Daily Community Chat Megathread

Peacesquad · 2023-08-19T19:04:40+00:00

Women don’t fall in love. They fall into resources and comfort. Men fall in love.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-19T19:04:33+00:00

That’s fine but what did I miss?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-19T18:59:43+00:00

"Q4M:

Did you ever get pressured into finding a girlfriend or a date from your family or friends"

Nope but it was always my mother and female relatives suggesting to get married

Even in school usually it was girls asking if l date when l wasn't interested at all

mrrelaf · 2023-08-19T18:49:14+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15v0llp/i_didnt_leave_a_tip_for_100_meal_aitah

poor mans getting absolutely obliterated by the tipping mob

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-19T18:28:02+00:00

“men here say women are evil”

I see such statements, but there is no evidence for any or the vast majority of the people don’t think that. The issue is you believe women are moral beings and your attraction is based on what is most moral. That is not the case, men attraction to women is not on the rule of morality. It is based on what looks the best.

Another issue tend to be why most discussions go nowhere is because women see their identity through their gender. Men do not, this is why men are not triggered by generalization, men see themselves as more individual rather than collectivism. So women get triggered and try to defend all women. See statements that women are not monolith, yet you treat yourself as one.

NJFlowerchild · 2023-08-19T18:27:53+00:00

I hope you Californians stay safe with the coming rain.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-19T18:24:31+00:00

Infidelity Rates by Country 2023 (worldpopulationreview.com)

this real? US - 71% is fucking insane

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-19T18:22:54+00:00

To short guys:

You can sit there wallow in your self-pity wasting your life away being jealous of 6’4 Chads are fucking the hottest of Stacies you wish you were fucking.

OR you can just focus on finding women who do wanna fuck/date you like other guys have.

The choice is yours to be focus on your happiness or keep crying that you weren’t the most popular boy in school.

potoricco · 2023-08-19T18:22:36+00:00

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Barbie Deyassified 😭

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-08-19T18:15:42+00:00

Where my brain goes when I'm flirting with a girl and she mentions she's not single

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-19T17:53:08+00:00

Sex is a lot more complicated than just penis penetrating vagina and there is a difference in perception of sex between men and women. Guys should probably stress less about it. When guys obsess over body count they see it so simply but it doesn't take into consideration the complexities of each of those relationships so men end up ruining their own chances by being frustrated and judgmental about it. Basically, the thing that helped me is realizing that sex isn't a competition, it's meant to be fun and enjoyed by both people. If she is having sex with you that is a good thing so don't shoot yourself in the foot before it happens. And even then, it will still be your first time with each other, so why are you worrying so much about the guys in her past? You can still have your standards morally speaking and if a woman has too high of a body count for you to consider a LTR with, that is fine, but quit whining so much and maybe you'll get your own count up.

saraimarsena · 2023-08-19T17:43:10+00:00

which one of you fucks is gonna step up and offer to mod so you can stop complaining about modding all the time

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T17:42:34+00:00

I don’t get this all STEM people are virgin nerds narrative. I met some first year software engineer students the other day, they seemed totally normal and one of them was a literal 6’5” swimmer chad.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-19T17:25:47+00:00

“I dont want to be settled for!”

Everyone settles, people are not perfect and perfect people wouldn’t want them. You are not God’s gift to earth, get over it.

Here’s a great song about it: https://youtu.be/llGvsgN17CQ

“But guys dont find fat girls to be sexy!”

“But girls dont find short guys to be sexy!”

If you want to waste your life being jealous of the popular kids, go ahead. Other people rather spend time finding people who do want to date and fuck them.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-19T17:07:52+00:00

Women and blue pilled dudes of PPD, how do you plan on keeping your sons from learning the inevitable Red Pill truths and subscribing to the "t0xiC" manosphere brotherhood?

Zabadoodude · 2023-08-19T17:06:38+00:00

My gf is sick and nauseous today. She thinks it's some kind of flu. I'm going to go over to he place to bring her some supplies and cheer her up.

PPD peeps! Give me ideas on what I should bring her!

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-19T16:57:38+00:00

You know that Margret Atwood quote feminists love to throw around about how men are scared women will embarrass them, women are scared men will murder them?

I find it a little short sighted. In fact, I think men have it worse. Consider this. A man and a woman are alone on an elevator. The woman might be scared the man will SA her while the man is well aware that the woman is scared he will SA her. When they get off the elevator the threat is no longer present for her, but for the man he carries on knowing that as a stranger, every woman he interacts with will meet him with suspicion.

For women, once the threat is gone they're safe, but for men they live with this ever present knowledge that they are seen contemptuously by women which in a way I think is a worse, more existential threat.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-19T16:46:49+00:00

PPD men to women: you must fuck a man on the first date or else you're not actually sexually into him.

Also PPD men to women: if you sleep with more than five people your whole life you're a slut incapable of pair bonding

PPD women: okay, so that gives us the ability to date five men during our whole lives to find a partner. How are we supposed to know who we're compatible with before actually dating him?

PPD men: that's why you vet, duh.

PPD women: how can we vet someone without dating him, but we're supposed to fuck a guy on the first date, but also keep our n-count low?

PPD men: ... 😡

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-08-19T16:39:12+00:00

Since other cultures, religions and whatever also get generalized in apparently treating their women bad. It is only fair for me to choose this title.

"American men be treating their wive like:"

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ct_X1eOA3di/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==

DerayRevan · 2023-08-19T16:28:23+00:00

"guys help, I might be a hypergamous man. I want a women who’s more educated, earns more than myself(I have a bs degree in engineering and make low 6 figures), and want to fuck multiple times a day, though I do have low looks requirement. wat do I do"

There's no such thing as a hypergamous man since for the last time men cannot be hypergamous

Also a woman who out earns yet you wanna fuck her multiple times is a fairytale unless your ready to be on that divorce statistic of financial problems in that relationship

A woman will be fine providing for you short-term but not long-term

The idea you can have a great sex life with a woman who makes out-earns is the equivalence of believing the earth is flat

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-19T16:26:31+00:00

Samples from my playlist this morning.

https://youtu.be/ipvEIZMMILA

https://youtu.be/esA4keoRoQ0

https://youtu.be/LeHlvXvG6vA

https://youtu.be/BdrNvQ4YCng

What do you have that I need to add?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-19T16:08:39+00:00

Saw a video of a guy being told by his girlfriend he has to pay for her and her friends birthday dinner and the friends were calling him broke and all this shit and saying he agreed to it but what he agreed to was taking her out and paying for the dinner, she just invited all her friends.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T16:06:18+00:00

Isn’t being a bull still kinda cucked?

princedune · 2023-08-19T16:05:11+00:00

Do women not understand what having zero options means? Seems like they always mistake it for "zero options that I like".

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-19T15:53:18+00:00

n-count question #5 everytime I ask these questions it always ends up relating to a real dick must enter the body, but how do lesbians increase n-count or even lose their virginity??

Peacesquad · 2023-08-19T15:52:36+00:00

I’m an ally. I stand with women. I love women!!🐵🙈🙉🐒💩🌈🌈🫧💘

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-19T15:52:28+00:00

I find funny that these nice guy types are SOOO observant of ‘women loving assholes as long as he’s tall and hot’ and yet other people are able to see good men, short men, and ordinary guys with women.

The answer’s obvious: These ‘nice and observant’ guys actually aspire to be Chads. They just know they can’t outright admit it. The majority of guys can date/fuck…..but they cant get Stacy. Stacies are typically height queens and many have no remorse making guys that arent their type feel like shit. Guys with braincells would cut their losses and not worry about those them. The guys who think with their dicks are devastated that they cant get a hot girl.

These guys are no better than fat acceptance bitches who cry about no one finding them attractive but its really that they want to be treated like supermodels. They pretend to want to be liked despite not fitting beauty standards, but they truly want to be worshipped for their looks.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-19T15:51:40+00:00

But what did I miss

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-19T15:33:13+00:00

Black Parade era Gerard Way was a pretty pretty man.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-19T15:26:21+00:00

The alliance we need: Gen Z hating Gen X 🤝 Millenials hating Gen X

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-19T15:24:21+00:00

I just don't get why all these manosphere types are so obsessed with the worst types of women. It's like they complain that "women don't notice average men like me! Wahhhh" and then turn around and are like "the only women that exist are instagram models"

Don't these people know any average people from the suburbs? It's just broke ugly people dating other broke ugly people and being mostly happy doing so.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-19T15:21:05+00:00

Feelings of misogyny and sympathy for feminism are raging inside me.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-19T14:31:48+00:00

"Divorce rates are the lowest they ever been"

Yea because marriage rates are the lowest they ever been since recorded, if people aren't getting married then nobody is getting divorced

Simple logic

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-19T14:09:46+00:00

When a woman has a job, she has more power and more control over her life.

-Modern women do not have kids due to all the power they have-

I'm seriously sick of this narrative being regurgitated over and over gain.

With the current housing costs like shit she does. Due to increasing costs of living and limited job opportunities young generations (men and women) have less power then previous generations. Oh and couple that with boomers being the primary voting body, so politicians keep catering to their needs, while throwing a bone here and there to young population.

Young US women wan't to have on average 2.1-2.2 kids, they end up having 1.6... due to all that power they have I assume. This ratio is even more fucked in other poorer western countries.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T13:48:49+00:00

Apparently there is a slight negative correlation between what you can bench press and number of sexual partners.

Gymbros…

DragoonXFury · 2023-08-19T13:45:07+00:00

Atlas (still) 🐝 around

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-19T13:30:11+00:00

Brutal truth; the reason most people fail at fitness maxxing is simply because they are neuro typical. You need some kind of Neuro- divergent or narcissistic traits to keep you motivated on the gym grind..

I walk 7k steps on average every day, work out 6 days a week, got my diet kind of locked in, don't smoke, don't drink alcohol, don't consume sugar, don't drink regular sodas and don't fap. My secret? a combination of ASD & OCD.

potoricco · 2023-08-19T13:25:06+00:00

I love my mom and dad 😊

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T13:02:16+00:00

The whole max 3 dates before sex is pretty dumb. At that point you’re just looking for a hookup/fwb, not a relationship. If you date for ltr/marriage and you want something other than a hoe, you should expect to wait.

potoricco · 2023-08-19T12:51:31+00:00

On Elon musk allegedly removing twitters block function

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Hmmm, if only there were words ending in “-gyny” “xism” that explained this phenomenon. These trads and anti feminists are so close yet so far.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-19T12:26:51+00:00

Just got home from dinner had the best ribs yum

But also I love looking at my partner and looking into his pretty blue eyes and thinking damn your hot and damn I’m lucky. Hope you guys all find someone you feel like that about

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-19T12:13:14+00:00

So about the whole empathy thing, I can totally understand the manosphere when I think about myself…..back as an 8 year old who didnt think hard about anything and blindly listened to the media.

Though, even when I was 8, I realized men and women werent monoliths. So its hard to completely understand adults who you’ve mentally outpaced by elementary school.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-08-19T12:05:57+00:00

I do think a lot of men here are under the impression that every woman has guys approaching them in the street every waking second they’re outside of the house. But it’s just not the case. Saw a survey recently that says 74% of women under the age of 26 which they were approached more.

Maffioze · 2023-08-19T11:51:56+00:00

Once I have a bit more time I am thinking of writing a long ass writing about power in society and about how patriarchy feminists use an incomplete and sexist definition of power in order to spread false theories about society that nonetheless seem right to many people.

Is anyone here actually interested in reading and discussing that topic?

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-19T02:01:23+00:00

Thirst

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-19T02:06:22+00:00

What is everyone doing this fine Friday? I hope none of you are here because you are all out having fun.

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-19T02:06:52+00:00

guys help, I might be a hypergamous man. I want a women who’s more educated, earns more than myself(I have a bs degree in engineering and make low 6 figures), and want to fuck multiple times a day, though I do have low looks requirement. wat do I do

Sillysheila · 2023-08-19T02:29:33+00:00

Q4M:

Did you ever get pressured into finding a girlfriend from your family or friends?

I’m also interested to know; was this person that pressured you a male or a female?

Not being sassy I really am curious because I feel as a woman everyone was telling me I shouldn’t rush finding a boyfriend growing up, but my husband and some other male friends of mine told me they were pressured to get a girlfriend and teased if they didn’t have one.

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-08-19T02:33:47+00:00

Does anyone truly believe that an attractive but introverted and awkward guy will have more success than an average but confident and charismatic guy?

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-08-19T03:00:26+00:00

What does an average guy with "status" look like?

potoricco · 2023-08-19T03:05:01+00:00

Theyre literally forcing me to go back to school in 8 days

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-08-19T03:12:12+00:00

I kinda miss school. I miss the fun assignments I got to do sometimes, like reports on topics I liked and opinion pieces. Love the absence of academic stress tho

HolidayWhile · 2023-08-19T03:22:18+00:00

How important is owning a car, especially for long distance relationships?

baiser_vole · 2023-08-19T03:24:03+00:00

My lobe piercing that I had to get redone has finally healed! I get to wear my regular stuff again!

scwizard · 2023-08-19T03:30:28+00:00

What made you finally leave your situationship?

yesterday i spent my entire morning getting ready for his company (cleaning, favorite snacks ready, shaving, cute outfit etc) and he cancelled on me an hour after he was meant to show up. and it was the 2nd time this month this happened.

i miss his touch and feel really lonely, but i’m telling myself i’ll get over it. i know this is the right decision.

Damn that sucks.

My old situationship just got married, after months of insisting that he wasn’t ready for a relationship with me.

Guess he found some wife material lol

Jayfar14 · 2023-08-19T03:37:40+00:00

Dillon Davis has been embarrassing Jake Paul over his fiance's past. And he had to wait to have sex with her

King-SAMO · 2023-08-19T04:35:19+00:00

I dated local girls when I taught English in Japan instead of finishing college; does that make me a passport bro?

not sure if it’s relevant, but I was absolutely running from girl problems back home…

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2023-08-19T04:40:02+00:00

Middle-aged men commit the most suicide out of all other age groups of men. Yet, ppd men try to push the narrative that the same group of men are peak male value.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-19T04:42:49+00:00

Parents here: When and how did you explain sex to your children? How’d they react?

My daughter came home from school one day when she was about 9 asking “what’s sex? my friend said a daddy hits a mommy & that’s sex. I said no way and she told me YOUR mommy & daddy do it too”. I explained that her friend was wrong, that there was no hitting going on between her father & I and told her I’d explain it in more detail over the weekend. I took a beat to figure out what to say and then gave her a brief general explanation appropriate for that age range and told her if she had any questions, I’d always give her truthful answers. She took a couple days to digest it and then had a barrage of questions that were basically: do you do it here? do you do it there? does daddy make you do it?

dbz__f · 2023-08-19T04:49:31+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/15uuw3d/husband_30m_and_i_28f_opened_our_relationship_and/

I get she has no sex drive but I don't get why she didn't just agree to have sex with him. unless sex is physically painful for her, I don't understand why she would rather let him have sex with another woman rather than sex with her.

dbz__f · 2023-08-19T04:53:09+00:00

If I was a grill, I'd never get my ears pierced. The idea of having a sharp metal needle pierce my earlobes and make them bleed is just too much.

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-08-19T05:01:15+00:00

I think i could only date a woman who's further to the left of me. We need to be able to have some political disagreements or conversations would be too boring, but conservatives seem to have an entirely different moral compass that makes them feel unrelatable

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-19T05:06:35+00:00

I was at Publix earlier, the guy who was making the sandwich had Tourette syndrome. He was making this involuntary loud and frequent sounds, first time coming across anyone with Tourette. Some of the ingredients was not prepared so others were waiting, you could see others being annoyed by the sounds and i guess i was too unintentionally.

Saw him a bit latter, he was visibly frustrated. Felt really bad for him. Must really suck when others are annoyed by you by something you have no control over.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-08-19T05:11:59+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/CwGjPU6ueda/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Which one of you mad lads from the red pill posted this and continuously commented about Chads?

Because literally Forrest could have dated someone as awkward and neurodivergent as he was. And his looksmatch instead of a beautiful woman.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-08-19T05:30:16+00:00

I just wanted to take a late night walk around the block, but now I heard gunshots and need to wait at least 15 minutes. Fucking annoying.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-08-19T05:59:52+00:00

Negotation

I think this is what some guys hope dating was like, negotiated everything upfront.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-19T06:35:17+00:00

Salt >>> sugar. Unpopular but I don't like sweet food that much

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-19T07:58:35+00:00

i’ve been reading some reddit posts and i think i legit need a sugar mama

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-19T09:00:43+00:00

Middle-aged men are superior in making new friends. I need a mentor like that.

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-19T10:32:17+00:00

This was an actual comment by woman who visits ppd often:

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15u5lpu/daily_community_chat_megathread/jwpkdhc?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-19T10:56:05+00:00

Low n women with internalized sexual shame and/or superiority complexes are the worst. Like, you think you’re better than other people because you didn’t have the sex you wanted to have? That’s weird, dude. Have fun with the dudes you attract with that attitude.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-19T11:20:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ask/comments/15uzxft/why_do_i_meet_women_it_goes_very_well_for_a_few/

A woman can disappear from the face of the planet with no explanation at any time into dating, and NOBODY on this planet would judge her. Ever. Obviously it's something with the guy. "Pump and dump" is literally just gynocentric victimhood entitlement, it's pathetic, and I'm done giving a shit about whining women.

physious · 2023-08-19T11:32:26+00:00

Has anybody here been blackmailed or pressured into sleeping with somebody? Most of my friends know what happened but I still might be the only man I know who's been through this.

One of my former close friends went mental and kept talking about how she wanted to kill herself and kept begging to sleep over so I eventually caved. She lived 2 minutes of walking distance away from me and she knew I had no excuse at that point, as I keep rejecting her before. I was super fucking uncomfortable the whole time.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-19T11:41:38+00:00

I don’t respect anyone who calls their husband/wife a Partner.

And I get why fuckbois view that girl as single for all intent and purposes.

Imagine going through hell and high water to get the same status as the random chick you were assigned to in chem 101.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-19T11:48:39+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ask/comments/15uzxft/why_do_i_meet_women_it_goes_very_well_for_a_few/

No but seriously, if a man ghosted a woman after three months of dating, after repeatedly telling her that he really enjoys being with her and is looking forward for more, and then he ghosts her, who on earth would ask these kinds of questions? ESPECIALLY if they had sex. Like, isn't the automatic assumption is that he is a misogynistic pig who used her in that case? The double standards are absolutely staggering, it's wild.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-19T13:19:34+00:00

DerayRevan · 2023-08-19T18:13:07+00:00

"How much money/status do you think it takes for men to compensate for looks"

Enough money to provide her a lifestyle

Enough status for her to know you without even meeting you in person

DerayRevan · 2023-08-19T18:31:03+00:00

A woman will want a man who's a good provider for her and offsprings but mostly important the lifestyle

Misinterpretation from this sub:

Women are gold diggers

Women are materialistic

No women who give up the game are gold diggers/materialistic

hannahg000 · 2023-08-19T19:30:01+00:00

i’m sick and i have a flight on monday 😭😭

Johnsky321 · 2023-08-19T19:42:44+00:00

I think all relationships will inevitably have a leader-follower dynamic. It's a world fallacy to assume that men and women that are of replicate personalities will end of marrying each other. Every relationship will inevitably have a stronger member who will assume the position as leader, and that could be either the male or female.

potoricco · 2023-08-19T19:51:26+00:00

3 things that made me happy today

-Saw a cat outside, it ran away

-My mom gave me a new makeup pouch

-My dad gave me $300

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-19T20:06:57+00:00

The heights men are using to mean “very tall” are gradually increasing. Honestly, lots of women think 6’4 is too tall. I think there is diminishing returns after 6’2.

purplish_possum · 2023-08-19T20:20:35+00:00

There was I guy in my high-school that was 6'10 other than the height he was very average. He cleaned up!

Couldn't reply directly to this post.

I'm 6'4" but otherwise quite ordinary looking. I'm also very much an introvert. My n-count is close to 60. If i'd been 5'9" I'm pretty damn sure I'd have had a lot fewer sexual/romantic opportunities.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T20:31:55+00:00

Women are more height obsessed nowadays because in the age of dating apps it’s the only attractiveness feature that’s easily quantifiable. IRL you look at a person and see if they’re attractive, height is part of that, but not everything. You don’t need to know his height really, if his height was an issue you’d notice.

Johnsky321 · 2023-08-19T20:38:31+00:00

The way TRP looks at the "wall" is incorrect. Putting aside the fact that many women still look good in their 30s and 40s, there could be two reasons why a woman is in her 30s and still single:

She made a practical decision to hold off marriage so she could pursue and build her career
She has too much of an emotionally unstable personality to properly maintain a relationship.

The wall more closely addresses the flawed woman in the second category. But I believe that the second woman does not hit a "wall" in her thirties, rather she hits it right from the start of her dating journey, which would have likely started in her early teens; either she had a bad father or one who was so lax in her upbringing that she was too careless with her dating choices, and that could have contributed to her emotional instability. A HVM, who is most likely looking for a younger woman, would certainly prefer a kind woman in her 30s instead of a psychotic one in her early 20s.

This aspect of a woman's upbringing is sorely ignored by the TRP, which makes a presumption that all goes downhill at age 30.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T20:39:45+00:00

Just a reminder to the tall women that men’s preference for height is only 8cm (3”) shorter than themselves. The average height difference between men and women is 5” so slightly above average women are the perfect height for average height men.

antisplatter · 2023-08-19T20:40:28+00:00

puberty is very generous to some people and cruel to others. peoples personalities change because their circumstances change. The first blackpill of adolescence.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-19T20:56:54+00:00

Here's something kind of blackpilled: your personality traits are mostly genetic and heritable. The other aspects of your personality were molded based on environmental factors which are out of your control for the most part.

Personality stays pretty much the same throughout your life as well. Your traits on the 5 factor model stay pretty much the same.

Theres really not much you can do to change your personality. So even if personality matters, it's still part of your genetics and upbringing.

People with great personalities were born that way and had a positive environment which helped them flourish. They never actually chose to have a good personality.

SorryEm · 2023-08-19T21:01:58+00:00

When's the next purge? I'm planning on making an alignment chart of the users here.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-19T21:05:40+00:00

"The stuff the RP talks about - gym, money, etc - that might be good for short term connections, but if you’re wanting to build a life with someone, create a home and a family of your own, being attuned to your emotional needs and be able to communicate them is a must Relationships and lifelong love can’t be built on temporary foundations. Money, looks, that shit goes quick"

If you cannot financially support a woman then she won't even consider a long-term life with you

Not even that but if you cannot attract her then you can't have this ideal relationships

You always have to bring some type of benefit/value in her for her to be interested

Because you cannot have a unconditional love relationship with a woman, you can have it with your parents if your lucky,dog or even God but not with a adult woman

SorryEm · 2023-08-19T21:08:11+00:00

Alright I might as well make it now

Lawful Good: Maffioze

Neutral Good: Johnny Autism

Chaotic Good: Peacesquad

Lawful Neutral: MrsDrgree

True Neutral: Pottorico

Chaotic Neutral: Lift and Lurk

Lawful Evil: Lillthofbabylon

Neutral Evil: Position vacant(I would put icy ordinary in here but she hasnt commented or posted in 11 days)

Chaotic Evil: Dyfendel? I cant remember her username.

potoricco · 2023-08-19T21:26:27+00:00

My favorite store is ulta

scwizard · 2023-08-19T21:31:25+00:00

Finally saw the Barbie movie.

Really good acting. Trippy movie.

Not exactly sure what the feminist message was other than that being a woman living in a patriarchal society sucks.

It was extremely silly ||how quick president barbie flipped to french maid bangmaid barbie||.

SorryEm · 2023-08-19T21:33:54+00:00

I'm gonna be talking about my online female friend named Em.

Em and I are very similar, we have similar worldviews, and similar personalities, we're both half black so we even look similar. Em is also a red-pilled woman.

I have shown Em multiple times that she can trust me and that I'm a kind person in general(bragging I know). I have spoken to her many times about marriage but she is not open to marrying me for this reason, I'm not handsome enough. Instead, she would rather go on online dating and get rejected on them, than complain to me about it.

Perhaps it is fair, Em has helped me through bad times and is self-aware about how she, as a woman has extremely high standards for attractiveness. Maybe I should've been more suave with her, less emotionally open, it would've been a better outcome for both of us. But this is the outcome that we have to deal with.

Sorry, Em.

potoricco · 2023-08-19T21:38:39+00:00

I’m at advanced auto parts with my dad, the masculine energy is just radiating

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-19T21:51:51+00:00

Thinking more about people who like lamenting that they're not conventionally attractive to people: it's not that no one wants them. They just want to be considered the highest echelon of beauty, so they don't have to put in effort to be desirable like everyone else and they get the highest echelon of lovers themselves.

To add onto this list: Bitter women upset that men so happen to find love outside their race (excluding obvious fetishists and passportbros) and people who can't respect people’s sexuality.

Most people date within the race, so what's the problem! Oh! When the “good talent sexy skilled men” date outside their race it's a problem!

Why is respecting people’s sexuality a problem? Oh because they want PARTICULAR people wanting them to validating instead of sex/romance as a two way benefit.

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-08-19T22:04:48+00:00

OK a lot of guys are going to want to have a bit of a piss and moan about this because it involves many hours of effort...so if you're one of those guys that's fine...this suggestion isn't for you. It is just for those who don't mind this particular form of effort.

If you find that you have trouble telling whether there's something altered about photos or video and want to improve upon your innate ability to intuit what just ain't natchy...then spend a lot of time drawing whole people and people's faces from life or from photos/video you know are unaltered. The process of learning to draw trains your perception to work faster and more thoroughly.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-08-19T22:08:49+00:00

actually physically attractive women are doing porn and the rest are debating "manchilds","autists" and "misogynists" it hurts me so bad get me off this clown earth.

antisplatter · 2023-08-19T22:16:43+00:00

Korea is literally a passport bro and sis country

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T22:19:45+00:00

Who the fuck is partying outside, I live at the edge of rural suburbia, but it literally sounds like I’m in the middle of the city.

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-19T22:23:30+00:00

People who only use dating apps and then complain about the dating market are trolling.

1) the format: a bio, pics of yourselves and 1on1 online conversation are not efficient ways for women to gauge and like men. 2)gender ratio: only 20% of the userbase are women. Assuming attraction was random only 20% of male users would succeed through dating apps, but obviously women would aim for the top. Also this has the effect of making men desperate and wasting the time of women who they are not into.

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-08-19T22:31:51+00:00

So ummm...Coach Red Pill aka Gonzalo Lira hasn't had a lot of fun in Ukraine. I can't be arsed looking up the whole story and working out what happened when, but he's not been having fun.

gabejohn · 2023-08-19T22:32:04+00:00

Can low IQ people do the same as high IQ people, albeit much slower? Or are they not able to ever come to the same level?

For example, are there low IQ rocket scientists?

potoricco · 2023-08-19T23:01:43+00:00

No one voted me as a mod not even as a joke I’m pretty offended 😢

DerayRevan · 2023-08-19T23:10:31+00:00

The sky is purple

So you guys are obviously color blind

purplish_possum · 2023-08-19T23:18:22+00:00

Gotta love guys who will be lucky to ever have sex let alone sire a child complaining about child support payments.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T23:32:05+00:00

The left wants hyper individualism on the micro scale and collectivism at the macro scale.

The right wants hyper individualism at the marco scale and collectivism at the micro scale.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-19T23:39:50+00:00

Going through the taco time menu to plan out macros. What has my life become. I only eat food for protein now

meteorness123 · 2023-08-19T23:41:16+00:00

How many women did Leo get when Titanic came out ?

Barneysparky · 2023-08-19T23:49:11+00:00

I think a lot of people here are more than ready for school to start again.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T23:49:21+00:00

What the actual fuck is wrong with xqc? Like that chick is not pretty, has a shit personality, cucked him on stream and wants to steal half your stuff and somehow you decide that you should try to still make it work with her.

Just get yourself an actual hot sugarbaby bangmaid, you can easily afford it.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-19T23:55:24+00:00

Why the hell would anyone want anything other than a nuclear family if they’re gonna have kids?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-20T00:31:46+00:00

"We need to make this clear - looks most definitely do NOT seal the deal, women are picky and entitled enough to “get the ick” over the most absolute nonsensical bullshit at the drop of a hat"

That's why you need Frame

saraimarsena · 2023-08-20T00:36:39+00:00

q4all: do you remember your first time? do you think it’s something that’s overhyped as some monumental occasion?

i thought about it a few days ago and i don’t really remember my first time. it’s not like it was that long ago either, i was 20

potoricco · 2023-08-20T01:08:31+00:00

I really do not like shopping on Shein, but here goes nothing

afk_row · 2023-08-20T01:44:49+00:00

I’m being called by HR because I was being “homophobic”. This one guy told me he was gay and My response was “You do you, I don’t judge people’s choices.” But apparently “choices” was a no no word, because they are born that way it’s not a choice. Fuck this shit I’m not working

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