Daily Community Chat Megathread

MysterySolverDog · 2023-04-22T21:03:35+00:00

Being very willing to resort to personal attacks and also making a massive number of assumptions about the other person is a pretty useless combination, a lot of discussion here is hamstrung by those two factors working in tandem.

Doesn't really seem worthwhile spending too much time on here if you're gonna construct an image of what you think I'm like then attack that in some kind of failed attempt to dunk on me.

Youngking41 · 2023-04-22T21:00:32+00:00

There’s not enough grass touching going on in this place

Purple-Following-422 · 2023-04-22T20:54:55+00:00

How can anyone claim women are anything but superficial and entitled? Women literally only go for the top 20 percent of men despite being only a 5 herself and then they cry when they get pumped and dumped or left for a younger woman. Then once they're a single mom they parasitically try to leach off her looksmatch and think she's doing HIM a favor.

social_mule · 2023-04-22T20:46:22+00:00

Someone in r/NoStupidQuestions asked Why do people think that their height makes it impossible to find a relationship when I'm like 5'6 but I don't have any problems with it?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-04-22T20:39:55+00:00

I heard someone say yesterday that shoes can give you a clue into a persons personality. As a women I would agree but I don't think men would.

Modest heels? Stripper heels? Flip flops? Sneakers? Docs haha? Ballet flats? Riding boots?

I don't really think men care but preferences make the ideal women right

bubbly_100 · 2023-04-22T20:16:59+00:00

Men here need to learn that there’s a difference between a decent personality and an attractive personality. A decent personality will get you friendship aka friendzoned. An attractive personality will have you between her legs. Learn the difference. I’ve beaten out guys who may have been better looking than myself simply because I knew how to flirt, make her feel uncertain etc.

baresquad · 2023-04-22T19:55:42+00:00

If you struggle to meet new people, what stopped you from going to an Earth Day clean up today?

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-04-22T19:53:22+00:00

Sorry sweaty, but I have noticed an extremist with the same complaint with you said something truly reprehensible. This is why not one takes you seriously. You should do better next time.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-04-22T19:37:31+00:00

Who are these couchto5k people? Like I haven’t been doing any real exercise sinze last fall and I went straight to a sub 30 min 5k in my first run this spring and I’m slightly overweight. Like I guess 5k can be a bit much if you haven’t run in years (been there myself), but after a couple of runs to get your body used to it it should not be a problem. Are they all morbidly obese or something?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-22T19:13:08+00:00

Women say that men aren't getting laid because they don't enjoy talking to women but this is almost a complete nonfactor in getting laid.

Women constantly get pumped and dumped and ghosted because the men they slept with didn't enjoy talking to them or hanging out with them. If he enjoyed his time with her, he would've kept contact with her.

It's probably even harder to get laid if a man enjoys talking to her because he'll develop a crush on her and go beta. The men getting laid with her are confident and detached because they don't like her very much and don't care about the outcome.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-22T18:41:12+00:00

Someone should make a thread specifically for neurodivergent men. I don't think their specific challenges are addressed enough.

Women are less willing to accept neurodivergency, harsher on gender norms, and require benchmarks to clear which include confidence, charisma and general appearance which neurodivergents struggle with.

Maffioze · 2023-04-22T18:38:16+00:00

https://youtu.be/7vDVDo9w20w

A good song for when you're struggling in life.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-22T18:02:03+00:00

I often wonder if I've had more conversations with women or if the avg guy has had more conversations with women.

You'd think they'd listen to the person with 200 conversations than the guy with 2 conversations.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-22T18:00:19+00:00

So am talking with my friends about our dating experiences over the years

And a common issue brought up is girls flaking on first dates when already saying yes, it seems most of my friends have encouraged this issue

I even asked random guys and they also experienced the same issue more often in their dating life

Now l don't have this issue but definitely had it when in high-school, where the girl said yes but next day changed her mind

This is why l say you should plan as soon as possible when she says yes

Creepy-Ganache6370 · 2023-04-22T17:56:00+00:00

Can you please bring purge back please 🙏

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-04-22T17:55:21+00:00

Q4M : would you rather marry a 4 that's a feminine or a 7 that's feminist?

caobozo · 2023-04-22T17:54:23+00:00

how did your relationships end

incompatability

You probably broke up with them in your chase for Chad

i cant with yall

eye_fuck · 2023-04-22T17:50:50+00:00

It kinda surprising how little drugs and drug culture are discussed or mentioned here, but maybe it's expected given the inkwell/normie/boomer demographic of the sub. It's a big part of social life of early 20s adults i've seen that actually have active social and sexual life, from fashion models and artists to linux programmers

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-22T17:48:07+00:00

You also don't need freedoms, respect, equality, reproductive rights...

Responding this way to “Sex is not a need” is not clever.

It just gives off rapes vibes, which is why “Sex is a need” is just a bad sentiment to condone.

Youngking41 · 2023-04-22T17:41:41+00:00

So many men here blame women for their failures and it’s sad to see. No women aren’t all intrinsically awful because nobody wants to fuck you. Jesus.

saraimarsena · 2023-04-22T17:41:21+00:00

my most shallow icks:

patchy unkempt beard (i love a man w a full one)
not wanting to kill a spider for me (if you’d rather save it and put it outside that’s one thing, but being too afraid? 😬)
being unable to open a difficult container and handing it off to me instead

chancetolive · 2023-04-22T17:40:17+00:00

Women are always ungrateful for what men do for them. Don't love her too much

purplish_possum · 2023-04-22T17:27:57+00:00

My grandson has a GF despite the fact he's short.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-22T17:25:09+00:00

I'm so glad I didn't let my high school dating experiences run my life.

Dating in high school was awful. So much heartbreak and wondering what I could do to make myself more attractive.

Early 20s, I really hit my stride. Turns out, I didn't need to do anything. Just fail enough to keep trying and testing. Eventually I figured it out.

SadEtherealNoob69420 · 2023-04-22T17:01:10+00:00

If I am an inexperienced male who is a virgin and never had a gf before.

What should be my dating strategy?

Go for short term relationships? Find FWBs. Increase my body count to increase my value.
Go for long term relationships and get a happy ending. 💀 ( I would love this but uh I don't think this is possible anymore ).

In my country , you need to get married to get a house below the age of 35 lol.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-22T16:21:18+00:00

I really hate enablers because they think they’re morally righteous for being for doormats to awful human beings and condemning people who call out the awful person. These “morally righteous” doormats side with cry bullies and it's fucking disgusting.

scwizard · 2023-04-22T16:20:04+00:00

When a woman marries the conservative man, you can see the pain and suffering she is going through. I have seen that fear when the front door opens. I can see her shame at how he treats other women. I can see her exasperated face as he bloviates in public about the latest thing he is told to hate. Yet, she stays. She may be unaware of how much pain she is in but I can see it.

Oh geez. It's this really what it's like?

social_mule · 2023-04-22T16:14:08+00:00

Personal moment of satisfaction today at the farmer's market. Some old geezer is in front of me buying pies and making chit chat with the cashier. So eventually he comes out of his mouth with "you always do what your wife tells you to do if you're smart" then he turns back to me and asks "am I right?"

And at that moment I uttered the phrase I've always wanted to utter in the precise setting that I've always wanted to utter it. I looked him dead in the eye and said (loud enough for the female cashier to hear it).

(Drumroll please).

I'm single, I do what I want to do

You would have thought I dropped my pants and took a shit on the floor from the look the cashier gave me. Then I paid for my bushel of raw peanuts and went on about my day.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-22T16:06:27+00:00

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-65351270.amp

If Tate is under house arrest: doesn’t that mean that now all he can do is post online rage bait and never leave the house? How is that any different than what all his followers are doing?

what color is your Irony?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-22T15:48:20+00:00

I'm pretty certain I'll always be a city boy, but man, the vibes of the small classic village is second to none. Just old school Americana feel, it's fantastic

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-22T15:40:43+00:00

when low side-effect abortion pills become mainstream, men should be allowed to decide whether they want to pool their resources to raise the kid. if not, the woman should be made to swallow an abortion pill.

I think it's pretty selfish to force a kid to grow up in a fatherless household and also force someone to pay out of pocket for a child he never wanted because you didn't want the minor inconvenience of taking a pill

thoughts?

Traditional-Bad-4055 · 2023-04-22T15:27:54+00:00

Trying to talk to some guy here who doesn’t believe rape by deception exists. It’s not that he doesn’t agree with it. He just doesn’t seem to believe anyone has ever been convicted of it

bubbly_100 · 2023-04-22T15:24:26+00:00

Honestly looking at n-count discussion threads here I’ve noticed that only Americans think that 10 is a normal and decent body count for a woman. Where I’m from that’s a bit on the high side. In fact anything above 15 is entering prime slut territory. No wonder your dating lives are fucked up. A decent woman will have 3 bodies at most. Above that is when they start getting jaded/ruined.

scwizard · 2023-04-22T15:09:07+00:00

Reminder to not have sex with conservative men. They hate you.

A lot of conservative men are married they aren't on tinder.

Preme2 · 2023-04-22T15:06:18+00:00

mood

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-22T14:56:26+00:00

"It's important to have common interests"

Ehh, most of the women l dated didn't share the same interests as me

I mean me and my gf almost had nothing in common yet still got along

So common interests will only get me so far

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-04-22T14:51:15+00:00

Alot of guys are like womens dating standards are too high. Well maybe women just aren't interested in dating at all. Women have jobs so they have no need for a mans money. Women practically out earn men now. They are choosing to develop their careers rather than focus on a relationship. Alot of women see dating as a hassle and more than its worth, and just have opted out.

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-04-22T14:40:46+00:00

I was born, and then it was over.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-22T14:21:09+00:00

The last Q4W is a hot mess, but the user's post history is even worse. I'd think he was a bot posting Russian propaganda.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-22T14:17:00+00:00

"Men should be blaming HVM for the current dating landscape"

Nope, guys should be blaming simps for almost everything that's wrong in dating

Because do you know how many unattractive women think they deserve romantic attention from average guys

baresquad · 2023-04-22T14:12:30+00:00

I can’t believe there’s people delusional enough to think that their stance against abortion matters more than the mistakes that I make.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-22T14:04:45+00:00

I'm glad more people are seeing why the “sex is a need” sentiment should not he tolerated in any form.

You WANT sex. You don't need sex.

PBtoast707 · 2023-04-22T13:55:00+00:00

“Be yourself” is unironically some of the best dating advice out there. Apart from a few things like getting into shape or practicing basic social skills, don’t change fundamental parts of yourself to please another person. If someone doesn’t like me or like my interests, I don’t want to spend time with them and I’m not going to spend any energy trying to win them over. I want to interact with people who want me from the beginning.

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-04-22T13:42:31+00:00

I know redditors don't represent the majority opinion. Even in this subreddit I think far more guys are against adoption or raising another woman's child than the general population of men.

But I've been scrolling through /r/datingoverthirty and it seems like there's a lot of girls who want a relationship but are just getting screwed by the guy they're with and they're ok settling for that guy. The megathread is a fucking disaster zone, like not a single traditional monogamous relationship in there. It's all just "situationships" aka friends with benefits or kids. Nvm actually this week's megathread seems kinda normal.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-04-22T13:30:19+00:00

That thread where the OP tries to justify rape is exactly why nobody cares about the "sex is a need" crowd and their nonsense.

eye_fuck · 2023-04-22T13:17:25+00:00

psa Defining 'needs' only as 'physiological needs that make you not die immediately' — discarding physiological needs that make you well adapted functional human being, psychological and social needs — is deflective and intentionally obtuse.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-22T13:15:10+00:00

"Men will be manipulative to get sex"

Yet again, another reason to avoid high bodycount women. Basically they lack the self-awareness to tell if a guy is actually interested in them or not. Either lacking self-awareness or just underdeveloped emotionally. Tack it on to the list of the million reasons to never date high bodycount women.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-22T13:09:09+00:00

Women owe reparations to men, because they ruined vampires and werewolves movies/series.

You should feel ashamed of yourself.

happy_discus · 2023-04-22T13:08:30+00:00

I had a awful first date yesterday.

We went out to watch a play. We met there, talked a bit watched the play, during the break we talked a bit again, watched the rest of the play, talked a bit again after the play. I then asked her if she wants to get some drinks but she refused. Felt really bad. At least the play was nice.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-23T00:19:06+00:00

Men: we should bring back polygamy. Men are naturally polygynous and women shouldn’t be jealous

Me: ok I want to also have multiple men too then

Men: 😡

AngeCruelle · 2023-04-23T03:38:00+00:00

Okay a promise is a promise. 10 upvotes so here it is.

Perks of Dating Adult Male Virgins: The Series

Part 1: He remembers the small things

Jessica really liked pink. Rebecca was more into yellow. Riley was pink again. Samantha remembered all the colors from her elementary crayon box a bit too well and liked some variation of red that nobody else seems to remember. Emily liked...maybe purple?

You can't blame a guy for getting it wrong the first few times. How many times has he had to learn this. You're lucky he's still trying at this point. Maybe he'll pick up on it as you take him along on shopping trips. Or notice it because your outfits always have it in there somewhere. Maybe he'll know it by your fifth anniversary. Or tenth. Surely in time for your funeral arrangements.

And then you meet the one who casually mentions it. After hearing just once. You do a double take. You ask if that was a guess, he laughs and says no. He remembers exactly when you told him. The story that went along with it. The way your eyes lit up while telling him. His first birthday gift to you is the perfect shade. You couldn't have chosen better if you were right there in the store with him. You ask him how he learned it so quickly. He looks confused, as if it didn't even occur to him that forgetting was an option.

Disclaimer: I can only account for the experiences of myself and others in my social circle. I am in no way claiming that all dating experiences with adult male virgins are like this or that men who aren't virgins do not do any of this. Any concerns, counterarguments, or complaints can be directed to the air around you because I'm probably not interested.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-22T23:27:09+00:00

It's really weird how many here think that women don't feel lonely, face rejection, etc.

That women just need to step outside, and there's an abundance of quality men ready and waiting.

But yet, those said men are often called "betas" for being available and giving the world to women.

So how does that make any sense?

500mgofShower · 2023-04-22T21:55:43+00:00

Currently loading weight onto the respect women machine at planet fitness, less get this workout in 💪🏼

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-23T01:47:07+00:00

My bf just secured an internship where he’ll be making $38 an hour at 20 years old. Definitely not letting him go.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-04-23T02:05:44+00:00

Q4W: If your son was dating a woman and wanted to marry her, and he was the only person he had ever been with..... Or so he thought, let's say you find out that she had a promiscuous past or used to have an only fans, something like that, you telling your son yes or no?

januaryphilosopher · 2023-04-22T22:57:10+00:00

Do women ever truly get lonely? Maybe this is my deep rooted misogyny, but I’ve never met a truly lonely woman like I have for men. This thought came to me because long story short, I spent 3 months with the same group of people and after it was funny to see who kept getting invited out to stuff once we were no longer forced together. The quiet guys were ostracized very quickly. People never ask them out to things, but all the girls no matter how quiet/awkward were. One of the girls barley even speaks English and still gets invited.

My grand theory is that lonely women aren’t perceived as a threat, while a lonely guy is and has to socialize to over come that.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-23T00:17:53+00:00

Things red pill men have said to me;

“I have a divorce clause in my prenup that if one of us gets fat we will immediately divorce”

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-23T04:12:28+00:00

Every time old guys are brought up on this sub, older male celebrities are always used as an example to prove some lame point about older male desirability. Like do you guys genuinely not know that older male celebrities aren’t indicative of what the average old guy looks like or how women perceive him? Or are you guys willingly choosing to be ignorant?

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-23T06:22:51+00:00

Should men love their woman more ? Should it be the other way around

In experience, whenever l loved a woman more it always ended bad for me

So l would rather have her love me more since that doesn't turn me off

Incel_Finder · 2023-04-22T09:52:10+00:00

Am loving this sub being supposedly about red pill tactics to enhance the chances of dating, yet the person who says it is a full on incel, full of hate for the very beings of their desires, masquerading as a red piller, spouting off about hypergamy or the wall, paralysed from fear and anxiety, not having spoken to a woman yet.

(There are certain neurodivergent guys in here who are caught between a rock and a hard place, so I do feel for them. Even then, it feels like they are slowly drifting into the manosphere)

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-04-22T22:02:41+00:00

I was talking to a somewhat-Chad friend of mine who is currently in a serious relationship, and I found it amusing how he complained about finding sex with his GF too "normal" or something like that.

I told him, somewhat jokingly, that it was because he had fucked way too many women in his life (his body count is 30+ I believe), and he actually agreed with me. To him sex is so banal that he doesn't really feel it's something that special even when he's doing it with someone he loves.

Kinda sad tbh, and it served as a good reminder to myself that the whole "Men can fuck as many bishes they want and not have any negative effect" is just delusion. I haven't had sex in years, but I'm pretty sure that once I meet my next GF and have sex with her it will be pretty fucking special.

That's all, just wanted to share it since the idea of a Chaddy guy kind of regretting a promiscuous past is peculiar.

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-22T22:57:30+00:00

You could call yourself a right winger, left winger, conservative, liberal, feminist or Redpiller. They're all pretty meaningless and barely have any solid foundation. You could hold RedPill views and call yourself a feminist. You could hold Left wing views and call yourself a right winger

The only prerequisite to calling yourself a feminist is to say that Women are atleast equal to if not above Men. As long as you say something like and don't contradict yourself, you can say anything else

2023-04-23T01:32:33+00:00

Childfree is more of a female term, bachelor is a male term.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-04-23T01:45:04+00:00

bf finds out she’s had a threesome feel bad for the dude

Wonder how long that relationship will last. There’s a giant chasm in sexual experience between men and women created by the hookup culture with primarily only benefits a few men and pumps out most of the women.

scwizard · 2023-04-23T05:32:20+00:00

Imgur is nuking all sexually explicit content in a few weeks: https://help.imgur.com/hc/en-us/articles/14415587638029-Imgur-Terms-of-Service-Update-April-19-2023-

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-04-22T08:01:25+00:00

Dem bitches

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-04-22T10:31:54+00:00

I’m not really into partying and drinking, but the few times I’ve been out I’ve noticed how unattractive I find drunk girls. Like holy fuck it’s just totally repulsive.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-04-22T21:09:12+00:00

I was out getting a haircut and had plans to go to the mall with the homie, and in the middle of a cut I got a call to come into work it's an emergency they need help with. Had to postpone all grass touching activates today smh

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-22T21:15:34+00:00

Man I’m going to keep saying it we never should have normalized monogamy we should have kept up with this polygamy shit.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-22T21:32:04+00:00

Just in case this don’t get posted

The old standards of a harem were an could have one if he could afford one. In this day and age having a harem would be very difficult for a man because of the higher cost of living, the higher standards of Western women in America especially would make this difficult, and jealously is something that comes quite natural to most women in society due to the popularization of monogamous relationships as we move further from men’s natural state of being. The biggest problems facing the restoration of men’s natural state are of course puritans who are naive and don’t know any better about the world, they fear men’s sexual natural like your average feminist woman does but are more self hating (men who hate men’s sexual nature). The second of course the nature of female jealousy, a lot of women will react very negatively to their man bringing home another women and informing his first wife that this new woman is now family and will be the second wife. Men who do not want on paper commitment can of course keep girlfriends or spin plates but will be free to do this more openly as society gradually embraces the male need for variety without stifling men and lying to women. You see, women are only jealous because they’ve been told for decades that they are the only woman a man should have and if any woman comes near him they have to assert themselves and maintain their place as his mate.

————— We have men who foolishly push this and in part bare a little blame for the broken state of women now, as those men were lying to both themselves and their woman. If women weren’t conditioned by years of puritanical propaganda to see a second wife or girlfriend or harem sister as a threat, female jealousy would be less intense and far less detrimental for men. The trade off will be a large percentage of men will not be able to obtain multiple women and thus will not have a harem, but removing the stigma of sharing a man and being in an open harem will lead to a high number of men finally experiencing peace in their lives and sexual variety without conflict.

Puritans will fight those tooth and nail but that is to be expected, in the end men will learn the truth and will continue to wise up to the raw deal we were given by society. We demonized harems are primitive and convinced women that it was a means to hoard them line objects, both are so far removed from the truth but propaganda doesn’t care about the truth. Please change me view if you feel that you can, I speak from a place of concern for the well being of men in the west.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-22T21:47:21+00:00

Men should only date skinny or slim thick 6s, anything beyond that is a fattie and gross. 6s have value but not that much so you gotta be small.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-22T22:04:15+00:00

I bet there would have been no feminists on Titanic. When it actually comes to shipwreck women get safety while men the brave heroic souls they are, sacrifice their lives for ungrateful women.

"In an evaluation of 18 major disasters at sea from around 1800 to today, they found that women have only half as much of a chance of surviving as men. The odds for children to survive are even slimmer."

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-22T22:27:50+00:00

"Coolest date you ever been on"

We sat at the park smoking and talking all day

I enjoyed the moment

But l had no intentions of seeing her again since l don't want my gf having damaged lungs

Purple-Following-422 · 2023-04-22T22:45:29+00:00

Fat chicks are automatically 1s

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-22T22:55:25+00:00

Why don't women understand how much being able to get sex with Chads, male attention and a relationship with a decent guy (who might not be a complete fit for them) by virtue of being a woman is a huge privilege?

It's like a "poor starving artist" who has a rich family. He's larping as "poor" but he knows that at any point in time he can go back to his daddy for money and to fund his life style. At worst, he can get a six figure job at his daddy's company. He has no pressure or skin in the game like a real poor starving artist. He can just relax knowing his needs will always be taken care of.

It's the same for women. They know at any point in time they could have satisfying sex with a hot man, find a man who will pay attention to them and do emotional labor and care for them or get a relationship with a decent dependable guy with little effort. Even if they aren't dating anyone or not interested in dating at the moment, knowing they can dependably and easily get male attention or a relationship takes off all social pressure and gives a lot of psychological safety like the "poor" artist who can depend on his daddy.

It even extends to finances. Women know they can easily marry an upper middle class man at any time, so they never need to work hard in their careers because they know they will be taken care of financially no matter what they do.

Women have the privilege of knowing they will always be taken care of and can never be lonely.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-22T23:05:13+00:00

Progress filled on Saturday.

My partner got our gallery wall up. It looks so good! 😍

Next, I'm hanging up posters for my "body wall" while my partner plays video games.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-22T23:30:04+00:00

It always amazes how many people think a man not wanting to be Monogamous but instead wanting polygamy makes him seen as someone who can't control his impulses

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-22T23:47:16+00:00

PPD women are quite blackpill, telling men forget about working on yourself. If you are not attractive now you will never be attractive down the road regardless how much you worked on yourself.

Don’t listen to them boys.

2023-04-23T00:08:59+00:00

Blocked by a beta male here

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-04-23T01:19:39+00:00

I hear a lot of people say here that women are all prepared to be single forever if someone doesn't meet their standards. Regardless of if this is true, I think it would be interesting to see how many would think the same way if there was say an all knowing genie that told them their standards would make them single forever.

Now I'm not trying to say all women need to lower their standards, or even that these specific women really do have standards that will keep them single forever. But I am how said women would react if they could see into the future and see they would never meet the one with their current standards.

Answer this for men too if you want, but no men are saying they are happy to remain single forever.

TheOrangeGhost · 2023-04-23T01:35:50+00:00

I have a Online dating method that I think vastly improves a persons number of dates but I want some other people to try it out. It basically amounts to creating a highly personalized profile and then matching with the top 1 in every 3 picks. Then you give everyone who matches back 3 days of conversation. You then decided if that person is still worth talking to. If they are you you give them 5 more days of conversation and then determine if they are worth a date. During this time it's totally okay to run multiple matches through this system.

I feel this works because it lessens the pressure on both sides and allows a person to reveal their actual personality instead of their online persona.

scwizard · 2023-04-23T01:44:28+00:00

I was raised in a very conservative household. As in- when I was in high school I genuinely believed women shouldn’t be able to vote.

I was raised in purity culture messaging and with misogynistic thinking about sex and relationships. What men wanted, expected. How I needed to be pure and compliant. That sex was a NEED for men.

Did she have a dad? I can't imagine a guy raising his daughter this way and being able to live with himself.

EDIT:

Edit to add- not to mention my own father treating me with extreme skepticism when I told him about the abuse. Funny how someone who prattles on about false allegations wouldn’t believe a victim.

Well fuck.

saraimarsena · 2023-04-23T01:48:53+00:00

Where are all the sexually liberal women that want LTRs? This is why men need harems. You can enjoy the chaste girl who only wants missionary without her getting mad that you also wanna get with the girl that let’s you fuck her like you hate her.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-23T02:25:17+00:00

So because I’ve scored a deal on some Italian products, we’re having fancy Italian dinner today. Truffle focaccia and pasta bolognese with some premade souse.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-23T02:27:30+00:00

Getting high and hanging anatomy posters. Getting my studying space leveled up.

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-04-23T02:41:54+00:00

Are you guys and gals following the advancements of AI? I'm really excited about it. Imagine if we can have an Artificial General Intelligence in our lifetimes.

But anyway, I was just thinking: in a world where people don't even have to work anymore, what would be the impact on human relationships?

I think the tendency is we're gonna get even more incels and femcels who never leave their house. And now they'll have robot waifus and husbandos, so the loneliness won't even be that bad.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-23T03:04:57+00:00

Fatties don't just harm the dating markets by creating a shortage of dateable women. They make non-fat women behave worse.

With so many fatties, non-fat women know that just not being fat alone is enough to be attractive. They know they can skate through life with the ability to get a decent boyfriend with little effort. Even the most buttery of butterfaces think they are hot stuff compared to the rest of the (fattie) women. As a result, the dateable women (who are dateable by virtue of simply not being a fat slob) are lazy and don't think they need to try at all, so they don't treat men well. They don't put an effort into being good to men.

If fatties didn't exist, dateable women would treat men much better. They wouldn't be spoiled anymore. They would feel some dating pressures and would know they can't just skate through life by not being fat. They would be molded into becoming good women by the danger of inadequacy as a woman, which they can't feel when fatties still exist. Fatties need to be cured/eradicated so women can be good again.

Fatties are terrible. They are completely sabotaging the dating markets for men.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-04-23T03:17:22+00:00

I know I'm getting old when I got invited to watch the fight but I'd rather stay in and watch it at home. Just made a steak about to watch tank get this W.

samtheaccountant · 2023-04-23T03:54:22+00:00

Goal is to lift, take care of skin, live a healthy lifestyle, and walletmax, then in 30s become a beta bux, but one that is decent looking enough so that she is attracted enough to me.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-23T05:13:28+00:00

Got a pink T-shirt today. My first pink piece of wardrobe in years.

My 4 T-shirts I’ve been wearing since September non-stop are too close to tearing and one already is. For some reason I packed far more clothes for my husband than for myself lol.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-23T05:15:19+00:00

Going to a bar for the first time ever. Let’s see what the hype is about😎

purplish_possum · 2023-04-23T05:58:14+00:00

A "Wall" story:

I was talking to my 1st ex-wife this morning at our daughter's place this morning. Since she had brain surgery two years ago she's been getting out more and being more friendly/approachable (the surgery really changed her personality -- she's less of a bitch). Anyway, she was complaining about how when she talks to guys it "always gets weird" by which she means the guys end up asking her out. She said that on her flight to California she talked to the guy next to her all the way from Texas. He asked for her number and has been calling her everyday.

Now to put things in perspective. My ex is 58 years old, weighs a little over 300 pounds, doesn't wear any makeup ever, doesn't dye her grey hair, and never dresses up. She's also a recovering addict with no money.

"The Wall" isn't the detriment TRP thinks it is.

FuuraKafu · 2023-04-22T13:05:20+00:00

Men see women as the living manifestation of beauty and bliss, and there is nothing women hate more than men seeing them like that. Sad life.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-22T12:20:23+00:00

PPD Men: Why dont women understand that men and women are totally different. Us men are more logical and rational than emotional women who think with their feelings!Atleast us men take responsibility for ourselves, unlike women!

Me: Then stop being whiny and over-emotional. Statistics say you’re wrong.

PPD Men: Facts dont override my experiences and feelings! I have feelings! Im human! I’m allowed to be insecure about stupid shit! Also, my datings problems are the fault of women! Its never my fault!

Mark_Freed · 2023-04-22T11:49:02+00:00

Let's goooo

Help science

https://twitter.com/DrThomasAG/status/1649700915648114689?s=19

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-22T11:18:54+00:00

Hearing a friend tell me “Despite you claiming you’re a bitch, you’re more open minded than most” really made my day. 🤭😊☺️😇

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-22T10:58:09+00:00

Rate this man 1-10.

chancetolive · 2023-04-22T10:54:56+00:00

Q4M - Whilst subs like exredpill, incelexit and bropill exist, ima ask you here. How much your life changed after discovering TRP or the manosphere concepts? Better same worse.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-22T10:36:53+00:00

It’s weird to realize I have thicker skin than most of the guys here. Like, they’re insecure about shit that I never cared about or stopped caring about after middle school. Perhaps because I’m more focused on my personality, my skills, and my friendships instead of being obsessed with people validating my looks and playing jester to impress a hot person.

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Creation_Soul · 2023-04-22T09:59:37+00:00

someone responded to a post I made 4 months ago. What drives a person to respond to a discussion that has been dead for 4 months?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-22T21:22:35+00:00

I still haven't gotten over the fact that it's perfectly socially acceptable to wear yoga pants but not sweats

samtheaccountant · 2023-04-22T21:42:25+00:00

PPD women out here acting like we're all here trying to get casual sex with 8+/10 women, when i'm out here trying to find a relationship with 6-7/10 women who I am compatible with and nexting woman that are too hot (8+/10)

DeshaunWalt · 2023-04-22T22:35:56+00:00

I don't what it is but in my experience it's always the women caring about having similar interests with people on first dates and in relationships

Yet simultaneously l always hear "just be yourself" from women all over the internet and real life

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-04-22T22:42:42+00:00

Yay I got another doom and gloom poster to play with!

Edit: Nvm same tired ass source material, they're boring.

2023-04-22T22:46:18+00:00

Fat shaming is acceptable

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-04-22T23:28:41+00:00

And troll meltdown achieved!! I still got it :)

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-04-22T23:55:53+00:00

Puritans are some dumb motherfuckers here

nemma88 · 2023-04-22T23:56:05+00:00

Her N count is how many times a year you have sex; what number do you choose?

HeartCatchHana · 2023-04-23T00:12:10+00:00

Children

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-23T00:16:33+00:00

The win of the day - got 150$ worth of some fancy overpriced Italian food for ~18$.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-23T02:21:02+00:00

Just saw an insta post. The girl I went to prom with and the girl I went to homecoming with just had their 4 year anniversary. Happy for them I guess.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-23T02:31:50+00:00

It’s stupid but after not having to fear the police, state, husband getting drafted, nationalists and people hating our nationality and/or religion, what I really like about moving away is food.

I’m way too food motivated.

Individual-Fan8787 · 2023-04-23T02:56:57+00:00

western male zoomers are even more desperate than western millenial zoomers. recently my in law asked to breakup with her western zoomer bf because she wanted a career, the zoomer guy basically begged her to stay with her and offered to be 'house husband'. he would also follow her everywhere she goes, afraid she will cheat on him. his behaviour is typical of the zoomers in my vicinity. i even have a zoomer neighbour who looks like a 'chad' but he follows his gf around like a dog. western millenials were in a bad state but i don't think even they will stoop as low as zoomers.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-04-23T03:57:01+00:00

I had tank winning but I was one round off, I thought he would get him in the eighth lol

500mgofShower · 2023-04-23T03:58:50+00:00

Fellas if you ever get rejected on Tinder because of your height only, send her my way please

eye_fuck · 2023-04-23T07:12:54+00:00

Q4a What do you do for a living? what your partner does?

Cat-heter_Turd · 2023-04-23T07:13:38+00:00

Q4anyone If you could say something to your younger self, what would you say?

lehibu38 · 2023-04-23T08:04:59+00:00

Flaked on last minute again, i hate dating and not being a chad.

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-04-23T08:20:56+00:00

Answering that best sex question brought back some amazing memories damn. I am now horny

relish5k · 2023-04-22T22:45:54+00:00

Chubby is fine only if you’re 10 pounds overweight. Obese is shit tier looks.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-04-22T23:15:30+00:00

my friend's friend is this dude who gets completely shitfaced from one can of white claw, he'd literally start pissing on the party floor and we had to stop his hands from pulling down his zipper

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