Would you rather have a woman who's genuinely into you, who loves having frequent sex with you, who respects, praises you and you know would never cheat on you, BUT she's lazy around the house and doesn't put much effort into her appearance (not obese or anything, she just doesn't care to spend time beautifying herself)

-Or-

Would you rather have a woman who's "feminine", regularly cooks and cleans, puts a lot of effort into her appearance, BUT you know she's not in love with you she just does her best to fake it, she reluctantly fucks you, never initiates and looks for excuses to not have to spend time with you (not cheating necessarily, she just prefers her interests and friends/family)