Daily Community Chat Megathread

poppy_blu · 2022-09-17T21:49:09+00:00

You can really tell the men who define themselves by their perceived superiority to women because they were born with a dick. It’s no mystery why mediocre men with no accomplishments and nothing to offer the world want to “go back.” If you have to hold other people back to look good and win the race, you didn’t actually win the race. You’re still a loser.

headofthetable25 · 2022-09-18T23:21:25+00:00

If you got a facial defect, God doesn’t love you.

JumboJetz · 2022-09-18T18:44:56+00:00

I had sex for the first time in a while yesterday. It went well, Both her and I orgasmed. But it’s been hard for me going from being so used to getting myself off to cumming with a partner. I wasn’t able to do it in subsequent rounds of sex we attempted, even the next morning which made me a bit dejected. I also feel very in my head during sex. I hope as I have more sex this stops being the case. I was glad I could get out of my head sufficiently to cum the first session at least, it didn’t seem like I would at certain points.

sparklyyblueberryy · 2022-09-17T18:40:02+00:00

Why do men here try to act desireable by being mean, rude and abusive? I know a clear pattern in my life where men that are deemed desireable by society (I guess tall, handsome, successful) have been nicer, kinder, ”simped” more, were nicer to me about appereance whereas the one’s that weren’t would act in the way that TRP promotes. Being mean, hostile, non supportive, talk down on appereance, demean, try to talk to other women. If a man acts like that I don’t belive he is so superior that he can treat me like that, I see it as him trying to compensate for their bad self confidence.

-angels-fan- · 2022-09-17T19:36:37+00:00

Proud to be from Utah!!

DiligentProgresses · 2022-09-17T21:47:24+00:00

"In Washington, almost nobody speaks for the majority of voters. You’re either a libertarian zealot controlled by the banks, yammering on about entrepreneurship and how we need to cut entitlements, or worse, you’re some decadent trust fund socialist who wants to ban passenger cars and give Medicaid to illegal aliens.

There isn’t a caucus that represents where most Americans actually are: nationalist on economics, fairly traditional on the social issues. Imagine a politician who wanted to make your healthcare cheaper, but wasn’t ghoulishly excited about partial birth abortion. Imagine someone who genuinely respected the nuclear family, and sympathized with the culture of rural America, but at the same time was willing to take your side against rapacious credit card companies bleeding you dry at 35 percent interest.

Would you vote for someone like that? Yet that candidate is the opposite of pretty much everyone currently serving in congress. Our leadership class remains resolutely libertarian: committed to the rhetoric of markets when it serves them; utterly libertine on questions of culture.

Republicans will lecture you about how payday loan scams are a critical part of a market economy. Then they’ll work to make it easier for your kids to smoke weed because, hey, freedom. Democrats will nod in total agreement. They’re on the same page."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUW8kbZyucI

-angels-fan- · 2022-09-17T22:02:33+00:00

Speaking of Patrick Swayze, can you women explain how Dirty Dancing made women horny instead of making them disgusted as the creepy pedophile movie that it was?

Seems like this is the silver bullet for the age gap debate. An older man, sufficiently hot enough, is hella sexy fucking a teenage girl.

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-17T23:33:27+00:00

Q4W Why do you find me so irresistible? Is it my ability to shoulder check taller guys or is it my witty intellect?

urbangoth · 2022-09-18T02:26:12+00:00

Q4W: How many toxic fictional characters have you crushed on? Especially you Thrones loving women.

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-18T02:47:43+00:00

Another Sunday, another streamer I've lowkey fallen in love with. God I'm pathetic lmao

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-09-18T03:26:38+00:00

I’m genuinely curious about people who care about the private life of porn stars. I only know the name of a handful (Sasha Grey, Mia Malkova, Riley Reid) cause people keep talking about them. If I want to jerk off I’m much more interest in what type of scene a video has then who is in it (given they don’t look atrocious). Does having a parasocial relationship with them make your dick harder when you watch their porn or something?

gastongang · 2022-09-18T04:36:31+00:00

all the dudes on PPD who think fat women are disgusting need to unite against the chubby chasers, there are just too many of them

gastongang · 2022-09-18T06:42:07+00:00

you need to become strong to live, if you don't want to die you need strength

Libah05 · 2022-09-18T11:30:07+00:00

My mom just told me a crazy story from work: She works at a hospital in the department people go to when they get their bones broken (I forgot the scientific name). Well, yesterday a guy came in who needed his legs amputated because of a botched limp lengthening surgery. He was 160cm and he got the procedure done to ascend to 168 cm. The only problem was that the surgery wasn’t done correctly and the pipes used weren’t clean which resulted in his legs getting untreatable infection. My mom told me this story because she had never heard anything like it, and it was very crazy to be honest. The surgery was done in Turkey as well.

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2022-09-17T18:22:47+00:00

you and ya boy discover a continent packed full of latinas.
divide it between the two of you
consult no one else
refuse to leave

douchebag_throwaway3 · 2022-09-17T18:52:18+00:00

Q4A: Define "woman"

meteorness123 · 2022-09-17T19:06:07+00:00

I was born with a dick in my brain.

Yeah, fucked in the head.

FFTzzz · 2022-09-17T19:14:57+00:00

did you meet an alpha widow if so, how did she behave? If a woman leaves a man, does she become hers or is it necessary for him to leave her?

jaci_22 · 2022-09-17T19:42:00+00:00

Help PPD

So around the time I started talking to my now gf I had to drop another girl. I found her attractive and knew I had to get rid of her for this reason. I made her block me. She was confused but did it anyways. It was also fine because she found a new man soon afterwards. Fast forward she messages me that she misses me and the way I made her feel. Thing is she barely has anyone else to rely on (I think she just has her grandma). She also comes from a low socioeconomic (see poor) background. She actually fell for me after I made a move on her and she rejected me. Later that night she called me crying because of some family issues. I came over to listen to her and comfort her. I also noticed that she was all of a sudden open to hooking up (like down for anything). I decided not to progress it that evening. Things started to become serious between me and my now gf so I had to drop her to avoid temptation and inappropriateness.

I asked her to block me. I didn’t tell her why I made her block me but I know she doesn’t mind being a side chick having a gf wouldn’t be a deterrent. I’m not the type to cheat though but I have to get through to her that we can never even talk. I feel really bad though because despite being attractive (she once told me that she just needs to exit my car and walk across the road and back and she’d have 20 guys’ numbers by the time she was done) she genuinely seems lonely.

I guess relationships complicate things. You don’t have the freedom to interact with anyone and at any time that you want. It is what it is I guess. Any advice?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-17T20:41:12+00:00

I don't really like toe sucking but if she got a fresh pedicure im deepthroating that bitch 💯

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-17T20:42:25+00:00

Are lats and shoulders the keys to looking wide af?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-17T21:19:30+00:00

Fun fact: Scientists have confirmed that if you can speak Spanish, French or Italian your SMV goes up by 1

If you speak southern English it goes down by 2

2022-09-17T22:51:16+00:00

Now is the best and worst time to be a man. Sex is readily more available than ever and less taboo. Yet men are lonelier than ever.

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-17T23:07:19+00:00

Ok weird hypothetical question

Would you rather your wife/husband be more loyal/dedicated/loving to you, or to your children?

No dumb responses that deflect the dilemma I'm trying to pose, like "both" or "it's a different kind of love uwu"

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-17T23:21:01+00:00

Day 3 of no fap. Instead of fapping, I’m pacing back and forth 😥

meteorness123 · 2022-09-17T23:37:14+00:00

Man, I wish I wasn't so addicted to getting eye-fucked by women. Or to a big ass. It makes you want to work hard to maintain that sexiness once you get those choosing signals. The feeding of a ghost that can never be fed. I am a slave to my biology.

I assume/hope age and libido drop will take care of this problem naturally.

FFTzzz · 2022-09-17T23:37:58+00:00

Day 8 of no fap. Instead of fapping I am on acid.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-18T00:51:25+00:00

I'm starting my manosphere channel and I need some ideas. Rate my video title ideas. This is what I've come up with so far.

A DARK FUTURE IS COMING FOR WOMEN

THIS GRAPH REVEALS WHAT MEN ALREADY KNOW

WOMEN ONLY DATE MEN WHOM THEY FEAR

DUMP HER IF SHE DOES THIS

YOU WON'T BELIEVE WHAT SHE SAID

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-18T02:48:49+00:00

Can someone explain why the “women like toxic characters” thing is such a common topic here? Maybe this is just me, but I don’t find it particularly shocking that humans gravitate towards dark themes in media, nor is it particularly shocking that antagonists are often crafted with more nuance than protagonists (and are often more relatable due to that added complexity.)

I feel like it’s always brought up as some kind of “gotcha” situation, but anyone who has done any significant study of media would likely find that interest in villains is much more significant across the board, regardless of gender. That’s just part of how humans as a whole relate to story and narrative. We are often compelled by that sense of darkness - and it’s what makes a story good.

bighuddi · 2022-09-18T03:01:20+00:00

if all you can get is dick you're aiming too high psychopath.

hardfine · 2022-09-18T03:42:01+00:00

What makes a person boring? People say it's due to a lack of hobbies but I'm not sure if that's actually true, it seems like it's about how you present yourself in conversation.

gastongang · 2022-09-18T08:48:22+00:00

Q4W

rate this man on a scale of 10

https://imgur.com/a/aKU9B6W

Ylduts · 2022-09-18T09:21:54+00:00

People often say to not give money to homeless people because they may buy drugs or alcohol, well what the hell did you think I was going to spend it on? Hypocrites.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-18T11:25:49+00:00

The second a man starts coming up with excuses as to why he shouldn't improve himself, he needs to revoke his red pill card and apply for a blackpill membership 💯 Making the rest of us look bad

kljcfg · 2022-09-18T18:40:19+00:00

It is that time of the day.

JB8511R · 2022-09-18T18:39:53+00:00

I think it is disingenuous to expect/ demand people who have only known shit treatment from the other sex with regards to relationships, to not reciprocate that treatment and try to ‘break the cycle’. Often in in times of pain where ‘revenge’ isn’t feasible, treating others the same way you were is the only way to numb the pain

eye_fuck · 2022-09-18T18:37:47+00:00

Harsh reality is that for men to win something, women have to lose and vice versa. Women understand that and did for decades. Men still don't, at all, even redpill ones barely do

lulll · 2022-09-18T18:09:06+00:00

women when chad ghosts her

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-17T20:32:45+00:00

I got 3 followers on reddit I have more clout than all you motherfuckers

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-09-18T06:08:30+00:00

I get roasting is fun and banter is needed in a romantic relationship but holy shit. I never experienced negging until this past summer. And its hurtful goddamn.

Creation_Soul · 2022-09-18T07:49:47+00:00

Every time I see some age-gap relationship threads, I always wonder how do men in their 30s naturally meet women in their early 20s?

I am in my early 30s and, with my current social life, I would have to really go out of my way to meet college age women.

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-18T09:58:06+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xh1cgd/i_cant_prove_it_but_he_was_following_me_and_my/

Paranoid schizophrenic or just addicted to Netflix serial killer docos?

Imagine being nice and holding open the door for a woman with a child, then going to use the bathroom, and now there’s some blog post about you on r/twox about how you’re probably a serial killer.

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-18T10:51:19+00:00

Anyone notice how SOME women use an Orwellian style of Newspeak?

When you disagree with a normal person, “you’re disagreeing with me”

When you disagree with a woman, “You’re invalidating me”

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-18T18:06:14+00:00

Blonde hair and blue/green eyes will always attract me... most attractive features (excluding facial beauty) by far.

poppy_blu · 2022-09-18T17:46:21+00:00

It’s that time of year. School sports teams are doing their car wash fundraisers and always get the cheerleaders in tank tops and short shorts to stand out on the sidewalk and hold up the signs. Just saw a dude literally cause an accident because he was checking them out.

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Play_Muted · 2022-09-17T18:05:40+00:00

im too sexy

kaizenkin · 2022-09-17T18:16:33+00:00

Wish I joined the Army before Genesis... 😐

Lysa_Bell · 2022-09-17T18:30:10+00:00

Reading all the comments here in a snarky sarcastic way like p.m seymour reads Tumblr posts on YouTube take away a lot of the cynical darkness and just makes it funny.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-17T18:37:48+00:00

Rate this man's sex appeal

https://preview.redd.it/6rgu5uh4y6a11.jpg?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=ab3704133085c45b30abd0dc4af32d59ecf9f069

tasca_10 · 2022-09-17T19:10:53+00:00

Help PPD

So around the time I started talking to my now gf I had to drop another girl. I found her attractive and knew I had to get rid of her for this reason. I made her block me. She was confused but did it anyways. It was also fine because she found a new man soon afterwards. Fast forward she messages me that she misses me and the way I made her feel. Thing is she barely has anyone else to rely on (I think she just has her grandma). She also comes from a low socioeconomic (see poor) background. She actually fell for me after I made a move on her and she rejected me. Later that night she called me crying because of some family issues. I came over to listen to her and comfort her. I also noticed that she was all of a sudden open to hooking up (like down for anything). I decided not to progress it that evening. Things started to become serious between me and my now gf so I had to drop her to avoid temptation and inappropriateness.

I asked her to block me. I didn’t tell her why I made her block me but I know she doesn’t mind being a side chick having a gf wouldn’t be a deterrent. I’m not the type to cheat though but I have to get through to her that we can never even talk. I feel really bad though because despite being attractive (she once told me that she just needs to exit my car and walk across the road and back and she’d have 20 guys’ numbers by the time she was done) she genuinely seems lonely.

I guess relationships complicate things. You don’t have the freedom to interact with anyone and at any time that you want. It is what it is I guess. Any advice?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-17T20:07:56+00:00

Q4A: How do I become a successful manwhore🥺

Play_Muted · 2022-09-17T20:12:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/hmm/comments/xgs8z1/hmm/

q4w would you consider this sa?

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-17T20:19:25+00:00

Prague or Vienna? Which city would you prefer?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-17T20:52:42+00:00

!si tradujiste esto eres un idiota! o una lesbiana no lo se.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-17T20:58:45+00:00

is it bad if you ghost your wife

meteorness123 · 2022-09-17T21:17:10+00:00

Remember the woman you will marry who'll tell you she's not that sexual bended over for a guy in her student's dorm bathroom a couple of years earlier. Remember that.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-17T22:19:54+00:00

whats your experience with cbd oil ?

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-09-17T23:23:20+00:00

np.reddit.com/r/TimPool/comments/xgi7f3/here_is_yet_another_great_example_from_ny/iouvyou/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

I'd say this is probably an actual case of toxic masculinity (referring to the commenter saying the guy should have tried to fight against a coked up dude with a hatchet while he was already cornered and completely out of position).

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-09-18T01:58:43+00:00

Song Yadong is an absolute savage

tired_hillbilly · 2022-09-18T02:34:24+00:00

Just got back from a wedding I barely knew anyone at, and I have some observations.

First, holy shit a lot of my distant relatives are fat. How are there so many fat people?

Second, being fat seems like less of a detriment to one's dating chances for women than for men. Several women there were fat with thin, decent-looking guys, including the bride.

Third, they didn't do a traditional toast, instead we ate these hollow chocolates filled with Jim Beam. They were really good, if I ever get married I wanna do that too.

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-18T02:59:05+00:00

Didn’t know Piper Perri had a kid that got killed by her baby daddy. Was looking her up earlier and was more disappointed by how old looking she’s got now. Needed to lay off the coke some.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-18T04:42:48+00:00

Q4W: Would you rather have a man with a god-like tongue and no dick, or a man with a god-like stroke game but no tongue

gastongang · 2022-09-18T05:02:24+00:00

alright ladies and gentlemen we have a new manga recommendation today, enjoy

(warning: this shit is dark as fuck, but it is a revenge story/fighting manga)

https://mangasee123.com/manga/Shamo

AbuSharmootah · 2022-09-18T05:04:31+00:00

Y’all seen that NYC video in the McDonald’s where the dude pulled an axe? Women in the comments were like “omg, why did none of the guys help the girl when he came at her with an axe.” No thank you ladies, there’s 4.4m women in NYC, she can be replaced.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-09-18T05:51:56+00:00

Bro my arms are POPPING in this polo shirt.

I forget how sexy I am sometimes.

Ylduts · 2022-09-18T07:59:45+00:00

Gay is the new strait. I love comedians that address issues like this.

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-18T09:09:20+00:00

I bet Alex Jones has good dread game. Dont get provider vibes tho so he's a plate at best

lulll · 2022-09-18T09:59:10+00:00

hey ladies i got just what you need

Ylduts · 2022-09-18T11:05:13+00:00

Actions speak louder than words. Demons are a girls best friend…………….

Play_Muted · 2022-09-18T11:28:43+00:00

q4w rate him. would you smash? if not why?

Ylduts · 2022-09-18T11:35:28+00:00

Small high school band makes a hit?

kljcfg · 2022-09-18T11:54:06+00:00

CMV: From all the kind of cels being a mentalcel is the worst one.

chilikettlechips · 2022-09-18T17:28:29+00:00

it used to be that every time we headed over to my in-laws' place, my MIL would do like... 95% of the work while Mr. Burrrito and his dad just sat around watching sportsball. To some extent, I "got" it - she always waved him off when he asked what he could help with. To another extent, though, it made me furious, because it was a very clear example of all the domestic/emotional labour being left to the woman of the family (and one who has never been a SAHM).

So, I just straight-up told my husband how it made me feel, watching him and his dad just sit around drinking whisky while his mom chopped and stewed and tidied and served non-stop. I told him it felt thoughtless, juvenile, disrespectful, and that his lack of effort made me significantly less attracted to him, as well as highly concerned we might end up repeating misogynistic patterns. He was mildly defensive at first, arguing that his mother didn't like it when people got in the way of what she was doing - and I countered that it was then up to him to find a way to be useful, given all the work she was putting in to make then delicious meals.

Long story short, he gave it some further thought, realised I had a point, and now makes more effort to help out his mom when we're over there, even if that just means following my lead sometimes (e.g., he'll help me with the task I found for myself). I'm willing to accept this compromise because truly, his mother does tend to dismiss offers of help when she's in the middle of things, so I understand how he turned out this way - but I'm glad Mr. Burrrito and I had a candid talk about everything because otherwise, there is no way he could have known exactly what was on my mind and how he could fix it.

This rub anyone else the wrong way? OP seems weird to me.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-09-18T16:47:02+00:00

21 yo here who may be a bit clueless on buying a house process lol. Is 20 percent down payment that I learned about actually/still a thing? I imagine that even with a good salary, if one is buying a house worth 600k, it would take a while to save up 120k to pull out/put down immediately when buying the house. Am I just woefully stupid/misinformed?

gastongang · 2022-09-18T16:44:57+00:00

Men don’t send women pictures of cool bugs enough. That’s the whole problem with dating.

dbz19_kai · 2022-09-18T16:39:24+00:00

Women unironically believe they have supernatural psychic powers called “women’s intuition”

DiligentProgresses · 2022-09-17T18:10:35+00:00

1st

The liberal elite live in 1950s idyllic America while imposing the externalities of their fake morality on the poor

Martha's Vineyard is 90% homogenous

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-17T19:19:02+00:00

Do Americans armed citizens truly believe they could take on the US army and win?

Or is it just like a thing they say

-angels-fan- · 2022-09-17T20:15:01+00:00

LOL

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xgdhn0/have_you_ever_cheated_or_felt_the_urge_to_if_so/

Title: (No judgement, just curious)

OP goes on to pass judgement on every cheater there.

purplish_possum · 2022-09-17T22:21:11+00:00

A house I recently purchased has been assessed at 103K more than I paid for it. Not sure if I should be happy or annoyed.

Regardless, this is an issue most college age women would not care about.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-18T00:27:22+00:00

How many men can retire in their mid 40s? How many men make tens of millions of dollars? How many men get four months off every year? How many men are prolific in what they do? How many men are all of these things?

Gisele should stop henpecking Brady. She is extremely blessed.

prettymuchredpilled · 2022-09-17T18:32:09+00:00

I'm just trying to nail the prime minister of Finland.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-17T18:37:26+00:00

Gentleman, just remember if you're explaining your preference or pointing out some statement that's rooted in biology and a woman goes

" weLl WoUlD y0u sAy the sAmE tHiNg if y0u WerE TAlkiNg Ab0ut a mAAAn?"

Or some variation of that, you've already won the argument, there's no need to engage, just take the knee, run out the clock, just bob and weave, you've already secured the victory and go on about your day

AutumnTop · 2022-09-17T20:53:39+00:00

Seven Things People Say That Are Often True - But Not Always

The mating dance between young people fascinates me in the abstract. Here are some clichés that may be true more often than not, but are not true for everybody. Don't automatically think that they apply to you if someone lays one on you.

1) "If I can do it, anybody can."

No matter how easy or mundane the task, there are some people who won't be able to do it no matter how many times they try. There are people who have failed it again and again. They're a small minority, but they exist. They just don't have the horsepower. Sad but true.

Same goes for getting a MOTOS. Yes, everybody gets somebody if they're will to take anybody, but to get someone you find attractive...that just is unobtainable for a tiny fraction of the population. For whatever reason... physical... mental... situational... or a combination of the above, they can't or won't do it. In addition, "can't" and "won't" are essentially the same thing with regards to results.

2) "You're not unattractive; you're just saying that because you have low self-esteem."

This is usually true among the "oh woe is me; I'm so ugly" crowd. Look at the pictures of the people who post here or in a similar group. If these are representative, then low self-esteem is rampant here. The strong majority are not "ugly" by any stretch of the imagination. In my experience, strongly unattractive people in the age category of 18-45 and who have no hope of improvement through weight loss are rare. (I'm discounting people who are sexually unattractive because of advanced age. That's a different kettle of fish.)

But...this isn't always true. Just like a small percentage of the people here really are unattractive, so it goes in real life. Some people are ugly. Comeliness may be a bell curve with a few in the beauty range and a lot in the middle... but there are people at the bottom, and just because they recognize and say it aloud doesn't mean it's not true.

3) "You need more confidence."

Again, this is usually true. In my experience, confidence really helps. When a boss throws me into a new task that I've never done before, it helps to go into it with a reasonable measure of confidence. What's the alternative? Freaking out and getting overwhelmed, then giving up.

However, confidence alone will not help where there is nothing to base it on. When people say this, they are really try to quell that inner voice shybies are cursed with that cringes at any perceived embarrassment in a conversation or approach ti a MOTOS. Taken in this context, they are correct. However, thinking that "confidence" will somehow erase insurmountable physical hurdles is naïve.

4) "Attractiveness is subjective."

This usually comes freighted in phrases like "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and similar bromides. But I believe there is a fundamentally objective baseline for what we think is physically beautiful as a people, upon which we drape our own likes/dislikes with regards to physical looks. The great writer Daniel Mocsney put it best in a thought experiment... take 100 random males aged 30 and 100 random females aged 30. Take a battery of photos of each. Then ask each to rate the MOTOS from 1-100. If looks were truly subjective, the rankings would be random.

But we all know they won't be. Some folks will be consistently in the top ten, some in the bottom ten. Most will be jumbled in the middle. Now, personality and money jumble the picture further, but looks are a powerful correlating factor when it comes to matching, as any rigorous and dispassionate empirical survey will show.

Another example: consider checkout lane magazines and the pictures of attractive ladies on them. Disregarding the ephemeral fashions, makeup and hairstyles, these ladies are all fairly similar in a couple crucial ways-they are young, slim and have smooth complexions. (Helped, of course, with flattering photography.) That is the objective baseline of female beauty. The other things that overlay it are subjective window dressing. Therefore, female beauty is both objective and subjective. I think it obviously follows that male handsomeness is essentially the same.

5) "There is somebody for everybody."

This one is usually answered by somebody who takes it seriously and asks what to do if their one match is in China or some such distant place. This is specious. What they mean is: "everybody can get somebody." This is true... if you're willing to take anybody. But if you have any standards, then the aperture of success narrows according to (1) your Sexual Market Value (SMV) and (2) how rigorous those standards are. Once this is recognized, it becomes apparent that they're isn't somebody for everyone.

6) "You aren't recognizing the hints of people who are attracted to you."

People with little experience with MOTOS and who have low self-esteem are apparently notorious for this. One denizen here with obviously wobbly self-confidence posted a picture years ago. I'm no judge of male handsomeness to be sure, but if the picture was representative of his real appearance, the chap looked like he could be in one of the "boy bands" that were once popular with the young people here in the United States. Obviously, his case of "woe is me" was misplaced, and within a month or so he admitted to being in an intimate relationship. This guy almost certainly missed some cues.

That's not always the case though. In addition, I have never witnessed somebody miss a cue from someone they think is really attractive. In fact, I believe it's the other way-they read cues where there are none. What appears to happen regarding hints is this. On one hand, cues are pretty easy to miss or ignore when they are coming from someone to which you have no attraction. On the other hands, hints from a person you think is attractive are never missed, and pseudo-hints from the same attractive person are easily imagined where they, in fact, were not given.

On a correlative point, I have a theory about what is often the underlying point being made when one is told this bromide: you need to lower your standards and take one of the low-SMV suitors to whom you've been hitherto oblivious or who you've been ignoring.

Now, I've never had any kind of social relationship of any kind with a MOTOS in my 50+ years. I relayed this hypothesis to an email acquaintance who is my age but has dated several times. He replied:

"Absolutely. That's absolutely what they mean. 'You need to settle' is something you won't hear from buttinski friends, but they will hint it all the damned time."

7) "Your standards are too high."

So, apparently, Line 6 leads to Line 7. Standards are what they are. You're attracted to who you're attracted to. At this point, I'll invoke the 0-10 scale that popular culture has applied to SMV. While I feel that it is possible to lower one;s standards by a point or so, if the difference between what you'll take and what the MOTOS is question currently is, then it's better for both of you if you forget thinking about that particualty person in a sexual way. Someone will end up getting patronized and then hurt. My correspondent mentioned above put it best: "True love is about two people thinking they got a good deal."

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-17T22:55:25+00:00

The worst part about reddit is I can't tell when the other person wants the conversation to end or not lmaooo

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-17T23:20:05+00:00

Riding a motorcycle is 30 IQ behavior, no matter what angle you're coming at it from. You're just choosing natural selection at that point.

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-18T03:42:02+00:00

Too many guys acting like it's a revelation that women get with assholes. As a man, that should be the least of your concerns. Quit acting like Captain Save-A-Hoe. I guarantee that none of you would be complaining about the asshole she's getting with if you got to fuck her silly first.

As the Bible says, render unto Caesar the things that are Caesar's. Let stupid people and assholes find themselves. Chumps were born to get rinsed. More news at 12.

Ylduts · 2022-09-18T09:38:27+00:00

If you want to live in a democracy but want to cancel opposing thoughts……You might want to ponder on that awhile.

DiligentProgresses · 2022-09-17T21:27:28+00:00

CMV no pill = blue pill

gastongang · 2022-09-17T21:27:45+00:00

Q4all

Why on earth would anyone pay for reddit premium

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-17T22:58:44+00:00

I dislike tradcons and puritans for different reasons than the reason women hate them

LaloTwins · 2022-09-18T16:36:47+00:00

Q4M who have actually had sex with women they're attracted to; Have any of you ever lost respect for a girl because she slept with you too quickly?

I've genuinely never had that happen to me, nor have I seen it happen to any of my friends

Is this just an overblown fear that women have

EulenWatcher · 2022-09-18T16:34:59+00:00

Some men using the words cuck and simp for every guy who they disagree with on preferences/treatment of women/views on women or dating are doing pretty much the same what some FDS women do, when they call any woman they disagree with a pickme.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-18T00:26:03+00:00

A pretty hot chick wants to meet up but I don't find her that interesting and I currently have no desire to meet her. I think this is what women mean when they drop boring good-looking dudes

gastongang · 2022-09-17T20:37:41+00:00

not a fan of the amoralist live-for-yourself and only yourself idea that red-pillers, social Darwinists, and others on this subreddit seem to ascribe to. You should focus on yourself and your own goals, but as a human, you have a duty to look out for and support your fellow man. That's not to say you need to be wholly self-sacrificing because scummy people can and will take advantage of you, nor should you work to solve everyone's problems for them, because you can't, at least not in the long term, people can really only solve there own problems. However, when someone is struggling and wants to improve, be better, and solve their problems themselves, you should always be there willing and able to give the helping hand and support they need to help themselves

remember that at the end of the day, all we really have is each other

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-17T22:22:30+00:00

I think one way social media has increased polarization is by exposing women. Before social media, men genuinely used to think that women are better people than us, less shallow, more empathetic, more relationship oriented etc. Now, with the advent of online dating sites and social media, it’s become clear that women are just as shallow (if not more). In a way this is good.

errrright · 2022-09-18T04:36:49+00:00

Why be in his DMs when you can be in his nightmares instead? 👹

gastongang · 2022-09-17T23:52:58+00:00

a lot of the time I relate to and sympathize with dudes who struggle with dating, I am one after all, but god a lot of you motherfuckers on this subreddit are just so goddamn weird and embarrassing, that it makes it really hard for me to sympathize for you

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-17T18:41:34+00:00

So many brown skinned Indian girls got such wonderful skin 😍 This ladies arms was so nice and creamy and smooth I could spend an hour nibbling on it 🥵

Plus I like the hook nose a lot of them have

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-18T11:27:28+00:00

Astrology is very silly, but people who hate astrology are very boring.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-09-18T16:26:09+00:00

Would you date a janitor?

Play_Muted · 2022-09-18T16:22:56+00:00

one of the cringiest thing a guy can do is to ask a girl out and then call her ugly after she rejects him.

bruh you arent fooling anyone, you were down bad and now you are just mad.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-09-18T16:19:13+00:00

5 lyricists better than Eminem -

1: Aesop Rock

2: Onry Ozzborn

3: Sapient

4: Busdriver

5: Mr. Lif

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-18T16:06:26+00:00

You’ll never know the pain of being 165lbs but having a HW appetite and trying to cut 😥

Edit: Nobody asked for your unsolicited advice you nerds

Willow-girl · 2022-09-18T16:04:16+00:00

I had skipped mowing the lawn for a couple of weeks as my foot was hurting too badly to navigate the rough ground, but decided TODAY WAS THE DAY! It wasn't going to get any easier to mow and it annoys me to have to stop every 10 feet to empty the bag and unclog the mower when the grass gets too tall.

So I was getting the job done, foot hurting a little bit but not so bad that I couldn't stick with it, and I was in fact nearly done when ....

.... I ran over a hornet's nest.

SON OF A BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

girlwiththewinehair · 2022-09-18T16:03:23+00:00

I miss my dad :(

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-18T15:51:00+00:00

How can I increase my toxic masculinity?

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-09-18T15:28:40+00:00

I'm out of state visiting a friend, and while we're eating at her college dining hall, I noticed so many people eating alone. I get that it's a weekend but when I was in college, the hot girls wouldn't be caught dead eating alone.

I don't like ragging on Gen Z because it makes me feel like a race traitor but c'mon guys, hot girls shouldn't be eating alone.

Libah05 · 2022-09-18T15:19:03+00:00

Sure there might be men who are indifferent about your high n-count, but no man thinks: “My wife has slept with 50 men, I’m so happy she has had all those dicks inside her guts”. At best the husband will be indifferent, but it will never be a positive thing.

KarmaChameleonian · 2022-09-18T15:14:23+00:00

So I was out last night downtown and saw this couple arguing. I didn't think much of it but once he pushed her against the car I did a 180 and decided to walk around the block in order to get to my car. I assume one of them, or both of them were drunk

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-18T14:57:42+00:00

My favorite men are the ones who, when asked boobs or butt, answer thighs

lulll · 2022-09-18T14:48:46+00:00

q4w how hot is nic cage

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-09-18T14:40:41+00:00

The curse is lifted. My beautiful eyeless monstrosity reigns again.

VirgoGoonfold · 2022-09-18T14:39:19+00:00

Being loved is nice and all, but to be able to love, that truly is a privilege.

RegTextoffender · 2022-09-18T14:34:09+00:00

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/leg-lengthening-surgeon-says-software-165430529.html

Blackpill is leakong.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-09-18T14:21:32+00:00

What is "queer" and why is it in every woman's twitter bio

scwizard · 2022-09-18T14:19:45+00:00

I was stalked for seven years by a guy who felt he “didn’t get the chance he deserved”

I gave a guy like this a chance once and he tried to kill me. Fast forward some years and a friend is trying to set me up with one of his friends who likes me, but I didn't find attractive at all. Gave me a bit of an off vibe. Said no and he gave me the "oh go on" sphiel. I told him about D who I gave a shot and how that went. I told him it's a lesson I learnt straight away, follow my gut.

With experiences like this I guess it makes sense that women wanna avoid guys that aren't super attractive idk.

EulenWatcher · 2022-09-18T14:10:42+00:00

If you take out bones from thighs, fry them skin side down for 5 minutes and bake them in the over for ~25 minutes, you get the crispiest skin out there. Really good with mashed potatoes and pan souse.

kljcfg · 2022-09-18T14:09:42+00:00

I rejected a lot of ugly women , and now I am regretting it. They would have been great to experiment in the female body.

scwizard · 2022-09-18T14:08:21+00:00

This thread is a pretty silly juxtaposition with the loneliness thread on twox.

I'm sorry you don't have a right to complain about being lonely if you post shit like this:

Stop calling women rude for not giving someone a chance.

Yes, I understand he's your friend. Yes, I know he might actually be one of the good ones. Great ones even. I know you want the best for both of us. But for FUCK'S SAKE, stop. Stop accusing ne of being rude, stop saying I'm being unfair and, most of all, stop telling me I will end up miserable and alone.

NOONE owes anyone a chance. Noone. We don't owe you an explanation either. I say I'm not interested in dating, that's that. My business. I know what I want and need and I know what's best for me. I know ME, because you know ... It's me.

It's not even just guys doing it. It's women too.

Just stop.

chancetolive · 2022-09-18T13:54:55+00:00

Spoiler: Submissive

https://youtu.be/Uiviq7SapmA

Ylduts · 2022-09-18T13:39:33+00:00

Is Eminem the greatest lyricist to ever exist? I don’t see how you can argue against it. He is the Rap God. Period🤷‍♂️

scwizard · 2022-09-18T13:32:18+00:00

often I feel almost physical pain on my skin due to loneliness and being touch starved.

I want a a partner, but past six years have been just weird variation of emotionally unavailable men and disappointments and pain. It really does feel fulfilling or even baseline relationship has become very hard to achieve.

Why has she had so much trouble finding emotionally available men?

scwizard · 2022-09-18T13:19:58+00:00

I fucking hate when men say women cant experience loneliness..I lost my friends almost 10 years ago, never had a relationship or anything, live alone, got bullied as a child..do you think I dont know loneliness???? they say I have options..what option??? the only men that would talk to me want to use me and assult me, treat me like shit, I had enough

Exactly. Abusers, low lives and guys who think we are nothing but holes are NOT options.

Is it really so difficult to meet guys that aren't abusers, low lives and guys who think women are nothing but holes?

CanOfWoody · 2022-09-18T12:55:13+00:00

Went to a pub crawl last night organized by meetup.com

Actually went pretty bad.

About 30 people came, probably 25 men and 5 women.

The places they took us to were really too small to accomodate us and the people already there.

Also, its like importing a sausage fest everywhere we go.

For 16 bucks they take you to 4 places and you get a free shot at each one, which isnt terrible, but otherwise meh.

Also just an additional arrow in the quiver of the broader point about how its hard for unconnected men to meet women. I would assume the vast majority of intergender meetups have bad gender ratios. Even when I went to dance related meetups, which is typically associated with being more female oriented, it was still majorily male (although like 55/45 in composition)

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-09-18T12:21:01+00:00

Q4M: how toxic is your masculinity?

Ylduts · 2022-09-18T12:20:56+00:00

He is! A nice Sunday song to reign in the new week!

meteorness123 · 2022-09-17T18:11:42+00:00

You don't even need to be masculine. Just be hyperverbal and a quick-witted ex- addict like Russel brand

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LH5GHw5xYM&ab\_channel=NOVAFM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T\_igJXczO9w&ab\_channel=ideasman69

DiligentProgresses · 2022-09-17T18:15:27+00:00

Feminism is a hoax whose true goal is to free up women to exploit men to get what they want without giving what they used to have to give, which was marriage and children.

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-09-17T18:18:56+00:00

Dua lipa >>>> all fem singer now

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-09-17T18:59:49+00:00

Girl does most of the work in the dynamic, knows its wrong but finds him hot. Guy goes silent after sex. Girl accepts it. Guy comes back and apologizes for being silent. Girl is confused.

Ive been in this situation and many of my friends have been. Seems like these type of dudes like keeping girls on the backburner for when they are bored? Or girl in their top choice is busy? Never understood why to keep orbiting if something has a chance to fizzle out.

jaci_22 · 2022-09-17T20:46:21+00:00

I don’t understand people who have more than 3 relationships in their lifetime. You can’t be wrong that many times. It either means you’re very careless and bad at picking people or you don’t take any of this stuff seriously. It shows gross incompetence on your part. There’s no justifiable reason. I’m even pushing it by saying 3. Your third should be money. No one can be this stupid.

-mixedsignals · 2022-09-17T21:25:35+00:00

Today I got the first sunburn of the summer

I underestimated September's sun and I didn't put any sunscreen

every year it's the same I never learn

meteorness123 · 2022-09-17T22:25:29+00:00

Sometimes I feel weird, than I watch this and it makes me feel normal again.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UFBZ\_uAbxS0&ab\_channel=Aleteuk

gastongang · 2022-09-18T11:15:59+00:00

say a post today that said western men should not go to foreign countries like japan looking for sex, because many foreign women are overachievers, or have high standards for mature responsible partners who can be good husbands and fathers. And that what western men perceive as being weak and easily taken advantage of, is just them being humble, and not weak. Thus the western men with a paunchy belly and receding hairline who are losers in the states expecting to go to japan to find a bunch of beautiful women who want to have sex with them are delusional and in for a rude awakening

good.

The problem with western women isn't that their standards are high because they are looking for reliable partners. it's that they are immature, narcissistic, egotistical, irresponsible, lack accountability, and only interested in meaningless flings. God, I wish western women's standards for relationships were high, how many times do you see girls stay with men who are essentially unreliable irresponsible manchildren because they are addicted to the push-pull excitement of a toxic relationship these men provide? or how many times do you see "this man is super toxic, and ugly, and treats me like shit, but I'm still gonna hook up with him tee he". Jesus fucking christ, how am I supposed to respect, let alone love someone with absolutely zero standards, and no self-respect

so you're telling me that foreign countries are full of mature, intelligent, disciplined, polite, women with high standards who don't believe like fucking crybaby toddlers, I'm gonna buy myself a one-way ticket right now.

edit: tldr, western men who go to foreign countries for easy sex are still gonna be losers even in these countries, but most modern woman are still unwifeable

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-09-18T11:21:39+00:00

Democrats: Evil MAGA Republicans dont care about migrants like we do! We welcome migrants with open arms and embrace the diversity they bring- DONT BRING THEM TO MY NEIGHBORHOOD, you evil Republicans. There’s no room for them where I live! You keep those migrants in your racist shithole states where they belong!

I love how the term NIMBY elite or NIMBY liberal got created.

Not In My Back Yard virtue signalling jackasses who dont actually care about the situations they claim to care for.

Try to diversify a rich liberal community with a plethora of migrants? Migrants shipped out 48 hours later.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-09-18T12:12:22+00:00

Just your occasional reminder that US mainstream feminism is a scam that doesnt give a fuck about women. They only come out to whine about abortion and cry about flimsy rape allegations against Republicans (but useful Democrats can be sleazy all they want in the eyes of feminists).

Do feminists care when Soft On Crime policies coddle sex offenders and domestic abusers? NOPE.

Did feminists care that Jacob Blake was trying to kidnap some kids or that the Blake was accused of sexual assault and harassing the alleged victim? NOPE.

Do feminists care when violent predatory men exploit the LGBT community to prey on women? NOPE, and the ones that do are ostracized as TERFs.

Are feminists acknowledging that more and more women are owning guns as a response to protect himself from the rise in crime? NOPE. They just keep talking about how all guns are bad.

Any concern about the children crossing the border being kidnapped and sex trafficked on the journey to the USA? NOPE.

Any concerns about the Democrats fucking up the economy and causing it to be hard to be a mom at this time? NOPE. “Orange Man Worse”.

If a woman isnt getting an abortion and isnt crying about republicans running imaginary rape gangs 3 decades ago, there is no use of Western feminism in her life.

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-09-18T12:11:58+00:00

Q4ALL

(And especially those people who complain about cancelling of thoughts and speech)

Should your neighbor be able to plan and coordinate a terrorist attack?

Should the government not be able to do anything about it until it's actually happened?

If all speech is okay then you can't do a thing.

edgyny · 2022-09-18T12:08:10+00:00

Here’s what I want to know: Why did Al Franken and Katie Hill have to resign but Matt Gaetz and Jim Jordan are still in Congress?

I can't even with Democrats on Twitter. Dullest tools in the box.

Ylduts · 2022-09-18T12:02:51+00:00

Tool, are they still popular amongst the youngin’s today?

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-18T07:57:31+00:00

Who would win in a fight, a small army of 300 incels at peak male frustration or the 13.5m women at r/TwoXChromosomes

Bet those virgins kick their ass like the Spartans did the Persians, no contest

biggestuzifanea · 2022-09-18T03:40:55+00:00

On this episode of women shooting themselves in the foot now "munch" has been added to the lexicon making fun of men that give them oral

AppliedAutism · 2022-09-18T05:21:35+00:00

Why do chicks working at service industry jobs have such a stuck up attitude?

The ones who I have met at social events straight up loathe me or the prospect of getting with someone else like me even though they are destined to stay as lower class trash otherwise.

Substantial_Wasabi · 2022-09-17T23:50:30+00:00

Hot take time.

I absolutely believe that women have a societal responsibility to keep the men who perform the dirty jobs that keep society running sexually satisfied, whether they are attractive or not. I am a man but I don’t work in those fields so no, I am not advocating on my own behalf.

My reasoning is that women, just as much as men if not more, enjoy the societal comforts that are produced by the manual labor of these men and that even in an age of mainstream feminism, women are not pouring into these jobs in considerable numbers. They’re more than welcome to but they have no desire to which shows that feminism is selective, and that most of them still feel that there are certain things that just belong to the responsibility of men.

Second, society has pretty much outlawed man’s natural advantage over woman in the name of society, a benefit that is largely being enjoyed by women, right?

So, yeah.

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