Most sluts are average/underaverage

wtknight · 2022-02-10T21:02:36+00:00

Reflaired CMV as this is an affirmative claim.

baresquad · 2022-02-10T21:16:58+00:00

This is just simply not true lmao

Your friends will fuck anything and I’ll admit, I used to be like that too up until I was like 24-25 but what your friends do is seek out unattractive women just to say they’ve fucked a lot of women. I mean, the case could clearly be made that your friends are actually the ones that need validation

Attractive women fuck just as much as everybody else. Not sure if it’s pride or denial that pushes the narrative that “sluts” are all unwanted and unattractive surviving on validation to compensate and all the attractive women are tied up in relationships but in reality we know that to not be true

Bubbly_Taro · 2022-02-10T20:55:23+00:00

Aren't most people average to underwhelming?

TheSnowyPlover · 2022-02-10T21:29:40+00:00

Correction: Most people have really shitty bodies

JacobMugatu666 · 2022-02-10T21:19:10+00:00

A lot of super hot women sleep around just not with you so you don't hear about it.

richerthanrichard · 2022-02-11T03:27:54+00:00

If you sleep with 100 women & label them as “low quality” it says more about you than it does about them. If your friend was so great he wouldn’t be smashing women he deems beneath him.

cutiepiekitty13 · 2022-02-11T01:49:08+00:00

yeah.. I have an acquaintance who allegedly has a body count of 150. Some of them were actually more attractive than him (who the fuck knows how that happened), but I ended up finding out most of them were transgenders, prostitutes, strippers, and LOTS of fat girls.

But on the other side of the spectrum, men who range from very attractive to very unattractive can have high body counts. Ironically the physically ugliest men I’ve known have outrageously high body counts, but then again, they had sex with anything with a pulse.

Diddy_1978 · 2022-02-10T21:56:15+00:00

I would be more interested to know how the ‘average women’ with ‘terrible bodies’ found your friend’s dick and sexual skills, to be honest.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-02-10T20:58:32+00:00

When they are saying the women have terrible bodies etc could it be they have unrealistic expectations of what the female body normally looks like in real life?

midwestufohunter · 2022-02-11T01:45:50+00:00

> He said "most girls look better with clothes on."

Are you sure your friend is attracted to women? Perhaps his sexual conquests are about overcompensating for something?

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-02-11T02:24:47+00:00

This is stupid, news flash....it's easier to bang women that are less attractive than you.

Mobrowncheeks · 2022-02-10T21:15:04+00:00

All you have done is shown everyone how desperate dudes are for sex. You literally have a friend who had to do drugs and work out for hours and hours so he can sleep with “ low quality women” 😭😭😭😭

The truth of the matter is, women who are average or below average are “ sluts” because they try to exchange sex for love. Men will stay with very attractive women, men will wait for sex with very attractive women, hell some men will even date very attractive women for months without ever sleeping with them.

ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HAVE LOWER BODY COUNTS BECAUSE MEN THEY DATE WANT TO INVEST MORE INTO THEM.

This has nothing to do with women’s character, and everything to do with average men holding out for more appealing women.

imnotfromthisreality · 2022-02-10T21:05:26+00:00

I think the biggest red flag in this is your friends sleeping with 100s of women they consider ugly. It screams self-harm, bumpy community dick and small egos that need to be stroked by screwing anything and everything thats alive.

DecisiveB · 2022-02-10T20:58:04+00:00

So, your friend likes having sex with unattractive women. Did you ever stop to think that maybe attractive women don’t want him? Or he’s not as confident to go after them?

princesssbrooklynn · 2022-02-10T21:29:39+00:00

Does he think this a flex cause reading this just made me think he ain’t it

I meant he ain’t shit* lol

Oli_love90 · 2022-02-10T21:23:40+00:00

It’s crazy to me the language used for women- you are just calling random women who had sex with your friends sluts. Not only that, your friends then make fun of “unattractive” woman for fucking around with them while daring to not meet your arbitrary standards of beauty. Then you concluded that the majority of sluts are unattractive. This is truly wild.

I’m wholly convinced that ya’ll don’t even like women which makes it super confusing as to why you even try to sleep with them.

CatoftheBanals · 2022-02-10T21:04:11+00:00

Ummm...okay? So ugly women who hook up with fit guys are the joke, not the fit guys who went through all that trouble to get fit only to hook up with ugly women?

greedyleopard42 · 2022-02-10T21:40:37+00:00

so men are really that desperate damn

AngstyFroggo · 2022-02-11T03:59:58+00:00

Unattractive women need the validation more. My friend slept with over 100 women and he admitted most were low quality. If a guy wants a high body count he has to fuck a lot of ugly/fat girls.

Wow the audicity. Not calling people who are not traditionally pretty unattractive, but flat out calling them low quality. Now that is something a low quality person would say.

"most girls have really shitty bodies unless they're really hot"

Yes, the floor is made out floor.

The fuck is this logic, yes those who are deemed unattractive were not deemed attractive indeed.

Alburg9000 · 2022-02-10T22:05:03+00:00

So many triggered people in this thread lol

flapperfemmefatale · 2022-02-10T21:12:47+00:00

I don't know why that's funnier than a guy fucking someone he doesn't find attractive. That is far more pathetic.

manfrom-nantucket · 2022-02-10T22:16:35+00:00

I'd wonder how much of this because OLD is infested with women who are obese.

mylife50 · 2022-02-11T03:39:10+00:00

From experience I know, a below average girl I was close with confessed she fucked the most popular guy in college because she wanted to see what the other girls saw in him, that she had the need of feeling desired by him. Of course I asked if she was attracted to him, she told me the guy was not even her type. She responded as if it was just another walk in the park. As her friend, i was both disgusted and happy for her. That day I understood why women are so unaware of their own nature.

CptKillsteal · 2022-02-11T11:06:18+00:00

I can confirm that of the arguable many women I have had sex with most of them were not above average.

YouRanAway · 2022-02-11T00:14:32+00:00

According to this theory, this means gorgeous frat girls totally didn't have the train run on them 🙄

I'd say a better predictor of female promiscuity is whether they had a good father around then during their formidable years.

Bruhhzer · 2022-02-11T00:34:54+00:00

Wow.. people have just discovered what normal human female bodies without working out looks like..

LotBuilder · 2022-02-10T21:40:24+00:00

There are levels to this game. Super hot highly sexual women are playing at a different level than you and your friends. Typically the top local chads, celebrities, athletes and sugar daddy’s. If you are not in the top 2-3% you wouldn’t know.

Ayesaynay · 2022-02-11T01:43:06+00:00

I know this was supposed to be a jab at sluts but let’s focus on the main slut here, why the hell does your friend have 100 bodies ? He is nasty, desperate, and irresponsible. Your friend here is chasing validation from women and is most likely unattractive like the women he claims. Is your friend you? 🤔 why do I feel like this is your story?

Are most men this desperate? Also, how did you know those women were sluts? The only confirmed slut here is your friend because you don’t know how many people those women have been with.

chromie96 · 2022-02-10T21:47:49+00:00

Most people are average so most sluts are average

WestServerDown · 2022-02-10T23:30:56+00:00

Actually, sluts are cool as fuck and dudes who hate on them are probably insecure and have extremely weak stroke game.

So what's wrong big boy? What are you compensating for?
Poor?
Small dick?
Fat?
Ugly?
Klinefelter's Syndrome?
No "sluts" want you?

Get the fuck out of here with that. Nobody wants to hear you bloviate this nonsense out of your cheeto encrusted lips attached to a body that looks like a melted candle. Have a salad for once, bubba.

TomorrowsWar · 2022-02-10T21:06:53+00:00

I think your friend is in the closet. sounds like he’s only straight because that’s the default.

Anyone can sleep around, even hot girls

Sorcha16 · 2022-02-10T21:26:23+00:00

Man sleeps with ugly women and its women that are the problem here. Is it the same for the opposite?

ShowMeYourMoves69 · 2022-02-11T00:37:00+00:00

I’d say the right answer is somewhere in between EVERYONE is below/average or social media/porn have made the standard too high. Also, a woman who sleeps with a bunch of dudes isn’t a slut. I’d only call someone a slut who I trusted and was betrayed by

Edit: I just woke up from a nap give me a break

Willow-girl · 2022-02-11T00:38:19+00:00

It's ironic that unattractive girls sleep around for validation

Or maybe they like the D? ghod knows I always did ...

omegajelly200 · 2022-02-11T05:07:14+00:00

My friend slept with over 100 women and he admitted most were low quality. If a guy wants a high body count he has to fuck a lot of ugly/fat girls.

Does your friend use OLD and bars to get chicks? Because that's what is going to happen. On a purely looks standpoint, with the absence of personality or interest compatibility, women bat waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay above their leagues in looks, but conversely if a woman genuinely likes a man she becomes very forgiving of a man's looks.

I'm going to guess that not only are these women average/underaverage but they come off as entirely bland and uninteresting to your friend too.

SuggestedAd67328 · 2022-02-11T09:11:42+00:00

Fucking around takes time. I spent last decade trying to get laid as much as possible. When averaged, I got a bit more than one new girl per month.

Some were ugly, some were pretty, but most were average looking. Generally pretty ones were harder to fuck and way more flakey. Ugly ones weren’t easier than average.

Younger ones tend to be more slutty. Older ones just hide it better. Almost all of them, i.e. ugly, average and pretty ones were entitled little princesses. Nevertheless, I met a few decent girls who wanted to be in a relationship (I am married to one of them).

We all see those Instagram models on photoshop-ed photos and think it’s a norm. I fucked some Instagram models too and there weren’t looking at all like on photos (with one exception!).

burgundy_trees · 2022-02-11T14:10:57+00:00

I asked my homie (52m) whose slept with, according to him “around 300” and he said about of 1/3 were decent looking

daniellederek · 2022-02-11T14:21:16+00:00

I've only met maybe 5 actual legitimate sluts . As in no pretense no sweet talk, just hey, wanna fuck and get to it.

At best in dim lighting they might have topped out at a 6. One who I'd peg at a 4 when looksmaxxxing literally would have guys scheduled 20 mins apart sat night from 10pm till 4 am every other weekend when the kids were at baby daddy's place. All you had to do was bring rubbers and a pack of smokes or pint of vodka to leave behind.

EugeneCezanne · 2022-02-10T21:30:43+00:00

I've slept with over 50 women, maybe 3 of whom were below average in looks—2 of the 3 I really liked for their personalities.

Also, just because a woman has slept with a man with a high count doesnt mean they, the women, are sluts. The man is the obvious slut. We dont know anything about the women aside from one experience.

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-02-10T21:04:04+00:00

It’s the primary tool young women use to bag men out of their league and the average ones have to work harder than the attractive ones to do that

NockerJoe · 2022-02-10T21:15:41+00:00

This is a consistent thing every fuckboy I've ever known has told me and its pretty consistent with my experiences on apps as well. This whole "Chad never has to dumpster dive" thing struck me as mostly being either incel seething or internet dudes chasing clout rather than an actual true thing, unless we're talking like a genuine male model who has even more than just his looks going for him. But given we've had actual male models come to PPD and post pics to verify and they still bitch I don't really buy that.

xDankHorse · 2022-02-10T22:16:35+00:00

I knew this girl for about a month who was a hoe, and had no shame in admitting to me how much of a hoe she was. She wasn't that good looking; her face was a 4/10 while her body, was probably a 5. Still, she had absolutely no problems meeting guys to fuck and told me about all the alcohol she liked to drink and all the random guys she'd make out with at the bar. In a nutshell, she was your typical slutty and wild sorority girl, just without the typical good looks.

I also knew another openly slutty girl but unlike the first girl, she was actually pretty hot. She was a cute blonde girl with a nice body who was in my co-ed sports team. I never made a move simply because I knew my short scrawny ass was getting rejected plus she wasn't really my type anyways. Some of the guys on the team tried getting with her, but I don't know if any of them ever succeeded.

JameisBong · 2022-02-11T00:09:48+00:00

Most people are average, women tend to think they are better than men because they have tits.

Side note, titties are awesome so there's that.

Willispin · 2022-02-10T22:58:04+00:00

Both parties in your example are outliers with self confidence issues beyond looks. Trying not to judge, but it you desire a high body count but can only get it by being with what you deem as unattractive people with shit bodies, your numbers are not impressive. And 99% of people have average bodies. That is life!

lybid8 · 2022-02-11T01:03:51+00:00

I agree, which is why I don’t understand why sleeping with multiple women is a flex.

Pola_Lita · 2022-02-11T03:44:23+00:00

You haven't factored for the idea that the first criticism a man is likely to make toward a women is that she's a slut.

The second is that she's ugly.

For a lot of men, these are the only 2 characteristics they see in women.

richlad · 2022-02-11T04:24:46+00:00

Most women I met and slept with, look better naked. I've slept with all kind of women from shaven to unshaven, I like women who have a preference for certain things they want in certain way.

Sluts are desired not because of their physical beauty but because how they make you feel. You feel like a king with a slut, even if she's average she offers wayyy better experience than a solid 10 dead fish in bed.

That's the difference!

wtknight · 2022-02-10T20:57:05+00:00

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Ok_Room1213 · 2022-02-10T21:47:10+00:00

I see no lies

minachan158 · 2022-02-11T01:47:35+00:00

SlUt ShAmInG! Shame on you!

david10277 · 2022-02-11T14:18:43+00:00

Women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can..

RubberAndSteel · 2022-02-11T14:33:25+00:00

Most people are not pretty. Most people have sex. Ugly girls, hot girls, ugly boys and hot boys. The end.

machiavellian_king · 2022-02-12T16:24:10+00:00

In my experience, the biggest sluts have been girls who are average or big girls.

The hot/ petite/ in shape girls generally have too high standards to achieve those huge bodycounts.

tritoneharmonies · 2022-02-10T21:34:49+00:00

We should be more blunt to girls about how men's sexual attention doesn't equal respect or genuine desire. Sluts are mostly mentally ill and/or conformist women who simply don't understand that men blow their loads probably more than they bother to blow their noses.

^{where are the casually misandrist babushkas with their slippers of steel when you need them}

Effective-Walrus1157 · 2022-02-11T02:37:34+00:00

Meh. STDs are rampant in Hollywood. Scarlett Johansson did an interview years ago where she admitted monogamy was really hard for her. I've known ridiculously hot women are complete sluts and mutiple ugly women who waited until marriage.

This is just another attempt to degrade women who sleep around because men of this subreddit are obsessed with the topic.

I could buy an average/underwoman might be more likely to take sex she can get from a guy above her level she's attracted to, but that again doesn't explain why the only women I know who waited until marriage were well below average. I honestly kinda assumed it's because few men wanted them to begin with.

Also this study contradicts both my and your point:

"A study of 101 female college students found that women deemed highly attractive and unattractive by male study participants had the most sexual partners—meaning that women of average attractiveness had the fewest number of partners."

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a32867913/attractive-people-sexual-partners-study/

And yeah, women are more picky for casual sex, why is that surprising when we're the ones who could get pregnant vs. impregnating?

"What we found is that when men opt for short-term mating, they pursue larger numbers of partners than women," Schmitt says. "When women go short-term mating, they don't go for large numbers. They are a little more discriminating. They look for physically attractive men who have masculine facial features. Women look for men who are symmetrical, who are high in social dominance. This doesn't mean all women will be short-term maters. But when they opt to do so, they show these desires."

https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/promiscuity-differs-by-gender

nemma88 · 2022-02-11T11:15:39+00:00

Most anything is average. That's the point of average. I can't challenge that view in itself other than say it doesn't really make any point or commentary from it.

"most girls have really shitty bodies unless they're really hot".

They have, as described average bodies. It seems your friend is only attracted to the top% of women.

Or maybe watch what he does, not what he says...

Its not ironic that people seeking validation sleep around. He found his SMP matches in the casual sex market.

nedinator3000 · 2022-02-10T21:28:01+00:00

Nahh. Plenty of pretty sluts and average decent women. Often times the average girl has more time not being objectified and actually builds a personality while the pretty one is based off attention. This is false.

KaleidoscopeEyes12 · 2022-02-10T21:59:55+00:00

“No! How dare you imply that men think they are entitled to women! How dare you call me a misogynist! How dare you insinuate that I, the peak of all creation, think lesser of ~~females~~ women!”

Hefty_Yogurtcloset35 · 2022-02-10T23:23:17+00:00

So you’re saying your guy friends are average/under average? I mean, in essence you just described them as sluts. By your own logic…

Glittering_Ad_1415 · 2022-02-10T21:18:33+00:00

1 being most attractive to 5 being least attractive

Women with high male body count
Women with low male body count
Straight virgin women
Gold star lesbian
Platinum lesbian

ffandyy · 2022-02-10T23:25:06+00:00

I’m probably a 7 or 8 at my absolute best, you don’t have to sleep with unattractive women to get a high N count, also having a high N count does not make you a better man than anyone else

Isolation_Man · 2022-02-11T01:58:52+00:00

You must have very tall and attractive male friends... I'm short and ugly, and I'm a virgin. Not even ugly/fat girls for me :(

ThatGirl50 · 2022-02-10T22:58:51+00:00

Hahahahaha the most blatant form “oh you don’t want me fuck you ugly bitch” lmfaoooooo. This material is just here on the internet FOR FREE 😂

tropicsGold · 2022-02-11T01:38:06+00:00

I don’t think this is true, if anything it might be the opposite. There are a lot of hot girls who get into sex early and just party down all through their teens and 20’s. They only screw the absolute best men, so most mere mortals don’t get to enjoy it, but it is happening.

Fat girls can be so self conscious and then bitter that they don’t really get into casual sex.

Now I do agree there are still plenty of homely girls who are sluts, and plenty of guys who play in that pool. But as far as numbers go, I think the hotter girls might win.

RoseFire007 · 2022-02-11T01:39:00+00:00

Can confirm. I had a massive stroke at 29. Was in a wheelchair, doubled my body weight in 12 months, my hair fell out. I had boils all over my face. THE most promiscuous period of my life. No regrets. I regret being so concerned about my attractiveness as a young, healthy and attractive woman, though. I am doing well now, monogamous and happily married. 10th anniversary coming up. I honestly think that phase helped me, and I am grateful I didn’t catch anything nasty

FIVE_6_MAFIA · 2022-02-11T03:38:14+00:00

Attractive women need the validation more because they're more insecure than less attractive women.

Blyat6161 · 2022-02-11T13:36:40+00:00

This is such a toxic comment section.

Ffs everyone likes to fuck both attractive women as well as unattractive women (Same for men). It’s just EASIER for most men to fuck the unattractive women so his experience is bias.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-02-11T15:06:43+00:00

I have an issue with your terminology.

If you mean unapologetically promiscuous women who enjoy sex with a lot of people, but not you, yeah generally speaking they are generally average to below average in attractiveness.

But make no mistake, attractive women love sex. They just move mountains to keep their encounters secret and hidden from the public eye.

amomentafter · 2022-02-11T20:01:09+00:00

Do you think it’s the same with men? Are most the slutty ones unattractive? Or do you think the attractive men tend to be the sluttier ones?

MultiverseHack · 2022-02-11T01:14:05+00:00

I think that the issue here is not whether someone is physically beautiful or not. The promiscuity from a woman or a man, can be considered as a result of low self-esteem. I know that this may sound moralizing, but it won’t be... trust me. Today, a lot of people blatantly pretend to be in love in order to have casual sex with someone else. So, for a while, one side of the couple may even fall in love for someone that doesn’t feel anything at all. Men and women may seek for validation through casual sex, but for different reasons. One of them, to feel confident enough to go after anyone he/she wants. Other would be to hear compliments that they won’t usually hear about them. The thing is... people don’t need to sleep with strangers in order to feel pretty or handsome. That despair some guys and girls feel after a lot of casual sex, can be linked with the search for intimacy with some who doesn’t give a f*** (pun intended). The example of your friend is useful to clarify the issue. Maybe a long time ago, he had found a girl with a great personality. However, if he only cares about the physical side, hardly any woman would seem beautiful or new enough for him. Regarding the under average women: although that term is somehow subjective, some of them are tricked with the promise of a false love. So, is no strange that they feel uncomfortable with themselves and with others.

JealousHospital8926 · 2022-02-11T04:34:22+00:00

I wouldn’t say this is true. I’ve probably fucked somewhere around 75 girls. I would say 15 were straight dimes, 40 were average 7’s, and a couple dragons were slayne to get to the princess like 1 or 2 fat girls, a few ugly girls as well

missflirtychic · 2022-02-11T06:21:40+00:00

Lmao this argument is so idiotic

one of your friends took steroids (which im assuming was done w the intention of attracting more women since you decided it was an important piece of information to include) and one of them has claimed to have fucked over 100 women? Seriously? the same argument could be used for your friends. Bc it sounds like they are the real sluts looking for validation here tbh Not only that but it is quite a broad claim to make that these women are “sluts” just because they slept with your friends. From my experience, most women won’t have sex with someone they are not attracted to, whereas your friends (and most men) obviously will. That just adds on to support that your friends are sluts. Bottom line: sounds like you got some insecure and ugly friends bro, because I’m sure “attractive” women have sex just as much (I mean who doesn’t like sex?) but the guys those women are fucking just dont happen to be your friends.

If you’re going to post a topic to debate about on here, please at least make it about something that is actually debatable

wtknight · 2022-02-10T21:00:52+00:00

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throwaway_alt_slo · 2022-02-11T18:28:10+00:00

I dissagre. I would love to fuck some average or even bellow average sluts but they won't me to commit lol

DeviledEggy · 2022-02-12T10:37:05+00:00

Wouldn't he be not very attractive himself if he couldn't score many attractive women in such a high body count?

IveGotIssues9918 · 2022-02-14T06:29:37+00:00

As a belated virgin woman with low self-esteem, often I would just be confused when I met a woman who was unattractive yet managed to be a slut, because I believed for years that the problem was my looks. I knew this one girl in college who had a disturbingly average face yet bragged about how she'd slept with all her guy friends, and seemed to think (and be treated!) like she was super attractive. I knew several promiscuous girls who had bad bodies and/or butterfaces, and to be completely honest, it seemed... unfair? I just couldn't help but wonder wtf I was doing wrong if these girls could have hookups, post half-naked photos with positive responses, etc. and I couldn't. It was pure jealousy, but it was true. It's not that the really pretty girls weren't also going out and having sex, though, they just seemed to be less focused on it or gross about it. The really sex-obsessed people were always disturbingly average at most.

OkKaleidoscope9696 · 2022-02-10T21:47:40+00:00

I don’t think many would disagree with the statement in your subject line.

krischens · 2022-02-11T08:52:43+00:00

fit guys they fuck make fun of their looks after

Yeah, not sure that counts as win kiddo. You are the one who fucked an ugly chick, if you laugh about her looks afterward it doesn't make your "conquest" better.

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xxshidoshi · 2022-02-11T06:09:13+00:00

Didn’t realise this sub was the red pill sub.

GaIacticFaz · 2022-02-11T12:33:13+00:00

Your friend is the owner of r/ihavesex

Pipesxpro · 2022-02-11T13:44:01+00:00

Yuck, what a creep

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