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Slipthe · 2023-04-19T04:07:59+00:00

Just saw a lady call fat people marginalized. And I thought "More like margarinized."

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-04-18T06:06:34+00:00

The paternity test cmv thread is just a circlejerk if anyone wants a handjob get in there

500mgofShower · 2023-04-18T07:08:02+00:00

If you’ve never gotten an indicator of interest does that me you should call it a game?

liefelijk · 2023-04-18T11:57:28+00:00

You guys know you can just order paternity tests online and send away for the results? No need to make anything mandatory, since you have a 6-month window after signing the birth certificate to challenge it.

Seems more logical to focus your efforts on expanding the 6-month window than mandating testing.

purplish_possum · 2023-04-18T12:36:56+00:00

Nothing proves paternity more than when, about 13 years after delivery, your baby moma calls screaming for you to "come get your son/daughter -- he/she is just like you".

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-04-18T16:40:51+00:00

The average American doesn't even have enough money to cover a $1000 emergency.

For people to think an average dude struggling to get laid (who's almost certainly on the early to mid 20s side of things) is resourceful enough to have enough money to pay for a plane ticket (not to mention additional transportation and lodging) to Vegas and afford a hooker at a $500/hour rate is absolutely laughable.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-18T17:36:02+00:00

Some women here get so emotional, that even stating common sense they'll disagree

The sky is blue

Women here: actually

CliffPR · 2023-04-18T12:53:57+00:00

How you can tell the D&D movie is fantasy:

Magic

Dragons

Undead Wizards

Monsters everywhere

Multiple women who have a thing for short men

Maffioze · 2023-04-18T15:07:20+00:00

Not gonna lie I find talking with Americans annoying sometimes. You guys have become so polarised that you immediately assume someone who says something that might be used for things you consider to be bad was actually meant that way. You can't have good conversations like this.

Meanwhile when I talk to Europeans here the conversation is so much easier.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-04-18T17:47:45+00:00

The redpillers grouse about paternity testing but not once do you hear them talk about maternity testing.

Curious.

500mgofShower · 2023-04-19T03:50:39+00:00

men have it better than women

When does PPD discuss women are the disposable gender? Has that ever been a topic of discussion?

2023-04-19T03:30:45+00:00

I feel very bad for those that come to this site for relationship advice. Entertainment purposes only.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-18T04:20:28+00:00

"Do you think in general having high social status allows men to get the highest quantity/quality woman"

Yes, anyone with social media knows musicians,athletes,celebrities are getting the hottest girls

Women love clout/attention

We all know people like Leonardo Dicaprio are out here having a harem of young women because of his status

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-04-18T04:28:28+00:00

The NBA is full of pussies. I don't even care who wins this match, but Sebonis is a great actor. There's no way a physically trained, playoff conditioned athlete would be subdued so hard from a guy having his foot on him briefly.

They just need to let the players play; it's the main reason the league is continuously losing viewership.

2023-04-18T04:30:21+00:00

Got some triggered ass DMs from concern troll for my harsh language about kids. Seethe harder they ruin more pussies and women than all the pump and dumps combined.

learn2earn89 · 2023-04-18T05:14:46+00:00

Would you say that if a woman is never approached it’s because she’s average or below average?

Amazing-Key-1575 · 2023-04-18T06:27:30+00:00

I think the majority of issues discussed here could be easily resolved if people let go of binary & divisive identity politics. Or something like… if you took red pill language and reframed it in feminist rhetoric there would be no way to argue against it or receive backlash in comment threads that always jump to attacks on the sexual desirability of the poster.

No one can deny your experience and no one can tell you what you feel or should feel. Instead of blanket statements like “all men/women are xyz,” one can say “as a human that is either a man or a woman I’ve noticed that when I date/try to date my preferred gender I have xyz experience.”

But then again redditors commenting on gender identity politics always find a way to turn it into a dysphoric battle royale so I could be wrong.

Seriously tho red pill should just stop saying they are RP and re-phrase everything so it starts with the words “As a feminist, biological male, with a masculine gender identity practicing heterosexuality with pronoun preference He/Him/They, I believe xyz” and see what happens.

dbz__f · 2023-04-18T07:50:35+00:00

Lent is over and I’m drinking and gambling again and it feels amazing and I don’t care what anyone thinks

b-b-but peepee poopoo you can’t do that I shat my pants waaaaahhh!!!!

Shut up I don’t care

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-18T11:53:03+00:00

If you disagree with paternity testing at birth, then you just don't like for men to have rights. Sorry to tell you, you're a misandrist.

bzl33 · 2023-04-18T12:32:37+00:00

q4m: anyone here style their hair? my hair gets unruly 2 weeks after I get a haircut and I'd rather not get a $60 haircut every month.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-04-18T12:42:34+00:00

I'll meet in the middle. No mandatory paternity tests but if the man finds out the kid isn't his and can prove it the woman's wages should be garnished for 18 years.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-18T12:50:24+00:00

One thing I always appreciated about my parents is they never forced their politics on me. There was never a “this is what we believe in this household” speech which I’ve heard many people got when they were kids. They never took me to political rallies/protests, they never put me in Tshirts that supported their causes, had me hold signs or use me as prop which I always thought was kinda gross.

Ainsleygz · 2023-04-18T13:08:36+00:00

You guys should watch Paternity Court. So entertaining!

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-04-18T14:21:24+00:00

The way women here talk, it sounds like they don't even like men

Peacesquad · 2023-04-18T14:35:14+00:00

Stop shaming women. They’re amazing. I love y’all!!♥️♥️🥰

jamal_dc · 2023-04-18T15:22:15+00:00

If only men dedicated as much effort, time, research and optimism to making money and improving their body as they do towards chasing women. Like you’re getting no matches and you’re STILL on dating apps? Use that energy to doing something worthwhile.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-18T16:56:00+00:00

I saw a girl with the coveted thin/tight body with big boobs, wearing a tight outfit showing it off. Every guy was staring and even a lot of girls too. She probably gets stared at everywhere she goes.

I don't know how she lives like that where everywhere she goes, she's being stared at by everyone and every man is a pervert to her.

Slipthe · 2023-04-18T17:14:04+00:00

Too many people say marriage is 'supposed' to be hard.

Yeah there's a lot of shit you have to get through as a couple, and there are days where you aren't happy with each other, but like... I would say well over 90% of marriage should be easy.

That last 10% is for the compromise that might make someone unhappy, or the life events that cause strain.

But 90% should be easy.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-04-18T18:38:28+00:00

Pearl has room temperature IQ. Literally one of the worst people to "interview" Nick Fuentes if you can even call it that.

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2023-04-18T04:13:52+00:00

You are now conscious of the fact you are breathing

scwizard · 2023-04-18T04:36:48+00:00

I live in Texas. I've had guns pulled on me for extremely minor things. I also had a neighbor murder my donkey. It's not a good place. Do not move here.

I also live in Austin btw.

If you can afford to live in Austin how the heck can you not afford to leave Austin and live in a different state???

scwizard · 2023-04-18T04:42:13+00:00

There's no way I could handle a high L women.

Apparently they think it's normal, for when you have a new boyfriend, to sleep over at his house for like three days and have sex constantly.

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-18T08:13:38+00:00

Would a redpilled woman be considered someone that lies about her n-count? There are no morals in the redpill after all.

happy_discus · 2023-04-18T08:40:58+00:00

Had a creepy encounter again. Some girl, presumably first semester, was staring at me for half the lecture. Didn't smile back, just staring. Let me enjoy the lecture in peace amd stop being creepy.

Treacle-Flimsy · 2023-04-18T09:36:05+00:00

The way women react about paternity fraud proves that red pill is absolutely right about it's assumptions about women

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-18T11:57:54+00:00

Regarding paternity testing, just tell your wife to stop cheating. Then there will be no debate on the subject whatsoever.

liefelijk · 2023-04-18T13:15:39+00:00

Ancestry DNA testing is super cool, TBH, especially for folks who have some gaps in their history. My dad is adopted, so doing the test gave me way more insight into our background and even connected me with some previously unknown cousins.

It’s very interesting to imagine who he would have been if his parents hadn’t given him up. I wonder if he would have had a happier life growing up with knowledge of his history. It’s doubtful that I would exist in that scenario.

Maffioze · 2023-04-18T13:17:07+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NotHowGirlsWork/comments/12qapbj/not_true_elon/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

I don't understand why this has so many upvotes. Isn't there indeed truth to this?

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-18T13:54:19+00:00

PPD women make marriage sound as dog shit as possible, then when you mention that fact they say "gOoD lUcK FinDinG sOmeOnE"

What kind of gotcha is that?

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-04-18T14:17:00+00:00

Broke: Paternity testing shouldn't be allowed

Woke: Mandatory paternity testing at birth

Bespoke: Mandatory paternity testing when the child is 10 years old 😈

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-18T16:10:50+00:00

Anyone else hate sleeping on the wet side? I hate when women aren't ready with a towel on the side of the bed.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-18T16:16:48+00:00

Is the most swiped man on tinder what you thought he would look like

liefelijk · 2023-04-18T16:49:48+00:00

I have a second-round interview this afternoon and it’s freaking me out. There should be one more round of interviews (or a sample lesson, depending on the district) before an offer.

What are your best interview tips? Keep in mind that this is a Zoom interview, as I live 4 hours away from the prospective employer.

mummydontknow · 2023-04-18T17:21:18+00:00

The reactions to the Hakimi law are fun to watch.

Billsandasonom · 2023-04-18T17:26:25+00:00

Contrary to popular belief most YouTube comments - at least nowadays - are largely positive I've noticed. Not a good thing...it just reflects how everyone is just tuning in to channels that continue to polarize their views and give them what they already agree with and want to hear. Whether it's politics, nutrition or skincare, fitness, philosophy or other type of social commentary (I'd give the niche hobbyists a pass), it's always shit like "Spoken with undefeatable logic and integrity, we need more people like you in this world" "Amazing video" "Beautiful, absolutely gorgeous" for some content creator who takes 30 minutes to longwindedly say something obviously sketchy at worst or just common knowledge at best.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-18T18:44:08+00:00

It's difficult to put to words but I think I got it:

Women do not care about being called a hypocrite, or it being proven to them. It doesn't phase them morally. They don't seem to have a knee jerk reaction most men will about being "called out".

I believe the reason for this is women hate to be "boxed" into a position. She wants an eternal right to change her mind and not be questioned or judged by it. But the very fact of changing one's mind invites questions about it's motivations, agenda, genuineness and concreteness.

Any reasonable person would be able to articulate any and all this, but women are loathe to do so because the ability to change her mind in an instant is fundamental to her expression of her sexual self. And this sexual self is of greater importance than logic, morality, virtue or literally anything else in this universe.

Whether "earned" or not, a woman who desires a particular man wishes to please him, often in a way that isn't perfectly reciprocal.

myrosieredcheeks · 2023-04-19T02:02:40+00:00

Is a guy more likely to start a relationship with a women from seeing the cute/pretty/sweet side of her first or seeing the hot/sexy/desirable side of her first.

I feel like in theory the answer would be cute first, but, the hot draws the guy in and makes him want her and after a time he would see the sweet side of her appearance/personality vs the cute makes him not really want to think about the sex side because he respects her or he can't visualize the hot sex with her because he does not want to degrade a women he respects.

I'm kinda basing this off the Madonna Whore complex.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-19T01:29:03+00:00

When PPD women try to say "Just be gay" remind them of this

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-19T01:06:37+00:00

What kind of women are easy to have sex with for the ordinary Joe? (note: fatties and druggies don't count as women)

One type of woman could the type who can be nagged into having sex (i.e. if you're persistent enough and keep sex pesting her, she'll just give in). How do you identify these types?

Another could be the damaged woman who has sex to make men like her, but she usually only likes extreme dark douchebags.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-04-19T01:05:38+00:00

Q4A what are some not so obvious turnoffs the opposite sex oughta know about?

RegTextoffender · 2023-04-19T00:53:38+00:00

Chicago will be the new Detroit in 10 years...tops.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-04-19T00:38:22+00:00

I get that “rip your dms” is a joke.

But do women actually get bombarded with dms on Reddit for vaguely sexual comments?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-19T00:34:34+00:00

Ended my easy female living day with a transvaginal ultrasound. Oof. 😔😖

myrosieredcheeks · 2023-04-19T00:27:15+00:00

How can I become a tradwife if I can't find any men that want that? I think men say that want that but I can't find one that actually does irl

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-19T00:20:37+00:00

Q4A

What advice would you give your early 20 self if you could go back in time and talk to them

500mgofShower · 2023-04-19T00:20:08+00:00

This is your daily reminder to go hit 100 personality-up’s and 3 sets of deodorant

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-18T23:59:45+00:00

If a girl breaks up with you she's basically saying

"I'm not betting on your future"

She doesn't think you're going to make anything of yourself, she thinks there are guys out there who have better prospects than you etc. You weren't good enough to provide the life she wants in summary.

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-04-18T23:56:54+00:00

I am known as a fanatic feminist male in my social circle. That's a very good strategy for sub 6/10 men. Just feminist maxx and pray for your facade to get you laid.

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MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-04-18T04:04:16+00:00

First

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2023-04-18T04:45:33+00:00

Just subbed 2 red mini chilles for a jalapeño in a recipe. Wonder how hot this is gonna be

500mgofShower · 2023-04-18T05:14:09+00:00

Some of the old heads here need to hear this. Y’all GOAT’s like Jordan, Kareem, Joe Montana, and Julio Ceaser Chavez Sr all played and fought bums, part time plumbers and part time bus drivers. They wouldn’t stand a chance with with todays athletic competition in sports 🤣

2023-04-18T05:21:42+00:00

Only the hot ones are getting wifed up though if you’re anything below “cute” you’re just an ugly used up whore with no options.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-18T05:46:45+00:00

Prepped my breakfasts for the week. So excited. I hope I enjoy them.

red__hulk · 2023-04-18T07:53:46+00:00

Kinda funny arguing with a woman in here and then you notice when refreshing your karma dropping by like 10 ish points. Its almost as if someone is stalking you and downvoting everything :D

dbz__f · 2023-04-18T10:44:19+00:00

Sometimes people have irrational fears and little things give them peace of mind.

Lots of couples nowadays have location trackers on each others phones. They know they won’t cheat on each other but it gives them reassurance and peace of mind. My gf goes through my phone, I don’t mind. Paternity testing is one of these things.

It’s not a matter of telling your wife she’s a cheating whore, it’s a matter of giving yourself peace of mind, so you can silence that voice in the back of your head that feeds your anxieties and says “what if….?”

The fact that some women fundamentally misunderstand this and interpret it as an attack on them shows either they don’t care about or don’t understand the male psyche and sources of male anxiety.

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-18T11:48:30+00:00

I can’t count how many times I’ve been in social settings where a noticeably ugly guy has started talking about his dating experiences and sexual success stories where people just cringe and dismiss the person in question.

redheadtingz · 2023-04-18T14:12:33+00:00

I just got ahold of the sexy sleazy seventies cowboy man of my dreams. My first husband is 6’4” and my new BF is 5’9. I like 5’9” a lot more than 6’4” but some people refuse to believe that.

PBtoast707 · 2023-04-18T14:15:52+00:00

My boyfriend says it’s really attractive that I’m in shape but I don’t wear revealing clothes to the gym. I always wear a t-shirt and shorts that are loose but not super baggy. I think I look good in normal clothes and don’t need leggings that go up my ass. He’s just really into that. I thought he’d like the more revealing stuff.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-18T14:22:02+00:00

What's the difference between being married and just staying together? Why do women push marriage so hard?

JiifuhTV · 2023-04-18T14:54:08+00:00

tbh it’s funny how men pay most of the taxes, yet majority of the stuff that benefits the taxpayers benefit women

the worst part is people cry about stuff that benefit men, but have no issues when it benefits women

these women have no shame😭

Peacesquad · 2023-04-18T14:57:49+00:00

I think men need to realize most women don’t like you. Like at all. The modern man can’t comprehend how disgusted and disinterested 98% of women are with them. Women make their own money. Instant validation and attention from social media. Easier access to higher status men. They don’t like guys like that. Once you understand this that’s when the real growth begins

SexMonger69 · 2023-04-18T15:03:39+00:00

I got banned from thebluepill for saying not all incels are bad, can someone please tell me if that warranted a permaban or are they just sensitive over there and don’t wanna hear anything that they don’t wanna hear?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-18T15:05:05+00:00

If you're (a man) having a hard time dating, then just hire a sugar baby

See this post to understand how that's an unrealistic, inaccessible for the vast majority of men: https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkersOnly/comments/g9uum1/why_i_said_fuck_it_to_being_a_sugar_baby_and/

Like, yeah, I can just magically come up with an extra $500 three to four times a week for the rest of my life ... and that's on the low end.

Listen, if prostitutes were reasonably priced it would be a different story.

baresquad · 2023-04-18T15:40:51+00:00

Her husband gained 200 pounds and she doesn’t want to leave him.

What a dumbass.

2023-04-18T16:36:49+00:00

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0146167214543879

good morning

having a good personality does seem to help your attractiveness a bit, but only if your a woman.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-18T17:15:13+00:00

Low socio economic people are most obsessed with status.

I keep seeing the same thing in the Europe, US... the rest of the world.

Low soc-economic guy manages to get his hands on some money... spends most on bling-bling status simbols.

Low soc-economic women, peak of hypergamy.

In both cases, overcompensating.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-18T17:53:05+00:00

Meeting my daughter's new boyfriend at lunch today. Should I play it warm and welcoming, or overprotective and overbearing? This is only the 2nd time I've had to do this.

500mgofShower · 2023-04-18T18:33:39+00:00

How many notches below your look level should you go to become more successful at getting casual sex?

RegTextoffender · 2023-04-18T23:52:27+00:00

Its been 4 days since my last double blow job. I'm not sure life is worth living anymore.

SlutHater_Unlimited · 2023-04-18T23:01:29+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/12q8drm/those_are_fathers_with_their_daughters_who_just/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb

Reddit trying to not encourage teen promiscuity (impossible)

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-04-18T22:57:03+00:00

Q4W

Do you find upspeak from a man unattractive?

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-04-18T22:44:20+00:00

anyone remember the post in the daily community chat thread where they talked about if you have a lot money, you put them in an irrevocable trust fund that can't be taken out by anyone where you'd get a dividend for 140k per year and then marry?

jamal_dd · 2023-04-18T22:24:29+00:00

Question for style fans, fashionistas and Chad chasers

What outfits do you think Chad can pull off that a below average or ugly guy cannot? A secondary question is what outfit or items can anyone pull off?

baresquad · 2023-04-18T22:03:14+00:00

Realized that I habitually lie when rejecting someone and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. Everybody seemingly needs an explanation to understand and accept rejection and a majority of the time I don’t have one outside of just not interested in them.

But not being interested is never good enough to satisfy curiosity, so I always lie and say that I’ve started seeing someone or chose to pursue something with somebody I’m more compatible with, depending on the context.

If it’s someone from my past, I always go with the I’m seeing someone lie. Gives the impression that I might have a girlfriend or at the least taking someone seriously. If it’s someone from a dating app or someone that I’m a few dates in with, I go with the lie that I’m more compatible with someone else that I’ve recently met.

Either way, lying helps get the point across for people who can’t take a hint or accept rejection without prying.

500mgofShower · 2023-04-18T21:53:32+00:00

Anybody see any results from taking finasteride or applying minoxidil? How were the results?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-18T21:31:19+00:00

I find it ironic that I use Ben Shapiro’s “Facts don't care about your feelings” sentiment on a bunch of anti-feminist dudes the most. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-04-18T21:27:21+00:00

Are irl women real?

HazyMemory7 · 2023-04-18T20:45:59+00:00

The girl i've been dating/mentioned a few times in the daily chat, it feels like what I imagine dating used to be like 20 years ago/what the out of touch boomers on this subreddit think dating is still like. No talking to/dating multiple people at the same time, flaking, or hot and cold mind games. Actually having effort reciprocated, no bringing toxic attitudes from past trauma ect... she's gorgeous but so down to earth and it feels so natural.

I've talked to a lot of girls over the last yearish, and it seems like the most entitled girls and or girls with unhealthy attitudes on relationships/baggage tend to be the average women, which seems counterintuitive to what you would expect. The ones who are legit cute tend to be a lot more comfortable in their own skin.

old_new_age · 2023-04-18T04:15:54+00:00

The "do women like assholes or nice guys" discourse seems fucked because a lot of women have a completely different concept of "asshole" than what I think most men are talking about

Women don't like guys who kick dogs, or guys who punch pigeons in the face, or guys who throw nunchucks at babies, or guys who scream at the elderly. I don't know why, but a lot of women seem to think that's what guys mean by "asshole." Usually, guys have just been sold the message of "women are perfect and you should never do anything to harm them ever" since birth, so "being an asshole" can literally just mean "approaching a woman in public." Or it could mean being playfully rude while getting to know a woman, testing the waters to see what kind of sense of humor she has. I believe a lot of women will think back to interactions like this with men they've known and remember that guy as "funny," whereas men who've been sold the message of "never make women uncomfortable" would think of that guy as an "asshole," thus men and women are usually talking past each other when it comes to this

caobozo · 2023-04-18T06:51:48+00:00

why do men refuse to take accountability? if you want a paternity test, you're absolutely free to do that, and then bear the consequences of getting it. this includes your wife or girlfriend leaving you because you think of them so lowly as to think they'd commit paternity fraud. yeah I'm "making it personal", this is as personal of a situation as it gets lmao

"hey babe whatchu looking at?" "oh I'm just searching your name on the sex offender registry, no no i know you're not a rapist, but you can never be too sure with men, look at the rape statistics!"

weirdos

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-04-18T09:50:56+00:00

Whilst I agree that paternity testing should be normalised within society, some of y'all are very unrealistic when it comes to the logistics of setting up mandatory paternity tests for every child.

Sure, in your mind it's just "babies are given loads of tests at birth, it can't be that hard to add another one!" Sorry to say it, but yes it is.

You would need a huge expansion in current lab capacity (which would be the main bottleneck), resource, logistics arrangements plus countless other costs. Sure, it can be done, but the costs would be astronomical.

saraimarsena · 2023-04-18T11:47:48+00:00

the thing i notice about some posters here is that they lack any type of ability to even see or try to understand any pov outside of their own.

w regards to paternity testing, i wouldn’t feel bothered at all by mandatory testing. if it weren’t for the massive costs I’d say it’s a great idea. i think paternity fraud should absolutely carry stronger punishment, especially considering the threat of jail time if a man dodges child support. i do get it. i do understand that some men have that fear.

i even wouldn’t be bothered if a man told me upfront when things got serious, that in the case of any pregnancy he would ask for a paternity test. if it’s a rule outside of personal circumstance, there’s not so much accusation behind it.

but any attempt to pretend that asking your pregnant wife out of nowhere for a paternity test in the delivery room is somehow anything other than an accusation, stems from a lack of critical thinking skills. and if you could somehow explain to me how another man’s baby would even get there in the first place without cheating occurring, that’d be great.

that’s the EXACT kind of selective outrage and cognitive dissonance that these men accuse a lot of women of.

i could even respect it more if a man could admit “i understand why it comes off as an accusation but I just wanna make sure”. but instead, some of these guys seriously convince themselves “it’s not an accusation but if you’re bothered by it you’re a cheating whore”. lol.

likewise, if you’re a woman and you’re against paternity testing in all cases, you’re not even attempting to see the other side’s POV.

on both sides, if your opinion is so strong that you can’t even reasonably see and understand a POV outside your own, you’re not approaching the issue in good faith.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-18T17:02:40+00:00

Men in PPD: See! The study shows that women are shallow and only wants Chad!

When people point the study shows the opposite.

Men in PPD: WOMEN SETTLE FOR BETA BUCKS!

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-04-18T13:14:50+00:00

My final thoughts on paternity testing:

If there was public backing for mandatory testing and the costs were within acceptable limits? Great, go for it. You want to request a paternity test because you've only been casually seeing the mother? You should absolutely do that. You want to request a paternity test because you have legitimate reason, evidence or reasonable suspicion to do so? Go ahead, request it.

You want to request a paternity test in a monogamous relationship when there's no evidence, legitimate reason or reasonable suspicion to suspect foul play? By all means go for it, just don't be surprised if she takes that as an accusation of cheating, a sign that you don't trust her and a reason to feel aggrieved.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-18T06:33:34+00:00

Having a boat is like a damn cheat code. One of my friends got one from his dad in college and from hosting parties to bringing back girls on individual dates it never fails. It’s docked conveniently near a bar/restaurant scene within walking distance so he would set up 99% of his first dates in that area. After the date if it’s going smoothly he invites the girl for a walk, shows her the boat, and either he’s smashing or at least getting head. It had a higher success rate than his apartment before he got Boo’d up

red__hulk · 2023-04-18T06:49:54+00:00

Men are amazing. Its unbelievable. Stay strong Kings.

Maffioze · 2023-04-18T08:50:27+00:00

The more time I spend here the more I am convinced that gender issues are zero sum games.

Peacesquad · 2023-04-18T12:35:36+00:00

“I just know red pill men hate that I was able to do x!”

Nobody gives a fuck about your relationship or what you do as a woman. Seriously, there’s so many whores, so many dumb simps, so many cheating women, so many good women. Nobody gives a fuck about your relationship and nobody is seething you found a good man

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-18T16:27:25+00:00

It's always fun watching guys reference the OKcupid study to show guys are “more reasonable”, because you know they didn't actually look at the study. 🤣

liefelijk · 2023-04-18T18:47:27+00:00

This kind of thing makes me so angry:

https://www.desmoinesregister.com/story/news/politics/2023/04/18/iowa-senate-passes-child-labor-bill-letting-teens-work-more-jobs-longer-hours/70121615007/

The bill would let kids under 16 work up to six hours a day, two more than the current maximum of four hours a day. And they could work longer into the evening — until 9 p.m. during the school year and until 11 p.m. during the summer. Sixteen and 17-year-olds could work the same number of hours per day as adults (with no curfew).

As someone who teaches low-income students, they already struggle to balance work and school. This is asking too much from them at a time when they need to be focusing on graduating from high school.

jamal_dc · 2023-04-18T15:43:29+00:00

PPD men have some of the highest standards and entitled attitudes whilst simultaneously having some of the lowest SMVs I’ve seen in a while. PPD women are actually a bit better in this regard but I don’t know what they’re like irl. I haven’t come across this phenomenon of women ONLY liking and dating Chads. There are a lot of women who Chad chase but you can still get a decent looking gf.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-18T16:09:08+00:00

In Costa Rica a 11 y.o. girl gave birth as they have abortion bans. To hide the crime her rapist, who's also her stepfather, kidnapped the baby in the middle of the street and most likely killed her. Only then CPS paid attention to this whole situation.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-18T16:58:07+00:00

It's weird to constantly see "women have it easier," and yet we're only allowed to be sex puppets or baby factories.

I'm constantly seeing "women have life on easy mode."

And then comments about how women are leeches. Or deserve some vague consequences because they've had sex before.

The whiplash is insane.

caobozo · 2023-04-18T17:52:18+00:00

This is not a suggestion to brigade AT ALL

I see TwoX posts on the front page or first few pages of Reddit and can't believe how one-sided all discussion is. I guess I understand it's not a debate sub. I guess I understand that it's a sub for women and not men. But holy shit, AMALT is fine but AWALT isn't over there. Women good and diverse men bad and monolith. I would rather be here with the loud outliers and representation for many perspectives than try to learn anything from that sub.

TooHornyToFap · 2023-04-18T18:34:41+00:00

Mandatory paternity testing is retarded. Just do it in secret. There are women who have hidden funds to help escape abusive situations. Secret testing is the same.

liefelijk · 2023-04-18T20:34:19+00:00

Interview done! I think it went well, but who knows. 😂

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-04-18T20:20:32+00:00

What do you guys think my political affinity is?

Workaholiconew · 2023-04-18T20:15:38+00:00

Men here say that all (most) men want a virgin, subservient, obedient, trad wife who are not career women.

So why is it that in countries where most/all women are like this, always has the worst track record of women being treated like shit? Aren't these women giving you what they want? Why are you treating them like that then? Example-

Russia - highest rate of femicide in the world Pakistan - 90% women reported domestic violence. Egypt - 90% of women reported sexual harrasment by FAMILY MEMBERS. India - ranks 167/170 in women's safety

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-18T15:14:56+00:00

The fact there’s guys who never bother vetting women based on interests and compatibility is so wild to me, because not even the guys I talk to offline, or just outside this subreddit, think that’s a good idea.

This also reminds me of the irony that the manosphere contains the biggest simps/cucks/betas I have ever seen. Not only do my guy friends not waste time obsessing over women, they also see hot girls as valueless if her personality is terrible and/or they have nothing in common with her. Meanwhile, the manosphere would think she’s high value and pursue her, and then go off to blame other people when that fails miserably.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-18T20:03:41+00:00

The problem with dumpster diving as a man is that it's not actually dumpster diving. You're getting trash, but you still have to pay a high price for it. Real dumpster diving would be getting trash with ease and for free. There is no free or easy pussy no matter how low quality it is.

This is why fattie women are the scourge of the earth. If you always have to pay a high price to get laid with any woman even when dumpster diving, she should at least be passable and not trash to make it worth the effort.

Dumpster diving would be worth the effort if it was with a thin woman who just has a butterface than a unhygienic fattie slob. Instead, a thin woman with an ugly face is considered in the top 40-50% of women at the very least, which is absurd. They should be considered the bare minimum, the floor of attractiveness for women.

Fattie women ruined the dating markets.

caobozo · 2023-04-18T20:03:34+00:00

we should standardize the word 'asshole' in these spaces where people say women love assholes, i don't know if i'm supposed to imagine a sociopath or a slightly arrogant but otherwise normal dude

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-18T20:03:09+00:00

Watching guys pretend to intellectuals while explaining why they're cherry-picking the OKCupid study is hilarious.

What a coincidence that the part that makes men look bad is “outdated” and “wrong” but the part that makes women look bad is TOALLY RIGHT and should always referenced as facts. 🤣🤣🤣

What’s worse is these guys don't realize how obvious they're being.

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-18T19:54:17+00:00

Remember......Nice Guys Finish Last

fatsackguy47 · 2023-04-18T19:54:07+00:00

holy fuck this guy only posts bangers this shit is so true please don’t downvote him he is actually quite a sensitive and soft person

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12q9l9h/daily_community_chat_megathread/jgri8gf/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-04-18T19:52:31+00:00

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-04-18T19:46:36+00:00

I’ll never forget when Reddit discovered the term “gaslighting”

SlutHater_Unlimited · 2023-04-18T19:41:58+00:00

The Reddit sluts tried to silence me, however i rose again from the ashes.

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-18T19:37:37+00:00

Just got toxic masculinity shamed by one a girl at work for drinking a salted caramel cold brew from Starbucks.

She said, "That's kind of a girly drink, isn't it?"

Edit: The comments below are for all of you dumb fucks that say "tOxIc MaScUlInIty DoEsN't ExIsT!!111!1!"

500mgofShower · 2023-04-18T19:22:34+00:00

Why do short guys think being tall means you easily swim in pussy? We aren’t exempt from women’s other insane standards. Had a dude literally say you can be tall and ugly and still get pussy 🤣🤣🤣

Maffioze · 2023-04-18T19:15:57+00:00

https://youtu.be/KFJmocuHrM0

Listening to this to relax after working all day.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-04-18T19:14:36+00:00

I fully understand why people say women like assholes over nice guys. This was back when my fiance and I were relatively early in the dating stage. We were leaving the the mall one day, it was kinda busy and I was trying to back out of the spot and no one was letting me out. After sitting for a bit I got impatient, said fuck it and forced my way out anyway. This suv honked at me and pulled up beside me, and the lady in passenger seat rolled her window down and yelled something at me. I couldn't make out what was said clearly it but it didn't matter, in a fit of road rage I rolled my window down and yelled at her to shut her bitch ass up. Then gave her a rude hand gesture. I drove away and was silent the ride home because I was fuming. Then my gf looks over at me and told me "that turned me on". I'm thinking wtf I'm over here mad enough to fight somebody and you getting wet to that? Then afterwards it clicked. I could have obeyed the rules of traffic and waited, instead I pulled out on my own terms. I could have apoligized profusely to the lady as I was kinda in the wrong but I refused to take her shit. I could have been the "nice guy", but I flew off the handle and was a bit of an asshole. Me being aggressive in that situation > me being passive.

After that my fiance would at random times bring that moment up and talk about how turned on and hot that made her, and I've never experienced her act like that or be rude to anyone ever. Thats out of character for me too but normally I don't get yelled at so that triggered tf out of me. But yea, I get it.

scwizard · 2023-04-18T19:07:15+00:00

I'm at a fancyish restaurant and this girl's rich husband died and she's talking like it's the best thing that's ever happened to her.

Apparently her husband was always like "no no we can't travel to so and so we don't have any clients there" and she was like "you have a gazillion airline miles though." And now that he's dead and she's getting all his shit she can travel wherever she wants.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-04-18T05:20:17+00:00

The only high N bitches that get wifed up are women that fit an extreme niche like swinging and cuckolds and other shit. They ain’t marrying Billy Beta unless he’s their last resort. We’ve been getting shit wrong.

Peacesquad · 2023-04-18T14:35:38+00:00

If onlyfans crashed how many women would be screwed?

RP-MJ · 2023-04-18T12:36:00+00:00

So am talking to this career woman

And asked her

Would give all your money to your man and she immediately said no

Then l asked her

Would you give him kids, and she said yes

So you trust your man to give him kids but not your money ?

Wow, to me that's hoe logic

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