"How can a girl rape a boy"

MisterFilth · 2012-11-24T00:32:50+00:00

Not pictured: "Are you gay?" and "Was she hot?", the other questions that usually arise.

double-happiness · 2012-11-24T02:48:38+00:00

Text from the image for those who are having difficulty reading his handwriting:

"How can a girl rape a boy?"

Nearly everyone I tried to tell for the first four years after it happened.

"Man up."

My then-fiancé in response to the panic attack I was having, caused by seeing my rapist for the first time since the incident had occurred eight years previous.

BallPointPariah · 2012-11-24T00:27:16+00:00

It doesn't matter who's doing what to whom. Sexual or non sexual. It's horrible to experience a lack of control over your own body and self.

I wish it was actually ok to mention to other people. I'd be more comfortable admitting to having one of the /r/wtf injuries then doing what this guy did. So fair dues to him.

Alaskanweed · 2012-11-24T03:44:45+00:00

This is brave of you man. I was raped by a female babysitter she was 17 I was 12. I told everyone I knew right afterwards and to this day no one cares or believes. Even my parents just called the girls parents and they did nothing. I told a police officer at my school in the 1980's and he told me "good for you buddy" and patted my head. The system is fucked.

NightmareFiction · 2012-11-23T23:33:38+00:00

Ugh, I never understood that question. Men do not have absolute control over their erections, the body will do what it wants (any guy can attest to random boners out of nowhere). Whether a guy is aroused or not, it's not that difficult to "force" him to have an erection.

EDIT: For the record, I'm well aware that sodomy is also a way one could rape a male. The reason I didn't mention it specifically is because it's not typically the fuel behind this question (in my experience, at least).

Oddgenetix · 2012-11-24T08:25:57+00:00

Ive never told a soul about this. I've decided not to use a throw-away. I was forcibly raped by a female. Im 6'4", 190 pounds, and am very fit. And my "man strength" couldnt save me. A few friends set me up with a girl they knew. I went to her apartment to watch a movie. And hang out a bit. We had a few drinks, and about an hour in to the movie, things got blurry. She drugged me. I woke up the next day in my house. She had called a friend to come and pick me up later claiming i got too drunk and came on too her aggressively, and they carried me out and took me home. When i woke up i had rope burns on my wrists and ankles, and had pulled a shoulder and my left knee from being bound too tightly wherever i was tied. I remember blurry bits and pieces. Being ridden while tied on my back. Her closed fist punching me in the face while riding, and being dragged back in to the living room and lazily redressed.

I was completely powerless. And i could never bring myself to tell anyone. It was over ten years ago. I was a virgin. I was finally able to shake the lasting effects of it. Ive never felt safe around strangers and a great deal of my boisterous personality was to mask it. It hurt me deep for a long time.

To anyone who thinks it isnt possible for a small woman to rape a large man: It is VERY possible, and it is VERY easy.

theclassicoversharer · 2012-11-24T01:52:27+00:00

Relevant

silverblaze92 · 2012-11-24T01:14:00+00:00

I have considered more or less doing this same thing. I had to see my rapist almost every day for months afterward, as we were in the same college department. I was alone working in the shop one day, and she comes down and asks why I was avoiding her. She had drugged me, and essentially tortured me for hours, and she didn't even think what she did was necessarily wrong. I'm not sure how I feel about it, but I grabbed her by the throat lifted her in the air and pinned her to the wall. I looked her in the eye and said "The way you feel right now, the helplessness you feel, that's what you did to me." I squeezed perhaps harder than I meant to, when I dropped her she had to gasp several times. She ran out crying. I'm not very proud of what I did. She has never spoken to me since unless it was for "work" (college theater, but I consider it to be my career even if I'm not being paid yet). She never apologized, but I hope my loss of control will be something she always remembers, I hope she never does it to anyone ever again.

sorryforthehangover · 2012-11-24T02:18:43+00:00

I can tell you how, because it happened to me. I was drinking with friends, one of whom wanted to bed me. I didn't want to sleep with her. We had kind of just started dating, and it was pretty evident (to me) that it wasn't going to work out. We hadn't had sex yet, and I didn't want to complicate our "breakup" by hittin and quitting (is that what the kids say these days?). Anyways I later find out that she was making my cocktails MUCH stronger than everyone else's. I get wasted then head to my room to call it a night and pass out. I guess she waited for me to fall asleep so she could get some. I woke up inside of her. I was on my back and she was riding me. The strange part was that it was so dark in my room that I wasn't even sure who was on top of me, but she was the most likely out of all the girls there. So I drunkenly kept fucking, just staring at where I thought her face was, until I came.

Anyway it wasn't a forced/violent situation, but I certainty didn't consent. I was actually avoiding having sex with her by going to bed. I wasn't traumatized by the event, and I wouldn't feel strange hanging out with this girl again. I assume if the gender rolls were reversed this might not be the case.

madvoice · 2012-11-24T06:56:34+00:00

XXer here. It's about time something like this made the front page. The sooner people realise that women can be perpetrators of rape the better. Images like these sadden me. Rape is very real for both genders. This bias needs to go away. To the OP, I really feel for you. Not only for the violation of your person but for the ignorance of your rights solely based on gender.

MjrJWPowell · 2012-11-24T07:16:39+00:00

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HellHaven · 2012-11-23T23:50:37+00:00

I heard the exact same thing. Over and over again after my own experience. Everyone kept telling me "oh, well you didn't fight her off, so you must have wanted it."

or my everlasting favorite:

"you could have stopped it if you wanted to."

EDIT: I wasn't expecting all the negative attention I would get from this. "She was smaller then you, why'd you let her take out your dick if you didn't want to?" Unbelievable, man. But yeah, here's my story, for context:

She was my girlfriend at the time. She was suffering from anorexia/depression/suicidal thoughts. We were fooling around, she was giving me a hand-jibber, when I asked her to use her mouth. Her reaction was to get really upset, burst into tears, and lock herself in my bathroom. She wouldn't talk to me at all, despite all my attempts to find out what's wrong. Eventually, she comes out of the bathroom, shoves me onto my bed, and starts blowing me (again, all without saying a word). I keep trying to pull her off of me so we can talk, she keeps hitting me. Finally, I grab her by the shoulders and start to forcibly pull her off, she responds by biting my dick. At this point, I am in pain, and at a total loss for words. I just let her finish, she goes back into the bathroom (again, without saying anything to me) and stays in there for an hour.

All in all, it was a rather unpleasant, slightly traumatic, experience.

EDIT 2: Eventually, she told me that the reason she got upset was because she felt like I was telling her "she wasn't good enough for me"

Also, we are not together anymore.

HornsandaHalo · 2012-11-23T23:33:13+00:00

Those two words: "Man up". Frustrate me to no end, i will man up when you let me tell you to woman up and make me a sandwhich.

I hope you have found someone since who will treat you better.

Jihye · 2012-11-24T03:37:01+00:00

As a woman, I sincerely apologize. We hold gender stereotypes where we idealize women as "delicate little flowers" and men as "burly protectors." So why is it blasphemy if a man tell a woman to put on some makeup or make a sandwich, but it's funny for a woman to burp or fart? Or that a woman can argue that the world favors a man but will pull the "I'm a woman" card when it comes to hard labor and sheer force? I'm not saying this happens all the time, but it's a common motif in many arguments for a man to "man up." If you want true equality and want men to hold you to sincere esteem, don't tell them to "man up" but then get offended when they tell you to put show off your boobs and act like a woman.

Will probably get downvoted, but I don't care. As a woman, I sometimes think women are disgusting. Sorry about what happened to you, I hope your rapist knows how much she hurt you.

2012-11-24T07:16:47+00:00

I hate this attitude, rape is forced and unwanted sexual activity, men are viewed as always wanting sex and we are apparently incapable of not wanting sex, in the eyes of the majority anyway.

JohnAdamZiolkowski · 2012-11-23T23:33:35+00:00

fyi this is from project unbreakable, which is run by feminists

Chucklebuck · 2012-11-24T14:39:51+00:00

Some of the comments being made in this thread are vile and outright hateful. It doesn't matter what sex you are, your ethnicity, sexuality, the style of clothes you wear, whatever, nobody EVER deserves to be raped or sexually assaulted, no matter what the circumstances.

There are no differing levels of rape, with some being better than another: rape is rape. You don't have to be drunk to be a victim of it, it's not your fault if the perpetrator is a smaller build to you and just because it doesn't happen as often as male-on-female doesn't make it any less serious.

The comments calling everybody 'faggots' just beggar belief. How can anybody treat a fellow human being with such disdain?

My head is spinning.

InactiveUser · 2012-11-24T08:30:45+00:00

I woke up with my neighbor on me having an orgasm. She pushed me down and smiled.

I pushed her off and told her to get out.

10 weeks later I realised she had given me HPV.

Pecanpig · 2012-11-23T22:48:01+00:00

His writing is horrible...I can't even read that.

Vexercist · 2012-11-24T07:56:26+00:00

I never realized so many people legitimately believed this wasn't physically possible. Not sure if I should be concerned or disappointed.

MushroomSlap · 2012-11-23T23:59:31+00:00

Rape is about control and either a man or woman can exert that control through different means.

Kettyr · 2012-11-24T01:56:26+00:00

Let us all keep in mind--rape is not an issue for just men or just women. Rape is a symptom of a society that contains such responses as seen here. It affects everyone. If that is indeed you in the picture, thank you for your courage in posting here. If it is not, thank you for sharing it.

WTFdinosaur · 2012-11-24T12:10:32+00:00

What a absolute joke!!!! If my partner told me there was the girl who raped him I would smack that bitch into next week!!!!! I'm so sorry you haven't received the support you deserve and I'm sorry the person you loved and wanted to share your life with didn't understand and support you. Well done on getting though such a horrible experience without support you truly are a survivor <3

Jovial_Gorilla · 2012-11-24T03:20:12+00:00

Why the fuck did SRS decide to hit this thread so hard?

Konnoryuu · 2012-11-24T01:48:38+00:00

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Jazzspasm · 2012-11-24T03:00:54+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/WTF/comments/13okn3/woman_demands_her_husband_perform_cunnilingus/

He shoulda just 'manned up'.....

FatZombieMama · 2012-11-24T03:23:51+00:00

As a woman, I find this horrible. I would never have said things like that to you. I know this is in r/mensrights but not all females are bad. I hope you're doing better now.

dingodego · 2012-11-24T07:15:59+00:00

So a similar thing happened to my friends at a high school/college party a few weeks ago. We were all blackout drunk, taking whole cup vodka shots(not making it through a single one). When the party started to die down and people went back into the bedrooms my friend lets call him dave is taken into the closet escorted by a gay college student who had been making passes at all the guys all night. Dave is then blown and given a hand job while blacked out. Same night, another friend was raped and forced to have sex with a fat girl who had already been with 2 other guys that same night. He came in here, when he regained memory, and he didn't even have a condom on.

Soulhunter4444 · 2012-11-24T05:18:00+00:00

So glad to see "then-fiancee".

No one deserves to be stuck with someone as close-minded, cold, and unsympathetic as that.

Klager · 2012-11-24T06:08:07+00:00

"My then-fiancé..."

PHEW!

weewickleone · 2012-11-24T06:12:49+00:00

I'm so sorry this happens to you. As a fellow rape victim (though female) i understand the pain and ridiculousness that surrounds it. I love you, you'll make it through this. <3

2012-11-24T20:22:19+00:00

for real though, all the assholes commenting need to chill. he obviously didn't want to have sex and was put into that situation. you also dunno what other shit this kid has been through. never mind this post, but the term "man up" is fucking ridiculous and is explicitly a sexist-phrase. when its said it establishes a fervent knock to one's masculinity and seems to be a socially "okay" way to get a male to conform to the popularized ideas of being masculine.

i love how sex is viewed as the penetrator being more powerful and therefore unless this dude was penetrated he couldn't have been raped. all you fucks need to step out of ur paradigm oriented mentality.

Dog_This_is_Colby · 2012-11-23T23:22:12+00:00

I am sorry friend. I've had similar experiences.

djwork · 2012-11-24T00:36:36+00:00

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SecretJedi · 2012-11-24T01:36:49+00:00

Probably will get buried but...

Most cases of men being raped involve penetration of the man - not the other way around. Furthermore, men will be attacked by groups, rather than by a single individual.

Source: university professor

Edit: formatting

phukka · 2012-11-24T00:22:09+00:00

I see you aren't wearing a ring. Good on you.

2012-11-24T06:05:18+00:00

This post. Holy shit. I feel like a complete and total idiot. I am absolutely one of the girls who thought erection = consent. Now I keep sorting through memories of aggressively pressuring men into sex and, as I do, it becomes progressively clearer that I am NOT a good person. I feel totally disgusting. Thank you, however, for the post. I at least know now not to subject anyone else to the same treatment. But just....FUCK. terrible. And guys, on behalf of all the women who are also guilty of sexual abuse, I am truly truly and very sincerely sorry.

fuso00 · 2012-11-24T01:49:11+00:00

Just hit the person who said man up in the face. Because thats what men do, hitting stuff. There you have your stereotype mofo

Dog_This_is_Colby · 2012-11-24T01:28:36+00:00

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Dog_This_is_Colby · 2012-11-24T01:33:26+00:00

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2012-11-24T04:01:17+00:00

My heart goes out to this man and his suffering.

throesofdespair · 2012-11-24T05:39:16+00:00

His fiance sounds like a cunt. I just want to hug him and love him and tell him it's going to be okay and feed him chicken noodle soup.

MisterDonkey · 2012-11-24T05:40:22+00:00

The trauma has clearly affected his handwriting.

But seriously, I've been in an inebriated, non-consenting state of being while a woman attempted to force sex on me. It wasn't cool, and I regret not being able to prevent the situation. It wasn't cool that my "friends" allowed this to happen, and even encouraged it. It was funny for them; not so much for me.

dondon13 · 2012-11-24T06:04:51+00:00

double standard.. Sorry that happened to you... Both things, but your fiance responding that way... I hope i read it right that it says "my then fiance" indicating you dropped her. Just terrible

tarraaa · 2012-11-24T11:49:16+00:00

The point is that just because you have a penis doesn't mean your feelings shouldn't be accounted for. I can't believe this. If someone were to say this to a girl it would be HORRIBLE.

DuckSir · 2012-11-25T00:04:02+00:00

First sign:

"How can a girl rape a boy?"

-Nearly everyone I tried to tell for the first four years after it happened.

Second Sign:

"Man up."

-My then(?)-fiance in response to the panic attack I was having caused by seeing my rapist for the first time since the incident had occurred eight years previous

Since his handwriting isn't the best, I thought that would be handy.

ICANSEEYOUFAPPING · 2012-11-24T00:39:45+00:00

This is awful, honestly the fiances response is what appalled me the most. But something funny that did happen....I saw this and immediately exclaimed, "What a little bitch!" (towards the fiance) my brother who was redditing with me immediately gave me the most scathing look and walked away to go make himself a leftover turkey sandwich.

TheDrAwkward · 2012-11-24T01:34:36+00:00

Shit. I thought I was beyond triggers and all that bullshit. Totally not.

sinnamongirl · 2012-11-24T02:39:43+00:00

I'm sorry all those things happened to you.

jh7yxn · 2012-11-24T03:34:10+00:00

It was after a party and her friends had abandoned her at our place. She didn't want to walk home in the dark. Fine, whatever. I could sense that she was trying to come on to me but I just wasn't having it.

She had tried, and failed (repeatedly) to get attention all from the guys that night. I wasn't interested. She just wasn't my type. I was dating someone else. There was plenty of room in my bed but there was nothing remotely sexual on my mind. I was tired. I offered her some water and the couch. Sleep tight.

I go to my room and pass out. No substances cloud my mind, this is just plain sleep. Morning arrives and I wake up, I'm not alone in my bed. She's got her hand wrapped around me and she's guiding it in. I don't want any of this. Not her, not unprotected sex, none of it.

"Let's not do this, please leave now." I say. And she does. She knew she crossed way too many lines by not asking me. I couldn't believe she put me at such a risk. I didn't know anything about her. And she was sacrificing my health and future welfare for her own sadistic, non-consensual pleasure.

And that was it. I never talked to her again.

emily1elf · 2012-11-24T02:59:40+00:00

As a female rape victim, I get so sick of hearing "Move on" and "Should've fought back." As if I didn't try or something.

danieljamesfair · 2012-11-24T00:49:36+00:00

I found that quite hard to read. The handwriting is pretty bad, but more than that, how ... I don't know ... Unsettling or disturbing the message was. It sad that people would do that.

McRibMadman · 2012-11-24T01:10:23+00:00

I feel you bro. I got that from 2 of the 3 ppl i told when I was "raped". I dont feel too bad about it. only angry at the girl for doing that and that if a guy did the same thing to a girl he'd be in jail but because a girl did it to me I'M the one who has to change

OldSchoolNewRules · 2012-11-24T03:31:34+00:00

am I the only one here who cant read this?

bryanvickersband · 2012-11-24T03:40:31+00:00

If anybody raped me, they'd better hope the police find them before I do.

I could never rest easy again until I eradicated that vermin from my world.

phalmatticus · 2012-11-24T03:43:58+00:00

I'm sorry this guy had to go through that, but, on the bright side, that is a damned snazzy bow tie.

Modron · 2012-11-24T03:48:11+00:00

There's a related article to this issue, here: http://livingonaslipperyslope.com/2012/09/10/the-silent-victims-of-male-rape/

TheGodWalrus · 2012-11-24T04:57:50+00:00

I swear, just seeing this makes my blood boil. How do women get away with this time after time? What went wrong to make this happen?

2012-11-24T06:08:19+00:00

This is sad. A lot of girls are just called liars.

CapnSalty · 2012-11-24T08:48:09+00:00

I never thought about that, and I'm sorry. Thanks for bringing it up and being strong enough to share.

ProperGrammarBitch · 2012-11-24T08:52:27+00:00

Bow ties are cool. And so are you. :)

2012-11-24T14:04:02+00:00

No need to "man-up". You're already there son.

MajorBlink · 2012-11-24T17:52:22+00:00

Does anybody remember this story: Russian Hairdresser Kidnaps Robber, Rapes him for Three Days?

ThePigman · 2012-11-24T01:44:42+00:00

Bit of a troll invasion, today. And such boring and unimaginative ones!

Nerada · 2012-11-24T01:56:48+00:00

I like his bowtie

GanasbinTagap · 2012-11-24T03:51:22+00:00

"Man Up" My ajdkaffhkjhjakjsfhfkjah...

Is he a doctor?

MrWinks · 2012-11-23T23:18:42+00:00

Ok. Seriously. Someone please liberate me with proper responses to those.

4realthistime · 2012-11-24T02:00:07+00:00

Is this a forum for men who want to have similar rights to women?

bananablonde · 2012-11-24T00:41:41+00:00

Poor guy :/ I hate when girls also use the argument 'girls don't like being used for sex but guys do'

jRonMaiden · 2012-11-24T05:17:21+00:00

Help, I made a stupid comment and I can't delete it

RobSob · 2012-11-24T02:47:24+00:00

It happened to me. It may not necessarily be aggressively dominant, but rather manipulation and guilt tripping.

(Granted, I was a pansy at the time. But still. It's not like you can just 'get over it.')

ThePigman · 2012-11-24T01:36:07+00:00

Here's hoping he didn't marry the cow referred to in the second photo.

Katch00 · 2012-11-24T05:49:47+00:00

I'm so sorry. Rape isn't about sex, it's about power and dominance. Gender doesn't matter.

youngreddit · 2012-11-24T08:21:29+00:00

Your handwritting kinda sucks man

i_pee_in_the_sink · 2012-11-24T09:24:08+00:00

Can anyone tell me what that sign says?

loutang82 · 2012-11-24T01:30:39+00:00

I wish I could read your writing.

mastersword130 · 2012-11-24T03:06:07+00:00

They should watch wedding crashers. Vince got raped in that movie. She strapped him to the bed put a sock in his mouth and just rode him. He didnt get any sleep that night

deafrave · 2012-11-24T10:14:52+00:00

That Guy needs to practice writing by hand.

elaborinth8993 · 2012-11-24T04:35:52+00:00

Guys getting raped is still a gray area, with the girl as the rapist, not certain how gray it is if a guy rapes another guy...

but anyway,

If the sex was not consensual, its rape, period. now the lawyers will make the case (if it made it to trial) seem like it was not a rape because "your a guy, so you must of wanted it, all guys want sex" and you wont win.

Everyone yells about women rights, But what about Men's rights! Just because in most rape cases, the guy is the aggressor, does not mean we naturally always are.

Edit: I accidentally a word

HereToHumilateAFrand · 2012-11-24T04:51:53+00:00

It is just so important to see sobering things like this.

GreatQuestionBarbara · 2012-11-24T05:29:12+00:00

It is true.

I was talking to a friend on the phone in my roommates room, when this random woman my friend saw walking by and invited over, barges in and starts talking to me.

Note, previous to this, she had come into the bathroom when I was washing my hands and pretty much forced me to rinse all of the suds out of the sink.

Anyway, I hung up the phone with my friend when she started talking to me and began to walk out of the room when she shoved me backwards. Took me a second, but got my shit together and shoved my way past her.

Maybe some would love the chance, but when a 200 lb slurring woman is making you her bitch and presumably demanding sex, the tables turn my friend.

Vexrog · 2012-11-24T23:02:23+00:00

But seriously, can someone answer this question?

rikjames90 · 2012-11-29T04:49:37+00:00

You ever see 30 days and 30 nights with josh hartnett. He was raped.

ADoodle · 2012-12-01T06:17:03+00:00

I've been reading this thread for some 50 minutes straight and it is incredibly moving. I'm going to treat future interactions with men I'm interested in with a lot more care and consent-awareness. And I now have a second Men's Rights pet issue.

jimaug87 · 2012-11-24T02:39:33+00:00

This post was on my /all page. I'm simply asking for my own understanding.

How does this happen? If a woman was attacking me, I'd fight back. Literally hit her.

robert32907 · 2012-11-24T06:09:07+00:00

I'm sorry, but somebody needs to say it:

Guys who claim to have been raped by a woman tend to be viewed as ... sort of pansies by society. Not saying that this is true, just saying that this is the stereotype.

So this guy has himself photographed for these pics while wearing a bow-tie ... which is exactly the kind of thing that a stereotypical pansy would wear?

Sorry, but bad fashion choice, dude.

Courtlessjester · 2012-11-24T07:35:25+00:00

Jokingy, his handwriting seems to have taken the majority of the abuse.

mumb9ler · 2012-11-24T04:33:59+00:00

The male body has its own way of rejecting rape,

or something like that.

Grayphobia · 2012-11-24T04:50:57+00:00

I have to confess this mind set. I see men as being dominant and can't imagine them being raped and believe that they should be able to bear it afterwards. Having said that women shouldn't get away with it just because the guy can cope with the trauma better.

houdini404 · 2012-11-24T05:40:28+00:00

Fun fact: In New Jersey, rape is defined as something penetrating something else without consent. Meaning, a man can easily rape a woman, while a woman cannot legally rape a man without sticking something in one of his orifices. So she can forcefully tie him down and ride him till his dick falls off but will not be charged of rape, merely sexual assault.

MrStonedOne · 2012-11-24T01:22:43+00:00

Post this on /r/pics.

elm_grove · 2012-11-24T03:20:07+00:00

In all curiousness, how does a woman rape a man?

RedNeck_SandNaager · 2012-11-24T03:56:56+00:00

Anybody else have a hard time reading that?

nailinpalin69 · 2012-11-24T05:30:08+00:00

I'd feel bad for you, if I could read your handwriting.

Atomic69 · 2012-11-24T09:55:47+00:00

Viagra and Roofies.

falshami · 2012-11-24T17:39:23+00:00

I'm sitting here trying to imagine what it would be like to be raped by a woman, and my brain can't wrap itself around the concept, I see it, but I can't imagine the feelings associated with it.... I'm sorry for this guy

dieukulele · 2013-01-13T23:59:22+00:00

What, now you need instructions, too?

jayk21 · 2013-03-05T05:24:02+00:00

Is he from the same love music video by Macklemore?

2013-04-13T08:10:58+00:00

I love the way the man dresses.

The poor guy :(

Lothrazar · 2012-11-24T02:32:10+00:00

Take second picture, reverse genders then switch back. This will get people to think about it.

ZombieWriter · 2012-11-24T02:35:13+00:00

I can't read the sign.

langluung · 2012-11-24T05:07:10+00:00

Men being raped by women shouldn't be a major focus of the MRM, because it's extremely rare. Men being sexually harassed and stalked is a more real issue.

I know so many women who harass their boyfriends to have sex with them more often than they would like. For example, my girlfriend does this with me where she pressures me into having sex with her like every day, when I'd rather not. It's extremely annoying.

In addition, women grabbing men like it's ok. I've actually had feminist women do this to me in college (talk about double standards). And many women do indeed harass and stalk men. These are issues where the MRM needs to focus on...Not the rare occasion of rape.

Also, female violence against men should be primary.

Male rape is extremely rare and difficult to pull off.

ExodusRex · 2012-11-24T06:55:44+00:00

Learn to print.

jgnapoli860 · 2012-11-24T04:00:17+00:00

how about write a little more legibly

still_on_reddit · 2012-11-24T05:08:06+00:00

In all seriousness, how do you rape a guy? I'm not he-man or anything, but I don't think I have ever met a girl that could overpower me.

shutupjoey · 2012-11-24T05:19:03+00:00

Something something legitimate something?

sgtpepperxd · 2012-11-24T07:07:13+00:00

Good thing he cant write legibly.

Jewelryman · 2012-11-24T13:03:52+00:00

It's like a bad REM video shot.

TObestcityinworld · 2012-11-24T03:24:04+00:00

I was thinking more along the lines of financial and social rape.

icenine09 · 2012-11-24T04:03:34+00:00

"I need to make a serious statement, but in the shittiest, most illegible handwriting ever."

WhiteLightning10 · 2012-11-26T07:18:15+00:00

you are such a pussy

niggasonreddit · 2012-11-24T03:31:32+00:00

This may not be the place to ask, but this is out of curiosity I promise, how can a girl rape a boy?

P1ofTheTicket · 2012-11-24T05:05:56+00:00

What's with the getup?

2012-11-24T08:29:34+00:00

r/ape?

mumb9ler · 2012-11-24T04:36:41+00:00

Is an erection considered a panic attack?

Sengura · 2012-11-24T07:39:02+00:00

I came here expecting a serious answer to that question.

So I guess I'll ask... How can a girl rape a boy?

Seriously, does she tie him down and then jack him off against his will until he gets a chubby and then sit on it?

How do the mechanics work?

abjennifleur · 2012-11-24T12:58:24+00:00

Maybe 8 years ago he was in high school. And his teacher raped him, statutorily. Then it would explain a lot. Like why he got a boner, kinda liked it, then realized it was wrong and he was being taken advantage of. Then got the PTSD from it. Also it'd explain why people say "man up!" Because they expect him to have enjoyed it. So sorry for you.

NigNograj · 2012-11-24T01:15:00+00:00

Because I'm totally pro equality, except for when men become overpowered by women. That never happens ever herp derp, men can't be victims herpidy derpidy feminism. Gotta love that double standard.

iamsofired · 2012-11-24T02:15:35+00:00

no idea whats written on that card.

gJonny · 2012-11-24T09:17:57+00:00

How does a woman rape a man?

S-BRO · 2012-11-24T19:08:40+00:00

But guys enjoy it right?

WhiteLightning10 · 2012-12-04T22:16:23+00:00

how can you call yourself a man? pussy

Trosso · 2012-11-24T02:37:35+00:00

would help if his handwriting didnt suck, took me ages to read the second slide :(

photoshop_cop · 2012-11-24T02:49:03+00:00

I've seen this picture before, and the posters said something completely different.

keith_weaver · 2012-11-24T04:01:54+00:00

This chap doesnt seem like a strong "manly" type. Thats not saying what happened to him (whatever it was) is justified, but seriously, how does a man get raped besides being drugged and sodomized? And to have a panic attack years later? Im not trolling here, i genuinely do not understand this situation. Im of the mind that when I am under attack, all options are on the table regardless of the attacker's gender. I dont understand.

HolographicMetapod · 2012-11-24T04:08:03+00:00

That text is obviously photoshopped.

EDIT: No disrespect to rape victims intended, but seriously, zoom in on the text. It's shopped.

2012-11-24T04:09:14+00:00

"I'm going to buy a big poster board, and write as small as I can"

Seriously?

almostjesus · 2012-11-24T04:40:45+00:00

I don't fucking get this.

berserker87 · 2012-11-24T04:41:28+00:00

Not trying to be an asshole... but seriously, "how can a girl rape a boy?"

Does he have an erection in spite of being unwillingly coerced into sex? Or does she just do butt stuff at him?

PrincessOfChina · 2012-11-24T06:46:14+00:00

How can a girl rape a guy?

FaZaCon · 2012-11-24T03:14:33+00:00

Reading these threads.

http://i.imgur.com/59Vt6.gif

Aikarus · 2012-11-24T06:03:31+00:00

did this chick have the strength of a silver back gorilla or something...did she tie him down ?? ...so many questions here

gdotes · 2012-11-24T14:20:04+00:00

This is the most faggoty thing I've ever seen

Sec_Hater · 2012-11-24T02:35:40+00:00

I will say this, 'work on you penmanship.'

Dog_This_is_Colby · 2012-11-24T03:58:27+00:00

How can a girl rape a lad? I'm genuinely just curious... I have problems getting hard on phets let alone if someone was trying to rape me... did she shove something up his arse?

Dog_This_is_Colby · 2012-11-24T04:47:38+00:00

Male rape is a real thing. I acknowledge that. It's traumatic, I acknowledge that as well. But seriously, unless she's like a body builder and you're the 90 pound weakling, or she got you severely impaired, or you fucked up and was bound somehow, I just don't see how it's possible to not fend of a woman's advances. Also, how does an effeminate man holding up signs with entire paragraphs written constitute as a legitimate post. Also, I'm all for advocating men's rights, because in today's society we're seen as the top, and no one thinks of us as potential victims. I'm particularly concerned about the discrepancies in custody battles. But seriously, I read the threads on here and I'm sensing more estrogen than /r/TwoXChromosomes
Sometimes you are being treated unfairly. Sometimes, you just need to toughen up. (This rant wasn't necessarily directed at op, it was just a response to reading all the comments.)

CGord · 2012-11-24T06:14:18+00:00

This might be the dumbest thing I have ever seen. I'm not sure, though, because the handwriting on his signs is so poor. Suck it up, use print.

Alcranky · 2012-11-24T07:20:15+00:00

Hey Johnny Hipster. I can't read your handwriting.

2012-11-24T15:26:10+00:00

After viewing his picture I see why he was raped. One good turn deserves another.

2012-11-24T16:39:06+00:00

ITT bullshit.

ShaneGoob · 2012-11-24T16:53:33+00:00

did she put a rubber fist in his anoos? what is this guy so upset about?

2012-11-24T18:15:31+00:00

It is kind of hard to take this guy serious

LeafBlowingAllDay · 2012-11-24T20:36:46+00:00

Why are you dressed like an autistic street preacher? I'm going to go on a limb and agree with your fiance here: Man Up. She already has one pussy, she doesn't need two.

And nice job making this an image submission. Now your pandering little picture can rake in all sorts of karma!! Great success!

neg8ivezero · 2012-11-24T01:36:11+00:00

I logically agree and I feel terrible that this happened to you but I think the misconception stems from the fact that many men have a very intense sexual drive and no one to fill it. They figure sex would be amazing, even if it was against their will... they also tend to leave out the aggressive and often physically abusive side of the whole ordeal.

duchovny · 2012-11-24T02:59:34+00:00

Man up, indeed.

Ninjroid · 2012-11-24T03:27:03+00:00

Lame and gay.

iamafilthycougars · 2012-11-24T07:13:04+00:00

I'm not denying that this doesn't happen, but I don't understand how it's biologically possible for a sober man to maintain an erection in the stressful situation that rape is. Guilty sex doesn't compare to rape, you may not feel morally just about it, but that doesn't mean you're helplessly being forced against your will, regardless if she bites your dick (terribly sorry for that by the way). The stories calling guilt sex "rape" and saying "guys get erections with adrenaline" is bothering. We've all been to middle school so we know that erections may occur in situations when we don't want them, but how many times have you had both a frightening, stressful adrenaline rush with a full blown erection? Now I'm not arguing that I'm right, nor is that what bothers me about this thread. What's bothering is the excessively unscientific claims from several of the comments explaining how it's possible for a sober man to get raped in the way a woman would be as she's dragged into seclusion screaming and kicking hopelessly as she's raped. So for the sake of clarity, can a sir get an educated, informative, and sourced argument? I agree that society frames men only as rapists, but how can you look at a rape victim (whether man or woman) and say you've been through the same thing that one time your psychologically ill partner pressured you into having sex with her?

edit: I realized that I just posted this in /r/MensRights, nevermind, carry on with the circle jerk. edit2: I haven't been downvoted yet, but the ignorance in this thread is shameful. Every post honestly asking how it's possible is just downvoted to oblivion - this bigoted and just sets your goals back further, don't downvote just because they don't conform to the hivemind.

Swifti15 · 2012-11-24T17:50:44+00:00

so a guy raped you?

indigo0086 · 2012-11-24T02:09:52+00:00

Horrible handwriting

KR1288 · 2012-11-24T02:50:14+00:00

Start with better handwritting

smurker · 2012-11-24T04:11:58+00:00

Harden the fuck up Stefan.

Hakrim89 · 2012-11-24T05:39:08+00:00

she raped you? did you fought back? screw it next time you see her, brutally rape her. scar her like she did you. thats messed up what she did to you. an eye for an eye

Hootbot · 2012-11-24T06:00:46+00:00

Women are almost always weaker than men so it would be pretty hard to get raped by a girl.

midgaze · 2012-11-24T02:08:48+00:00

Refusing to have an abortion for an unwanted pregnancy is manrape. At first you fight it and do some crying but after a while you realize that fighting is doing more harm than good and go with it. Life is never the same.

clarke187 · 2012-11-24T03:16:28+00:00

a woman could only rape me if they are ugly and/or fat.

AdrianD2 · 2012-11-24T03:41:23+00:00

The grammar here is retarded

phone_scissors_pen · 2012-11-24T06:07:34+00:00

He was probably raped for looking like such an idiot.

speckzo · 2012-11-24T06:42:02+00:00

I'm all about men's rights and I'm probably going to get a shit load of downvotes for this but fuck it. Unless he was tied up and sodomized with something by this girl, he really should man the fuck up. If it was vaginal sex, he clearly had to be aroused. I believe that women get way more attention when it comes to sexual assaults and are treated special for being female, but honestly, how the fuck does a girl rape a guy? Obviously I don't know the backstory so maybe he was sodomized or whatever, which in that case is fucked up. But if she just like got him drunk and had sex with him or even roofied him or whatever, and he had sex with her because he wasn't in the right mind set and was inebriated, so fucking what. I've had sex with a lot of girls because I was drunk and woke up the next morning like what the fuck did I do. But I didn't cry rape, I'm not a pussy. So yes I believe in the usual message this subreddit brings, but this (unless he was sodomized and it wasn't just vaginal sex) is fucking ridiculous.

Regstrd2UnsbPolitics · 2012-11-24T02:32:21+00:00

Doesn't this belong in /r/spacedicks?

OlearysCow · 2012-11-24T02:45:55+00:00

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Walegon · 2012-11-24T03:06:48+00:00

Lol what a phaggot beta white knight dick sucker

peachesrcool · 2012-11-24T04:14:29+00:00

Do you even lift?

richy5497 · 2012-11-24T10:47:11+00:00

FFS! We get more pay than them, more rights, we're stronger, faster smarter!

They get free rape.

Deal!

zppa · 2012-11-24T15:58:33+00:00

maybe the "Man up" was because you look like a fucking girl in the pic.

for the downvotes man up, bitches.

Xaxxon · 2012-11-24T02:10:41+00:00

If you want people to respond to your sign, you need to actually use handwriting people can understand.

Communication, you failed.

djJACKPOT · 2012-11-24T02:38:33+00:00

I'd like to know the facts of the case before I A)feel bad for him or B) call him a pussy

Everything_Is_Irie · 2012-11-24T04:10:17+00:00

Well this guy will have no problem not having sex. Ugly beard and gay ass bow tie sure won't cause any female urges. I have a bad feeling he's some hipster fag too. That's strike 3.

clake1 · 2012-11-24T05:41:00+00:00

So really you didn get raped, you got drunk an fucked a girl.... I revert to my previous statement, don't be a pussy

charbo187 · 2012-11-24T03:33:17+00:00

a person cannot rape a person who is physically stronger than themselves unless they are wielding a weapon. period.

clake1 · 2012-11-24T03:48:45+00:00

That guy is the biggest pussy ever, and I spelled everything right, no down votes for me...or maybe a tiny girl will over power me and stick one up my butt. Grow a pair dude

EroticCakes · 2012-11-24T04:09:38+00:00

You are all gigantic faggots.

Outofmany · 2012-11-24T01:01:45+00:00

I am really not sure how the hipster get-up helps to bring a serious tone to the issue.

turnleftdale · 2012-11-24T03:03:43+00:00

I dont take advice from fags holding signs.

Roddy0608 · 2012-11-23T23:47:03+00:00

It doesn't explain how it happened.

Jizzaldo · 2012-11-24T03:00:08+00:00

Unless she sedated him and rammed some type of object up his ass, this guy is a huge pussy.

UpvotesMakeMeHard · 2012-11-24T01:43:07+00:00

What happened to you all that makes you all a bunch of sissies!

becksftw · 2012-11-24T02:42:54+00:00

Judging by the look of this guy, he does in fact need to "man up".

BastWithB · 2012-11-24T01:23:13+00:00

Man up, seriously.

Mylt · 2012-11-24T01:12:38+00:00

That guy looks like he needs to man up in all honesty

themizlfoshizl · 2012-11-24T00:03:45+00:00

This is incredibly pretentious. Why don't we start a "face of mens rights" campaign?

Title	"How can a girl rape a boy"
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Upvotes	2661
Comments	869
Date	November 23, 2012 10:39 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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