WHAT IS SOMETHING THE OPPOSITE SEX USUALLY HATES ABOUT THEIR BODIES THAT YOU ACTUALLY LOVE? Discussion Thread

Electronic-Poet-1328 · 2023-06-03T05:48:35+00:00

When men's hairline is starting to recede. When they workout enough to have some muscle tone but still have a decent layer of fat on top so they don't have abs and a bit of a belly.

I like some cushioning. I want them to look like they workout at least 3 times a week but still enjoy pizza, pasta, and beer.

productive_monkey · 2023-06-01T19:02:07+00:00

Little or no makeup, especially foundation. I prefer natural skin. A little eyeliner is ok.

nicoleberry16 · 2023-06-01T03:12:41+00:00

when my bf smiles or blushes his cheeks turn red so easily and he gets embarrassed about it but I find it so cute

Billsandasonom · 2023-05-31T18:37:51+00:00

A lot of tall women seem to dislike that they are tall. I see many conventionally attractive tall women who curiously walk with a slouch or bad posture, maybe from years of trying to look shorter like their peers while growing up. A lot of men also seem averse to tall women. More for me, I love the tall ones.

roastpork99 · 2023-05-30T23:30:16+00:00

I really like natural faces (I like make up too though, so I'm not attacking it), women with big bellies can definitely be and most certainly are attractive, I think big natural breasts with some sag are attractive.

Apparently I find a large percentage of overweight women attractive (given the BMI scale), though I don't really think that's unique (most guys probably do and don't realise).

Crimsondazed69 · 2023-05-30T23:03:58+00:00

Buttholes.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-05-30T16:31:45+00:00

--Large natural breasts that have some sag.

--A swell/bump at the abdomen. Just some extra adipose tissue there.

--some saddlebags at the hips.

SteveSan82 · 2023-05-30T08:49:32+00:00

Natural face. Makeup is for funerals

Impressive_Pilot1068 · 2023-05-30T04:30:42+00:00

I like big noses.

Flightlessbirbz · 2023-05-29T18:02:24+00:00

Men:

Dad bods. And no I don’t mean just muscular gym bros who are in the bulking phase and have a little bit of fat over the muscle. I mean normal guys who are on the chubby side but still healthy.

Hairy chests.

Slightly droopy/sleepy or crinkly eyes. They look kinder than “hunter eyes.”

Women:

Small boobs. Big boobs. Rounded tummies. Thick thighs.

Natural body hair, not just pubic hair but leg and pit hair too.

Both:

Big noses. Slightly imperfect teeth.

QuenchlessGato · 2023-05-29T15:33:57+00:00

Imperfections on women's faces like freckles, scars, pimples and so on. The perfect smooth face, often with makeup added creates some kind of uncanny valley vibes where the person seems to be a too-perfect human.

purplish_possum · 2023-05-29T13:08:03+00:00

Women with big bellies can be hot. Not just pudgy bellies -- really big bellies.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-05-29T05:32:39+00:00

short men with chubby cheeks :)

potoricco · 2023-05-28T22:09:08+00:00

Not being able to grow a beard

potoricco · 2023-05-28T22:08:56+00:00

Not being ripped

wtknight · 2023-05-28T21:20:15+00:00

I think that Asian women with small breasts, flat butts, and single eyelids are pretty, all things which they don't seem to like.

Anti_Thing · 2023-05-28T20:26:47+00:00

Big, hooked noses!

RunNo3033 · 2023-05-28T20:18:02+00:00

Small boobs are cute, I rather date a girl with small boobs than fake boobs

Early-Christmas-4742 · 2023-05-28T19:52:30+00:00

Women's bodies after having kids. They hate them but i personally think they look better if she takes care of herself.

DoinIt989 · 2023-05-28T19:36:20+00:00

I like tall women.

brunetteskeleton · 2023-05-28T18:26:11+00:00

Skinny or dad bods. Muscle is cool and all, it shows hard work which is sexy, but the look of it doesn’t really matter to me. Plus muscle isn’t as comfortable to snuggle with.

grown_folks_talkin · 2023-05-28T17:31:52+00:00

Weight, as in pure pounds. Particularly, if a woman weighs more than you would’ve thought.

It very often correlates with a woman being stronger and having more muscle than it appears, which is yay for me also.

It’s starting to catch on just a little bit with fitfluencers telling us what 200 lbs can look like and I am here for it.

jackedsoon · 2023-05-28T16:47:34+00:00

Long thin fingers

Idk but this typa hand is incredibly hot to me

Longjumping_Way_4935 · 2023-05-28T14:45:27+00:00

I hear women bitch about their boob AND pussy size and shape and it confuses the shit out of me because boobs are boobs and pussy is pussy 🤷

festival-papi · 2023-05-28T14:35:09+00:00

Stretch marks, the tiger stripes are a vibe

HeartCatchHana · 2023-05-28T12:27:46+00:00

I'm a woman. Things men usually hate that I find attractive are a man with a cute face and having a skinny body with no muscle definition.

AreOut · 2023-05-28T08:37:45+00:00

freckles and birthmarks can be incredibly sexy and women usually hate them

Bigboihood · 2023-05-28T08:13:32+00:00

It’s funny that it’s almost all men replying to this. Like we need higher standards for men and less women worship to solve the issues of modern dating, not more.

Chikoswe2022 · 2023-05-28T06:12:02+00:00

Dear ladies of PPD,

For as long as you aren't obese, a lot of men probably find you pretty. Being a little chubby is okay. You do not need to become anorexic to look good. If you want proof (& if you have the stomach for it), please hop onto PornHub and scroll the top 200 actresses. Tell me how many of them are super thin? Do all of them have no belly fat?

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-28T05:27:07+00:00

I like skinny and fat guys as much as muscled guys. I don’t find a muscular physique to be a positive. I don’t see it as a negative either though. The type of physique a guy has no bearing on how attractive I find him. Another thing that I like is back hair. I’ve never heard another woman agree with this so I think it’s probably not common. I like hairy dudes so I don’t really care where they grow it. Funny thing is when I was a teen I wasn’t into hairy guys. Tastes change.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-28T05:19:46+00:00

Feet. Some women will claim to have ugly feet but are just self conscious about them. The moment I give their toes attention, their insecurities instantly goes away. The caveat to that is if you feel you have ugly feet it doesn't hurt to get a pedicure once in a while.

Also i like women with big feet too. For me the bigger the better.

Effective_Fox · 2023-05-28T04:42:12+00:00

Slightly imperfect teeth, also height in women

Perfect_Promise_943 · 2023-05-28T04:15:09+00:00

Small butts. The idea of being able to hold each butt cheek with each hand is very attractive. Feeling small and easy to grab.

StaticNocturne · 2023-05-28T04:03:30+00:00

Belly fat is sexy in my opinion - unfortunately most women act like it’s cancer

Active-Razzmatazz-86 · 2023-05-28T03:19:32+00:00

Small breast , chubby body, acne or pimple or their scars as it is normal and they shouldn't feel insecure about it

BoopEverySnoot · 2023-05-28T02:21:59+00:00

This is the most wholesome post and comment section I’ve ever seen in PPD and I’m so here for it.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-28T01:59:50+00:00

I like the weird uterus fat protectors. I think most dudes like it.

scwizard · 2023-05-28T01:06:02+00:00

When their bikini doesn't completely hide their bush unf

masterdebater70 · 2023-05-28T01:02:12+00:00

Women who dislike their smaller breasts.

Mentathiel · 2023-05-28T00:37:49+00:00

Scars, including but not limited to pimple scarring (when there's no acute infection, just leftover scars from hormonal teen years or smth).

ThrowRAaccnt12345 · 2023-05-28T00:19:08+00:00

Men’s thighs, I love them.

ComfortableOk5003 · 2023-05-28T00:08:12+00:00

I prefer large areolas. Tiny ones just for me not as hot. But they also have to be good proportion to size of tits.

Dimples (face and butt ones)

Freckles (anywhere on body)

Wide hips

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-27T23:07:46+00:00

The cellulite 🤌🏾

Goyeyo565 · 2023-05-27T23:04:37+00:00

I find women with big/strong noses attractive for some reason and I'm not entirely sure why.

I know many women complain about their noses but to me they add a lot of character to a face and give it a unique look.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-27T22:58:13+00:00

Mostly applies to black women but natural hair. I never saw the appeal of wearing lace fronts and weaves 24/7. Give me the curls, fros, locs, all that.

DickTurtle1804 · 2023-05-27T22:37:36+00:00

Slight muffin top jiggled ass..forgot to mention dimples. Most women hate them but I love them

saraimarsena · 2023-05-27T22:32:21+00:00

said it already down below but i’ll repeat

i tend to like guys that are a bit bigger.

funny enough i’m not chubby myself at all. i’ve been an athlete my whole life and have always been more on the lean/muscular side w a bit of curves, long legs, flat stomach. i j love feeling smaller than a man, not just height wise but entire frame. being strong is a must but i don’t want to feel like i’m hugging a brick wall. give me a teddy bear!

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2023-05-27T22:26:18+00:00

Love man feet and how they look in contrast with mine about as much as I like rough man hands, also bald men with chest hair and big teeth, some long-day man sweat as long as it doesn't stink too bad

Cactus2711 · 2023-05-27T22:23:56+00:00

A beautiful butthole. I've had so many exes who were extremely self conscious about me doing anything to their butt (not even talking about anal). It drives me wild and is one of the most incredibly beautiful parts of a woman's body. During 69 especially when my nose is right there. The delicious musky scent from her pussy and ass makes me hard as a fucking rock.

YearnsToDestroySun · 2023-05-27T22:19:32+00:00

big tits.

ya I know this will get downvotes. but some women don't like having them!

eccomomento · 2023-05-27T21:42:23+00:00

I like men to be the same height as me, 5’5

redkoicarp · 2023-05-27T21:06:27+00:00

Hmmm.. lets see. I like babyfaces. Some guys who have them don't seem like them very much

bootyhunter69420 · 2023-05-27T21:05:53+00:00

Nothing comes to mind

Soon-to-be-Catlady · 2023-05-27T20:51:19+00:00

I am really attracted to bald men. I do admit that some men can pull it off better than others, but if they do, I am really into it.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-05-27T20:47:13+00:00

That “I just woke up from a deep sleep and am a mess” look

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-27T20:46:05+00:00

Big or abnormal shaped noses😍

Also stretch marks. Ive noticed when I’ve pointed them out to a guy he gets a bit self conscious but I think they’re attractive.

arvada14 · 2023-05-27T20:42:20+00:00

I actually have a thing for really tall women. If i could find a girl taller than me or my size that would be amazing. The issue would be they couldn't be too gangly.

Downside is i'm 6'1, I curse and praise my height everyday.

No-Regular1667 · 2023-05-27T20:24:02+00:00

Small boobs > big boobs

meangingersnap · 2023-05-27T19:48:10+00:00

when he got a fatty

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-27T19:41:21+00:00

Thick thighs save lives 🤤

dumbbitchcas · 2023-05-27T19:37:57+00:00

I fucking love boys with stretch marks yes please

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-05-27T19:23:47+00:00

I'd say I like most things about women's bodies, but how that overlaps exactly with things they hate about their bodies idk

eefr · 2023-05-27T19:11:41+00:00

Men often feel self-conscious about not being able to last for a very long time, but I actually love when men's bodies are very responsive and they easily lose control. I think it's really hot.

pleasantldar · 2023-05-27T19:09:36+00:00

Small penis

timetraveller5000 · 2023-05-27T18:51:27+00:00

I find thicker/curvy women hot, for some reason many seems to think they should be thinner...

Podlubnyi · 2023-05-27T18:38:10+00:00

Small boobs are more attractive, and a tummy curve is great too. I think I've finally convinced my partner I'm actually serious about this.

Andre27 · 2023-05-27T18:37:07+00:00

tummy

wiz-weird · 2023-05-27T18:31:01+00:00

I sometimes like when women have a little bit of a gut for their bellies. It can be sexy.

eye_fuck · 2023-05-27T18:29:19+00:00

Nothing

Can we get the reverse thread next? What you hate that the opposite sex loves about themselves?

Loud_Definition6669 · 2023-05-27T18:26:34+00:00

I like the proportions of shorter men. Shoulders and upper body width relative to height. Tall men usually look awkward to me, knobby knees and relatively small ankles and wrists.

purplish_possum · 2023-05-27T18:06:17+00:00

Giant booties!

MysterySolverDog · 2023-05-27T17:55:16+00:00

I strongly prefer the thinner looking eyebrows that are more natural for most women. A lot of women are seemingly intent on having really thick eyebrows, and I dislike this trend.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-05-27T17:41:08+00:00

I love the fact that my bf can't grow a beard because I hate beards

2023-05-27T17:30:17+00:00

Might be not as "hated", but I follow with my gaze almost every woman with hair, cut on chin level. So hot to me.

Also I don't like make-up, so if you're confident enough to be without it, I would love it.

statsfodder · 2023-05-27T17:19:35+00:00

LOUD NOISES!!!!!

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-05-27T17:14:20+00:00

Small boobs/ass, it usually means they're on the slimmer side (a good thing). Also I despise society's standard that big boobs = attractive because women don't have control over how their body distributes fat. It leads to shit like breast implants.

AdOpen432 · 2023-05-27T17:06:08+00:00

Big noses and also men that are on the chubby side

RadicalQueenBee · 2023-05-27T16:56:01+00:00

I used to only be into skinny dudes (whether skinny with a tummy and some squish/skinny fit) and I only liked men with naturally hairless bodies. Now I enjoy more bodytypes so I'm not really into them only but I still like them well enough.

immortanjose · 2023-05-27T16:49:22+00:00

I love a cute tummy.

politicsthrowaway230 · 2023-05-27T16:37:31+00:00

My attraction is concentrated on the face, I really am unpicky with respect to body as long as they're not extremely thin or extremely overweight. (throwing out all the stereotypical breast/ass size etc., I'm really not bothered at all. Height is a non-factor) And even on the face it feels concentrated on particular features, especially eyes, hair and overall face shape. Not very picky on noses, I don't think I mind some "traditionally unattractive" noses that people often want to change.

Physical attractiveness overall is secondary to someone's aesthetic & overall aura though. It's only really a barrier if they're specifically unattractive to me, you tend to get more attracted to people as you develop a connection to them anyway. But if my brain just says "no", it says no. This has only ever happened once and I felt bad about it. (but it must be said that my attraction otherwise was lukewarm, this was just the final nail)

webernicke · 2023-05-27T16:37:24+00:00

Their own hair. JFC the weave feels dead and gross af.

DickTurtle1804 · 2023-05-27T16:25:21+00:00

Slight muffin top, jiggley ass

Preme2 · 2023-05-27T16:23:46+00:00

Short kings.

Makuta_Servaela · 2023-05-27T16:21:33+00:00

A little chub. So many of my guy friends think they're fat and ugly, but they look seriously great. Everyone can do with some squish.

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2023-05-27T16:21:30+00:00

I don't think big noses are inherently unattractive on women. Then again, both sides of my heritage are known for having big noses so I might be biased lmao.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-05-27T16:16:08+00:00

Some thickish thighs... There's diminishing returns of course, but I know a fair amount of women with great thighs that think they're too big

Ok_Tomorrow_3963 · 2023-05-27T16:15:54+00:00

smol boobs

rakiim · 2023-05-27T16:10:25+00:00

Hip dips, big calves

dishonouronmycow · 2023-05-27T16:09:45+00:00

Crooked/ bigger noses are super attractive on a guy to me

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-05-27T16:01:38+00:00

When they don't say first. I love all my 2nd and 3rd hotties.

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