Daily Community Chat Megathread

MarjieJ98354 · 2023-07-30T15:46:51+00:00

Now that I'm 60 years old and have lived most of my life and been through a bout with cancer. All this pill BS is totaling meaningless to me. I've been through chads (unknowningly, but quickly learned.) I been married and divorced twice. Ultimately, I know I'm going to die alone. The only thing I should have done better in my life is focused more on education and less on hoping to find love somewhere. Love has always been for the privileged. It's mostly fake love, but at least the privileged make sure the self is taken care of before making someone else one's family. Most poor and broke people really don't have sense enough to be in relationships. Average women are in a position to provide for a family instead of being just property. Average men now have to compete with women for better paying jobs. Women these days tend to do better than men in the job market because women have been oppressed so long and acquiring their own money for most women is a life or death situation; because they know that finding the right man is a crap shoot. Back in the day, many average women could not get average men because there was an extreme shortage of men that didn't have mental issues. Many average women that did marry, back then and today, were subjected to physical and mental abuse.

Today, at least in America, the average life expectancy is mid 80s and it's actually going down because of this useless gender war. Instead of the 2 genders coming together finding a spouse and working together to create wealth; here we are at the purple pill. Average women have a right to choose whomever they want to fuck, date and married. Many will choose the wrong man, but no one can really tell her that. She needs to learn life for herself and she may be old, fat and ugly before she realizes she made a mistake. And even then she's not going to cry over the "nice guy" she turned down or never met. I guess that gives men her age, whom are also old, fat and ugly, the right to say "that's what she gets", as he gets dumped by another woman half his age after taking all his money. Average men, at least on purple pill are jonesing over the perfect 10s, yet outside of roid-out gym bros, whom are basically drug addicts and not really marriage material, average men are bypassing women in their league because they think they deserve better. Either that or they are scared of what a women might do if he were to have a relationship with her. If men are so scared of what women might do. They don't need to be with a woman. I mean you can attempt to play games with women by using them as a spinning plate, but isn't that part of the problem?!

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-30T06:49:59+00:00

It's common knowledge it's no good to be a betabuxx. But it's not much better if she's just with you for looks (not talking about ONS or flings). Your looks will fade or she will get bored of them, and if she's the shallow type to lock you down just for looks that means she is and will be looking at other goodlooking guys. Even women in relationships with chads get bored, need validation, and will flirt with other chads or even mediocre men. The same can be said for being attracted to personality.

What is that RP saying, she's not yours it's just your turn. In this modern day and age of unlimited options and unchecked empowerment it doesn't even matter if the attraction is genuine.

fuckeveryone120 · 2023-07-30T06:14:38+00:00

I dont understand this sub and all the red pills,purple pills,in fact I dont understand anything,no actually I understand this sub little bit but for the most people i dont get it,most what people talk here is goes over my head,u can say i am dumb,which I am sure,no doubt but its also not relatable to me but i am really curious if this sub and its comments,I am not always here but sometimes I check this sub,its really foreign to me,cant deny,so can anyone explain it to me?can anyone do a explain me like i am f

huhwhatokok · 2023-07-30T05:24:23+00:00

Is Johnny autism gonna win r/purplepilldebate MVP? Every time I check the subreddit he got a top post.

potoricco · 2023-07-29T15:44:59+00:00

How do I stop being jealous of 14 year olds? I was 14 during covid and I feel like that year was robbed from me frfr

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-29T16:31:59+00:00

What are men saying when they're being vulnerable that supposedly give women the ick?

In my mind, they are sharing wildly unhinged things and expecting unconditional love. There seems to be a lot of complainants about this happening, but none of these men share what it was that they disclosed.

SianOiseau · 2023-07-30T05:17:36+00:00

Do most meetups have more men than women attending them? The ration of men to women of ungendered meetups makes me want to seek women-only events which I guess only screws the ratio further.

text-redacted · 2023-07-30T05:00:00+00:00

I'm not very creative but I want my minecraft world to feel cool. Is it lame if I just use designs other people made online?

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-30T04:43:24+00:00

Anyone here was popular in high school and peeked?

Ylduts · 2023-07-30T03:52:38+00:00

If a woman engaging in casual sex is considered empowering, then I, as a man engaging in casual sex, am a feminist going around empowering women. 👊

You’re welcome ladies!

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-30T03:51:47+00:00

Ladies and gentlemen

It's time to get fucking wasted

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TheRedPillRipper · 2023-07-29T06:10:05+00:00

First!

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-29T06:22:51+00:00

Is anyone else watching And Just Like That (SATC reboot)? It’s really so so bad. I don’t know why they bothered to make this show. I didn’t watch SATC back in the day but worked in an office full of women who loved it and endlessly discussed which character they related to the most 🙄. I’ve since watched a few SATC episodes but thought they were just ok but still way better than this new show.

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-29T07:13:36+00:00

Drunk comment time. It's popular both IRL and online to hear that women are simply on average more attractive than men. A acting duo I've seen talked about a few times is Henry Cavill and Anya Chalotra on The Witcher. People love to shit on Cavill and say he's actually not that hot etc. and that the real looker is Chalotra. Take the glitz and glam off of Chalotra and she's just another kinda above average woman, as she gets points for being young, thin, probably in shape and puts in effort. You see these women literally everywhere in any remotely decent area in a good size city. How many fucking men would you have to walk past to find a guy who compares to Henry Cavill? The delusion, seriously. Assume I'm gay, idc~ If you honestly think Chalotra is better looking than Cavill and you're a woman, just admit you aren't into men.

Sensitive-Event-6935 · 2023-07-29T07:16:13+00:00

Watched the 1997 movie “My Best Friends Wedding” last night. Hadn’t seen it for years. For anyone who hasn’t seen it, it’s a total red pill movie. Woman in her late 20s learns that her male best friend is getting married to a young, beautiful and sweet 20 year old woman and decides right there and then that he’s the one and they were always meant to be together. She makes a show of herself trying to sabotage the wedding, displaying serous pick-me behaviour and tries to make her friend jealous by pretending her gay best friend is actually her tall and wealthy boyfriend. You think it’s going to be one of those rom coms where everything works out for the protagonist but she doesn’t get what she wants. Even after confessing her love her friend decides to marry the younger and prettier woman while she’s left dancing with her gay best friend at his wedding.

Basically it’s a story of a woman who friend zoned a great guy for years and only wanted him when she thought she couldn’t have him. She is left alone at the end while her man friend has his happily ever after with his beautiful new wife.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-29T07:33:28+00:00

A women's value is determined by her looks, her career, how much money she makes and her achievements don't mean anything when it comes to dating and looking for a partner.

DrainBrah · 2023-07-29T07:48:47+00:00

How am I supposed to feel bad for women in their mid 20s who "can't find a man" when all but one of my software engineer male friends earning 120k+ in their mid 20s can't find a woman? Yes, they all look the part you could say, but they're not ugly or autistic and have been good friends with me for a while. The only "getting out there" they do is dating apps which isn't good but really that's my only salient point of criticism against them.

There's gotta be tens of thousands of thousands of these guys around America who tick all the financial and career boxes, aren't horrible people yet are still single. I'm guessing it'll get better for them with age? Like even five years from now they'll be seen as more valuable? Atleast I hope so cause that's a raw deal to do everything right and just be ignored because you look and act like a software engineer.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-29T07:56:41+00:00

God is trolling me.

Why do I get gay tall well-dressed white Chads checking me out and sexually harassing me with their eyes but I'm invisible to women?

Bruh, this is the worst of both worlds. Either make me invisible to both women and gay men or have both women and gay men interested in me. Don't troll the shit out of me by making me invisible to women that I want to be noticed by while simultaneously getting sexually harassed by leering gay men that I try to avoid.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-29T07:56:46+00:00

If you don’t want to be an NPC, dress better

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-07-29T08:09:08+00:00

Q4W: If a guy who you rejected and kept him in the friend zone reacted like: “Ha, I knew that I would be friendzoned”. How would you interpret that situation in your mind? Will the image of him change in your mind? Would you talk to him if you saw him 4-5 years after that rejection?

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-07-29T08:15:48+00:00

Questions for both men and women:

If someone has a bland or no personality what can one do to improve it?
Similar but if a person is horrible at all social skills and at understanding social cues and situations, how can he improve his social skills?
Those that are out of college, how do you meet new people and new friends offline ?

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-07-29T08:17:35+00:00

How do y'all manage time? Get time for yourself and your interests? How do you not let job and studies take up most of your day?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-29T11:47:13+00:00

"Men these days don't care about wanting a virgin or low body count woman anymore."

Just because they fuck with you doesn't mean they'll take you seriously or commit to you. Men put women in two categories, fun and serious.

happy_discus · 2023-07-29T12:35:45+00:00

Went to the club alone again. This time a group of girls was laughing and pointing in my direction. Just because I was the only person dancing. I waves at them, they left after that. I am really starting to dislike women. :( The men always leave me alone.

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-29T13:07:49+00:00

Chris Stapleton is something else

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-29T13:19:10+00:00

Just had a random memory this morning. Anyone remember a radio show called Loveline? It was hosted by Dr. Drew and Adam Corolla. I remember listening to that show as a teenager as part of my pursuit to understand how to attract women. This was before PUA was mainstream and before I had reliable access to the internet so my study of how to attract women started before I even knew red pill was a thing. Also before I knew Dr. Drew was a quack lol

potoricco · 2023-07-29T13:23:03+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/0tdcr4ynnweb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1d8ad47ca1afb39d26d00ef1bf4e6976c91607ca

See like this actually makes me mad. women who have kids with men who play video games will be the death of us. Some men are meant to be single

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-29T13:44:50+00:00

I had a revelation. Two things occurred by chance yesterday that opened my eyes and allowed me to realize a certain pathology I have that I need to alter.

First is that I was listening to a podcast with Chris Williamson and Hamza. As an aside, Chris Williamson a horrible host, I think he might legitimately have autism because he cuts his guests off and changes the subject abruptly. He says things trying to sound deep, but they appeal to a very surface level understanding of philosophy. It is like he took an intro to philosophy course and has been using it to impress people around him ever since.

Also, him and Hamza were talking about how the red pill has a tendency to hate on women as a form of content where it isn't even about self improvement anymore and just about getting revenge on women but the creators who do this tend to only discuss women of low quality so it all becomes a cycle or a self fulfilling prophecy of interacting with awful women and then going "See! AWALT!"

The irony is that I know this. I'm 5'9 and have never been single. I've dated a lot. I have a partner who loves me very much. When I was doing OLD I struggled to get matches on Tinder, but I still got a few a week and I had much better success on apps where you could message without matching. A lot of these women I've dated and have been really good people too. I have definitely encountered some shitty women, but I was pretty good at avoiding them.

The other thing I encountered was a response to a TikTok where this blackpill guy was explaining how everyone is an NPC who doesn't agree with him essentially. The response video explained how this guy was doing the exact thing he claims NPCs do when confronted with information they dislike.

This made me realize that I am adversarial towards women and I am choosing negativity. The weird thing is I realize I'm doing this but do it anyways. I would see content online that women post and then, rather than just ignoring it or acknowledging they are expressing their perspective, I'd swoop in uninvited and be combative for the sake of arguing.

This cannot have positive effects on my mental health.

potoricco · 2023-07-29T14:12:42+00:00

Not to be mean but how is Pearl Davis popular? She is not smart/insightful, not attractive, not rich, (not that there’s anything wrong with that, but lets be honest, most celebrities/pundits are popular for these reasons)

I don’t know how she has an audience

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-07-29T14:39:35+00:00

Q4 older men who date 18-24 years old women.

How do you make yourself appeal to those women? Except from money and looks. What's the shortest psychological circuit to make them yours?

jobbo321 · 2023-07-29T14:44:31+00:00

Holy shit I went to IKEA to buy some stuff and it was another brutal experience.

In every couple that was either late 20s or early 30s, the guy was atleast 6". Most were around 6"1 or 6"2.

The only "short" men in relationships were ethnic. What a joyous future awaits for me!

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-29T15:00:49+00:00

And they say bald guys aren't wanted

You guys are special in some areas of the world

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-29T15:06:01+00:00

I'm honestly starting to wonder if young straight men who struggle with women AND are poor should just do gay for pay on the down low until they get their money up.

It seems to be the case that wealth, acquired as early as possible in life, for men, is the single most important thing he can accomplish to lead a happy, fun, all fulfilling life.

If a man is born poor, you are already so far behind the 8 ball, you have to approach each and every day you're alive as a battle between life or death. You have to do whatever it takes to become financially secure. Whatever it takes...

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-07-29T15:11:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/SquaredCircle/comments/15cda1v/husband_whos_a_wrestling_fan_keeps_uttering_the/

Can't make out much of her body but facially she's plain-to-cute, definitely not ugly and he kinda looks like a fat powerlifter or just a big husky boy. They seemed to be happily married. This is what I see a lot in my area(large southern city) with a lot of couples. What say you PPD?

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-07-29T15:19:23+00:00

Who are you most closest to? Boyfriend/Girlfriend and husband/wife excluded

(Serious)

Chokeman · 2023-07-29T15:25:59+00:00

One of my female friends dated a guy who donated his kidney to his ex gf. They later broke up because she cheated on him.

and there's a story about a girl who asked her bf ear cartilage grafts for her nose job.

Coming from an asian background, we're both surprised. Is it common for westerners to donate organs to someone who isn't their family yet ?

potoricco · 2023-07-29T15:29:22+00:00

My dad asked me to help him join twitter 😀😀😀😀😀

Which is great, like I think twitter will have a lot of valuable information for him because he likes politics and sports but like… my phone number is linked and I don’t want him to find my account

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-29T15:30:18+00:00

Why is everyone talking about “working hard”. Working hard has never cut it, no one has gotten rich purely on working hard. Working smart though, plenty have gotten rich doing that.

Expert-Judge9762 · 2023-07-29T15:45:20+00:00

A lot of women need to learn men's love language isn't being ignored.....

Peacesquad · 2023-07-29T15:47:19+00:00

What did I miss

GuyWhoHatesSluts · 2023-07-29T15:50:03+00:00

Reddit is the most cucked social media ever

MysterySolverDog · 2023-07-29T15:53:16+00:00

PPD asserts that out in the "real world" ugly guys are dating good looking women all the time. My lying eyes tell me differently. The statistics show most young men are single. Damn, who do I believe here?

jobbo321 · 2023-07-29T16:03:20+00:00

Gene editing will improve humanity so much. It'll solve the climate crisis because you just plant down trees that can absorb in a fuck ton of CO2. Also, assuming it's safe and advanced, short men will not exist anymore unless it's voluntarily done by the parents. You can even create high IQ kids which means that even more inventions will be done that advance humanity. Also you can get rid of all genetic disorders.

The future is looking bright. I suppose the downside is that everyone will resemble each other if every guy is a 6"3 >140 IQ with an harmonious face. But that's the future people will have to pay for a highly advanced future.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-29T16:03:34+00:00

What’s this talk about not being able to talk about N count?

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-29T16:06:06+00:00

I wonder if bisexual people are more likely to do the smash/pass test or view people as NPCs.

I'm guessing bi men are doing smash/pass and bi women are seeing NPCs but it would be interesting to do a survey.

potoricco · 2023-07-29T16:11:31+00:00

Look what the Cat (Valentine-Ariana grande) dragged in

If you don’t get this joke You’re too old to be here

Accomplished_Pie_153 · 2023-07-29T16:29:06+00:00

it's insane so many people don't believe many women out there find only 1% of men attractive based on looks. not any visceral lust, but just mere attractiveness.

the way they argue about it is like 5 stages of grief.

it's like you can see their minds being exploded in real time.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-29T16:33:32+00:00

It's rough seeing lower class young parents.

The guy is fit and looks like he was a badass that people don't mess with just a few years ago. The woman is fattie wildabeast with butter covered fingers. She's acting like a queen bee ordering him around like how she orders McD cashiers around when she is making her daily Big Mac and Mcflurry order. He's just taking the disrespect without any protest, acting all meek and following her every whim.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-07-29T16:42:22+00:00

Algo continues to drop fire

tinasnow-poty · 2023-07-29T16:46:14+00:00

The two guys I want anything to with both live abroad and it SUCKS

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-29T16:46:57+00:00

How do you all of you weirdos obsessed about money explain away people like myself and other tech nerds?

With my most recent promo and bonus to go along with it in the most recent promo cycle I am now part of the .5%

Most of my coworkers (I don't work within a regular team, all of my coworkers are very high level) are also more wealthy than I am. And of the 7 of them 4 are single and I've never heard of being in a relationship, and 3 are married to the first person that they dated and they hadn't dated beforehand.

If money really is the most important thing than this wouldn't be the case.

old_new_age · 2023-07-29T16:57:25+00:00

Anyone else have the experience dating where the conversation is either extremely dry, or they're very talkative, very responsive, seemingly engaged, but then you find out they're on 9 antipsychotics? This seems to be the only two options: uninterested or a little batshit insane. I talked to a couple of my guy friends my age and they agreed. Maybe something's wrong.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-29T17:07:20+00:00

knowing theory in chess is cheating

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-29T17:14:12+00:00

So I finally caved and made a TikTok account. Who should I follow on there?

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-29T17:27:09+00:00

Someone shared this article ill link it here : https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/

This qoute :

"Women don’t need to be in long-term relationships. They don’t need to be married. They’d rather go to brunch with friends than have a horrible date,”

Women honestly have goals, dreams and aspirations in life beyond a relationship they don't need a guy. Especially one thats going to subtract from happiness.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-29T17:32:04+00:00

Q4Women: What are you opinions on musculature created from compound lifts vs isolated lifts?

I have some small ass arms compared to other in shape people because I have never went into the gym going "Hmm today I shall do isolated bicep curls". Never even really occurred to me. I have decently wide shoulders at this point (although according to my friend they should be much wider than they are, I have not been stretching enough and stretching is what actually gives you volume instead of just getting stronger).

baiser_vole · 2023-07-29T17:38:53+00:00

Okay, got my creative director friend to help with choosing my boyfriend's hairstyle. I asked her to take a look at someone for me, she asked who, and when I said my boyfriend, she accepted right away. I love my friend.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-29T17:47:56+00:00

I've been with many girls but I've never gotten the "If you hurt her I'll hurt you" schtick from her friends, until tonight.

She pulled me in and goes "I know it's the stereotypical chubby best friend trope but if you hurt her I'll hurt you, I've got two pitbulls and a crackhead dad.

I just replied "Yeah I bet you will."

She was a nice person though, got a good vibe around her.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-29T17:50:47+00:00

I have always said that the most successful men have the most volume of attracting women

For average guys, if you approach the most then your gonna get the most success rate

If you approach 5 women and your friend only one, then your going to have 1 or 2 girls interested unlike your friend who approached one and got rejected and didn't approach again, it's really simple

Whoever gets the most volume will get the most success

jobbo321 · 2023-07-29T17:51:15+00:00

https://twitter.com/anammostarac/status/1685289925162496000?s=20

The reality of what becoming rich will do.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-29T17:57:16+00:00

Anyone else got any new topics? I see the same shite here every single damn day

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-29T18:11:05+00:00

Hearing stories about men who met a woman after catching her checking him out at a club or bar be like:

Oh boy, I can't wait to put on my best outfit, show off my new gains from working out, go to the bars/clubs and find out what type of women are checking me out! 👁️👄👁️

The narrator: None

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-29T23:47:06+00:00

I don’t understand the “in the past men slept around, but women weren’t allowed to” narrative. With whom? And for some men to not end up wifeless some would have to marry the hookup girls or there’d have to be lots of cheating. Unless there’s simply a large discrepancy in the ratio between men and women the most men can’t have it both ways.

Keeping women in chastity will by proxy keep most men in chastity since it takes two to tango.

antisplatter · 2023-07-30T02:01:47+00:00

there’s like no fat people where I live. SMV is very dependent on height.

Apparently you are living shit holes.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-30T03:51:25+00:00

When the men in here say they like thin women, does that mean they're not attracted to:

Kate Winslet Eva Mendez Salma Hayek Kate Upton Jennifer Lopez Christina Hendricks Rihanna Jennifer Love Hewitt Beyonce Sofia Vergara Kat Dennings Scarlett Johansson Ariel Winter

Fair enough if you're not attracted to them

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-30T03:43:00+00:00

Someone is trying to tell me how ChatGPT works 💀

This is going to be a funny story to tell my coworkers tomorrow. EDIT: Monday I mean lmao

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-30T03:31:57+00:00

When the men in here say they like feminine girls does that mean they're not attracted to:

Avril Lavigne Zendaya Kristen Stewart Jennifer Lawrence Cara DeLavigne Michelle Rodriguez Kehlani Rihanna Janet Jackson Alicia Keys Emily Blunt Debbie Harry Alanis Morissette Janelle Monae Drew Barrymore Mila Kunis

And characters like:

Kim Possible Lindsay Weir (Freaks and Geeks Mikaela Banes (Transformers, Megan Fox)

Fair enough if you aren't into that

saraimarsena · 2023-07-30T03:27:19+00:00

i wanna experience super slutty married sex

AbdelBoudria · 2023-07-30T03:25:59+00:00

If you're not attractive (top 20-15% of men), you should go aboard and find a virgin woman.

It's honestly not worth it to be in a relationship with someone in the West as a regular guy. The problem is the vast majority of women don't find us attractive. Most of us are or are going to be the settle-down option.

Even if you're lucky to get a girl who genuinely thinks you're good-looking. She would probably have a body count of at least 10 partners.

Do you truly think you can be the most attractive partner she had in her life?

Do you believe you can be the guy with the best dick?

Do you want to take the risk to get a divorce?

At least if you get a virgin from another country. She has no sexual baggage, so there is a high chance she would be more than happy to be with you if you're taking care of her.

Also, it's honestly not hard to know if a girl loves you, so it's easy to avoid women who only want your money and the chance of a better life.

potoricco · 2023-07-30T02:55:55+00:00

Doing planks is awesome but painful !!!

Doing a plank for 1 minute straight but the tightness afterwards is so rewarding!!!

potoricco · 2023-07-30T02:10:58+00:00

Worst thing about being a woman

Having brothers and watching them turn into monsters

My brothers are still innocent, praise god. i will try to lead them on the right path by being nice to them and making sure they’re not exposed to anti female content. Well there is only so much I can do anyways

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-30T01:36:41+00:00

https://twitter.com/sentdefender/status/1685463102941220864?s=46&t=N_GyfhMkA50MrhVWFkEM3g

The ~~Nazis~~ Russians entered this war under the rather childish delusion that they were going to bomb everybody else and nobody was going to bomb them.

Fuckers. I hope this fucking loser cries while she can because eventually, when the explosion is just a little closer, she won't be able to.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-30T01:22:31+00:00

How is it that there is not a single social situation that men are socially advantaged in?

In every social situation, women have more social value. Both men and women want to talk to women more. People are more interested in women. People are nicer and more willing to listen to women. People are more likely to try to be friends with women. People are more likely to exchange contact information and invite women to events. People are less likely to bully or make fun of women.

The worst are the bars, clubs and parties. It is made abundantly clear that men have lower social value. Men can't even get into some venues or parties without bringing women to the place. If you can get in, the place sometimes charges different cover for men or make men pay cover while letting women in for free. I don't even know how it's legal to discriminate based on gender. And when you get in, you have promoters and staff giving free drinks to the women. What about the social atmosphere? You have men treating you poorly trying to tool you to look good around women and women avoiding and being rude to you treating you like a creep for being a man.

Can't there be at least a few social situation where men have higher social value, where men aren't disadvantaged? This is a significant inequality, oppression of men, that liberals, progressives and feminists should care about.

Maractop · 2023-07-30T01:15:22+00:00

I seen a girl on here say that more attractive men are worth the risks of time and safety. So that means its not the risks that are the issue because if it was they wouldnt get brushed aside for anyone at all. Imagine thinking someone is more prone to wrong doing because they are less attractive. I already a little blackpilled but damn.

weaverofjoy · 2023-07-30T01:01:50+00:00

Q4W: Would you find it odd if your boyfriend's sister's name was the same as yours? I'm seeing a girl rn and this could become relevant soon

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-07-30T00:58:02+00:00

Every European I speak to is cringe other then the soldiers.

Which for the most part seriously are cool dudes with a sane worldview.

Having to explain to every European their taxes are subsidized by the US defense is something they can’t seem to understand.

But the soldiers basically keep saying they love the US because they know how much it keeps them stable.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-30T00:19:51+00:00

"If we know women are shallow, then why do we still pursue them"

Because l love bitches bro

SorryEm · 2023-07-29T23:38:21+00:00

My daily schedule

>Wake up

>6 notifications on tinder, none of the girls want to hook up but are curious for a normal date

>I ask them for a hookup but they all turn me down

>Refuse to shower

>Refuse to brush my teeth

>Walk to the store to get some stuff

>Pass by a million girls who would've liked me if I showered and brushed my teeth.

>Decide to approach one

>The girl immediately deduces that I'm a violent creepy sociopath who's only looking for sex

>"How does she know"? I think to myself

>A few days of gaming later where I am misogynistic to every woman online, who would've otherwise liked me if I wasn't misogynistic.

>I shower, brush my teeth then go outside again but with the intention of getting a haircut

>I approach a girl, this time with the intent of talking with her

>It turns she's detecting the fact that I don't see her as a person!

>Her pussy dries up and she runs away

Why are women like this?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-29T23:28:18+00:00

I think the only thing that'll help me at this point is mushrooms, but i simply don't have access to the stuff.

What are your experiences with shrooms?

potoricco · 2023-07-29T23:19:14+00:00

Funny how “womyn mature earlier” is never used as a reason to put womyn into more positions of power and maturity, but as a reason for old men to prey on young girls.

It’s almost as if….

DerayRevan · 2023-07-29T23:14:37+00:00

In the end

Looks,money,Game

All die once we compare it to status

Because this type of men get all the women. If Steph curry,Lebron James,Rolando,Messi,neymarDrake,Chris brown,Future etc

If they all wanted to, they would get any hot woman whenever they felt like it, plain and simple

Something all this three can't do is generate enough volume of women like status does

But with great power comes great responsibility, which is why most of this guys are married

Except neymar,Future,Drake so they clearly are aware about their status amplifier in getting chicks

Which is why l don't engage in this conversations of which is more important because status always wins at the end

potoricco · 2023-07-29T23:03:17+00:00

Is it normal that like, as school gets closer, I find myself panicking because of the wake up time

I don’t even mind school but waking up at 5 and coming home at 5 is just hell. It doesn’t matter how much I sleep. 5 AM IS TOO FUCKING EARLY!!!!!!!!!!! I naturally sleep at 11 pm - 7am

I find myself waking up at 3 or 4 or 5 pm randomly (as we normally do) and then getting anxiety cuz it’s like…. In one month ill have to be awake and energetic at this time???? Why????

meteorness123 · 2023-07-29T23:02:21+00:00

No amount of looks will fix a broken brain.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-29T23:00:35+00:00

I think a huge amount of problems in society is caused by a lack of testosterone. I actually believe this now. Every living person should be on TRT and we should target ~1200dlc

The difference in my wrestling is remarkable. Not because of my strength but because of my aggression. Back when I was low T my biggest problem was that I barely ever shot and I didn't chain wrestle. One move into the next into the next because I didn't have that aggression of "I NEED THIS TAKEDOWN OR MY LIFE IS OVER I GOTTA KILL HIM".

But now that I have that aggression my coach is watching me and trying to get me to enter some freestyle tournaments.

But it's also the same for work. I used to basically not work and instead I would just shitpost on PPD. But now I'm actually doing fucking work and when the next bonus cycle comes I'm going to be so fucking rich. It just gives you drive in every piece of your life.

it's also why I'm doing clothes, fixing up my apartment, and actually remembering and doing skincare routines. It is a life upgrade in every single possible respect, it is like a superman drug.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-29T22:25:11+00:00

It’s still funny this subreddit is filled with guys insisting “Men and women are completely different” but these guys act just like annoying ass women I’ve kicked out my social group:

Think all their dating woes are the fault of an unfair society, but not their trashy personality and trashy taste in the opposite gender.
Clearly needs professional help and refuses to get it.
Desperately wants validation. That will never not be weird to me because I stop giving a shit by middle school. So I don’t know why grown adults are still chasing validation.
Worst of all, wanting to be coddled. Theyalways wanted to be told that they are innocent victims and never wanting to be told that they can actually do something about their situation because they don’t actually want to put in the work.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-29T22:24:19+00:00

BRO I AM THE BEST FUCKING WRESTLER IN NORTH AMERICA

WHERE IS DERRICK LEWIS I WILL FUCKING SMASH HIM INTO THE DIRT

4SSh01e · 2023-07-29T22:19:31+00:00

I think the institution of marriage should be disbanded if it is so easy to violate it without any repercussions. It’s like having a 1’ tall fence.

Or at the very least don’t put up that joke of a 1’ tall fence.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-29T22:09:25+00:00

”People don’t realize how tall 6’ is”

Who are these dwarfs?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-29T21:58:23+00:00

"Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it's no mystery why men falling behind in romance"

The only areas women are outcompeting men in, is school/college which is pointless since many women will go on and pursue boring careers like fashion,nursing,teaching etc

Or many would end up in student loan and not be able to pay it back

In terms of romance, men and women aren't competing with each other since they look for different things in their partner

4SSh01e · 2023-07-29T21:49:15+00:00

I had heard guys go on and on about no fault divorces and how there is nothing in it for the men in marriages but I didn’t pay much attention to it. Today when interacting with ChatGPT I learnt that your wife could cheat on you and still take half of your shit and probably kids as well. Absolutely mind boggling. Why would you knowingly get into something in which you stand to gain so little in terms of material possessions but stand to lose a lot, again, in material possessions. Just do it the Swedish way and stay Sambo (cohabitants) for lifelong, have kids, raise kids and in case she wants to leave only your house/household assets gets divided. And if you want to get married you can get married when you are 60.

Absolutely nuts that men are choosing to marry when the laws are stacked against them.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-07-29T21:22:29+00:00

Hug your loved ones, people. Life is short and one day they won't be around for you to show how much you appreciate them.

4SSh01e · 2023-07-29T21:21:59+00:00

Why is cheating on a partner not a crime yet? Especially if you’re married because you entered in a contract and cheating is a breach of contract.

Also, someone stealing/defrauding you, or slapping/punching you can potentially get them jail time but cheating on your spouse and giving them lifelong trauma goes punished.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-29T21:16:53+00:00

went for a walk with a friend. so many fat and ugly dudes with girlfriends, its crazy.

fuckeveryone120 · 2023-07-29T21:12:30+00:00

Can I say something?will anyone listen to it?I have been reading this sub for sometime and I have a lot to say but not one reads my comments anyway,so dont know if I should or not

jobbo321 · 2023-07-29T21:07:00+00:00

Myanna Buring is so hot in the witcher. She is the most attractive 40 year old I can think of. She looks better in the series than in pics though.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-29T20:44:56+00:00

I’ve always thought that there’s a group of people best suited for us, and it’s just the matter of finding one/some of them. Even then, you need to grow to work well together.

So I didn’t feel pressure about dating or making myself attractive to men. ”Either I meet one of those right ones and they like me as I am, or I stay single”. I don’t know why I’m not able to have that same attitude towards friendships with other women, though.

HolidayWhile · 2023-07-29T20:02:32+00:00

I'm a very monotone, practical person with boring hobbies. How can I best frame accomplishments as a personality?

DerayRevan · 2023-07-29T19:49:56+00:00

Honestly l cannot laugh enough whenever l hear this Blackpill beliefs about looks

To say looks are the most factor while simultaneously believing in the concept of Hypergamy is ironic

Just saying

scwizard · 2023-07-29T19:46:22+00:00

Twox loves to talk about how maternal deaths have gone up in the US.

But don't you dare suggest it's related to being overweight and not exercising, or it's related to giving birth at more advanced ages or anything like that.

The only explanation they'll accept for an increase in maternal mortality is that men hate women and want them to die in childbirth.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-29T19:26:16+00:00

How much money would you guys say that you spend on average on food a day? Just a close approximation.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-29T18:53:02+00:00

So many of the debates here miss the emotional side of dating. The feelings, the love, the care, etc. It's all so focused on looks and lust. Never the long-term feelings in a relationship.

md8716 · 2023-07-29T18:48:13+00:00

Hot take of the day: any county in the U.S. that doesn't touch the pacific ocean is complete unlivable trash.

I'll die on this hill.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-29T18:45:49+00:00

Here is, genuinely, the worst part about not fucking/not being able to fuck.

Everyone here has seen my picture and seen me comment, so it's not a problem here anymore, everyone knows my opinions are the standard Cucked Liberal opinions when it comes to women and gender relatoins. Everyone knows I can't date because of my autism and what I look like (the toxic combination of both, if it was just one or the other I'd have a shot).

So it doesn't happen here much.

But if you say anywhere else on the internet or even in real life in liberal spaces "Yeah man I've never dated, I wish I could."

Everyone assumes you have insane far right beliefs about women. Like they will fucking GO AT you saying you don't treat women like people or that you must secretly have an Andrew Tate shrine in your room or that deep down you think women are gold digging wh*res or whatever.

It is the most painful thing even more than not getting laid is people assuming I'm right wing because of it. God I hate right wingers and for people to assume I'm one of them...For me personally it is the equivalent of calling me a rapist serial killer, in fact I'd prefer if people thought I was a rapist serial killer, as long as they don't assume I'm a fucking MAGA moron.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-29T18:32:48+00:00

I just wanted to bring up something I seent alot here from the women. Whenever there's a study or something that puts women in general in a negative light, there's a whole bunch of comments bringing up a valid list of nuance that should be brought into the debate. I think that's great and that's extremely important not to take headlines for face value. I love it, it brings alot of complexity to the conversation

On the other hand, whenever theres a study that brings generalizes men, boom thats it. There's no nuance, nothing " oh yea thats makes". Where's the nuance hats in that situation.

Whenever a man points out horrible female behavior there's women coming up with detailed explanation as to why they act the way they do, agian, I think bringing that up is important. But if a man displays horrible behavior " that makes sense, men are horrible ".

This why, and this might be a unpopular opinion, I think Lillith is probably top teir. The amount of scrutiny that she gives men is the same amount for women and she doesn't hold back punches. And she's atleast consistent. She has on multiple occasions shit on women too.

dyngladfel · 2023-07-29T18:31:13+00:00

I'm honestly so embarrassed anyone posts on this sub and its fit and fresh or a tiktok.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-07-29T18:28:07+00:00

Gen Z fashion is wack af. The broccoli hair, the charlie sheen bowling shirts, the baggy pants. I always thought I would keep up with trends, but count me out on that one. I stopped at pop punk and that is how I'm going to dress until I'm 90.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-29T18:16:17+00:00

"A woman's value is determined by her looks. Her career, how much money she makes and her achievements don't mean anything when it comes to dating"

It's not that they don't mean anything as l've said many times, we respect her achievements

But when coming to attraction it's clearly nothing

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