’t above criticism

That's fair, I never said otherwise. Bring it on.

you can’t attack us with the same things you apparently deem taboo for non-heterosexual men

Was this a typo, or just a stereotype that you think all women's words must also belong to me? When have I ever said anything about things being taboo for gay men, nor when have I attached you? You may want to rephrase this.

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I deleted that aspect of my post because the crux is what I left up.

But you responded before I deleted so let me respond:

more effective than the flu

Sure, but I was arguing from a premise that you provided.

And I broke it into:

Depends how you define vaccine.

If you believe vaccine to = immunity from infection. Then the current vaccine is not that effective when it comes to omicron — 30% to 40%. If the relative comparison is immunity then that’s not what effective means to that person.

If you believe vaccine = protection from serious illness or death. Then the vaccine is effective, though recent Canada #s of icu patients shows a distribution that isn’t all that impressive. However there’s myriad ways to interpret that too and we would need to know more about the demo.

Now, it seems that omicron really had its way with one group more than others: ppl who got two shots or one shot. Ppl who are unvaccinated and ppl with a recent booster are less prevalent in the recent omicron rates.

One can interpret that to mean a host of things. Sure if you keep getting a booster every 4 months you’re more protected than others. And if you’re unvaccinated you may avoid looking like a yummy treat to every 3rd mutation.

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Sure. Though I would say with the amount of money spent on market research and advertisement, and given the fact that the average American woman is a size 16, as well as the fact that nothing is more important to a corporation than its bottomline — if fat models actually moved products, all models would already be fat. Dove soap’s “Real Woman” campaign for instance was notoriously critically acclaimed but did not push sales.

There is actually a number of studies on the use of plus-sized models and most of them came to similar conclusions — when an overweight subject sees an plus-sized model, she actually drops in self-esteem and motivation. Some studies even observed this drop when the overweight subject viewed any sized models, and the best ads were in fact ads with only the product and no humans. Conversely a low BMI subject get a boost in self-esteem when viewing all model samples, because she can identify positively with the thin models and saw themselves as better than the overweight models. Normal BMI models, expectedly, had the biggest shifts in self-esteem and was the easiest to influence and manipulate.

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Every time you think a girl is attractive and you want to ask her out instead of thinking "is she my looks match" think about the type of guys she pulls.

I'm saying this as alot of guys think that her being your looks match means you have the same smv or even rmv and they "deserve" to be together , that is a big NO. It's dependant on if your equal or better than the guys that are going for her, that's why you can see couples were the guy is lower smv than the women but they met in highschool , due to there being a small amount of competition. And normally when competition arises she jumps ship.

Example : A skinny woman and a skinny guy. Both parties are skinny with a looks matched face but in one case one has a much higher smv even accounting for her being a woman. This is due to the higher importance men put on women's bodies.

The same could be said for fat guys to fat girls, think about the type of guys this girl can pull. Are you in that group , if not lower your expectations of the Interaction. I've seen , yes I know it's for one night stands , fat girls pull fully gym maxed men white and black and throughout social media I hear fat women say they are "liked" by lean men, I thought they were coping, but in real life I've seen it rarely though , and online you can see it in alot of places

Edit: if your afraid of being a "beta bux" think "could I have a one night stand with this girl". If so then you have a good chance of her finding you physically attractive enough.

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I do not recommend a "no means no, even imaginary no" approach, but a "yes means yes" approach. You don't analyze all the reasons she might say no. You look for IOI's, or signs of a yes. A match, a flirt, whatever. That's your sign that you're good to go one step at a time, regardless of any ridiculous TERPer hamstering about "the best she could hook up with." That isn't your call to judge who is best- it's hers. So listen to her signs that that "yeah, you're desirable, the answer is yes." Anything less than that is a no. Truth be told, where you don't have time to worry about the competition. Let that be her job. You just take a yes if you want it- even if you think she's hot enough to have ONS with whoever. Her enthusiasm speaks for itself and that's what you really want in the first place, huh?

But hey. If you've got so many options and so much to do with your life that you can afford to self-reject for women you like, then that's one way to live life. I personally am OK not being asked out by men who think "nah, better not waste my time." I do wonder if it's really most effective for a man, but I guess that's not my call.

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You're right about the stranger yet you and so many people would precisely advise against hitting on strangers.

I wouldn't advise against a man talking to a woman at a party or a club, but get her number first and don't be a ho.

I would also add that with social media it's becoming easier to make a guess about where some women stand.

Hmm, easier maybe, but I would never post my personal shit.

Women trading down when it comes to looks are going to duty sex their partner down in the road. A decline in women's sexual desire means a decline in relationship satisfaction for both partners.

Do you honestly believe this? Like, do you believe that older couples who meet and just want to feel intimacy again will soon lack desire just because they might not be as hot as part partners? Don't m own if I believe people work like this, but then again I'm a low N count very emotionally sexual person compared to what people expect.

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Lol 😄 - if you think women don't care about a man's height, you're an alien who's only just stumbled upon humans. Or you're a human who is trolling, cause that's basic knowledge, almost as basic as the fact that humans have two eyes and two legs. 👀🦵🦵

Now if YOU specifically don't care, that's awesome - and it makes you part a small minority. I've just been lucky enough to come across a few members of your minority. Or, they cared, but they enjoyed other aspects of me enough to offset it. Cause it's not the ONLY thing they care about, of course, but they care about it far, far more than men do.

And I do have other things going for me: I'm intelligent and witty, in decent shape, and very very skilled on the dance floor, which is where much of my social time is spent. A guy who can dance well can be hard to find in many areas. And my face may be handsome enough to do the trick too, so that stuff can make up for it.

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Lol 😄 - if you think women don't care about a man's height, you're an alien who's only just stumbled upon humans. Or you're a human who is trolling, cause that's basic knowledge, almost as basic as the fact that humans have two eyes and two legs. 👀🦵🦵

How does it improve a woman’s life that a man is a certain height?

Cause it's not the ONLY thing they care about, of course, but they care about it far, far more than men do.

Men care more than women buddy. They don't admit it, but they do in practice.

And I do have other things going for me: I'm intelligent and witty, in decent shape, and very very skilled on the dance floor, which is where much of my social time is spent.

You can't be serious. Are you old?

A guy who can dance well can be hard to find in many areas.

Yea, women are totally impressed with guys who can dance. Just lol.

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How does it improve a woman’s life that a man is a certain height?

Beats me. 🤷🏽‍♂️ Ask all the women who demand it.

Yea, women are totally impressed with guys who can dance. Just lol.

Well I'm just talking about my particular social group. Just like any social group, like D&D players or golfers or tattoo artists or roller derby players, if you have a surplus of the required skills, you gain status. Mine is social dancers - people who do salsa, contra, swing dance, ballroom dance, etc. In those groups my skills make me wanted, and give me some social clout, I guess. That wouldn't help me at all with women who don't dance, clearly. But my last few girlfriends have all been women I met on the dance floor. So I was just pointing out one reason that made them attracted to me.

Men care more than women buddy. They don't admit it, but they do in practice.

About height? Okay, since I'm pretty sure you're not an alien, now I'm sure you're trolling. 😂You cannot possibly be that unaware. So I'm done here. Later.

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Today someone told me I was a good conversationalist because I’m curious, which causes me to ask questions, follow up and add more content (to the convo). I asked this person, do other people not? And they responded by asking me if I thought most others are as good conversationalists as I am. I do not.

This was such an eye opening thing for me. I assumed everyone had these characteristics that were just attributed to me. I thought it was an on and off thing, because I certainly turn it on for some people and off for others, but I guess it’s not.

I wish I had this moment before though, because all this time I assumed people who didn’t carry out conversations the way I did didn’t care. I know that (someone not caring) has happened before, and is still a possibility, but I’ve just been assuming that was the case for everyone. After some doing some reflecting I could see that it wasn’t always like that.

This is especially weird to me because I think of conversations as the basis of every relationship. What a doozy 😵‍💫

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Yeah if I try too hard to hold off sometimes I can't finish at all. It's interesting actually, I start off having to really concentrate to not cum early and then once I get in to the rhythm I can basically go forever. Sometimes I can control it more and sometimes I csnt... if I have to pee even a tiny bit then I usually can't cum at all. I go pee and clean up then we restart in a few min. If I'm on alcohol or stimulants I can't cum at all unless I'm really really really stimulated (on Molly I can't even get it up). If I have to fuck in an awkward position like a car with my left leg down on the floor board then it's hit or miss.

But I'd say 90% of the time my partner cums within 10 min and then I cum a few min after that. 7% of the time were fucking on substances and I can't cum at all. 2% of the time I block myself from it because I don't want to too early and fuck it up. 1% of the time I'm super sensitive and cum early within 5 or 10 min

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The effort my partner puts in to foreplay turns me on more than I thought it would. I used to hate BJs but when it's part of a more general "turn me on" thing rather than just "Gluck Gluck till you bust" it's amazing.

If you ever consider trying drugs I suggest Molly as the first one, not cocaine. I've never heard of anyone having a bad experience on Molly and it makes me really connect to the people around me. Coke just makes me want to talk very loudly and happily lol. There's a reason they use MDMA to treat PTSD from vets. Don't know about weed. Not my thing. Tried it a few times and didn't get the hype. My partner loves edibles so I'll just drink while she's high sometimes

I genuinely believe the most altered state someone can be in (other than the super hard shit) is super drunk though. It's insane that's legal and other things aren't.

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Well out of the couple dozen ish girls I've dated or hooked up with, a full.. two prior to the one I'm dating now didn't use teeth accidentally or on purpose. Like they tried to deep throat I guess and hit the molars? I don't know. But I never enjoyed it. Plus, my current partner does more than just Bj for foreplay. I don't necessarily want to be too explicit but it's just a vibe that's hard to explain thats uncommon among women. Like instead of me fucking her it's us fucking each other. I don't know if that phrase properly comes over text but it's hard to explain.

And haha it's easy to find if you ask around. But yeah I mean if you've been wasted or blacked out before then you've been in a more altered state of consciousness than literally any drug except maybe hard core psychedelics. Molly is... amazing, do it with your partner and you'll feel even closer to him. I've done it 3 times in my life (you should wait 1 to 2 months between uses bc it dumps serotonin into your receptors) and loved every time.

Yeah weed doesn't make me paranoid. I just ... don't really enjoy the feeling. Guess that's also hard to explain.

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The age difference scares me… like I’m seeing a pattern with 18 or 19 year old girls developing this kind of puppy love on me.

Then for the past few days this 16 year old girl is texting me daily. I met her once, I was friendly cause she was the friend of my cousin sister. I see her as a kid! My sister…. I thought she was also seeing me as a brother. But the last two days she alluded to some sexual topic, and I’m scared a f right now. Like wtf, I’m struggling with dating and these underage girls are all over me. I have more stories but these girls are so impressionable, they are like in such high risk... We all need to be aware about this.

I mean maybe I’m paranoid and she doesn’t have a crush on me. But I can’t risk it. She plays valorent too and seemed really cool. It’s sad. What you all think. How young can a girl be before she starts seeing guys sexually. I know 18 is the age of consent but puberty hits way earlier right? So do girls start thinking sexual thoughts this young?!

I have a chubby face, I mean sure like a cute chubby baby.

Yep, I appear wealthy in terms of status signalling goods, skills, career, and family.

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It’s always astounding as to the degree women and soys on Reddit will stan for paternity fraud.

For example, one of the first comments I saw:

was going to say exactly this. take the test for yourself OP. it's info you may really need in the future. it is so unfair of your dad to do this - he still raised you, ffs, he just sounds like he wants to hurt your mom through you kids. NTA.

How about it’s so unfair of OP’s mother to potentially make her husband raise spawn that isn’t/aren’t his?

Like yeah, totally blame the victim who doesn’t want to continue the fraud of raising kids who aren’t his own, instead of the woman who perpetrated the fraud.

Another wretched comment:

Oh hun, course you’re NTA, but what are you gaining by not taking it. Is there anyone you can talk to? Your dad is being awful, I can’t imagine being willing to walk away from my child, and you are his child whatever a blood test says.

Part of another:

There's nothing to salvage. Dad is throwing away the relationship to a child he has brought up as his own (whether or not that is true). Dad is the gigantuous AH here.

I can’t even…

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You know what is the lowest effort statement that will get all the women of the sub to upvote?

"You know nothing about women" no matter what was said in the thread, no matter what the context, women love implying that men just don't get it.

No. We get it. You're not complex. Some of us have just stopped caring to humor your nonsense.

You don't want understanding, you want to say anything, no matter how preposterous, and have everyone just say "yes mam"

The mystery of women is just that they are vain conceited attention monsters who LOVE validation. To the point where when they say something that makes zero sense but they think it feels right, you must agree or else you just don't get it.

No. You're the ones who don't get that what you say needs to make just an iota of reasonable logical sense for anyone but white knights to think you're right.

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It seems Black Twitter just discovered Fresh & Fit. Tbh I only heard of them from a mega thread on PPD last year.

Anyway the normie dudes have been going IN. And I can’t lie. It’s satisfying to see ppl call those self hating dweebs, dweebs. Because if you go to their YouTube comments you would think they were the second-coming of Jesus. I felt like I was being blatantly lied to 😂

There are truly many different realities. And the one I live in those two guys are clearly dweebs. And this isn’t based on how they look. This is based on powering through several of their episodes. I also notice they tend to bring on women they believe they have an intellectual dominance over and then proceed to belittle them. Never see them invite a different flavor of woman on their show. Also they don’t belittle the male guests for the things they belittle the female guests over. Strong bitter energy.

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You ignored the part about women slut shaming, which was the point of the dialogue. Besides you're equating no relationship with shaming/liking/respecting, I see no reason to apply such a value judgement. Relationships are effort, and, if the end result can be achieved with no effort, I don't know why a human would put in extra effort as some sort kind of martyrdom.

The second sort of contest among women involves reputational competitionand manipulation. It is a long-familiar observation that womensometimes engage in gossip, by which they disparage and derogate eachother. Recent analyses have suggested that female gossip is not an idleor frivolous activity and may in fact reflect earnest competition formates (Campbell, 2004, Hess and Hagen, 2006a, Hess and Hagen, 2006b, Hess and Hagen, 2009, McAndrew, 2014).Women collect and pass on information about each other, perhapsespecially information depicting other women’s sexuality in a negative,undesirable, or socially inappropriate fashion. Hess and Hagen (2009)have labeled this “informational warfare,” as a way of denoting thatwomen’s gossip is a means by which they seek to defeat rivals for maleattention and mates.

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Of course. But the married women were at some point single women and may still currently have single friends.

Look my point is any study trying to explain the behavior of very large groups of people is inherently flawed because it’s impossible they are going to get a sample size that accurately reflects that entire group.

In addition many of these behaviors can’t be quantified. For example I know a lot of people (both genders) who pretend to be pro- or neutrally fat acceptance publicly but hate fat people (or don’t want to be like them) in private. Slut shaming is similar where a lot of it happens in private and can’t be tracked by a study. There’s also a matter of degree—many women would see a guy who fucks sluts but won’t marry them as the worse form of slut shaming than a woman who doesn’t like promiscuous women.

So based on my personal experience I see men so far more and worse forms of slut shaming than other women. I’m not saying women don’t slut shame at all but I haven’t seen the same level of hate towards high N women as I do from men.

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Kinda like I would filter on a dating app for height- or ask if a guy cares about my orgasn first when discussing sex- this matter could've been handled a lot more sensitively. She thought he was gonna do the deed, but obviously he was on the fence. So being things up with tact. Like, if I cared about height, I'd filter for it and just deal with it without making it some other guy's problem.

While hair is "mutable," hair down there serves a purpose and being completely bare causes discomfort for probably the majority of women. Whereas being totally shaved doesn't impact the male's experience of sex that much, unless he insists on munching carpet maybe. I'd look at a guy like he was crazy if he said said crap to me. Wouldn't flip out or roast him, but yeah I'd think it's ridiculous. Just my opinion though. Not everyone is compatible.

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Ultimate Chad moves I remember dudes pulling on me...

The hand graze on the table/computer mouse.

Casual compliment and wink, or funny pick up line, are classics where you feel like it's a sociable environment and she won't be freaked out.

Literally just being polite. Remembering the shit I say, or the shit said about me?! Getting pissed off when I'm treated badly?! Letting me borrow a calculator? Super Chad shit.

My husband... oh that man. Literally jsut asked "can I sit with you?" and later he got my number. He also told me to close my eyes, then gave me our first kiss one day. That was sweet.

One time when I was on a date as a kid... I got the "hurr hurr I'm not wearing any underwear" and the "hey, your lips are red." Never forgot those things to this day.

It all just adds up to a flirt attitude really, where you determined to shoot your best shot with her specifically. Also, when and WHERE to use "game" is pretty important.

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I joined Facebook Dating last week to see who's on there and to my surprise I got a 'like' from a decidedly attractive Polish woman right away - she probably saw that I'd put "learning Polish" as one of my interests. Matched her and exchanged a message here and there for a few days (you can only get a couple of replies out of anyone per day in my experience so conversations never gain any momentum anyway). Nothing of any real substance was said, a little about work and stuff like that. She last replied on Saturday, didn't ask me any questions or give me anything to work with to advance the conversation so I haven't bothered to reply. I struggle to imagine how a conversation on one of these apps could ever lead to anything unless you both had some super weird interest in common that you were excited to have found someone to discuss it with. Like, seriously, what are we gonna talk about? Movies? 'Yeah I watch movies sometimes, oh you do too? Fascinating.' I don't know how anyone over the age of 30 can find any of this remotely interesting. If it weren't for the fact that I still vaguely fancy the idea of having cuddles and sex with beautiful women I wouldn't even do my half-assed attempts at chatting with people on these apps. I'll learn my lesson one day and just stop thinking about it.

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I'm pretty introverted myself, if I can make it work, anyone can.

If the chick is into you, you can talk about anything and they won't care and will engage with whatever subject matter you choose. I talk about pretty wild/dumb shit on dates and it has always worked for me. It's about being shameless, which they will read as confident (even though I'm really not). Going on dates for me is just an exercise in turning off my filter for a few hours, letting it all loose. Every now and then this doesn't work, but you'd be surprised at how successful it has been. I am assuming it works cause a lot of dudes play it safe on dates out of fear of rejection and being desperate. Saying/asking a bunch of crazy shit pretty much just writes DGAF on your forehead in flashing marquee letters and that's hot to some chicks for whatever reason.

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Wh... I... no, you don't get it. I wouldn't prefer to be graphic like this, but I use my hands. OK? My hands. Just like my husband's, they work and they are fun. My sex drive is far from low. It's not that I represent all women, but it's that physiologically the fact that we don't all prefer dildos and we can generally use our fingers just fine. Men like the one on this post don't acknowledge this. Of course there are women who use dildos and woman who use vibes, but vibes are just an easy/fun new way out and didlos are much more... slow to use. The physiology is much the same for many women. So yes, vibrators ARE much more stimulating than dildos. Vibrators are used frequently by women who are extra frustrated and/or craving a change. Yes, it's true, but if we have a partner who seduces us at all it's quite easy to notice the difference between frequent vibe use and, well, not. Because I enjoy my sex life with my husband so much, I would intentionally eliminate use and things went fully back to normal. That's fairly typical physiology, though some women enjoy dildos a lot more than others, apparently.

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Daily Community Chat Megathread

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you know nothing about women

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	12
Comments	1318
Date	January 6, 2022 4:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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