Daily Community Chat Megathread

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-22T17:42:02+00:00

If some backwoods Louisiana Cajun released a rap album he should call it Shrimpin’ Ain’t Easy.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-12-22T17:38:08+00:00

my friend found a shawty and ghosted for months and now he's back after the relationship met its ugly end. classic. I think I'll be a tsundere for a while to teach him a lesson then slowly get nicer.

Consistent-Gur6932 · 2023-12-22T17:28:51+00:00

Like I'm trying to improve my sexism, but the point is, when I used to be open like "Men are better at this" or "She's a hoe" etc women would be like "Staaappp don't sayyy thattt" and they would like me

When I started hiding my thoughts and being more liberal, I started to get friendzoned alot
Why is that?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-22T17:27:50+00:00

My butt is almost flat and now the crusty old homeless men stare at me less! Hurray!

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-12-22T17:20:39+00:00

There's a reason prostitution is expensive

Not many women want to suck sad man dick, in fact I bet most do it just for the money.

you are also exposed to men being violent and pimps

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-22T17:19:50+00:00

one of the first questions I asked ppd daily thread was wtf do men want from women and honestly I still don't have a solid answer. men want women's sexual attraction and then anything beyond that is meh

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2023-12-22T17:09:21+00:00

Here's my confession for xmas: I enjoy watching those hallmark romantic movies about a lonely gal finding her prince charming. Any other guys willing to admit they like them?

Peacesquad · 2023-12-22T16:58:38+00:00

Nice guys finish in divorce court. Bad boys finish on her face

Peacesquad · 2023-12-22T16:58:22+00:00

Haven’t been here in months.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-22T16:54:30+00:00

I’m sure There are people who could potentially have success running for public office who choose not to because they don’t want to get their family dragged in the mud by the media/press. It’s like I don’t care if you attack me, how I look or shit I did in high school but not my wife kids or dad. Politics is really a different type of game compared to regular celebrity/fame.

Magic Johnson said for 30 plus years people ask him “hey magic when you gonna run for mayor of LA bro?” He always was like I appreciate that but I’m not interested I like being magic Johnson and everyone liking me. The minute he decides to run for office he becomes polarizing.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-22T16:26:21+00:00

Bro, if a man doesn't have trouble getting women, there's a greater likelihood of him having multiple women.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-12-22T16:23:09+00:00

Q4W: If there weren’t any health risks, would you consider becoming a prostitute?

Purple_Kangaroo8549 · 2023-12-22T16:10:21+00:00

If STDs ever get cured prostitution and use of prostitutes is going to explode. It's the only thing keeping it back.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-22T16:05:11+00:00

I don't even try to control you

Look into my eyes and I'll own you

mrastml · 2023-12-22T16:04:22+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/4R79cfg

Remember people, victim blaming someone for getting bullied and feeling suicidal is bad. Unless you go against the sisterhood, then it was probably your fault and you must have done something to deserve it.

Seriously, I hate the inc31s on here, but the no brain blues and purps make me even more frustrated.

BackToTheMoon_ · 2023-12-22T15:50:25+00:00

watch this short clip of simone biles (world renown gold medalist olympian) and her husband, Jonathan Owens (NFL player) look at the comments and pay attention to the people hating on her husband because they think he is beneath her

DarayRaven · 2023-12-22T15:47:16+00:00

Gents you won't believe what l find at the game store

Ayo check me out:

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Ylduts · 2023-12-22T15:38:28+00:00

Children raised in two parent households significantly outperform kids raised in single parent households. Stop trying to drag my kids down because your kids are substandard. You raise the water line, you don’t sink boats to be competitive worldwide.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-22T15:37:32+00:00

I wish I could get gastric bypass surgery

slackforce · 2023-12-22T15:29:44+00:00

About seven years ago, I went to see an escort from Quebec that was visiting my city. She was staying at a townhouse with another escort. She gave me the wrong unit number though, and when I knocked on the wrong door, this tall girl that obviously looked nothing like the escort opened up. My alarm bells started going off, but so did my confused bells, because if I was about to get rolled they wouldn't have used a girl. The conversation that came after was really weird:

Me: (confused) "Oh hello...you're not [Escort] are you?"

Her: No :)

A woman in a different room: Who is it?

Her: This cute short guy!

woman walks to the front door, it's clearly her mom

Mom: Hello there! ;)

It was such a bizarre and random situation. I was so bewildered I can't even remember how I extricated myself. I've had a handful of girls express interest me in the past but nothing that overt. Sometimes I wonder what might've happened if I had cancelled my date with the escort and just asked that tall girl out instead. Even back then I knew most women hated short guys...I made face-to-face contact with a unicorn and I was too damn befuddled to do anything about it.

Ylduts · 2023-12-22T14:59:31+00:00

Find a woman that thinks this of you.

This is how you know if a woman actually is into you.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-12-22T14:37:35+00:00

I should have taken today off. Between the weather keeping all the jets on the ground and the fact we have been kicking so much ass lately, there isn't shit for me to do.

Good problem to have, but damn this day is gonna drag...

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-22T14:26:16+00:00

Animals are the best. No matter what kind of day you’re having they always make it better.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-12-22T14:19:32+00:00

The reason why more straight/ cis men are cool with dating bisexual women than the other way around (straight/ cis women being cool with dating bisexual men) is because they want the possibility of threesomes one day. Not because they are champions of LGBTQ rights.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-12-22T13:30:34+00:00

Hypergamy is real, but hard to perfectly articulate in terms of what the actual genetically encoded stuff is. But people need to stop using the word 'submit'. It is definitely too strong for 2023 reality, and not what women want. Submit makes sense when there is a bunch of worldly stuff an education-deprived wife doesn't know about, but where the husband is legally responsible for her actions. Yeah, in that environment, he has to get the final word and she has to submit. But this is 2023.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-22T13:25:19+00:00

When it comes to the casting couch, There are women who wanted to be actresses who were told you gotta put out to get on who politely declined. They either accepted their fate as lower tier actresses who would never be on tv/big screen or went to other professions. Everyone didn’t say yes

Ylduts · 2023-12-22T13:01:56+00:00

When in a monogamous relationship I don’t put myself in compromising positions, it’s not unreasonable for me to expect the same in return.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-12-22T12:33:24+00:00

People really need to check one another's priors before going off on some debating tangent.
Often, people's positions on things are not that insane once you figure out they assumptions.

A lot of women here maintain that other than finally being free to voice and follow their preferences, most women's standards have no changed. Whatever they are, they are mostly innate and biological and not subject to cultural inflation. Thus, unless you want to turn women into sex slaves, whatever women's standards are, we all just have to live with them and the consequences.

A lot of men believe that female standards have been inflated by culture and technology and do not need to be that high. In fact, they are too high for women's own happiness. And anything that can be inflated by culture can be brought down again as well, in theory.

Neither set of assumptions are totally insane given how muddy the current data is.

Ylduts · 2023-12-22T12:04:11+00:00

Conventionally attractive, 500K a year. Why can’t I have standards? Im a straight white male, I expect an in shape woman with standards. Is that an unreasonable standard?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-22T11:42:32+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/QHfSurU

I can’t do a six strand challah braid! Not perfect but it smells really good baking.

Interesting_Show_962 · 2023-12-22T11:26:58+00:00

I’m going to start rejecting girls with the ol “I don’t think our zodiac signs are compatible” phrase, see how they like it

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-12-22T11:10:11+00:00

You know whats funny? About 3 or 4 months ago I was talking about how women at work wouldn't talk to me. Today, one of the women that never spoke to me gave me a Christmas card saying that she really wants to take me out to dinner one day. A few other women have been more open to speaking to me lately. Maybe because its winter or maybe its because I've now been working out 5 days a week and cutting out carbs and now and they're starting to notice.

Ylduts · 2023-12-22T10:45:41+00:00

A popular headline in today’s society is “Where have all the good men gone?” We’ve followed the loyal feminine women. It really is that simple.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-12-22T10:23:30+00:00

The idea that former hoes are more likely to be loyal than low n count women because they’ve “gotten it out of their system” makes about as much sense as former heroin addicts being more likely to stay clean than someone who’s not touched any illegal drugs.

happy_discus · 2023-12-22T09:58:49+00:00

C4W: Please describe a good online dating profile.

chilikettlechips · 2023-12-22T09:43:20+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/18nsrrr/aita_for_throwing_my_husband_and_my_son_out_a_few/

Reddit will even Yes Kween a woman making even her son and husband homeless on Christmas.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-12-22T08:48:15+00:00

If there is one thing I have learned in 2023 is when it comes to men ages 35-50 in LTR, most times you can tell the kind of woman he has by the way the man carries himself. What I mean is men that age who are assertive and have been most of their lives typically have a woman who is attractive to most men standards and around his age, maybe a few years younger. Those same women would be considered HVW meaning they would have a good income, support their husband, stay in shape, and wouldn't bring any kids from a previous marriage. If you look at the men who are soft, pushover, beta male type, chances are their woman is arrogant towards him, has a baby daddy, or has mental health issues (ie. BPD).

Before someone comments about being an exception to what I said, this is usually the case. Most women who don't have the issues I mentioned are designed to be attracted to men who exert masculine traits. The ones who are not attracted to those kind of men are the ones who carry baggage and are not as a high value.

A good example is a single mom who was never married and ends up in a relationship. Chances are the man she is currently with is not as assertive or masculine as her baby daddy. This is why I always ask would a woman be in an LTR with her current man if she didn't have kids. A lot of them will still say "yes" because they know that saying "no" will make them look bad. If you want to know the answer, look at her baby daddy and look at her current man. If they are on opposite ends of the spectrum, then you have your answer. And this also applies to her ex's and her current partner.

Whats crazy and sad is that I read women saying their husbands are following models on Instagram. Sure the first thing to do is blame the huband, but why? Chances are she lacks something like being fit. Women can be 100% loyal in an LTR but if she isn't fit and attractive, chances are her husband will look at other women. Men cheat because they exercise their options feeling they have the ability to pull a more attractive woman regretting the woman they currently have was the best they could get at the time, while women cheat to monkey branch, most times.

This is why men need to learn to be more masculine and assertive, especially in their 20's. Get in the gym. Learn some social skills and learn how to talk to women. Don't sell yourself short by chasing after the first woman who gives you attention. Don't be a simp to a woman with low value. Improve yourself physically and mentally, and not worry about dumb shit like how tall you are while constantly fapping to porn. If you can do that then you have a better chances of attracting a HVW because you are HVM yourself, or at least on the path to one. If you start earlier in life, you will be better off and have more options rather than just taking what you could get, only to regret in the future.

TL,DR: Most HVW with no baggage prefer men who are more masculine and assertive to lead in an LTR, my biggest realization in 2023. Most times you can tell the kind of woman a man has by the way he carries himself.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-12-22T08:17:09+00:00

Damn that haymitch guy from hunger games was using wig all this time during that movie. I thought he(real life) would be handsome as Jamie Lannister(real life). But NOPE. lol

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-22T08:15:07+00:00

my main account is actually shadow banned, woah

EulenWatcher · 2023-12-22T07:59:48+00:00

“She’s irreplaceable at home”.

Well…no. Irreplaceable as a mother? Sure. Irreplaceable as a care giver and home attendant? Nope. We’ve just discussed a man who lost his wife to cancer and remarried weeks after. He’s from a highly religious community and his 6 kids needs someone to take of them.

Maractop · 2023-12-22T07:50:24+00:00

Im my biggest hater/bully. Its so lame

Anti_Thing · 2023-12-22T07:27:19+00:00

Questions for women who are attracted to men: What is a "low-value man" to you? What is a "high-value man" to you?

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-12-22T07:27:00+00:00

The older I get the more I understand son preference in non-western cultures. I would be unironically be disappointed if I had a daughter. And this has nothing to do with "daughters becoming thots" or whatever, I wouldn't want a daughter even if she became a nun.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-22T07:25:11+00:00

I genuinely feel sorry for men with dainty, delicate little wrists.

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2023-12-22T07:19:37+00:00

Sometimes when I’m watching TV or a movie, I remember these are just people acting like there’s a camera in front of them, and directors, and they read a script and are playing it out like puppets. It’s so weird, happens really bad when I’m high. No conversation I have ever had happens like it does in a TV show or movie.

Actors are all effeminate weirdos who like attention

Gladboys · 2023-12-22T07:04:31+00:00

took my second addy too late and now im wired at 11 pm nice going man

PBtoast707 · 2023-12-22T06:59:46+00:00

I don’t understand guys who are so adamant about finding a virgin, not even just a girl with a low n-count. Are we not allowed to love? My husband has been my one and only partner and I’m thankful for that, but it’s crazy to think that one long-term partner is too much for some men. I would never hold a failed relationship against someone like that. Just because a girl loved someone else in the past doesn’t mean she won’t love you just as much.

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-22T06:58:18+00:00

hinge passport bro

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/s/iBfkhEZBWe

iliyb · 2023-12-22T06:35:56+00:00

Instead of bitching and moaning about having to beta bucks why arent men more grateful they even get the opportunity to be one? Very few men want to die alone and childless.

dbz__f · 2023-12-22T06:21:08+00:00

I think in a lot of dead bedroom scenarios where a woman claims her husband wont have sex with her, its because she's rejected him in the past on a few occassions and he's come to expect she rarely wants it so he's not gonna bother asking or initiating cause he thinks she'll say no, or thinks there's a high chance of it, and she's just waiting for him to initiate.

Like when a woman complains her husband would rather masturbate than have sex, its like, how does HE know that YOU want sex? Maybe he thinks you'll say no which is why he's choosing masturbation over sex.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-22T06:06:02+00:00

i have to wait 40 minutes to check in. i get to the airport early like i’m supposed to and they won’t even let me check in smh

Anti_Thing · 2023-12-22T06:01:05+00:00

Am I a bad person because I believe that wives should submit to their husbands?

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-12-22T03:45:41+00:00

It's funny how the women and simps who dismiss men's complaints about being expected to pay are the same ones who rush to criticize men's unequal standards, like disliking sluts when he's a fuckboy, or expecting women to do more housework.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-22T05:56:29+00:00

Give it to me straight— if I’m a young, thin, non-deformed woman who hardly gets approached, am I super ugly?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-22T04:57:36+00:00

The risotto turned out pretty good imo 👌

DarayRaven · 2023-12-22T17:46:06+00:00

When women attempt to find "good men", they are attempting to find men who will not act upon these impulses because they have enough feelings for her that they will ignore these impulses.

Reality check, hypergamy doesn't care about good men

baiser_vole · 2023-12-22T21:33:47+00:00

Awww my mom wrote a letter to my boyfriend too and said she is glad to have a new family member.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-22T21:54:31+00:00

It's so easy to date as a woman. All she has to do is have a healthy (19-21 BMI) etc.etc.

So women don't have any trouble dating to begin with. But if any woman wanted even better results, it's so easy to maximize their personality. All a woman has to do is gigglemax.

If a woman is constantly laughing at random things when talking to other people, guys come out of the woodworks everywhere to try to talk to her because men have been deprived of attention and want to have a woman laughing at his jokes.

armpitpics · 2023-12-22T18:15:45+00:00

A coworker of mine went for Christmas dinner with her boyfriend of 5 years, family and friends. I didn't go with them but I was told by her that her boyfriend did a surprise proposal which caught her off guard. Instead of accepting the ring, she quietly told him that they needed to have a talk. They had been dating for 5 years and living together for around 3. They declared common law/civil union in a written document a couple of years ago, but she said marriage had not be mentioned once during their relationship, so the proposal made her feel extremely uncomfortable.

Some of her friends and family told her she should have been more grateful and accepted the ring, which she says made her feel guilty. I do feel bad for the guy, but I have to side with her on this one. There is a pervasive assumption that women want marriage and that it's up to the man to propose when he sees it fit. By this logic, a man's proposal is not a proposal, but him informing his partner that he is ready to get married. The woman being proposed to is expected to just say "yes". It rarely occurs to people that marriage also affects women and that the woman might not want to get married at all or might want to discuss it first. There's also a tendency to see men's commitment as more valuable whether women's is taken for granted - precisely because it's just expected - . The comments about her being ungrateful just reflect this mentality.

Luciansleep · 2023-12-22T05:29:01+00:00

Q4W: do you think The current dating climate also makes men be less emotionally stunted as the common advice for men is pretty much “tough shit you are in competition and you’ll have to do xyz to impress them. If you get rejected tough shit keep pushing cause that’s your job”?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-22T20:00:43+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/flqjubcsjw7c1.jpeg?width=948&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=29a90afad7530892922c57f8d52fbaed35318f33

agree or disagree! I love mgtow greentext

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-22T23:31:56+00:00

I used to make porn a few years ago, I got really popular in certain communities (if you watch a lot of gangbang ddlg porn then you've probably seen me lol) but I stopped doing it a year ago because I didn't enjoy it anymore and I wanted more personal sex, making porn was just acting and it got boring.

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months and he's the only boyfriend I've had since quitting porn that I actually love. I don't know if I should tell him that I used to make porn or not. My stuff is still reposted, I still see it occasionally and I'm worried that hes gonna see it. I either tell him now or I don't tell him but I risk him finding out anyway. Advice would be really appreciated

Someone going to have a nice Christmas surprise lol

dbz__f · 2023-12-23T00:12:24+00:00

My gf unironically always smells like fish. For Christmas I’m gonna buy her deodorant and the card is gonna be like “because you always smell like fish”. Then I’m gonna have a puke emoji next to it 🤮

ratboi34 · 2023-12-22T03:14:48+00:00

I just woke up from a nightmare with a massive erection. I'm so confused emotionally.

monster_lily · 2023-12-22T04:10:31+00:00

Im going to massachusetts tomorrow

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-22T17:57:30+00:00

I like this girl at work but there are so many men that talk to her. Even at work at a nerdy company, women have so options it's insane. She's not even that pretty but she's my type. She just has a healthy (19-21 BMI) body and basic personal hygiene (not a fattie, basic feminine presenting).

I'm not even bothering and just trying to not like her anymore because of how many options she has and how many men I have to compete with to even talk to her at work. I have the reaction that women have to "players", in that "why bother he's just hitting on so many girls and not looking for something serious". But every girl gets that reaction basically because every healthy (19-21 BMI) girl has so many options available, it's insane.

Male oppression is the depression of knowing that any decent girl with basic personal hygiene that you would be interested will have millions of options.

bossman146 · 2023-12-22T19:03:26+00:00

Kind, attractive women with modest standards are more likely to be taken. I’ve noticed that a lot of men had known their girlfriends before dating, it’s just that one or both parties happened to be in a relationship (though usually the woman). I’m not saying dudes should just sit around and wait but this seems to be a theme where people in friend groups kinda date each other.

Ylduts · 2023-12-22T19:24:22+00:00

News Flash

Nancy Pelosi and her husband have purchased up to $5 million of Nvidia, $NVDA, call options with a strike price of $120 and expiration date of 12/20/24.

You read that right.

They purchased leveraged bets over a company they legislate.

This is not financial advice, imagine what one could have done weeks ago with this information 😁

DarayRaven · 2023-12-22T19:55:02+00:00

There's this general consensus that guys don't like easy women

Listen easy women all day, that's what l go for all the time

I don't know why guys want a woman who makes things harder for them or playing hard to get, it doesn't make sense in my experience

adamjamal2AD · 2023-12-22T20:56:57+00:00

a great way to know if you are socially developed is if you had friends coming to sleep at your house or viceversa when you were a kid

those sleepovers are the base for a great social life

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-22T21:43:36+00:00

People be spending 200 dollars on groceries just to eat out later than day anyway lol. I saw a meme about this on IG that had me dying

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-12-22T22:34:57+00:00

PPD dudes be like "Nah she won't date me for <superficial reason>."

Meanwhile... (very NSFW) https://old.reddit.com/r/sloppytopcircus/ girls out there getting off on this shit.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-23T01:03:11+00:00

Currently thinking about the time in high school I told someone if I was a social worker I would consider removing her and her sister from their home because it was so dirty.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-23T01:06:23+00:00

i’m back in the US now 🇺🇸

hannahg000 · 2023-12-22T03:05:41+00:00

reposting since the new thread just opened

i can see why this guy is giving this advice. but at the same time, this girl is 18 and if she’s dating guys around her age (18,19,20) then not many guys will meet these standards because they simply don’t have enough life experience/money lol

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-22T03:08:25+00:00

What do rappers or singers do with the panties that get thrown on stage

AceOfSpadesGymBro3 · 2023-12-22T03:19:12+00:00

The worst feeling in the world is when you are mid set and you get that super uncomfortable feeling that you have to shit.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-22T04:29:04+00:00

Do women understand and appreciate how great and privileged it is that there is little to no competition for a decent man?

As a man, any decent woman you want to date has many guys talking to her everywhere. She is being approached or being talked to by tens of men who are interested in dating her every week just by going about her day normally without even trying and she will keep getting this interest even when she's in a relationship. If she tried, it would be hundreds of men in a week. Many of these men will be better than you (the man who is interested in her) in every way. The competition for women is insane.

As a woman, you can date a decent man who basically will have almost zero women trying to talk to him or be interested in him unless he goes out of his way to hit on women. And he can't do that when he's in a relationship, so you have his devoted attention.

Do women appreciate this privilege? How easy it is to get the attention of the man you're interested in? How little the competition is? How relaxed and secure you can be in a relationship because of this?

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-12-22T04:31:45+00:00

i think 1nc3ls genuinely understand the female gaze better than 99% of men.

okaybear2point0 · 2023-12-22T19:11:31+00:00

banter with fellow man = mod warning. I can tell it was a female mod who did this, as the majority of women are incapable of processing man banter

okaybear2point0 · 2023-12-22T19:17:17+00:00

damn.

https://preview.redd.it/zblep5j0cw7c1.png?width=1083&format=png&auto=webp&s=997faa6a3220a325794b702544988276e86cd19c

purplish_possum · 2023-12-22T19:25:33+00:00

Some asshole threw a rock through my office window. Who the hell vandalizes a courthouse?

Ylduts · 2023-12-22T20:31:54+00:00

The one truck to rule them all has finally been delivered!🍻

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2023-12-22T20:33:21+00:00

A few years ago, a family friend’s dad had a mid life crisis. He divorced his wife of like 22 years to marry someone 25 years younger than him and moved to New York where he worked in high finance. Then he did something unexpected, he quit his job and as a hobby started making financial rap music. He’s a weird dude but he let me stay in his pent house while my friends went to a concert in NYC.

monster_lily · 2023-12-22T21:14:50+00:00

Reddit rly tried it w me they really locked my account bc of suspicious activity but whole time i was just at the airport

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-22T21:30:14+00:00

There’s been a lot of folks missing lately on the daily thread.

-Mother guy

-Female Woman guy

-5PointTakeDown

-Lilith (don’t really care all that much about this one tbh)

-My Bf is a Chad gal (very indifferent)

I guess at some point reality is undefeated

Maffioze · 2023-12-22T22:14:19+00:00

My BMI is between 19 and 21 😎

lacuti3 · 2023-12-22T22:53:53+00:00

Q4ALL:

If guys think average-looking women are more attractive than hot women, and average women all kind of look the same, how do they know which girl to go for? Do they narrow it down by racial preference, body type, and personality? There’s still a lot of average women to go for at that point. How do they narrow it down?

dishonouronmycow · 2023-12-22T22:58:13+00:00

Nice things > Holidays/Vacations

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-22T23:27:22+00:00

alright i’ve completed my hinge profile, but i am still anxious to activate it, plz someone give me the courage…

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T02:40:52+00:00

Is this me to a t

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Interesting_Show_962 · 2023-12-22T03:03:49+00:00

I identity as a pine tree and this “Christmas” holiday is a vile tradition that promotes genocide against my kind and should be stopped

dbz__f · 2023-12-22T03:17:26+00:00

People say Asian women get more bossy the longer they are in a relationship. My gf's older sister apparently fits this model, her husband said she was really nice and cute before they got married but changed after marriage.

My gf though used to be more bossy at the start of our relationship. She was way more independent and single-minded and "don't need no man" type, but she confessed to me that she was actually miserable single and that I changed her life, and she's gotten way less bossy over the last year.

I don't know what this bodes for our relationship.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-12-22T03:45:59+00:00

After a lot therapy, it turns out my depression followed me since I was 10 years old.

One of the toughest parts about growing up with a below average childhood is coming to terms with the past. It gets a little bit easier year by year.

monster_lily · 2023-12-22T04:08:56+00:00

Anyone else get like a really gray/sick/pale looking undertone in the winter its so ugly i hate it and i cant get rid of it until the sun goes out

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-22T04:15:11+00:00

Those people who can’t pass the bar exam are probably really tight(an understatement I know lol)

Think about it They are probably in the hole for 4 years bachelors degree, plus 3 years of law school.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-12-22T05:55:58+00:00

I did ok at my animal shelter craft show. Could have been better I think, Ive done a lots of fairs/shows. They need help.

Im going to do some volunteer work to give them a better online presence and increase adoption rates. I know they can, they are lacking in awareness they even exist.

They are at max capacity... Actually all shelters where Im at are at a max, its bad...

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-12-22T17:46:49+00:00

Are women just allowed to femcel post now?

saulbasedman · 2023-12-22T17:50:40+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/CdWHEgQJRNm/?igsh=MjM0N2Q2NDBjYg==

Need this procedure. I have such huge eyelids

Katatonicsnake · 2023-12-22T18:09:20+00:00

The thing I have learned from this year is that I need breaks. Especially when there’s a lot going on. Today my husband and I decided to stop working after lunch, because shit has hit the fan continuously since March, and Christmas comes with its own stress. We went to see an exhibition I’ve wanted to visit for weeks now, ate at one of our favorite restaurants and went swimming. I feel inspired and nourished.

Sure, there’s work to be done on all fronts but the reality is that it will never stop anyway.

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2023-12-22T18:11:41+00:00

I just found out my manager’s manager at work, who’s in his mid 40s, doesn’t know how to set up a Bluetooth mouse or a monitor for his laptop. I couldn’t imagine doing my job at any reasonable speed without a secondary screen. He makes like 3x what I do.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-22T18:59:16+00:00

My cousin took her boyfriend out to dinner and bought him $80 worth of pizza, and hours later he was in bed with another girl. You really can’t trust anyone.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-22T19:09:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/RJEhZQsYFz

Honestly the best suggestion for guys who want multiple women committing to him, is just converting to Islam

Maffioze · 2023-12-22T19:28:53+00:00

I keep getting posts from the shortguys subreddit in my notifications. Are you trying to tell me something Reddit?

Ylduts · 2023-12-22T19:35:52+00:00

Happens more often than people think.

Maffioze · 2023-12-22T19:52:40+00:00

Does anyone else get these moments where you can't study at all and don't understand anything, but somehow another day you can easily get it in 10 minutes?

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-22T19:57:10+00:00

welp, my posing paraphernalia is supposed to arrive today but the holiday clog is make that not happening. guess i’ll just do my last solo photo shoot under suboptimal conditions

grillopie · 2023-12-22T20:21:47+00:00

Paying for dates is just a dumb gesture. Part of a courtship song and dance. It can be fun. If it is hypocritical to feminism, its a pretty meaningless smidge of hypocrisy.

My wife identifies as a feminist. I paid for all the dates. She didnt even offer to pay more than a handful of times. She has contributed to the downpayment on house, she works full time and finances the childcare. The amount of money i spent on those dates is basically nothing. I wasnt exactly rolling in money as a student or new grad. Just a meaningless but fun gesture.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-22T20:31:04+00:00

Lowkey why do some homeless people look fashionable af in winter. They're masters of layers

DarayRaven · 2023-12-22T20:38:06+00:00

I'm so bored of doing dates at my place, this weekend she better take me out at some nice restaurant

missionglowup · 2023-12-22T20:47:37+00:00

weirdly over the past year and a half the guys who have shown interest in me or who have tried to approach me have been very desirable guys or very attractive. i feel like before, the guys who would approach me were pretty average. the only things that have changed between now and then is that i’m in an amazing relationship, ive become a gym girl, my face changed a bit, and i’m more confident in myself but everything else has remained the same. what happened?

monster_lily · 2023-12-22T21:17:05+00:00

Airport crushes dont exist though ive only gotten those as a kid but guys at the airport just look like normal guys now

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-22T21:19:38+00:00

where did the 6’3 dude go?

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-22T21:34:05+00:00

i am just trying to take a solo posed photo in the park and these kids just won’t leave even when their dad’s calling 😒

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-22T21:57:38+00:00

Q4M: would you rather be a 6'1 autistic (level 1, diagnosed as a kid) average looking man or a 5'7 neurotypical and slightly below average looking man?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-22T21:58:52+00:00

If a basement-dwelling neckbeard released a rap single he should call it Nuggies in Paris.

BackToTheMoon_ · 2023-12-22T22:55:03+00:00

Are gay men’s opinion of you a valid way to judge how attractive you are (as a guy)?

missionglowup · 2023-12-22T23:12:49+00:00

i love when my bf calls me princess. it literally makes me melt🥹

Fair_Use_9604 · 2023-12-22T23:24:25+00:00

Binged on 6k calories again. I'm about to undo 1 year of progress in like 2 months.

AngeCruelle · 2023-12-22T23:40:17+00:00

What is it with Reddit advice posts involving the OP having their phone blown up with messages from friends/family?

That's so weird to me. I could see maybe one or two overzealous/overprotective people doing that. A whole ass family or even friend group blowing up one person's inbox is ridiculous. I've never witnessed or heard anything like that happening irl. I find that most people aren't that confrontational.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-12-22T23:52:43+00:00

I got my tip shape changed from square to almond but they're like pretty pointy. I feel like a cat now

Steakman1 · 2023-12-23T00:00:02+00:00

this man out here making blue collar workers sexy again.

dbz__f · 2023-12-23T00:03:08+00:00

Being rejected for sex unironically hurts

adelaidemonkie · 2023-12-23T00:19:19+00:00

I agreed to cover a shift tomorrow without knowing that it’s with my least favorite coworker who everyone else also hates. Oh well, at least I talked them down to a six hour shift rather than the full eight.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-23T00:30:59+00:00

Women complain about men approaching them like it's a random nuisance and racket your little brother making.

No, I'm with you. I didn't choose to do this. I didn't choose to have to approach hundreds of women. I don't enjoy doing this either. The brutally capitalistic dating markets is making me do this.

I'm just trying to food on the table.

In a world that deprives men of female attention, men have to approach women in the hopes of getting a few dribbles of attention to keep sane. If I could just grab and suckle on a bottle of female attention without having to approach women, like how women are able to with men, I would do it in a heartbeat.

If you are annoyed by men approaching you, blame it on the brutally capitalistic dating markets and on the women who hoard attention and who won't just be nice to men.

purplish_possum · 2023-12-23T01:00:59+00:00

Christmas time. When women make plates if food for their men.

EulenWatcher · 2023-12-23T01:28:16+00:00

We bought a sweater for husband and I’ve realized he’s dressed better than I am. I’m pretty sure at this point he has more clothes as well. It’s just so much easier to shop for him because he fits the standards sizes well.

Interesting_Show_962 · 2023-12-23T01:37:00+00:00

Q4M: Imagine your 10/10 ideal women was interested in you. What would be the deal breaker ?

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-23T01:55:58+00:00

i am legit shown heaps of profiles of women better looking than the ones found on the streets…

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-12-23T02:17:13+00:00

How do I take my emotions out of dating and stop seeing women as people so I can be a more efficient hunter

EulenWatcher · 2023-12-23T02:31:43+00:00

We walked 12 kilometers today and it feels like I could walk some more. I really don’t like the fact that I don’t go out whole week and have one day to air my brain.

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T02:33:50+00:00

NOT uplifting at all i live near one of the notoriously bad US cities Why are they releasing hardened criminals back into tha streets like seriously

https://preview.redd.it/u49pgklthy7c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef93c648c6a56d16074b9072747452ebc9d41939

monster_lily · 2023-12-23T02:35:25+00:00

Massachusetts is way better than my state

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-23T03:04:43+00:00

Lol “why can men dish it out but can’t take it” is a very simple question with a very simple answer: the male ego is very fragile.

As a supreme obese lord maximum, I’ve had my share fare of jabs thrown my way regarding my obese lord-ness. It’s a very surface level thing I can get judged and made fun of for and rightfully so. But I realized through defending myself from these jabs that most men are compensating for something. Whether it’s a small peepee, obese lord-ness, big nose-ness, acne/ness, maidenless-ness, or virginity-ness most men are sensitive around one thing. And if you find that one thing, and hit ‘em where it hurts, you can shatter a man’s ego.

So that’s why. Hope this helps for future reference.

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2023-12-23T03:29:52+00:00

I have this friend who’s finishing up school and he’s really smart much smarter than me. Deans list every semester, decent major, personable, the whole shabang.

However, he is so delusional about his future job prospects it hurts me. He has almost no real world work experience and is shooting exclusively for jobs that Ivy League students work their whole college careers to get. He doesn’t even seem to realize this, I want to just shake him and tell him to quit spinning his wheels and to be more realistic. I don’t want to come across as jealous or as some authoritative figure tho.

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-12-24T03:00:03+00:00

i was sitting by myself with headphones w/ my head down staring at my phone on my lap in the mall and this girl out of nowhere walked up to me and asked for a friend if i was single, i said yes and then she asked for my age, i said 23, apparently i was too old for her 18 year old friend

LogicalLetterhead272 · 2023-12-23T00:02:55+00:00

I'd rather date a 5/10 woman who is saving her virginity until marriage than a 10/10 who has had sex before. I'm not even religious. I want to only ever have sex with 1 woman and the thought of a potential spouse not doing the same for me disgusts me.

A woman who saves intimacy for someone who she wants to spend the rest of her life with is instantly attractive to me and it's a sign of commitment and emotional maturity.

LogicalLetterhead272 · 2023-12-23T00:15:14+00:00

Bluepill women: "all dudes care about is a woman's attractiveness and will ditch their GF for a more attractive/younger one given the chance!"

Also bluepill women: get into relationships with nearly any guy they want, solely on the basis of their looks/youth and bring nothing else to the relationship

It's like if a guy signed up for a job where he has to flip pancakes, and then gets mad when his employer fires him for a guy who flips pancakes faster.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-12-22T05:39:28+00:00

If you aren’t dating for marriage, you’re a hoe, it’s that simple.

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