Daily Community Chat Megathread

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-04-03T13:45:43+00:00

Happy Monday all! I have a licensing exam coming up in the next month. My work is letting me have the next couple of weeks to study full-time because I can’t do much without getting this next certification. I’m so nervous. Wish me luck!

I feel bad because I’ve been a little preoccupied! My bfs bday is coming up and I want to get him something nice because he’s been really supportive these last few weeks. I think I set the bar kinda high with his vday gift. Hes so hard to shop for since he can get whatever he wants himself.

potoricco · 2023-04-03T13:44:52+00:00

Why are people mad about this whole Caitlin Clark situation????????

CliffPR · 2023-04-03T13:43:28+00:00

I want to find one of the coins people around here use when they need to explain why a man's preference makes him a bad person. You know the ones: about the size of a silver dollar, gold plated, stamped with "ENTITLED" on one face and "INSECURE" on the other.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-03T13:42:37+00:00

Small dick or loose vagina?

To be fair if it’s his general experience, it really can be his dick.

scwizard · 2023-04-03T13:14:36+00:00

Apparently Saudi Arabia has some guilded cages built for American women.

Turned out there was no fulfilling job for Western women. She stayed in the compound all days. Yes, he made enough money for both of them now but she became a prisoner in her own home. She couldn't even leave the compound without permission.

Compound, prison by another name, shopping, endless days sunbathing, books, movies

I lived in the compounds and like, they weren't bad. Everyone had a nice house, you could hire cleaners, there were gyms, an epic pool, etc. It was like a very small town. But when you left the compound it was like leaving Elysium only there was no cool sci Fi backdrop.

Compounds have everything, some have more, some have less. There are shops, restaurants, recreation centres (some have bowling alleys, movie theatre, petting zoos), a private beach, gym, international schools, “churches”, beach club restaurants, basketball courts, baseball fields, football (soccer) fields, and tons of playgrounds. Most expats, westerners or any other non-Islam household will have alcohol and pork in their households. They celebrate Christmas and Easter together as big expat families.

In regards to OP’s friend needing “permission” to go out, I find that hard to believe as most compounds (at least back when women weren’t allowed to drive), had free bus shuttles for women and children to go wherever they pleased.

My dad got a job offer there. TONS of money. But I, 14F at the time, would not have been allowed to live in that country. Foreign girls over a certain age (14?) were banned. My parents asked if I wanted to go to boarding school in Europe. I was sort of okay with that. Ultimately he passed on the job in favor of keeping the family together. I’m really glad he did.

scwizard · 2023-04-03T12:57:35+00:00

Three people were arrested in Oklahoma City and charged with human trafficking and other offenses. Their cases are pending.

The girl told her mother a couple of days after she was found that she had met "so many other girls" in Oklahoma.

"And she said, 'I wonder how long they have been in this life, but no one looked for them,'"

That's really sad. I hope everyone has someone in their life who would look for them.

beam_throne · 2023-04-03T12:49:42+00:00

I decided to stop trying dating apps. They have never worked for me, my match rate is below every standard and I feel like I'm just wasting my time with false hope.

Here is my Tinder insights

It's so embarrassing too since I'm in my 20s and I live in a university town but it's hard getting matches, let alone dates.

I've went the abstinence way to focus on the other important things in my life. Screw dating man.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-03T12:39:33+00:00

it's interesting that legally women can't rape

edgyny · 2023-04-03T12:33:17+00:00

That dude who is likely to be banned by admin for stating a well known ablist fact about school shooters might be interested to know that neurosurgeons are similarly censored about their observations of links to ~~Ritalin~~SSRIs on the same topic. They can't publish or formally research it^* so they just confer and discuss it over dinner at conferences.

^{*NRA-backed legislation prevents biomedical research into gun violence at any institution that accepts federal funds i.e. medicare payments}

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-03T12:24:54+00:00

Guy: I have proof that women love slut shaming other women!

Gives a list of barely viewed videos from 2010 of teen girls all with the title “I Hate Sluts”

Me:………….Why are you obsessing over what minors are doing?

THHBHStT · 2023-04-03T11:54:54+00:00

Yo before you make a post try and understand nobody is going to read your damn essay lmao

Got dudes writing dissertations on dating wonder why don’t pull at all

THHBHStT · 2023-04-03T11:10:42+00:00

Had sex then immediately checked PPD

I’ve got to get out of here fuck!

dbz__f · 2023-04-03T10:33:56+00:00

Trumpo’s best legal defence is if someone of his wealth was gonna sleep with a pornstar, he could have gone for a better looking one

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-04-03T09:37:15+00:00

Had an incel slip into my DMs threatening to attack me with acid...it appears I've rustled some Jimmies 😘

helpless_rocks · 2023-04-03T09:33:21+00:00

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Tramelo · 2023-04-03T09:16:34+00:00

A friend of mine left the gym because he was accused of harassing a particular girl (this girl felt unsafe and talked to the gym instructor). He told me, and he seemed very genuine, that he just wanted to socialize and was just being friendly.

Then one saturday night we met that girl with a friend of hers, he approached her and spent one hour saying that he was sorry, that he is very extroverted and was just trying to be friendly, that he did not expect her to react like that, that he thought they could be friends because they both are into art and things like that. He is 34 and she is not even 18.

Then he also started venting to these girls about how he hasn't been able to get a job with his art degree, that employers reject him and people in general think he's a creep.

I thought the whole thing was kind of cringy and that he lacks social skills.

However, surfing on the internet, it does seem to be a thing that women in the gym will accuse of harassment any man who gives her even a tiny bit of attention.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-03T08:45:18+00:00

Q4A: How does one objectively rate themselves?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-03T08:44:06+00:00

Personally believe there are quite a bit of people here who are a man posting as a woman...but i can't prove it. Just instinct.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-03T08:42:34+00:00

"Why do men hate open relationships"

Because we just do, nothing to explain honestly

Khanluka · 2023-04-03T07:34:24+00:00

A while back i started speed dating. And with a few woman i talk about what i wanted in the future. And i said 3/4 thing that be happy with if those where my future. But that the last one is unrealstic. And each one of them started agrue with me about that. Anyone know what that was?

chancetolive · 2023-04-03T07:33:46+00:00

Top 5 regrets of the Dying 1) I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. 2) I wish I hadn't worked so hard. 3) I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings. 4) I wish I had stayed in touch with my firends. 5) I wish that I had let myself be happier.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-03T05:56:08+00:00

Older men are something else.

I was celebrating my upcoming birthday this weekend with my family and one of the things we did was go to a casino as I had never been due to my age. For perspective, I looked like a 9.5 or 10 last night and the dress I was wearing was very hard to miss and a tad sexy (thanks PPD for helping me pick it), so I definitely was a head turner. All the men were staring and a lot of women told me I looked beautiful. I’m walking with my mom and this old guy came up to me out of nowhere. No dad bod surprisingly but his hair was thinning and I saw a couple grays. Definitely in his 40s, older than my mom. And he looked below average in income but probably lived comfortably for his standards. He goes, “ I saw you back there and I just had to come up to you and tell you how stunning you are. You are absolutely beautiful.” My mom sees I’m kind of put off so she explains that I just turned 21 and that I’m her daughter. He goes, “Nice. Well I have to ask, are you single? I would love to take you out some time”. I explain that I’m not single but I appreciate the offer and he compliments me again then walks away. Not a bad interaction at all but he was definitely shooting way out of his league. It’s also funny how all the older men who have approached me knew my age beforehand and continued to ask me out after. Seems like I attract older men who lack social cues and awareness because you have to be a little off to continue to ask me out, especially when I have my mom next to me…

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-03T04:47:29+00:00

If you’re interested in getting baked goods, pizza or some other food half the price and you’d like to be environmentally-friendly, check out apps for that. Too good to go, Olio, Karma etc.

Today we got a bunch of baked goods 3 times cheaper the price and I’m really happy about it.

THHBHStT · 2023-04-03T04:35:44+00:00

“Would you chose this or that”

“Neither !”

Why would you even comment. You add nothing to the discussion by saying this except for taking up space with your words

If you wouldn’t choose either option then just don’t answer the question and ignore it

DetectiveNo7095 · 2023-04-03T04:33:01+00:00

I just stumbled into this sub, but after reading shortly I’ve got to say this…. Fellas the way you truly feel about women will pervade every aspect of your interaction with them. THEY WILL PICK UP ON THIS.

If this is a place to congregate among friends and blow of steam great!! but some of the narratives are kind of alarming.

Unless you’re using the knowledge you’ve gained about women’s nature to create a more stable union, or frequent casual relations with people you can kick it with or talk to… you’re gonna be stuck in this power struggle. Don’t know about y’all but I don’t like to work that hard. Feel me? lol

potoricco · 2023-04-03T04:26:38+00:00

It’s kind of funny how traditional people always dunk on feminists for being man haters but traditional women are some of the biggest man haters out there, the only difference is that they believe women should put up with it. Like they will casually just repeat misandrist talking points but then add “here’s how you can vet for the right man”… “you can attract HVM by being submissive”… etc etc other bullshit like that

I think I spend too much time on Twitter

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-03T04:23:53+00:00

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janedoebreakin · 2023-04-03T04:09:06+00:00

Visiting my brother at his college makes me grateful guys my age don’t like me.

raj_0720 · 2023-04-03T03:23:59+00:00

A NOTE ON COLD APPROACHING

I think a lot of the issues in this sub stem from inexperienced men taking themselves and women too seriously lol.

Stop listening to what women say they want. Just approach. If you get rejected so what? I’ve only ever had 2 bad incidents which involved a security guard telling me to leave a woman alone and another woman blowing up in anger at me in the middle of a crowded mall. I’m still alive today and it hasn’t stopped me from continuing to approach and get laid.

Even my friends have told me stories of how they approached and the woman’s giant 6’4+ boyfriend showed up and wanted to fight them for saying “hi”. Another friend of mine is a buff 265 pound+ linebacker and had a skinny, short guy pull a gun on him for approaching a woman at a bar (probably his gf).

They still survived and lived to fight another day and guess what? They’re still approaching and getting laid up until today. These incidents although scary at the time made for great stories later on.

Stop being such a pussy. In fact you can even avoid most of the situations (if not 90%+) I mentioned by quickly reading the room and leaving when you can see things aren’t in your favour.

These are worst case scenarios and rarely happen. Stop being scared. Who cares if you inconvenience some women? Fuck them. Put yourself first and be selfish af. I want to get laid and your body looks like a prime candidate. Go after what you want!

autisticgoober · 2023-04-03T03:14:26+00:00

Just found out nick cages newest wife is 30 years his junior. His dick must be diamonds going into that sweet young pussy

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-03T02:37:40+00:00

Why are men salty that women get nervous being yelled at in parking lots from 30 feet away?

houstongradengineer · 2023-04-03T02:32:45+00:00

I don't feel safe and secure. I'm really happy that I've started making progress in a lot of ways lately, but I'm not sure I'm safe and secure enough to continue fighting for progress with my husband. I'm terrified to want to please him. I'm terrified that I'll fail, or fail again, or something. But I guess I have too much going on and too much commitment to just quit right here right now...

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-04-03T01:50:24+00:00

Trying to "self improve" to get women is kinda dumb and autistic. Real chads were moulded through their lifestyle and having a hunger for life. Going to one house party will improve your personality more than watching 100 stupid youtube videos ever will.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-03T01:40:04+00:00

Reddit is just a cesspool of leftist circlejerking. lol

HazyMemory7 · 2023-04-03T01:29:22+00:00

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autisticgoober · 2023-04-03T01:18:15+00:00

Alexander the Great conquered much of the ‘known world’ by the age of 25

2pac was a multi platinum artist by his death at 25

Steve Jobs started Apple at 21

…but brains don’t develop until 25 therefore it’s pedophilia and a power imbalance if an older guy dates a woman in her early 20s

Throwaway4CMVtho · 2023-04-03T01:00:57+00:00

The myth of the "toxic male partner who hides all his red flags until later" is one that gets repeated often here. The problem is that I don't think these guys are that good at hiding. Sure, someone could completely misrepresent who they are to the point that you are completely surprised at when they switch for the worst. But how many of these kind of men account for toxic relationships? It seems just as likely, if not more likely, the man shows who he truly is in the beginning. Like if you know if he's been to jail or is a drug dealer up front, then he's not hiding anything from you at all.

Edit: I forgot to include the point relevant to PPD.

This means there is some measure of duty on the woman in this scenario. I get not blaming victims, etc. but we can still at least discuss what can women do to choose better partners.

RegTextoffender · 2023-04-03T00:50:52+00:00

I'm crushing your head!

48 to 55 year olds will understand.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-04-03T00:43:15+00:00

I think a self improvement thread would be a solid addition here. Like a “Self improvement Saturday” where people can submit their details and what they’d like help with. Then people can give actionable insights to improve.

gymbronyc718 · 2023-04-03T00:05:08+00:00

Infinitely more men suffer from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-04-02T23:54:46+00:00

It’s interesting how some women age horribly compared to others. I know lifestyle factors like too much sun exposure, alcohol, drugs, lack of sleep, stress, etc can accelerate aging.

But damn. I’ll run into a profile on the apps where the woman looks like someone in her mid 30s and she’s actually 27.

I remember many years ago I was at a bar and the bartender asked me how old I thought she was. Truthfully said I thought she was in her early 30s. She was actually 26. She legit got super upset at me and said I should leave because she thought I was intentionally dissing her. Lmao.

Nothing triggers a woman faster than calling her old. Especially the pretty ones who are in denial that their looks are fleeting.

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-04-02T23:43:20+00:00

I find it amusing how some people claim to have "given up" on dating. It is like they are trying to play a Uno Reverse Card.

I gave up on dating at age XY because men are crap.
I gave up on dating at age XY because women are crap.

I am not gonna lie though, for a while I used to play the same Uno Reverse Card as a revenge on women and as a way to deal with my loneliness. I'll let you know I am still a virgin at 29M and finally at peace.

Let me tell you something:

You cannot just "give up" on the other gender. It is literally impossible. The reason for that is because what if the very right person suddenly appears? Literally meeting your soulmate. I am pretty sure everyone will drop their "I give up" philosophy in the blink of an eye once they meet their soulmate.

With this in mind the Uno Reverse Card of "I give up" doesn't work anymore. It is literally not in your control. Say it as much as you want, once your soulmate shows up, the offer will be irresistable. She will be irresistable. He will be iresistable.

As for me, I didn't give up. Like I said, I cannot even give up. It is techinically impossible. Thus I chose to actively pray for what I actually want instead of futilely surpressing my wants and needs and further spiralling into a black hole of frustration. I began to actively pray for a righteous, attractive, good, healthy and loving wife and that I will be a righteous, attractive, good, healthy and loving husband for her.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-04-02T23:31:55+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/129pqmu/a_user_sent_me_a_harassing_message_calling_me_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Irony of this is that I was told to join the rest of the men that commited you know what on that very sub, and the old ass hag got away with like a 3 day ban

Social media admins have always allowed women to cicumvent ToS as long as its directed towards men. This is why most of the are we dating the same guy groups are still up.

Edit: and right on a cue a woman reports this for "promoting hate" lol

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-02T23:26:31+00:00

There used to be a clothing store of babies and toddlers and it got replaced with an animal doctors office. It's too fitting

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-02T14:03:42+00:00

The manosphere: Men don't want to he around sluts who’ll fuck anything, especially losers! Have some self-respect. No wonder why you’re a single mom LEECHING OFF OF US!

Women being picky about who they date and fuck.

The manosphere: OMG! Men don't want picky prude bitches! AND YOURE LETTING YOUR EGGS WASTE AWAY by trying to be an ‘independent woman’.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-02T15:36:24+00:00

“It’s obviously better to capitalize on [good looks and youth] and land a better man, no?”

Im still waiting for someone to explain how good looks magically means getting ‘better men’. First of all, this is implying ‘better men’ are shallow. Why would I want a shallow guy and consider him ‘better’?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-02T21:09:26+00:00

Responding to PPD dudes passionately defending their opinions on N-count while sitting in an airport still surrounded by young men and women waiting for their flights out for spring break really shows the kinda contrast between what’s happening in real life vs the “experts” on PPD.

houstongradengineer · 2023-04-02T14:48:22+00:00

Ya know what?

Daily fucking reminder.

Men who have sexual activity with people they barely know and and without some significant and organic bond/communication are not "just having fun." They're easy, they're slutting it up, the sex is probably bad, and they'd usually rather be critical of women who are doing it because of misogyny.

There. I said it.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-02T15:12:36+00:00

The manosphere’s mindset seems rather simple: Its men angry that the hoes they adore cant be good little housewives.

And it’s obvious they love sluts because those are the only women they bother being around. What are the main traits of women these find valuable? Woman being super attractive and hypersexual.

What upsets manosphere guys is that the women they truly want have the worst dating prospects, so its making them bitter and angry.

I think deep down, they’re ashamed of themselves. All this talk about cucks, simps, and betas, but chasing a girl just because she’s pretty and loves fucking is really sad.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-02T13:48:59+00:00

I realize the “No Eggs” meme is just a bunch of guys who don't understand female fertility.

News flash! Women don't hit menopause at 30.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-02T16:06:56+00:00

"Have sex with me or I'll cut my dick off"

Tbh I think I could watch someone cutting their dick off in the given scenario. It's still his choice and not my responsibility in the slightest. I'd worry more that he'd want to cut me though.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-04-02T18:45:15+00:00

Leonardo DiCaprio is kinda like that boss that pays you minimum wage if he could go lower he would.

dbz__f · 2023-04-02T21:59:00+00:00

I love and miss my girlfriend.

That is all.

Have a nice day.

potoricco · 2023-04-02T22:37:35+00:00

I sometimes dislike or feel bad for slutty women unless they are lesbian, not even from a misogynist standpoint but just. Why. Would you do that to yourself. Lay down with dogs and wake up with fleas

scwizard · 2023-04-02T22:40:37+00:00

Was chatting with my pastor's wife about marriage.

She was saying that in her view marriage is about no longer living for yourself anymore. Sorta mirroring Christianity of course.

And we sorta discussed how if someone is only interested in marriage for themselves, then firstly marriage isn't gonna sound very interesting and secondly even if they do it's not gonna be a healthy marriage because they're gonna be thinking about what they can take rather than what they can give.

Seems common sense that marriage isn't about two narcissists hoping that by cohabitating they'll improve each other's lives. But twas pretty interesting to hear a view so contrary to "what do you bring to the table" style thinking.

lulll · 2023-04-02T23:14:00+00:00

all women should speak english with a french accent

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-02T23:05:02+00:00

Went to a trampoline park for my nephew's birthday today; and the massive SMV gaps between the older men and women is atrocious. First of all, I'm a tall dude and like NONE of the dads were under 6'. Meanwhile, these moms are like 35-40 BMI and saggy skin. They're barely 40 years old too. Shit's rough out here for married dads.

Never get married fellers.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-02T16:02:49+00:00

Manosphere junk doesn't help kids with special needs. That's how some of the users here sound though and that puts things into perspective.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-04-02T16:35:05+00:00

Unless you are extremely ugly, threatening looking, or the wrong race and approaching someone racist I would say 99% of people are gonna be polite. Real life isn't Disney Channel you aren't necessarily gonna be publically humiliated with the cops called on you becsuse you got rejected. Relax.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-02T17:23:01+00:00

So are most of the men here "beta fish" and they just don't know it?

I've yet to see a "Chad" posting in here. A bunch of Chad chasers and Chad envy.

I'm still not sure what a high algebraic man actually is. So I could be missing it.

Using the stats everyone here loves, it stands to assume that most males in this sub or will be "beta".

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-02T19:02:57+00:00

I don't understand the refusal to wait to have sex.

If the goal is a long-term relationship, why is waiting to get physical (physical) an issue?

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-04-02T23:04:43+00:00

More people should read the declassified CIA files for couping the democratically elected president Mohammed Mossadegh. You will quickly realize how the same strategy has been used to coup the Ukrainian government a couple times.

2023-04-02T13:48:51+00:00

passport bros are getting in trouble in Brazil , Columbia etc

Use your fucking head. The one TikTok you saw of a man doing dumb shit is not representative of everyone. Stg people use the dumbest logic when it comes to talking about sex

GridReXX · 2023-04-02T14:23:06+00:00

I watched this video, and immediately thought her primary sadness seems to be same as male incels’.

She’s getting sympathy from other women for these reasons:

she led with being sympathetic and not hateful against more desirable women or people who aren’t desiring to love her
she didn’t lead with entitlement or I should have or I deserve
wanting a hug 🫂 feels less invasive to others than wanting to penetrate them so people aren’t immediately “ewww how dare you” by the presumption
she’s sad 😞 not 🤬 which is more endearing of sympathy from others, particularly women

Unfortunately, I’m still left with there’s nothing I can do for you. I can’t force anyone to want to be your friend or partner or to love you or hug you. But I do feel bad for you.

Same advice I would offer to a man in her situation: become likeable to friends and desirable to those you desire.

It is the only answer, if you don’t want to pay for services.

I saw a TikTok from her two years ago and it was about her feeling lonely during the pandemic because she realized that all of the friends she thought she had weren’t really friends. Just “acquaintances.” She wasn’t invited to any of their tight circle “pandemic bubbles.” I was sad for her, but that video did make me think she may be ASD in some way? Or not good at reading the room. She doesn’t seem to bond or make deep friendships easily? This seems to have obvious strong overlaps with her ability to connect with people romantically too?

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-02T15:53:24+00:00

What is it with men being like “doesn’t matter had sex”?

Example:

I found a lady who I find unattractive and I promised her that if she has enough sex with me I will consider her for a relationship (but I was lying) and I pretended she was someone else the entire time we banged. Now she’s pregnant and I am ghosting her. It doesn’t matter because I got laid!!!

UneastAji · 2023-04-02T20:22:22+00:00

I keep seeing feminist propaganda on tiktok about how male pill is still not commercialized because men can't deal with the side effects women were going through. But last time I checked, the side effects were stronger than women's pill.

Similarly they also claim that vasectory is perfectly reversible, despite it isn't in majority of the cases.

Maffioze · 2023-04-02T22:28:29+00:00

I find it odd how people assume that the perspectives of someone who is neurodivergent is less "right" or less valuable than the perspective of those who are neurotypical.

Imo the world doesn't work like that. What neurotypical people call common sense is often just as inaccurate/dumb or subjective. The only difference is that most people think in the same way as them which is why they are less "punished" for being stupid in a neurotypical way because in society its the rule of the majority.

Neurodivergents and neurotypicals can learn from eachother.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-04-02T13:24:01+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if the previous generations were as sexually conservative as we try to make them out to be. I was reading this book about an attorney named Clarence Darrow. The author describes him as living in a time of “free love.” Basically, even 100 years ago, people loved getting freaky. I don’t know if has ever changed and I increasingly suspect we look as past doom colored glasses to make our current times feel more important.

ivyleaguehoodrat · 2023-04-02T13:46:09+00:00

alpha males 😂

12throw1234away34 · 2023-04-02T15:12:10+00:00

Why is Parmesan cheese so good?

I also just realized that I’ve never seen a sandwich that uses Parmesan cheese. It’s always American, Swiss, cheddar, provolone, Monterey Jack, pepper jack, or sometimes mozzarella. I wonder why.

I don’t think even Italian sandwiches ever use Parmesan cheese. Is it a price issue bc it’s expensive?

HazyMemory7 · 2023-04-02T15:29:14+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Diabla/comments/129l97e/i_cant_get_them_to_spend_buy_me_things/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Diabla woman finding out shes really not as attractive as she thinks

"I'm in my late 30s"..the tour's been over for a while girl. No dude with big $$$ is spending it on a woman in her late 30s. The men suggest low investment dates for a reason

12throw1234away34 · 2023-04-02T16:52:46+00:00

“Manifest it gurl!”

woahisme111 · 2023-04-02T17:40:37+00:00

This is basically a red pill subreddit.

Tramelo · 2023-04-02T18:18:23+00:00

I feel that becoming a fighter was the only real dream I have ever had. Then it kind of faded. In the end I became a piano teacher.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-02T19:38:24+00:00

If you had two bad bitches who fuck you and cook for you and also follow your authority

You would not tolerate any BS from any women

Well that's how some women feel, if they out here getting invites by celebrities why on earth would they tolerate any nonsense from any average guy

Seriously, 19,20,21,22 year olds out here getting hit on by major celebrities. So why would they get with guys their age who the majority are either average or below

Am just saying

UneastAji · 2023-04-02T19:56:29+00:00

So, let's keep talking of "aDdIcTiOnS". We know women here want to push around that all men are easily porn, anime and video game addicts.

I found women's equivalents to be addictions to social media, pets, and "travel".

I can easily see how social media and pets stimulate women and represent outlets for things they can't have easily.

But travel I'm not too sure, see, I first thought that by indicating that they like to travel, women were simply indicating that they like very expensive and prolonged dates with their bfs. But women often do travel with their friends and pay their own travels... So what does the idea of adventure and change stimulates in women? Is it that for a short amount of time they get to experience the lifestyle of a high status person and they want to emulate that as much as possible?

Because we know that women generally do not like to experience actual adventure, but rather want to experience luxury in different setups.

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-04-02T22:55:19+00:00

America has too many parking spots. Conservative estimates put there being 2 1/2 parking spots for every registered vehicle.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IgA4FJWIjI8

https://archive.is/1282k

dishonouronmycow · 2023-04-02T22:57:05+00:00

Tim is a sexy name and I’m not afraid to say it.

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PeopleAreLegitDemons · 2023-04-02T13:18:02+00:00

the way people talk on Reddit is basically a good example of how neutered and afraid men are of expressing their true feelings and opinions, it's like every comment is carefully curated with cute punctuation to come off as harmless to women as possible. just lookin at the posts on reddit makes me really think that 99% of the dudes here and IRL must live in total fear of losing what little shot they got of getting a woman

LaloTwins · 2023-04-02T13:22:45+00:00

Gotta knock her up before you commit so you know y’all can make babies first 😎

thetruthishere_ · 2023-04-02T13:49:21+00:00

Recent poll on Twitter asking men about knowing a women was an escort and would you date them. So far 46.7% are fine with it.

The poll is still going.

helpless_rocks · 2023-04-02T13:50:02+00:00

Serious question: do adults even fall in love? Like, romatically? Or is this strictly a child/teenager thing?

12throw1234away34 · 2023-04-02T14:22:57+00:00

Weirdest date ever. Was our third and I could tell she had a lot on her mind. We talked through her job stressors, friendship stressors, and life stressors in general. Just not a very fun set of topics.

By the end of the night I told her candidly and kindly that I wasn’t sure if she was in the right headspace to be dating rn because of everything on her plate. She started crying a little bit.

I consoled her and we ended back at my place and hooked up. She spent the night. Also found out she had an IUD by the second round, so we went at it raw again and this morning. I can tell she’s catching feelings. Gotta say, been two years or so since an ex who had an IUD. Nothing compares to finishing inside.

All in all, a very weird situation. I probably shouldn’t have slept with her.

Tramelo · 2023-04-02T14:59:07+00:00

How common is it for a woman to be attracted to a man and not send him signals?

RP-MJ · 2023-04-02T15:01:32+00:00

Location Game is important

If you approach a woman in the street or public, you'll have a high chance of being rejected

However

If you invite her to your party/event then you'll have a high chance of fucking her

So keep that in mind

lulll · 2023-04-02T15:24:00+00:00

this is the best headline i have ever read

social_mule · 2023-04-02T15:25:25+00:00

Can we remove the phrase "yeah, no" from our collective vernacular? What is someone supposed to think if they ask a yes or no question and the first two words out of the answerer's mouth are yeah and no?

And while I'm here this is my second plea in a week for folks to please learn the singular and plural uses for woman/women? Woman = 1, Women = more than 1. Same for man/men.

Thank you in advance for your cooperation.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-02T15:29:19+00:00

Guys before you go out and meet women, important you do this

Apply cologne AND fragrance

Have 2 condoms with you

Have some money

Supply of gum

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-04-02T16:46:25+00:00

I have had to end my classical Sunday Warrior Training because I hit my pinky finger to dumbell and it hurt 😢

yeDolfSecondComing · 2023-04-02T17:13:33+00:00

trannies vs detransitoned people

2023-04-02T17:23:32+00:00

‘Furious George’ is a pretty weird name for an indica

12throw1234away34 · 2023-04-02T17:25:16+00:00

Succession is the best show on tv rn.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-02T17:33:08+00:00

I wonder if there's a correlation between fictional youth media consumption and bluepilled beliefs. Fictional youth media often contains themes along the lines of "have some faith in people" which is basically BP in a nutshell. We consume media as a form of wish-fulfillment without the incurred risks of being the people depicted in the shows.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-02T18:00:18+00:00

Sex is simultaneously worthless and sacred. Women don't want to be judge for getting turned out but expecting sex is taboo for some reason

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-02T18:08:39+00:00

Q4A - Your partner reveals something which is a dealbreaker for you, but is a shitty reason to leave them.

Like, he is a bisexual, she slept with France, mommy/daddy issues, erectile dysfunction, weird fetish, mental illness, liking Nickelback, lockjaw...

Do you leave them right there and then, revealing what an asshole you are?

Or you play it cool, wait some time, then leave them for some made up reason?

Peacesquad · 2023-04-02T18:20:11+00:00

Q4A: which makes more sense and is more sustainable: “happy wife happy life” or “happy king, happy kingdom”?

Peacesquad · 2023-04-02T18:20:23+00:00

Also can we please talk about ____ count?

RP-MJ · 2023-04-02T18:48:09+00:00

At the theme park with my friends and saw this absolute 9 Tits,ass,gorgeous face

Bruh l keep telling myself now if l had money l would've taken her out and rented us a hotel to hookup later

Like real shit if l didn't spend all my money on food, would've been a night for me

Mark_Freed · 2023-04-02T19:42:18+00:00

Incels often picture themselves as an antithesis to feminism. But in fact, I think they are themselves victims of their own feminist thinking. Feminism taught women that they should be allowed to do the same things men do. They were to be allowed to work like men, to enjoy casual sex like men and so on. Conversely, young men have got the impression that they should be able to do what women do. If women can have sex just through smiling in a bar, they expect it too. When women never offer themselves to them the way they offer themselves to women, they feel discriminated against.

https://woodfromeden.substack.com/p/becky-is-depressed

Play_Muted · 2023-04-02T20:46:19+00:00

what the fuck, this is fraud, this needs to be illegal

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-02T20:53:46+00:00

I have never seen a sexier man in my life.

Such confidence, much alpha

RP-MJ · 2023-04-02T21:04:17+00:00

If you talk to 15 women and only sleep with one

That is top tier since women will reject guys for any reason

RP-MJ · 2023-04-02T21:49:48+00:00

So should you approach in HS/college/uni

Yes since your both in the same ecosystem so it makes things easier

Just always come off respectful/kind because your reputation is on the line if you don't since girls talk

Also don't poop where you eat, if you know the girl from one of your subject classes then don't hit her up

Social circles was one of the most popular ways guys would hit on girls before dating apps

PBtoast707 · 2023-04-02T21:52:30+00:00

Why are 17-22 year old guys who play soccer the biggest shitheads imaginable? I’ve met most of my boyfriend’s college teammates and they’re such assholes.

Preme2 · 2023-04-02T22:18:32+00:00

Can they make the robot say: Ew Brad, get away

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-04-02T14:07:51+00:00

We’ve all seen the studies that show the high correlation between women’s rating of a man’s personality and women’s rating of a man’s looks (halo effect in essence).

Well the new ephemeral x-factor is “vibe.” PPD has a lot of internet sleuths, have anyone seen an investigation into what “vibes” are? Any reason to believe it’s not just “personality” repackaged, and therefore highly correlated to looks?

RP-MJ · 2023-04-02T16:03:39+00:00

I get this question a lot from average guys

How do l build my status ? simple

Social status

Does everyone in your social life know exactly who you are or what value you provide ?

If not then you need to focus on that, this will include talking to a lot of people in general

If you want to build global status like celebrities,athletes,influencers

Then you need to share your talent with the world but it's best to focus on your social status

Mark_Freed · 2023-04-02T17:32:47+00:00

Past me couldn't imagine changing in such drastic ways...

I thought.... Still think? Enabling people to orbit you is unethical.

But maybe I'm now doing it?

Hmm I think it's always good to be assertive about your boundaries and set the expectations clearly when it comes to other humans in your life.

potoricco · 2023-04-02T20:19:24+00:00

My brother is 13 and his voice is beginning to get deeper. It makes me sad to know that one day he will be a man. Should have been born a girl imo

RP-MJ · 2023-04-02T20:24:33+00:00

If she wants to split on the first date

Then she sees you as a friend

Cut her off immediately and move to the next woman

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-02T17:04:03+00:00

The fattening of women is a capitalistic ploy to make men work more and harder.

Women only date up in social class and income (unless you're a Chad). Before, you didn't have to have a high income and could still date down and get a decent thin woman because poor women weren't fat. You could be middle or lower class and be happy.

Nowadays, most poor women are disgusting fatties, so you need to date women who aren't poor to be able to date non-fatties. You need to be upper middle class at least to date a decent woman now. Now men can't be happy being middle or lower class anymore and need to hustle in the rat race to get a decent wife.

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