Normal people just focus on healthy relationships and normal people. Sure, occasionally they’ll look at trainwrecks for the sake of entertainment. They’re not looking at toxic individuals and making serious generalizations based on gender.

For example, the whining that assholes, criminals, junkies, and serial killers have girlfriends/admirers. Never do these whiny men think “I shouldnt want to be around women with those kinds of interests”. No, they’re jealous these women won’t fuck them.

Though, the clearest theory as to why these guys obsess over these people is that the guys are toxic and dysfunctional themselves, but arent aware.

I see gold diggers and awful women in relationships all the time. You dont see me crying “Nice girls finish last”. Why? Because I know thats not a dynamic I want and the guys who pursue those women are trash too.