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HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-23T01:28:50+00:00

After two women that worked with tate who were named as victims in the investigation did a news interview refuting quite literally everything he's being accused of (short of short changing them), I don't buy the trafficking allegations against Andrew Tate. I think there is a very strong vested interest in shutting him up, because he promotes traditional beliefs, masculinity, and talks about men's issues in a world that does nothing but demonize and trash young men.

There is also this woman who worked with previously. and there was his ex girlfriend in the role play vid that came out several times to reiterate that it was consensual and he's always been respectful to her.

Every single woman who's actually spoken publicly (anyone can film a video with no identity or face) has had nothing but positive things to say about how Tate has treated them. I wonder why?

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-22T22:45:00+00:00

One thing that has always baffled me is how many feminists participate on /r/askfeminists and say "it's not my job to educate you!"

Then why are participating in an ask subreddit?? Isn't that the whole point of ask[whatever]? To educate people about your thing?

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-22T21:43:24+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/10iiwg1/survival_instincts/

I'm not a big fan of social experiments, but this one was pretty cool!

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-01-23T21:45:16+00:00

Any one wanna switch romance lives with me? I somehow keep attracting these modest women or women who decide to turn their lives around. Where are the alternative women? Any other men constantly get these reformed/"I now decide I want to be a modest woman" type women? There has to be a glitch somewhere.

Hoodfamous098 · 2023-01-23T01:13:43+00:00

There are so many worse fates than being single forever. If you don’t understand that then you are either too privileged or too young, or most likely; both.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-23T06:03:04+00:00

All it takes is three months to change your life, before you go "NO YOU CAN'T THAT'S TOO SHORT!!"

I'm not saying you'll go from nothing to everything in that time, but it takes around 60-90 days to build a habit. Take that time to make small changes to make yourself better, can even make yourself a list like:

Start

Working out
Going to sleep earlier
Doing skincare
cold showers

Stop

Eating fast food
Drinking alcohol
Masturbating

All small habits you can start over three months and if you stick to it you will objectively look better afterwards.

zastale · 2023-01-23T15:12:23+00:00

I’d like to see a megathread about this topic as it’s been quite popular on social media over the weekend.

Am I the only one who looks at the floor when girls work out close by? This tweet really resonated with me.

My gym has a women’s only section, yet it’s nearly empty every time I walk by.

purginggastonist · 2023-01-22T21:38:56+00:00

I know I post a lot about why male vulnerability is a bad thing, but I am not against men opening up to women, if you do find a women who truly matters to you its ok to let down your guard and the wall you build around yourself, to crack open the shell and show her that inside, you are just as hard as the outside

be a rock not an egg

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-23T01:07:01+00:00

CMV: the biggest compliment a women can get nowadays is being called a pickme, because it means she has critically thinking skills instead of parroting whatever the hive mind says.

CliffPR · 2023-01-23T14:11:38+00:00

Its always fun on PPD when you have one side telling you that masturbation can perfectly fulfill all of your unmet sexual desires and another telling you that masturbating is bad and your life won't improve until you stop doing it.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-23T15:40:09+00:00

I love how uneducated people are on the Red Pill when they still try to pull the "Red Pill blames all of their problems on women" card when the Red Pill has always mocked, shamed and criticised men who try to shift the blame of their problems to others.

Goes to show people have their set idea of what the Red Pill is without actually knowing anything about it or bothering to spend five minutes reading it.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-22T21:03:17+00:00

I thought I'd stop liking anime as an adult the same way I stopped playing video games. But the opposite happened. I watch it more than ever.

Dolphin_Moon · 2023-01-22T22:48:21+00:00

So after some texting I realized its kinda unfair to let the guy I had a nice date w last week to not tell him my days off are coming up so I mentioned how I’m free the next few days if he wants to get together and only been like a couple of hours but haven’t heard back.

Now I feel dumb and should waited till he said his schedule

caobozo · 2023-01-23T00:05:23+00:00

ive seen people on the internet give fitness advice and say 10k steps is a good goal, which i can get behind, but i also saw multiple people say 15-20k? the only time i managed 20k steps was when i spent the whole day on vacation exploring, but how do normal people achieve this? do they run around on their job all day and then also take a two hour walk when they get home?

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-01-23T00:30:57+00:00

np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/sxcvvm/why_are_young_men_giving_up_on_dating/

How many of you have read this thread before?

lulll · 2023-01-23T02:48:04+00:00

no swearing in front of women

EBZ1722 · 2023-01-23T04:27:18+00:00

The reason a blueprint for masculinity is so important is because men's brains tend to operate in a systemic manner, we do best when equipped with a social framework from which to gauge our choices and actions in relation to a systematic baseline.

We want to push our men to be as strong and noble as they can be, when a society totally lacks a defined pathway for men as ours does today, many men seem to rot away into empty husks consumed by the trappings of consumerist life. The worst part of it is that these rotting men hate every aspect of their own existence.

We must show young men that there is a path out of the abyss, one that only they have the strength to individually embark upon.

purplish_possum · 2023-01-23T07:03:59+00:00

Apparently grand kid #10 is getting a biblical name when he arrives in a few weeks. So I was thinking that if I ever have some more girls I could name them Lilith and Jezebel.

purginggastonist · 2023-01-23T07:04:00+00:00

NO, HANK!!!!!!

DON'T POST THAT ON YOUR INSTAGRAM STORY!!!!!!!! ITS NOT A REAL VOLTAIRE QUOTE!!!!!

HANK!!!!!!!!!

nemma88 · 2023-01-23T09:48:30+00:00

The closest thing we have to 'The matrix' is the internet.

The place we go to escape reality, sit behind pseudo names and personalities, where interactions are heavily influenced by algorithms.

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-23T13:09:27+00:00

The funniest thing about TRP and manosphere belief systems: they don't even have to have relationship experiences to create their own relationship baggage from online echo chambers. Yet love to complain about baggage partners may bring.

TigerRude4 · 2023-01-23T13:27:55+00:00

This comment sums up ppd women well:

PPD Rule #7: Women will always deny that which may negatively reflect on their own sexual behavior.

This goes for anything involving confirming any "problematic" RP idea, any indication that she might be anything less than perfectly moral or intuitive.

If we are going by "watch what they do, not what they say" then 90% of these Q4W are useless.

Add to that the fact that women participating on PPD are here solely to refute / debunk RP ideas, and you are quintessentially "asking the fish". PPD women will lie and gaslight (even themselves) in order to maintain the greater good which (to them) is to deny RP has any merit.

Now that that is out of the way, all you need to do men is ask yourself. Regardless of the concept of "cultivating dread", how many times has a woman who showed zero interest in you suddenly began to show interest in you when a woman of equal or higher value began to?

There is your answer.

scwizard · 2023-01-23T14:05:07+00:00

In nature, in all sexually reproductive species, only about 10% of males reproduce. That's one of the drivers of evolution. The patriarchy was installed to undermine this and give more men access to reproduction. This system is slowly coming to its end and the natural order reappears.

It always makes me laugh when those incel Tate type of men talk about biology, they have no clue.

Umm quiet part out loud much? So abolishing patriarchy means abolishing monogamy now?

scwizard · 2023-01-23T14:15:18+00:00

So my boyfriend of two years has three kids (ages 10,10,12) from a previous relationship. He doesn't have custody of the kids anymore but they come over on the weekends usually, and so obviously I've gotten quite attached to them and I think they feel the same way.

Anyways I found out I am pregnant a couple weeks ago, (around 7 weeks)

How is three kids and zero custody not a red flag?

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-23T14:52:13+00:00

If there are almost no women on OLD why do you keep insisting that OLD is becoming the dominant form of dating?

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-01-23T21:35:39+00:00

Most of the time when women I'm in some sort of relationship talk to me talk about their emotions I feel like I'm being manipulated and rebel against it.

Where can I find a high functioning ASD queen who won't do this?

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-23T21:26:09+00:00

Why is there a huge appreciation of the alt-right for femboys?

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-01-22T21:02:05+00:00

Yeh first

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-01-22T21:40:32+00:00

I think people forget that empathy is not the same thing as pitying and coddling.

The definition of empathy: The ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

Just like I understand the kids who throw tantrums when mommy who wont give them toys and candies. I too use to throw massive tantrums when I didnt get what I want. Guess what? I acknowledge that wasn’t acceptable behavior of me and that I was being an ungrateful little shit.

I’ll dismiss someone’s ‘struggles’ BECAUSE I understand and share their feelings, and I know its not that serious. The difference is I don’t have a sense of entitlement and I understand the concept of being grateful for what I have.

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-01-22T22:51:14+00:00

Theory: Women are demonstrably (per clinical psychological trials) more neurotic than men and have a far strong in-group preference from men.

This ultimately causes a very intense, sensitive signal for them which gives them a completely different perception of reality than men do in regards to any and all kinds of engagements with women.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-22T22:54:38+00:00

Gotta start taking calisthenics more seriously. Can't buy a pull up bar though so I'm not sure where to go from there. Im guessing try and compensate with other things.

I think all men should be somewhat muscular.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-22T23:47:58+00:00

[redacted]

lewdakuma · 2023-01-23T01:11:35+00:00

I've been trying to get myself out the "basement" and going to bars and clubs with my buddies/co-workers during the weekend. I don't why but women and sometimes men keep giving me compliments on my looks, I.E, "your handsome", "your beautiful", "are you a model", "I like the way you dress" etc.

It makes me feel weird, somewhat disturbs me to be honest.

Can anyone tell me why would they do such a thing.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-23T01:27:03+00:00

Any films of the top of your head that made an impact on you?

For me, I found value in Whiplash, and also Parasite

purginggastonist · 2023-01-23T05:48:41+00:00

autistic female rizz is unmatched

PsychologicalHand155 · 2023-01-23T07:01:08+00:00

I still don’t know which pill i would be classified under…

purginggastonist · 2023-01-23T08:03:30+00:00

so far those of you who say that women don't film, publicly shame, and try to socially destroy guys who approach them

well you are half-right, they will do that even if you don't ask approach them, they will post you on social media and have you branded as a creep by millions of people if you so much as breathe in there direction

https://twitter.com/TheJoeySwoll/status/1616611613666340864?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-23T09:23:44+00:00

Q4A

What were some consequences for rejecting something or disagreeing with something (not just dating related, in life in general / positive and negative experiences)? - pls state your gender.

TigerRude4 · 2023-01-23T09:42:41+00:00

Can't believe I'm arguing about whether men or women initiate more in first stages of dating

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-23T11:51:15+00:00

so I went to church yesterday for the first time and holy shit there were SO MANY FUCKING FINE ASS GIRLS.

every girl looked like a fox news reporter. and they were all checking me out because I was one of the only guys that wasn't in his 60s and 70s.

totally disproportionate ratio of women to men in my favor. i'm going to keep going and I suggest you guys do too.

PS i'm not even christian or religious but i'll get baptized at this rate fuck it.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-23T14:06:12+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEfxTD13eLM

This song still hits mega hard

zastale · 2023-01-23T14:28:45+00:00

Going to the gym in January anywhere from 4PM-6PM is literal hell.

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-23T15:30:15+00:00

Follow up question about the lack of women on OLD

If you (average man) are unsuccessfully trying to find women in a room full of Jason Momoas and Henry Cavils. Who is to blame for your lack of success?

The owner of the room? you can leave

The women choosing hotter guys? you'd do the same if roles were reversed

Maybe you are responsible for looking for a way to meet people that fits your abilities/standards. Maybe find a room filled with other average guys and not Jasom Momoas. Nobody is going come and give you what you want for free, you have to do that for yourself.

lewdakuma · 2023-01-23T15:50:35+00:00

watched the movie skinamarink last night, it was the first horror movie to actually startle me in such a long time. i'm OBSESSED. it was literally a nightmare for me and i actually dreamt about it 🤩

if you don't like experimental and ambiguous film, you wont like it. but if you do, give it a shot alone in the dark. i do think it couldve been 30 minutes shorter.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-01-23T15:57:17+00:00

Idk why people freaked out about Jada Smith having extramarital affairs. Hardly anyone in Hollywood is actually monogamous.

lulll · 2023-01-23T16:03:17+00:00

somewhat refreshing thread about shitty women authors writing idiotic male characters

men writing women always get a ton of shit so its nice to see people laughing at how fucking stupid the male characters are in books women write

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-23T21:19:21+00:00

You know as much as i want to detach from her. If she texted me right now and said she liked me and wanted to date me. I probably would.

I know this is true in my heart of hearts. And its a sad thing.

chancetolive · 2023-01-23T21:14:22+00:00

AWALT. Some are just able to get away with it. :)

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-23T00:14:16+00:00

Japan is the future, where pornstars are celebrities and mass inceldom

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-01-23T02:28:48+00:00

Fatties ruined big boobs for me.

I just associate big boobs with fatties now, so even if a woman has big boobs and is not fat, the big boobs makes me think she has all the negative attributes of fatties (trashy, low class, low self control, unclean, unhealthy, diabetes, heart disease, sloppy).

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-23T20:49:29+00:00

I was pretty asexual before getting on birth control but it probably made things worse I’m realising

blackpilledanon1 · 2023-01-23T20:34:21+00:00

I take 9 pills after every meal. (OMAD)

6 collagen pills

2 fish oil pills

1 multivitamin pill

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-23T20:30:19+00:00

Whats the point...

liefelijk · 2023-01-23T20:29:31+00:00

Parent/Teacher Conferences is such a boring workday at my school. 😴 Almost none of the parents attend or respond to contacts and then are confused when their kids don’t graduate on time.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-23T20:11:58+00:00

I love topless protest, I ldgaf about the cause but thanks for the titties

eye_fuck · 2023-01-23T20:09:48+00:00

Damn was about to slide into dms and simp over one girl i know but she changed her profile picture to way less cool one. Ew. Thank God for icks

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2023-01-23T20:06:00+00:00

Anyone knowledgable about fitness and some place online I can create a training program? I’m planning on doing full body workouts 3 times a week.

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-23T20:05:44+00:00

Are you guys unironically learning dating advice from It's always sunny in Philadelphia?

What's next? Take your date to a boat ride?

Peacesquad · 2023-01-23T19:34:06+00:00

Question for All, why do you think or do you think that we accept a woman’s biological urges but shame men for wanting to enact on theirs?

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-01-23T19:30:08+00:00

How do you guys think "number of women who wouldn't date/marry a man who's slept with a prostitute" compares to "number of men who wouldn't date/marry a promiscuous woman"?

As in, do you think that there are more guys like that than women like that? The opposite? Or about the same?

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-23T19:25:22+00:00

Does your ncount go up if you didn't give consent verbally?

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-23T19:17:07+00:00

Women show more dislike to female promiscuity when they have sons (57 minute mark: https://youtu.be/m5w0sALvppU )

Seems like when women start to have skin in the game they act like men. Funny.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-23T19:09:11+00:00

Whats it like owning a pet? Cat and dog specifically.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-23T18:59:30+00:00

Why is there a push to be a femboy?

Decent-Zombie-5513 · 2023-01-23T18:57:41+00:00

I just watched "Fleishman is in trouble" A show about a 40 yo newly divorced doctor in new york played by Jesse Eisenberg who none stop just smash and passes milfs he meets on tinder for the first two eps.

I just knew it had to have been written by a woman and guess what? It was.

It would have been a funny comedy if it was about what would happen if a normal looking guy woke up one day and he could fuck as much as a normal looking woman could tho.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-23T18:54:24+00:00

Apparently there’s proof that women seek the same things they seek in partners from their opposite friends. Proving that women see male friends as backup plans:

32 minutes in: https://youtu.be/m5w0sALvppU

So forget about asking us why we don’t have female friends. Why not ask yourselves why y’all can’t trust your spouses.

lehibu38 · 2023-01-23T18:46:22+00:00

This is a serious question and perhaps the wrong sub to ask to but whatever.

Is there a way to temporarily kill sexual drive? My libido is too high and it interferes in my productivity, I also hate wasting so much time chasing women and seducing them literally despise it.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-23T18:46:03+00:00

I want to believe in love but my experience here proves otherwise. Some of the guys here claim they got the unicorn wife but simp for some tranny lookalike. Others claim their wife is their love of their life and go to swinger parties, and the women where do I start...

chancetolive · 2023-01-23T18:32:22+00:00

the end of men?! wtf

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-23T18:30:45+00:00

Romantic love for me is sex,caring,vulnerability,support. It has synergistic effect. It makes you a cornerstone for your community. There is no me, only us together.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-23T18:30:39+00:00

Just browsing this subreddit, YouTube or Twitter you can see that all red pill discourse is now 100% misogyny. No nuance, no self improvement and no introspection. Most of these guys sounds like complete NPCs just repeating the same couple of lines and catch phrases

Also what I consider to be promoted on YouTube and Twitter especially is violent misogyny

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-01-22T22:45:03+00:00

It is rather amusing seeing how women will make fun of men for having approach anxiety with women despite many women struggling to pick up a phone and make a call to order a pizza.

autumncolors816 · 2023-01-23T01:42:49+00:00

Have you ever known people here IRL- read their remarks and comments and call straight BS? Because you know there is more to the BS story they are telling, they just want sympathy. I just start laughing and shaking my head.

zastale · 2023-01-23T16:23:36+00:00

People need to realize that just because there isn’t a triple peer reviewed study with a sample size of 1 billion, doesn’t mean that it can’t be true.

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-23T18:27:24+00:00

Q4W: Have you ever cried after sex?

haroldshipman_MD · 2023-01-23T18:27:20+00:00

Took my partner to a hotel overnight for a little romantic break. The fucking checkout times are ridiculous these days. 9:30AM we had to be out by.

This isn't some mega chain hotel either - small boutique with just 4 tiny rooms and we were the only guests. Check-in time was 4:00PM too.

I remember when checkout times were 11AM as standard. I think we're going to see pre-9AM checkouts within our lifetime.

throwaway_pathcam · 2023-01-23T18:24:51+00:00

Generally, my relationships with the opposite sex have been "give give give give give--get nothing" and I am torn with feeling impetus to put myself out there and resolve the sense of loneliness and unfulfillment, but feel like a third time around that ends the same way will just destroy me.

spunkystoic · 2023-01-23T18:24:46+00:00

Japan is now apparently on the brink of demographic disaster due to low birth rate: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jan/23/japans-ageing-population-poses-urgent-risk-to-society-says-pm

And to think, about a year ago there were people on this forum claiming that birth-rate decline was overrated and that Japan would be fine...

...sadly, I feel that this is the future for the western world too.

TL;DR: screw zombies...Children of Men is the most realistic apocalypse film.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-01-23T18:19:34+00:00

I'm going to drop what I think will be a REALLY unpopular opinion- I actually like chubby chicks. I don't mean morbidly obese obviously, but I'd easily pick a Yumi Nu or Ashley Graham type over someone super skinny.

THHBHStT · 2023-01-23T17:58:27+00:00

People really have willed ignorance to the whole AWALT phrase

If you gained 200 pounds and lost your hair in a week of course not every woman is going to leave you. But the vast vast majority will, so AWALT

If a cute girl walks up to a single guy at a bar and says, “can I blow you” of course not every man is going to say yes, but the vast vast majority will, so men are pigs

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-23T17:43:22+00:00

Q4A: What is the ultimate expression of love?

Don't say caring, If I want someone to care for me there is my father, my mother and my siblings.

Don't say sex because anyone can get it with little or no investment.

I would say having his/her child but sperm banks and uterine rental services exists.

So PPD nutjobs what is the ultimate expression of love?

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OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-22T21:05:46+00:00

Third, yeeaaa boiii.

Also this song still hits hard right now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEfxTD13eLM

Warm_Philosopher · 2023-01-22T22:15:49+00:00

Q4Americans what is your favorite thing about your state?

WestCombSplit · 2023-01-22T23:05:47+00:00

A Woman can't complain about feeling like a therapist at times in the relationship if she expects him to carry all the heavy things and protect her. It makes no sense to complain about an emotional imbalance, if you're expecting a physical/manual one

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-23T00:24:13+00:00

It's really not difficult to get an aesthetically attractive body, you pick up that gym membership and start going consistently, you'll already be in the top 10% of men in terms of fitness because a large majority of men don't workout or exercise, you're already in the minority of men for working out.

Just go and do it.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-23T00:29:53+00:00

Thinking about apologising to my ex, she was pretty cool and I wasn't the boyfriend I should've been, didn't take her on proper dates or buy her stuff. But the fact she sort of cheated makes me hesitant. Do you guys think I should apologise to her?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-23T02:50:37+00:00

[repealed]

growandappear · 2023-01-23T03:40:49+00:00

Maybe my sexuality is toxic after all

!She's from Alabama, gross!<

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-23T04:22:08+00:00

New episode of Last of Us was a miss.

huhwhatokok · 2023-01-23T04:25:44+00:00

There was a post about equating a woman settling down with a nice guy/beta buxx to a fuck boy settling down with a woman after having running through hella women. The comparison doesn’t make sense bc the fuck boy would have fucked that women he settled down with any time in his running through the streets.

Mark_Freed · 2023-01-23T05:58:24+00:00

I think of the main cruxes between the red pill and blue pill worldview is how normatively Good women's discernment is.

Red pill and adjacent people finds women to be too delusional, easily gamed, superficial in many ways. They detest the world for being this way, for the incentives that set up the Game. Some grudgingly play, others exploit it happily. But the key is no one really likes it or thinks it is Good.

The Blue pill view (after appropriate steelmanning) would be that women have their eye on the prize, they have the good sense and discernment to find guys who have their shit together. They consider a wide range of factors all appropriately weighted. Sure there are girls who defect out of this arrangement. Sure like every proxy, this isn't perfect and can be gamed. But all things considered it's a really good set of incentives. It demands the man aspire for success, confidence, takes care of his health, treats her with empathy, is able to handle conflicts and risks, smells good, has an artistic soul, likes animals, is fun and open, curious, passionate.

A friend told me... "You can't go wrong trying to really be attractive to women. They know what's up". It's a good direction to pick for growth if you are confused and lost. Eventually you'll discover your own path but to bootstrap this is a great way.

Mark_Freed · 2023-01-23T06:01:54+00:00

Story of how I turned blue pill from red pill.

Two of my closest friends found love quite suddenly. They are the bluest pill people I know. They are nerdy, "beta" as fuck. They are really happy and if that's what blue pill gets them.

Count me blueeee as The Morning Sky.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-23T07:18:37+00:00

So many young men will say they want an attractive woman but complain when she has high standards.

Play the game or get left behind, really simple. It's why I love capitalism, I don't want everybody to be equal and get the same shit. If someone's willing to put more time and work into things they absolutely deserve more than others.

zastale · 2023-01-23T08:03:42+00:00

Imagine dating her after having seen this video.

It’s actually cringe to see podcast hosts feature adult actors/performers.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-01-23T10:09:08+00:00

This is probably the most common bad faith argument I see here:

"I want to say X is true, even though I have no evidence for it and it sounds kinda nutty. So, I'll arbitrarily say Y is causally linked to X, again without any evidence but instead with """"logic and reason""". Then to prove X, all I have to do is prove Y"

UneastAji · 2023-01-23T12:45:42+00:00

Women's sport leagues are a privilege and a sexist aberration.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-23T13:31:53+00:00

Current life circumstances make it almost impossible for me to regularly go out to meet women irl. Do you think it'd be worth it to just try OLD to you know just forget about my bad experience with my coworker?

I'm 6'1, above average in looks (i get complimented very regularly), and i have a decent job even tho it could be better i guess.

I won't put much stock into the OLD thing but apart from Tinder, which i last used 3 months ago for 1,5 months and deleted for different reasons even tho i got a decent amount of matches (i deleted it with about 30 matches( i unmatched a bunch as well) and averaged 4-5 per week even tho most were just meh), i have never tried any others.

In my country we got Bumble, Hinge(which is pretty new here), Lovoo (Basically an Tinder/OkCupid thing), OkCupid, Badoo and some others

I guess trying them out can't hurt if i don't have any expectations

huhwhatokok · 2023-01-23T14:46:10+00:00

Apparently there’s a viral Tik tok of a female streamer complaining about this guy glancing at her while she lifts weights at the gym. Some guy made a response video explaining it away but even if he was glancing at her ass who cares? We’re going to police looking? He wasn’t staring for long periods of time he was just getting glances. Ima glance at some ass too at the gym.

Peacesquad · 2023-01-23T15:43:24+00:00

What’s the haps purple people

Peacesquad · 2023-01-23T15:43:44+00:00

What’s your T count?🤔

huhwhatokok · 2023-01-23T15:55:16+00:00

Talking about the OLD gender ratio, when they say it’s 70/30 split or something similar, are they saying current active users, or accounts made? The former doesn’t surprise me, because women would be able to make an account, line up some dates, find a guy for a FWB/relationship and get off all within a week. Meanwhile, an average/below average guy will keep his profile active for extended periods since he doesn’t get many if any matches, let alone dates, in a short period of time. Top tier guys will also be on the app for an extended period of time because they will entertain fwbs with average women while looking for a Stacy.

eye_fuck · 2023-01-23T16:05:27+00:00

q4m

do you have female friends?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-01-23T16:11:37+00:00

I was always fascinated by the parents who drop everything to move to Hollywood when their kids tell them

“Mommy I wanna be a star”

scwizard · 2023-01-23T16:27:58+00:00

My boss just told me he's waiting for an employee to come back from maternity leave before exiting her.

How does the law work? Obviously you can't fire someone right before maternity leave or during maternity leave but apparently right after is fine?

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-23T17:31:41+00:00

Thoughts?

Feminism killed marriage, the family unit. The concept of love and the likeablility of women in general

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-23T17:26:57+00:00

When she's asexual 🥵

chancetolive · 2023-01-23T17:11:18+00:00

difference between healthy narcissism, traits and NPD

chancetolive · 2023-01-23T17:02:11+00:00

always remember, you can never trust her lads

zastale · 2023-01-23T16:47:50+00:00

I know there aren’t many here of my age (22), but am I off base with this comment?

“I literally am not. I’m assuming you’re not in your early 20s on Instagram, because most of these girls post absolutely nothing of substance. Their pictures aren’t sexual in the slightest. The plain Jane in high school that isn’t fat is easily surpassing 1K+ followers by the time she graduates; her pictures consist of graduation, coffee runs, photo dumps of holiday pictures and special events (prom, homecoming, winter ball, football games, etc.).”

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-23T16:40:44+00:00

The fact that "inclusiveness" mean adding a bunch of fat women to things is really an indictment on women

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-22T21:22:05+00:00

ppd men that are virgin hunting

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/10idffv/my_32_m_wife_28f_wants_a_divorce_after_6_months/

You goin' give her the ick lmao I'm like lmao

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-01-22T21:53:39+00:00

What the hell is hypergamy???

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-23T14:15:06+00:00

QF people who think women * only * like masculine men:

How do you explain the popularity of kpop idols?

Have you seen BTS guys? They are short, skinny, wear make up and are very giggly. They are delicate and are hugging each other constantly. Sure, there's the Wonho or Jackson wang who look more masculine but for each Jackson wang there's 8484248 skinny delicate guy.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-23T15:44:16+00:00

Going to therapy is a red flag.

nothatyoucare · 2023-01-23T16:36:55+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/comments/10jdaxm/lessons_come_in_all_forms/

The entitlement of women on full display. Looking down on a man for taking you on a trip when we all know damn well you haven't done the same. Why wouldn't your daughter be impressed if someone took her to Miami? If a woman or one of my friends took me to Miami I would be losing my shit.

Edit:

but the idea that a trip shouldn't be a deciding point is the right one imv.

it should absolutely not be the sole deciding factor in getting into a relationship with a man.

Why must ppd women resort to straw~~men~~women so often. No where did the person argue that should be the "only deciding factor" nor can you infer that from the information given. What was argued was a trip to Miami shouldn't be considered that impressive, full stop.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-01-23T12:23:43+00:00

What males I personally know go through:

A teen boy I know would revert back to being mentally an infant as a response to dealing with stress and this started from a traumatic experience he had as a 4 year old.

Another teen boy I know has undiagnosed mental health problems, which he senses, his family refuses to get him a proper evaluation from therapists. Paternal family is basically a nuthouse filled with undiagnosed mental illnesses too. His father would do crazy shit to him as a child: he would force the boy to eat seafood to make him stronger, then threaten to beat him over the tiniest little inconveniences, and would constantly remind the boy that his father never really wanted him and that he’s only in the family’s life due to obligations.

My uncle sometimes doesn't properly medicate his bipolar disorder. This has cost him two marriages, getting banned from family reunions, restraining orders, and being arrested for assault repeatedly. Luckily his 2nd ex-wife has problems (to a lesser degree) and needs his money or else he wouldn't have rights to his son either.

Do men of PPD think not getting laid is at that same levels of those examples? Being sad that you don’t get what you want is human nature. If that’s a mental health crisis, then every spoiled child needs to be in an insane asylum after an adult tells them “You can't get that candy/toy”.

There’s adult virgins that are fine that they haven’t had sex yet (including MEN) and they laugh at incels’ sex obsession. There’s a single mom I know that hasn't had sex for 2 years after breaking up with her baby daddy and she laughs at incels. I have an aunt who also last at the sex obsession stuff and she’s been only been using a vibrator for a decade.

So with all this information in mind, why exactly should I think someone not getting laid is a big deal?

eye_fuck · 2023-01-23T14:00:07+00:00

q4a

do you think people generally more happy when they're young (relatively healthy, only start facing struggles of life) or when they're old (30-35+, relatively weaker and less beautiful, experienced, gone through a number of struggles)?

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