Men are blamed for everything

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-01-23T05:01:23+00:00

Removed for circle-jerking

SupermarketFun21 · 2022-01-22T19:36:15+00:00

According to mainstream news, men outearn women on average, but there's simultaneously a shortage of high-earning men for women to marry. Society has managed to oppress women in ways that aren't even mathematically possible.

RockosNeoModernLife · 2022-01-22T18:02:26+00:00

The big one is men's sexuality is something evil, that if a man sleeps around and only talks to a girl for sex he's bad but when women do the same thing they're sexually liberating.

MR_Shigitoshi · 2022-01-22T19:40:08+00:00

Man ends relationship? He's using her. He misled her. He told her he was looking for a LTR. Lying. Evil.

Woman ends relationship for any reason, at any time? You go girl. You deserve better.

EnteFetz · 2022-01-22T22:10:07+00:00

I seriously struggle to believe there is something like the "Golden Penis Syndrome".
Mabe the top hottest 1% of rich ripped frat boys experience that.
But even the most attractive guys I know personally say that they struggle with dating.
I currently study at a University that has a massive design and arts faculty, which is almost completely women.
I have been on parties that were at least 2/3 women.
But I have never been approached by any girls from my university and I have tried talking to girls on campus countless times. They are all either taken or are waiting for Mr. Perfect.
Many of them have sugar daddies from outside the university and therefore have no time for broke postgraduate students like me.

HoardersEpisode · 2022-01-22T20:17:00+00:00

Don't forget if men are earning a lot, they are part of the wage gap and patriarchy problem but if they aren't, they are low value like get your shit together bro time to hustle loll

Physical-Pie748 · 2022-01-22T21:57:37+00:00

>men doing nothing

"men are feminine and weak and need to be masculine"

>men dont show emotions

"its the evil PATRIARCHY which says men must be dominant and masculine"

>men show emotions

"men need to man up and be masculine and be the leader, women dont like being the masculine one"

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-01-22T21:37:44+00:00

So you know, Golden penis syndrome is utter bullshit not backed by data.

Infact, since the 1960s, men attending college have had less sex partners than men who didn't attend college, and it's the reverse for women - women who attend college have more sex partners than women who don't attend college .

John_Oakman · 2022-01-22T18:11:45+00:00

And the best part is that most of the hate & scorn are directed at inoffensive low value males, who for the most part didn't commit those transgressions.

Of course, if society beat up the LVMs enough, perhaps the real/manosphere men would get clued in that they are the one causing harm and change accordingly. After all, the concept of the whipping boy was successful was it not?

banjocatto · 2022-01-23T03:54:05+00:00

Yeah, people are hypocrites and full of double standards. What else is new? Both men and women deal with ridiculous double standards.

A woman engages in causal sex = she's a slut.

A woman decides to not have sex = she's a prude, and is too picky.

A woman is too trusting and gets hurt = she should've be more careful.

A woman is has her guard up = she's an up tight misandrist. "Not all men."

A woman decides to be a stay at home mom = she's lazy, unambitious and doesn't contribute. Why are women so lazy and dependent on men for everything? "This man pays for everything, and she still nags him about cheating." (I'm paraphrasing, but yes, I've heard people say that.)

A woman decides to get an education and pursure a career = "men don't care about a woman's career. Have fun when your 30, old and lonely because you pursued a career instead of giving yourself to a man while you were in your prime."

A woman is trying to leave a bad relationship = she did this to herself. She should have chosen better. In leaving him, she's going to damage her children. She made her bed, she should lay in it.

A woman is overtly cautious regarding who she dates and settles down with = "women's standards are ridiculously high."

razormachine · 2022-01-22T18:16:25+00:00

Pretty much.

I could spend the whole day just lying in my bed, watching Netflix, minding my own business, and I'm still guilty for committing crimes against womankind... somehow.

daproest1 · 2022-01-22T20:23:31+00:00

This has to do with the whole bad chimp good chimp. It’s an evolution thing. Women can’t afford to feel like a bad chimp. Like a bad person. It would’ve been detrimental to their survival millennia ago. Women need to feel like they’re a good person. So they blame shift and rarely (if ever) take accountability.

Men’s need is to feel useful. Not good or bad. Just useful. For the same reason. Survival thousands of years ago.

Yahween · 2022-01-22T18:44:35+00:00

That's funny, because I don't feel blamed for everything. A minority of misandric women - and some men, perhaps - pinning blame on men for literally everything is actually kind of hilarious.

DisciplineSilent2347 · 2022-01-22T19:48:09+00:00

gender issues have surpassed irl exchanges and now soley exist on the internet as a intergenerational hivemind behemoth war between two entities (hint hint only cis ppl in this sub😂) no but fr, i really only see cis genered men and women fighting over this shit while the rest of woke twitter tries to get between us degenerates like a neglected child. meanwhile chad and stacy are making top10% of the wealth while everyone else scrambles to argue their modern persepctive on A B C. yikes

Unexpected-bug · 2022-01-22T20:42:56+00:00

An unwanted pregnancy happens and the man doesn't want to assume the provider role: scum, you should assume your responsibility!... if you don't want children don't have sex... chit chit... do a vasectomy! Chit chit... wrap your penis...
An unwanted pregnancy happens and the woman doesn't want to assume the provider role: go ahead girl, is your right to abort... or to have the children and get alimony from the man... or to do everything you want

Slootando · 2022-01-22T18:19:11+00:00

Women are Wonderful and can’t be held accountable for anything.

pooseehunter · 2022-01-22T17:55:17+00:00

I wish I could blame all my problems in life on men watching porn

nicethingyoucanthave · 2022-01-22T21:26:16+00:00

men aren't earning a lot

"Men are to blame for women not getting married and starting families."

I don’t feel like looking it up but there were articles titled “there aren’t enough economically attractive men for women to date!” That’s the narrative when women earn more: women are the victims. And of course when men earn more women are definitely the victims. That’s called a “pay gap”

Gravel_Roads · 2022-01-22T18:01:37+00:00

The very fact that MGTOW and TRP exist suggests that there are subsets of either gender that would prefer to blame someone else for their own shortcomings.

However, it’s factually accurate to say this isn’t a unanimously agreed on stance by any demographic. There are obviously millions of women in the world who are perfectly responsible for their own shit (and men, vice versa!)

tl;dr this is a behavior all demographics engage in. They use “-isms” and “-phobias” to specify the type, but ultimately you’re just describing the phenomena called “othering”.

Blackagar59 · 2022-01-22T18:59:08+00:00

I once saw an article saying that even when there's more than twice the amount of women studying in college than men (70/30), men where more present in engineering and that they where to blame for that.

Like wtf on so many levels.

wtknight · 2022-01-22T17:52:14+00:00

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Tacc63x · 2022-01-22T19:03:51+00:00

In other words, women don’t want to take accountability for anything whatsoever when it comes to gender issues. The accountability meme from Twitter is true.

SnooCats37 · 2022-01-22T18:39:51+00:00

Think this isn’t the case at all, men are allowed to play video games, no woman has an issue with that. It becomes an issue when the man only does that. When that’s their life and their partner gets ignored. When their partner is asking for their time and they are being told no they are gaming. That’s when it is an issue.

I don’t really understand the second one, never heard of it.

Men aren’t predators for trying it on with women, men become predators when they don’t take no for an answer and they are aggressive and disrespectful in the way they try it on.

I’ve never really heard of women complaining about men not chasing

No one has an issue with men earning a lot. There is a difference in the way men and women are paid for doing the same job

Considering a lot of married couples talk about how when they got together they started with nothing I don’t really see the relevance

decoy88 · 2022-01-22T18:24:01+00:00

This is what happens when you consume too much media from and for disgruntled women.

Please stop focusing on stuff that is targeting a different demographic than you.

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2022-01-22T17:49:50+00:00

You can easily flip this around.

wtknight · 2022-01-22T17:54:58+00:00

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BigAggravating1299 · 2022-01-22T18:40:30+00:00

All roads lead to mgtow eventually...3 musts in today's usa

never marry
never cohabitate
try hard not to have kids if possible

throughalfanoir · 2022-01-22T19:10:28+00:00

>men drop out to play video games

I mean idk who else to blame on this one

and for the others: no, men aren't blamed for chasing/not chasing woman but the manner they act about what they do. men aren't blamed for earning a lot/not earning a lot but more for their attitudes towards how much they make/what lifestyle they can make out of it on their own or while having other people they are in financial contact with (both dependents and people who support them)

Vtridolla · 2022-01-22T17:51:06+00:00

I mean if you think this only applies to men you should go peep your head around the “manosphere.”

Gofishingrn · 2022-01-22T20:13:02+00:00

…and women are held accountable for NOTHING

Individual-March8163 · 2022-01-22T22:16:11+00:00

Honestly men are the only demographic it's acceptable to treat like this, imagine if the media tried this with women or black people there would be an outrage. But men it's fine and an easy scapegoat, because any man objecting to it is shamed and mocked.

lissssa-13 · 2022-01-22T18:00:47+00:00

One thing is certainly clear, men are whiny self created victims that want women to clean up their lives and love to cry about it online when we have no interest in doing so.

i_have_a_semicolon · 2022-01-22T23:55:18+00:00

Except rape, when rape happens it's

"She shouldn't have been out that late*

"She shouldn't have shown so much skin"

"She shouldn't have had too much to drink"

"She shouldn't have been alone"

"She shouldn't have trusted him"

Men are blamed for everything, except things they actually do

manfrom-nantucket · 2022-01-22T20:35:30+00:00

Let me save you the trouble. It is the lot of a man to suffer and walk the path of loneliness. Having a bitch in your life isn't going to change that, in fact often times it makes it worse.

sarkington · 2022-01-22T18:15:01+00:00

Didn’t know humanity all had a single binding opinion on everything. Truly we are the Borg

wtknight · 2022-01-22T17:47:00+00:00

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logiauser · 2022-01-22T19:14:55+00:00

It’s almost like being married to a nagging wife. Our entire society is being nagged by beta males and angry women.

magiksissclit · 2022-01-22T20:01:57+00:00

Men play the biggest victims

KingWhoCared86 · 2022-01-22T17:51:35+00:00

Ugh leave me be to drink my life away. Lol

siIkie · 2022-01-22T21:30:07+00:00

oh look ANOTHER women bad, men good post 😴

butteryrum · 2022-01-22T18:28:28+00:00

We do live in a patriarchy. So, based on that alone well.... if the shoe fits.

DeJuanBallard · 2022-01-22T18:31:42+00:00

Yup, get use to it, cause they ain't gonna stop.

King-SAMO · 2022-01-22T18:04:44+00:00

This doesn’t really bother me, since I‘v e always been the scapegoat in my fam.

TodTheRod01 · 2022-01-22T20:49:56+00:00

Not seeing much to disagree with

sernamedeleted · 2022-01-22T20:58:37+00:00

Women are literally blamed for the fall of mankind and young girls were burned as witches, but okay.

Sensitive-Permit-877 · 2022-01-22T21:03:14+00:00

Men are to blame for being simps and cucks and allowing womens rights to go too far with bullshit facts and science. Laws were changed because men just say back and let them happen.

LotBuilder · 2022-01-22T22:02:43+00:00

This is not new, It always has been that way and it always will be

Sharp_Buffalo_7634 · 2022-01-22T22:34:54+00:00

It is extremely sad and very shameful that there are so many users in this sub who openly admit to this type of conduct without any feelings of guilt. I guess the feminist redditor types have now changed their tactics, from being dishonest liars who blatantly lie when confronted, to being openly upfront about their horrendous characters and then screaming "you can't do anything about it" like possessed drug addicts. Women deserve the suffering they create in their own minds just because they can't get access to the guys they want. It's purely self-inflicted suffering and it usually ends up harming every area of their lives and nobody will tell them what they are doing wrong.

notarmani · 2022-01-22T23:09:33+00:00

yup. western soyciety has always gone the route of "when in doubt, blame the man", even back when "chivalry" was a thing

mickyji10 · 2022-01-22T18:35:36+00:00

Never heard of Golden Penis Syndrome, but I love to share the following when I hear people complain that women aren’t equal to men in the US: https://www.wsj.com/articles/college-university-fall-higher-education-men-women-enrollment-admissions-back-to-school-11630948233 Perhaps we aren’t equal anymore. My heart bleeds for those that can’t find college grads to hook.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-22T19:39:18+00:00

I get it that you want to take out your frustration on someone but consider this truth for a minute. All these men are lusting over women, but women are not lusting over them. So something's gotta give. Do you call your customer stupid because they don't want to buy your shitty product?

1962_beta-simp · 2022-01-22T18:05:57+00:00

If you are a MAN - you just do not care.

donoyonoton · 2022-01-22T20:01:30+00:00

This is the liberal narrative

Nukeshi · 2022-01-22T20:34:07+00:00

damn cry about it

ConsultJimMoriarty · 2022-01-22T20:34:45+00:00

I love how straight men in this subreddit are always saying how women love to be victims and have a victim mentality - then this gets posted and all the same guys are upvoting.

Because of course, straight men are the REAL victims! And they want that to be true very badly.

Maleficent-Brief-178 · 2022-01-22T18:33:37+00:00

I know it's basically my primary go to always 😂😂😂

AnnoKano · 2022-01-22T19:36:04+00:00

Whining about random internet articles isn’t manly by anyone’s standards OP, give it a rest.

Do you respect these viewpoints? If not, why are you so bothered by them.

random_opinion_lol · 2022-01-22T19:36:28+00:00

We all slightly blame the opposite sex sometimes when we're frustrated, it's a coping mechanism. Just do better not to. I'm trying to do better too.

figuringMylife · 2022-01-22T21:20:35+00:00

What's the discussion? Are we trying to prove one of these statements wrong? Are we trying to say that women aren't blamed for anything? What would you like here, OP? And what would change your mind?

pubgmisc · 2022-01-22T21:43:13+00:00

the grass is green, that's the western gynocentric social order for you

FoxCQC · 2022-01-22T21:55:03+00:00

That golden cock syndrome was an interesting read. Especially being a college drop out myself. Looks real bad when I was trying to date.

jayval90 · 2022-01-22T22:44:06+00:00

Hey, it's great to be a man. Rather than complain about it, recognize the great power that has been bequeathed upon your feet (or responsibility lifted from your shoulders if you're a woman).

throwawayacc1347 · 2022-01-22T23:51:57+00:00

God this thread is so funny. Fds idiots need to stop trying

ohdiddly · 2022-01-22T23:59:36+00:00

I hope you know that what people say on PPD and FDS is not actually reflective of what people irl believe. When have you actually ever heard someone say these things?

MisPai · 2022-01-23T00:16:37+00:00

You know what men are best at? Playing the victim.

West-Seaworthiness98 · 2022-01-23T00:29:49+00:00

Just ignore the noise, man.

drewbilly251 · 2022-01-23T00:34:15+00:00

Wait is this purge week again?

a1b1no · 2022-01-23T01:48:43+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/s9f8xd/most_of_the_problems_for_which_men_blame_women/

BlisssfulHoney111 · 2022-01-23T02:23:11+00:00

Mean are sexy delicious.

DaphneDK42 · 2022-01-23T03:11:37+00:00

That's just woke nonsense chatter. Why do you listen to these fools?

jenaemare · 2022-01-23T03:44:31+00:00

I mean, yeah. They should be meek and know their place. If they are needed for anything, we'll just let them know. It's a simple concept.

Gerpstarg · 2022-01-23T04:18:09+00:00

Well thats exactly the mentality of a weak incapable person who expects someone else to take care of them.

If women writing those articles actually wanted to be storng and independent instead of pretending, they would have learned that part of being a man is getting shit done, instead of blaming other people for that. Every man is told from young age "stop looking at others, you are the maker of your own life, if you see a problem - find a solution and keep your mouth shut, dont blame others". Unfortunately, when feminists try to be "men", it becomes clear that all they know about masculinity is wearing pants and being an asshole. They dont actually know about all the stoicism that is engraved in every man, who is taught to be resilient, tough and accept rejection, laughing, bullying while showing no emotions and still being fine.

Instead, we see the rethoric of someone who is dependant on the other person and cant find a solution or is incapable of actually bringing that solution to life. Hence they take the stance of a bitching woman who needs a big strong man come and fix everything.

Honestly, feminists are pathetic, in reality they are just women who are too lazy and too entitled to perform their traditional obligations and duties and find reasons to avoid those duties, while also advocating for men to keep all their obligations and even do more. In a perfect world of a feminazi, men have no rights, no voice, all the obligations, while women have no accountability for anything, all the rights and all the screen time.

appropriate-username · 2022-01-23T04:42:51+00:00

Men are blamed for everything by you in this post but you only have one link for one of those opinions and that link doesn't demonstrate a widespread belief. So your post is about ways men could be hypothetically blamed for various things by a select few individuals but you haven't demonstrated that that's actually happening. I get why you'd post it (circlejerking/clickbaiting/rage-baiting) and why people would upvote it (rage-baiting) but this seems like something that'd break rule 5 if it's not further substantiated on all points (or on one point if all others are removed from the post).

Also, a less meta comment:

men don't chase women

"Men are in a crisis of masculinity and need to find their balls."

The overwhelming majority of comments on the topic I've seen complain about predation. I dunno who would care about men not chasing women or why they'd care.

thetruthishere_ · 2022-01-22T20:01:22+00:00

Some loud weird minority and you claim men are blamed for everything?

Baloney.

P194 · 2022-01-22T18:40:45+00:00

Being a man includes a lot of responsibility. It's a good thing.

Academic_Snow_7680 · 2022-01-22T19:23:00+00:00

"I've got hurt feelings, I've got hurt feelings"

Where are you getting those citations from? Because a lot of them don't make sense.

I don't know any woman who claims it is men's fault that women are alone in old age - unless you mean men dying being men's fault because men don't take care of their own health and are petrified to go to see the doctor.

As is shown in real-life data that shows that married men live longer because their wives nag them into going to see the doctor.

Ed for the record: Older women DON'T WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MAN BECAUSE IT IS SO MUCH WORK.

To add: Yet another post that attributes singular views to literally BILLIONS of women around the world as if we are a monolith and not a diverse group of people. Like men are - where there is a clear group that commits crime while other men mostly stand around and Dindunuffin.

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Title	Men are blamed for everything
Author	Johnny_Autism
Upvotes	223
Comments	441
Date	January 22, 2022 5:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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