Daily Community Chat Megathread

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T17:59:18+00:00

Is investing time to learn writing a good idea, considering chatgpt and stuff

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-31T17:43:17+00:00

Which do you think is a better representation of how someone looks to someone else or a mirror, a photo or a mirror?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-31T17:41:58+00:00

Greed is good, its the most sincere single piece of motivation.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-31T17:38:24+00:00

I still find it fascinating that I see more women showing proof of guys being creepy than women lying about guys being creepy.

Then, again, I guess its easy to say “Women hate me because Im ugly” than to just stop sniffing their hair and learn how to be appropriate,

DerayRevan · 2023-10-31T17:32:35+00:00

19 years ago, a 17yo kid named Leo Messi made his first debut and now recognized as the greatest footballer won his 8th ballon d'or, l've said this for a long time, there will never be another one like him

Also glad to see Bellingham win the kopa Trophy, l've been saying that this guy is phenomenal, 13 goals in 13 games at 20 years old is wild and as a midfielder

But yea that was a great ceremony especially l got to see the man David Beckham

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-31T17:31:09+00:00

Lmao got a dm from some girl who wants to chat on snapchat. Didn't know those women targetted this sub too, I have seen them mostly in ForeverAlone type subs

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T17:28:32+00:00

Yeah bro, I have healthy masculinity! I like getting pegged

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-31T17:25:06+00:00

Seeing members of the LGBT community simp for Hamas is quite ironic, bro

Peacesquad · 2023-10-31T17:24:14+00:00

Bruh women don’t live in reality. My feelings are always valid! Manifest a man! IM A QUEEN YEA GRRRRLLLLL

Peacesquad · 2023-10-31T17:19:50+00:00

Who’s fertile today? What did I miss?

kmkpasi3_ · 2023-10-31T17:10:09+00:00

I wish men (especially AA men) did a better job of de-escalating situations. Buddy wanted to play tough guy instead of calming the situation with kids around and got he and his son killed

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-31T17:05:27+00:00

The healthy masculinity guide (LOL) ->

https://www.dove.com/us/en/men-care/about/healthy-masculinity-guide.html

Its garbage advice like this, that gets men red pilled

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-31T17:03:24+00:00

Why don't women ever argue with each other on this sub or anywhere online? Seriously, all the time men with varying worldviews and experiences are at each other's throats here and everywhere. I know women aren't a hivemind, so where are the women arguing with each other at? Do women with differing opinions just not confront each other at all if they feel like they lack a legion of similar minded women standing behind them?

I'll save you the smartass useless replies certain users will make (you know who you are, we all know who you are): they're at halloween parties, touching grass, getting dicked down by Chad, etc.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-31T16:53:48+00:00

The entire post is just one big lie -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17kgpou/i_am_so_tired_of_men_saying_they_would_get_more/

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-31T16:49:16+00:00

Q4W: what is the equivalent male power play to this video

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-31T16:41:01+00:00

I’ve seen People be legit shocked/mad when they found out those in the entertainment industry are not friends with their co stars in real life. “What do you mean you and the guy you worked with on a sitcom 20 years ago aren’t best buds? How is that possible?”

The same way you and Mike from Wendy’s in high school don’t keep in touch

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-31T16:37:57+00:00

What gives feminism it's legitimacy? Like the feminist literature just uses academic speak. It is insanely pretentious, but somehow received popular support.

I saw this post on TwoX about men adopting leftist/feminist sounding rhetoric to talk about their issues and legitimatize them. I could probably find the post if I did some digging, and it's like women refuse to accept the male experience.

Like, I was thinking about this, right. You have the male gaze. Today is halloween, thousands of women will be dressing up provocatively. There will be discourse about how women are "doing it for themselves" and how "this isn't to satisfy the male gaze" but the thing is, what about the rejection men experience based on the simple existence of these women? You know, you see these women walking around so free and sexually liberated, but you as a man will never get to experience that level of liberation. As a man you will always be competing in the sexual marketplace. You can't just dress up in the equivalent of a sexy witch costume and shake your ass and know that the dozens of men around you are affirming your sexual appeal by virtue of their presence. As a man you have to fight tooth and nail to garner any sexual appeal at all, and even then any sexual appeal you have is precarious. Right, so if men were to write some damn Bell Hooks style rant about this and use SAT words it would be dismissed as manosphere drivel.

scwizard · 2023-10-31T16:28:04+00:00

My spouse and I unmarried but together 9 years (35M 36f) have had a rough year, well rough 2 years

He said he was going to go up to Ohio every other weekend to pick up furniture his friend finds and sell it here.

He yelled at me saying FINE but he was going to Ohio next week again to hang out with his friends and watch their band play. Some background about his friends, they hate me and think I’m terrible to him.

This past Friday he tells me once again he was going out of town to do a walkthrough for his own business in Indiana but would be back that night. He texts me updates all day talking about the job. 5 pm he informs me he’s just going to stay the night at a hotel.

He makes it home the next day way later than expected. He’s incredibly cold to me and distant. He just starts frantically working on the house. I talk to him while he works things seemed okay. Until he started telling me he will always love me and support me. Which starts a fight of me probing him about what that means. He blurts out it’s over we aren’t together anymore. I’m bawling begging him to reconsider and to not break up his family like this. This is where things turn ugly, he tells me he’s in love with another woman and has been for 2 years. That he has never loved me romantically and that he’s finally happy it's over. At this point I’m hysterical, he just laughs at me and tells me I’m gross for crying.

Please ladies protect yourself don’t become a housewife before he marries you or maintain your own career even if childcare eats up your entire paycheck. I’m really at a loss on what to to do.

How did she pick wrong? Seemed he was fine for 7 years.

kmkpasi3_ · 2023-10-31T16:26:42+00:00

How do my ethnic men on this sub do with women outside of their race? (Dates, relationships, casual sex)

y2kjanelle · 2023-10-31T16:20:43+00:00

Some man posted that a child trafficking victim should basically be grateful because if a man was that victim and then went on to live life, he would have it harder going back and dating💀

I never want to hear about women not having empathy again. Fuck that and fuck those men who would even think of saying that. She got trafficked as a fucking child.

Earlier this week, some guy ridiculed a woman with an eating disorder (he literally read her post that was ABOUT her eating disorder and how her relationship impacts that and claimed he “didn’t see that part” fucking lying ass) and called her horrible things.

Men on here have posted that women who are literal rape victims need to “stop hanging w bad men”, that we need to be mind readers, that we shouldn’t ever walk home alone or basically feel safe ever.

Yet if we don’t feel safe around men ever, men have written posts about how we exaggerate too much. That we shouldn’t be scared or take precautions because yk, not all men right? But if a man does something bad to us, we should’ve known right?

Men might hate women’s advice because they don’t understand it at all and don’t understand women, but at least we give clarity on how to act.

I am absolutely baffled that men would even DARE to ask for any sliver of empathy after the horrid shit they say. Y’all ask for empathy because a guy can’t get laid easily but a child trafficking victim is too much for a man to feel empathy for?

Disgusting. Repulsive. Abhorrent.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-10-31T16:15:58+00:00

Why do I match with 7s and 8s when I'm out of town but struggle to match with 4s and 5s in my city lol

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-31T16:01:17+00:00

My friend started crying over the situation in Palestine. He's a very empathetic person and honestly extremely soft for better or worse. It's good that he cares but it's always some new issue he feels bad about. Dude you have real life problems you ignore but spend so much mental energy over situations you can't control and constantly watch and read things that upset you. Maybe don't fill your head with images of dead kids all day then wonder why you feel like shit? I think all that stuff sucks too but like...then I move on.

scwizard · 2023-10-31T15:52:18+00:00

God, the forces of the universe, the powers that be, whatever higher power you believe in… It sees us all as we are. Sexual depravity and all. It just wants us to do the best we can to be good.

I don’t believe anything is morally wrong unless it harms other people… and of course, I don’t go to church to run my mouth about what I did the night before, either. It’s a time for introspection, connection, and community outreach.

So she's saying she will go to a swinger party on Saturday, then wake up and go to church on Sunday.

Damn... I feel like such a virgin.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-31T15:44:43+00:00

In the beloved children's movie Mary Poppins the children's mother says, "And although we adore men individually, we agree that as a group they're rather stupid."

If this quote were said by a man and directed at women, the movie would surely be cancelled.

Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2023-10-31T15:22:32+00:00

PPD used to be a fun place to have discussions, now it’s all whining and playing the blame game.

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T15:05:11+00:00

Holy shitttt ppd men are annoying

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-10-31T15:04:47+00:00

Why do men send the downvote brigade when I say that you shouldn’t dox and try to get a cheating ex fired from their job? I’m more wary of having a coworker who tried to get tiktok to fire his cheating ex from his job over working with a cheating ex.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-31T15:04:18+00:00

Please teach your children to never care about social shame or social rules. School loves forcing kids into social submission by threat of repurcussions. I guarantee that the more you teach your kids the opposite - especially if they're boys - the better they'll do in life.

For nearly every male animal, life is all about social dominance over others. School half ass tries to stop that and fails.

And before a low IQ NPC now responds with: "Brah you want to teach children to throw poop hehehehe so funny!", you missed the point.

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T14:59:34+00:00

Imagine joining a soroity youre literally paying to have friends

Spontaneoustu · 2023-10-31T14:59:22+00:00

I’ve been insanely sexually frustrated lately out of nowhere and it’s been driving me crazy. I’m actually considering doing someone stupid like downloading dating apps again but i probably should just buy a vibrator

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T14:59:05+00:00

I cant wait to be 19 so i can go to college halloween parties and dress up

Justwannaread3 · 2023-10-31T14:43:52+00:00

Any man who says that women don’t usually love their partners is honestly just telling on himself

Ohmaygahh · 2023-10-31T14:40:26+00:00

Trick or treat suckers. I woke up this morning wanting to do more of a treat post after seeing so many ugly post titles with awful comments on PPD that I wanted to shift gears today a bit.

Women have over complicated and obfuscated the conversation of attraction, sex, and love. I'm loving the refocus of nailing down what behavior, or pattern of behavior, definitely signal a woman's romantic/sexual interest in a man. Too many times guys have confused smiling, flirting, light touch, and hanging out as indicators of said interest so:

Q4A, which behaviors are basically flashing neon green light that a woman is sexually/romantically interested in you?

I'll start: 1. When a woman brings you specific food. Reflecting back, many of my serious gfs started by giving me food they heard me talk about that I loved. The food could be bought or homemade. One fun example was a girl who randomly brought me a cheesecake. But it wasn't a plain or strawberry cheesecake that I ranted a month before about being terrible, she got me the one I adored, a michigan wild blueberry ricotta cheesecake. Threw me for a surprise until I realized we had talked about it weeks before.

2) A woman unexpectedly shows up at your workplace, around the end of your shift. Everytime this has happened, a woman has wanted to fuck. Without fail, 100% green light.

What are some signals YOU have witnessed be a complete green light guys?

itzReborn · 2023-10-31T14:31:01+00:00

Regarding that quiet men thread, what exactly do y’all mean by proper communication skills(I’ve seen this comment a few times)

Like me for example I always been quiet(part due to social anxiety and part due to that’s just my personality). I have no relationship experience because surprise…I don’t really talk to people.

But does that mean my communication skills are bad? Like if someone started a conversation with me I’d say I can carry myself well(asking following up questions, actively listening,etc). But I don’t go out of my way to start and carry conversations.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-31T14:21:03+00:00

Q4W: how do you feel if a man was to say this, "And although we adore women individually, we agree that as a group they're rather stupid."

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-31T14:17:42+00:00

Considering looking back into gun club memberships. Sport shooting sounds fun, anyone here have experience with it?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-31T13:54:33+00:00

I got my partner a Boo Basket. A cauldron with green fluff and plastic spiders, a Hello Kitty coloring book, a couple hand sanitizers from Bath and Body Works, a pirate dog plushy, and some candy.

Am I going to get broken up with for not negging her and not acting disinterested?

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T13:34:06+00:00

Traditional women don't have sex with 300 men. What a ridiculous idea

GrassToucher29 · 2023-10-31T13:29:03+00:00

I’ve decided to paint my face up like a zombie and go limp around and lift really slowly at the gym. Hopefully I don’t scare any little kids

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-31T13:28:42+00:00

Age gaps seem cool and all, and I'll admit I wouldn't be opposed to one in theory, but not being able to bond over the same nostalgia and childhood experiences would feel lonely and isolating.

For example, my partner and I often talk about what childhood shows and movies we watched. References from Spongebob, The fact I never liked Rugrats and it was her favorite show, how comforting Arthur was, me quoting Drake and Josh, etc.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-31T13:24:52+00:00

Don’t expect empathy/sympathy. If you don’t extend that to everyone else.

I would think that’s common sense whenever a bunch of whiny ass people want to demand people coddle them. However, I realize people with a victim complex might also be narcissists.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-31T13:20:39+00:00

I know bonesmashing works. Because I was fighting someone back in highschool and the skull over my eye slammed the wall and now the bone in that area is significantly more protruding than my other side. Bell's palsy midway through uni didn't help my facial symmetry either. I now have resting retard face

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-31T13:19:06+00:00

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Do u still like me yes or no

happy_discus · 2023-10-31T13:16:50+00:00

Every lillith comment ever:

Men bad.

Please seek help. This can't be healthy, therapy has helped me a bit, it can help you too. And please for your own sanity stay away from this place. Your comments have gotten worse in the last few months. I am seriously concerned.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-31T12:56:17+00:00

what's the reasoning for boys highschool and below being menaces and assholes? ofc not all guys were shitheads when they were younger but enough were that our men's bathrooms were locked up during class periods in middle school. also making fun of anyone in their vicinity.

it was kinda jarring to find this sub fresh out of highschool to see men complaining about no pussy and high standards when my impression was that men dgaf about women's opinion of them anyway

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-31T12:43:25+00:00

To the people, my fiance, doctors, surgeons etc who have saved my life: FUCK YOU. YOU SHOULD HAVE LET ME DIE. STHRHJFTJKKGRGJJFDTHNBDES

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-10-31T12:39:21+00:00

I think Cougar/Cub relationships are largely a media construct and rarely happens in real life. This isn't because both younger and older men are safocating young women with their romantic efforts, but because older women are simply wiser and more intelligent than young men. Apart from vague rumors or seeing it in Hollywood, I have never once seen an older woman get attracted to a younger guy....

purplish_possum · 2023-10-31T12:03:12+00:00

Seems the sexualization of Halloween is nothing new.

https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/95104e227d159c0a8d560d87655ea75aa3d2cf41/0_0_4200_5303/master/4200.jpg?width=620&dpr=2&s=none

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-10-31T11:53:25+00:00

This man used the phrase “ineffable limerence” to describe himself twice and I wonder if he knows what either of those words means.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-10-31T11:30:08+00:00

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How does someone get to the point where they think like this?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-31T11:25:39+00:00

Short men commit significantly more suicide than tall men

Women prefer a height difference of 8 inches

Short women are more heightqueenist than average and tall women

Women are attracted to dark triad personalities

Oh boy! Alot to unpack!

So instead worrying about men being depressed to the point of wanting suicide, just only focus on the short ones?! This is just like SJWs only showing concern for POCs and LGBTQIA while ignoring straight white men who suffer.

Most men get laid, so clearly women’s preferences arent requirements. What happened to “watch what they do, not what they say”?

Simple solution: Avoid height queens. I would say “Who cares”, but I notice Stacies are disproportionately height queens, so I understand why guys care.

Correlation does not equal causation. Also, the dark triad doesn’t work when the guy is socially inept and/or unattractive.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-31T10:44:59+00:00

I’m so glad I built my own gym in my house, i procrastinated for 2 years because I was lazy, didn’t want to spend the money and I had a relatively nice gym 18 mins from my house but then COVID happened my state was briefly locked down and I was like nah. The thing is you don’t need EVERY machine and you can take your time. Even before COVID there was things I didn’t like. For example the dude who hogs 3 machines at once, the guy who tries to give unsolicited advice, waiting for certain machines, and generally people with poor hygiene using the same stuff

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-31T10:41:51+00:00

There are guys who go through these random hot streaks with women, like they’ll smash 6 girls in a month, go to the club every weekend and take home a chick, and then think

“I’ve finally got this, I’ve solved the riddle”

Then go another year without getting any lol. You just had a lucky month. It’s like in baseball that guy who is a career .180 hitter who has the hot July where he hits 440 only to go back to being terrible like he always was

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-31T10:13:48+00:00

Now the real Halloween is taking my daughter trick or treating. Still trying to regain my voice from the weekend. It feels good to have it both ways. Go out partying for the weekend and still have the energy to take your kids out. Honestly, I really feel bad for those who are missing out on Halloween.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-10-31T09:26:01+00:00

Giving them the benefit of the doubt, I have to imagine a lot of women's reluctance to discuss big picture gender balance in the SMP stems from some hidden priors. Either they assume that left unchecked, female selectivity will still never exclude so many men as to disrupt society. Or they do feel that eventually women will become highly selective, but that men can't handle the full truth all at once and need to be slowly worked up to accepting that reality.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-31T09:03:42+00:00

Just read the story of a black dude who met his wife 15 years ago on a camgirl website. She doesn't do sex work full time anymore, but she's still a pro domme part time. They have a daughter together. Had been a while since I read a crazy story like this on reddit.

Gladboys · 2023-10-31T08:40:42+00:00

https://youtu.be/cSPfeTwl8Kw

celebrating what would be my friend Michael's 25th birthday today by listening to his favorite songs, sorry I couldn't be there for you.

please take the time to keep up with your friends and family member's well being, and enjoy the time you have with them. it's never too late until it is.

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T08:31:47+00:00

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monster_lily · 2023-11-01T00:18:56+00:00

soooo cringe look what my brother is posting this guy hasnt watched a single episode of friends in his whoole life bro im dead 💀

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yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-10-31T00:01:36+00:00

First :)

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-31T00:01:44+00:00

mike-sonko · 2023-10-31T00:12:41+00:00

My African Leather Memo Paris Eau De Parfum arrived this weekend. I've received a bunch of compliments already. Pricey but worth it.

mike-sonko · 2023-10-31T00:15:51+00:00

Francis Ngannou won the fight but the boxing powers-that-be wouldn't let him have the W because it would be bad for business. "First time boxer clinches heavyweight title from legendary heavyweight Tyson Fury" is not a palatable headline.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-31T00:24:44+00:00

Doesn't complaining about a problem, yet doing nothing about it eventually get old?

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T00:44:42+00:00

I love christmas soooo much like i just listened to all i want for christmas and i started smiling

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T00:46:27+00:00

Bruh I wish i lived in canada or maine or something literally any place that gets snow regularly, i love snow i literally would still play in snow, the last time it like SNOWED here as in the snow was more than a few inches deep was maybe 3 ish years ago?? But thanks to global warming

mike-sonko · 2023-10-31T00:50:17+00:00

I can attribute my dating success to the following:

6'4" height
Athletic Physique
Education
Earnings
Cultured: Speak multiple languages , well traveled ,can cook food from various cultures.

#1 and #2 worked in my favor the most. Even as a broke college student they got me in the proverbial door to be able to show my personality and land relationships.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-31T00:50:45+00:00

https://twitter.com/markusshussle/status/1718665761747538319

Don't post your dirty laundry on the internet but stuff like this always reinforces my belief "She has most likely fucked a guy uglier than you"

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-31T00:53:09+00:00

Jimmy Garoppolo spent all his statpoints on his face.

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T00:58:30+00:00

I regret taking ap spanish. Its not even hard its just too much work

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T01:05:56+00:00

Ngl its kind of like a stab to the chest to realize youre not special like today i went to my former teachers classroom for a study hall, he was my favorite teacher from last year but when i saw him teaching the same stuff we did last year but with different students it kinda hurt like damn you would really just move on like that

mike-sonko · 2023-10-31T01:09:32+00:00

Even though I'm redpill I do empathize with women struggles. I met up with a good friend of mine today and she told me how she was walking downtown but there was a random guy following her for about 10 blocks so she took cover in a store and the store's security fended the weirdo off. This is not a new story, another friend told me about a similar experience and this was in a different country! Fucked up...

meteorness123 · 2023-10-31T01:16:32+00:00

Top 5 h2h boxers :

Ali
Vitali Klitschko
Lennox Lewis
Wladimir Klitschko
George Foreman

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T01:17:31+00:00

Is it possible for a male to realize they like you or is it 100% based on first impression

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-10-31T01:20:08+00:00

I'm back from exile

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-31T01:25:36+00:00

I be seeing all these horror stories of Americans who get arrested and detained in Dubai

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-31T01:30:48+00:00

I used to read r/unpopularopinion and r/TrueUnpopularOpinion before I found this sub and to my delight I see threads from here cross-posted over there. I'm like "the crossover I didn't know I needed" except instead of goku vs godzilla it's the same shit that gets posted here all the time. It's like, "oh, okay".

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T01:35:47+00:00

Would it seem like im insecure if i used a robot voice instead of my real voice for an assignment? Im not insecure but for ap spanish we have to do this thing called conversacion its so cringen so so cringe but like nobody wants to hear their own voice recordings especially in front of like 14 other people on speak probably

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-31T01:39:50+00:00

I wonder what percentage of people who commit revenge porn actually get arrested or do time.

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T01:47:56+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcGXCJm3XMA

Bruh why does apple keep bringing this same guy every time they announce a new iphone

meteorness123 · 2023-10-31T02:05:40+00:00

Partying is kind of pointless

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-31T02:10:05+00:00

I’m probably losing my virginity within the hour and I’m terrified. The hot Kiwi is currently in the shower and I’m laying in my bed. My heart is pounding. He went to the grocery store before coming over and set the bag on my nightstand. I took a peek inside and it’s just a big box of condoms, lube, and a Gatorade. I almost threw up I’m so nervous.

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T02:27:47+00:00

If you want your teeth to be WHITE white you need baking soda

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T02:28:06+00:00

Yellow ahh phone case = Opinion discarded

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T02:31:32+00:00

GIMME

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GrassToucher29 · 2023-10-31T02:37:52+00:00

Sometimes I can’t believe I’m existing in the same world as some of the posters here, that’s how different my experiences and perceptions of it are from theirs.

I seem to want sex just as much as men do, and men seemed to want relationships just as much as most women do. My history was never a problem in securing LTRs. Pumping and dumping is an entirely foreign concept to me. People’s preferences (physical, circumstantial, and personality wise) seem to vary wildly. OLD has yielded both wonderful and shitty dates as well as all the casual sex I could ask for… and everything is fine.

What the hell are you people doing??

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-10-31T02:41:20+00:00

There’s a new trend of women putting on their dating profiles “I don’t want to go on a hike” or “I don’t want to get coffee.” Still a good number of “I don’t want to go over to your house for date 1.” Seems like guys are catching on and pitching low effort dates after getting rinsed so many times on dinner/drinks dates.

Funny enough if women weren’t cheapskates and were willing to split the date or alternate who pays (she can always plan something cheap and pay for that), then guys would make an effort. I used to do dinner dates at cool restaurants back in 2019 but stopped because I got fleeced one too many times and I can get sex just going for happy hour

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-31T02:42:47+00:00

The two most important roles in any given social dynamic: the crazy high energy one who says dumb shit, and the beleaguered "sane" one who always looks like they have a migraine or might be constipated. I see this dynamic play out on here and it's... delectable

Onitsukaryu · 2023-10-31T03:18:59+00:00

Is “voicecel” accurate? Someone linked it here so I tried it out of curiosity, and it says I have a “Chad” voice, which I find skeptical as my voice is more nasally.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-31T03:36:09+00:00

The gifts of imperfection by Brene Brown is a decent book

old_new_age · 2023-10-31T04:01:12+00:00

in a drug house rn, all the guys that live here have hot gf's but there's trash everywhere and nobody has a bed frame, mmm yes I believe reddit lied to me yes

scwizard · 2023-10-31T04:08:49+00:00

I got chlamydia from my “date” who removed the condom without my consent…

Why is "date" in quotes?

i am DONE with men for a LONG TIME! so sad because im only 22😭 has anyone had a similar experience? i feel so LIED to. he told me he hadn’t seen any other girl for 9 months.

Why does it need to either be sex on a first "date" or "done with men" what ever happened to the in-between part where you keep having relations with men but just take a less risky approach?

scwizard · 2023-10-31T04:24:03+00:00

Why is there so much porn about women being brutalised?

Because a lot of men hate women and love seeing them in pain. And that's it.

What's to blame for this? Is it men's nature? Is it how they were raised? Is it the society we live in?

It feels like there's some circular logic here. Men watch violent porn because they hate women. And men hate women because they're exposed to violent porn. A sort of chicken and the egg going on.

I guess the answer is to ban violent porn. Do you support banning violent porn?

Specialist-Olive7828 · 2023-10-31T04:52:05+00:00

Y'all don't know about the Kodiak Chad.

scwizard · 2023-10-31T04:55:06+00:00

My mom really wants me to go to my grandma, her mother in law's funeral for her sake.

I really really don't want to, it overlaps with a conference I was planning on going to. Is it better to go even though I will be pretending to be there willingly and pretending to care about my mom's dumb feelings. Or to instead visit a week from now when I'd actually want to go and actually care about my mom's feelings?

Seems growing a heart such that I'm empathetic enough to actually want to drop everything and book a flight for day after tomorrow and cancel all my plans is not an option. And I just feel like shit cause I'm pretty sure this is how fascism happened guys like me not having the feelings they're supposed to have.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-31T05:15:58+00:00

Today is social hang out with gen z people for me, a rarity. Our weed supplier and his gf (who does my lashes) come over about once a month. They are the sweetest young couple. His dad is around our age and an American passport bro from a way back when.

scwizard · 2023-10-31T05:16:16+00:00

Why do men even exist like what's the point again?

IceC19 · 2023-10-31T05:30:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/d90NYOkz80

Why did this girl still wanted and pushed for marriage with a guy she doesn't want to fuck?

scwizard · 2023-10-31T05:51:48+00:00

Are you on birth control? When I was on hormonal bc I’d go months without thinking about sex or getting horny. Now that I’m off it I masturbate nearly daily. Hormones effect that soooooooo much

With over the counter birth control coming into effect pretty soon, people will be having even less sex.

scwizard · 2023-10-31T05:57:19+00:00

Wow that's a ridiculous amount of male rage that reached the front page.

https://old.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/17k7l9z/its_impossible_to_date_nowadays/

Kinda shocked. It's like in excess is PPDs normal "woman bad" saltiness levels except it's on the front page with 9001 upvotes.

NICHIJOU2411 · 2023-10-31T06:15:39+00:00

Some women and men on this sub are on the same level as the men they mock and ridicule.

Ainsleygz · 2023-10-31T18:09:43+00:00

Happy Halloweenie

DerayRevan · 2023-10-31T18:11:09+00:00

A lot of guys can improve their social skills by not getting a social circle but taking over an interaction with a woman in a romantic/sexual context

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T18:16:24+00:00

Has Gillette published a healthy masculinity guide yet?

kmkpasi3_ · 2023-10-31T18:20:29+00:00

The biggest coddling and cope society gives to women is by far the fat acceptance

You have women severely overweight, labeling themselves as “thick”

We have normalized obesity so much in america mostly to appease women. Its why I laugh when theres talk on here about how much women have to do to reach beauty standards

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-31T18:24:36+00:00

One of the best things about being in a relationship is that I have a permission to admire someone anytime I want and it’s not too intense.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-31T18:34:57+00:00

Why is RP is synonymous with incels? BP incels exist (AHEM ROB[certain streaming site]). They just aren't as vocal and problematic to the status quo. My virgin friends are pretty close to an even split of BP-leaning and RP-leaning.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-10-31T18:38:51+00:00

If you’re struggling to find the kind of partner you want, it’s not that your standards are too high. It’s that you haven’t made yourself valuable enough to someone who meets your standards (yet).

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-31T18:47:19+00:00

Someone finally gave me the evidence I was looking for: Attention whoring gym girls making false claims about guys being creepy.

Keep in mind, they don't do it because the guys are ugly. They do it because they want to feel like victims.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-31T19:00:48+00:00

"TRP only started 10 years ago"

People have been talking about TRP since 2002 on internet forums, they used to call it "unplugging" which was a reference to the matrix movie

In fact pickup communities have been around from the 90s to the mid 2000s

Zabadoodude · 2023-10-31T19:06:45+00:00

People that complain that there are no good women or men out there are just telling on themselves. The good ones are out there, they just don't want anything to do with you.

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T19:08:57+00:00

This is what it feels like to be gods favorite

Glitched vending machine gave me 2 sour patches for the price of 1

https://preview.redd.it/fkn073s47lxb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3c6ecc792f6ec48d7a8af07885b838dc7c116448

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-10-31T19:10:30+00:00

I don’t want a girlfriend so I can have sex. I don’t want a girlfriend to look in the eyes and kiss. I don’t want a girlfriend so I can cook for her. I don’t want a girlfriend to sing for me. I don’t want a girlfriend to steal my hoodies, exchange words of affection, or for validation that I’m finally good enough to be loved. No. I want a girlfriend so when I go to sleep at night I can dream of a happy tomorrow.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T19:10:47+00:00

Ozempic is going to end thin privilege. Thins people shouldn't have bullied fat people

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-10-31T19:20:24+00:00

She went from a 5 to an 8 and she’s going to be wondering why all the chads won’t cuff her long term. She’ll never accept that her market is mid dudes

Same genes as a dude gets mid pussy

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-31T19:38:08+00:00

Men who are feminist allies are pathetic betas. Also imagine a man asking man hating women on how to behave like a man -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/17jlwzx/how_to_show_feminism_as_a_man_without_being/

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-31T19:48:52+00:00

I will always laugh at the fact that guys here swear up and down I hate men WITHOUT EVIDENCE but conveniently never notice when I talk shit about women.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-31T19:56:04+00:00

What is even boring to a guy ?

Like l keep seeing this questions asked towards men saying if they would date a boring girl, what actually qualifies a "boring" girl ?

Because guys are simple, they literally think throwing rocks is fun or playing with sticks

So this question always makes me curious of what the girl lacks that me think she's boring

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-31T19:56:36+00:00

If you feel depressed, go to the gym - Andrew Tate

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-31T20:01:26+00:00

What incentive someone who belongs to a negatively stereotyped group like men has to behave well or he's still going to be judged by the stereotype?

ppd men discovering stereotypes and beauty standards in 2023 it's fascinating

guys, different social movements have been talking about this for decades

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T20:07:44+00:00

Im currently at another school and i just have to ask why every other school has fine ahhh boys except mine

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T20:07:55+00:00

I love boys with braids in their hair

monster_lily · 2023-10-31T20:12:26+00:00

I hate myselfff for being so nice because i jusr gave a girl $5 and she said shed pay me back tomorrow and im not even THAT good of friends with herr like that

DerayRevan · 2023-10-31T20:14:16+00:00

"My partner is not responsible for entertaining me or making my life fun — that’s my responsibility"

Ladies take notes

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T20:18:26+00:00

How could I maximize my life excitement per unit of time and money

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-31T20:19:49+00:00

TIL that there are people who would leave me because I paint, lol. Which is fine but wtf.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-31T20:23:38+00:00

Another big reason a lot of guys struggle and nothing can help them: They hear/read what they want to and zone out everything don't.

Reasons for theory:

Most of them will claim women told them being nice would get them pussy, with no evidence. Now the ones with the abusive family members, my heart goes out to you, but your creepy perverted members of your family doesn't equal most women not society.
Guys here will be thinking I hate men, can't find evidence, but conveniently never sees when I criticize women.

Do I think most men ignore women they find boring and unattractive? No. Do I think there’s a group of men who do because they're too busy wanting to fuck Stacy? YES!

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T20:38:46+00:00

Why dont women support socially enforced monogamy? Like you are more pro-monogamy than men already.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-31T20:41:40+00:00

Loyalty is a warrior’s trait. Women are not warriors

sine120 · 2023-10-31T20:51:56+00:00

I think about that Futurama episode with the femputer far too often, the "Death by snu snu" one. I think that's the earliest clear cut example of femcels I can think of in the media. It came out all the way back in 2001.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-31T20:55:01+00:00

Bro, the relationship between feminist men and ED -->

https://www.psypost.org/2022/04/men-who-identify-as-feminists-more-than-twice-as-likely-to-use-erectile-dysfunction-medication-study-finds-63045

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T21:02:06+00:00

Under theoretically ideal enforced monogamy which I support and it's enforcement done by robot law enforcers, Chads would get executed of they cheated

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-31T21:18:22+00:00

Whos participating in No Nut November this year?

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-31T21:21:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/gallery/17kr7tx

My seven best girlfriends and I have dressed up as a famous actor for Halloween for over a decade!

PPD Men without a single friend: Don't look...

saulbasedman · 2023-10-31T21:22:50+00:00

Got a Tinder match that's moderately interested in me. Chad checking out. See ya losers later.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-10-31T21:26:28+00:00

Big-Luck5319 keeps saying gay in a derogatory way. Big-Luck5319 is homophobic

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-31T21:28:01+00:00

firstworldproblem: I never know what to ask for Christmas

dbz__f · 2023-10-31T21:28:25+00:00

World events are so depressing. It feels so unreal and fake going about your day, laughing, smiling, while you know thousands of children are being killed this second. I don’t know how you can live normally and not think about that

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T21:32:38+00:00

Is hating astrology misogynistic

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-31T21:40:44+00:00

I hate that most of stable diffusion models have a pretty woman on the cover

I feel that AI will raise beauty standards for people who don't go outside

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-10-31T22:09:01+00:00

I think a big problem with the internet is bot comments, and many people aren't aware of bot comments.

Young people are being peer pressured by bot comments. A young guy reads a bunch of bot comments and he assumes those comments are written by real people. He starts to agree with those comments because he wants to fit in.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-31T22:12:25+00:00

But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-31T22:12:40+00:00

I am looking at the names of people who used to use my work email address (it shows you when you click on the old emails what the name was set as in the past) and coming to the kind of sinking realization that there were 4 people in the last 2-2.5 years. Welp.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-31T22:25:14+00:00

why do u guys mald over lillithposting all she does is uno-reverse generic rp talking points and y'all think she lost her mind or something

what am I not seeing. what phrase triggered the misandry dog whistle I can't hear

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-31T22:36:02+00:00

I think people with a monogamous agreement (Aka marriage in most cases) should be able to sue if they get cheated on

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-31T22:43:29+00:00

If watching porn by guys is cheating, then using sex toys by women is cheating too

ratboi34 · 2023-10-31T22:46:07+00:00

I was thinking about the best countries to go to once I seamaxx when I'm balding in my prime at 50 and Venezuela and Colombia win by far in terms of physique. According to some data they got really big tits on average (D) and at the same time the best hip to waist ratio, with an obesity prevelance of 26%, which is pretty good compared to the US. Now I wonder about the average facial attractiveness. Do you guys think it's good over there. I feel like Eastern Europian women mog everybody in that category, but are South American women prettier that western women. Another good thing is that the average age gaps are larger over there, so you can really high value malemaxx.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-31T22:51:48+00:00

If you think about it, a woman can be described as an incomplete and imperfect man, hence woman. A lesser man. I'm not making an own claim here but etymology teaches us about a lot about the state of being.

EulenWatcher · 2023-10-31T22:54:06+00:00

I have an upset stomach and have been nauseous today. So we’re gonna watch some horror movies and I’ll snack on everything that husband has brought to me (mostly baby food) drinking mint-camomile-ginger tea which is absolutely disgusting lol.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-31T23:16:36+00:00

“LILITH HATES MEN!”

Me: For example?

Comes up with excuses to why examples will not be given.

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-01T00:15:45+00:00

Is my coworker hitting on me? He asked me if I could see myself being a mother one day after giving candy to some kids trick or treating and talks to me more than my other coworkers (I’m new)

monster_lily · 2023-11-01T00:17:23+00:00

Everybody think you shy but i know you a freak lil baby

https://preview.redd.it/ifmqmfh4qmxb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e972f35754af322150d721bcedbd6271add20967

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-01T00:39:44+00:00

Finished up my tweakment package at the aesthetic clinic. The Dr. talked me into the smallest amount of lip filler “to restore fullness” as the cherry on top of a treatment-filled sundae. I wish I’d followed my initial instinct to avoid this particular tweak. It really friggin hurts to have needles inject hyaluronic acid into your lips. Yes, they numb you but it is still painful. Two days later it still feels likes bees stung my lips and they are visibly swollen & bruised like I was punched in the mouth. It was a fun little experiment otherwise…

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