Daily Community Chat Megathread

JDWhiz96 · 2023-03-01T23:37:34+00:00

Anytime people bring TRP women the first one they bring up is Pearly, and all the ensuing comments thereafter (mainly that she's a "grifter"). But what about Courtney Ryan? What would y'all BPers think about her? She surely isn't a grifter and seems legit and genuine in her delivery. Or is she an apologist like the rest because she holds women accountable too?

purplish_possum · 2023-02-28T14:51:09+00:00

I got a baby lawyer to train this week. She's so cheerful and optimistic. We''ll see what we can do about that.

meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T18:12:39+00:00

Remember : Regular women don't have youtube channels, dating podcasts, tik tok accounts or are modelling on instagram.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-01T11:48:48+00:00

Feminists: Men, struggling in bad economy, women most affected.

Manosphere: Woman abuses student, her husband most affected.

scwizard · 2023-03-01T08:04:19+00:00

I had NO idea that one guy I was seeing super casually for years was also dating AND sleeping with half my city at the same time.

Did you think the guy you were having casual sex with wasn't into casual sex or something?

Wait I don't even have to ask. Clearly it's just that they thought they were special.

big_lenad · 2023-02-28T10:54:44+00:00

If you’re being honest. What’s stopping you from making more money than you currently are?

Why not study further? Learn a new in-demand skill? Apply for a new job? Start a side hustle etc

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-28T12:44:54+00:00

You guys Lilith got so based this morning, I love it

huhwhatokok · 2023-02-28T13:34:28+00:00

God it frustrates me so much that New Yorkers and Californians ruined their states so much and then they move to Florida. We have so much fucking traffic because of these losers. And then we have these idiots trying to change laws to make Florida like their shitty states. Imo, Florida is the best balance of conservative/liberal laws.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-02-28T13:54:08+00:00

u/LillthOfBabylon did someone straight up inject you with energy drinks or something today? Y’all went on a rampage lol

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T14:22:02+00:00

2:57 - 3:56 https://youtu.be/Gp34BHK2cNo

So I was watching the above and wanted to talk about portion of the article: https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/jana-hocking-on-why-men-wont-date-women-over-35/EYNP7JWFKRO2E3KOQ63SSDCLIE/?outputType=amp

I remember exactly where I was when I had my first, "Oh, that's what they mean when they say you're 'over the hill' moment." It was New Year's Eve, and I was in Byron Bay on a girls' trip. A male friend of mine had spotted one of my friends in an Instagram story and asked me to set him up with her. I checked if she was interested and sadly for this cupid, it was a no. I tried to soften the blow and said what all good cupids in a crisis say: "Sorry she's just started seeing someone." To which he responded "Oh, that's okay, she's too old for me anyway." Now let me give you some background here, she is 37 and he is 45. When I responded with an, "Umm … excuse me … what?!" He replied: "Like I said, she's too old. I want kids one day." Now imagine one of those cartoon characters that's so furious that smoke literally comes out of their ears. Yeah, well, it's safe to say that was me. I text back furiously that 1. She had her eggs frozen years ago, so joke's on him. And 2. She's NOT actually seeing someone else, she just thinks you're a flog. Okay, so I may have been a little brutal, but seriously?! Not today, Satan!

There’s a lot to talk about in terms of this lady and the situation. First of all, she needed to act more mature about the situation. Second, I don’t know why she cares that guys like that are ageist. Guys like that are typically gross losers. Thirdly, her friend already rejected the guy, so what’s the problem?

Remind me of guys who were upset that that vapid shallow height queens don’t want them. Why do people care that shitty people don’t want them?

BrummieAMN19 · 2023-02-28T15:27:23+00:00

Idk where men and some women on here have got this "bad boys do well cause they're handsome/look like models" but every guy I've known who was a bad boy ie a criminal whose been in and out of prison, stabbed, robbed and battered people senselessly who had no problems with girls were just normal looking to slightly above average in the face except for one who was a gremlin. Either you guys are completely sheltered or think "mean words" makes you a bad boy LMAO some dork frat bro or some fuckboy doing hot and cold game doesn't make some guy a bad man.

The traits that I have noticed were that they were at least 5"10 with the exception of two, extremely aggressive, territorial, hypermasculine, dominant, either a stocky or a rail thin build(if they were white or asian) and doesn't take any shit at all.

The women they get were/are blatantly terrible human beings also with a whole host of childhood trauma, council estate trash and the type that if they were in the North they'd have been a victim of a grooming gang. I've never ever seen some well adjusted, normal, basic woman ever go for these types ever unlike what some people claim on here lmao. If they weren't those things then they're just naive and easy to manipulate.

The looks of these women were UK trashy ghetto or chav looks and were mostly equal although I've noticed black dudes who are bad boys were able to get attractive black girls very consistently regardless of looks because of their behaviour but they were a certain type.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T16:37:22+00:00

It infuriates me to see men whine about male oppression and unfair gender inequality against men, but never are self-aware to see they contribute to the problem.

It's like dealing with the ACAB people again: Always finger-pointing at other people, but never seeing if the community they'rechampioning might be contributing to the situation.

Deflower_merchant · 2023-02-28T17:32:30+00:00

I have a new goal. To be talkative af.

porchind · 2023-02-28T19:17:18+00:00

do guys here actually like talking to women platonically without any sexual or romantic incentive? I find it so goddamn boring. What are you even talking to her about? I have a girlfriend and she just talks about shit i find so boring and useless like art, music, style, psychology, or herself. Is not even aware of the depth of other subjects at all so i cant talk to her about anything else really. Inb4 gay

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-02-28T20:19:43+00:00

"not here for fun"

"no fuckboys"

Translation: I only want sex with you in exchange for resources.

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-28T21:33:21+00:00

tfw my mom comes into my room to ask me if I'm depressed 💀🙈 Taking me back in time

lulll · 2023-02-28T21:44:32+00:00

why dont women have elf ears

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-03-01T06:32:13+00:00

I want women to explain one thing. Why is it when guys are struggling in dating they are told they have to self improve in numerous ways, but women are treated quite differently.

If a woman is obese, why are her girlfriends telling her she deserves the best and is beautiful?

Why are you people such liars?

Heartherebelyell · 2023-03-01T06:00:01+00:00

This pearl of wisdom

What’s the point of getting married if no fault divorce is legal?

If you can get divorced for anything, you may as well not get married at all. Men not wanting to get married makes sense to be honest.

Purple-Following-422 · 2023-03-01T05:58:29+00:00

There is a double standard that is going on.

Take 1

Women: "If men want sex so bad then they can have sex with each other 🤷‍♀"

Men: "But that's not fair I'm not gay!"

Women: "It feels just as disgusting for women to have casual sex with the average man"

Take 2

Men: "Men are free to be grossed out by women with high body counts, if you found out your boyfriend had lots of gay sex (he's the sub), you would get the ick from learning of that too"

Women: "But that's not fair he's gay!"

Men: "It feels just as disgusting for men to wife up a cum dump"

So which is it folks. Is twisting sexual orientations in arguments about relationships fair game or not?

Willow-girl · 2023-03-01T05:45:52+00:00

My school hosted the consolation round of a tournament tonight but (academics not being the strong suit here at Pensyltucky High), the signage unfortunately identified it as a "consulation" game. Facepalm

HingedVenne · 2023-03-01T05:42:05+00:00

I am so fucking sore.

I genuinely despise the fact that I love wrestling. Let me list all of the reasons wrestling is dogshit

You can't do it when you're old
You're probably going to get injured
It's exlusively ripped sweaty dudes
Nobody whose not a wrestler even remotely cares, at least being a boxer is cool
High likelihood of skin infections and shit
It's so fucking hard. It's the hardest thing you can do physically outside of literal boot camp (and some wrestling camps are much worse than boot camp).

I just fucking despise the fact that this is the sport that I love. I hate that I love MMA too but at least MMA is kind of cool and people respect cage fighers. Nobody other than other wrestlers (and MMA fans who know how good wrestling is for the cage) gives a fuck about wrestlers. But like despite having a cage fight, I'm not a real cage fighter, I'm a fucking wrestler who does cage fighting on the side. But nobody gives a fuck about wrestling.

Fuck wrestling, it's a dogshit sport.

I should have taken up crossfit. Or rowing. Those workouts are mad fucking easy comapred to wrestling workouts and if I got good at that I could at least be around people that aren't sweaty dudes.

SlashCo80 · 2023-02-28T13:15:26+00:00

Unpopular opinion of the day: What's with this trend of young women calling their sexual partner "Daddy"? Do guys enjoy that? I find it cringy and off-putting, maybe I'm the weird one.

And before you say it, it's not just porn, it's all over social media too.

chancetolive · 2023-02-28T14:30:02+00:00

Any older dudes here who actually care about having a genetic legacy when they're gone or is this exaggerated in the trad con sphere?

Maffioze · 2023-02-28T15:07:19+00:00

There is a top post on the sex subreddit that perfectly explains why I dislike feminism and all the worldviews that are associated with it despite being left-wing myself.

Full of sexist and pseudoscientific nonsense all to pathologise male emotions and feelings. Yet when women are equally irrational then it's completely fine and just her choice.

purplish_possum · 2023-02-28T15:20:53+00:00

YouTube's music algorithm is doing a scarily good job picking songs for me this morning.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-28T15:39:07+00:00

Metallica - One: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WM8bTdBs-cw

Lillith: All a person "needs".

JDWhiz96 · 2023-02-28T18:10:39+00:00

For the DBZ fans: favorite moment?

Gohan going SSJ2 to wreck Perfect Cell will always be my personal favorite, even though he kinda got full of himself a bit. He redeemed himself against Bojack though.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T18:30:21+00:00

“Lilith criticizing men here makes me die a little inside, but guys who think CSA is just ‘cheating’ is fine with me.”

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-28T19:04:29+00:00

Why do women have 0 interest in the fields of metaphysics, epistemology, logic, foundations of math, theoretical physics, etc while simultaneously being much more likely to be religious than men? The handful of women that exist in these fields are all hyper autists. Why don't regular women question their own reality?

CliffPR · 2023-02-28T19:37:11+00:00

Remember kids, if you think it's fucked up for someone to profit from committing a crime, that means you think the crime itself is a-ok!

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-02-28T20:21:20+00:00

Name a harder word to spell than “February”.

_chasing_daylight · 2023-03-01T05:32:18+00:00

Q4FellowSuburbanites: Once you snow blow your neighbor's sidewalk once without them asking, are you pretty much obligated to do it forever? Is it a slight if you stop doing it?

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-01T05:18:11+00:00

PPD women: You don't want to wife up a high body count woman, wow I sure hope you don't have a daughter.

Astounding logic

saraimarsena · 2023-03-01T05:09:30+00:00

q4all: have you ever slept with an ex? would you date someone who had/was?

do you consider it akin to casual sex with fwb or strangers? different entirely ?

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-03-01T05:01:55+00:00

My city is filled with liberals who wear masks, ride bicycles and hike. The few that aren't larp as ranchers and want to ride horses and shit glorifying hick lifestyle. Everyone drinks and uses drugs. I hate all of them. Nobody is fucking normal anymore because the standard for normal behavior has become rabidly crazy. Anyone thinking this mindset creates enduring society is a loon.

pet-davidson · 2023-03-01T04:55:56+00:00

"I want an ambitious man" this bitch is 31 years old and has 6/7 children by three men and told us the type of men she wants

Being Realistic is uncommon nowadays, l say this all the time do not commit to single mothers

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-03-01T04:38:57+00:00

Does anyone else’s insta show them folks from around the world?

Halfway thinking of spitting game at this chick from Siberia.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-03-01T04:30:23+00:00

Sometimes I go down the black pill rabbit whole and think “damn it be like that.”

Then remember how I for some reason had good luck with women in college (like 3 years ago before Covid).

How did I slip through the cracks and accidentally be successful? 🤔

doctorsdontcare · 2023-02-28T08:33:39+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/psychology/comments/11d8shk/why_are_so_many_young_men_single_and_sexless_the

Goes to show you how many women view their pussy as the prize.

saw a few based comments about how its related to the system of capitalism. but MUH PUSSY

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-02-28T14:40:21+00:00

I think the power in lifespan of a healthy relationship is equal or dare I say…heavily favors men.

Men complain about having to initiate and court women in the beginning of the relationship but after they start living together I feel the responsibility then shifts to the woman to keep up the relationship.

This is an example of what I’m talking about.. Even though their relationship was hanging on by a thread, he wasn’t really willing to address the problems in the relationship until she made a plan for him and laid out what needed to be done.

Women usually the ones dragging their boyfriend or husbands to couples therapy, women often have to be the first ones to address a problem in a relationship otherwise it won’t get addressed etc

THHBHStT · 2023-02-28T17:12:44+00:00

I say AFBB and I’m the bad guy

Some psych nerd says,

For long-term romantic relationships, women have a preference for men who exhibit resource acquisition potential, and men who have positive traits, such as maturity and kindness. For short-term relationships, women have a stronger preference for indicators of good genes, such as physical attractiveness, masculinity, intelligence, and dominance – these traits signal genetic quality that could provide offspring with survival advantages.

And nobody blinks an eye.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-02-28T17:32:16+00:00

I do think one thing that should be emphasized in TRP communities is accepting a no. Don't chase after them once a woman's uttered it in any variation. It's best just to move on.

I haven't seen it in real life much honestly, but even in YT vids or the like, men will ask out women and continue pursuing after she's made it clear she's not interested. At the very least it's quite cringe.

gofigure62 · 2023-02-28T19:04:02+00:00

I find it disturbing how many seriously mentally ill people who have zero bearings in reality there are running around free in society.

Twinseo09 · 2023-03-03T00:00:05+00:00

63% of men from the ages of 18-29 are single. While for women it's 34%. I will admit that's a crazy fucking number.

Purple-Following-422 · 2023-03-01T04:15:29+00:00

Women claim they're better at being single than men, but that's not really true.

Women will get into "situationships" and "one night stands" with Chad while "single" and then say they're happy single.

If single men was able to hook up with Stacy's whenever they wanted do you think they would EVER complain about being single? Of course not.

PS: Dudes really be wifeing up women that were in "situationships" 🤣🤣🤣

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BMO-Farting · 2023-02-28T08:25:37+00:00

What happened to mythic_punk by the way? Does anyone know?

januaryphilosopher · 2023-02-28T08:59:18+00:00

This might be a stupid question. But why would anyone date someone ugly/short/Neurodivergent and so on? I have met lots of couples where one of the partners is way better looking than the other or not weird. Can't you just get someone better?

To make a analogy. If you went shopping and the supermarket had only 3 tomatoes.

Is ugly and rotten
Is a bit mushy but okay
Is just perfect Why would someone take any other than 3?

Pls don't ban me. Im not some kind of incel just genuinely curious.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-02-28T10:56:38+00:00

It’s been fairly tame here recently, have all the incels been banned fir a week?

OriginalThought171 · 2023-02-28T12:17:28+00:00

Q4M: What should you do when you know a woman who you are having a conflict with is absolutely refusing to see her own actions, is twisting the facts and misrepresenting everything to make herself look good?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-28T12:54:22+00:00

I don’t vote but My thing is if it has proven that political debates don’t really matter or impact who wins an election why do they still have them. It’s basically a waste of money lol. The vast majority of people who vote know who they are gonna vote for by the time the debates roll around. There’s nothing the other side or their side could say that’s gonna change their minds. The “undecideds” and “independents” are largely a minority and most of those people are fronting anyway. They KNOW who they are voting for they just don’t want to say

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-28T14:14:07+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/11e232j/life_is_nuanced_and_complex/

This would have stopped so many of the straw woman arguments that are used in discussion with me. Like just this morning for instance.

Ok_Thought_1818 · 2023-02-28T14:16:19+00:00

Question for the introverts here: some days I wake up feeling like a boss bitch, have a huge social battery, and am able to approach people and have nice convos. Other days I just want to be alone reading a book or watching a movie and even the thought of having to interact with other people is tiresome.

How do you regulate this energy? Do you just need to take days for yourself sometimes? Do you feel that pushing yourself out of your comfort zone (going to parties or meetups or whatever) “increases” the capacity of your social battery over time? I feel that I definitely do need to put a lot of effort into things like small talk, and I worry that people won’t find me interesting.

Definitely trying to put myself out there to push myself, but I don’t know if it’s worth it. I’ve heard that this is basically genetic. My parents and sister are quiet people as well. Some people naturally are just talkative. Others aren’t. But I’ve always felt like you can improve yourself with practice. And this world is great for introverts, so I’m trying to change.

John_Oakman · 2023-02-28T14:23:29+00:00

Once material results are completely separated from moral virtues, shaming and guilting are the only tool left to keep the population in line...

... and those tools have little to no effect of those have no shame or guilt. Or when the punishment for not good enough and completely evil are the same.

Deflower_merchant · 2023-02-28T14:35:26+00:00

I don't think I have the potential to cry. It has been over 6 years since I last cried. I wonder if I am able to cry when my parents die.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-02-28T15:14:54+00:00

Guys any suggestions on how to have more energy during the week? Working a full time, side hustle, workout everyday and ... having a 10 day rotation is making me reach a breaking point!

How can I add to the stable without melting down?

KarmaCameleonian · 2023-02-28T15:18:48+00:00

Wasn’t there a poster here that was diagnosed with some kind of cancer? What happened to her?

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-02-28T15:30:16+00:00

Women desperately strawman single men and this is particularly true about millenials and younger.

It has two purposes

Shift blame of singlness onto them(lol 30%).
Create an illusion that it won't impact society.

Surely if some fat r#tard who dropped out of highschool can't pair then nobody cares but if it becomes known as an issue among multiple economic strata and education levels it will be perceived as differently(which is what is happening today).

Breitbart and other conservative outlets are starting to go redpill wrt to dating dynamics, it's only a matter of time until we go truly mainstream.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-28T15:32:18+00:00

My dad is getting older and it seems to be too hard for him to handle. He’s started to behave more aggressively and is proud to be stuck with his ways, which makes it difficult to communicate with him.

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-02-28T17:43:46+00:00

Omg

One dude: I think we should ban people in relationships from ppd (which are mostly women) they don't have tinder ptsd like I do

Girl replies: I'm single but generally feel silenced and like I can't share my opinion here

Soooo basically the women you can't bully out you would like banned. Lol

biggestuzifanea · 2023-02-28T17:49:10+00:00

If women were supposed to orgasm during sex why is the bean on the outside?

Deflower_merchant · 2023-02-28T17:55:57+00:00

Q4A: can woman do anything wrong?

danielwastaken · 2023-02-28T18:15:53+00:00

2019 was a great year for movies. 1917, Joker, Parasite, the Irishman. Can't believe that's already 4 year ago

lulll · 2023-02-28T19:04:07+00:00

takes notes women

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-28T20:35:18+00:00

Q4A: imagine the ugliest person that you know. What would it take for you to genuinely fall in love with them? What would they have to do to win you over?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-02-28T20:45:43+00:00

Had a really good first date ever today but one question remains.

Is a age gap of six years too much?

For example M25 and F19. I think it's way too much and kind creepy dating a teenager, everyone else I know disagrees with me.

auteurfantastique · 2023-02-28T21:07:48+00:00

Is it weird to date your sister-in-law's sister? Like if your brother is married to a woman and she has a sister, would that sister be off-limits?

(Just a hypothetical, don't worry)

meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T21:17:30+00:00

Im not a lefty but left-handed people probably should be granted reperations

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-01T03:16:03+00:00

1 introverted pussy = 50 extroverted pussies. CMV

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-01T02:59:08+00:00

Women like women more than men do

THHBHStT · 2023-03-01T02:04:30+00:00

Getting accused of sexual assault as a young guy is pretty much a death sentence. 90% of the time it’s he said, she said and no matter what pretty much everyone will be on her side. Literally can’t think of a way out of an accusation like that plus you can’t just leave the environment that easily. Kinda forced to deal with that over your head at least temporarily

A pledge from my old chapter is getting the treatment and it’s insane to see how many women are coming out and saying he needs to face actual consequences. I don’t doubt it’s for good reason why women and men will side with the woman’s word, just very interesting to see it play out in real time

meteorness123 · 2023-03-01T01:40:23+00:00

Zuckerberg is an inspiration in some way. Guy is so retardedly rich and yet he has chosen to have a conventionally unattractive wife and he seems perfectly content with it.

good_at_math_2 · 2023-03-01T01:39:33+00:00

Another gem from a 28 year old self made millionaire.

Women deal with a lot of nonsense from loser men. What women need to understand is that the non-loser men still have to deal with - you guessed it - the loser men.

I know women think being a non-loser man is like being a bulletproof Chad but the same losers trying to be weird in your DMs are not great at making money, building a social circle, fitness, fashion etc. They will flood our DMs for every non dating request and we have to just avoid or ignore it.

This is why a non-loser man the same age is ‘tougher’ than a woman the same age, he doesn’t - as easily - have an army of female friends to help fight off the loser men. The non-loser male group sticks together sure but man do we all wish we could just have every girls girlfriend army one group chat away to fight off weirdos.

And being rich doesn’t fix it for straight men, would you want to have an easier time being friends with Elon Musk and Mark Zuckerberg? Hard pass.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-01T01:28:29+00:00

Men here: I want a woman who’s feminine.

Also men here: Will explain why he looks down upon feminine hobbies and defines femininity as being his cook, maid, hooker, and nanny.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T12:20:22+00:00

When I was younger, I thought feminists were lying for claiming that men would excuse their behavior with a “Im a man, I can't help it” mindset.

I’d like to thank purple pill debate and the manosphere itself for proving that the feminists were right.

saraimarsena · 2023-02-28T14:47:33+00:00

unfortunately both men and women observe the opposite gender chasing individuals who have seemingly crimson red raging red flags, only to then complain when they get burned by these red flag individuals.

at the end of the day, dating is not an environment ran by morals or else most moral would —> most results. perhaps at the end of the day the better man/woman has better chances finding a healthy relationship, but that’s deeper and harder to assess.

being good seems to some to have little “reward” because there’s no overarching environment in which being bad is punished. nobody’s going to give you a pat on the back. cheaters and gold diggers don’t get ostracized, they just find someone else.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-02-28T19:13:06+00:00

As a lib, my biggest criticism of the left is that they have no positive male figures. They have no answer for incels. Of course these dudes are going to end up leaning conservative and listen to Rogan/Tate/Alex Jones/Peterson.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-02-28T12:55:53+00:00

It’s absolutely crazy to me that men will say stuff like this completely unprovoked. Emilia largely keeps to herself, she seems like a sweet woman that doesn’t bother anyone yet…

meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T17:07:52+00:00

I think the reason some guys want women to have kids early (like early twenties) is they want control over them.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T12:28:23+00:00

It’s always funny watching manosphere have the same views of men as radical man hating feminists. they just don’t like when radfems take it to its logical conclusion.

Manosphere: Women are responsible for man’s behavior based on a reward system. Sex is the most important thing to a man, and he’ll do anything to get it, even be immoral. of course were the more violent sex because we’re stronger than you.

Also manosphere: OMG! Why are women trying to control what we men do!? stop trying to emasculate us to make us like girl!

Serious it’s amazing that these guys will describe men basically as sex-crazed wild animals that have no sense of personal responsibility, and then wonder why there’s women who conclude that men should just be in cages to be treated like dogs.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-28T13:24:05+00:00

Lillith:

“All the females I want to desperately fuck want to fuck bad boys and I refuse to go after females who don't chase bad boys because they're not as hot or hyper sexual.”

PPD: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rtsh4v/women_in_a_nutshell/

12throw1234away34 · 2023-02-28T16:08:13+00:00

I’ve only been active on this sub for about a week and it’s full of petulant man children and gross sexists on both sides.

I need to start blocking the low quality posters because they spam this sub with maliciously and needlessly inflammatory comments that are meant to provoke fights than actual spirited, logically sound, intellectually honest debates.

It really ruins the quality of this sub.

The people at the top of my list so far:

Lilith of Babylon

Financial_Leave4411

Fast_Delivery9164

Safinated (still assessing her but not promising so far)

Edit: starting to see the knee jerk backlash already. If you felt triggered by what I wrote, try to introspect why.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T16:22:22+00:00

Men here: Society doesn't take female criminals seriously and it's not fair!

Also Men here: *More focused on an imaginary divorce settlement and NOT the fact a woman groomed her 17 year old student.*

lulll · 2023-02-28T17:01:54+00:00

women: look at me look at me look at me look at me

men: looking

women: YOU FUCKING CREEP

THHBHStT · 2023-02-28T17:30:05+00:00

I kinda get women now after they hookup w someone drunk

Wake up in this girls bed and she says “don’t tell anyone what happened last night” genuinely got no clue and she asks if I blacked out, which ig I did

Can immediately see if roles were reversed I’d be shitting bricks. Not going to say I was raped but feels weird and can def get why a woman would say so

Also don’t do long distance y’all. I like to be optimistic but if you do long distance your partner will cheat most the time

Warm_Philosopher · 2023-02-28T17:48:15+00:00

After living in dorms as an exchange student in the US, I have noticed how prevalent chad harems really are. Say you live in a dorm with 24 people, and it has roughly a 50% gender distribution. In all of the dorms it has gone like this; 1 guy fucks almost all of the girls in the dorm and they are usually quite in love with him, 1 other guy gets a little and the rest get nothing. I have seen this happen so many times that I am starting to realize why 60% of women say they are in a relationship while only 30% of men report that they are in a relationship. At least in the US.

And before you say something; I'm not suggesting this is bad nor am I saying this is a problem. This has been the case for all of humankind. It is just an observation from a foreigner, what do you guys think have you noticed the same?

meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T19:51:31+00:00

Narcissists can fool young, naive women. Because they can't tell them from competent men and have trouble differentiating between competence and illusory markers of it Hence, the misconception that women like assholes.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T21:21:40+00:00

Its always funny watching guys talk about how women arent interesting…..but then make it very clear they don’t care about being around interesting women.

Very much like the stereotypical lady who insists she want a good guy in her life, but she just wants to be around felons.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T12:40:06+00:00

Just a reminder, when guys say “All females want bad boys” what they actually mean is

“All the females I want to desperately fuck want to fuck bad boys and I refuse to go after females who don't chase bad boys because they're not as hot or hyper sexual.”

Women wanting chad and blaming men for the consequences is unfair......but men blaming all women for his own desire for Stacy is TOTALLY JUSTIFIED! /s

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T15:24:16+00:00

I realize alot of guys here can't grasp the concept of hypocrisy and why it ruins their arguments.

Little-grey_boi · 2023-02-28T17:50:37+00:00

How do you navigate through feminism when you have extreme self hatred issues? I get the "not all men" that's supposed to be quietly tacked on at the end of every "all men are evil" statements but that just doesn't cut it after a while. I hear so many women go off about how terrible and fundamentally irredeemable men are, and how all women are the ultimate victims of everything, it's like, why even bother? I'm already struggling with self hatred and you expect me to be ok with being abused and put down while you are precious and everyone must tip toe around you because you're a woman.

nandor_the_relenting · 2023-02-28T18:30:19+00:00

Down ~40 pounds. Alcohol free for 25 weeks. Now cast in play with kiss scene. Now punching bag. Now OMAD. Now 5 mile daily jogs.

How to quit cannabis without losing my mind?

meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T19:42:41+00:00

Social status is such an incredibly high predictor of success with women. Engineers and stem guys are the only guys who never figured out how to turn social status into sexual opportunity. Imagine the lack of social skills to have high social status and still not be able to get some pum pum

neetykeeno · 2023-02-28T21:31:37+00:00

Can we ban the term "suicide fuel"? I think it normalises suicidal ideation.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-03-01T01:15:45+00:00

Anyone else find it hard to tell the difference between necessary self-reflection and unnecessarily beating yourself up?

I have a tendency to be self-critical, and while there are certainly some things about me/my actions that warrant critique, I wonder if I take it too far. Or maybe I don't take it far enough? It's hard to be an objective judge of yourself.

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-03-01T01:08:17+00:00

test test 123

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-03-01T01:07:01+00:00

There's nothing more bluepilled than right-wing politics in 2023...

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-03-01T01:02:35+00:00

U know this is a very interesting topic, I seent a guy saying that the facial flaws men have that would make them completely undesirable, wouldn't effect a women's ability to be attractive. Things like a recessed chin or high body fat percentage. Thats a very interesting take. What yall think

social_mule · 2023-03-01T00:36:35+00:00

I wanted to share the fantastic news that I started my new job last month but I was smack dab in the middle of a 30 day ban. So I'm sharing it now.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-02-28T08:35:23+00:00

Whats the skinniest woman youve ever been with? Ill start, 5ft 90lb

Preme2 · 2023-02-28T14:18:07+00:00

Its 7 in the morning

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-02-28T19:27:05+00:00

Uhh, does EDP445 have an alt here? Things got sus for a bit.

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-03-01T00:14:14+00:00

I don't have a big social circle but I do my best to redpill my friends and it includes a steady diet of walsh, carlson and tate.

meteorness123 · 2023-03-01T00:03:18+00:00

Rate Henry Cavill's teeth

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/44/71/fc/4471fcd8448271aed714691c4283c278.jpg

meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T23:59:04+00:00

How would you describe the subreddit "deuxmoi" in a couple of words ?

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-02-28T23:54:34+00:00

Who here thinks Alex Murdaugh killed his wife and son?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-02-28T23:50:52+00:00

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meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T23:33:17+00:00

The average woman on average has a better life than the average man and life for the majority of men throughout history was pretty terrible.

jobbo321 · 2023-02-28T23:23:21+00:00

Fuck tinder for delaying with showing me my likes. I get no matches for days, set my profile to private for a week, and suddenly after I get a lot of matches.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-02-28T23:09:42+00:00

Fundamental differences between red pill and pickup:

https://youtu.be/ZNAojF8SQaA

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-02-28T23:04:34+00:00

Do y’all ever listen to abstract music and just think, this makes no fucking sense? Even though the musician tries to act pretentious like there’s some hidden meaning in their random lyrics.

A good example of this is the last few Beatles albums in the late sixties. It’s very clear that they were just high as shit in the studio writing nonsensical lyrics to catchy melodies. Like their song “I am the Walrus”. Nonsense.

RegTextoffender · 2023-02-28T23:01:29+00:00

CMV: The reason women seem boring to men is that due to hypergamy men at worst need to be the woman's equal but ideally better. If she is better than the guy (smarter, better educated, etc) she won't even give the guy the time of day and he won't know such women exist.

chilikettlechips · 2023-02-28T22:46:59+00:00

Happens all the time on PPD.

Me

Yeah so I did ABC with a woman today yada yada yada

A ppd woman

ABC would never work on me so therefore that is invalid

NAWALY, Not All Women Are Like You. Main Character Syndrome? Solipsism?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-28T22:45:59+00:00

While I think “nice guys finish last” is very similar to “where all the good men”, I think “women arent interesting” is a better gender flipped version of “where all the good men” because it gives the same answers: “They exist, you just don’t want them. You ignore them because you’re shallow and you only care about those traits once your shallow requirements are met, even if it’s contradicting.”

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-02-28T22:32:04+00:00

Watching the desperate attempt to push women into STEM makes me assured women will never replace men.

Competent women are a tiny percentage, most drop out or get pushed through by the simpers and they end up in roles where they aren't actually responsible for anything. I can tell my graduate advisors avoided women students in spite of all the social cred they would have gotten for inviting them on because they knew it would be disaster.

Don't get me wrong there are a handful of competent women but genetically most aren't suited for it and will never be. The only thing keeping the modern world running is us lmao.

RegTextoffender · 2023-02-28T21:58:23+00:00

Now that my wife is my voluntary sex slave, I realize I'm not kinky enough push it too far. Glad shes not into BDSM "classic" because that would be exhausting.

meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T21:57:25+00:00

If you (as a man) had a son, would you advise your son to "spin plates" ? I defnitely wouldn't and I wouldn't encourage him to be a degenerate.

HingedVenne · 2023-02-28T21:56:03+00:00

I'm still talking to that girl I'm going with to see Scream next weekend. It will be my first date (that I didn't meet online and flew out ot me) ever.

And she just revealed to me she's sapiosexual and out of nowhere brought up that she doesn't care what I look like. I can't believe this. I hate this so much.

Like she obviously can see I'm not generically attractive, but she doesn't even care what I look like.

This keeps fucking happening. Every woman who wants to date (again it would only be online up to this pont) me looks at my appearance and says "Oh I don't care that you look like that".

It is never "Oh wow I think you're hot".

It's "I don't care, it's fine that you're ugly".

I don't know. I'm fucking tired.

I guess it doesn't matter. Obviously nobody is ever going to find me attractive and I need to somehow accept that. But it's so difficult.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-02-28T21:48:20+00:00

Something I never asked but should have when I first got here, what the fuck was supposed to be visually appealing about Jeremy Meeks? He's doesn't cause an intense sexual or emotional reaction, far as I can tell his only defining physical trait is having blue eyes maybe his height. Criminal activity is a dealbreaker and part of the reason why I don't like living around a ton of people, so his being a criminal does nothing for me.

meteorness123 · 2023-02-28T21:47:58+00:00

I think people are naturally drawn and attracted to people who look similar as them and who are similarly attractive as themselves.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-28T12:08:36+00:00

Women be interesting. You get curved by an average chick and then the next week a baddie wants to ride it. The 2nd chick is objectively better looking so in theory you would think she would be harder to “pull” but it didn’t work out like that

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