Greetings to all PPD members and lurkers, present and future. Women won't like the truth I'm about to spit, but here goes:

Women believe they can "sniff out a Red Pill man" or what they refer to as "toxic/misogynistic men." They know about Red Pill, and many of them are on guard and will try to broach the topic, sometimes directly and sometimes in round about ways. If men properly apply Red Pill, and are aware of their vetting tactics, and take precautionary measures to mitigate a woman finding out he's Red Pilled, she will not be able to detect.

There's many techniques and many topics men should prepare for that women will bring up to vet. I'll give a personal example:

I'm into fitness and take care of myself. I'm in the gym a lot. A lot meaning to where it's a significant amount of effort when you tally it all up (getting up early, being in the gym at 5:00 am, watching my diet, etc), but not so much to where I appear to be a vain freak who only cares about fitness (my workout is usually only an hour a day, while most ppl are sleeping, so not really that big of a deal to where it consumes my life).

If I'm dating or seeing a girl, the topic will eventually come up. If a girl compliments me for example, "Wow. You take good care of your body, I like that." I will give a vague answer such as "Thanks. Fitness and health is important." If she asks me a question as to my motivations, such as "I can't imagine getting up early! I'd rather sleep at 5:00 am, lol, why do you do it?" My response will be a long the lines of "Well, as my parents have gotten older, I've seen the results of people who don't prioritize their health and who don't exercise. It's not pretty, and not something I want to deal with as I age."

The above answers, while true, give the impression that it's just "natural" and something "people should do" in order to be healthy, well rounded individuals. She doesn't know that along with that answer is "Because chicks like good looking, in shape guys, so I move weight up and down, in order to be in shape, so that chicks will like it, and give me sexual access to their bodies." And she will never know that answer, because I will never let on that it even partially plays into my motivation. I will never even frame working out as something I do "to look good," but only as something I do to be "healthy" and it just so happens it has (unintended on my part) "side effects" which includes looking good.

These tactics of vague answers or framing things as something "normal" with no sinister intentions in regards to "sexual access" can be used for all manner of Red Pill goals: money, status, etc. It just requires a little forethought.

As far as Red Pill ideology as a whole: a man can completely deny even having heard of Red Pill. It's becoming mainstream, but not so mainstream to where every man is expected to have heard of it. And if the girl brings it up and explains it (to said man playing dumb) he can (and should) criticize it and dismiss it as something "childish and ridiculous" while proceeding to make fun of it and the men who follow it.

As far as more well know figures that every man would likely have heard of by now, for example Andrew Tate: a man could (and should) say something along the lines of "Andrew Tate? Yeah I've heard of him. Isn't he that ridiculous sex trafficking guy who hates women? I hope he gets put away for a long time." Never will she realize that I'm rooting for the brother to beat his cases/charges.

So women, a man who is properly prepared will fool your radar. Your vetting processes are known and accounted for. Before you know it, you'll have "slept with a Red Pill misogynist" (if you haven't already).