As a general matter, I'm not personally invested in this topic. I think the dating market tells you what you're worth. If you have niche standards, and repeatedly fail at dating, they are too high.

Anyways, the dating market aside, men overly fixated on womens sex lives and play into double standards have other problems like: regressive views on gender roles, general hatred of women, are possessive (sometimes abusive), and are more likely to be bad at sex, more likely to use perceived sexual behavior to hurt a specific woman, are less sexually adventurous. etc. These men tend to be less attractive and/or educated as well with less general confidence in their sexual abilities. It isn't like they are offering other incredible things and this behavior is merely a fluke. The most annoying of these demographics are the men that expect incredibly horny women with virtually no experience. Like..grow up lol. Unfortunately, the T@Te type serves as women repellent.

My point will probably be further proven by nasty comments that storm this post. Basically I don't think men who call women derogatory terms like "slut" for example, have this behavior exist in a vaccum. They have other things incredibly wrong with them that make them less datable in general.

Some of the issues I mentioned matter less if you're a conservative girl..then by all means, date this type of man. However, men, no matter what they say, seem to want to date liberal women, since they have to compulsively lie about their views on dates.